Giving Birth in Mexico vs. the United States - Our Journey in Mexico After Deportation
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- Welcome back to our channel! This channel is all about our life after my husband's deportation. As we approach Mother's Day I thought I would tell you my experiences giving birth in Mexico versus the United States! Enjoy and make sure to drop your questions below!
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Your life/story is so interesting. Your husband must have done something right. He is lucky to have chosen you for his wife & mother of his children. Y'all genuinely seem happy & so humble. I love y'all!! Blessings to you & your family!!
Hola yes Fidel es muy afurtunado de tener ir de aver encontrado a una guerita tan linda y hermosa wow k hermosa family
Qué bonita eres mujer qué orgullo que vivas en México
My first and only Son was born in Salt Lake City Utha then 2 Daughters in Chicago last one after 12 years in California 🥰🥰🥰🥰
¡Los subtítulos en español estarán disponibles en 24 horas! ¡Me disculpo por el retraso!
Don't worry, a lot of Mexicans speak good English. But, to be fair, not all like to talk to "some tourists" because we understand the giggling about the US being significantly richer than us and the obvious consequences of that economic fact. Indeed, Mexico is not an advanced society. However, as a member of the G20 is a developed country like most of Europe. The real question should be, why most of the people on planet earth can't escape poverty? A country might be richer than others, but that does not mean that in that way is better or worse (Like your family in law). Nevertheless, don't forget that you're no longer a tourist!
Q hermosa damita eres muy linda y guapa
Don't Worry people from Mexico understand English👍
Felicidades excelente día bendiciones familia México Norteamericana
Feliz día de las madres adelantado para ti güerita 🤗🤗🤗❤️. Hermosa familia ❤️
I have been coming to Mexico, mainly Acapulco since 1962. I do speak Spanish as a second language. I moved permanently to Queretaro, Mexico on 11-2-2021 at 79
. I moved because of the deadly crimes and the rents, utilities etc. taking almost all of my retirement income. It is safer, beautiful and cleaner here, and $850 per month less expensive.
There is not any shortage or limits on food, and I use home delivery, as I did in the USA
. I use Amazon-Mexico to order the foods, that i miss from the USA, and are not sold here. Grits, Louisiana hot sauce, Hormel Beef tamales, Libby's Corn Beef hash, Red chili flakes, and Campbell's chicken noodle soup.. Pork is all that I do not eat, and I cook 99% of my food.
Butterball has the best turkey bacon! The earthquakes were the deal breakers for Acapulco, but I will always love her.
Grilled Red Snapper and Pollo Felez are my favorite foods, that I order for take out.
My apartment has a fantastic view of all of Queretaro, all utilities and WiFi, maid service, and 100% furnished with everything, and a beloved king size bed, like at home.
I am working on my temp retirement visa, since I did get 180 days, but at this age, I do not want to do visa runs, and never know how many days I will get. It is better, if you can to get the temp retirement visa.
God bless the world,and please behave. Hands are for helping and not hurting. Put a d before anger, and you get deadly danger. Do not argue! No one can ride your back, unless you bend over. Only the strong survives. Treat everyone, the way you want to be treated. Karma never loses an address, and we will reap what we have sown.
DO THE RIGHT THING ALWAYS!
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Thank you
I love all the wonderful videos..
I just found your channel and I loved it! Thank you very much for your great content. Greetings from México City.
Awesome, thank you!
Arti you are everywhere!
Auxilioooo! no puedo parar de ver los videos de esta familia hermosa! ❤️siempre les dejo un like 👍🏻🥰
I love watching your videos! One day when I grow up (I’m almost 49 😂) I hope to speak Spanish as well as you. One of my best friends for over 33 years speaks Spanish and if I pay attention I can pick up on the general idea of the conversations she has with family members who don’t speak English but it’s time I learn!
Thank you for sharing your story and your family💙
Oh how I wish we still had Radio Shack. The only place you can say, " I need a whatchamacallit for awhatchmajig" and they know what you are talking about.
Lol so true!
😂😂😂 very accurate ❣️
@@Poolgirl007 so funny !
@@laguerita70🐬 Love ♥️ Love 💝 Love 🌻😍 Love 😘🐣
I found your show just by changing the channels and I have to say you have a great smile love your show and I wish the best for your family and your husband
Your husband , Fidel, should go to the INSTITUTO MEXICANO DEL SEGURO SOCIAL, and pay for a health plan. Besides, this is a good idea because when he is 60 years Cold he Bill get some money monthly.
God bless You.
Can a Mexican spouse get a health plan for their U.S. citizen wife? I thought you had to be a Mexican citizen to get Seguro Popular.
@@963ag hola tienes que apostillar tu acta d matrimonio y traducirla a español para que t den un acta d matrimonio mexicana y puedas tener seguro medico por parte d tu esposo,o seguro popular ,y es el mismo tramite para los hijos,busca alguna oficina de apoyo al migrante en tu localidad si vives en México
So with health insurance in the US and you paid $7000 out of pocket and in Mexico without insurance you paid $850?? Wow! That’s crazy lol
I live in another state in Mexico and the best private hospital in my city a birth costs like 3000 dlls without insurance. The cost depends of the city, in bigger cities like CDMX, Monterey and Guadalajara ir more expensive for sure.
Medical insurance is exploitation. Lawyers are exploitation. Universities are too. Ridiculous money they charge. Abuse.
I have always said that the super rich, ( Owners of hospitals, Insurance companies, Banks), are breaking USA"s economy
Charging over excess of money...
@@jamest5417 Doctors over overmedicate people. Universities, collages, charge ridículos amounts for books. Lawyers don't defend people they just want to make huge amounts of money, and just stand there, handing over documents you gave them, to the judge.
Also keep in mind the difference in salary. The minimum wage over there is around 70 dolars per week. So if that was your case, then you'd have a hard time paying $850.
Que historia! Eres una buena mujer y un gran soporte para tu esposo, felicidades!!
How about a video of comparing common used items prices to US $ and in Mexico $?
Not sure how ended up on your channel but I ain’t mad!!! Love and appreciate how your love supported your hubby through thick and thin!!! Love from A Mexi!! In Orange County Ca!!
Que hermosa experiencia ser madre y más porque siempre estuviste acompañada eso reconforta y más cuando sabes que todo salió bien felicidades para ti en el día de las madres soy nueva en tu canal me gusta lo sencilla que eres.
Wuereja QUE "HERMOSA ERES" spiritually! Your soul its so pretty lady, when I see your videos the only think I see its happiness in your soul, that is beutiful, nice family but the little one looks so cute. Pressed the thumbs up.
La manera como platicas la historia es muy amena, la humildad la risa realmente enganchas al público por qué es natural y tal como eres.
Que siga creciendo tu canal de RUclips👍
Almost 100000 Guerita, congratulations. You are a solid lady so is your husband, good videos, l only found out about your channel recently, good work.
Both boys are were absolutely adorable babies. You you and fidel plan on having anymore kids?
Mereces todo mi respetos les deseo toda la felicidad linda fam.
Hurray hurray for Dominic he came into world El guerito Mexicano
I had my first child in México, natural no option for epidural 28 years ago, it was in shock of how quick it was, my second child i had in U.S.A and I hate it how they are constantly trying to push for epidural or to induce the birth, they want to keep you in a bed attached to a bunch a monitors, I also had my child with in 3 hours of arrival, I can't complain I had good experience and my kids are very healthy..
Thank you for sharing your experience.
No entiendo ni madres pero me gusta como habla su risa me encanta
😂😂😂👍🏽
😂😂😂 está hablando de las diferencias entre México y Estados Unidos a la hora de tener un bebé, lo que ella paso.
@@Lilihogar thank you so much
@@maurygarcia3944 "thank you so much" pero "no entiende ni madre" yes that makes perfect sense
@@aleorozco1994 hahaha
Lo mismo pensé yo
Linda bella familia mexicana y Americana se miran muy felices todos y con Diego ahora pues más aún felicidades.
Thank you for sharing your story
Dios te bendiga SIEMPRE😘 güerita, éres muy simpática, ére un amor!,
Muchas Bendiciones!💓 para tí y tu fam. hermosa.
100,000 suscriptores🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations☺️
God bless you guys always🙏🏻🙏🏻
I just stared following your channel, you look so happy and yes Mexico is a beautiful place you seem well adapted with your beautiful family, I just want to say that don’t wait years in giving Dominic the USA citizenship you never know if one day he wants to go leave in the USA and the older they get some time it gets difficult, law changes every time it’s just a. Advice. I will keep watching your channel and the commercials.
Hello from Alabama, I am from Puebla like your husband but I didn't come back to my home town for 18 years 😑😑😑
Hey there Hope you guys are doing great! 😀 Your family is so✨ beautiful ✨ and Dominic and Diego look so much alike in their baby photos
Thank you! They really do look so much alike it’s crazy ❤️
If you give birth to a child in Mexico, you have right of citizenship in Mexico.
I also had my 2 children here in Mexico !!!
And I was also able to fix there papers here
Life here is so different but I love it and my husband is by there side a d mine
So at the end its all worth it
Nice of you to share the story of having your boys and the comparison of have one in the US and one in Mexico. Blessings for a HAPPY MOTHERS DAY! FELIZ DIA DE LAS MADRES!
Almost reaching 100k subscribers Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾
I’m still in disbelief lol
You got it güerita!!!!! Congrats 🎊🇲🇽🎉🎊🎉
My oldest son was born in a more "upscale" in the US and had so many issues. My twins were born in Mexico and had the best care by all the doctors ans staff.
Your boys look so much alike as babies. But so different now except that Diego is so handsome and Dominic is so so 🥰 cute. Thank you for the video. Please do a flour or corn tortilla making video.
Guerita- were those costs only based on giving birth or for the entire pregnancy? I, like you, had terrible health insurance so I too paid a ton during pregnancy and for the birth 😞 thanks for sharing! Happy Mother’s Day weekend! Will you celebrate Sunday like in the US or on the 10th as we do in MX?
Those costs were just for delivery. Happy Mother’s Day to you too!
Aww, they are adorable 😍 sending 💕 from Utah! Love your videos.
Happy Mother’s Day! You are a great mother and wonderful wife. Your story makes me admire you a lot; following your husband and building a great family life in Mexico. An example of resilience, true love and having a kind soul.
I can absolutely relate to your birth story in mexico; I couldn’t get an epidural either because it was too late when the anesthesiologist arrived. And I remember so well the doctor telling me “you can do it, millons of women give birth everyday, you can do it also”...... I just thought that yeah, like it is a competition or what!?! The worst pain of my life, but followed by the greatest joy of my life as soon as I saw my healthy beautiful baby boy.
You were so lucky to have a good experience in Mexico. I am from Mexico and I had my first baby there, it was a horrific experience it was meant to be a c section and my baby and I almost died, they literally pull the baby out of me, that kept me from not getting pregnant again for 15 years 🤣🤣. Then I got pregnant in USA and had an awesome experience (of course a c section).
Pero Y eso que pagó en un hospital privado y aún así no se compra la salud o la tensión o la calidad de hospitales privado en México con los siquiera un público en Estados
I just found your channel and I love your personality! Your family is precious :)
I loved your beautiful birthing experience. I lived in Mexico for 8 years of my marriage in Zacatecas. I had a miscarriage and sadly it was the most horrific experience. I didn’t like the hospital or the staff. I do have four beautiful daughters but all were born in the states. We do go visit regularly almost every year. Only one daughter goes with us now. Due to two of my daughters are married and one has a career so difficult to get vacations at the same time. I really really love your experience married to your husband Fidel. And your boys are beautiful. Praying everything goes well for you and your family. Keep up the beautiful stories and GOD bless your marriage.
I was confused by the question as to why you would choose your husband over your sisters in law in the delivery room. Who wouldn't choose their husband over anyone else?
It must not be common to have the father in the delivery room in Mexico.
@@teresanorris4769 it is common in private hospitals in Mexico, in public hospitals nobody can be with you, only doctors and nurses
My mistake. For some reason I didn't associate it with the Country. I had children in Guatemala and had my husband with me. I'm just so happy everything went well for you. We love watching your vlogs.
@@nadita so true
Probably because while giving birth, you need someone not so emotional and nervous.
I love Radio Shack! Can you get Mexico’s health insurance being a permanent resident? You have such a jovial personality, always smiling, happy, laughing. So nice to see. Did you have to get married in both countries for immigration to recognize? How has pediatric care been there? How are the schools? Is Diego home schooled, go to public or private? Is he taught in Spanish or English? How did you meet your husband?
I’m new in your Chanel and Love the family concept you have, strongly support you, may God bless y’all, take care.
I’m from Mexico City but I live in Chicago Illinois.
Happy Mothers Day!!!!!! From South Carolina
Bendiciones linda fam.les deseo exito en sus proyectos de vida,tengo poco de seguirlos y me encanto ver como tu esposo trabaja sus tierras,saludes de Sonora Mex.
Hello 🙂 from Oklahoma City!! Wishing your family many blessings
Thank you Maria! Same to you and yours!
Hola Maria
Hello🙂 How was the process in getting your baby US citizenship? My husband lives in Mexico and I’m in the States and we still can’t figure out how to end this long distance. We are planning a future baby and we hope he can see that one be born since he missed our first born 💔
You just go to the US Consulate in Mexico and register it as a foreign birth abroad.
@@kelseyluis2011 yup! Doing this when my little girl is born :)
i understand you go to the consulate and say its a birth abroad but do you register your child first and get there mexican birth certificate or just go straight to the consulate
Move to Mexico or to one Border and live within your budget. You will experience a more relax and cool life.. you can still find nice places to live and utilities are cheap. With your knowlegde of english you can join a private school as teacher or give extra classes .. or join a team. Be creative.. knowing two lenguages helps, but knowing english its a commidity.
commodity lol
Hello from Lone Pine Ca.!! We like watching your videos. Saludos para Fidel y tus niños.
We have a great experience with my 2 first daughter's in Hospital Angeles in Mexico but a terrible experience in Dallas with my 3rd at Methodist Mansfield TX, their negligence almost kill my daughter, Obgyn, resident showed up 2 hours into labor, baby was suffocating and tired.
Skin to skin is a fraud they charge you $40 bucks to hug your own kid.
Probably you was a little far from Puebla city and the anesthesiologist was the only one in town.
So I feel it's different to have a baby in a little town or in a big city regardless of the country.
I love your histories by the way.
Hola! Felicidades por tu familia, mi experiencia con mis 3 hijos... nacieron en USA pero bajo distintas circunstancias, el primero nació en hospital fué parto natural osea nada de epidural, el segundo nació con partero, fué tan rápido(natural también) el tercero fué embarazo de alto riesgo, tengo una condición que se llama incompetencia cervical, así que a las 6 semanas de gestación me cosieron el cuello de la matriz(procedimiento realizado en México) para retenerme al bebé y pase como me dijo el dr.en México, "como las gallinitas, echadita" sólo me levantaba de la cama para ir al baño, mi hijo nacio a los 8 meses de gestación pero pesando 7 libras, como habia tenido una amenaza de aborto me habian inyectado para madurarle los pulmones asi que respiró sólo, salimos a los 3 dias del hospital(a Dios gracias) mi recuperacion fué larga y puedo decir es mil veces preferible el parto natural a la cesárea, nace el bebito y de la felicidad una se olvida de los dolores que tenia 5 minutos antes, con la cesárea los dolores continuan, no sé.. para mi fué terrible, necesaria si por éso la acepte. El tercer hijo lo iba a tener el México pero mi segundo hijo enfermo y estuvo 4 dias en el hospital y ahi fue cuando tuve la amenaza de aborto y fui atendida por un excelente dr.asi que él mismo me atendio en el parto.
“ it was very scary 🤪😆😄” 😅😭😖 ugh everything sounded so stressful but you laughed through the story 💛
Cuando nacieron mis dos hijos en el Isste, a mi inmediatamente me los pusieron en el pecho ❤️🥰
Querida: creo que ya deberías dejar de usar la palabra "deportación·. Pertenece al pasado y a ustedes les conviene mirar hacia adelante, hacia el futuro.
Yesenia from California here . What is on your bucket list of places to visit in Mexico? Mine is Oaxaca 💗
No dejes de hablar en inglés, estoy mejorando mi inglés contigo. Porque podría hablar como lo habla naturalmente que es de EEUU
Hey wuz up stoping by to show some love 🙏🏾🇲🇽😎. Great video
Thank you so much 🤗
Love your birthing story. My Dr. said the same to me about not wanting me to yell.... I was so angry with him!!
What beautiful experience !!! I love Mexico 🇲🇽
Ur such a beautiful and smart girl!!!
Keep them videos coming!!!!❤️💓😉
I think the skin to skin isn't just a USA thing. I had my 2 kids in Texas and they did just what they did with Dominic, cleaned them up and tended to them. I think it's probably a region / hospital thing. They were both great and I didn't even realize it didn't happen(skin to skin).
A wonderful and excellent wife. Guerita you're the best, God bless your family always and happy mother's day.🙏
We have 5 and I been in the delivery room with all 5 here in the states it's being so amazing and different experience with each one my wife had them naturally no epidural.
Hi! I didn’t know you are from Utah! I came to Utah when I was a child, I’ve been living here almost my whole life. I was born in Mexico. And I married a gringo 🤣 13 years ago and we have 2 beautiful boys too.
Eres tan linda, tus hijos son bellos los dos, no sabía que el chiquitín Dominick nació en México 🥰 me encantan, son una familia hermosa.
You're the best and you're blessed to have a husband who loves you. You kids are so adorable. You are so humble and this life you have chosen God will be iit.and you and your family will be happy and prosper
Take care of one another and the rest will fall in place love you guys
Hi, how was for you growing up both of you boys as babies to being 2 , in different countries? Like feeding them, taking care of them, etc. . Thanks love your channel
Thank you for the suggestion, there are a lot of differences and similarities. Maybe I can go more in depth in another video. Thank you for being here!
Thank you for sharing you story and Happy Mothers Day!
I have been living in Salt Lake City Utah for twenty years ... and my grandchildren were born here, I am proud to be a Utah resident. I love Utah.
Ok
Good for yu
Me too! Utah is awesome
Good to hear all went well. My question is about diet in US vs Mexico. It seems from the videos of your family, your diets are healthier in Mexico. Please discuss that and if you feel you got to enjoy all your "cravings". God bless the beautiful familia.
I only wanted my husband in the room with me! I don’t need anyone else, it was only my husband and I making the baby why would I need anyone else!
I love your story. It was lovely.I love your commentary. Good Parents, lovely little family.
HI,CANDIS NEW SUBSCRIBER .HERE FROM CALIFORNIA WHERE DO YOU LIVE IN PUEBLA? MY HUSBAND IS FROM THERE ALSO.GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Your Mexico experience is really similar to how my Daughter was born 26 years ago in a military hospital in Georgia. It was so different than my 1st daughter 16 months earlier.
The experience from your second child was the way it was in the states when i gave birth. ❤
The pictures are always nice ❤ thank you for sharing them, God bless you and your beautiful familia!
I too, am the wife of a deportee... In the state of Chihuahua. I have been trying to find out- (with difficulty) about health insurance in Mexico- for U.S. citizens. I have numerous health issues and have had to go to Texas for treatments. This is depressing being seperated from my husband. I couldn't get Seguro Popular either, not being Mexican. Paying out of pocket is not an option. Are you going to try to get Mexican residency legally? Would you recomend it for someone in our situation? I love your videos.
I would have been so upset waiting what 6 hours or more than not getting it at all. I was so lucky. Both times I had to get pitocon my Drs didn't run it until epidural was placed....I only last about 15 minutes from 2c to 10c with it
Wow!
You can get dual citizenship and get insurance in mexico. All you need is ur birth certificate apossealed and then translated by a notary public in the states and take those to the municipality place in ur town
The price was fabulous! I am glad your experience was fantastic! Live watching you and your family.
Once giving birth to Dominic did you go to the U.S consultation for his dual citizenship? Also is there any parent requirements that Dominic need from you guys for the dual citizenship ? Does it matter if one parent is U.S citizen and your husband is not?
Yay thank you for acknowledging my comment!! I’m so glad I found you a few months ago. Thank you again for sharing your life with us!!! In the end of child birth you have two handsome little guys! Well Diego isn’t that little anymore😂
Your Dominick is so damn cute. Congratulations
I can't believe the Doctor told u you did not have to scream!! What in the world!
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ hi I LOVE YOUR CHANELL IM FROM CHIHUAHUA MEXICO BUT I HAVE BEN LIVING AT DALLAS TX SINCE 20 YEARS AGO I JUST WANT TO LET YOU THAT YOU ARE INCREDIBLY PERSON SWEET BRAVE WOMEN THANK YOU FOR SHOWING OUR COUNTRY .. MEXICO
Don't EVER apologize or feel any way about Fidel being with you.........Boy don't know what the question bout this is......dah...........GOD BLESS.
100k that's awesome, once you get the 100k badge or whatever youtube send, make a video👍
Been watching you since the pandemic started😊
Do you or Diego ever experience racism in Mexico because you are American? Second to that is Diego going to continue America online school or will he go to a school there next year?
Howdy 🤠 from Texas. Yes story time ☺️
Howdy!
Hello family a pleasure to greet you beautiful Dominic and Diego greetings from California🙏❤🌹👨👩👦👦
Hola Ericka
@@eltixcasalcedo5927 hello good morning
Lo que sea lo mejor para el baby futuro the Best interesa for you guys saludos desde Veracruz, México
I so happy that you almost reach the 100 thousand subs , congratulation you really love Mexico, and a happy Mother’s Day by the way.God bless you.
I love your laugh remembering the experience
I'm so nosy! Are you gonna back to the US? Do you plan to stay there? Like I want to know the future plans. I need to see all videos to know the whole story.
Thanks for sharing!! I was moved to an OR to deliver as well in the states. It was first time so I assumed everyone does this LOL. I also didn't have time for epidural and was too far along to get it and had to give birth... I remember it happen so fast!
I had two in Mexico and 2 in the US . Very big difference. So it was a great experience when I had my third one in Texas . My first delivery was not so good . It was an emergency c section 😔 but it didn’t matter I had my baby boy (now 28 ) with me . …. Just saw your videos on Tic Tok today . Love your story
Saludos 🙋 desde McAllen Texas güerita
Hola feliz día de la madre Espero que Diego y Dominique estén a tu lado👨👩👧👦💞💞👍🌷🌷🇲🇽🇺🇸
Hello 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️ from San Antonio Texas 🙋♀️🙋♀️
1) $7K?! Wow! 😳
2) Of course Fidel should be in the room and be there for his child’s birth.
3) thanks for sharing❣️❣️