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My friend, in the dog story, the husband is lonely because she's almost never home, she found excuses to why not have a dog for over a year and yet did not come home earlier, they moved to a new state, where he had no friends, no family... ofc he wanted that dog, he's absolutely lonely. I think OP was the inconsiderate one in that story, not the husband, the husband just broke and couldn't handle being alone constantly.
The dog story, they moved to a new state for her job, he has no friends, no family and she spends 60+ hours a week at work, making him spend most his time alone, it was already over a year, she's found any and every excuse, she knew how important it was for years yet never tried to see it from his point of view.
Has anyone else noticed that if it's a story about a wife and husband and the story is coming from the wife's point of view the husband always seems to be "the jerk"
Me: “You can pick up your complimentary gift box at customer service.” Karen: “Ugh, there’s always a line there! Why should I have to wait in line like everyone else!?” Me: 📞 “Hello, customer service? I’m sending down a very special customer! Clear a path!” Karen: “That’s more like it!” **leaves** Me: 📞”Okay, now lock up the supply cabinet holding the gift boxes, shut your little window, and go out to lunch before she gets there!” **hangs up** 😈
Story 2: the wife is gaslighting the husband she left out the parts where they’ve moved cities where the husband has no friends/family and she works 60+ hours a week where he’s always alone, not to mention she pretty much rented the apartment instead of a house to not have enough room for any dog.
Story 2: I feel like pets should be a convo before marriage. Because obviously dogs are something he wanted from the beginning. And OP didn't want a dog.
I agree as long as the pet wasnt there first. If Jerry has a pet and Jordan wants to marry Jerry, but doesn't want a pet, then Jordan will just have to find someone else as a pet is not a discussion when the pet was there first. If Jerry doesn't have a pet and wants one, but Jordan doesn't want one, then Jerry would just have to accept it or leave.
@@viviennemorgan7217I was agreeing with the above comment. If OP and her husband aren't ready to have a dog, then the Husband shouldn't have got one. If OPs husband has the dog before he met OP, then that would be a different story.
Story 1: I've said these 4 words before and i'll say them again... "Right To Refuse Service!". I know that all disabilities are different and not all are visible, but i think she was full of crap here and used it as a pathetic way to try and ether get sympathy or try and get the OP to do more for her. Not just that, but they had her on camera the entire time with no difficulties, walking just fine, standing around and being a complete bag. Stupidity isn't a disability. At least corporate and the other staff and managers were on the OP's side here, otherwise things could've been ugly. Screw that Karen! People like that go out in public solely to be jerks. Story 2: If the husband legit had a need for an emotional support dog, then i would say 'too bad, so sad' to the OP, but it really sounds like that isnt the case at all here, the husband just really really wants a doberman at all costs. I dont blame the OP for wanting to divorce the husband here... and i'm a dog lover too. Story 3: If you look up "drama queen" in the dictionary, you'd find a picture of the MIL here. She is a complete drama queen and a jerk here. Her comments on everything towards the OP were bad enough, but then to demand that she pay for the entire meal is just beyond wrong. Also, i sling mud at the other in-laws too for sending the OP things about what can cause excessive eating. That is just so wrong and totally inappropriate. Story 4: That customer was a complete moron. Why would you not want advice on where to get something cheaper? Unless you really really want to patronize that particular store, i would've thanked the OP for the advice on where to get it cheaper. Story 5: Your "friend" is a complete jerk, back-stabber and drama lover. I would want absolutely nothing to do against her, either personally or professionally. The OP got Sarah this job... and this is what Sarah does??? Screw her!!!
But i do feel the same way about cats. If any of my boyfriends said they didn't want a cat, or hated cats, I knew it wasn't going to work out. The husband knew her stance on dogs and ignored it. That's the problem. I don't like dogs either.
@@samalvarez8776 I agree with you. I personally would have gone with a mini pincher or chihuahua given the size of the apartment. Unless there was a really big dog park nearby (preferably within walking distance) I was able to take it out there everyday for at least an hour each day.
Story 2: If he has no experience caring for or training a dog a doberman is not a good choice. They need an experienced owner plus lots of room and a LOT of exercise because they are very energetic dogs.
@MrHinishiokami Just better to a start with an easier dog. My brother trains rotties and doberman butn he has over 40 years experience of correcting the behaviour of inexperienced owners dogs.
I feel like the wife was being a bit controlling by not letting him get a dog. And the fact that it’s been an entire year and although they still live in a apartment, the wife should of been understanding since it’s already been a year. And now she wants a divorce because of that?!?! That sounds completely insane. The husband may have been a bit in the wrong, but there is no way the wife can tell the husband when to get a dog. If he takes care of it, I don’t see the problem. It’s not like the op is allergic to dogs. Both are jerks.
@@aryanbharucha1406You are actually stupid. If the person you're married to is scared of big dogs, then getting a fucking Doberman is about the last thing you do. You're supposed to respect the person you're married to and not make choices that expose them to their fear. This is not something ridiculous like the wife telling the husband he can't buy clothes or snacks for himself, he is making a selfish decision that'll make his wife uncomfortable for years. So yes, the wife is completely in the right for considering a divorce if the husband goes through with this.
As much as I think it’s ridiculous to be scared of just big dogs and not all dogs. It’s a two person decision if you are married and live with someone.
One day I was working in a computer manufacturing company. Three co-Workers and and I were assigned to work in the back area. We were Three guys and a woman. Every single one of us were talking about complaints we had about the company and even made some jokes about the company. I only made one joke and the two guys laughed. A few days later I was called into the office and they lectured me about the joke I made. "Karen" had told on me, and made it seem like I was the only one that said something like that.
That first story is why I say self checkouts are the future. No more going apeshite over not having enough people on cashier duty, and if a Karen demands something she can’t belittle the machine, just the person overseeing the area
As a former cashier at a place with self checkout options, trust me. Karens rage at the machines too. And they demand help for the simplest, easiest to figure out shit.
Self checkout is only going to work for me if I'm being paid by the store to use it. It's a pain in the ass to use. That said, I've worked in retail and know better than to be a Karen to retail workers.
I work at a grocery store and I can tell you, at least in my area, that people prefer to be rung up by a human. Also certain functions can only be done at a reg or the service desk anyway so, they like to have at least one lane open for just those things if any.
In the story with Lady wanting a divorce over her husband getting a dog is ridiculous. Just cuz he doesn't have a history of mental illness that she knows, doesn't mean he currently isn't dealing with something. Besides she works 60 hours a week so she is barely there. At least this way with the puppy the husband can build an intimate relationship with it instead of another woman. I think that lady is insane.
story 2 fells like another one of those you should have talk about it first things or know you were going to be with a person who loves dogs if you dont like dogs dont be with someone who does cause it might not work out
story 1: Even if Karen had a non-obvious disability, that does not give you the right to act like an idiot. Please, Karen, tell me what ADA rights they were denying you? Because some of us actually appreciate the people who make the effort to provide what we need.
Second story about the dog: are people really forgetting that the wife despite her fears of big dogs (which is reasonable fear because big dogs can kill you) agree to let her husband get a dog and made a deal with him that once they move out of their tiny apartment that is so small for dooberman dog ( those dogs are huge) to a house with backyard so the dog will have more space?
EXACTLY MY POINT LMAO, IVE SEEN SO MANY IDIOTS COMMENT THAT “oh the husband is a neglecting and crappy partner” LIKE BRO YOU LITERALLY PROMISED HIM YOU CAN GET ONE AFTER MOVING, people are so dumb ISTGGG
Story 1: First thing I want to say is that no, the customer isn't always right. Pretty sure they're not ever right, actually, since a lot of them are stupid (and by that I mean they don't use their five senses). I say this because I work in retail right now and what the karen said about giving the shift manager $40 so he can ring them up later and the fact that she didn't want to wait in line reminded me of what happened to me recently. I was finishing ringing up a woman and a man comes up, holds up a product, and then tosses money on the conveyor belt. like, I'm sorry, what? that's not how this works. he also underpaid, he was a dollar short!
I think the husband and the dog story is partially right. She may have a fear of big dogs but immersion therapy is actually something that really does work especially if it's a little puppy and you're watching it grow. It's not like she just came home one day and there's a Saint Bernard sitting on her couch. But I do agree that the husband was wrong for going out and inquiring about and bringing home the dog in the first place
For the large dog Doberman story, That's actually the breed I want, I also live in an apartment currently and I feel this is cruel to large breed dogs especially active ones like a Dobermans, I think it's messed up for the husband to get this kind of dog while they're still living in apartment let alone everything else he did
Yea but he basically lives by himself in a new state for year while the op is almost never home wouldn’t you be lonely also if she is almost never there she won’t have to interact with
@@christianpiedras8980 not really an excuse, they agreed in the begining to wait till they had a house to even think about getting a dog, and when you are togeather with someone you make choices togeather. He lied to her and got this dog anyway
@@Cyrus_Nagisabet let me just isolate you for entire year away from friends and family while your wife works and stays away from home majority of the time the see how you like it.
@@Cyrus_Nagisaa holes like you are the reason why men are depressed and killing themselves. Nobody ever cares about a mans feeling everybody just cares about the woman's feeling.
Last story: it's time to start looking for a new job ( If op can't change teams or something like that). I'm a strong believer of good working environment and working with her after that will be practically impossible. She is clearly for some reason trying to push op out from that company. Maybe to raise her own status in that company or maybe for some other reason, but what ever reason that is, it might be the only way for op to protect herself and not work with her, is simply to leave and find a new job. Especially if you are working in small work field, you can't let anyone to do damage to your reputation, something like that will inevitably effect your career. I personally have changed a workplace because of something like that. Don't EVER let anyone to damage your reputation in your field. Always defend your reputation and attack back if needed, but if that doesn't help, simply leave and find people who actually respect you.
Not to take away from what you said, because at face value I 100% agree, but there is a part of me that suspects that a similar talk should be directed at the friends and coworkers of OP. I don't know about you but anyone who would not only dismiss but actively entertain and make excuses for a person who openly bashes everyone, even their own spouse to others just because at some level has to be on the same wavelength. OP literally didn't care about any of it and enabled this behaviour until it was her on the chopping block, then she decided to get all offended.
@@umbranassassin8372 Yes, maybe she is partly culprit by making herself part of that woman's toxic world. And now she have to pay for it. People should be more careful what kind of people they take as their friend.
@@viviennemorgan7217 Training is an asset when it comes to any dog. Dogs aren't bad if they're trained. If they're abused, neglected, or untrained, they're going to do the wrong things.
🌟if you can stand for 45 minutes with groceries in your hand you do not have the kind of disability that would prevent you from standing in a line of 3 people🌟
story 2: Yes, husband crossed a line but OP is being a selfish jerk too. First, you don't need to have a 'mental illness' to need an emotional support pet. OP already admitted they work so much that their husband spends most of his time alone. Maybe OP should look at the lack of emotional support they're providing. And husband never once made a secret of wanting a dog while OP uses excuses to drag their feet and not even bother trying to offer suggestions for a smaller breed. And you being afraid of 'big dogs' is a whole lotta your problem to get therapy for when you're gonna just turn around and blame your partner for wanting the companion you're not being.
how is she being selfish when she agree and made a deal with him that he can get a dog when they move out of their tiny apartment underline tiny apartment that btw it is too small to hold a dooberman dog when they get bigger and move to a house that will have backyard to have enough space for the dog? If anything the husband is selfish for not respecting his partner's wishes.
@@rosequartz9197 but the op could have tried to get a smaller breed or go to therepy since it seems that her husbend might need sameone/thing to be with during the day
Second story OPs husband dodged a bullet with that wife. Doesn't like big dogs, doesn't even like animals much, kick her to the curb. Long boring ass life was all that awaited him
You don’t get between a man and his dog first of all they’re called man’s best friend for a reason second of all dogs are incredibly loyal and it’s long as you treat them like a treat any other person he will not hurt you
Anyone who complains about "im afraid of x breed of dog" looses any sympathy from me. Although getting a dobberman in an appartment is an incredibly stupid idea
Puppy problems. You've never apologized for your attitude. You haven't considered him yet You are the victim. You are obviously not willing to take responsibility for your actions, and threaten divorce. Petty!!!
Story 2: I completely disagree. She is over reacting. She already said she works 60 hrs a week. And having it as a puppy will help with the “big dog problem.” They should have had this conversation prior to marriage. But she needs to think about his needs. And he did wait for a year. A small apartment would have been better, true. But that’s what dog parks are for.
People who disagree with OP from story 2 are absolute morons. Imagine you're scared of spiders and your lover decides to bring a pet tarantula into your home without your approval. How would that make you feel?
Sure, you might think so, but she said it's okey if they ever moved to a bigger home, giving him the sense that is would be okay to get a dog one day the hope to get a dog one day, If she never wanted a dog she should have said no never get a dog ever no matter what. don't give a dude false hope.
Well the thing is he brought home a puppy. Not a big “scary” dog a puppy it’s not a massive dog I mean it will get big but it’s not and won’t be that big for a while. And by the time it is that big she will have stopped caring about that fear at least for the husbands dog as it’s not fair to call it their dog
Omg story2. They 6y into the marriage right? The wife knew he always wanted a dog. And always said wait for it. If the lease is up then what? They magically can rent a house or buy it? And divorce because of it?
I don't know if this story's going to make a video or not. But I'm putting it out because I've had time to sleep on it. I know I posted one story that didn't get any attention. But I wasn't trying to. I just thought I shared a story before. I was kinda hoping it would. But it was straight to the point. It was about my youngest sister. Now this one's not just about both sisters. It's also about my parents too. Weather anyone could relate to this or not is entirely up to them. But I would want this to be in a video later down the road maybe. So I live with my mother and stepfather. I'm a 28 year old man and I have a disability. For personal reasons, I don't want to reveal what it is because I was born with it. So here's the story. It all started over ten years ago. So I was working minimum wage, getting paid 7 dollars an hour, and around January 10th 2013 my birthday, I had just turned 18. My mother was supposed to get me my disability. For the longest time, I waited for her to get it done and get that out of the way. So she just sets everything up and nowadays with the economy in the state that it's in, it's practically impossible to get my Disability now. One of my Sisters at this time ended up pregnant with a baby girl and my mother did everything she could to help her raise the kid. She currently has two Girls going on. Despite the fact that I've helped her out many times, I wanted my mother to shift her focus back on me since my mother still owed me my Disability and my life. At the time, I wanted to live a very Lucius life. Out of my current State. However over the years, my hopes and dreams have slowly been crushed because of this. It got to the point to where I don't even want my disability anymore. The first time I realized I had enough was my first attempt to run away. While everything wasn't planned properly, I figured they get the message that they need to permanently fix this that my Sister has no influence in their life or I would be out telling them to go F**k themselves. After they found me brought me back home, they're worried I'm going to do the same thing and believe it or not, I'm considering my options. Yesterday I had a talk with them and I still don't feel happy. Each time I'm around my family, I want nothing to do with them. I informed them that today was supposed to be my day I got an ID in a long time. They know I have plans. But they don't want me to put them into action. Right now, I am pissed at them because the day that was supposed to be my day to get my ID, they wanted to bring my nieces which is fine. I had no problem with this. But on the day I was supposed to get my ID, my mother the night before wanted to invite my sister and her daughters to the pool. This is the last thing I wanted. What I really want to say to my mother right now is I don't ever want to see your GD face again. I'd say it if I could. Right now, she's the only one paying the bills. That wouldn't be the case if she had focused on me. And now that I want nothing to do with her or my family, I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I want to distance myself from my family. But I don't know what to do. I'm opened to anyone's advice and suggestions.
I think the woman with the dog problem is overreacting. They moved states. The woman is always working. Probably no friends or family nearby. It sounds like the man is very lonely and the wife doesn't seem to get that. Most men in this situation would turn to cheating, but all this guy wants is a dog. Give the guy a break. She even brought up divorce. Over a dog. Dont sound like she is much of a keeper anyways.
I dont feel bad for the last person because they were friends with someone who they knew talked shit about everyone around her so irs kinda the ops fault for assuming that they were different
Story #2 - another case of the narrator refusing to see things from any other perspective. Let's just forget about the fact the husband moved for the wife who works 60+ hours a week, so it's pretty unreasonable to think the husband's companionship should be limited to a flippin' goldfish. I think the wife is being unreasonable with her blanket denial and her refusal to even consider the husband's situation and feelings, but yeah, sure....the husband is the one who's considering only their own feelings. IMO, it would be a different story if the wife gave the husband/dog a couple of months, and it was apparent the husband wasn't training or taking care of the dog, or if the dog was really aggressive and destroying property while constantly invading o/p's personal space, but it's been 2 days. Why not just give the husband a chance? You know...like the husband did for the wife when he moved to a different state to wait around while the wife worked long hours.
You are missing the point where she did agree for him to get the dog, but he needed to wait until they move to a house because remember they live in a tiny apartment (too small for the kind of the dog the husband wants) to move into a house with a backyard so the dog will have enough space.
Story 2 - Yes, you are overreacting. Waiting is just an excuse not to get one and hope he forgets about it by then. Story 3 - F what she wants. She has absolutely NO SAY in what YOU eat. You can eat whatever you want and your MIL can STFU about it and mind her own business. What she thinks doesn't matter and wether your BIL and FIL are uncomfortable or not is 100% irrelevant.
Dump the dude let him keep the dog and they can be happy together. He doesn't respect you and it will only get worse. I love Rottweilers and can't wait to get them again. But my Fiancé and I have waited almost 10 years and will continue to do so till it can be right for ALL of us (dog included).
I think you are a jerk in story 2 and honestly he's right if he wants a dog he can get one. That's what training is for... Yeah he could've waited but I definitely feel like your overreacting
Story 2: OP is the AH. Unwilling to discuss or consider the husband's feelings on having a dog at all. Could he have gotten a smaller dog? Most likely but she was determined not to have a dog at all. Always an excuse about why not. She already admitted her husband is home alone a lot. How would she know if he needs a support animal or not? He can do better.
I disagree, I think the lady that scared of the big dogs needs to just take a chill pill. Her feelings matter but his matters as well. And if she's gone 60% of the time then whatever he needs somebody to be there with him at least he's not cheating on her.
Honestly love this stories but can’t stand this guys opinions. Story 2 is a perfect example, the husband waited and wait but it sounds like the wife was using a stall until you forget tactic and then was upset when he considered his own well being finally. The wife is barely home and the guy is looking for a dog not another wife. Both wife and the narrator are the jerks here
Story 1: It would've been quicker if the customer service person just rang the customer up instead of arguing for an hour. Story 2: Husband was within his rights to get a dog, wife accused him of being self serving but it was she who was self serving and over reacting. Between dog and wife, I'd choose the dog.
They live in an apartment. The dog will get too big and become destructive. She asked him to wait until they got a home with a yard. He is the a. He bought a dog without talking to her. She will also be responsible for the animal so it’s wrong of him to force her.
@@gtdc4685 What a question, I've had dogs all my life. From Sheppard's to Newfies, Labs, golden retrievers, Pomeranians now a chihuahua. Pincers aren't that big.
The dog story. I really think that the wife has a really good reason to be quite upset with her husband. Now yes they did move to a new state and her husband doesn't have the support of family. Now I respect the fact that he wanted a dog. What I have a major issue with is that he brought back a dog after a trip knowing full well that his wife is afraid. And sure he is a grown man but he is also a husband.They are suppose to make joint decisions, which he didn't do. The wife never said that they couldn't get a dog. She said that they don't have space for a dog and not a breed that she is afraid of. I believe that the wife isn't the jerk and needs to step away from the marriage. I am not saying that they should get divorced. I believe that a temporary separation is needed. The husband really needs to sit and think about his actions and why his wife is upset. I feel he picked a breed of dog that his wife is afraid of just to spite her. Him claiming to be a grown man doing what he wants is BS because he isn't acting like one. It seems that the husband didn't even bother reading the letter the wife left for him about the dog. And didn't she say that they were allowed to have a dog in the apartment they currently live in? If so, why would he risk eviction by bring home a dog? I really hope the OP is able to work this out with her husband.
10:15 I’m with the husband because he needs the dog for an emotional support. Plus he’s possibly right about if you see it grow up you won’t be afraid of it. Also I kind of find both parties a little selfish cuts you both said you opinions. Lately op you should re consider you fission on getting a divorce.
The cashier was very lucky that store could have got sued because of that. Just for them saying that if she don't have no visible disability does not mean nothing not all disabilities are visible. And just that quote alone could have got that store sued very badly. Truthfully I would have.
Her attitude was disgusting, however, they should have had 1 fast lane opened. It helps the move. I was a cashier and if you came to my fast lane with more than 20. I made you leave. You ain’t special
Story 2 I have mixed feelings about that one is he the jerk for getting the dog anyway yeah sure but the wife is also a jerk in my opinion she never would have allowed him to get the dog he wants, and saying well until they got a bigger home they already moved once and they did not get into a bigger home, I think she would do anything to avoid having to get a dog at all, that is what I felt from this story.
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My friend, in the dog story, the husband is lonely because she's almost never home, she found excuses to why not have a dog for over a year and yet did not come home earlier, they moved to a new state, where he had no friends, no family... ofc he wanted that dog, he's absolutely lonely. I think OP was the inconsiderate one in that story, not the husband, the husband just broke and couldn't handle being alone constantly.
The dog story, they moved to a new state for her job, he has no friends, no family and she spends 60+ hours a week at work, making him spend most his time alone, it was already over a year, she's found any and every excuse, she knew how important it was for years yet never tried to see it from his point of view.
She sounds miserable and controlling
Yeah the narrator conveniently left that part out of the story, dude just wants a dog and wife is being a bword by not letting him.
She’s neglecting his needs. He needs a companion. She should be grateful he got a dog instead of a mistress.
Has anyone else noticed that if it's a story about a wife and husband and the story is coming from the wife's point of view the husband always seems to be "the jerk"
@@jameswalker30 literally every time a girl is involved the narrator has a bad take
Me: “You can pick up your complimentary gift box at customer service.”
Karen: “Ugh, there’s always a line there! Why should I have to wait in line like everyone else!?”
Me: 📞 “Hello, customer service? I’m sending down a very special customer! Clear a path!”
Karen: “That’s more like it!” **leaves**
Me: 📞”Okay, now lock up the supply cabinet holding the gift boxes, shut your little window, and go out to lunch before she gets there!” **hangs up** 😈
Story 2: the wife is gaslighting the husband she left out the parts where they’ve moved cities where the husband has no friends/family and she works 60+ hours a week where he’s always alone, not to mention she pretty much rented the apartment instead of a house to not have enough room for any dog.
Story 2: I feel like pets should be a convo before marriage. Because obviously dogs are something he wanted from the beginning. And OP didn't want a dog.
I agree as long as the pet wasnt there first. If Jerry has a pet and Jordan wants to marry Jerry, but doesn't want a pet, then Jordan will just have to find someone else as a pet is not a discussion when the pet was there first.
If Jerry doesn't have a pet and wants one, but Jordan doesn't want one, then Jerry would just have to accept it or leave.
@@colbylawson5331 what are you talking about?
@@viviennemorgan7217I was agreeing with the above comment. If OP and her husband aren't ready to have a dog, then the Husband shouldn't have got one.
If OPs husband has the dog before he met OP, then that would be a different story.
@@viviennemorgan7217 exactly what said. if the animal was there first, they get priority.
@@colbylawson5331 yeah and the husband should have waited until op and him move out.
ITs people like the the one in the first story that make it harder for those of us that are actually disabled
Story 1: I've said these 4 words before and i'll say them again... "Right To Refuse Service!". I know that all disabilities are different and not all are visible, but i think she was full of crap here and used it as a pathetic way to try and ether get sympathy or try and get the OP to do more for her. Not just that, but they had her on camera the entire time with no difficulties, walking just fine, standing around and being a complete bag. Stupidity isn't a disability. At least corporate and the other staff and managers were on the OP's side here, otherwise things could've been ugly. Screw that Karen! People like that go out in public solely to be jerks.
Story 2: If the husband legit had a need for an emotional support dog, then i would say 'too bad, so sad' to the OP, but it really sounds like that isnt the case at all here, the husband just really really wants a doberman at all costs. I dont blame the OP for wanting to divorce the husband here... and i'm a dog lover too.
Story 3: If you look up "drama queen" in the dictionary, you'd find a picture of the MIL here. She is a complete drama queen and a jerk here. Her comments on everything towards the OP were bad enough, but then to demand that she pay for the entire meal is just beyond wrong. Also, i sling mud at the other in-laws too for sending the OP things about what can cause excessive eating. That is just so wrong and totally inappropriate.
Story 4: That customer was a complete moron. Why would you not want advice on where to get something cheaper? Unless you really really want to patronize that particular store, i would've thanked the OP for the advice on where to get it cheaper.
Story 5: Your "friend" is a complete jerk, back-stabber and drama lover. I would want absolutely nothing to do against her, either personally or professionally. The OP got Sarah this job... and this is what Sarah does??? Screw her!!!
Second story- Don't make a guy choose between you and their dog. The dog wins most of the time. At least it would for me. LOL
Having a dog that big in apartments is almost animal abuse.
But i do feel the same way about cats. If any of my boyfriends said they didn't want a cat, or hated cats, I knew it wasn't going to work out. The husband knew her stance on dogs and ignored it. That's the problem. I don't like dogs either.
@@samalvarez8776 I agree with you. I personally would have gone with a mini pincher or chihuahua given the size of the apartment. Unless there was a really big dog park nearby (preferably within walking distance) I was able to take it out there everyday for at least an hour each day.
She sounds miserable and controlling
@@howler6896you're missing the big key opponent here it would have been his dog not her or their dog but his dog
Story 2: If he has no experience caring for or training a dog a doberman is not a good choice. They need an experienced owner plus lots of room and a LOT of exercise because they are very energetic dogs.
You gain experience by doin. Can't learn if you don't do.
@MrHinishiokami Just better to a start with an easier dog. My brother trains rotties and doberman butn he has over 40 years experience of correcting the behaviour of inexperienced owners dogs.
I feel like the wife was being a bit controlling by not letting him get a dog. And the fact that it’s been an entire year and although they still live in a apartment, the wife should of been understanding since it’s already been a year. And now she wants a divorce because of that?!?! That sounds completely insane. The husband may have been a bit in the wrong, but there is no way the wife can tell the husband when to get a dog. If he takes care of it, I don’t see the problem. It’s not like the op is allergic to dogs. Both are jerks.
@@aryanbharucha1406You are actually stupid. If the person you're married to is scared of big dogs, then getting a fucking Doberman is about the last thing you do. You're supposed to respect the person you're married to and not make choices that expose them to their fear. This is not something ridiculous like the wife telling the husband he can't buy clothes or snacks for himself, he is making a selfish decision that'll make his wife uncomfortable for years. So yes, the wife is completely in the right for considering a divorce if the husband goes through with this.
@@MrHinishiokami he has expirence because he had that kind if dog before and his parents could help him trian the dog if he cant.
Second story did the husband not know how big Dobermans are. They’re not really apartment dogs more like big house/yard
Mini Doberman exists. My mom had one. Her name was Angel.
As much as I think it’s ridiculous to be scared of just big dogs and not all dogs. It’s a two person decision if you are married and live with someone.
One day I was working in a computer manufacturing company. Three co-Workers and and I were assigned to work in the back area. We were Three guys and a woman. Every single one of us were talking about complaints we had about the company and even made some jokes about the company. I only made one joke and the two guys laughed. A few days later I was called into the office and they lectured me about the joke I made. "Karen" had told on me, and made it seem like I was the only one that said something like that.
That first story is why I say self checkouts are the future. No more going apeshite over not having enough people on cashier duty, and if a Karen demands something she can’t belittle the machine, just the person overseeing the area
As a former cashier at a place with self checkout options, trust me. Karens rage at the machines too. And they demand help for the simplest, easiest to figure out shit.
@@MsAngelique I heard people swear at the machines too
Self checkout is only going to work for me if I'm being paid by the store to use it. It's a pain in the ass to use. That said, I've worked in retail and know better than to be a Karen to retail workers.
I work at a grocery store and I can tell you, at least in my area, that people prefer to be rung up by a human. Also certain functions can only be done at a reg or the service desk anyway so, they like to have at least one lane open for just those things if any.
In the story with Lady wanting a divorce over her husband getting a dog is ridiculous. Just cuz he doesn't have a history of mental illness that she knows, doesn't mean he currently isn't dealing with something. Besides she works 60 hours a week so she is barely there. At least this way with the puppy the husband can build an intimate relationship with it instead of another woman. I think that lady is insane.
She sounds miserable and controlling
That's what I'm saying
Story 1: the store is trying to keep up so be patient egotistical wicker...
Plus Karen would have taken less time to get her shopping done if she checked her ego at the door.
My ex wanted me to get rid of my dog, and i told her id get rid of her first! Fast forward to the future and my dog i are happier than ever!
Wife is right a Doberman is a unit of a dog and needs a lot of space
story 2 fells like another one of those you should have talk about it first things or know you were going to be with a person who loves dogs if you dont like dogs dont be with someone who does cause it might not work out
op did talk with her husband and her husband went behind her back.
Wow Sarah you are just a drama queen and now you screwed up your work life. And I don't blame you for giving her the cold shoulder at work.
story 1: Even if Karen had a non-obvious disability, that does not give you the right to act like an idiot. Please, Karen, tell me what ADA rights they were denying you? Because some of us actually appreciate the people who make the effort to provide what we need.
Mil is just jealous that you can eat and stay thin!!
There's nothing else to it. Petty jealousy
Second story about the dog: are people really forgetting that the wife despite her fears of big dogs (which is reasonable fear because big dogs can kill you) agree to let her husband get a dog and made a deal with him that once they move out of their tiny apartment that is so small for dooberman dog ( those dogs are huge) to a house with backyard so the dog will have more space?
EXACTLY MY POINT LMAO, IVE SEEN SO MANY IDIOTS COMMENT THAT “oh the husband is a neglecting and crappy partner” LIKE BRO YOU LITERALLY PROMISED HIM YOU CAN GET ONE AFTER MOVING, people are so dumb ISTGGG
Story 1: First thing I want to say is that no, the customer isn't always right. Pretty sure they're not ever right, actually, since a lot of them are stupid (and by that I mean they don't use their five senses). I say this because I work in retail right now and what the karen said about giving the shift manager $40 so he can ring them up later and the fact that she didn't want to wait in line reminded me of what happened to me recently. I was finishing ringing up a woman and a man comes up, holds up a product, and then tosses money on the conveyor belt. like, I'm sorry, what? that's not how this works. he also underpaid, he was a dollar short!
I think the husband and the dog story is partially right. She may have a fear of big dogs but immersion therapy is actually something that really does work especially if it's a little puppy and you're watching it grow. It's not like she just came home one day and there's a Saint Bernard sitting on her couch. But I do agree that the husband was wrong for going out and inquiring about and bringing home the dog in the first place
For the large dog Doberman story, That's actually the breed I want, I also live in an apartment currently and I feel this is cruel to large breed dogs especially active ones like a Dobermans, I think it's messed up for the husband to get this kind of dog while they're still living in apartment let alone everything else he did
Second story, guy is being selfish, and ignored all the feelings of the OP, not only that butblied several times.
Yea but he basically lives by himself in a new state for year while the op is almost never home wouldn’t you be lonely also if she is almost never there she won’t have to interact with
@@christianpiedras8980 not really an excuse, they agreed in the begining to wait till they had a house to even think about getting a dog, and when you are togeather with someone you make choices togeather.
He lied to her and got this dog anyway
@@Cyrus_Nagisabet let me just isolate you for entire year away from friends and family while your wife works and stays away from home majority of the time the see how you like it.
@@Cyrus_Nagisaa holes like you are the reason why men are depressed and killing themselves. Nobody ever cares about a mans feeling everybody just cares about the woman's feeling.
@@AnimeGamer501st that is not what is going on here, but go off I guess
Last story: it's time to start looking for a new job ( If op can't change teams or something like that). I'm a strong believer of good working environment and working with her after that will be practically impossible. She is clearly for some reason trying to push op out from that company. Maybe to raise her own status in that company or maybe for some other reason, but what ever reason that is, it might be the only way for op to protect herself and not work with her, is simply to leave and find a new job. Especially if you are working in small work field, you can't let anyone to do damage to your reputation, something like that will inevitably effect your career.
I personally have changed a workplace because of something like that. Don't EVER let anyone to damage your reputation in your field. Always defend your reputation and attack back if needed, but if that doesn't help, simply leave and find people who actually respect you.
Not to take away from what you said, because at face value I 100% agree, but there is a part of me that suspects that a similar talk should be directed at the friends and coworkers of OP. I don't know about you but anyone who would not only dismiss but actively entertain and make excuses for a person who openly bashes everyone, even their own spouse to others just because at some level has to be on the same wavelength. OP literally didn't care about any of it and enabled this behaviour until it was her on the chopping block, then she decided to get all offended.
@@umbranassassin8372 Yes, maybe she is partly culprit by making herself part of that woman's toxic world. And now she have to pay for it. People should be more careful what kind of people they take as their friend.
If you’re afraid of animals or not an animal person THAT is a HUGE red flag
But she's not afraid of animals, just big dogs which I get. There's trauma and also they are massive
@@naomijohnson9071Unless the dogs are dangerous or untrained, there's no reason to be afraid of dogs. Humans are a lot more scarier.
pitballs exist
@@viviennemorgan7217 Training is an asset when it comes to any dog. Dogs aren't bad if they're trained. If they're abused, neglected, or untrained, they're going to do the wrong things.
I guess you dont understand how fear works.
Oh, and claiming behaviours out of a person's contol is an actuall red flag
Story 2: His Dog, His Choice
🌟if you can stand for 45 minutes with groceries in your hand you do not have the kind of disability that would prevent you from standing in a line of 3 people🌟
Puppy....
Ya, waaa. Get over it lady.
You played a game to I love that game I have on my Nintendo.
How 9 days ago???
If she's going to throw you under the bus as it were
Story 2: you want a divorce for a dog? Unbelievable to me.
Oh the audacity.
story 2: Yes, husband crossed a line but OP is being a selfish jerk too. First, you don't need to have a 'mental illness' to need an emotional support pet. OP already admitted they work so much that their husband spends most of his time alone. Maybe OP should look at the lack of emotional support they're providing. And husband never once made a secret of wanting a dog while OP uses excuses to drag their feet and not even bother trying to offer suggestions for a smaller breed. And you being afraid of 'big dogs' is a whole lotta your problem to get therapy for when you're gonna just turn around and blame your partner for wanting the companion you're not being.
how is she being selfish when she agree and made a deal with him that he can get a dog when they move out of their tiny apartment underline tiny apartment that btw it is too small to hold a dooberman dog when they get bigger and move to a house that will have backyard to have enough space for the dog? If anything the husband is selfish for not respecting his partner's wishes.
@@rosequartz9197 but the op could have tried to get a smaller breed or go to therepy since it seems that her husbend might need sameone/thing to be with during the day
@@gabrielepuglisi5532 u mean the husband could have tried a smaller breed or go to therapy? Either way it doesn’t matter he broke their agreement.
Story 2 i think she would have never let him get the dog
Story 1. If you're so "disabled," then why were you standing at the service desk for 45 minutes?
Does anyone else get anxiety watching the gameplay in the back and how they repeat the same mistake over and over?
Why do people like that?
could someone tell me what a "Bagger" and "Runner" is?
Second story OPs husband dodged a bullet with that wife. Doesn't like big dogs, doesn't even like animals much, kick her to the curb. Long boring ass life was all that awaited him
I want to know if dog can be a bother
Are you mean why are they like that?
Hi:D
Story 2 you should divorce and find someone who values your feelings what ops husband did was unacceptable
bro 2 nd is almost same as me i too afraid dogs but even small ones which barks at me
You don’t get between a man and his dog first of all they’re called man’s best friend for a reason second of all dogs are incredibly loyal and it’s long as you treat them like a treat any other person he will not hurt you
Or else I would get me fired is the title. What the
karen needs to stop because she's talking to a manager.
but i like op being a manager because there was a story about op being manager or supervisor.
Am I the jerk person
shes overreacting about the dog but the husband shouldnt of done that
Anyone who complains about "im afraid of x breed of dog" looses any sympathy from me. Although getting a dobberman in an appartment is an incredibly stupid idea
Story 2. Hey, mil, mind your own business and shut up
Puppy problems. You've never apologized for your attitude. You haven't considered him yet You are the victim. You are obviously not willing to take responsibility for your actions, and threaten divorce. Petty!!!
the way i see it, she finished the steak out of spite.
Story 2: I completely disagree. She is over reacting. She already said she works 60 hrs a week. And having it as a puppy will help with the “big dog problem.” They should have had this conversation prior to marriage. But she needs to think about his needs. And he did wait for a year. A small apartment would have been better, true. But that’s what dog parks are for.
Can you make a video with corner pugs, he makes videos like yours
10 min gang
What’s the game in the background?
People who disagree with OP from story 2 are absolute morons. Imagine you're scared of spiders and your lover decides to bring a pet tarantula into your home without your approval. How would that make you feel?
Sure, you might think so, but she said it's okey if they ever moved to a bigger home, giving him the sense that is would be okay to get a dog one day the hope to get a dog one day, If she never wanted a dog she should have said no never get a dog ever no matter what. don't give a dude false hope.
Well the thing is he brought home a puppy. Not a big “scary” dog a puppy it’s not a massive dog I mean it will get big but it’s not and won’t be that big for a while. And by the time it is that big she will have stopped caring about that fear at least for the husbands dog as it’s not fair to call it their dog
Who else wasn’t really listening and was watching the gameplay
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Pls tell what this game is cause it looks fun
ghostrunner.
@@viviennemorgan7217 thank you
@@celstad your welcome
Omg story2. They 6y into the marriage right? The wife knew he always wanted a dog. And always said wait for it. If the lease is up then what? They magically can rent a house or buy it? And divorce because of it?
I don't know if this story's going to make a video or not. But I'm putting it out because I've had time to sleep on it. I know I posted one story that didn't get any attention. But I wasn't trying to. I just thought I shared a story before. I was kinda hoping it would. But it was straight to the point. It was about my youngest sister. Now this one's not just about both sisters. It's also about my parents too. Weather anyone could relate to this or not is entirely up to them. But I would want this to be in a video later down the road maybe.
So I live with my mother and stepfather. I'm a 28 year old man and I have a disability. For personal reasons, I don't want to reveal what it is because I was born with it. So here's the story. It all started over ten years ago. So I was working minimum wage, getting paid 7 dollars an hour, and around January 10th 2013 my birthday, I had just turned 18. My mother was supposed to get me my disability. For the longest time, I waited for her to get it done and get that out of the way. So she just sets everything up and nowadays with the economy in the state that it's in, it's practically impossible to get my Disability now. One of my Sisters at this time ended up pregnant with a baby girl and my mother did everything she could to help her raise the kid. She currently has two Girls going on. Despite the fact that I've helped her out many times, I wanted my mother to shift her focus back on me since my mother still owed me my Disability and my life. At the time, I wanted to live a very Lucius life. Out of my current State. However over the years, my hopes and dreams have slowly been crushed because of this. It got to the point to where I don't even want my disability anymore. The first time I realized I had enough was my first attempt to run away. While everything wasn't planned properly, I figured they get the message that they need to permanently fix this that my Sister has no influence in their life or I would be out telling them to go F**k themselves. After they found me brought me back home, they're worried I'm going to do the same thing and believe it or not, I'm considering my options.
Yesterday I had a talk with them and I still don't feel happy. Each time I'm around my family, I want nothing to do with them. I informed them that today was supposed to be my day I got an ID in a long time. They know I have plans. But they don't want me to put them into action. Right now, I am pissed at them because the day that was supposed to be my day to get my ID, they wanted to bring my nieces which is fine. I had no problem with this. But on the day I was supposed to get my ID, my mother the night before wanted to invite my sister and her daughters to the pool. This is the last thing I wanted. What I really want to say to my mother right now is I don't ever want to see your GD face again. I'd say it if I could. Right now, she's the only one paying the bills. That wouldn't be the case if she had focused on me. And now that I want nothing to do with her or my family, I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I want to distance myself from my family. But I don't know what to do. I'm opened to anyone's advice and suggestions.
Guys everyone is talking about the stories but I kinda wanna know the name of the game he’s playing so can someone plz tell me
I think the woman with the dog problem is overreacting. They moved states. The woman is always working. Probably no friends or family nearby. It sounds like the man is very lonely and the wife doesn't seem to get that. Most men in this situation would turn to cheating, but all this guy wants is a dog. Give the guy a break. She even brought up divorce. Over a dog. Dont sound like she is much of a keeper anyways.
What a jerk. He just wanted the dog and didn't care about you or anything else. He's a selfish person and I don't blame you for wanting a divorce.
I dont feel bad for the last person because they were friends with someone who they knew talked shit about everyone around her so irs kinda the ops fault for assuming that they were different
What game is this?
Tanks
Story #2 - another case of the narrator refusing to see things from any other perspective. Let's just forget about the fact the husband moved for the wife who works 60+ hours a week, so it's pretty unreasonable to think the husband's companionship should be limited to a flippin' goldfish. I think the wife is being unreasonable with her blanket denial and her refusal to even consider the husband's situation and feelings, but yeah, sure....the husband is the one who's considering only their own feelings. IMO, it would be a different story if the wife gave the husband/dog a couple of months, and it was apparent the husband wasn't training or taking care of the dog, or if the dog was really aggressive and destroying property while constantly invading o/p's personal space, but it's been 2 days. Why not just give the husband a chance? You know...like the husband did for the wife when he moved to a different state to wait around while the wife worked long hours.
She sounds miserable and controlling
You are missing the point where she did agree for him to get the dog, but he needed to wait until they move to a house because remember they live in a tiny apartment (too small for the kind of the dog the husband wants) to move into a house with a backyard so the dog will have enough space.
Pls shout out next vid
whats the game?
Ghostrunner
You are not nice he has told youbl that and the husband is not the jerk
Story 2 - Yes, you are overreacting. Waiting is just an excuse not to get one and hope he forgets about it by then.
Story 3 - F what she wants. She has absolutely NO SAY in what YOU eat. You can eat whatever you want and your MIL can STFU about it and mind her own business. What she thinks doesn't matter and wether your BIL and FIL are uncomfortable or not is 100% irrelevant.
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Dump the dude let him keep the dog and they can be happy together. He doesn't respect you and it will only get worse. I love Rottweilers and can't wait to get them again. But my Fiancé and I have waited almost 10 years and will continue to do so till it can be right for ALL of us (dog included).
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Nazi go bye bye
i must rebuild communism in its true form
Da, i would like to rebuild the soviet onion
Njet.
Not without doping and vodka
Story 2 you are definitely being selfish girl
I think you are a jerk in story 2 and honestly he's right if he wants a dog he can get one. That's what training is for... Yeah he could've waited but I definitely feel like your overreacting
Story 2: OP is the AH. Unwilling to discuss or consider the husband's feelings on having a dog at all. Could he have gotten a smaller dog? Most likely but she was determined not to have a dog at all. Always an excuse about why not. She already admitted her husband is home alone a lot. How would she know if he needs a support animal or not? He can do better.
She sounds miserable and controlling
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I disagree, I think the lady that scared of the big dogs needs to just take a chill pill. Her feelings matter but his matters as well. And if she's gone 60% of the time then whatever he needs somebody to be there with him at least he's not cheating on her.
Honestly love this stories but can’t stand this guys opinions. Story 2 is a perfect example, the husband waited and wait but it sounds like the wife was using a stall until you forget tactic and then was upset when he considered his own well being finally. The wife is barely home and the guy is looking for a dog not another wife. Both wife and the narrator are the jerks here
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Story 1: It would've been quicker if the customer service person just rang the customer up instead of arguing for an hour. Story 2: Husband was within his rights to get a dog, wife accused him of being self serving but it was she who was self serving and over reacting. Between dog and wife, I'd choose the dog.
op wants to hold off and wait for a house of their own.
They live in an apartment. The dog will get too big and become destructive. She asked him to wait until they got a home with a yard. He is the a. He bought a dog without talking to her. She will also be responsible for the animal so it’s wrong of him to force her.
@@skyecoleman5449 Nope, he did right. Its a puppy.
@@kla631 Do you know how fast dogs grow?
@@gtdc4685 What a question, I've had dogs all my life. From Sheppard's to Newfies, Labs, golden retrievers, Pomeranians now a chihuahua. Pincers aren't that big.
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The dog story. I really think that the wife has a really good reason to be quite upset with her husband. Now yes they did move to a new state and her husband doesn't have the support of family. Now I respect the fact that he wanted a dog. What I have a major issue with is that he brought back a dog after a trip knowing full well that his wife is afraid. And sure he is a grown man but he is also a husband.They are suppose to make joint decisions, which he didn't do. The wife never said that they couldn't get a dog. She said that they don't have space for a dog and not a breed that she is afraid of. I believe that the wife isn't the jerk and needs to step away from the marriage. I am not saying that they should get divorced. I believe that a temporary separation is needed. The husband really needs to sit and think about his actions and why his wife is upset. I feel he picked a breed of dog that his wife is afraid of just to spite her. Him claiming to be a grown man doing what he wants is BS because he isn't acting like one. It seems that the husband didn't even bother reading the letter the wife left for him about the dog. And didn't she say that they were allowed to have a dog in the apartment they currently live in? If so, why would he risk eviction by bring home a dog? I really hope the OP is able to work this out with her husband.
10:15 I’m with the husband because he needs the dog for an emotional support. Plus he’s possibly right about if you see it grow up you won’t be afraid of it. Also I kind of find both parties a little selfish cuts you both said you opinions. Lately op you should re consider you fission on getting a divorce.
The cashier was very lucky that store could have got sued because of that. Just for them saying that if she don't have no visible disability does not mean nothing not all disabilities are visible. And just that quote alone could have got that store sued very badly. Truthfully I would have.
disabled or not, that doesn't mean she should use it as an excuse there, and for covering her own attitude towards the employee too.
Her attitude was disgusting, however, they should have had 1 fast lane opened. It helps the move. I was a cashier and if you came to my fast lane with more than 20. I made you leave. You ain’t special
Story 2 I have mixed feelings about that one is he the jerk for getting the dog anyway yeah sure but the wife is also a jerk in my opinion she never would have allowed him to get the dog he wants, and saying well until they got a bigger home they already moved once and they did not get into a bigger home, I think she would do anything to avoid having to get a dog at all, that is what I felt from this story.
Second story: I’m siding with the husband on this one. Anyone who doesn’t like the dog is one who can’t be trusted!
She sounds miserable and controlling
Story 2 bro it’s a dog man up and a husband your wife doesn’t deserve you dogs are 10000000 times more important