This is why Asians and Americans shouldn't have kids together

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • Since Logesh is from Malaysia and Rachel is from America they have experienced many differences in their interracial relationship. Watch the Kumaar family unpack what the struggles of being in a multi-cultural relationship.
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  • @Ali-hd6jm
    @Ali-hd6jm Год назад +3144

    You forgot one thing. In Asia, if you are sick but laugh out loud or get up from the bed, then you are not sick😆😆😆

    • @KumaarFamily
      @KumaarFamily  Год назад +320

      Yes! That’s a good one!!

    • @Lily-Slytherin-
      @Lily-Slytherin- Год назад +85

      Yep🥲
      I laugh at a vid and I *AM* sick but my parents are like “no your good”

    • @jonneha7
      @jonneha7 Год назад +44

      SO TRUE!!! I get up to go get water and strike a conversation with my mom, and suddenly she’s like “I thought you were sick”

    • @harryfied47
      @harryfied47 Год назад +6

      😂😂 true

    • @Rizza38
      @Rizza38 Год назад +52

      Not only Asia, my black parents especially my mother, watches you like a Hawk whenever you say you're not feeling well. Any sign of a smile or you decide to watch TV, "So that means you're feeling better now"

  • @abhishekgoyal5568
    @abhishekgoyal5568 Год назад +5031

    I am an Indian and I can totally relate to all things logesh was doing...

  • @007rockford
    @007rockford Год назад +979

    Kudos to the kid for being so patient while mom n dad were busy in acting

    • @mycroftknight
      @mycroftknight Год назад +45

      Underrated comment. Agree with you. It seems the kid hold his laugh the whole time.

    • @_InsertName_
      @_InsertName_ Год назад +4

      How did u add that emoji ???

    • @villamiles
      @villamiles Год назад +4

      And kudos for you for adding that image. How did you even do that? 😮

    • @bhak_off_tyvm
      @bhak_off_tyvm 10 месяцев назад

      @@_InsertName_ i also wanna know

    • @hehehohohahahihihuhu
      @hehehohohahahihihuhu 9 месяцев назад +1

      tada

  • @Mitzeria1
    @Mitzeria1 Год назад +391

    As a Black American I can relate to this. Both my parents are black and my dad treated me like the American parent…but my mom was DEFINITELY the Asian parent 😂

  • @u_r_not_ugly_u_r_poor2660
    @u_r_not_ugly_u_r_poor2660 Год назад +2365

    As an Indian, I can confirm whatever Kumaar is doing is totally relatable 🤣😂

    • @sunshine2294
      @sunshine2294 Год назад +38

      Brooo apart from the comment I agree with your username 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Lily-Slytherin-
      @Lily-Slytherin- Год назад +2

      Well the username
      Naw my father owns an apartment oki😕
      Well as a Nepali I can agree with ya😂

    • @elenascopelliti1211
      @elenascopelliti1211 Год назад +8

      As an Italian, I can say I am closer to an indian parent than an american one. Lovely couple anyway! ❤

    • @bhawnaverma1612
      @bhawnaverma1612 Год назад +4

      It means Malaysian are same as Indians😅🤣

    • @akshaypillai4284
      @akshaypillai4284 Год назад

      Yes, Apart from 85% diluted.🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @hamna.f7385
    @hamna.f7385 Год назад +4506

    Once I got 99% on a class test, I was so proud of myself. And then my mom asked me "Is it the highest score in your class" I replied "No there is a girl who got 100%". I still regret my those words because my mom gave me 1h lecture on that 1%😢😢😂😂😂

  • @hiden6202
    @hiden6202 Год назад +116

    I am an Indian so I can tell that everything shown is indeed relatable but the intensity of being angry and all other emotions was just 1% of how we really get treated

  • @NW-lh1eb
    @NW-lh1eb Год назад +16

    i am Sri lankan this is 1000% true story. now i am 22 but my parents still treat like a small kid. however i love them because they are my world and they sacrifice their beautiful young life for us

  • @skirtrunning
    @skirtrunning Год назад +2502

    10/10 for both parents doing what they think is the best for the kids. Kids will grow up confident because of all the love they get from each parent in their own way.

    • @Straline.
      @Straline. Год назад +2

      577

    • @stobit.
      @stobit. Год назад +2

      Fax✨♥️

    • @VionaShu
      @VionaShu Год назад +11

      True, In the future, The kids can literally work in any kind of company in the world!! 🌎🧳

    • @blackairforce13
      @blackairforce13 Год назад +4

      It's like good cop bad cop but the dad being more like strict cop

    • @abczuchini3757
      @abczuchini3757 Год назад +3

      True.. that is what matters the most. Getting love from both parents. Many people dont have that

  • @yuliakvasnytsya8813
    @yuliakvasnytsya8813 Год назад +4148

    I love the part where Logesh covers up his son's eyes at the kissing scene in the movie. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @shathisvengadasalam1708
      @shathisvengadasalam1708 Год назад +169

      That's what happens if your parents are Indian 🤣

    • @littlenewthings2662
      @littlenewthings2662 Год назад +66

      Oh my gosh I remembered that growing up

    • @FirstLast-tx7cw
      @FirstLast-tx7cw Год назад +22

      Yeah I can really see this one happening, others....mmmm not so much

    • @gram5127
      @gram5127 Год назад +85

      even when i grew up, i closed my own eyes or cover the screen during those scenes showing up lmao. get used to it.

    • @nsh7717
      @nsh7717 Год назад +33

      @@gram5127 yeah me too... I'm used to it until now... I'm Malaysian btw😁👍

  • @iamvictoria99
    @iamvictoria99 Год назад +719

    I still remember, once I asked my mom for letting me sleep over at my friend's house but then she replied me: If you want to sleep over at your friend's house then pack all your clothes into luggage and live there.
    I was so speechless after hearing that😅

    • @tabibhassan3376
      @tabibhassan3376 Год назад +39

      She told the right thing
      U can hangover all the time at your friends house. But why night? Night is not a good time. Specially for girls. Night (after 7/8) everybody should be at their own house.
      Ur mom was saying good for you. Even my mom told me this all the time. I used to be angry but now I think what she told was actually good for me

    • @chirantanhegde705
      @chirantanhegde705 Год назад +14

      Its just that our parents are being protective. They see us as babies how much we grow

    • @tabibhassan3376
      @tabibhassan3376 Год назад +4

      @@chirantanhegde705 Yeah but when u become an adult do they still tell u this?
      I am from Bangladesh and they stop telling it after u become 18. You can pretty much do whatever I want even if u r from the Indian subcontinent region

    • @Divyakalyan
      @Divyakalyan Год назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Immeanlol
      @Immeanlol Год назад +17

      Girl then just actually pack ur clothes and luggage and live there! It would leave HER speeches 🤣🤣

  • @Anna.Feather
    @Anna.Feather Год назад +33

    My mom is asian and my dad is Austrian/white, they met in American College and I have lived in the US my whole life, and what happened to me isn’t either of these. If I spilled something they would double-team on me with lectures and clean it up themselves while making me feel as guilty as possible. I guess that was happens when they agree on a parenting style 💀

  • @yolandaxu2647
    @yolandaxu2647 Год назад +3049

    I’m Chinese and my husband is English. This is exactly what happens. Made me laugh so much 😂😂😂

    • @jeffreyepstein4310
      @jeffreyepstein4310 Год назад +20

      Just be white theory

    • @ruru6643
      @ruru6643 Год назад

      (=´ᆺ`=)

    • @priyankabrijesh2636
      @priyankabrijesh2636 Год назад +17

      Don't be strict on your child 😂😂😂

    • @manishchoudhary895
      @manishchoudhary895 Год назад +15

      @@jeffreyepstein4310 touch grass

    • @Asferprivate
      @Asferprivate Год назад +85

      @@priyankabrijesh2636 Being strict on your child makes them tough. But you’ve also got to show them love or you’ll end up with them being broken

  • @khairahusna
    @khairahusna Год назад +2125

    i think the thing that asians could relate the most it the “have you eaten?” part😂 and i love how u guys included the kids in the skit the cutest thing ever ❤️

    • @loriesoliwoda-truong
      @loriesoliwoda-truong Год назад +26

      Yes! My Vietnamese mother-in-law ... always, first thing, even before "hello," or what was made to eat, always, "ăn đi, ăn đi"

    • @bakalurx
      @bakalurx Год назад +1

      No one ask me that. But i heard about " how you doing?"

    • @kathrynrhodes7785
      @kathrynrhodes7785 Год назад +12

      Lol my boyfriend is from Malaysia and he is Asian and his mom when he’s over will ask matter-of-factly if he’s had a bowel movement lately. I was surprised when he told me that that’s a normal conversation at the dinner table for hi, growing up. And his family it’s a natural health question and of course in North America it’s TMI. Where is you know in North America that’s a very weird not table appropriate thing to say so I just thought it was funny.

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 Год назад +4

      @@kathrynrhodes7785 Is he East Asian or South Asian?

    • @paulsutton7001
      @paulsutton7001 Год назад

      @@leesteal4458
      This guy got it right. American means White 💪🏻🇺🇲👍🏻

  • @candiia.l.9365
    @candiia.l.9365 Год назад +54

    As a Caribbean kid, I've felt all of the Asian stuff. It's not an Asian thing, it's a 'minority' thing lol

    • @krisk298
      @krisk298 8 месяцев назад

      Yes it definitely is!! Caribbean kid here who experienced all of that when I was younger.😄 I know if I ever have kids, I would be a mix of both of them😂😂

  • @Ndo_62
    @Ndo_62 Год назад +43

    As an Asian child, I can confirm if it's 200% true (My mother punished me for getting first place but with decreasing grades) she said "Do you play on your phone too much?"

  • @bhupeshwarannamalai8334
    @bhupeshwarannamalai8334 Год назад +1041

    I actually wanna appreciate the small boy because he is the one who made this video feel awesome

    • @KumaarFamily
      @KumaarFamily  Год назад +123

      Zaden is amazing! We love him

    • @christywilkens2481
      @christywilkens2481 Год назад +14

      He played along, and was a great sport! lol

    • @etlens
      @etlens Год назад +16

      Not to mention he’s a handsome little man

    • @markanderson100
      @markanderson100 Год назад +3

      Both the kids were great!

    • @shadowx2652
      @shadowx2652 Год назад

      @@KumaarFamily nice but who’s talking😃?

  • @littlepeepstube3052
    @littlepeepstube3052 Год назад +162

    I like the Father teaching the kid to be responsible abt the water spill. Life has lots to learn and so teach them in small bits from that age. And I like the way the mother celebrated his report card. Father can learn from that.

  • @jacquelineshukla919
    @jacquelineshukla919 Год назад +46

    Your boys are so cute! My husband is from India and we had so many of these differences! So funny and you all seem to take it in stride like we did. A sense of humor is so important

  • @elsabio7686
    @elsabio7686 Год назад +46

    I remember i made a total 100% one time, told my parents very proudly expecting some sort of reward, they just said: "ok, its your responsability, you are supposed to make that everytime" They didnt even said congratulations, my expression was: ☠️

  • @blinkergurl
    @blinkergurl Год назад +1354

    As a south asian, I confirm this. I even relived my childhood because my parents used to be like the dad in this video.. kinda sad that after I grew up and there were some conflicts that made my parents not care about me as much and Im so depressed right now, I literally have noone left in this world. This video was supposed to be funny or wholesome but here I am, typing a comments whilst I wipe my tears away..
    Anyways, you guys are so cute, you have precious little babies and wish you stay happily forever as the beautiful family you are ♥️

    • @GermanicJennifer
      @GermanicJennifer Год назад +116

      I understand completely how you feel, I lost my entire family overnight due to marrying someone outside the religion. It was shocking to say the least and took me YEARS to overcome. I promise you will learn to live with this and be happy again. Grief is a common thing we share as humans and that is what connects us, we all suffer loss eventually….the trick is finding small ways to overcome it. One way that’s greatly helped me is taking small amounts of time where I’m just living in the moment and forcefully removing all thoughts from my brain, stepping into the water on a beach, walking barefoot in the forest or simply just doing anything physical. You may still feel bad emotions but the trick is not to connect thoughts to it, it will eventually subside if you practise this and it worked for me. Best of luck to you, you’re never alone 🙂🌻

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 Год назад +35

      Sorry. I hope you guys can mend fences.

    • @annap7678
      @annap7678 Год назад +29

      I’m so sorry! I really hope things get better for you soon! I don’t know where you are on the religion spectrum but, if you can, pray for your parents and try to forgive them. You can even ask God to put that forgiveness in your heart. Try to be around people who uplift you (in a good, healthy way), and avoid negative people who complain, criticize, and bring you down. Try to do kind things for other people, even those you don’t know well, every day. Live in the light, and God bless you! 🙏🏼

    • @claireconolly8355
      @claireconolly8355 Год назад +11

      So so sorry to hear this, bless you 😪

    • @Omni_Man_Of_Viltrum
      @Omni_Man_Of_Viltrum Год назад +1

      Then dont be depressed there are people who have found out they have one month to live or people who have found out there whole familly has been killed and nobody is alive or people who have found out they are gonna spend there whole life in wheelchairs so stop with the bullshit of im depressed when you can have somany things you could have children a nice wife or husband wichever gender you are just stop with this bullshit called depression ok and get a therapist or FIND SOMETHING TO DO IN YOUR LIFE

  • @rawannagi9020
    @rawannagi9020 Год назад +1109

    As a middle eastern, I relate to almost everything. However, you forgot that they yell at you the entire time that you're sick while simultaneously taking care of you 😂😂😂😂

    • @natali4009
      @natali4009 Год назад +48

      Oh yeah… being sick was a punishment, and not to be enjoyed.😂😂😂😂😂

    • @natali4009
      @natali4009 Год назад +10

      @Yash_Thakur 🤣🤣🤣, that is the objective.
      But if we look past this , the lesson is
      “ dont feel sorry for yourself”
      learn to overcome .

    • @afreen5058
      @afreen5058 Год назад

      Yooo yesss lol

    • @lc8393
      @lc8393 Год назад +1

      Sooo true omg 😂😂😂

    • @malovina
      @malovina Год назад +3

      My mom does that too and we’re Russian

  • @wingsoflotus
    @wingsoflotus Год назад +26

    Lol, I remember back when I was a child, my friend invited me for a sleep over & when I asked my mom for permission, she went... "Why? Don't we have a home? Why do you have to sleep at other people's house?"... and that's how my Asian mom says "No" each time... a full lecture😂

  • @ilaisafinau3453
    @ilaisafinau3453 Год назад +10

    3:44 sick= vicks😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mahnnnnnnnnnnnn😂😂😂

  • @mylovelyjubbly2842
    @mylovelyjubbly2842 Год назад +726

    sometimes we as Malaysians doesn't wanna our kids go sleep over or playing to be much at others house because we worried our kid might causing trouble for others..

    • @shezieblack9086
      @shezieblack9086 Год назад +47

      And got kidnaped too

    • @humayra88
      @humayra88 Год назад +15

      Hmmm... my parents don't mind this much, though it's within a certain set rules growing up.
      This may also be a race thing... maybe... as I noticed most Chinese around me tend to sleep in own houses compared to malays who don't mind whole family sleepovers much (ie on balik kampung times). Not sure in other places though. Just something I noticed with people around me

    • @snowbird1381
      @snowbird1381 Год назад +19

      I wasn’t allowed at sleepovers but my brother was. The hypocrisy was real 🤷‍♀️

    • @humayra88
      @humayra88 Год назад +26

      @@snowbird1381 perhaps to take care of you more as a girl? My parents used to have a set of rules.. they must get to know my friends parents first... no older brothers should be in the house. Luckily my best friends have always had no older brothers. Haha. But for me this is a reasonable rule, looking back

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 Год назад

      @@shezieblack9086 Or molested.

  • @kerryb.6419
    @kerryb.6419 Год назад +259

    Wow, Caribbeans & Asians have a lot in common 😂 I’m Jamaican & I can relate to the Asian side completely!

    • @librarygyal0589
      @librarygyal0589 Год назад +4

      Right???? 🇯🇲

    • @allisonsalmon4440
      @allisonsalmon4440 Год назад +9

      Yep I'm American and my husband Jamaican. This video could have been recorded in our house 😂

    • @candezsimmons2001
      @candezsimmons2001 Год назад

      There was no yelling tho

    • @alexandradorogova9754
      @alexandradorogova9754 Год назад +3

      So do Russians😅, very similar to Asians as well.

    • @krisk298
      @krisk298 8 месяцев назад

      Me too but from Bahamas 🇧🇸 Whooooo!!😄😄😄

  • @AimDRDO2028_drlpj
    @AimDRDO2028_drlpj Год назад +29

    I'm from India and these all things are totally relatable . Specially , the 3rd & 4th one . But in India , when such ( 2:07 ) scenes occurs your father will say you to bring a glass of water .

  • @disha5dp
    @disha5dp Год назад +3

    The night sleeping part is the most important distinction. Thanks for including it. Nice video. Enjoyed watching

  • @reachshubha
    @reachshubha Год назад +488

    I didn't know that there is so much similarities in Indian and Malaysian parenting style 🤣🤣🤣
    BTW, I am an Indian 😄

  • @sujithak3686
    @sujithak3686 Год назад +303

    I loved the sleep scene. Both the sides has pros. Putting them to sleep individually reduces the pressure of mom and also makes the son independent. Also sleeping along with them throughout their childhood creates a good parent child bonding and they feel safe and secure 👍🏻 I really loved the way it was portrayed

  • @agnesmatastik7492
    @agnesmatastik7492 Год назад +19

    Hi, I am Hungarian and some situations are the same in our country: "eaten yet" (your parents think you are starving all day long 😂), sweet dreams, safety and vet hair paranoia and cutted ONIONS under the bed. It was funny and interesting, thank you.

  • @Ira.1
    @Ira.1 Год назад +12

    This was sooo adorable
    Glad you included the bloopers at the end
    You have the sweetest family and the cutest boys 🥰🧿

  • @gurudattaog
    @gurudattaog Год назад +8258

  • @shubhrasamuel9759
    @shubhrasamuel9759 Год назад +405

    OMG, this is so relatable, especially the sleep over, my god, I remembered my Dad, his concept was clear, go meet your friends, have fun but you coming back home, that's it. Miss my parents so much.

  • @JRPLawyeress1
    @JRPLawyeress1 Год назад +19

    That’s hilarious. My husband is Filipino. He would not have done sleep overs at his friends’ houses. His parents were afraid the kids would break something if they even played at someone else’s house. I was the one always excited with the kids’ accomplishments. I think the most excited I’ve seen him is say, “Very good.” He has an American accent but whenever he speaks to a foreigner with a strong accent, regardless of country, he starts speaking in broken English. I have no idea why. It’s a habit. We’ve been married 46 years and the kids have turned out reasonably well adjusted. The oldest boy does standup.

    • @ThirrinDiamond
      @ThirrinDiamond 6 месяцев назад

      Eyyyy not completely messing up is better than most parents! 🙌 Better than mine 😂
      If i ever have kids my main goal will be for them to not need therapy because of something i did lol

  • @yamunasomasundaram1233
    @yamunasomasundaram1233 Год назад +7

    The boys r sooooo lucky to have wonderful parents like you.god bless u both

  • @shikazzz
    @shikazzz Год назад +175

    I didn’t even know that it’s normal for kids to watch those kiss for love scenes until I moved to the U.S for college 😂

  • @shobaramana
    @shobaramana Год назад +417

    I found these videos completely relatable..there is no right or wrong..just wired differently and that's so much fun indeed. Absolutely hilarious and fun to watch. 😂😂😂

    • @Lavenderrose73
      @Lavenderrose73 Год назад +9

      Yeah, I think some parents (in general, regardless of race) can ease up on the less than perfection thing though. Not that I have anyone Malaysian or Asian in my family (other than a cousin from the Philippines who was adopted), but I remember going home with a notice of excellence ("Good Guy Award" or something like that), and being asked why only two of the three good things were checked off. I didn't even know I was going to _get it in the first place,_ or what the things with check boxes even were until I received it. It's important to see more of what the child does right, than what the child does wrong.

    • @ChristDynasty
      @ChristDynasty Год назад +4

      For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life

  • @feelokaywithme9754
    @feelokaywithme9754 Год назад +2

    You know after watching the videos i realise how much beautiful asian are ❤ really they try to make a child in both sector moral & practical areas from childhood

  • @SmartKidsArt
    @SmartKidsArt Год назад +1

    So nice to see you Zae Zae! Lots of love!
    #SmartKidsArt

  • @fujidenzo_kid4147
    @fujidenzo_kid4147 Год назад +117

    The kiss that scene goodbye bit hahaha. Im from a Filipino family and Im telling you, when I was a kid, everytime there is an adult theme scene in the movies we watch, my parents would say, "close your eyes, close your eyes"

    • @user-up5lz9yu5x
      @user-up5lz9yu5x Год назад +9

      I have two siblings and when we were young, we used to close our eyes whenever it came to an romantic scene or smth like that 😂. And we looked each other to know nobody was looking at the movie 🍿😂. Btw still I skip such kinda scene whenever I watch. And appreciate it all the time

  • @Lena-bb6wq
    @Lena-bb6wq Год назад +282

    As a Brazilian I could relate a lot to the Asian way to childcare that this video portraits 🤣
    The "play safe" part is 100% my father

    • @apenasumcanal8808
      @apenasumcanal8808 Год назад

      Né mano, a maioria das coisas são iguais KKKKKKK

    • @Lena-bb6wq
      @Lena-bb6wq Год назад +4

      @@apenasumcanal8808 nossa cultura não é tão distante assim da asiática, né kkkkk

    • @_little_star.
      @_little_star. Год назад +5

      Achei que no primeiro do sofá, ele foi até bonzinho, pois normalmente é na cintada kkkkkk

    • @apenasumcanal8808
      @apenasumcanal8808 Год назад

      @@Lena-bb6wq a cultura talvez seja, mas os pais concertesa não 😅😅

    • @kyalifnoronha2443
      @kyalifnoronha2443 Год назад

      Damn and i thought Brazilian life are like Americans...

  • @spencers4092
    @spencers4092 Год назад +4

    4:38 the fact that he didn't put in the cucumber slice that's been on the table is SO ACCURATE omg i can't 😂😂😂

  • @Diva326
    @Diva326 Год назад +25

    As a Nepalese and Asian I can confirm that whatever kumaar is doing is so relatable 😂

    • @AshishKumar-if4dt
      @AshishKumar-if4dt Год назад

      Is there even a difference between Nepal or india thapa ji

    • @Diva326
      @Diva326 Год назад

      @AshishKumar-if4dt no there is not they are almost similar we don’t need password to visit India and Indian don’t need passwords to visit Nepal and yea nepali and Indian people’s festivals are also similar just called with different names but people think India taking advantage of Nepal and so on yea idk abt that and the writing pattern is kinda similar and speaking is a bit kinda similar but Nepal have the highest like amount of speaking languages like here people speak tamang language, Gurung language, Nepali language and so on etc . About 120 or 125 languages are spoken and it is in the list of most beautiful nature country in 2nd 1sth is Brazil and 2nd is Nepal and so many things yes nepali people do watch Indian movies and series or serial in tv ....... and so many much to talk about this much for right now for more info search in RUclips or google about this topic 🙂🥰

    • @AshishKumar-if4dt
      @AshishKumar-if4dt Год назад

      @@Diva326 well every state has some difference in India just like that Nepal has very little difference life all the other state don't wanna offend you though cause you and nepalis are one race one religion just like Punjabis of India and Pakistan

  • @elizabethmena9839
    @elizabethmena9839 Год назад +451

    Well, I thought I was Cuban, but perhaps I’m Indian, because we do all those things the same way! We also have trouble relating to the way Americans raise children, and we use Vick’s for everything!🤣 Thanks for the great video, your children are so precious-beautiful boys!🤗🥰

    • @bakalurx
      @bakalurx Год назад

      Go see a doctor. Vick is useless.

    • @lailaalanna315
      @lailaalanna315 Год назад +16

      We in Barbados too 😂😂

    • @elettramia6380
      @elettramia6380 Год назад +12

      Cubans are Americans. Mexicans are Americans. USA people are Americans. Etc. because American refers to the continent of America and those who live in it. The indigenous Americans are the people native to North America including Mexico, south Central America. I am 2nd generation North American and I don’t act this way. In fact my daughter just spilt water on the table and I gave her the towel to clean it up. She’s 6. I think it’s more of a cultural thing rather than a nationality thing.

    • @LinneaSanchez
      @LinneaSanchez Год назад +23

      I think it’s a Hispanic thing also. Sleepovers were a No! And I don’t allow my children go to sleepovers. The spilling on the sofa….mistakes don’t happen lol

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 Год назад +14

      @@lailaalanna315 Throughout the Caribbean.

  • @cemilesworld
    @cemilesworld Год назад +291

    Hi, I am from Turkey and these things are completely relatable for me. This is how I was raised and how I am raising my kid now.😅 Especially vicks, wet towel, putting onions besides the bed, never letting kid spill anything and fall while playing, best meals for the lunch box, drying the hair perfectly after bath and sleeping together.. 😅 I wonder why we,asians, are like this.

    • @begima7775
      @begima7775 Год назад +15

      I am from the Kyrgyz Republic and we have the same😂 I thought onions is relatable only for us😂

    • @saraa338
      @saraa338 Год назад +12

      @@begima7775 We do the same in Azerbaijan!😂

    • @egegoktas9806
      @egegoktas9806 Год назад +6

      @@saraa338 ı think we are related countries like family countries turkey krgyza and obviously azerbaijan

    • @egegoktas9806
      @egegoktas9806 Год назад +3

      Birlikte uyuma büyüyünce direkt bitiyor bizi artık annemize yalvarır duruma geliyoruz

    • @khushichudasama7468
      @khushichudasama7468 Год назад +4

      I think we have had common ancestors , they were indian and spread all over asia and this culture developed

  • @PaulaLPope
    @PaulaLPope Год назад +5

    LOL I've been reading through the comments and it's so funny to see how many different cultures vibe with the Asian parent and how few vibe with the American parent. As an American parent, I find that amusing and a little surprising that so few do things as we would. Very interesting. :)

  • @florajudittormasi8466
    @florajudittormasi8466 Год назад

    First of all, very good acting, I really liked it, the children did a good job and so did the parents and the consecuence of their efforts is an excellent video I am glad I could watch! On the second hand, regarding the content, the onion is a brilliant idea, I really liked it. This is something new for me and I will try it next time I catch a cold. And the cherry on the cake is that it is visible that the parents love their kids and the atmosphere of the family is healthy.

  • @CoAi4Ever
    @CoAi4Ever Год назад +898

    Did the kids have fun recording these? I imagine the only time a child is told to accidentally dirty the couch and get away with it must be exciting 😂

    • @lunaxo1275
      @lunaxo1275 Год назад +15

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Straline.
      @Straline. Год назад +9

      probably not. Majority of these channels milk kids for money.

    • @fridsrikenileri1268
      @fridsrikenileri1268 Год назад +1

      Was probably told he didn't make it cinematicly dirty enough and to redo it

    • @Straline.
      @Straline. Год назад

      @-quit- I'm only saying this because the majority of these family channels milk kidd.

    • @ChristDynasty
      @ChristDynasty Год назад +5

      For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life

  • @Elijam09
    @Elijam09 Год назад +87

    100% accurate 😂
    The cultures of almost all Asian countries seem to be similar!😅

  • @munawarah4596
    @munawarah4596 8 месяцев назад

    Sooo... relatable to Malaysian life ... as you put it in a short video. can see that we are cold most of the time, yet actually so loving...

  • @kimsim6757
    @kimsim6757 Год назад

    Such beautiful kids and so smiley healthy happy. Great parents!

  • @muhammadrizqiadigumilang4859
    @muhammadrizqiadigumilang4859 Год назад +715

    I really can relate to this.. don't forget the "flashbacks" when we makes mistakes, our parents compare us to them

    • @growithphoebe
      @growithphoebe Год назад +9

      ah yes wkwkw. bikin ga nyaman bgt yah, gue paling ga suka sama orgtua pengungkit. entah itu kesalahan atau pemberian yang diungkit. Tbh Asian parenting itu kdg toxic bgt. Discipline sm abusive beda tipis wkwkwk. Ya intinya gue gaakan pernah ngedidik anak gue nanti ky ortu gw ngedidik gw dulu.

    • @shofiaamalia4037
      @shofiaamalia4037 Год назад +3

      ​@@growithphoebe jdi kepikiran pengen dpet suami bule biar bisa seimbang didikannya 🤣

    • @ChristDynasty
      @ChristDynasty Год назад +6

      For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life

    • @Alifahusna_97
      @Alifahusna_97 Год назад +1

      @@shofiaamalia4037 kenapa harus pasangan bule? Kita juga bisa kok

    • @shofiaamalia4037
      @shofiaamalia4037 Год назад +4

      @@Alifahusna_97 ga segampang prakteknya, kdang peran mertua jg bisa jdi penghambat ortu buat pola asuh yg mau diterapin

  • @bhawanarai9390
    @bhawanarai9390 Год назад +784

    sleep with your parents is the best part of Asians❤️

    • @derivativesdynasty
      @derivativesdynasty Год назад +50

      True we will never forget those memories

    • @DarkWinterAMV
      @DarkWinterAMV Год назад +29

      I'm not Asian but I slept with my mom until I was 9-

    • @mohanapriyaprakash8720
      @mohanapriyaprakash8720 Год назад +62

      @@DarkWinterAMV I am an asian who is 17 years old i still sleep with my parents.

    • @mohanapriyaprakash8720
      @mohanapriyaprakash8720 Год назад +32

      @@DarkWinterAMV 9 years is nothing compared with 17 years

    • @CaddRome
      @CaddRome Год назад +8

      @@mohanapriyaprakash8720 oh damn

  • @Mellowbites
    @Mellowbites Год назад +1

    100% brutally honest😅 nailed the differences to the core 👌 Thumbs up 👍 loved it❤️

  • @KittyCat_D
    @KittyCat_D 10 месяцев назад

    His voice is so beautiful omg he should do podcasts!! so deep yet very calming

  • @susannay.3437
    @susannay.3437 Год назад +89

    This is so funny and so true. I'm American and my husband is Chinese. The only one that didn't seem to fit was I was always telling them to be careful when playing. The Chinese kids seemed to have more of a devil-may-care kind of play attitude.

  • @geethanagalingam8430
    @geethanagalingam8430 Год назад +167

    As a Indian kid growing up in Malaysia I can relate to this 100% . The kissing scene got me 😅 Love this and reminds me of all my growing up days and how I am too with my son . ❤

  • @nayeli111908
    @nayeli111908 Год назад

    Beautiful family ❤ this was fun to watch 🥰

  • @keiranianz
    @keiranianz Год назад +2

    I absolutely love this! Coming from Singapore and having 2 kids, I did everything haha! Except that I cooked the onions in food and made my babies eat it 😋

  • @DrLakeciaReddrick
    @DrLakeciaReddrick Год назад +261

    So true. I am a Black American woman and I was always told by my parents to push for 100% especially since I was taught I was at a disadvantage due to some prejudices. I have since learned to shoot for the highest level of excellence in all I do. However, to have a balance so if I don't make my goal to still be proud of the effort, readjust and try again. Perfection is demonic and causes anxiety and depression. Try to have a spirit of excellence, you will feel better in the end. Excellence is a forgiving journey, but perfection is unforgiving and impossible to achieve. Be wise.❤
    I love this video though. Hilarious! 😂❤😊Beautiful family!

    • @samratkoley5060
      @samratkoley5060 Год назад +9

      In india we are just indian no black no white.

    • @maureenlaneski2802
      @maureenlaneski2802 Год назад +4

      White lady here. But my dad was 100% Scottish by way of Canada. Same thing.

    • @rashaadswanson6687
      @rashaadswanson6687 Год назад +2

      Black is not a tribe, nationality, ethnicity or identity of any sort.

    • @DrLakeciaReddrick
      @DrLakeciaReddrick Год назад +3

      @@rashaadswanson6687 I am aware of that, BUT I refuse to be called African-American. I am an American, but for the purposes of this video, I purposefully pointed out that I was not of Caucasian nor Indian descent. Not sure why you felt the need to comment. 🙄

    • @DrLakeciaReddrick
      @DrLakeciaReddrick Год назад +1

      @@maureenlaneski2802 awesome! That is why I shared what I did to show there are people with similar or same values no matter our nationality or ethnicity. Much Love 😍

  • @m3adowgirl
    @m3adowgirl Год назад +232

    I'm Jamaican & we definitely relate to the Asian style more. Especially the cut onions 😂😂 I get tired of my mom reminding me of this remedy sometimes.

    • @IamINERT
      @IamINERT Год назад +6

      Jamaican too
      I thought i was the only one who sqw the similarities
      But i mean the Caribbean in general is such a mix of African, Chinese and Indians

    • @Love4Jesus25
      @Love4Jesus25 Год назад +3

      What do the onions do??

    • @marriageministrymotherhood2761
      @marriageministrymotherhood2761 Год назад +1

      Yep, Jamaican here thought the same

    • @ranojutro426
      @ranojutro426 Год назад +2

      I didn't know any Jamaican that has this value like Asian people.

    • @marriageministrymotherhood2761
      @marriageministrymotherhood2761 Год назад +3

      @@ranojutro426 yep, I grew up there and some of them for sure. My husband is British and the catching cold one he gets on my case with lol

  • @muqaddisasaeed7457
    @muqaddisasaeed7457 Год назад

    So much relatable in no. Of ways....These apparently fun facts ve been a pain in the ass for many.

  • @nirmaniabeywickrama1347
    @nirmaniabeywickrama1347 Год назад +1

    You both are really awesome.I'm Sri Lankan and loving you both for the video ideas are really superb.
    As an Asian I feels all are truly done by us too.

  • @bertukanosman6760
    @bertukanosman6760 Год назад +134

    I love how both parents appreciate each others culture and I love it. Well done! 👍💕

  • @amooolal1517
    @amooolal1517 Год назад +584

    I am Arabic and can relate to absolutely everything indian parents do 😅👍🏻👍🏻Well done!

    • @aryamanbhadauria1584
      @aryamanbhadauria1584 Год назад +17

      Kumar is actually Malaysian, but it's still the same behavior 😂. What Arab country are you from tho?

    • @hritwikadubey3964
      @hritwikadubey3964 Год назад +7

      @@aryamanbhadauria1584 oh okayyy... I was so confused hearing his accent 😂

    • @mr_ak123
      @mr_ak123 Год назад +14

      @@aryamanbhadauria1584 i think he might be Tamil(Indian) descent Malaysian

    • @jumalajivee653
      @jumalajivee653 Год назад +10

      @@mr_ak123 yeah...but he is from Malaysia ...I think his family origin is South India

    • @emmie9102
      @emmie9102 Год назад +4

      A lot of Malaysians were Indian migrants

  • @ToFightOrFlee
    @ToFightOrFlee 10 месяцев назад +4

    I am "white" American and my husband is Hmong American. Everything is pretty much right except the accidental spill on the couch scenario. I am the one who makes him clean up and my husband is the softy.
    The kids in the bed is SO true. I finally convinced my husband to let our older boy sleep in his own bed. Our younger one still sleeps with us. I dont mind the cuddles.
    Its all about communication and compromise. ❤

  • @jesmin137
    @jesmin137 Год назад

    All i understood is love has no limit. Amazing couple. Im surprised how You have put aside all your differences to make a beautiful family together. God bless !!

  • @m.danthanarayana5226
    @m.danthanarayana5226 Год назад +131

    😄 being of sri lankan origin .. i can totally relate to this .. even as adults we still tend to skip kissing scenes 😅 and we are still not allowed to go on sleep overs .. never the less .. we love our parents to death ❤️
    PS: Vicks is for India , Siddhalepa is for sri lanka (we still use it) 😁

    • @shelamaulidia3300
      @shelamaulidia3300 Год назад +18

      Vicks for india, siddhalepa for srilanka, and freshcare for indonesia😂

    • @-wisthare
      @-wisthare Год назад +1

      Totally agreed 😍🇱🇰 we love our parents to death ❤️
      'Siddhalepa' 😅

    • @muhammadhqadhir1468
      @muhammadhqadhir1468 Год назад +2

      I am from India most of us using sidddalepa too

  • @lilachodan4941
    @lilachodan4941 Год назад +12

    4:36 That's right healthy lunch. Good job dad

  • @pisces2569
    @pisces2569 Год назад +3

    It’s always sweet to hear dads calling their sons “my baby” or “my love”.

  • @Haggiedc2
    @Haggiedc2 Год назад +1

    This is Hysterical!!!! I am my mom is from Central America and my Dad is USA… and this reminds me of how different they are…LOLOL

  • @sumanroy7756
    @sumanroy7756 Год назад +121

    Beautiful blend. I am sure the boys will learn the best of each parent,each culture,food habits of each of their parents. There's so much scope for both the boys to become the best version of themselves just because they have such good parents. Love you guys.

    • @arlenec3983
      @arlenec3983 Год назад

      100% agree . My family is a melting pot of different ethnicities and the kids in the family are a perfect blend. You get the best of both worlds 😀

  • @snawani86
    @snawani86 Год назад +50

    This looks like a continuation to the endless "Asians vs Americans" series. But behind the scenes was a nice fresh change.

  • @sumithaudayashankar1885
    @sumithaudayashankar1885 Год назад

    You guys are such a sweet family. God bless❤️❤️

  • @indraljay3717
    @indraljay3717 Год назад

    This is so good guys. I can't stop watching you.

  • @heyitsmechey
    @heyitsmechey Год назад +390

    Hahahaha I am a Filipino but I can relate when he cover his son's eyes during the kissing scene. I remember my Mom saying, "oh oh cover your eyes"

    • @Dorriedude
      @Dorriedude Год назад +3

      haha XD can relate

    • @MuhammadFirdaus-qp4ni
      @MuhammadFirdaus-qp4ni Год назад +1

      Agreed 😆

    • @thatcheesyburrito
      @thatcheesyburrito Год назад +1

      I’m Filipino too xD

    • @RheaMaeHian
      @RheaMaeHian Год назад +1

      Relate lol when you i got accidentaly pour a liquid in couch or floor i always the one wipe it out when i was young 😂😂,

    • @mov4736
      @mov4736 Год назад +3

      Then they ask you where are their grandkids a few years later😂😂

  • @lucygoosie7726
    @lucygoosie7726 Год назад +34

    My parents are both German, grew up in the same small town, and this is like the difference between my mom and dad. But I think that’s a good thing because you learn to balance each other out.

  • @AidanK_ART
    @AidanK_ART Год назад +9

    I can’t relate to anything in this video haha
    My mom has never been so... sweet with us? She always spoke to us in her normal voice, never bombarded us with those sweet words, she treated us like adults and talked to us like adults. At the same time, we knew very well how much she loves us. She never scolded us for our school performance, but she also didn’t say that we were the best geniuses in the world if we received an A grade. She taught us about household chores, but at the same time she never forced us to do something, she only asked, and we always did. I think the way she raised us is the way I want to raise my children. Communicate with children on an equal footing, do not indulge out of whims, speak with them in a normal voice, while not scolding for trifles, but teaching them to be responsible for their words and deeds.
    my mom may not scatter words about love, but she did everything for us

  • @akshuscreation5833
    @akshuscreation5833 Год назад +3

    2:24 Such a funny moment but really happened 😂😂

  • @katelang8004
    @katelang8004 Год назад +55

    Cultures may collide and love is love. Your kids seem happy. Thank you for the chuckles.

  • @mserf8132
    @mserf8132 Год назад +34

    Your video is sooooo cute and funny; and for the most part, spot-on!
    I liked the part of not getting injured on the wall; the Vicks part; the strive harder and be better part; the “are you hungry?” part; the cover the eyes at “no-no” part… in other words, your entire video had me giggling and wiping tears of laughter from my eyes!
    Good work! I hope you will do many more videos along those lines of Eastern
    vs Western cultures. 😂

  • @huongvu137S
    @huongvu137S Год назад

    What a funny and sweet video ❤. Love it.

  • @una2000
    @una2000 Год назад

    First time here. New subbie. I have never seen an English and Indian couple's you tube vlogger, I really like this type🥰🥰

  • @navedian739
    @navedian739 Год назад +248

    I personally think its a great combination of descipline both cultures 2gether will definitely have genious kids

    • @mohdhanafiasdi119
      @mohdhanafiasdi119 Год назад +28

      I agree with this.. when both perspectives meet their common grounds, the kids will be much more disciplined & have more mature thoughts about everything..

    • @maimunahibrahim5499
      @maimunahibrahim5499 Год назад +4

      Agreed... discipline is best cultivate at young age...👍👍👍

  • @ljj8120
    @ljj8120 Год назад +21

    Love the bloopers at the end, more realistic. As an Asian-Western family, we have similar issues but have worked out a happy blend of our own.

  • @constitutionalrepublic1966
    @constitutionalrepublic1966 Год назад

    Vicks works for everything! It’s the best salve ever for overworked muscles, aches, and pains. I love it, and the generic is equal to the original since the ingredients are the same 100%!

  • @ttiger86
    @ttiger86 Год назад

    The kid was great in this! Such a funny video!

  • @revathigoutham4709
    @revathigoutham4709 Год назад +40

    Such a lovely family dynamic. So relatable as an Asian.

  • @Marathirenogirl
    @Marathirenogirl Год назад +346

    Kumar you get 10/10 yes this is how Indian culture is and we all Indian parents live this

    • @hamidah7727
      @hamidah7727 Год назад +8

      Malaysia culture not only Indian parents

    • @ukchub6633
      @ukchub6633 Год назад +5

      @@hamidah7727 only 5/10 not true most of it

    • @durgadevi7814
      @durgadevi7814 Год назад +13

      Although his parents are Tamil , he recognises himself as Malaysian 😆
      So don't club him into our culture when he's thinking differently

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 Год назад +6

      @@durgadevi7814 He is Malaysian. He was born there but he is oc Indian heritage.

    • @durgadevi7814
      @durgadevi7814 Год назад +6

      @@leesteal4458 that's what I said too. 🙂

  • @jettsteel7305
    @jettsteel7305 Год назад +1

    OK, I've seen some videos representing the same thing, but this is honestly the best XD And you just reminded me, I have *not* in face eaten yet... So, um... I'm just gonna go do that-

  • @trudytriad4574
    @trudytriad4574 8 месяцев назад

    I like the balance in the first one! It says mistakes do happen but you mist fix them as long as you are able to. ❤

  • @kameshnigovender8807
    @kameshnigovender8807 Год назад +587

    This is not just Malaysians, this is Indians in general. I'm from South Africa and I'm Indian, we the same here😂😂😂

  • @oreoluwaakinmuleya3348
    @oreoluwaakinmuleya3348 Год назад +91

    Even as a Nigerian, I could relate to the Asian parenting style 😂

    • @codeovercode167
      @codeovercode167 Год назад

      This and some other comment from South America is proof that it’s Europe vs the world

    • @tiestokygoericprydz3963
      @tiestokygoericprydz3963 Год назад

      @@codeovercode167 Serbia, Croatia Bulgaria is very different from Norway, Sweden
      Just like turkey is different from Japan

    • @codeovercode167
      @codeovercode167 Год назад +1

      @@tiestokygoericprydz3963 Correct, maybe north-western Europe vs the world would be a better generalization.

    • @tiestokygoericprydz3963
      @tiestokygoericprydz3963 Год назад

      @@codeovercode167 every country is unique
      It's not about continent either

    • @deeadira
      @deeadira Год назад

      I've been looking for a Nigerian comment till I found this😂😂 the way the Asian behaves is soo like a Nigerian parent😂🤣

  • @dhiyaroslan93
    @dhiyaroslan93 Год назад

    When they don’t listen and fall “haaa! Play again. Play some more! So stubborn aa!!”.

  • @Berry-ig9rs
    @Berry-ig9rs Год назад +19

    all jokes aside- you guys are literally the cutest family

  • @cobra961
    @cobra961 Год назад +16

    3:35 i thought he was gonna use tiger balm 😂

  • @PraseethaBalakrishnan
    @PraseethaBalakrishnan Год назад +34

    Logesh No shoes on the bed! What would your mother say?! 😂
    Great video, and I relate to everything as an Indian mom living in the US learning it's strange ways of bringing up kids.

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 Год назад

    This video clips is great and thanks for making me laugh 😂 😂😂

  • @taylorskyblue9413
    @taylorskyblue9413 Год назад

    He's such a good kid, so cute and handsome and smart!! 😍😍