You can tell these lyrics just tear him apart and the fact that he manages to get through is amazing.... I can't even listen to it without falling apart
It horrible to see him hurt like that :/ I am literally crying just seeing him like that, I guess it part of what makes the band so,special to me is that their songs are all Soo personal
did you get tickets to The 1975 anywhere? Did I say I had April 23 in Vegas and May 4 in Tulsa. I got the preorder album and got a CODE to buy 3 days earlier at the presale concert tickets! Ive bought from stubhub girl, I know they get bad mouthed but it got me in to see Maroon 5 years ago! Only time I did that tho
Well they're still available at the official website so I think I'm good, I saw them last year in my hometown Hamburg and I wanna see them again this year, gladly they aren't that well known in Germany^^
This song puts a crack right in my soul man. Listening to it now I'm breathless. I can't imagine being so senseless and screaming something idiotic while he sits there literally verbalising that feeling. Have some heart girls, Jesus Christ.
I am 59 you youth are fortunate beyond belief to be in this time and seeing THE 1975. I wouldn't trade my time for youth but I will tell you this, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!! DO NOT HOLD BACK!!!! I have a bit of a better perspective on this "LIFE" thing than you do. Listen to your parents but certainly follow your inner self and unite and go for it!!!!!!!!! I was fortunate enough to see THE 1975 twice in Dallas, May and November. GRANDSON Carson was there in November to celebrate his 16th BDay. I rocked the night out at the South Side Ballrooom to THE 1975 who will be huge and valued. I hope they come back to the us in 2015
I flew out of Arkansas to see The 1975 in Tempe on December 14,2015 then flew on to Oakland and saw The 1975 in Oakland AGAIN!!! Tickets for Las Vegas and Tulsa in 2016! Oh, and I turned 60! Right up front at the Tempe show! No more "crush pits" for me! But it was worth it!
+lilac" I'm sorry but id rather be getting high than watching m family die." ME is exactly what he is talking about. This is a selfish, musically written song about Matt. All artists write form their emotions. Getting high has its plusses, so does drinking wine. But last years show I went to he downed 3 bottles of wine.
He's said this song is from his fathers point of view during the divorce.... "out your mother through hell, hurt your brother as well," he says "I love you" like "I know this sucks but regardless I still love you, Matty," but he's specifically commented about this so... I agree as an artist we write from our emotions but part of being an artist is being able to express or write from other views or visions also.
bouvardien its a very real song and that bass and synth is very ‘catchy’ in a sense, i love the backing track and the substance of the song. i went to see them last night and matty looked a lot happier than he does here, i’ve been with them for a really long time and only just got to see them now but i’m glad it was when matty was at his best.
when i heard him preform this live, everyone put their phones away and enjoyed the song, and im so glad i was one of those people, just soaking in the love that everybody gives him.
The crowd was seriously encouraging matty to drink poor thing this is heart breaking to watch can the girl screaming stfu. But anyways you had an amazing view I wish I could see them live
It’s funny the entire song’s saying all this awful stuff, asking “don’t you mind?” Like please listen to what the fuck I’m saying I need help, but she’s clearly not
My cousin posted this a few years ago on fb. I listened to it. Thought it was good. And then I couldn't stop thinking about it. Got totally hooked on The 1975 and Matty. I love them so much.
Hahahaha I am 59 and saw THE 1975 in Dallas in May and November and Matty and I like our vino!!!! Consume as much as you can while you are young. Tho I am 509 I LIVE LIFE OUT HARD!!!!! I like Charlie the drummer and why don't they ever sing "Antichrist" it is so different. They aren't a Pauop band you know
michelle kavanagh blew that not much time to be on here thanks michelle for the grammar correction, at least our parents spelled our names right and yes George is the drummer look on youtube at my video in dallas November 2014 michellegbruce thanks again for the help
This song hits me so hard no matter how many times I listen to it. I would’ve been bawling if I was there and he was sat in front of me singing it the whole time.
This band fucks me up bad because as much as I appreciate and love their music, their crowds and fans kill any good experience I may have at one of their shows.
I agree so much!! I'm just back from their concert tonight and the people around it ruined it by screaming shit at Matty and stuff, I've been looking forward to this concert for months, only to get hit in the face by some girl who's jumping about trying to get to the front?? i really tried to enjoy myself but I was so pissed off man
+Sophie McShannon Right? I'm seeing them in May again and one of side I feel like "Frick yea I'm seeing a rad band" and at the same time I feel like "I don't wanna fuck with that shit at all". idk; I guess that's what liking a popular band has to be like now of days. Hope you got to enjoy their actual performance more than your crowd experience tho :)
+butchyboxer THIS. I went to their concert in March and a girl in front of me got aggressive when I got shoved in to her and she punched me, horrid experience which ruined the whole night!
Personally I love this song because it hits a few nerves of those dark thoughts that I have had but watching him sing this live wow! it honestly blew me away so much so that I had tears streaming down my face... Just shows us how much music can make us feel
This was my first ever concert and it was awesome. Matty came on stage with a bottle of wine and smoking cigarettes! Will never forget😍 especially when he sand You💕💕
+Halle Bro no you should shut the fuck up. you are acting like the typical teenage fan who's like 'matty has problems, leave him be let him drink!11!!!!' madelyn is a normal caring person and she's right, stop romanticizing the alcohol. its stupid. jesus\fjadfdfuighj uGh
CAN EVERYONE CHILL THE FUCK OUT OMFG I'M WORRIED FOR HIS WELL BEING I KNOW HE CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL HE WANTS WITH IT. THIS IS NOT A NEGATIVE FUCKING COMMENT I AM GENUINELY WORRIED
There best show was the 1st time in Toronto at the MODCLUB, even a smaller venue and they Rocked. The Vids are all on my channel. No sax dude though....
what time did the show start at & what time did you get there to be in first row?! im going to kool haus for them in november and it'd be very helpful to knowww!!
kind of heartbreaking. my favourite song by them. I kind for only ever get drunk off wine haha so I find to funny when he has a bottle onstage but at the same time, does he really need to drink? I'm fine with it, its just makes me wonder sometimes
After #I'm sorry but I'd rather be getting high then watching my family die - Who's the guy who says "He's not saying the words" Matty is clearly singing That man does not deserve to be there if he's not going to give them the respect they deserve!!!
I get so annoyed whenever I find a live video of me. Like Matty specifically tells every crowd to put their phones away so the moment is personal between you and him, not plastered all over the fucking internet. Smh.
got a plane in the middle of the night, don't you mind I nearly killed somebody, don't you mind, don't you mind I gave you something you can never give back, don't you mind You've seen your face like a heart attack, don't you mind, don't you mind I was late but I arrived I'm sorry but I'd rather be getting high than watching the family die Exaggerate and you and I Oh I think I did something terrible to your body, don't you mind I put your mother through hell, don't you mind I hate your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind Oh I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind I put your mother through hell, don't you mind I hate your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind Oh I was thinking bout killing myself, don't you mind I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind
The poor boy looks so miserable and is _so_ wine drunk that he can't even stand straight! He is performing his broken heart out and, by the looks of it, barely conscious and people are cheering him on when he chugs more wine! Un-fucking-believable. I know the fans aren't there for moral support, but they shouldn't romanticize this poor boys broken mental state either. The performance was amazing but damn was it depressing too.
You can tell these lyrics just tear him apart and the fact that he manages to get through is amazing.... I can't even listen to it without falling apart
Man, I wish I could hug him :(
It horrible to see him hurt like that :/ I am literally crying just seeing him like that, I guess it part of what makes the band so,special to me is that their songs are all Soo personal
+Jassi Arja Mattys the new and improved version on this tour. He was stronger and happier. It's like we're at his personal party
oh cool, good to know^^
I still have to get my tickets for april but i'm broke af..hopefully they don't sell out too fast
did you get tickets to The 1975 anywhere? Did I say I had April 23 in Vegas and May 4 in Tulsa. I got the preorder album and got a CODE to buy 3 days earlier at the presale concert tickets! Ive bought from stubhub girl, I know they get bad mouthed but it got me in to see Maroon 5 years ago! Only time I did that tho
Well they're still available at the official website so I think I'm good, I saw them last year in my hometown Hamburg and I wanna see them again this year, gladly they aren't that well known in Germany^^
when he drinks people just scream like stop. he can do what he wants but don't sexualize/romanticize it. he's a person.
exactly.
This song puts a crack right in my soul man. Listening to it now I'm breathless. I can't imagine being so senseless and screaming something idiotic while he sits there literally verbalising that feeling. Have some heart girls, Jesus Christ.
I am 59 you youth are fortunate beyond belief to be in this time and seeing THE 1975. I wouldn't trade my time for youth but I will tell you this, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!! DO NOT HOLD BACK!!!! I have a bit of a better perspective on this "LIFE" thing than you do. Listen to your parents but certainly follow your inner self and unite and go for it!!!!!!!!! I was fortunate enough to see THE 1975 twice in Dallas, May and November. GRANDSON Carson was there in November to celebrate his 16th BDay. I rocked the night out at the South Side Ballrooom to THE 1975 who will be huge and valued. I hope they come back to the us in 2015
I flew out of Arkansas to see The 1975 in Tempe on December 14,2015 then flew on to Oakland and saw The 1975 in Oakland AGAIN!!! Tickets for Las Vegas and Tulsa in 2016! Oh, and I turned 60! Right up front at the Tempe show! No more "crush pits" for me! But it was worth it!
you should know its not all of the youth
How dare you have your phone out during this song
hahah but he told you to take it out :O 2:18
So that u could watch it
when he says "Oh I was thinking about killing myself" i died
+lilac" I'm sorry but id rather be getting high than watching m family die." ME is exactly what he is talking about. This is a selfish, musically written song about Matt. All artists write form their emotions. Getting high has its plusses, so does drinking wine. But last years show I went to he downed 3 bottles of wine.
I think the song is from his father's perspective
That was my interpretation as well! I'm glad someone else thinks that as well
He's said this song is from his fathers point of view during the divorce.... "out your mother through hell, hurt your brother as well," he says "I love you" like "I know this sucks but regardless I still love you, Matty," but he's specifically commented about this so... I agree as an artist we write from our emotions but part of being an artist is being able to express or write from other views or visions also.
One if my favorite songs on the album
no matter what he does he always puts butterflies in my stomach
this is my absolute favorite song by them and I don't really know why
bouvardien its a very real song and that bass and synth is very ‘catchy’ in a sense, i love the backing track and the substance of the song. i went to see them last night and matty looked a lot happier than he does here, i’ve been with them for a really long time and only just got to see them now but i’m glad it was when matty was at his best.
I literally cried watching this. I love them.
he's literally right there.
pretty much wasnt breathing the whole time
haha yeah i freaked out a little bit; he just sat down right in front of them(jealous) i love his personality
when i heard him preform this live, everyone put their phones away and enjoyed the song, and im so glad i was one of those people, just soaking in the love that everybody gives him.
I think Im like... the only boy I know who really likes this band...
befriend m human
I know ATLEAST 10 boys who like this band but yay join the clan (:
I fucking love this band ! You're not the only boy..
not the only boy
I said the only one I know... I dont know any of you guys.. but glad there are other dudes out there who agrees that 1975 is an awesome group
it's so heartbreaking seeing matty drink so heavily
Seeing him in Toronto in 2014 vs. Seeing him in 2022 is just a trip. So proud of how far he’s gotten. I love this man to death
God I fucking love them with all my heart
The crowd was seriously encouraging matty to drink poor thing this is heart breaking to watch can the girl screaming stfu. But anyways you had an amazing view I wish I could see them live
He drinks like that at every concert I have seen- he did it at the one I was at too.
keko xo that doesn’t make it better!!
Yeah, it's sad.
It’s funny the entire song’s saying all this awful stuff, asking “don’t you mind?” Like please listen to what the fuck I’m saying I need help, but she’s clearly not
My cousin posted this a few years ago on fb. I listened to it. Thought it was good. And then I couldn't stop thinking about it. Got totally hooked on The 1975 and Matty. I love them so much.
I would no be able to pull it live without totally collapsing. He's such a strong guy.
it's so good to know he's so much happier and healthier now :)
It's amazing that he can song so well when drinking so gratuitously. (No diss here, I love Matty... Just making an observation.)
He's amazing no matter what
Hahahaha I am 59 and saw THE 1975 in Dallas in May and November and Matty and I like our vino!!!! Consume as much as you can while you are young. Tho I am 509 I LIVE LIFE OUT HARD!!!!! I like Charlie the drummer and why don't they ever sing "Antichrist" it is so different. They aren't a Pauop band you know
Hey here's some corrections 509 (59) and George is the drummer
haye at least we spell our names right, thanks for the grammar correction look at my video of THE 1975 in dallas nov youtube michellegbruce
michelle kavanagh blew that not much time to be on here thanks michelle for the grammar correction, at least our parents spelled our names right and yes George is the drummer look on youtube at my video in dallas November 2014 michellegbruce thanks again for the help
that crowd is irritating. makes me apprehensive for my show but I will survive!!
I was so aggravated with the crowd the whole night, but I mean it's worth putting up with!
This song hurts so bad every time I hear it
this is honestly my favorite video on the internet.
This song means so much to me, I can't believe I missed this show!! 💛
i comeback to this every time
This song hits me so hard no matter how many times I listen to it. I would’ve been bawling if I was there and he was sat in front of me singing it the whole time.
Hans down, the most amazing live performance I've ever seen.. This song is truly a divine creation.
This band fucks me up bad because as much as I appreciate and love their music, their crowds and fans kill any good experience I may have at one of their shows.
I agree so much!! I'm just back from their concert tonight and the people around it ruined it by screaming shit at Matty and stuff, I've been looking forward to this concert for months, only to get hit in the face by some girl who's jumping about trying to get to the front?? i really tried to enjoy myself but I was so pissed off man
+Sophie McShannon Right? I'm seeing them in May again and one of side I feel like "Frick yea I'm seeing a rad band" and at the same time I feel like "I don't wanna fuck with that shit at all". idk; I guess that's what liking a popular band has to be like now of days. Hope you got to enjoy their actual performance more than your crowd experience tho :)
+butchyboxer THIS. I went to their concert in March and a girl in front of me got aggressive when I got shoved in to her and she punched me, horrid experience which ruined the whole night!
Personally I love this song because it hits a few nerves of those dark thoughts that I have had but watching him sing this live wow! it honestly blew me away so much so that I had tears streaming down my face... Just shows us how much music can make us feel
I was here this year with the love of my life. Ill never forget that moment,
while he drank his wine. love you matty.
wow- this made me realize how personal it is for the artist themself; thank you!~
This was my first ever concert and it was awesome. Matty came on stage with a bottle of wine and smoking cigarettes! Will never forget😍 especially when he sand You💕💕
THIS MAKES ME CRY SO MUCH
at 1:26 a guy say's "he kinda sounds like prince" lol
R.I.P
I cried watchin him drink so heavily during the song he's so perfect!
omg that person is so close i would have died
He is so perfect
this still gets me so fucking
E M O T I O N A L
beauty at it's fucking finest
this is honestly the most beautiful thing I have ever seen my eyes are sweating damn:(
i'm about to cry, this is my fav song
he makes me smile
Matty, baby stop drinking :(
shut the fuck up?
+Halle Bro why are you so rude? shes acually caring about him
+Halle Bro no you should shut the fuck up. you are acting like the typical teenage fan who's like 'matty has problems, leave him be let him drink!11!!!!' madelyn is a normal caring person and she's right, stop romanticizing the alcohol. its stupid. jesus\fjadfdfuighj uGh
It's his fucking body if he wants to drink let him so many people drink why comment negatively on it its not going to stop him anyway
CAN EVERYONE CHILL THE FUCK OUT OMFG I'M WORRIED FOR HIS WELL BEING I KNOW HE CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL HE WANTS WITH IT. THIS IS NOT A NEGATIVE FUCKING COMMENT I AM GENUINELY WORRIED
Song means absolutely everything to me
BABY BOY. BABY.
Such a raw performance
i cried so hard
i love this so much
gracias oor haber subido.
this is my favorite song
this is so beautiful. wish they played it at my concert in Vancouver
such a sad song but such a good song
I cry every time
There best show was the 1st time in Toronto at the MODCLUB, even a smaller venue and they Rocked.
The Vids are all on my channel.
No sax dude though....
This song is beautifully depressing. I always tear up when i listen to this .
im crying thIS IS TOO MUCH BYE
I have too see them again...
I gave you something you can never give back. Dont you mind! . 💔 😑
I wish this Matty could see himself now :(
Fuck I wish I could have been there
did you capture "fallingforyou?" that would be amazing
no sorry ://
they played fallingforyou at riverstage in brisbane australia last night
every time he tips the bottle i just can’t help thinking about what he’s been through..
what time did the show start at & what time did you get there to be in first row?! im going to kool haus for them in november and it'd be very helpful to knowww!!
can't hear this song on certain days....
go hann on the keyboard thingo love you babe
kind of heartbreaking. my favourite song by them. I kind for only ever get drunk off wine haha so I find to funny when he has a bottle onstage but at the same time, does he really need to drink? I'm fine with it, its just makes me wonder sometimes
I think it's because the lyrics are so personal to him that he needs alcohol to help him get through it.
I got GA for november, how early did u have to get there to get front row? :)
This hit
Are you sure it's in Toronto? It's identical to the show i saw in BOLOGNA ITALY...same bottle of wine, same song, same dresses......weird!!
ICroft aha yeah it was toronto
How long did you wait on line to get that close?
how early did you get there to get front row?
Haha. What if it's just water or cranberry juice in the bottle??
I'm so excited for my concert in January but I'm kind of scared because I don't think i'm going to be sitting with my friends
i hate the people cheering, i'd be crying and be really emotional if i were there
After #I'm sorry but I'd rather be getting high then watching my family die
- Who's the guy who says "He's not saying the words"
Matty is clearly singing
That man does not deserve to be there if he's not going to give them the respect they deserve!!!
THE SAXOPHONE SOLOS
how early before the concert did you get to the venue to get a good spot?
we camped out
This makes me so sad
What time did you get there to be at the front?
I don't mind
+MarysolRoldan filmed it on my iphone5
this probably would have owned me haha.
so saddd :(
Ouch.
Oh, Matty. Don't be a drunk hot mess.
If they place this when I see them in two weeks I'm gOING TO LOSE MY SHIT
I saw them again a few weeks ago and they played the same setlist!
i love matty, don’t you mind
I get so annoyed whenever I find a live video of me. Like Matty specifically tells every crowd to put their phones away so the moment is personal between you and him, not plastered all over the fucking internet. Smh.
Candyce Joseph in earlier concerts he asked people to put their phones away for 'is there somebody' so that's why this video may have been filmed
Haha man that bottle is empty take a closer look 👀 when he puts it on the light
idek what i would do if i was that close to matty
what kind of wine does matty drink?
Any
Mostly red wine
anthony ramsaroop yea i know that but like what kind of brands
jacobs creek merlot
got a plane in the middle of the night, don't you mind
I nearly killed somebody, don't you mind, don't you mind
I gave you something you can never give back, don't you mind
You've seen your face like a heart attack, don't you mind, don't you mind
I was late but I arrived
I'm sorry but I'd rather be getting high than watching the family die
Exaggerate and you and I
Oh I think I did something terrible to your body, don't you mind
I put your mother through hell, don't you mind
I hate your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind
Oh I was thinking about killing myself, don't you mind
I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind
I put your mother through hell, don't you mind
I hate your brother as well, don't you mind, don't you mind
Oh I was thinking bout killing myself, don't you mind
I love you, don't you mind, don't you mind
HOWD YOU GET SO CLOSE
aha we camped out over night!
He's even hotter drunk
Sounds a bit rapey, no?
+Xander Trotchie not what I meant at all 😅
don't encourage him
he is stumbling and can barely sing. his drinking is a problem. i prefer him way more sober and healthy, don't you?
Kenzie Q I love that he’s doing much better now, coming back to these videos make me sad
What camera?
i dont wanna be this kind of person but they (specially matty) dont like it when you film intimate songs..
He seems heartbroken..
The poor boy looks so miserable and is _so_ wine drunk that he can't even stand straight! He is performing his broken heart out and, by the looks of it, barely conscious and people are cheering him on when he chugs more wine! Un-fucking-believable. I know the fans aren't there for moral support, but they shouldn't romanticize this poor boys broken mental state either. The performance was amazing but damn was it depressing too.
fuCK ME UP