Men who donated sp*rm and gave permission for the child to contact you at 18, what's your story?
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Honestly the "relatives who are close to the family, but then again, not really" segue to "We now have a discord" was some whiplash for sure
God, I'm just glad I was not the only one
I hate how segue is spelled
That's why i don't say it
It's crunchy
I thought all the random half-siblings started a Discord and burst out laughing
@@Unnecessary_Potatotf do you mean “it’s crunchy?”
Yet, it makes sense.
@@WiliamAfton1970 bc it's a crunchy word
IDK man I've got autism so 🤷 XD
I had a little giggle.
"There's about 20 of them. It 's strange how we have so many close relatives who aren't part of the family. We now have a discord!"
I double backed and had to actually look at the video before realizing he’s talking about his own discord
what is the link?!
Going to say this now: Don't "turkey baste", no matter how well you get along with the people you want to donate to. You are not protected if they come after you with child support. Use a sperm bank; it's the legal route that protects you from such legal liability if you are proven the father of a child.
Or at least donate manually.
Oh both, heard if a woman who went to a sperm bank then years later went after the father for child support!
I don't know how it ended, but hope she failed in her bullshit claims.
@@ryanewald9740❗️
@@ryanewald9740 That is what I mean by "turkey baste". That still leaves you legally liable.
@@ZeoViolet I know. And if you're gonna get screwed either way, you might as well do the do
Story 14 not changing the family’s dynamics doesn’t seem weird to me at all. Some families are just really accepting to that sort of thing, plus it had nothing to do with cheating or anything, it was the clinics fault.
Agreed. I didn't even know my older brother was from my mum's prior relationship with a guy we knew as 'uncle' until it was randomly brought up once during contact (foster care kid) and I was like 'wut'. My older sister looked at me and was like "Dude, our brother's brown af with black hair and brown eyes, and we're paler than Dracula with pale hair and blue eyes, how the fuck did you not notice?" Our dad (me and my sister's) never treated our brother as anything but his son even after he divorced our mother (mother's abuse was why we were in care, dad couldn't afford to divorce and then look after 3 kids when we were younger).
In your younger self’s defence, genetics are wild and having a single darker skinned person in your bloodline could result in pale af couples having a darker skinned child. Plus, the sibling you grew up with is hardly the first person you would assume isn’t your full brother (or that’s what people would call it, anyway)
Can I have a timestamp?
Edit: woops I got it just as I commented lol
Lmao all good, bro
I just realized his car's license plate is 'REDFLAG'
I think those kids going camping with their dad sounds kinda cute. All of them being like, "Okay, Biodad! Time for bonding!" Gives me a similar vibe to all of my adult cousins and I going to the back patio with a bottle of Ouzo and playing cards.
"We NoW HaVE a DiScoRd" right after story one was hilariously timed
Bro I thought the same, like the family has a public discord tf
The folks who go the donor route due to genetics are more common than you'd think. I have two acquaintances who opted to have donor babies due to their partner and/or them having a horrible genetic issues
I had to rewatch #12 several times to find the correct situation there… he donated to his sister’s WIFE, not to his sister. I was very confused and concerned because I totally missed the fact that his sister was a lesbian and her wife carried the baby he donated to
Just to clarify for anyone else looking for this info…
oh thank god i didnt catch that first time so was kinda weirded out by how "easygoing" everyone was about this whole thing, something felt off.
Last Story: While the odds of a specific doner running into someone who used their donation and hitting it off with them are indeed very very low, the odds of a RANDOM doner having the same thing happen are much better due to how many sperm doners there are.
My then teenage daughter had a baby. Long story short, the baby was adopted by parents as an open adoption. They became family. She has 3 siblings. I got to be grandma to all of them. I love creative ways and the openness and honesty is amazing. I've also observed that biology is highly overrated in the courts, where parents are failing, in and out of jail, and the bio parents are given far too many chances. Kids grow up quickly and need to be in stable homes now without dealing with the path to final adoption taking years. Kids don't have time for that.
As someone who is adopted I completely agree that DNA doesn't mean anything. I may share half my DNA with my birthfather but I don't really care who he is. My birthmother has been in my life a bit, mostly just wanting to know how my brother and I (same birthmom and adopted by the same people) are doing and sending cards on birthdays and Christmas. I may share half my DNA with them but I don't consider them family. My family, as far as I'm concerned, is the man who taught me how to fish and read to me at night, and the woman that would stay up all night when I was sick. I also agree that the adoption process is ridiculously long. My parents were on an adoption waiting list for years before one of the birthmothers chose them. Throughout the pregnancy my mom and dad continued to have to fill out paperwork and such. It was apparently a lot faster when they adopted my brother because of already having me and the birthmom was the same.
Its like opening a time capsule without knowing what was put inside.
My cousin is 37 now, but she donated her eggs from the time she was 20 until she was 30. She never wanted children herself, but she's been able to help so many people have. children. She also gave permission to be contacted when they turn 18
so in the next few years, she's likely to recieve emails from a bunch of people
I absolutely love this (: You hear so many stories about sperm donor babies, but never really about egg donors. I bet your cousin is glad she could help so many people have what she didn't want (:
@@returnofthetwats190 Absolutely!
@aliburch4273 It's awesome, I went with her for all her appointments. Many women do this. Most don't tell anyone else because of fear of judgment.
@@jenniferbates2811 I totally considered doing it. I'm 32 now, but in my 20s I considered doing egg donation if my now-ex and I had broken up before I was severely depressed
Not me but my mom's ex husband (my half brother's and sisters dad) they got a call on his high school girlfriends death bed about a year ago that she never wanted to disrupt his life but she's dying and needs him to know he has another son. That he's almost 40 now and is your spitting image. Wow was she right. I'm so happy for my brothers to find out they have an older brother and for this man to find peace and an entire welcoming family after his mom passed.
The sperm bank discord transition made me laugh a lot
Me and my girlfriend don't want kids, and in the future if we do, we want to adopt. We'd rather help a child rather than birth one. Soon I'll be getting a vasectomy, but after seeing this, I think I'm going to donate to a sperm clinic. It seems like the right thing to do, so that I can at the very least continue my family's bloodline (as the only male) via another person
"Thankfully they look nothing like my own children, that could be awkward considering we live in the same neighborhood". BAHAHAHA. "JERRY ! JERRY ! " Instantly popped into my mind hahahaha
This is not related be donor babies, but as someone who was adopted, my definition of "family" is not the common one. "Family" for me is not all about blood and genes. "Family" is what raises you and forms you into who you will become.
Really like to listen to your videos when playing or just going about my day. You're really good at narrating and hope you continue with your work!
That's what I'm doing! Playing and listening while recovering from a cold.
same. I listen while doing chores lol
I have an uncle who was adopted and we found him on ancestry, looks just like my grandpa who has dementia, so he couldn’t remember anything about his mother, or who he might be. Met the family and he’s a piece of shit. Racist, hates gay and trans people so strange cause he’s nothing like my family.
That’s nature vs nurture for you. Nature would be the biology (the biological connection he shares with you guys) and nurture would be the way he was raised.
it’s unfortunate because people always want that kind of thing to go well but if someone sucks they suck there’s not much you can do about it
I like that the first family made a discord for all the random kids the brother fathered. 🙏 God bless them.
Very early in my life, I decided I don't want to be mean to another living person to go through what I am going through. But watching this video made me kind of regret not having donated.
Currently struggling with that idea right now. I want to donate eggs but have an irregular cycle on top of everything else (since some mental health stuff is genetic), so I probably won't or even be accepted as a donor anyway. Freezing is way too expensive, so at least I have cousins who can carry on at least part of the bloodline. But, on my mom's side, it ends with me. Have one cousin from her late sister, so if he ends up having a biological kid, then that sort of continues as well.
Always thought that I don't want my kid to have the same health issues I have, but being an only child makes it rough to think that it part of it ends with me. That I'm the only combination of my parents.
My spouse shares the same sentiment about preferring to adopt than bring another being into this world that could have both our health issues (known & unknown)
And it's most likely too late for them to donate or freeze sperm if we change our minds in the future.
For the most part, I think I have my answer, but with so much future ahead of me, it will probably be a decision that bounces around my head every now and then-- and resolidify my choice each time.
@@Katriella. I am 35 yo now. The thing that got me in this video is sundely finding out you have a biological family member and developing a friendship with he/she. Still, I don't want a person to deal with autism, adhd and all the complications that come with it.
For story #6, 53!! The guy had 53 kids because he donated. That has to be some kind of record.
It's widely thought that the all time record holder would have to be Genghis Khan. 15 known recognized children. Literally several hundred unrecognized children. Possibly over a thousand. Hard to say for sure. And there was no way to do this artificially.
He was a busy, busy dude.
1:05 okay, really need a gap between that first story and "we have a discord"
This bout to be a classic
Its weird to have so many relatives, but not really. We now have a discord!
Jesus first dude is rivalling Genghis Khan
I thought the discord announcement was from story 1and they had a discord for all the kids 😂
the fact he had to stop donating baffled me and took a second to sink in.. like.. holy fuck..
and 20+ half siblings.. boy if they get a little close and do a christmas dinner ... my god is it gonna be both glorious, weird, funny and expensive as hell
Lmao I thought the relatives got a discord for a second
As a sperm donor baby who's currently 13, this makes me very excited to be a full adult so I can learn more about my biological family :)
Imagine falling involve with someone only to find out that you are half-siblings and share a father..
bruh the last story lol
5:51 Only if it's the guy that's the carrier.
If you're the female with a hereditary dominant illness like me you're SOL if you can't afford the price or legalities of a surrogate who would effectively also cut your child off from citizenship in your home country as it would not be considered your child, regardless of biology.
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Listening to this is so interesting considering one day I’m going to use those services
I think adoption is better if you can´t have your own child. But I understand if you want to carry out your own baby. and it´s nice if men want to help this women.
I thought he was saying the children of the sperm donor have their own Discord server for a second lol
When it segwayed to "we now have a discord" i thought it was the same reddit post. So in my mind all 20 of the close relatives have a discord server where they just talk to each other.
I have an adopted brother I would love to get to know. The only problem is I don’t have his last name, nor either of his parents names. I don’t blame them for not keeping in touch with my mom like they said they would. She’s a bad influence, and I know he’s probably living the life, but I can’t help but feel Ive been robbed of family.
last one was wild!
that last story was hilarious (i doubt it's real though)
Must be great to tell at family reunions:
"I had his child, got a divorce, then we met a few years later"
sprinkling in we now have a discord, like that family got so big they needed a dedicated server to manage familial communication... took my way to long to realize its not part of the story
great last story
5:43 this is the exact reason im abstaining from having kids. i have a rare disorder called Ehlers Danlouse (cant ever spell it right) that makes me super stretchy and easy for body parts to dislocate. It also causes constant pain… i could never live with myself if i had a kid and they got it.
"they are not missing out by (not having a father.) i dont need to be anything for them." yes it is fucked up to say which is exactly why you wrote it and honestly thats not for you to decide but for those kids when *they* grow up. my dad was very absent from my life cause he was working far away from home and i can tell this had an impact on me. if theres no dad then there needs to be some other male role model like an uncle or a grandpa. freaking redditors.
pretty sure they were saying they were not missing out by having lesbian parents which is true
@@feidhlimharrington2275 isn't*
He means that they're not missing out on a father because those kids both have two loving mothers present. He's not an absent father, he just provided his DNA for a couple to have a family. He's okay with sitting his kids and their kids down to be made aware of him being a donor when they're of age.
I got a feeling you're projecting about your own absent father and I'm sorry. I really empathize with you, my father was absent a lot without much explanation due to work and other family reasons which affected me greatly growing up. But my own childhood isn't clouding my judgment here. I can understand it's a completely different and separate situation to how I grew up. You should try talking to someone about these feelings you have about your father. It's probably still affecting you to this day without you realising.
As a donor child, this is really bittersweet. I don't think I'll ever meet my biological father. Kinda sucks due to all the medical stuff
sperm donations, after use, is a weird concept to me ngl
Any chance you could mention the game titles in your description. I listen to you regularly and my son and husband always ask when they come into the room 😂
Why the hell that one wife have a divorce with her wife after realizing she's bisexual? She's still into women, though? Make it make sense...
the we have a discord seemed part of the story and i kind of freaked out
My friend has to kids by a donor and all of his kids get together for activities throughout the yr
I have considered donating eggs before, but it's a lot more complicated and physically demanding for people with ovaries. I don't think i'll donate anytime soon unless they can knock me out during a pap smear. Last time i had one i was already undergoing surgery, and they used the smallest speculum they had, and it still caused tearing that almost required stitches. It would have been extremely painful had i been conscious.
That's sad family but not exactly family. They are famiky😢 too.
What I'm taking away from this is that before having sex I should do a dna test
Not a donor story but my dad and uncle had a half sister we didn’t know about there dad didn’t know the child existed either and the mom gave my aunt up for adoption. We only find out years later because of a dna thing. My grandpa died before he ever knew but my aunt looks just like him
In America you get generally get compensated for you donating.
Hahaha I thought the discord was between the brother's offspring
It's kinda terrifying to think of the kids that don't know who their dad is. They'll never know where they come from.
I'll never understand having kids and being fine without knowing them and being in their life.
I mean, some people skip the middle man of donating and just cum and go never acknowledging they sired kids
I think your message is really funny. I don't think it's terrifying to not know who your dad is after all I'm sure many people wish they never met their dad if they got stuck with a shitty one. You don't need a father figure to know where you come from either. Family can come in many shapes and sizes❤️ and I know plenty of people without alive, present or caring fathers who come out just as amazing as everyone else.
@@Livvylol42 7 out of 10 people incarcerated come from single-mother homes.
And family medical history is extremely important for everyone to know.
@@joshuamcnally1604 Yeah but that's what the sperm health checks are there for in the first place, so that point is pretty mute in this day and age.
not knowing who your biological father is is not the same thing as not having a father
Is it just me or do several of these stories seem to overlap at least one other? Like it sounds like there are several stories that talk about the same person/persons as another story from different perspectives.
0:38 He should've gone to Alabama, they would've accepted all of it! XD
7:59 not to be a huge downer, but sadly, if this happened with a group of LGBT people in NYC in the 70s, there’s a SIGNIFICANTLY higher probability than normal that the [presumably gay or bi] biological father didn’t make it out of the 90s :-/
for a moment i thought the story 1 had a family discord with close relatives but not really
0:46 his genes are too strong!
I have checked multiple videos and can't find any link for your discord
Bravo
last ones just funny
0:03 whats up with the woman in the top right corner? She looks as if she just crawled out of someones nightmare
i mean they definetly your family, they are closer to you genetically than any strange for a factor of a 1000
LOL, he didn't actually make them, their mothers did. He simply contributed.😂😂😂
he didn't "contribute", without him they never would have existed, they are 50% related to him.
Which game is this
Why are siblings allowed to donate sperm to their siblings? The whole point of don’t do incest is the bad genetic conditions.
Wait thats a thing?
Interesting
Im not even going to watch the video im just genuinely curious why you need to censor "sperm"... or the S in NSFW... the S stands for.. "safe" :/ Idk just odd
I dont thinklast story is true dnt say when ye did it like the rest
hmm
Okay, but... COUSINS having a kid together? Whether or not they're in a romantic relationship doesn't matter- it's still disgusting :/
I'm pretty sure it was the cousin's spouse who conceived, not the cousin themselves. It didn't explicitly state otherwise, so I'm not going to just assume there was incest.
@@gemaam1622 ?
Its weird but cousins are usually different enough genetically that it tends to not cause issues. It only becomes an issue if it keeps happening generation after generation.
This may be an unpopular opinion, but Sperm donation is immoral and should be illegal along with any other artificial forms of conception.
This makes me wanna post HATE SPEECH
do it
Why?
Is it of the Christian kind?
@@majorlycunningham5439 I'm not a Christian, so no
@@mg9138 everyone on the internet claims to be atheist but then their mask slips and they’re a closeted theist lol 😂