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I mean she literally bought the Wash/Dryer. So, how is there any discussion? This isn't an issue of opinion, there's no shades of gray. This is absolutely pure black or White, a simple issue of facts!
3rd story. OP is not the jerk. the WIFE is. If a husband is supposed to accommodate to his wifes schedule, and she cannot accommodate to his, its not a marriage. If i was told, "Please be ready at this specific time," i will be ready at THAT SPECIFIC TIME. Not TRYING to get ready when that time rolls around. No, i will be ready to go BEFORE that time arrives.
The coworker is an idiot. Yes, OP could have told the landlord they were taking it, but the landlord never should have assumed they would stay. That's like being upset that OP took their furniture when they moved out. It's OPs property so the landlord was stupid for thinking they were entitled to it. If they wanted them to stay, they could have offered to buy them.
Story 3. I think the hubby is in the right. My whole family are gamers and although I'm not, I'm a complete bookworm. Guess who is always late, me, the bookworm. It took a similar incident for me to realise how much stress I was putting my family under. My rather weak protestations that they should remind me sooner had me ignoring their reminders, because I knew they were making extra accommodations for me. It took me being left behind and a serious talking to by all the members of the family, before I stopped being late for everything.
When someone moves into an apartment if there is no laundry room then the tenant is responsible for keeping things neat and clean even if it means they have to buy their own washer and dryer. So as long as they have the receipts proving they bought what wasn't included in their lease they have the right to take them when they move out. The landlord has no right to keep someone else's property! If anything the landlord committed a fraud by advertising the apartment included a washer and dryer when it was his extenant who bought them and not the landlord.
story 1: absolutely freaking NOT the jerk. you bought them, they're yours. until and unless the landlord and YOU arrange a mutually agreed upon sale, completely independent of the existing and/or prior lease (depending entirely on the individual's situation, which could change between OP and other, relevant cases).
S1: That's common sense, If someone buys something that's theirs so those who says something else are the AH and it's the former landlord fault there. If I were the OP I'll file for a police report for fraud and attempted theft. S3: Something else is going on besides the planned baseball game and this was the breaking point and OP needs to reflect and think things if he wants to move forward with this marriage but come on narrator the OP was thinking objectively and the wife wasn't, She was reminded multiple times and didn't care for those up until it was way to late.
@GiordanDiodato from the sounds of it she waited til like 5-10 min before the time to leave when she knew for hours I'm a gamer myself but I keep an eye on the time to make sure I keep on schedule for bed work etc
Story 3 - WRONG. OP is NTA. His wife was told well ahead of time and still screwed around and was late. I Fully agree with OP's actions and would absolutely do the same thing myself. His wife needs to either get her sh*t together or get used to being left behind. And the note on the door would go in the trash and I'd go straight to My bedroom. She is the problem here and She can go sleep on the couch if she has to but it'll be a cold day in hell before I'm kept out of my own bed.
@@cybermainstream agreed! Relationships are about compromise and communication. If he even announced that he was leaving at least he would have attempted to communicate but instead was being petty. She shouldn’t have to worry about being left behind. And yes I would have made him sleep on the couch too. He disregarded her and he also needed to be taught a lesson if he wants to teach her like that.
@paylove5173 I will admit that leave without say smth might be petty, but he told her that they had to leave at that time or they will be late and she decided to play games instead of getting ready. And she's an adult not a child she should have the mental capacity to think "I should get rdy for the game instead of playing games", but no
And if I bought a house, furniture and pay bills do you think I'm sleeping on a couch nah ima sleep in mah bed if she doesn't like it she can go in the guest bed room or smth.
Story 1: It's literally OP's property. Landlord can not expect to steal her property. OP huge NTA. That coworker is, in short, a dumbass. Story 3: OP's wife needs to be setting alarms or get help. This is a reoccuring issue. OP has talked to her about it. She still didn't do anything to help herself make sure she was on time. OP could've been nicer by telling her that he was leaving but he's less of a jerk than she is. You can't expect everyone to wait on you all the time. If alarms don't work then you need to be getting professional help. Not everyone is going to go out of their way to accommodate you. That said, I do think both parties have big communication issues that they need to work on. OP seems to be rude to her about it but she can't just not be on time. That's going to cause problems. You can't, for instance, constantly be late for work and then wonder why you got fired. You have to be able to be on time and can't expect people to just accept you being late. It's an issue his wife needs to work on and she should probably take it less as an insult and more as a wake up call that she has an issue. OP was out of line for calling her a child though. Both are the jerk, OP just less of a jerk. His wife needs to either figure out a solution or get help because most of the time people will not accommodate you if you're late. Story 5: OP made a mistake. Mistakes happen and this is a painful one. OP should probably get some therapy to move past it and try to heal. It's hard though and I sympathize with him. I used to have a relationship with a good person but I broke it off due to paranoia stemming from my trauma and ab*se I was going through at the time. I regret it. I feel for OP. It does make you feel broken. It sucks and it's hard but you have to find a way to carry on and accept your mistake. In the meantime, OP should try to find ways to heal and learn the lesson that was to be had here. Nothing is wrong with poly relationships but both people should want that from the start and should set clear boundaries, it shouldn't just be thrown in years later. I hope OP can find someone else and heal. Story 6: It sucks for the sister but those kids are not OP's obligation. Especially since they are not close. OP had no say about those children coming into existence so it's not really OP's problem, especially since the sister has stolen from OP and caused issues. It's unfortunate but that's how life works. I feel sorry for those kids but I can't blame OP for not wanting to lose $18,000.
for story 3, I have ADHD which used to lend itself to time management issues. however, it's gone the opposite way now. instead of "oh, i've got 5 minutes to sit and relax" and suddenly, 30 minutes have gone by, now it's "I only have 3 hours to drive half an hour to work. i'm gonna be SOOOOOO late!"
Story 1, she's not the jerk. But I do see why the landlord thought it was going to stay since most people leave them behind. Since she bought it the landlord should have asked her if she would be leaving it or taking it, not assume. Because at the end of the day they are OP's items to take.
Story 1: NTJ The OP bought the washer and drier. They have the receipt from when they bought it and the text from the landlord about buying the set. The OP has every right to take it with them regardless. The landlord is just mad that he lost a new tenant due to falsly advertising the place. The OP can countersue the landlord if landlord tried anything. The landlord has nothing against the OP
Last story - this is a good painful lesson for those people who do not care about consequences and treat others disrespectfully. Go cry in yr pain and hopefully you become nicer to others after that.
"Your honor I also took some 3-week old chicken casserole, tampons, and a VHS of 'Turbo: A Power Rangers Movie.' Will the landlord be needing these personal items I own as well or are we just going after things that he can steal to make him more money?"
#1: Easy period keep the receipts keep the texts. Then make sure your lawyer pushes for him to pay.All the court charges on this absolutely frivolous cas
The landlord cannot ask for the wash and dry combination. My old landlord build at my old appartment it in so that we couldnt remove it but he payed€0 for it but i got it from the old renter.
story two. honestly i would have left too. like i told you to get ready. i was ready hours ago. i told you when we were leaving. i'm leaving at that time with or without you. i dont care i will not be late to anything because someone else not being ready when i told them to be ready.
Story 2: I struggle to manage my time too so I have alarms on my phone to alert me. For big and important things, they're on my phone calander with a number of reminders leading up to the event, I still usually need someone to remind me when it's time to go if I'm going out with someone and it's not habitual (like weekly events). I'm also and intelligent and was also recently diagnosed with ADHD, which makes a lot of sense. It's entirely possible OP's partner has ADHD or something similar, and yes they need to learn to manage it, but they also need a little help managing it
story 3 and the simp returns the op and wife had been planning this for a while and they op told her they need to be ready but no she plays her game for to long look i love video games but if i need to be somewhere at a certain time ill stop to get ready cant blame op for doing what he did if he didn't the wife would never learn that you need to take time out of your day for things
It's a great way to piss off his wife. Would your rather be right or happy? I understand OP is frustrated, but this will just create a wedge with his wife and could lead to divorce.
Story number two how do women get there husbands to sleep on the couch my husband would just say, "Kiss my ass and if u don't want to sleep next to me then you sleep on the couch " 😂
My math teacher bought a house because it had a cool feature, when he moved in the cool feature was gone. The previous owners might have took it with them. They sold the house not the feature! Unless u sold the feature to the new owners, you have the right to take it with you.
Story 3 the wife is the ahole because he let her know in advance to be ready by 6pm and she waited until 5:45 to even begin getting ready when she knew it takes time to park and drive to the game that’s why the 6pm deadline was important and he never said she was dumb he said she has a science degree that’s how he knows she’s not dumb so do a little better in understanding what your reading so you don’t make mistakes like that
I don't understand why the landlord would think you would leave them in the first place. It's not like you would leave your bed or dresser or anything like that hell you might as well just leave everything if that. Yeah your coworkers crazy
I was super relieved by your response to story 3. As someone with time blindness due to adhd, a gentle reminder to drop off my game early so i can start getting ready helps much more in the long run than just getting straight-up abandoned and fucked over. Cannot believe how toxic he made that situation. Even just leaving for a few minutes and then coming back is pushing it, but wow, yeah thanks for wasting time and making me feel even worse about myself.
I think his wife needs to get help for her issue but he's definitely being rude about it. I think OP has the right idea that she needs to figure out a solution but I think he was very rude about it. Both are the jerk imo, OP just less so because she does need to realize she can't be late everywhere but he should've handled it more gracefully than he did.
@@Juzokinnie op is the jerk for leaving his wife behind he should have waited for her to get ready and dressed, so that way he can enjoy the baseball game with her.
Oh my god time blindness, seriously? You don't understand how much I want to correct you physically right now. So what you saying is you're a lazy mother effer who can't get a watch or look at the clock that's probably somewhere in the house or maybe look at your phone? Oh by the way alarms exist. So set one up to remind you for when you need to do something. Time blindness? more like too lazy to get your butt in gear. Oh by the way I have ADHD as well, along with other things and I can comprehend time just as fine as the next person who's doesn't have any of the problems that I have. You're just lazy and refuse to get your butt into gear and to look at the freaking time on your phone, clock, watch, etc. I hate people like you.
The problem though is that this is a reoccurring problem, and that the wife needs to be taught the consequences of her actions, even if that means they feel like shit. The op is a little bit of a jerk for not saying he was leaving, but the wife was definitely much more of a jerk.
Boar named Bacon 🤣 I named a rooster Richard. My neighbors had a rooster and he was a loud mofo. After an incident where he scared the absolute hell outta me, I named him Richard. He wasn’t a bad rooster, just loud. Story 3: Yeah, I gotta agree both are irresponsible. The OP is the one who sounds incredibly entitled. And the wife was in the bathroom? Okay? It wasn’t like she was still in bed. She was getting ready. And yes, the wife does need to manage her time better, but what OP did is petty and childish.
@@hwimystic7691 Agreed. He was rude about it. She does need a wake up call and to either figure out a solution or get help for it. It isn't helpful to be mean about it though, he should've sat her down and been like "This is an issue. Either you need to find a solution or you need to get help for it." Not just completely ditched her and call her a child for her lack of time management.
@@Juzokinnie Lack of communication is what is sums up to. That or something else, but I’m not jumping the shark with that. Hopefully, they do find a way to settle this.
Story 3, reader of this video is 100% wrong the OP is not the jerk. Reader mentions how he'd be upset if someone wasted his time not realizing she has been doing that to OP the on multiple occasions and clearly OP mentions reminding her all the time and being tired about always having to do it so clearly a having a conversation isn't working so it's come to the point of action. And now the wife is upset because she received consequences to her actions na that's not how it works next time she can consider the plans she makes with OP cause it's not fair to him to miss out on things cause she couldn't get ready in time
Story 3.. OP nta ... i worked with a client who was ALWAYS time blind.. to the point every hour she'd get a reminder her and her husband need to leave at 1pm to pick up their 6yr old granddaughter from school 45min away...its 1245 and she starts demanding that she eats breakfast.. that she shouldnt be rushed around... so her husband left... because it was ridiculous and yes, its a ball game this time..but who knows what situations OPs wife has put him in due to her not paying attention
S3: the wife deserved to be left. Yes the husband pulled a jerk move but the wife has been the jerk making them late with no care. Sorry but no. Its not like she was getting ready for the hour before. She waited til 6 to get ready because she was gaming. I love to game but I know when to put it down. She needs to fix that.
Eh, open relationship guy. Yeah, dumb choice. But if she didn’t stick to the deal, that's on her. And more on your girl than Jimmy. He's an ass, but she made her choice. Also, sounds a little possessive. No one is someone else's person.
Story #3: My wife can be like this too. I would never just leave her, but it's hard not to be in a bad mood if you're going to be late to something you personally took every precaution to be ready and on time for. So while I don't really agree with leaving, there really isn't a good solution for the OP. He can talk with her and mention how important it is for him to be punctual to certain events, but I find that if it's someone's personality you're either going to have to accept it or just end up bitter married people in the end.
Story 3 the narrator did bad. The op said she is not a dumb woman because she has a science degree 8:25. The narrator completely misread. And the husband said he wanted to leave at 6, 7:11 .the wife was getting ready at 6 7:31. So the husband is right and the narrator and wife are wrong
Story 3: A. I would tell her if she doesn’t want to sleep with me, then she should sleep on the couch. Bed is communal property, so not her right to demand on the couch. Should have told her before you left. But at the end of the day, if she can't control her time, it’s on her. Shouldn’t have just left, but she needs to manage her time. Have you actually talked to her?
i'm sorry but the landlord is delusional thinking that this is his washer and dryer, when it isn't, it's op's, she owns the washer and dryer along with her boyfriend.
Skipping all that emotion crap. Move on kid she’s not the last great relationship, that was an excuse to move on. The least you can do know is hold up to the only part of that stupid agreement that you can, get out there and try again.
Story 5: Op need to get a therapist to get of that hoe. If she really did love you then she wouldn't have request or even thought about have an open relationship if you are not alright with it in the very first place. She wanted an out without being the bad guy. Find a hobby, go out with friends and family. But importantly, improve yourself to not get heartbroken by another hoe again. Story 6: Yeah, this idea could be a slippery slop but, if it is important, op could offer a week to hire someone to watch the children. After that, it's the sister's problem to find someone else. No bargain or negotiations. Also, the caretaker is the only calls you if something happens, the sister doesn't get a say on anything that isn't related to the children's wellbeing, like for an example an extension to how long the caretaker will be staying with the kids. That is how far I would suggest on helping op's sister. Yes, it would dip into your funds but it is a solution. If the sister doesn't like the idea then just move on. I think you're her last resort seeing that she has called you for a year. She could have asked neighbors or friends to help but odds are bridges were burned and now she's comes begging for your help. Like I suggested, for 1 week pay someone to watch the kids and the sister doesn't get a say on how long they can stay or who can watch them then move on after you get the answer.
Story 3) Who the hell made you your wife's overlord or parent? OMG I am so disgusted and triggered that I am having problems even narrowing down my issues with how much of a "jerk" this OP is.
Sounds like it's a problem for the landlord. I mean, why are *you* responsible for telling him that the place no longer has a washer and dryer? Wouldn't he have to jot that down during an inspection before putting the place back on the market? So it sounds to me that he didn't even do a routine inspection before listing it, which by the way, can land him in even MORE trouble if something important (like a busted pipe, mold, etc) surfaces *after* the new tenants moved in. The landlord sounds scummy and it's not your responsibility to cater to him by leaving behind what I'm going to assume is a $3,000+ property set. He's literally out here for profit without effort, fuck him and fuck your coworkers who think you're in the wrong for taking YOUR property with you.
The narrator been simping for a bit ain't he, for the 3rd story, yes the OP is a bit of a jerk, but his wife is far much more terrible, education has nothing to do with it. It's fact that if she has done this multiple times, she's angry she's facing the consequences of her actions, you don't just forget about something you've always wanted to do because you're gaming, I game a lot and I make sure to manage my time to be ready for the things i need and want to do, especially things things I've always wanted to do. In short, he is a jerk yes, but she is an even bigger jerk for her lack of time management skills that he has called her out on numerous of times.
I completely agree. I understand time blindness is an issue but it's an issue that most people will not accommodate. You have to get help for it. She needed a wake up call. That said he was rude about it.
Yeah I'm just going to say this on the open relationship story that's clearly just on the original poster and I hate to kind of be this guy of isn't bad enough that he stupidly just said yes to his girlfriend it's a fact that she thought of wanting to do that to begin with and she proceeded to cheat even though she promised him it was just about the thrill of being chased but clearly they're world series of motors there to begin with so basically he didn't lose anything but he did stupidly allow it to go down that way but neither way it sounds like they would have fallen out of love to begin with
In the second story she should just leave him because he specifically said wife which means he knew how bad her time management was and chose to marry her he has no damn right to bitch or complain because she didn’t suddenly develop a bad time management she had that while they were dating as well and yet he chose to marry her he doesn’t get the room to bitch either he divorces her and find someone who has good time management or he sucks it up and quit bitching that simple
I agree with you. He should divorce her and hopefully this is a lesson for the original poster not to marry someone like that. As I said in the past everyone has their problems and skeletons in the closet but ya best be a functioning adult to even be considered being married to.
I have ADHD and I can tell time just fine. Hell I even calculate how long it'll take to get somewhere and then get ready within an hour before needing to leave and get there either early by 5 minutes or just on time. This whole neurodivergent and blaming ADHD for timeblindness is stupid, y'all are just lazy and coddled. LMAO neurodivergent isn't even even a word that my phone recognizes as being in the dictionary, that's how I know it's mad up. Just like the 69 genders.
what make you think she has ADHD or a neurodivergent. i believe she just cant keep track of time when she plays game like kides also loose track of time when playign games.
story 3?: if my feeling is right, the wife in the baseballstory is probebly neurodivergend (most likeky adhd) and could probebly be barely able to plan time. And even if not, the comments about that a adult woman should be able to plan the time, are ableist as hell to story 5: no an open relationship is not cheating with permission, what she did was cheating, not because it was an open relationship. but because she broke the rules they had set for that relationship. the blank condemnation of open relationships and polyamory because it was not for him, is wrong. here is to say that it sounds like it wasn't thourd thru how that would work and on top her disregarding of the rules anyway that caused this. at last, it sounds that he realy needs therapeutic help.
story 2 is quite literally unacceptable. time blindness is actually an issue for adults, and OP literally knew. just leaving too!? quite literally just a shitty move. the wife should probably find someone new if its that bad.
Time blindness isn't an excuse, you can set alarms. I understand time blindness makes things more difficult but you have to accommodate that yourself, not expect everyone around you to accommodate that. It's a reoccuring issue. There's an easy solution to set alarms. I always set alarms to provide enough time for me to be ready and not be late. Sometimes I have 3 set alarms a day to ensure I'm not late.
Yeah, if she hasn't already been diagnosed with adhd or similar, she needs to. And if Hubby is unwilling to work with her, like making sure she's getting ready at 5:30 instead of just watching her literally forget about time... nah. And the fact that he refers to her being like a child bc she's time blind? That's too much, man. You obviously don't care enough and maybe you're better off seperate. Or maybe get some counseling, the both of you. 🙄
@@StrangerMoontail He's definitely too far by calling her a child for it but she also needs to recognize that she has an issue and it's one she has to manage herself by setting alarms. There is an easy solution. She shouldn't expect everyone around her to accomodate her. OP shouldn't insult her for it though.
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S1......The people she talked to, and calling her a jerk for taking her washer and dryer are AH.
Either they don't know what really happen or they are just stupid AH
I mean she literally bought the Wash/Dryer. So, how is there any discussion?
This isn't an issue of opinion, there's no shades of gray.
This is absolutely pure black or White, a simple issue of facts!
3rd story. OP is not the jerk. the WIFE is. If a husband is supposed to accommodate to his wifes schedule, and she cannot accommodate to his, its not a marriage. If i was told, "Please be ready at this specific time," i will be ready at THAT SPECIFIC TIME. Not TRYING to get ready when that time rolls around. No, i will be ready to go BEFORE that time arrives.
yeah i agree and i reallyy dont understend why the narroatore cant see this.
The coworker is an idiot. Yes, OP could have told the landlord they were taking it, but the landlord never should have assumed they would stay. That's like being upset that OP took their furniture when they moved out. It's OPs property so the landlord was stupid for thinking they were entitled to it. If they wanted them to stay, they could have offered to buy them.
Story 3. I think the hubby is in the right. My whole family are gamers and although I'm not, I'm a complete bookworm. Guess who is always late, me, the bookworm. It took a similar incident for me to realise how much stress I was putting my family under. My rather weak protestations that they should remind me sooner had me ignoring their reminders, because I knew they were making extra accommodations for me. It took me being left behind and a serious talking to by all the members of the family, before I stopped being late for everything.
yeah i agre with you an di dont see how the narrator dosent see that he isent a jerk.
@@gabrielepuglisi5532And that OP should apologise??? It makes not one ounce of sense. In fact it’s nonsensical!
You can tell the narrator has never dealt with someone who's chronically late and how infuriating it is.
When someone moves into an apartment if there is no laundry room then the tenant is responsible for keeping things neat and clean even if it means they have to buy their own washer and dryer. So as long as they have the receipts proving they bought what wasn't included in their lease they have the right to take them when they move out. The landlord has no right to keep someone else's property! If anything the landlord committed a fraud by advertising the apartment included a washer and dryer when it was his extenant who bought them and not the landlord.
story 1: absolutely freaking NOT the jerk. you bought them, they're yours. until and unless the landlord and YOU arrange a mutually agreed upon sale, completely independent of the existing and/or prior lease (depending entirely on the individual's situation, which could change between OP and other, relevant cases).
S1: That's common sense, If someone buys something that's theirs so those who says something else are the AH and it's the former landlord fault there. If I were the OP I'll file for a police report for fraud and attempted theft.
S3: Something else is going on besides the planned baseball game and this was the breaking point and OP needs to reflect and think things if he wants to move forward with this marriage but come on narrator the OP was thinking objectively and the wife wasn't, She was reminded multiple times and didn't care for those up until it was way to late.
s3: They're both at fault. that was way too petty to do. she was in the bathroom, not the game room. holy shit.
@@GiordanDiodatonah fuck that
@GiordanDiodato from the sounds of it she waited til like 5-10 min before the time to leave when she knew for hours I'm a gamer myself but I keep an eye on the time to make sure I keep on schedule for bed work etc
Op in the first story is the owner of the washer and dryer she is totally in the right to take them
Story 3 - WRONG. OP is NTA. His wife was told well ahead of time and still screwed around and was late. I Fully agree with OP's actions and would absolutely do the same thing myself. His wife needs to either get her sh*t together or get used to being left behind. And the note on the door would go in the trash and I'd go straight to My bedroom. She is the problem here and She can go sleep on the couch if she has to but it'll be a cold day in hell before I'm kept out of my own bed.
Have fun being single.
@@cybermainstream agreed! Relationships are about compromise and communication. If he even announced that he was leaving at least he would have attempted to communicate but instead was being petty. She shouldn’t have to worry about being left behind. And yes I would have made him sleep on the couch too. He disregarded her and he also needed to be taught a lesson if he wants to teach her like that.
@paylove5173 I will actually if all women are like you two I'd rather die single 💀💀💀
@paylove5173 I will admit that leave without say smth might be petty, but he told her that they had to leave at that time or they will be late and she decided to play games instead of getting ready. And she's an adult not a child she should have the mental capacity to think "I should get rdy for the game instead of playing games", but no
And if I bought a house, furniture and pay bills do you think I'm sleeping on a couch nah ima sleep in mah bed if she doesn't like it she can go in the guest bed room or smth.
For s2. I probably would have demanded the manager and explained that tricking me into that was or would have quickly become fraud.
Story 1: It's literally OP's property. Landlord can not expect to steal her property. OP huge NTA. That coworker is, in short, a dumbass.
Story 3: OP's wife needs to be setting alarms or get help. This is a reoccuring issue. OP has talked to her about it. She still didn't do anything to help herself make sure she was on time. OP could've been nicer by telling her that he was leaving but he's less of a jerk than she is. You can't expect everyone to wait on you all the time. If alarms don't work then you need to be getting professional help. Not everyone is going to go out of their way to accommodate you.
That said, I do think both parties have big communication issues that they need to work on. OP seems to be rude to her about it but she can't just not be on time. That's going to cause problems. You can't, for instance, constantly be late for work and then wonder why you got fired. You have to be able to be on time and can't expect people to just accept you being late. It's an issue his wife needs to work on and she should probably take it less as an insult and more as a wake up call that she has an issue. OP was out of line for calling her a child though. Both are the jerk, OP just less of a jerk. His wife needs to either figure out a solution or get help because most of the time people will not accommodate you if you're late.
Story 5: OP made a mistake. Mistakes happen and this is a painful one. OP should probably get some therapy to move past it and try to heal. It's hard though and I sympathize with him. I used to have a relationship with a good person but I broke it off due to paranoia stemming from my trauma and ab*se I was going through at the time. I regret it. I feel for OP. It does make you feel broken. It sucks and it's hard but you have to find a way to carry on and accept your mistake. In the meantime, OP should try to find ways to heal and learn the lesson that was to be had here. Nothing is wrong with poly relationships but both people should want that from the start and should set clear boundaries, it shouldn't just be thrown in years later. I hope OP can find someone else and heal.
Story 6: It sucks for the sister but those kids are not OP's obligation. Especially since they are not close. OP had no say about those children coming into existence so it's not really OP's problem, especially since the sister has stolen from OP and caused issues. It's unfortunate but that's how life works. I feel sorry for those kids but I can't blame OP for not wanting to lose $18,000.
I agree the wife needs to learn to keep times
what happened to story 2.
for story 3, I have ADHD which used to lend itself to time management issues. however, it's gone the opposite way now. instead of "oh, i've got 5 minutes to sit and relax" and suddenly, 30 minutes have gone by, now it's "I only have 3 hours to drive half an hour to work. i'm gonna be SOOOOOO late!"
@@viviennemorgan7217 They just didn't have a comment on it? Same with story 4.
Story 1, she's not the jerk. But I do see why the landlord thought it was going to stay since most people leave them behind. Since she bought it the landlord should have asked her if she would be leaving it or taking it, not assume. Because at the end of the day they are OP's items to take.
I think story 1 is a re-read
Story 1; This guy is trying to steal a washer and dryer as he falsely advertise a washer and dryer. He is a scumbag.
The last story makes me suspicious because if the sister is so unreliable how is she the families breadwinner
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S1 ... you bough it, it is yours. That is no different from him rising rent saying Fully furnished and getting mad that you took your stuff with you 😂
Story 1: NTJ The OP bought the washer and drier. They have the receipt from when they bought it and the text from the landlord about buying the set. The OP has every right to take it with them regardless. The landlord is just mad that he lost a new tenant due to falsly advertising the place. The OP can countersue the landlord if landlord tried anything. The landlord has nothing against the OP
Last story - this is a good painful lesson for those people who do not care about consequences and treat others disrespectfully. Go cry in yr pain and hopefully you become nicer to others after that.
"Your honor I also took some 3-week old chicken casserole, tampons, and a VHS of 'Turbo: A Power Rangers Movie.' Will the landlord be needing these personal items I own as well or are we just going after things that he can steal to make him more money?"
Am i the jerk saves the day
Story #3, this is why I'm not interested in relationships.
Why would you tell the landlord about moving your own property out anyway.
#1: Easy period keep the receipts keep the texts. Then make sure your lawyer pushes for him to pay.All the court charges on this absolutely frivolous cas
nope shes a jerk he aint
The landlord cannot ask for the wash and dry combination. My old landlord build at my old appartment it in so that we couldnt remove it but he payed€0 for it but i got it from the old renter.
story two. honestly i would have left too. like i told you to get ready. i was ready hours ago. i told you when we were leaving. i'm leaving at that time with or without you. i dont care i will not be late to anything because someone else not being ready when i told them to be ready.
Op in story1 shouldve told the Landlord "sure just reimburse me for the money i spent to get the washer n dryer"
Story 2: I struggle to manage my time too so I have alarms on my phone to alert me. For big and important things, they're on my phone calander with a number of reminders leading up to the event, I still usually need someone to remind me when it's time to go if I'm going out with someone and it's not habitual (like weekly events). I'm also and intelligent and was also recently diagnosed with ADHD, which makes a lot of sense. It's entirely possible OP's partner has ADHD or something similar, and yes they need to learn to manage it, but they also need a little help managing it
story 3 and the simp returns the op and wife had been planning this for a while and they op told her they need to be ready but no she plays her game for to long look i love video games but if i need to be somewhere at a certain time ill stop to get ready cant blame op for doing what he did if he didn't the wife would never learn that you need to take time out of your day for things
i skiped
It's a great way to piss off his wife. Would your rather be right or happy? I understand OP is frustrated, but this will just create a wedge with his wife and could lead to divorce.
I hope you're never married.
@@eric98292right and good I don't need to be with a woman like that neither does anyone else.
Not at all even I have not come across this. I really don’t know how to put this in words. You are in the right to take all your belongings with you
Story number two how do women get there husbands to sleep on the couch my husband would just say, "Kiss my ass and if u don't want to sleep next to me then you sleep on the couch " 😂
And that's why I would never ever get back in another relationship.
16:42 bros origin story
4:15 *ahem*
My math teacher bought a house because it had a cool feature, when he moved in the cool feature was gone. The previous owners might have took it with them. They sold the house not the feature! Unless u sold the feature to the new owners, you have the right to take it with you.
Story 3 the wife is the ahole because he let her know in advance to be ready by 6pm and she waited until 5:45 to even begin getting ready when she knew it takes time to park and drive to the game that’s why the 6pm deadline was important and he never said she was dumb he said she has a science degree that’s how he knows she’s not dumb so do a little better in understanding what your reading so you don’t make mistakes like that
I don't understand why the landlord would think you would leave them in the first place. It's not like you would leave your bed or dresser or anything like that hell you might as well just leave everything if that. Yeah your coworkers crazy
I was super relieved by your response to story 3. As someone with time blindness due to adhd, a gentle reminder to drop off my game early so i can start getting ready helps much more in the long run than just getting straight-up abandoned and fucked over. Cannot believe how toxic he made that situation. Even just leaving for a few minutes and then coming back is pushing it, but wow, yeah thanks for wasting time and making me feel even worse about myself.
I think his wife needs to get help for her issue but he's definitely being rude about it. I think OP has the right idea that she needs to figure out a solution but I think he was very rude about it. Both are the jerk imo, OP just less so because she does need to realize she can't be late everywhere but he should've handled it more gracefully than he did.
@@Juzokinnie op is the jerk for leaving his wife behind he should have waited for her to get ready and dressed, so that way he can enjoy the baseball game with her.
Oh my god time blindness, seriously? You don't understand how much I want to correct you physically right now. So what you saying is you're a lazy mother effer who can't get a watch or look at the clock that's probably somewhere in the house or maybe look at your phone? Oh by the way alarms exist. So set one up to remind you for when you need to do something. Time blindness? more like too lazy to get your butt in gear. Oh by the way I have ADHD as well, along with other things and I can comprehend time just as fine as the next person who's doesn't have any of the problems that I have. You're just lazy and refuse to get your butt into gear and to look at the freaking time on your phone, clock, watch, etc. I hate people like you.
The problem though is that this is a reoccurring problem, and that the wife needs to be taught the consequences of her actions, even if that means they feel like shit. The op is a little bit of a jerk for not saying he was leaving, but the wife was definitely much more of a jerk.
Yes they're back
Story 2 - I'd have submitted an official complaint to the store about the employee's behaviour.
Boar named Bacon 🤣 I named a rooster Richard. My neighbors had a rooster and he was a loud mofo. After an incident where he scared the absolute hell outta me, I named him Richard. He wasn’t a bad rooster, just loud.
Story 3: Yeah, I gotta agree both are irresponsible. The OP is the one who sounds incredibly entitled. And the wife was in the bathroom? Okay? It wasn’t like she was still in bed. She was getting ready. And yes, the wife does need to manage her time better, but what OP did is petty and childish.
no it wasn't the op is in the right
@@kidflaxh5130 Both are in the wrong in their own way.
@@hwimystic7691 Agreed. He was rude about it. She does need a wake up call and to either figure out a solution or get help for it. It isn't helpful to be mean about it though, he should've sat her down and been like "This is an issue. Either you need to find a solution or you need to get help for it." Not just completely ditched her and call her a child for her lack of time management.
@@Juzokinnie Lack of communication is what is sums up to. That or something else, but I’m not jumping the shark with that. Hopefully, they do find a way to settle this.
he should have waited or watched the game with his wife instead of leaving her alone like that.
Story 3, reader of this video is 100% wrong the OP is not the jerk. Reader mentions how he'd be upset if someone wasted his time not realizing she has been doing that to OP the on multiple occasions and clearly OP mentions reminding her all the time and being tired about always having to do it so clearly a having a conversation isn't working so it's come to the point of action. And now the wife is upset because she received consequences to her actions na that's not how it works next time she can consider the plans she makes with OP cause it's not fair to him to miss out on things cause she couldn't get ready in time
Story 1 you are not the jerk because you bought the washer and dryer so if your property also it said in the lease no washer or dryer included
S1 - why are landlords so greedy ???
You’re missing a word. Some or many. Not all.
So 3rd story, the guy literally pulled an "Everybody Loves Raymond" on his wife...
oof i never had bad experience
The first story was already uploaded on RUclips
Story 3.. OP nta ... i worked with a client who was ALWAYS time blind.. to the point every hour she'd get a reminder her and her husband need to leave at 1pm to pick up their 6yr old granddaughter from school 45min away...its 1245 and she starts demanding that she eats breakfast.. that she shouldnt be rushed around... so her husband left... because it was ridiculous and yes, its a ball game this time..but who knows what situations OPs wife has put him in due to her not paying attention
Story 4: Man up and move on
S1 counter sue for harassment and abuse of police time.
S3: the wife deserved to be left. Yes the husband pulled a jerk move but the wife has been the jerk making them late with no care. Sorry but no. Its not like she was getting ready for the hour before. She waited til 6 to get ready because she was gaming. I love to game but I know when to put it down. She needs to fix that.
No you are not a jerk the landlord is wrong
Eh, open relationship guy. Yeah, dumb choice. But if she didn’t stick to the deal, that's on her.
And more on your girl than Jimmy. He's an ass, but she made her choice.
Also, sounds a little possessive. No one is someone else's person.
4 comments lol
Nope u good
So when you take your own stuff you buy
You are called a jerk
Wtf
Story #3: My wife can be like this too. I would never just leave her, but it's hard not to be in a bad mood if you're going to be late to something you personally took every precaution to be ready and on time for. So while I don't really agree with leaving, there really isn't a good solution for the OP. He can talk with her and mention how important it is for him to be punctual to certain events, but I find that if it's someone's personality you're either going to have to accept it or just end up bitter married people in the end.
S2: is time to di...di...di...divorce. But before that, be better
story 1:I know its not important but how do you get a job like that i would pay to get a job like that.BTW w bacon the boar
Just don't marry a " gamer "
What else would you expect?
Gaming isn’t the issue. It’s lack of respect for others. She could’ve been wasting time doing any number of stupid things.
Story 3 the narrator did bad.
The op said she is not a dumb woman because she has a science degree 8:25. The narrator completely misread. And the husband said he wanted to leave at 6, 7:11 .the wife was getting ready at 6 7:31. So the husband is right and the narrator and wife are wrong
Story 3: A. I would tell her if she doesn’t want to sleep with me, then she should sleep on the couch. Bed is communal property, so not her right to demand on the couch. Should have told her before you left. But at the end of the day, if she can't control her time, it’s on her. Shouldn’t have just left, but she needs to manage her time. Have you actually talked to her?
i'm sorry but the landlord is delusional thinking that this is his washer and dryer, when it isn't, it's op's, she owns the washer and dryer along with her boyfriend.
so i feel bad for her.
Skipping all that emotion crap. Move on kid she’s not the last great relationship, that was an excuse to move on. The least you can do know is hold up to the only part of that stupid agreement that you can, get out there and try again.
Story 5: Op need to get a therapist to get of that hoe. If she really did love you then she wouldn't have request or even thought about have an open relationship if you are not alright with it in the very first place. She wanted an out without being the bad guy. Find a hobby, go out with friends and family. But importantly, improve yourself to not get heartbroken by another hoe again.
Story 6: Yeah, this idea could be a slippery slop but, if it is important, op could offer a week to hire someone to watch the children. After that, it's the sister's problem to find someone else. No bargain or negotiations. Also, the caretaker is the only calls you if something happens, the sister doesn't get a say on anything that isn't related to the children's wellbeing, like for an example an extension to how long the caretaker will be staying with the kids. That is how far I would suggest on helping op's sister. Yes, it would dip into your funds but it is a solution. If the sister doesn't like the idea then just move on. I think you're her last resort seeing that she has called you for a year. She could have asked neighbors or friends to help but odds are bridges were burned and now she's comes begging for your help. Like I suggested, for 1 week pay someone to watch the kids and the sister doesn't get a say on how long they can stay or who can watch them then move on after you get the answer.
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Story 3) Who the hell made you your wife's overlord or parent? OMG I am so disgusted and triggered that I am having problems even narrowing down my issues with how much of a "jerk" this OP is.
Sounds like it's a problem for the landlord. I mean, why are *you* responsible for telling him that the place no longer has a washer and dryer? Wouldn't he have to jot that down during an inspection before putting the place back on the market? So it sounds to me that he didn't even do a routine inspection before listing it, which by the way, can land him in even MORE trouble if something important (like a busted pipe, mold, etc) surfaces *after* the new tenants moved in. The landlord sounds scummy and it's not your responsibility to cater to him by leaving behind what I'm going to assume is a $3,000+ property set.
He's literally out here for profit without effort, fuck him and fuck your coworkers who think you're in the wrong for taking YOUR property with you.
The narrator been simping for a bit ain't he, for the 3rd story, yes the OP is a bit of a jerk, but his wife is far much more terrible, education has nothing to do with it. It's fact that if she has done this multiple times, she's angry she's facing the consequences of her actions, you don't just forget about something you've always wanted to do because you're gaming, I game a lot and I make sure to manage my time to be ready for the things i need and want to do, especially things things I've always wanted to do.
In short, he is a jerk yes, but she is an even bigger jerk for her lack of time management skills that he has called her out on numerous of times.
I completely agree. I understand time blindness is an issue but it's an issue that most people will not accommodate. You have to get help for it. She needed a wake up call. That said he was rude about it.
Yes he's always been a simp
ok incel
@@dylanclay2741 better a simp than an incel
@@GiordanDiodato Okay simp
Was yours not landlord
We first
Yeah I'm just going to say this on the open relationship story that's clearly just on the original poster and I hate to kind of be this guy of isn't bad enough that he stupidly just said yes to his girlfriend it's a fact that she thought of wanting to do that to begin with and she proceeded to cheat even though she promised him it was just about the thrill of being chased but clearly they're world series of motors there to begin with so basically he didn't lose anything but he did stupidly allow it to go down that way but neither way it sounds like they would have fallen out of love to begin with
Lmao op 5 is a beta male
Yoo
In the second story she should just leave him because he specifically said wife which means he knew how bad her time management was and chose to marry her he has no damn right to bitch or complain because she didn’t suddenly develop a bad time management she had that while they were dating as well and yet he chose to marry her he doesn’t get the room to bitch either he divorces her and find someone who has good time management or he sucks it up and quit bitching that simple
I agree with you. He should divorce her and hopefully this is a lesson for the original poster not to marry someone like that. As I said in the past everyone has their problems and skeletons in the closet but ya best be a functioning adult to even be considered being married to.
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Cronic lateness is a huge sign of a lack of respect for the people waiting.
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Story 1, why tf does coworker think she’s TA? Coworker is an idiot
Story 2, he needs to be reported
Story 3, it’s a repeat and he’s still TA
Story 3: OP is an entitled jerk and it sounds like the gf might have ADHD or is otherwise neurodivergent.
I have ADHD and I can tell time just fine. Hell I even calculate how long it'll take to get somewhere and then get ready within an hour before needing to leave and get there either early by 5 minutes or just on time. This whole neurodivergent and blaming ADHD for timeblindness is stupid, y'all are just lazy and coddled. LMAO neurodivergent isn't even even a word that my phone recognizes as being in the dictionary, that's how I know it's mad up. Just like the 69 genders.
what make you think she has ADHD or a neurodivergent. i believe she just cant keep track of time when she plays game like kides also loose track of time when playign games.
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Story 3: she might have a condition that makes her not have good concepts of time
Also he could’ve been a tiny bit late it’s not like he was going to miss the whole thing
9th comment!
story 3?: if my feeling is right, the wife in the baseballstory is probebly neurodivergend (most likeky adhd) and could probebly be barely able to plan time. And even if not, the comments about that a adult woman should be able to plan the time, are ableist as hell
to story 5: no an open relationship is not cheating with permission, what she did was cheating, not because it was an open relationship. but because she broke the rules they had set for that relationship. the blank condemnation of open relationships and polyamory because it was not for him, is wrong. here is to say that it sounds like it wasn't thourd thru how that would work and on top her disregarding of the rules anyway that caused this.
at last, it sounds that he realy needs therapeutic help.
YOOOO Narrator, i am sorry but if you are hibitual time sucker, then at some point enough is enough. Say something i reckon but OP is not the scum.
story 2 is quite literally unacceptable. time blindness is actually an issue for adults, and OP literally knew. just leaving too!? quite literally just a shitty move. the wife should probably find someone new if its that bad.
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Time blindness isn't an excuse, you can set alarms. I understand time blindness makes things more difficult but you have to accommodate that yourself, not expect everyone around you to accommodate that. It's a reoccuring issue. There's an easy solution to set alarms. I always set alarms to provide enough time for me to be ready and not be late. Sometimes I have 3 set alarms a day to ensure I'm not late.
White knight
Yeah, if she hasn't already been diagnosed with adhd or similar, she needs to. And if Hubby is unwilling to work with her, like making sure she's getting ready at 5:30 instead of just watching her literally forget about time... nah. And the fact that he refers to her being like a child bc she's time blind? That's too much, man. You obviously don't care enough and maybe you're better off seperate. Or maybe get some counseling, the both of you. 🙄
@@StrangerMoontail He's definitely too far by calling her a child for it but she also needs to recognize that she has an issue and it's one she has to manage herself by setting alarms. There is an easy solution. She shouldn't expect everyone around her to accomodate her. OP shouldn't insult her for it though.
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