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0:00 Entitled Neighbor demands I watch her kids for free, claiming that she is more stressed out at being a mother, than I am. (u/kessykris)
5:23 Am I the Jerk for making my husband leave a wedding reception early, and thus making him upset the next day? (u/preggoweddingaita)
9:31 I found out that my girlfriend has been lying about her finances to me, and now I am not sure what to do. (u/PrestigiousText7375)
13:28 My entitled Neighbor won’t stop smoking the “herb” under our flat, and its now starting to make me feel sick, and I don’t know what to do. (u/MamaM2020)
17:07 Am I the Jerk for not helping my sister leave my wedding on time? (u/Heatbumps)
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For story 2, nobody is the jerk. The wife wanted him to come in case things got worse which while pregnant is very likely and pregnancy can make some things that might not be too bad normally absolutely terrible. The husband's feelings are valid, he wanted to stay but couldn't. I bet if somehow they both knew she would be fine after sleeping then he would've stayed but there was no way from either of them to know that. This is a time where it would be more productive if they were more upset about the situation instead of at each other and then no resentment will be built. Unfortunately for us though no reddit story though lol
The wife is 100% the jerk.
She even said: ‘ didn’t make you leave’
She sounds like a pain in the arse
@@kingofthebarstool1 let's say something happened and the husband, being there, was needed to help. She wouldn't be called the jerk. Her saying she didn't make him is wrong and also not the point of the question.
Balls!
@@adamj170that is what i thought if she was apologetic about dragging him away for a little bit of heartburn. but the way she lords it over him is a bit toxic . she sounds a bit controlling
I completely agree
I'd flat-out say, "You very cleary don't want your children and regret having them. Give them up for adoption." and walk away. I'd also call CPS, make a report, and issue them a court order that their children are no longer allowed on my property or the police will be called, not even in an emergency.
i thought you said you werent alowed to use your ipad
friend ship over
I’m an “Uncle Buck” type, my siblings don’t trust me to watch their kids. My neighbors sure as hell wouldn’t. **flips giant pancakes**
While i do believe the husband in story 2 is being petty, the wife didnt really give him a choice. If he had stayed, he would have been chewed out for it later and he knew that to, hince his sigh. So her saying that she didnt make him go is technically true, but he probably would have had to sleep on the couch.
i dont think the husband is being petty but whatever you think i guess
@@gotenblack2542 i specifically ment the part about him being short, and not really communicating what the problem was until he was specifically asked what his problem was.
Yes the wife is an ass. She just fell asleep like wtf.
being mad about being forced to leave "just in case", then to have her fall sleep right away, is absolutely not being petty.......from the looks of it, he wasn't speaking up, because he KNEW what it was gonna be......she ended up flipping it back on him anyway
@infinate30 it's their 3rd child. Like come on she knows what she's doing controlling her husband.
If were op in the first story, I would be contacting cps because clearly that entitled mother is neglecting her kids. Plus to the entitled mother “your kids your responsibility, otherwise don’t be a mother”
Story 2: I don't think either ie wrong or right. I think to make it up, after the baby is born for missing out allow him to have a social night while takint newborn to family so he can enjoy adult socialising what he was forced to miss out on. Yes he was forced as guilt tripping is forcing and she said she wpuld have held it against him. He was then stuck in a room with her asleep. While I get her reasons, I think she shouldn't have gone in the first place and let him go alone and ahe say with her parents if her pregancy is that bad
There's no way I would force anyone to watch my kids and WTH is wrong with this woman!! You want me to babysit then it's 30 bucks a hour ( ten bucks per kid) and if she doesn't want to pay then stop interacting with the woman
2nd Story- IMO yeah OP is being a bit of a (hormonal) jerk. Yes, the husband did ~have~ to come with OP and she would have given him a hard time if he hadn't. But in spite of wanting to socialize with people he hasn't seen in a while without any children to attend to, he went with his wife in order to take care of her- he did a good job of being a dutiful husband and expectant father. However, she immediately passed out which meant he didn't need to be there at all and yeah kinda missed out on the reception 'for nothing.' In spite of being upset by the situation, he never raised his voice, never belittled her for not being able to handle the shuttle alone, didn't press her at the wedding or say anything along the lines of 'what if I just keep my phone close by in case you need me?', blow up on her in the morning about it... nothing that would qualify as being a poor spouse.
All he did was fail to conceal his frustration. And you don't get to be mad at someone when they're frustrated over a situation when 1- they did everything right and 2- lost out on something important to them when it wasn't even remotely necessary.
TL/DR- OP is a jerk not for requesting her husband to come with her, but because she's not giving him any space/ understanding in his frustration.
Story 2: so OP made her husband come back to the hospital to stare at her.
I would simply tell her, you drop them off, I call Cops and CPS!
Story 4 I’ve went through. For almost a year I lived in hell. At first my neighbors, all they did was fight smoke weed nonstop, and the smell of it made it difficult for me to breathe and I couldn’t sleep. My health went downhill horribly. I ended up in the ER multiple times, and then finally was admitted and ended up having to spend five days in the hospital. My mental health suffered. I was finally able to move away from there and not even a month after I moved my friend drove by my old apartment and everybody has been kicked out and we have been fighting all year to get the apartment next to me gone because the woman who rented the apartment was actually in prison for a year and was going to do at least another year and her so-called boyfriend was staying there while she was in prison having girls move in with him and live with him for about a month or two. Was that as I’ve seen a few other people that he would hang out with a lot over there over why I live at now so I do worry that it might start up over here too. It’s just some places the laws are horrible. in my state jails have like a revolving door. They might get arrested, but will be out again very soon same day if not, then the next day. and drugs are a huge problem where I’m at and it’s so sad because when I was a kid you could camp out in your front yard or just a sleeping bag and lay out underneath the stars and now you can’t do that it’s not safe I think it’s just the way the world is anymore. I hope that the OP is able to get some peace of mind and get away from all that because no one should have to live like that.
Story one, you're not a built-in babysitter. You have your own kids plus a job. You're not a jerk.story 2. The wife was a jerk she could have said to the husband to keep your phone on. I am going back to the room. Story 3 they should not get married.
they don't have phones on them.
They should have
Okay and all honesty I'm just going to be harsh on the second story I think the original poster and her husband literally need to go to couples counseling because their communication skills hear some really terrible not really too much on the husband's part I would say the original poster's part because you can't be doing that to her husband of he's constantly always giving his attention understandably to the original poster their kids and work their house all that stuff and he barely has time to spend time with family members and friends and you know people he doesn't get to see all the time so that's what's really going on in their situation under their house I think it's time to go to couples counseling like I said before because clearly the problem in this marriage dynamic is the original poster but at the same time I feel like the husband should have seen this coming in the first place becausewith this person for so long to the point where he's married the original poster and had kids with them that he should be aware of her behavior signs of it and how she acts and he should have just fought her on the situation even if it makes him look bad I think it's time for him to also let everybody know what's been going on in their marriage I understand most couples don't like to put their business out there but for the sake of you sometimes looking like the good guy even though it looks like you're the bad guy to your spouse what you have to do because I'm the husband wear to do that everybody else would also get on the original poster's case to let them know how badly they really do need to have better communication with the husband and how much they need to work on the idea of letting him sometimes go off and do his own thing maybe I can understand his talked about how she has suspicions of her husband and how he likes to hang out with people too much and pays less attention to her and the kids back at home then yeah maybe that would make sense and I would be on her side but since there's nothing like that indicated here then yeah like I said before sorry to repeat it a third time but this couple definitely needs counseling with each
ya
The wife just “needs” to pampered 27/4 for the smallest things
true
Yep. Any anybody that sends their kids over *while you're freaking unpacking...*
Story 2: I don't think anyone's the jerk. I feel like OP is valid for wanting her husband to be with her when she's feeling unwell, but I totally see where the husband is coming from as well. I don't think he can be called a jerk for being frustrated at the situation when he did help out his wife in the end.
Story 5: The sister is an AH. She is responsible for making sure she leaves when she has to, not OP. There was even an announcement that their boat would be leaving and it's the sister's fault for not getting ready to leave at that moment.
Yeah I kind of understand where she's coming from because to me weed smells like a smoldering mattress makes me sick
Simple answer
No Thank You
She will look stupid
She'll ask again
No Thank You
What
I'm not licensed for child care
And if I were
My prices would be $100 an hour per
Child. Non that are toilet trained
Any mom that stinks that dumping their kids on other people and partying is more important than taking care of them self obviously needs to grow up a little bit more kids are not like Barbie dolls you can't just put them aside when you get tired of playing with them parenting is a 24/7 job
The herb does smell really bad so definitely tell them off. I'm fine with people smoking but if the smell gets inside they're gonna hear about it for sure
Story 1: OP really has to put their foot down and tell off this stupid neighbour. The neighbour is clearly taking advantage of the OP here and really doesn't want to take care of her own kids and just push them off on someone else. If i were the OP, i would totally ignore this neighbour... never ever cave in.
Story 2: While i can understand the husbands frustrations here, the OP isnt a jerk here. His pregnant wife and her health is much more important that some wedding reception. You can put a lot of this on hormones, but all of this could've been handled better.
Story 3: While the OP was a little bit intrusive here, he isn't a jerk here. He had every right to be concerned about the gf and her finances. If she's lying about that, then what else is she lying about... and if you get married, how will the finances be then??
Story 4: If talking to John doesn't work, then try the landlord or cops. If nothing else works, then hopefully the OP can find new accomodations.
Story 5: OP is not the jerk. The sister knew when the boat was going... and she missed it. 100% her fault, not the OP's.
Now as a smoker of the devil's lettuce, I would have made a arrangement and not smoked there.
But he's just being a jerk.
Not all pot smokers are like this
Good day to everyone.
To you too 😊
The guy in story 3 with the fiance in debt. Run as far as you can! She will be using you for your resources. Don't get married to her as she is a liar and a deceiver.
It's bad enough that she's got a lot on her plate and then you turn around and dump more on her plate that's not fair and that's not cool especially if you don't even ask her
"I didn't make you come back. I just said I wanted you to."
It was at that moment that you became the a******.
I like this guys voice ngl
Story 2 : the right way to answer would have been : " I'm sorry honey. Do you want we organize a dinner or something with friends to make up for it?"
the thumbnail is that elevator lady with the supposed broken foot taking out the trash blocking the other person from getting on the elevator i think.
I babysit for my boyfriebds aunt's kids and evwn they arent that bratty also i get paid foe babysitting her kids
adoption centre joined the chat:
you can count on me lady.
op needs to tell her entitled neighbor that her 3 kids are terrible and horrible in her house leaving it a complete mess since she has 3 kids and a husband of her own, the next time the neighbor comes over op will say ask your husband to babysit.
that's what she should do
When she said this, you immediately said no, cuz you already have previous experience with people dumping their kids, right?? Riiight??
The second story. The OP isn't the jerk in my opinion for wanting to leave with her husband, the husband should prioritize his pregnant wife first and foremost. Now my question is if the husband is that starved for socializing with adults then why in the world did he knock up his wife for the THIRD time ? He said so himself that he knows it will be at least a couple of months before he can socialize again so why put yourself into the situation.
it more about they way she lords it over him, "I didn't make you leave". he has the right to be upset. espesally over a little heartburn
In my oppion storh number 2 the Op isnt the jerk. Shes pregent and she didnt know she was gonna fall alseep instantly, soemtimes the pain gets to much and they CANT take care of themselves but i will respect abyones oppion
Damn that sucks
For heart burn it can hurt so bad to pass out and I've passed out from it as well as yes if you put baking soda on the tip of your tongue it will help but not much. I do see the side of the husband and i know it's hard but y'all are the ones who wanted the baby so deal with it :/
Contract the landlord
story 2 ya op is the jerk the husband was having a good time at the wedding but just because op got a little sick she forced him to leave i hope the husband leaves her cause op sounds like she really is trying to control his life
but the wife is pregnant.
@@viviennemorgan7217does being pregnant make it impossible for women to take care of themselves?
ya am saying like the op could have asked a friend to help or something
@@MrDoverfield what does this have to do with the story?
@@viviennemorgan7217 it’s related to the second story
How is there a 2 day old comment on a less than minute posted video?
They probably have it set to post.
Story 2: IMO, ESH. They weren't communicating properly. At the reception, they could have stepped outside for a minute to talk about things to figure out some compromise. The next day, the husband was being melodramatic by essentially pouting about not being able to stay longer at a wedding function. I've been essentially stuck at a wedding reception before when I was emotionally drained and just stayed at a table and messed around on my phone, I know it's not the same as heartburn and yeah that shit hurts sometimes. If the OP could have taken some tums to help ease the hearburn then the husband could have stayed for a little bit longer, not the whole of the night but like another half hour or so. That to me sounds like a decent compromise.
Story 3: I had to deal with someone smelling heavily of the herb and it was so bad that I couldn't breath (this was in 2020 before the shut-downs). The guy worked with it bc he was a grower last I heard and he smoked it for pain management before bowling. Now I have no issues with ppl smoking, I'm a live and let live as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, but this guy was just a pair over and I couldn't breath and bowl at the same time which was problematic. Something was said and they got mad so I understand not wanting to report someone for smoking. Maybe have a face to face intervention kinda meeting with the neighbors, like a strength in numbers way.
In the second story, I understand the husbands frustration, but he should have thought more sensibly. Pregnancy can be unpredictable at best, and even with a third child, complications could happen. She wanted him there in case something happened, which is reasonable. It should be an understood responsibility, no blame. No one is a jerk here.
Op1 is a doormat
I have to see your financial statements before I propose??
You romancer, you. (Sarcasm) 😂😂 But seriously, break up with her. Lying sucks. About money is worse.
Neighbor: Watch over my demon children. You have it so easy!
Me: Sure. *calls CPS* Hey, there's a neighbor who wants me to watch over her demon children!
Neighbor: How dare you?
Me: you wanted to give up being a parent. Now you'll have an easy life without child support payments. Get to work, buddy!
I've had some heartburn that made it impossible to breathe, tums helped but not a lot. Still she could have gone home and let her husband have some time
She should have let him stay, seriously this time your the jerk! Why couldn't he have one night as an adult, not fair, just because you don't want to have fun, doesn't mean he can't
That's not fair, you did make him go, but you should have went to the room and just laid down.
He's doing better than a lot of fathers would, and you should have let him have a little fun
Yea the story #3 os giving me creeps. Sure she lied, but the fuck is wrong with him.
You obviously must be young. Because living with and being with someone who blatantly lies and is fiscally irresponsible is a terrible situation to be in. Especially being nearly 14k in debt. He's not creepy by any means wanting to know that his future spouse has her shit together. Otherwise she's gonna drag him down with her.
11:50: your posting this after having broke up with her, right? Riiiight??
The op complaining about her neighbor smoking weed is funny. Complaining because she doesn't like the smell of it. Like come on. Ok you have a baby so. He isnt blowing smoke in its face. He lives above you so smoke will go up.
Good thing i live in Cali where weed is Legal.
Landlords can't do anything about you smoking. Just charge you for smoke damage.
I know why she's she's doing this she basically wants to use you as a walking ATM machine in the future that's the only reason she's marrying because of your money but that's just what I get from the story why else would she lie about her finances
story 2: the husband got the wife pregnant, if she can't go out, he cant go out. its only fair since she is sacrificing her body for 8 months. Also heartburn could lead to nausea and on her way back to the room she could faint, she didn't but its better to be safe than sorry. if my SO is pregnant with our first or 7th child, i would definitely want to stay with them by their side. i would be upset at the situation but not my partner. Call me a SIMP, idgaf that is my wife, she needs me.
👏👏Glad there are men that understand this!
Story #3: If your relationship is based on how much money is in your account, then it is not a good relationship. Being in a relationship is so much more and love should come first, not money.
Love doesnt pay rent/bills/food when you have to pay for everything while your partner is flooded in debt... -_-
@@v.crowley This is why fewer people are getting together over time.
The narrator took a W for the 2nd story
Dude i am so early
How did she make him go back she said would like him to because she depends on him that’s not making him do anything
First
Nuh uh
Want to go on record by saying I am child free, and the odd one out here, but I am o. Op's side. I've seen enough pregnancies to know that first iif she was throwing up, it is harder to get off the floor when pregnant. Second, it sounds like the reception location was very close. If op fell asleep, her husband should have left a note and just gone back. Also hit a minimart on the way to the hotel and pick up some 7up.
OP probably wanted the same thing her husband did but she is stuck feeling like s*** carrying their kid til she gives birth. Then recovery time. and most likely more of the child care. In the scope of parenting there is a greater chance he will have more parenting breaks than op.
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8:50 you and the husband are jerks! What ever seems like heart burn to a pregnant woman could always be something much worse. My wife had horrible complications with our son. Hubby should be with her in case something bad happened
My honest opinion on the bad neighbor story the original poster needs to call the cops on their neighbors for the only is it not fair that they're not limiting their smoking but that's not a good thing for the baby either and I understand yes weed is a lot more better compared to something like cigarette smoke but it's the fact that the baby is a baby and even through the smoke of weed alone it can still give the baby second-hand smoke so right there that's child abuse in that's child neglect in their child so not only are these people being bad neighbors but they're being bad parents what their own baby and I'm not going to lie if I saw that I would anonymously just call the cops on these people or tell the landlord cuz what they're doing is really messed up and on top of that you know they should be more considerate especially with their baby
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Depends where they live. Weed is Legal in some states. I smoke everyday at my apartment in Cali. Neighbors can't do shit.
OP in story 2 is a jerk. Wow.
To the OP in the second story: Don’t listen to the narrator in this video. He doesn’t know that health is important rather than being social. If you were my wife, I’d rather stay with you than be social because you’re health is more important than being social. What you’re husband is doing is legitimately stupid and selfish.
Boy you're an ignorant fool huh? Cause so far A LOT of people are trashing the OP on the second story that wanted to leave
i see a simp i see a simp
me or him lol
@@gotenblack2542 I am not a simp, I am a respectful man, who would look after his sick wife!
*(If I had one.)*
@@themysteriousoa4466being mildly sick doesn’t mean your partner has to provide 24/7 “adult” care
Story 2 the narrator and husband are pathetic, If he wanted to be an adult not a parent maybe don't have kids and don't get married, I went threw this with my wife and always made her first priority especially when she was pregnant, even 30 years later and kids out the house my wife is still first especially if she's feeling sick headaches or heartburn
Story 2: Okay I’m taking quite a bit of offense from the narrator. Now I will keep my words PG, but I’m hot about this story. Now I am speaking as a woman who has given birth. The OP is 7 months pregnant and has 2 other small children. You will never understand the juggling act that women have to do to care for our families. We bend our asses backwards to accomplish so much less than we set out to do. Now let me clear, it’s not just heartburn, narrator. There aren’t many OTC items a pregnant woman can take for her heartburn that won’t affect the baby. I know this all to well. And I’m getting the feeling that the OP was also suffering from serious morning sickness which increases the heartburn. They attended a wedding, and the food may have upsetting her and the baby. You just simply dismiss her not feeling well. Narrator, you speak as a person who doesn’t have any children or your partner may have had no issues during her pregnancy. With the OP being 7 months pregnant, could have gone into early labor simply thinking it was just heartburn. Yes the OP asked the husband to take her back to the hotel. And he knew that she wasn’t feeling well. And yes I can understand his desire to mingle with adults at the reception. But she probably felt safer having her husband there. Now lets think about this from the husband side for a moment he wanted to catch up with old friends, and discuss topics that didn’t focus on the kids. He wants adult interact before the next baby comes. Now how do you think things would play out had he not taken his wife back. She could have taken the shuttle back to the hotel, went to go rest, and had developed a fever. She could have had her heart start having palpitations. She could have had a major drop in blood pressure. Or her blood pressure could had risen to dangerous levels.I know this for a fact because these things happened to me during my pregnancy. I thankfully had my family to help get me to a doctor, ended having to admitted to the hospital for like 4 days. Nothing about being pregnant is simple or easy. The OP could have needed to go to the ER, and tried calling her husband for help. She could have not gotten a hold but ended up called the front desk for an ambulance. Then you got the hotel trying to get a hold of the husband. How do you think the husband would have felt if had returned to their hotel and gets told by the hotel staff that his wife was taken to the local ER. The husband would have felt all kinds guilt, and everything because he left his wife alone. Anything can happen while pregnant. I do not think the OP is a jerk. And I can understand why the husband had a chip on his shoulder. But I’m sure that he realizes later that it was best to be with his wife and not get chewed out by their mutual friends for not being there for is wife if she ended up in the hospital. So, narrator I disagree quite a bit from you opinion.
I agree and I'm pissed with some comments here saying the wife is the jerk for making him leave. Some of them literally said "Can't a pregnant woman take care of herself" and I facepalmed myself after reading that... She is 7 months pregnant, anything can happen. The worst-case scenario is that the wife could have complications that may cause premature birth or risk the life of both her and the baby.
@nurulafiqah4903 I totally agree. And I would say yes, a pregnant woman can take care of herself. But that wasn't the point. I would ask those same folks have there ever experienced something that shook them to their core in regards to their health and well being. As I said before, being pregnant isn't easy. And not all pregnancies are the same. And though women have been pushing out babies for eons, that doesn't make it any less scary or difficult. The OP's knew full well that his wife was having a difficult pregnancy, and should have respected that she wasn't well. He had no reason whatsoever to upset because he had to leave. Because all kinds of this could have endangered both mother and child. Now I'm going to assume that she gave birth to a health baby. But that doesn't mean the journey was made easily with the husband awful attitude. And a side note, I was one of those ladies who did take care of myself during my pregnancy. But I had my family there to support me all the way through and it was rough
No you were not the jerk your health and well-being is a lot more important than a party you have no reason to apologize