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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • The mentally ill are a fraternity of brothers and sisters all around the globe.
    No one can truly understand the desperate doomed attempt to make sense of the world, of others, of ourselves - to no avail.
    Cancer of the soul for life, our constant companion
    Learn to forgive yourself - you are doing the best you can but you are disabled
    Forgive them for they know not what they are doing and they are afraid of you and infuriated at your shortcomings which deny them their dreams.
    Aspire to do better, to succeed, to surmount your handicap - but welcome defeat and embrace failure as the fixtures of your life
    Grieve not for who and what you could have been and rejoice that you are despite all odds
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Комментарии • 60

  • @valb9963
    @valb9963 Месяц назад +56

    This world will make the sensitive mentally ill. When you speak the truth, you may be gaslighted and told you are crazy. Growing older and being alone doesn't help,either. We must remain strong

    • @arklightning6058
      @arklightning6058 Месяц назад +19

      I have your back in spirit.

    • @sarko-vu2qn
      @sarko-vu2qn Месяц назад +12

      Happened to me. Acute psycosis in 2001,2020 and 2022/2023. Last one ruined my marriage and i destroyed almost all of my realthionships. I "imploded". I became an asshole. The thing that saved me is that people remembered i was a pretty decent,normal and friendly person before all this madness. But i feel i am out of credits and have to isolate and be careful with people. Strange times. My advice is to be careful with people you let in your life.

    • @goofyahhh254
      @goofyahhh254 Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing ​@@sarko-vu2qn

  • @KB-nm1bt
    @KB-nm1bt Месяц назад +9

    Thank you for your brutal honesty, as always Dr. Vaknin. Only fools and cowards choose to remain asleep.

  • @nikola3058
    @nikola3058 Месяц назад +12

    'Defeat and failure are a permanent fixture of your life, they're never going away, you're made up of defeats and losses and failures in a way no other person is'
    I did it again professor Vaknin, I self-sabotaged again, I sabotaged another relationship. I see, take in on the chin, try again.

  • @tahira.k13
    @tahira.k13 Месяц назад +31

    Such a thoughtful and profoundly powerful message, didn't realise a psychopathic narcissist could be so sweetly sincere

    • @JoeMcKenzie888
      @JoeMcKenzie888 Месяц назад +12

      He has grown a lot during his years.

    • @teralecole316
      @teralecole316 Месяц назад +14

      As long as you’re not their target 🎯, a person is safe.

    • @Johannastairwellstudio
      @Johannastairwellstudio Месяц назад +1

      @@JoeMcKenzie888yes gentler somehow

    • @Johannastairwellstudio
      @Johannastairwellstudio Месяц назад +1

      Always surprising. His poetry is very profound also

    • @52648teedee
      @52648teedee Месяц назад

      You're the best teacher I've ever had, for 9 years so far. Thank you.

  • @Michael-dr6ix
    @Michael-dr6ix Месяц назад +15

    Requiem to the broken dreams.

  • @Lp-vw1lf
    @Lp-vw1lf Месяц назад +7

    Always so much to learn. Many thanks, professor!

  • @jeannfav2921
    @jeannfav2921 Месяц назад +8

    Towards the last 3rd of your video my emotions were welling up. What you say says so much about who I am . I sometimes try and ignore (pretend) I don't get panic attacks or whatever issue at the moment, but it's better to face oneself squarely. Then, give oneself grace, and move forward as best as one can. That takes courage. Then I stop myself. Don't want to veer into magical thinking ❤
    Thank you, Professor Vaknin.

  • @breemorrison901
    @breemorrison901 Месяц назад +5

    I needed to hear this today. Well done, sir.

  • @josteinbergfjord9385
    @josteinbergfjord9385 Месяц назад +10

    Thank you.

  • @Mountlougallops
    @Mountlougallops Месяц назад +25

    That's a keeper. Your honesty is your super power Sam. Thanks for this and many other valuable lessons.

  • @GullerudGallery
    @GullerudGallery Месяц назад +19

    Van Gogh once said there was a fire glowing from his house and everyone would simply walk by not knowing the communion would be mutually satisfying.

  • @breemorrison901
    @breemorrison901 Месяц назад +7

    Professor, could you please make a video about toxic family systems, particularly about the "identified patient" in such families?

  • @JoeMcKenzie888
    @JoeMcKenzie888 Месяц назад +16

    We should've been we could've been we used to be. Oh to grieve all that, my dear friends

  • @lenaduggan4697
    @lenaduggan4697 Месяц назад +3

    The mentally ill are victims, but not if they do not seek help. The mentally ill can be abusive to others, such as the narc. It is difficult to have pity on a child in a adult's body when they are continually causing harm to others.

  • @jdjones4825
    @jdjones4825 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks Sam. I needed a pep talk.. Good timing

  • @ЛиокумовичЮрьевич
    @ЛиокумовичЮрьевич Месяц назад +2

    Brilliant

  • @coldpotatoes2556
    @coldpotatoes2556 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks 🙏

  • @gemmavarroyave
    @gemmavarroyave Месяц назад +1

    This is excrutiatingly painful...

  • @Michael-cb3uw
    @Michael-cb3uw Месяц назад +1

    Shame he didn't make this message for me ❤

  • @janthys45
    @janthys45 Месяц назад +3

    We are the salt of the earth, eternal children, the servants of humanity
    Merci

  • @JOCECIL
    @JOCECIL Месяц назад +1

    Im willing to explain to others with social skills disability so they can understand somehow and build a compass to make some sense on how to act or why they failed in certain interaction.

  • @critter_paws
    @critter_paws Месяц назад +6

    Beautiful ❤️ ty so much

  • @MalgorzataKania-zc5zz
    @MalgorzataKania-zc5zz Месяц назад +2

  • @gunn7830
    @gunn7830 Месяц назад +3

    Tusen takk for gode ord!❤

    • @allanmeierjensen4925
      @allanmeierjensen4925 Месяц назад +1

      Hey Norge ..smile fik et like fra Danmark 👍

    • @gunn7830
      @gunn7830 Месяц назад

      @@allanmeierjensen4925 hei Danmark ..takk, det var hyggelig 😊👍 utrolig lærerikt å høre på Sam👍👍

  • @vanyabecerra6430
    @vanyabecerra6430 Месяц назад

    Ty Ty Ty

  • @allanmeierjensen4925
    @allanmeierjensen4925 Месяц назад

    Thank you werry much sir sam .. Semper paratus Meier

  • @vanessanesener4028
    @vanessanesener4028 Месяц назад +2

    Leo here
    Star Wars: The Corruption of the Dark Side

  • @jimmyriddle3899
    @jimmyriddle3899 Месяц назад +3

    Thank god that does not resonate with me

  • @ViCtOrE77310
    @ViCtOrE77310 Месяц назад +6

    Can art save us ?

    • @allanmeierjensen4925
      @allanmeierjensen4925 Месяц назад

      No comi agenda art shal be ugly too so you get depres..sorry best regards from europe

    • @iiriss7435
      @iiriss7435 27 дней назад

      Carl Jung believed you can cure a psychotic person if you can make him creative.

    • @twodog350
      @twodog350 26 дней назад

      Art is a window. Not a door.

    • @ViCtOrE77310
      @ViCtOrE77310 26 дней назад

      @@twodog350 English ?

  • @ЛиокумовичЮрьевич
    @ЛиокумовичЮрьевич Месяц назад +1

    Sam, RUclips is being blocked here. Give us feedback.

  • @JoeMcKenzie888
    @JoeMcKenzie888 Месяц назад +3

    Nobody will ever be able to make me his dream woman. All I could offer waa dreams 😢

  • @CPTSDRecoveryChatASMR
    @CPTSDRecoveryChatASMR Месяц назад +1

    Me: Reads title and clicks 👀
    Now I’m making a response video.
    Anyway, as usual this was really touching. Thank you

  • @haikeaintiaani9183
    @haikeaintiaani9183 Месяц назад +3

    Hardcore i say

  • @shakirajameel8042
    @shakirajameel8042 Месяц назад +3

    Hello

  • @przesliczna_wiolonczelistka
    @przesliczna_wiolonczelistka Месяц назад +4

    narcisstic victimhood in a nutshell

    • @ZecZli
      @ZecZli Месяц назад +2

      No. This is not true, this is not that.

  • @sooticablue1664
    @sooticablue1664 Месяц назад

    i tried to report it but
    The Narcissists Playbook - Sifu Dave Malone is stealing your content and uploading your videos

    • @nothingnessnonarcissism
      @nothingnessnonarcissism  28 дней назад

      He is not. My content is freely available to be used under the Creative Commons license.

  • @shellyelly77
    @shellyelly77 Месяц назад +2

    Emotional rescue. Quite lovely, Sam. With gratitude from me, a tall ordered shortcake. ❤️‍🩹