I treat any pain or suffering in the same way whether it is ,of the body or of the soul(heart and mind ), I acknowledge and accept it with loving kindness and hospitality as my consciousness / spirit is the space for my physical body and soul. And as a father to his son so is my consciousness / spirit to my physical body and soul, I not only give the space but I also encourage and impart value and esteem, and reaffirm my commitment to my son, for if I can be a good father to myself, then I can be a good father to others, as well as my own physical children. for as I love my own body and soul, I love others , my neighbor as a result. And you as a father( consciousness ,/ spirit), Don't miss the value that can be given back to you by your own child( body and soul) as what you give unto yourself will be given back to you Ten Fold! Blessings! And thank you for your channel, I have been listening to you for years now!
I'm experiencing cancer treatment, now. This talk helps me to be with the pain and optional suffering. I can experience pain,skillfully. And I can learn to suffer,less. Thank you for your assistance along the way.
Pain is weakness leaving the body Without life's lessons with pain Makes u who u are today Healing within is the journey beautifully said appreciate you 💕 Much love to all 💫🦋☘💜
Pain sucks! We all have pain in our lives and we get to spend time with the how to cope , to heal and not complicate the pain. I choose to not take medications for pain . I practice the natural methods of treatment, elevated lnjury, heat and cold, Epsom Salts in a tub of water to soak in, Topercin has been a great success for muscles that are painful...ETC. I choose not to suffer or look for pity and other people's feelings of support. Painful events happen and they are opportunities for me to be present in my life and how to care for myself and to slow down. It is always a chance to be more compassionate with others who have pain in their lives, empathy is a delightful experience for all of us to have and feel. It is a funny thing that I have noticed, when you are hurting somewhere, that is the place you bump into, or aggregate in some way. Oddly, it seems like that happens. The universe has a funny sense of humor.
I'd like to know the name of the song or artist at the beginning of this, please and thank you 🙏 not to dismiss the point of this video. Thank you for sharing .. you have helped me so much thru so much heartache and difficulties. I could never repay what you've shared with me... ❤️
Agree suffering is option ... The pain or whatever is, is something what have to acssept and live with it...Just need to listen your explanation if you can't come to it yourself...
True, physical pain is a good thing, it tells us where to care. I had a accident yesterday, I'm really injured and in pain, but it is ok, I will address the wounds and wait.
what i need to add, is also that, when pain is getting worse & worse and dito with healthproblems (like many people live with, like i do as well), one is 'entitled' to suffer & talk about it as well.
i so agree. i recently tore the tendons in my hand, then during the healing i broke a finger of the same hand. Between the two, I've had a very sore hand for a few months. While i know suffering is a total waist of time, its hard not to chastise myself in the first place for falling. Could you do a video on getting older & accepting limitations in what you took for granted all your life.
Part of the problem is how the mind compares and judges. Accidents happen, maybe you can look back and see if there is anything you can learn from it to help you in the future, then forgive yourself and move on. Of course it’s easier said than done. I’m 69 years old so I kinda get you.☮️
Thanks...great video Consciousness is in capable of resistance Consciousness is the life giver of the resistor character via identification When we identify with the resistor as being us....it gives birth to suffering Here too... consciousness is in capable of suffering...it is un touchable It is the resistor character that suffers ...not us... We are the life giver of the sufferer character via identification Sometimes the character morphs into a saviour character....in an endeavour to fix it self .... But nothing needs to be fixed...we were never touched Here too ...we are the life giver to the saviour character via indentification... The character doesn't care what mask it wears... Whether it be: "The resistor character" "The sufferer character" "The saviour character" Or any other mask it puts on It's lifeblood is given by us by our identification with it... If we were able to see this character naked from all it's masks...it would be just an idea... This idea has been speaking on our behalf since birth... This is why it is almost impossible to detect or distinguish as not us This idea makes judgements and resistances to what is on our behalf....and when we assume this idea is us...it causes the idea to suffer... All along...our consciousness has been sitting in the background ... hypnotized into association with this idea.... In time...these masks of the idea begin to become familiar by our consciousness....our consciousness begins to detect and distinguish itself from what it has become identified with.... Our consciousness begins to see this repetitive play...and recognise how we are fueling this play via identification.... Some of these masks eventually get exposed for what they really are....just an idea...and this is where consciousness loses its assumption as this mask being itself....the mask is seen as impersonal...and it dissapear.... because it is no longer identified with anymore... It is the inevitable Destiny for all different types of masks to eventually be seen for what they are.... And inevitably witness and see the idea self underneath all the masks... At this point consciousness ceases to identify or mis take no idea as it's identity anymore...it needs no definition...and all the struggle from this identity confusion dis appears too... What remains...is what always was there in the back ground..... immaculate....un touchable....ever peaceful....spotless....ever perfect....ever whole.... infinite....eternal....immutable.... consciousness that we are..... It was all just a cosmic joke our consciousness sees...it was never personal....nothing ever happened to it....nothing was ever needed to be done....
thanks man. this helps me feel like I can be free of my past mistakes and just be able to freely identify with the new character I want to be but feel like I can't because I sometimes fall into automatic identification with the past character
@@allureoflore5675 pretty much the only opportunity we have to dis identify and disolve the "idea based identity" is when it pops up again... and we confuse our identity with it again... So yes...let's hope it keeps popping up lol... and we dis identify with it again.... otherwise...how else are we meant to be free? It's true...dis identification can still occur at a lower level... when we "remember" a past identification after it has passed...by noticing the idea based identity...and noticing how we became identified with it again... however the most dissolvement dis identifications occur when we are identified in the "moment"...and amidst the identification we realize we are identified again...feel our true identity as "the witness" amidst the identification...and part or all of that particular identification idea is seen for what it is...just an idea...and it disolves
@@allureoflore5675 our conciousness is also ever perfect...it is in capable of mistakes...many times a day when we are in a relaxed state...and we have temporarily forgotten the worries of the "idea identity"...we see how our conciousness responds effortlessly and nicely to people and situations everyday...only but always....and it's only when we re identify again ..its the idea identity that responds to people and situations in particular ways...and then it's the idea identity that then sometimes beats itself up lol...
last year i allmost died entire body was in insane agony i kknew ther was noting i could do and ther was a sort of peace and that peace was stonger near the end yet i was out of me mind then and did not know who what i was or what way up i was etc
Why did you have pain and where? After nose job surgery for 6 weeks I'm in pain. And I'm trying to find peace with it and be patient with healing process. Sometimes I feel like pain wants to destroy me
I treat any pain or suffering in the same way whether it is ,of the body or of the soul(heart and mind ), I acknowledge and accept it with loving kindness and hospitality as my consciousness / spirit is the space for my physical body and soul. And as a father to his son so is my consciousness / spirit to my physical body and soul, I not only give the space but I also encourage and impart value and esteem, and reaffirm my commitment to my son, for if I can be a good father to myself, then I can be a good father to others, as well as my own physical children. for as I love my own body and soul, I love others , my neighbor as a result. And you as a father( consciousness ,/ spirit), Don't miss the value that can be given back to you by your own child( body and soul) as what you give unto yourself will be given back to you Ten Fold!
Blessings! And thank you for your channel, I have been listening to you for years now!
Suffering is not ALWAYS optional: mental illness are just as real as physical ones.
i agree but acceptence is optional i have both
adhd
tmj jaw and alot of tooth problem
Blessings and positive energy and super white light 😇🙏💡🎊🎉👏
Thank you for sharing this 💜
I'm experiencing cancer treatment, now. This talk helps me to be with the pain and optional suffering. I can experience pain,skillfully. And I can learn to suffer,less. Thank you for your assistance along the way.
Another superb insight and distinction of suffering and pain 🙏🌈❤️😊
You are amazing🙏 great thought
Really enjoying your videos
Pain is weakness leaving the body
Without life's lessons with pain
Makes u who u are today
Healing within is the journey
beautifully said
appreciate you 💕
Much love to all 💫🦋☘💜
Thank you for a great video. I hope all is well with you
Pain sucks!
We all have pain in our lives and we get to spend time with the how to cope , to heal and not complicate the pain. I choose to not take medications for pain . I practice the natural methods of treatment, elevated lnjury, heat and cold, Epsom Salts in a tub of water to soak in,
Topercin has been a great success for muscles that are painful...ETC.
I choose not to suffer or look for pity and other people's feelings of support.
Painful events happen and they are opportunities for me to be present in my life and how to care for myself and to slow down. It is always a chance to be more compassionate with others who have pain in their lives, empathy is a delightful experience for all of us to have and feel.
It is a funny thing that I have noticed, when you are hurting somewhere, that is the place you bump into, or aggregate in some way. Oddly, it seems like that happens. The universe has a funny sense of humor.
Thank you❤
Doc dreadlock is a good person
Thank you
I'd like to know the name of the song or artist at the beginning of this, please and thank you 🙏 not to dismiss the point of this video. Thank you for sharing .. you have helped me so much thru so much heartache and difficulties. I could never repay what you've shared with me... ❤️
Agree suffering is option ... The pain or whatever is, is something what have to acssept and live with it...Just need to listen your explanation if you can't come to it yourself...
Well spoken🙏
True, physical pain is a good thing, it tells us where to care. I had a accident yesterday, I'm really injured and in pain, but it is ok, I will address the wounds and wait.
Beautiful, but when it comes to the relief from suffering forgiveness should also be discussed ❤🙏👍
One day
what i need to add, is also that, when pain is getting worse & worse and dito with healthproblems (like many people live with, like i do as well), one is 'entitled' to suffer & talk about it as well.
i so agree. i recently tore the tendons in my hand, then during the healing i broke a finger of the same hand. Between the two, I've had a very sore hand for a few months. While i know suffering is a total waist of time, its hard not to chastise myself in the first place for falling. Could you do a video on getting older & accepting limitations in what you took for granted all your life.
Part of the problem is how the mind compares and judges. Accidents happen, maybe you can look back and see if there is anything you can learn from it to help you in the future, then forgive yourself and move on. Of course it’s easier said than done. I’m 69 years old so I kinda get you.☮️
Don't blame yourself because you fell, that's part of your suffering. Opt out of that suffering 👀
Thanks...great video
Consciousness is in capable of resistance
Consciousness is the life giver of the resistor character via identification
When we identify with the resistor as being us....it gives birth to suffering
Here too... consciousness is in capable of suffering...it is un touchable
It is the resistor character that suffers ...not us...
We are the life giver of the sufferer character via identification
Sometimes the character morphs into a saviour character....in an endeavour to fix it self ....
But nothing needs to be fixed...we were never touched
Here too ...we are the life giver to the saviour character via indentification...
The character doesn't care what mask it wears... Whether it be:
"The resistor character"
"The sufferer character"
"The saviour character"
Or any other mask it puts on
It's lifeblood is given by us by our identification with it...
If we were able to see this character naked from all it's masks...it would be just an idea...
This idea has been speaking on our behalf since birth...
This is why it is almost impossible to detect or distinguish as not us
This idea makes judgements and resistances to what is on our behalf....and when we assume this idea is us...it causes the idea to suffer...
All along...our consciousness has been sitting in the background ... hypnotized into association with this idea....
In time...these masks of the idea begin to become familiar by our consciousness....our consciousness begins to detect and distinguish itself from what it has become identified with....
Our consciousness begins to see this repetitive play...and recognise how we are fueling this play via identification....
Some of these masks eventually get exposed for what they really are....just an idea...and this is where consciousness loses its assumption as this mask being itself....the mask is seen as impersonal...and it dissapear.... because it is no longer identified with anymore...
It is the inevitable Destiny for all different types of masks to eventually be seen for what they are.... And inevitably witness and see the idea self underneath all the masks...
At this point consciousness ceases to identify or mis take no idea as it's identity anymore...it needs no definition...and all the struggle from this identity confusion dis appears too...
What remains...is what always was there in the back ground..... immaculate....un touchable....ever peaceful....spotless....ever perfect....ever whole.... infinite....eternal....immutable.... consciousness that we are.....
It was all just a cosmic joke our consciousness sees...it was never personal....nothing ever happened to it....nothing was ever needed to be done....
thanks man. this helps me feel like I can be free of my past mistakes and just be able to freely identify with the new character I want to be but feel like I can't because I sometimes fall into automatic identification with the past character
@@allureoflore5675 pretty much the only opportunity we have to dis identify and disolve the "idea based identity" is when it pops up again... and we confuse our identity with it again...
So yes...let's hope it keeps popping up lol... and we dis identify with it again.... otherwise...how else are we meant to be free?
It's true...dis identification can still occur at a lower level... when we "remember" a past identification after it has passed...by noticing the idea based identity...and noticing how we became identified with it again... however the most dissolvement dis identifications occur when we are identified in the "moment"...and amidst the identification we realize we are identified again...feel our true identity as "the witness" amidst the identification...and part or all of that particular identification idea is seen for what it is...just an idea...and it disolves
@@allureoflore5675 our conciousness is also ever perfect...it is in capable of mistakes...many times a day when we are in a relaxed state...and we have temporarily forgotten the worries of the "idea identity"...we see how our conciousness responds effortlessly and nicely to people and situations everyday...only but always....and it's only when we re identify again ..its the idea identity that responds to people and situations in particular ways...and then it's the idea identity that then sometimes beats itself up lol...
thankyou
last year i allmost died entire body was in insane agony i kknew ther was noting i could do and ther was a sort of peace and that peace was stonger near the end yet i was out of me mind then and did not know who what i was or what way up i was etc
Why did you have pain and where? After nose job surgery for 6 weeks I'm in pain. And I'm trying to find peace with it and be patient with healing process. Sometimes I feel like pain wants to destroy me
Imo just use the peace to eliminate the suffering outright.
thank you