Not only Asia, my black parents especially my mother, watches you like a Hawk whenever you say you're not feeling well. Any sign of a smile or you decide to watch TV, "So that means you're feeling better now"
10/10 for both parents doing what they think is the best for the kids. Kids will grow up confident because of all the love they get from each parent in their own way.
@@abczuchini3757 I am all for ‘Tough love’ Makes them independent ( and you don’t have a feckless 30 year old hanging around in your house like a bad smell . )
As a Black American I can relate to this. Both my parents are black and my dad treated me like the American parent…but my mom was DEFINITELY the Asian parent 😂
Once I got 99% on a class test, I was so proud of myself. And then my mom asked me "Is it the highest score in your class" I replied "No there is a girl who got 100%". I still regret my those words because my mom gave me 1h lecture on that 1%😢😢😂😂😂
I am an Indian so I can tell that everything shown is indeed relatable but the intensity of being angry and all other emotions was just 1% of how we really get treated
I like the Father teaching the kid to be responsible abt the water spill. Life has lots to learn and so teach them in small bits from that age. And I like the way the mother celebrated his report card. Father can learn from that.
I still remember, once I asked my mom for letting me sleep over at my friend's house but then she replied me: If you want to sleep over at your friend's house then pack all your clothes into luggage and live there. I was so speechless after hearing that😅
She told the right thing U can hangover all the time at your friends house. But why night? Night is not a good time. Specially for girls. Night (after 7/8) everybody should be at their own house. Ur mom was saying good for you. Even my mom told me this all the time. I used to be angry but now I think what she told was actually good for me
@@chirantanhegde705 Yeah but when u become an adult do they still tell u this? I am from Bangladesh and they stop telling it after u become 18. You can pretty much do whatever I want even if u r from the Indian subcontinent region
i think the thing that asians could relate the most it the “have you eaten?” part😂 and i love how u guys included the kids in the skit the cutest thing ever ❤️
Lol my boyfriend is from Malaysia and he is Asian and his mom when he’s over will ask matter-of-factly if he’s had a bowel movement lately. I was surprised when he told me that that’s a normal conversation at the dinner table for hi, growing up. And his family it’s a natural health question and of course in North America it’s TMI. Where is you know in North America that’s a very weird not table appropriate thing to say so I just thought it was funny.
As a south asian, I confirm this. I even relived my childhood because my parents used to be like the dad in this video.. kinda sad that after I grew up and there were some conflicts that made my parents not care about me as much and Im so depressed right now, I literally have noone left in this world. This video was supposed to be funny or wholesome but here I am, typing a comments whilst I wipe my tears away.. Anyways, you guys are so cute, you have precious little babies and wish you stay happily forever as the beautiful family you are ♥️
I understand completely how you feel, I lost my entire family overnight due to marrying someone outside the religion. It was shocking to say the least and took me YEARS to overcome. I promise you will learn to live with this and be happy again. Grief is a common thing we share as humans and that is what connects us, we all suffer loss eventually….the trick is finding small ways to overcome it. One way that’s greatly helped me is taking small amounts of time where I’m just living in the moment and forcefully removing all thoughts from my brain, stepping into the water on a beach, walking barefoot in the forest or simply just doing anything physical. You may still feel bad emotions but the trick is not to connect thoughts to it, it will eventually subside if you practise this and it worked for me. Best of luck to you, you’re never alone 🙂🌻
I’m so sorry! I really hope things get better for you soon! I don’t know where you are on the religion spectrum but, if you can, pray for your parents and try to forgive them. You can even ask God to put that forgiveness in your heart. Try to be around people who uplift you (in a good, healthy way), and avoid negative people who complain, criticize, and bring you down. Try to do kind things for other people, even those you don’t know well, every day. Live in the light, and God bless you! 🙏🏼
Then dont be depressed there are people who have found out they have one month to live or people who have found out there whole familly has been killed and nobody is alive or people who have found out they are gonna spend there whole life in wheelchairs so stop with the bullshit of im depressed when you can have somany things you could have children a nice wife or husband wichever gender you are just stop with this bullshit called depression ok and get a therapist or FIND SOMETHING TO DO IN YOUR LIFE
i am Sri lankan this is 1000% true story. now i am 22 but my parents still treat like a small kid. however i love them because they are my world and they sacrifice their beautiful young life for us
sometimes we as Malaysians doesn't wanna our kids go sleep over or playing to be much at others house because we worried our kid might causing trouble for others..
Hmmm... my parents don't mind this much, though it's within a certain set rules growing up. This may also be a race thing... maybe... as I noticed most Chinese around me tend to sleep in own houses compared to malays who don't mind whole family sleepovers much (ie on balik kampung times). Not sure in other places though. Just something I noticed with people around me
@@snowbird1381 perhaps to take care of you more as a girl? My parents used to have a set of rules.. they must get to know my friends parents first... no older brothers should be in the house. Luckily my best friends have always had no older brothers. Haha. But for me this is a reasonable rule, looking back
OMG, this is so relatable, especially the sleep over, my god, I remembered my Dad, his concept was clear, go meet your friends, have fun but you coming back home, that's it. Miss my parents so much.
Your boys are so cute! My husband is from India and we had so many of these differences! So funny and you all seem to take it in stride like we did. A sense of humor is so important
The kiss that scene goodbye bit hahaha. Im from a Filipino family and Im telling you, when I was a kid, everytime there is an adult theme scene in the movies we watch, my parents would say, "close your eyes, close your eyes"
I have two siblings and when we were young, we used to close our eyes whenever it came to an romantic scene or smth like that 😂. And we looked each other to know nobody was looking at the movie 🍿😂. Btw still I skip such kinda scene whenever I watch. And appreciate it all the time
Hi, I am from Turkey and these things are completely relatable for me. This is how I was raised and how I am raising my kid now.😅 Especially vicks, wet towel, putting onions besides the bed, never letting kid spill anything and fall while playing, best meals for the lunch box, drying the hair perfectly after bath and sleeping together.. 😅 I wonder why we,asians, are like this.
As an Asian child, I can confirm if it's 200% true (My mother punished me for getting first place but with decreasing grades) she said "Do you play on your phone too much?"
I loved the sleep scene. Both the sides has pros. Putting them to sleep individually reduces the pressure of mom and also makes the son independent. Also sleeping along with them throughout their childhood creates a good parent child bonding and they feel safe and secure 👍🏻 I really loved the way it was portrayed
Yes it definitely is!! Caribbean kid here who experienced all of that when I was younger.😄 I know if I ever have kids, I would be a mix of both of them😂😂
I found these videos completely relatable..there is no right or wrong..just wired differently and that's so much fun indeed. Absolutely hilarious and fun to watch. 😂😂😂
Yeah, I think some parents (in general, regardless of race) can ease up on the less than perfection thing though. Not that I have anyone Malaysian or Asian in my family (other than a cousin from the Philippines who was adopted), but I remember going home with a notice of excellence ("Good Guy Award" or something like that), and being asked why only two of the three good things were checked off. I didn't even know I was going to _get it in the first place,_ or what the things with check boxes even were until I received it. It's important to see more of what the child does right, than what the child does wrong.
ah yes wkwkw. bikin ga nyaman bgt yah, gue paling ga suka sama orgtua pengungkit. entah itu kesalahan atau pemberian yang diungkit. Tbh Asian parenting itu kdg toxic bgt. Discipline sm abusive beda tipis wkwkwk. Ya intinya gue gaakan pernah ngedidik anak gue nanti ky ortu gw ngedidik gw dulu.
As a middle eastern, I relate to almost everything. However, you forgot that they yell at you the entire time that you're sick while simultaneously taking care of you 😂😂😂😂
My mom is asian and my dad is Austrian/white, they met in American College and I have lived in the US my whole life, and what happened to me isn’t either of these. If I spilled something they would double-team on me with lectures and clean it up themselves while making me feel as guilty as possible. I guess that was happens when they agree on a parenting style 💀
I remember i made a total 100% one time, told my parents very proudly expecting some sort of reward, they just said: "ok, its your responsability, you are supposed to make that everytime" They didnt even said congratulations, my expression was: ☠️
Beautiful blend. I am sure the boys will learn the best of each parent,each culture,food habits of each of their parents. There's so much scope for both the boys to become the best version of themselves just because they have such good parents. Love you guys.
As a Indian kid growing up in Malaysia I can relate to this 100% . The kissing scene got me 😅 Love this and reminds me of all my growing up days and how I am too with my son . ❤
I'm from India and these all things are totally relatable . Specially , the 3rd & 4th one . But in India , when such ( 2:07 ) scenes occurs your father will say you to bring a glass of water .
This is so funny and so true. I'm American and my husband is Chinese. The only one that didn't seem to fit was I was always telling them to be careful when playing. The Chinese kids seemed to have more of a devil-may-care kind of play attitude.
That’s hilarious. My husband is Filipino. He would not have done sleep overs at his friends’ houses. His parents were afraid the kids would break something if they even played at someone else’s house. I was the one always excited with the kids’ accomplishments. I think the most excited I’ve seen him is say, “Very good.” He has an American accent but whenever he speaks to a foreigner with a strong accent, regardless of country, he starts speaking in broken English. I have no idea why. It’s a habit. We’ve been married 46 years and the kids have turned out reasonably well adjusted. The oldest boy does standup.
Eyyyy not completely messing up is better than most parents! 🙌 Better than mine 😂 If i ever have kids my main goal will be for them to not need therapy because of something i did lol
My parents are both German, grew up in the same small town, and this is like the difference between my mom and dad. But I think that’s a good thing because you learn to balance each other out.
Well, I thought I was Cuban, but perhaps I’m Indian, because we do all those things the same way! We also have trouble relating to the way Americans raise children, and we use Vick’s for everything!🤣 Thanks for the great video, your children are so precious-beautiful boys!🤗🥰
Cubans are Americans. Mexicans are Americans. USA people are Americans. Etc. because American refers to the continent of America and those who live in it. The indigenous Americans are the people native to North America including Mexico, south Central America. I am 2nd generation North American and I don’t act this way. In fact my daughter just spilt water on the table and I gave her the towel to clean it up. She’s 6. I think it’s more of a cultural thing rather than a nationality thing.
I think it’s a Hispanic thing also. Sleepovers were a No! And I don’t allow my children go to sleepovers. The spilling on the sofa….mistakes don’t happen lol
Lol, I remember back when I was a child, my friend invited me for a sleep over & when I asked my mom for permission, she went... "Why? Don't we have a home? Why do you have to sleep at other people's house?"... and that's how my Asian mom says "No" each time... a full lecture😂
The onions!!! Love it. I laughed so hard. I am a Malaysian of Chinese heritage, now living in Texas, with biracial children. I can relate to everything. Bravo. Your children are just adorable.
Your video is sooooo cute and funny; and for the most part, spot-on! I liked the part of not getting injured on the wall; the Vicks part; the strive harder and be better part; the “are you hungry?” part; the cover the eyes at “no-no” part… in other words, your entire video had me giggling and wiping tears of laughter from my eyes! Good work! I hope you will do many more videos along those lines of Eastern vs Western cultures. 😂
So true. I am a Black American woman and I was always told by my parents to push for 100% especially since I was taught I was at a disadvantage due to some prejudices. I have since learned to shoot for the highest level of excellence in all I do. However, to have a balance so if I don't make my goal to still be proud of the effort, readjust and try again. Perfection is demonic and causes anxiety and depression. Try to have a spirit of excellence, you will feel better in the end. Excellence is a forgiving journey, but perfection is unforgiving and impossible to achieve. Be wise.❤ I love this video though. Hilarious! 😂❤😊Beautiful family!
@@rashaadswanson6687 I am aware of that, BUT I refuse to be called African-American. I am an American, but for the purposes of this video, I purposefully pointed out that I was not of Caucasian nor Indian descent. Not sure why you felt the need to comment. 🙄
@@maureenlaneski2802 awesome! That is why I shared what I did to show there are people with similar or same values no matter our nationality or ethnicity. Much Love 😍
😄 being of sri lankan origin .. i can totally relate to this .. even as adults we still tend to skip kissing scenes 😅 and we are still not allowed to go on sleep overs .. never the less .. we love our parents to death ❤️ PS: Vicks is for India , Siddhalepa is for sri lanka (we still use it) 😁
I'm from Japan. My parents never praised me no matter how much I achieved😂It caused low self-esteemed😂Being humble is very important for them. But I think the American way is much better than my parent's. I will praise my children a lot from today❤Thank you!
It’s not- it encourages mediocrity. There has to be a healthy mix of the two. Set high standards but obviously if your child gets a 97 you praise them- not scold them for not getting a hundred.
Boom Conclusion: American way of parenting is BETTER than Japanese Implication: America should produce better children than Japan (as a whole) If I take your opinion granted
I agree with this.. when both perspectives meet their common grounds, the kids will be much more disciplined & have more mature thoughts about everything..
On the mark guys!!! Me being an Indian, I can totally relate to this😂 During the entire video i was smiling and thinking about my childhood. The video is really cute. Really loved it guys😍.
@@haroldbalczac6431 Actually there are a lot of Arab countries. Those are the only two which have Arab in the name. Arab countries are those where the first language or official language is Arabic.
I am a 36 years old man. When I was young my Mom was always FOR having friends over and sleepovers. She would make things to eat and drink. She recently told me that one of the reasons she was so receptive to the idea is to see the types of friends I had. Your child might be influenced in a very bad way by bad friends especially in the early development stages. You as a parent have very limited exposure to your child's friends. I did have a good friends around me but I appreciate my mom looking out for me. (As I was a boy with boy friends mostly my dad also participated, told jokes etc and I am sure he checked my friends as well)
Classmate sleepovers are usually not a thing of culture on southeast asian countries, but I do agree of the advantages, parents can see acquainted and be familiarized with the friends and classmates their children are regularly mingling around.
@@rdu239 I didn’t have many sleepovers as most people in my country live in flats and you only have 1 bath. It is not like with houses in the US that are usually bigger. So you could get maybe 1-2 friends max to sleep over in my country. However - watching movies, playing console games etc. It is more than enough time for mom or dad to get a feeling and a vibe check of your friends. Also my parents did not over extend their presence and they were not outwardly noisy so neither me or my friends felt bad. I will definitely be using this parenting advice if I, God willing , become a parent.
As an American this is weird for me to hear because I basically spent every weekend over at a friend's house or with a friend at mine during high school.
Almost every weekend my friends would come stay at my house, and my mom became like a second mom to them. She always tells me how much fun she had when we were all there, and she loved that she could be 100% sure we were fed, comfortable and safe.
Hi, I am Hungarian and some situations are the same in our country: "eaten yet" (your parents think you are starving all day long 😂), sweet dreams, safety and vet hair paranoia and cutted ONIONS under the bed. It was funny and interesting, thank you.
But while playing,you shouldn't get overprotective and let them learn,teaching them to rise after falling and being strong rather than overprotecting them,letting them face the challenges and solve them us an important part of life and you shouldn't rob them of that,and honestly most Asians aren't overprotective,it's mainly Americans😂
@@riyasingh2729you talk too much as kids able to perceive all that. Asian are better at teaching kids, because CONSEQUENCES always come for every action you do rather that white lying sweet talking everything, thats why western have gender pronouns shit.
I just respect how you both can be together and get along and blend with different culture. You guys just made it. Ya i laughed and my thoughts are exactly goes well with the Malaysian culture there. Lol Hahaha... That's just so true. Well done you both.
Logesh No shoes on the bed! What would your mother say?! 😂 Great video, and I relate to everything as an Indian mom living in the US learning it's strange ways of bringing up kids.
Parenting is the hardest heartfelt you'll ever do. They can only start from what they learned as a child and build on that. Nobody gets it perfect, thank God they even try!
2:18 As a cantonese, this is soooo relatable. Since I am a kid, my parents something block out some, scenes. I like adults movies that have violence squid game, vikings valhalla, etc. Once theres a unexpected making a baby scene, my parents cover my eyes. When I watch alone, I usually skip it.
LOL I've been reading through the comments and it's so funny to see how many different cultures vibe with the Asian parent and how few vibe with the American parent. As an American parent, I find that amusing and a little surprising that so few do things as we would. Very interesting. :)
I scored exactly 97% in my 10th class board exams, my parents were happy but just to tease me they said this exactly - " where did you lose rest of the 3 %? " 😂😂
The onion part 😭😭 I pray both of you and the kids good health and life! I love the behind the scenes!! Made the video so much more wholesome than it already was!! Relatable video especially as i'm from the South East!
You know after watching the videos i realise how much beautiful asian are ❤ really they try to make a child in both sector moral & practical areas from childhood
I am "white" American and my husband is Hmong American. Everything is pretty much right except the accidental spill on the couch scenario. I am the one who makes him clean up and my husband is the softy. The kids in the bed is SO true. I finally convinced my husband to let our older boy sleep in his own bed. Our younger one still sleeps with us. I dont mind the cuddles. Its all about communication and compromise. ❤
For those reliving their childhood traumas... know that you can be free from that pain and you can forgive your parents because they're sinners like ANYONE else. Once I learned about my own sin nature, I understood that of my parents. I forgave them and now I am able to parent with joy, and help my son to forgive as he grows- knowing that NONE of us are perfect.
I am an Indian and I can totally relate to all things logesh was doing...
I'm Sri and this is exactly how I do things too
But the dad is so ignorant
@@randomguy7446
This guy got it right. American means White 💪🏻🇺🇲👍🏻
Trinidad, West Indies too. We felt more comfortable with HIM!
Me too
You forgot one thing. In Asia, if you are sick but laugh out loud or get up from the bed, then you are not sick😆😆😆
Yes! That’s a good one!!
Yep🥲
I laugh at a vid and I *AM* sick but my parents are like “no your good”
SO TRUE!!! I get up to go get water and strike a conversation with my mom, and suddenly she’s like “I thought you were sick”
😂😂 true
Not only Asia, my black parents especially my mother, watches you like a Hawk whenever you say you're not feeling well. Any sign of a smile or you decide to watch TV, "So that means you're feeling better now"
10/10 for both parents doing what they think is the best for the kids. Kids will grow up confident because of all the love they get from each parent in their own way.
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True, In the future, The kids can literally work in any kind of company in the world!! 🌎🧳
It's like good cop bad cop but the dad being more like strict cop
True.. that is what matters the most. Getting love from both parents. Many people dont have that
@@abczuchini3757 I am all for ‘Tough love’
Makes them independent
( and you don’t have a feckless 30 year old hanging around in your house like a bad smell . )
Kudos to the kid for being so patient while mom n dad were busy in acting
Underrated comment. Agree with you. It seems the kid hold his laugh the whole time.
How did u add that emoji ???
And kudos for you for adding that image. How did you even do that? 😮
@@_InsertName_ i also wanna know
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I actually wanna appreciate the small boy because he is the one who made this video feel awesome
Zaden is amazing! We love him
He played along, and was a great sport! lol
Not to mention he’s a handsome little man
Both the kids were great!
@@KumaarFamily nice but who’s talking😃?
As a Black American I can relate to this. Both my parents are black and my dad treated me like the American parent…but my mom was DEFINITELY the Asian parent 😂
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Once I got 99% on a class test, I was so proud of myself. And then my mom asked me "Is it the highest score in your class" I replied "No there is a girl who got 100%". I still regret my those words because my mom gave me 1h lecture on that 1%😢😢😂😂😂
That would be same for me too😢
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not same with all parents , mine r supportive 😇
@@atharvgitte5169 S.A.M.E
yep, i hated my mom for doing this for long time.. I lost respect for her
I am an Indian so I can tell that everything shown is indeed relatable but the intensity of being angry and all other emotions was just 1% of how we really get treated
I like the Father teaching the kid to be responsible abt the water spill. Life has lots to learn and so teach them in small bits from that age. And I like the way the mother celebrated his report card. Father can learn from that.
As an Indian, I can confirm whatever Kumaar is doing is totally relatable 🤣😂
Brooo apart from the comment I agree with your username 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well the username
Naw my father owns an apartment oki😕
Well as a Nepali I can agree with ya😂
As an Italian, I can say I am closer to an indian parent than an american one. Lovely couple anyway! ❤
It means Malaysian are same as Indians😅🤣
Yes, Apart from 85% diluted.🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love the part where Logesh covers up his son's eyes at the kissing scene in the movie. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's what happens if your parents are Indian 🤣
Oh my gosh I remembered that growing up
Yeah I can really see this one happening, others....mmmm not so much
even when i grew up, i closed my own eyes or cover the screen during those scenes showing up lmao. get used to it.
@@TheFuturesGlimpse yeah me too... I'm used to it until now... I'm Malaysian btw😁👍
I still remember, once I asked my mom for letting me sleep over at my friend's house but then she replied me: If you want to sleep over at your friend's house then pack all your clothes into luggage and live there.
I was so speechless after hearing that😅
She told the right thing
U can hangover all the time at your friends house. But why night? Night is not a good time. Specially for girls. Night (after 7/8) everybody should be at their own house.
Ur mom was saying good for you. Even my mom told me this all the time. I used to be angry but now I think what she told was actually good for me
Its just that our parents are being protective. They see us as babies how much we grow
@@chirantanhegde705 Yeah but when u become an adult do they still tell u this?
I am from Bangladesh and they stop telling it after u become 18. You can pretty much do whatever I want even if u r from the Indian subcontinent region
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Girl then just actually pack ur clothes and luggage and live there! It would leave HER speeches 🤣🤣
i think the thing that asians could relate the most it the “have you eaten?” part😂 and i love how u guys included the kids in the skit the cutest thing ever ❤️
Yes! My Vietnamese mother-in-law ... always, first thing, even before "hello," or what was made to eat, always, "ăn đi, ăn đi"
No one ask me that. But i heard about " how you doing?"
Lol my boyfriend is from Malaysia and he is Asian and his mom when he’s over will ask matter-of-factly if he’s had a bowel movement lately. I was surprised when he told me that that’s a normal conversation at the dinner table for hi, growing up. And his family it’s a natural health question and of course in North America it’s TMI. Where is you know in North America that’s a very weird not table appropriate thing to say so I just thought it was funny.
@@kathrynrhodes7785 Is he East Asian or South Asian?
@@leesteal4458
This guy got it right. American means White 💪🏻🇺🇲👍🏻
I’m Chinese and my husband is English. This is exactly what happens. Made me laugh so much 😂😂😂
Just be white theory
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Don't be strict on your child 😂😂😂
@@jeffreyepstein4310 touch grass
You married to weaker gene ma’am. Expect some pronouns and transgender stuff coming from your offspring, what a waste
As a south asian, I confirm this. I even relived my childhood because my parents used to be like the dad in this video.. kinda sad that after I grew up and there were some conflicts that made my parents not care about me as much and Im so depressed right now, I literally have noone left in this world. This video was supposed to be funny or wholesome but here I am, typing a comments whilst I wipe my tears away..
Anyways, you guys are so cute, you have precious little babies and wish you stay happily forever as the beautiful family you are ♥️
I understand completely how you feel, I lost my entire family overnight due to marrying someone outside the religion. It was shocking to say the least and took me YEARS to overcome. I promise you will learn to live with this and be happy again. Grief is a common thing we share as humans and that is what connects us, we all suffer loss eventually….the trick is finding small ways to overcome it. One way that’s greatly helped me is taking small amounts of time where I’m just living in the moment and forcefully removing all thoughts from my brain, stepping into the water on a beach, walking barefoot in the forest or simply just doing anything physical. You may still feel bad emotions but the trick is not to connect thoughts to it, it will eventually subside if you practise this and it worked for me. Best of luck to you, you’re never alone 🙂🌻
Sorry. I hope you guys can mend fences.
I’m so sorry! I really hope things get better for you soon! I don’t know where you are on the religion spectrum but, if you can, pray for your parents and try to forgive them. You can even ask God to put that forgiveness in your heart. Try to be around people who uplift you (in a good, healthy way), and avoid negative people who complain, criticize, and bring you down. Try to do kind things for other people, even those you don’t know well, every day. Live in the light, and God bless you! 🙏🏼
So so sorry to hear this, bless you 😪
Then dont be depressed there are people who have found out they have one month to live or people who have found out there whole familly has been killed and nobody is alive or people who have found out they are gonna spend there whole life in wheelchairs so stop with the bullshit of im depressed when you can have somany things you could have children a nice wife or husband wichever gender you are just stop with this bullshit called depression ok and get a therapist or FIND SOMETHING TO DO IN YOUR LIFE
i am Sri lankan this is 1000% true story. now i am 22 but my parents still treat like a small kid. however i love them because they are my world and they sacrifice their beautiful young life for us
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Right? That feeling always hurts me
So true for Asian parents
Asians get hired everywhere bcz of that constant look for 100%...
Hmm I can totally relate
Yes it is
sometimes we as Malaysians doesn't wanna our kids go sleep over or playing to be much at others house because we worried our kid might causing trouble for others..
And got kidnaped too
Hmmm... my parents don't mind this much, though it's within a certain set rules growing up.
This may also be a race thing... maybe... as I noticed most Chinese around me tend to sleep in own houses compared to malays who don't mind whole family sleepovers much (ie on balik kampung times). Not sure in other places though. Just something I noticed with people around me
I wasn’t allowed at sleepovers but my brother was. The hypocrisy was real 🤷♀️
@@snowbird1381 perhaps to take care of you more as a girl? My parents used to have a set of rules.. they must get to know my friends parents first... no older brothers should be in the house. Luckily my best friends have always had no older brothers. Haha. But for me this is a reasonable rule, looking back
@@shezieblack1999 Or molested.
OMG, this is so relatable, especially the sleep over, my god, I remembered my Dad, his concept was clear, go meet your friends, have fun but you coming back home, that's it. Miss my parents so much.
Aww. Hugs
Your boys are so cute! My husband is from India and we had so many of these differences! So funny and you all seem to take it in stride like we did. A sense of humor is so important
The kiss that scene goodbye bit hahaha. Im from a Filipino family and Im telling you, when I was a kid, everytime there is an adult theme scene in the movies we watch, my parents would say, "close your eyes, close your eyes"
I have two siblings and when we were young, we used to close our eyes whenever it came to an romantic scene or smth like that 😂. And we looked each other to know nobody was looking at the movie 🍿😂. Btw still I skip such kinda scene whenever I watch. And appreciate it all the time
I didn’t even know that it’s normal for kids to watch those kiss for love scenes until I moved to the U.S for college 😂
Hi, I am from Turkey and these things are completely relatable for me. This is how I was raised and how I am raising my kid now.😅 Especially vicks, wet towel, putting onions besides the bed, never letting kid spill anything and fall while playing, best meals for the lunch box, drying the hair perfectly after bath and sleeping together.. 😅 I wonder why we,asians, are like this.
I am from the Kyrgyz Republic and we have the same😂 I thought onions is relatable only for us😂
@@begima7775 We do the same in Azerbaijan!😂
@@saraa338 ı think we are related countries like family countries turkey krgyza and obviously azerbaijan
Birlikte uyuma büyüyünce direkt bitiyor bizi artık annemize yalvarır duruma geliyoruz
I think we have had common ancestors , they were indian and spread all over asia and this culture developed
As an Asian child, I can confirm if it's 200% true (My mother punished me for getting first place but with decreasing grades) she said "Do you play on your phone too much?"
I didn't know that there is so much similarities in Indian and Malaysian parenting style 🤣🤣🤣
BTW, I am an Indian 😄
No 1 asked
@@mdhyderalikhan8725 shut up
@@ramjisairam7487 u too
Dah dia pon org malaysia apa nk heran
All correct except the onions. Kaada was missing. Haha
Wow, Caribbeans & Asians have a lot in common 😂 I’m Jamaican & I can relate to the Asian side completely!
Right???? 🇯🇲
Yep I'm American and my husband Jamaican. This video could have been recorded in our house 😂
There was no yelling tho
So do Russians😅, very similar to Asians as well.
Me too but from Bahamas 🇧🇸 Whooooo!!😄😄😄
I loved the sleep scene. Both the sides has pros. Putting them to sleep individually reduces the pressure of mom and also makes the son independent. Also sleeping along with them throughout their childhood creates a good parent child bonding and they feel safe and secure 👍🏻 I really loved the way it was portrayed
As a Caribbean kid, I've felt all of the Asian stuff. It's not an Asian thing, it's a 'minority' thing lol
Yes it definitely is!! Caribbean kid here who experienced all of that when I was younger.😄 I know if I ever have kids, I would be a mix of both of them😂😂
I found these videos completely relatable..there is no right or wrong..just wired differently and that's so much fun indeed. Absolutely hilarious and fun to watch. 😂😂😂
Yeah, I think some parents (in general, regardless of race) can ease up on the less than perfection thing though. Not that I have anyone Malaysian or Asian in my family (other than a cousin from the Philippines who was adopted), but I remember going home with a notice of excellence ("Good Guy Award" or something like that), and being asked why only two of the three good things were checked off. I didn't even know I was going to _get it in the first place,_ or what the things with check boxes even were until I received it. It's important to see more of what the child does right, than what the child does wrong.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
I really can relate to this.. don't forget the "flashbacks" when we makes mistakes, our parents compare us to them
ah yes wkwkw. bikin ga nyaman bgt yah, gue paling ga suka sama orgtua pengungkit. entah itu kesalahan atau pemberian yang diungkit. Tbh Asian parenting itu kdg toxic bgt. Discipline sm abusive beda tipis wkwkwk. Ya intinya gue gaakan pernah ngedidik anak gue nanti ky ortu gw ngedidik gw dulu.
@@growithphoebe jdi kepikiran pengen dpet suami bule biar bisa seimbang didikannya 🤣
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
@@shofiaamalia4037 kenapa harus pasangan bule? Kita juga bisa kok
@@Alifahusna_97 ga segampang prakteknya, kdang peran mertua jg bisa jdi penghambat ortu buat pola asuh yg mau diterapin
As a middle eastern, I relate to almost everything. However, you forgot that they yell at you the entire time that you're sick while simultaneously taking care of you 😂😂😂😂
Oh yeah… being sick was a punishment, and not to be enjoyed.😂😂😂😂😂
@Yash_Thakur 🤣🤣🤣, that is the objective.
But if we look past this , the lesson is
“ dont feel sorry for yourself”
learn to overcome .
Yooo yesss lol
Sooo true omg 😂😂😂
My mom does that too and we’re Russian
My mom is asian and my dad is Austrian/white, they met in American College and I have lived in the US my whole life, and what happened to me isn’t either of these. If I spilled something they would double-team on me with lectures and clean it up themselves while making me feel as guilty as possible. I guess that was happens when they agree on a parenting style 💀
Cultures may collide and love is love. Your kids seem happy. Thank you for the chuckles.
I love how both parents appreciate each others culture and I love it. Well done! 👍💕
sleep with your parents is the best part of Asians❤️
True we will never forget those memories
I'm not Asian but I slept with my mom until I was 9-
@@DarkWinterAMV I am an asian who is 17 years old i still sleep with my parents.
@@DarkWinterAMV 9 years is nothing compared with 17 years
@@mohanapriyaprakash8720 oh damn
I remember i made a total 100% one time, told my parents very proudly expecting some sort of reward, they just said: "ok, its your responsability, you are supposed to make that everytime" They didnt even said congratulations, my expression was: ☠️
As a Brazilian I could relate a lot to the Asian way to childcare that this video portraits 🤣
The "play safe" part is 100% my father
Né mano, a maioria das coisas são iguais KKKKKKK
@@apenasumcanal8808 nossa cultura não é tão distante assim da asiática, né kkkkk
@@Lena-bb6wq a cultura talvez seja, mas os pais concertesa não 😅😅
Damn and i thought Brazilian life are like Americans...
@@user_h1 Mexican here. Yes. It's kinda weird but in a good way lol
Beautiful blend. I am sure the boys will learn the best of each parent,each culture,food habits of each of their parents. There's so much scope for both the boys to become the best version of themselves just because they have such good parents. Love you guys.
100% agree . My family is a melting pot of different ethnicities and the kids in the family are a perfect blend. You get the best of both worlds 😀
As a Indian kid growing up in Malaysia I can relate to this 100% . The kissing scene got me 😅 Love this and reminds me of all my growing up days and how I am too with my son . ❤
I'm from India and these all things are totally relatable . Specially , the 3rd & 4th one . But in India , when such ( 2:07 ) scenes occurs your father will say you to bring a glass of water .
This is so funny and so true. I'm American and my husband is Chinese. The only one that didn't seem to fit was I was always telling them to be careful when playing. The Chinese kids seemed to have more of a devil-may-care kind of play attitude.
Did the kids have fun recording these? I imagine the only time a child is told to accidentally dirty the couch and get away with it must be exciting 😂
🤣🤣🤣
probably not. Majority of these channels milk kids for money.
Was probably told he didn't make it cinematicly dirty enough and to redo it
@-quit- I'm only saying this because the majority of these family channels milk kidd.
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
I'm Jamaican & we definitely relate to the Asian style more. Especially the cut onions 😂😂 I get tired of my mom reminding me of this remedy sometimes.
Jamaican too
I thought i was the only one who sqw the similarities
But i mean the Caribbean in general is such a mix of African, Chinese and Indians
What do the onions do??
Yep, Jamaican here thought the same
I didn't know any Jamaican that has this value like Asian people.
@@ranojutro426 yep, I grew up there and some of them for sure. My husband is British and the catching cold one he gets on my case with lol
That’s hilarious. My husband is Filipino. He would not have done sleep overs at his friends’ houses. His parents were afraid the kids would break something if they even played at someone else’s house. I was the one always excited with the kids’ accomplishments. I think the most excited I’ve seen him is say, “Very good.” He has an American accent but whenever he speaks to a foreigner with a strong accent, regardless of country, he starts speaking in broken English. I have no idea why. It’s a habit. We’ve been married 46 years and the kids have turned out reasonably well adjusted. The oldest boy does standup.
Eyyyy not completely messing up is better than most parents! 🙌 Better than mine 😂
If i ever have kids my main goal will be for them to not need therapy because of something i did lol
My parents are both German, grew up in the same small town, and this is like the difference between my mom and dad. But I think that’s a good thing because you learn to balance each other out.
Well, I thought I was Cuban, but perhaps I’m Indian, because we do all those things the same way! We also have trouble relating to the way Americans raise children, and we use Vick’s for everything!🤣 Thanks for the great video, your children are so precious-beautiful boys!🤗🥰
Go see a doctor. Vick is useless.
We in Barbados too 😂😂
Cubans are Americans. Mexicans are Americans. USA people are Americans. Etc. because American refers to the continent of America and those who live in it. The indigenous Americans are the people native to North America including Mexico, south Central America. I am 2nd generation North American and I don’t act this way. In fact my daughter just spilt water on the table and I gave her the towel to clean it up. She’s 6. I think it’s more of a cultural thing rather than a nationality thing.
I think it’s a Hispanic thing also. Sleepovers were a No! And I don’t allow my children go to sleepovers. The spilling on the sofa….mistakes don’t happen lol
@@lailaalanna315 Throughout the Caribbean.
Love the bloopers at the end, more realistic. As an Asian-Western family, we have similar issues but have worked out a happy blend of our own.
Lol, I remember back when I was a child, my friend invited me for a sleep over & when I asked my mom for permission, she went... "Why? Don't we have a home? Why do you have to sleep at other people's house?"... and that's how my Asian mom says "No" each time... a full lecture😂
100% accurate 😂
The cultures of almost all Asian countries seem to be similar!😅
The onions!!! Love it. I laughed so hard. I am a Malaysian of Chinese heritage, now living in Texas, with biracial children. I can relate to everything. Bravo. Your children are just adorable.
This looks like a continuation to the endless "Asians vs Americans" series. But behind the scenes was a nice fresh change.
The night sleeping part is the most important distinction. Thanks for including it. Nice video. Enjoyed watching
Your video is sooooo cute and funny; and for the most part, spot-on!
I liked the part of not getting injured on the wall; the Vicks part; the strive harder and be better part; the “are you hungry?” part; the cover the eyes at “no-no” part… in other words, your entire video had me giggling and wiping tears of laughter from my eyes!
Good work! I hope you will do many more videos along those lines of Eastern
vs Western cultures. 😂
Such a lovely family dynamic. So relatable as an Asian.
So true. I am a Black American woman and I was always told by my parents to push for 100% especially since I was taught I was at a disadvantage due to some prejudices. I have since learned to shoot for the highest level of excellence in all I do. However, to have a balance so if I don't make my goal to still be proud of the effort, readjust and try again. Perfection is demonic and causes anxiety and depression. Try to have a spirit of excellence, you will feel better in the end. Excellence is a forgiving journey, but perfection is unforgiving and impossible to achieve. Be wise.❤
I love this video though. Hilarious! 😂❤😊Beautiful family!
In india we are just indian no black no white.
White lady here. But my dad was 100% Scottish by way of Canada. Same thing.
Black is not a tribe, nationality, ethnicity or identity of any sort.
@@rashaadswanson6687 I am aware of that, BUT I refuse to be called African-American. I am an American, but for the purposes of this video, I purposefully pointed out that I was not of Caucasian nor Indian descent. Not sure why you felt the need to comment. 🙄
@@maureenlaneski2802 awesome! That is why I shared what I did to show there are people with similar or same values no matter our nationality or ethnicity. Much Love 😍
4:38 the fact that he didn't put in the cucumber slice that's been on the table is SO ACCURATE omg i can't 😂😂😂
Hahahaha I am a Filipino but I can relate when he cover his son's eyes during the kissing scene. I remember my Mom saying, "oh oh cover your eyes"
haha XD can relate
Agreed 😆
I’m Filipino too xD
Relate lol when you i got accidentaly pour a liquid in couch or floor i always the one wipe it out when i was young 😂😂,
Then they ask you where are their grandkids a few years later😂😂
This man showed the most softest and full of love approach impossible for Asian parents
Kumar you get 10/10 yes this is how Indian culture is and we all Indian parents live this
Malaysia culture not only Indian parents
@@hamidah7727 only 5/10 not true most of it
Although his parents are Tamil , he recognises himself as Malaysian 😆
So don't club him into our culture when he's thinking differently
@@durgadevi7814 He is Malaysian. He was born there but he is oc Indian heritage.
@@leesteal4458 that's what I said too. 🙂
This is so true
That was cute. I love seeing how these two are playfully sharing their differences, but it seems they have more they agree on than disagree.
😄 being of sri lankan origin .. i can totally relate to this .. even as adults we still tend to skip kissing scenes 😅 and we are still not allowed to go on sleep overs .. never the less .. we love our parents to death ❤️
PS: Vicks is for India , Siddhalepa is for sri lanka (we still use it) 😁
Vicks for india, siddhalepa for srilanka, and freshcare for indonesia😂
Totally agreed 😍🇱🇰 we love our parents to death ❤️
'Siddhalepa' 😅
I am from India most of us using sidddalepa too
Even as a Nigerian, I could relate to the Asian parenting style 😂
This and some other comment from South America is proof that it’s Europe vs the world
@@codeovercode167 Serbia, Croatia Bulgaria is very different from Norway, Sweden
Just like turkey is different from Japan
@@tiestokygoericprydz3963 Correct, maybe north-western Europe vs the world would be a better generalization.
@@codeovercode167 every country is unique
It's not about continent either
I've been looking for a Nigerian comment till I found this😂😂 the way the Asian behaves is soo like a Nigerian parent😂🤣
This was sooo adorable
Glad you included the bloopers at the end
You have the sweetest family and the cutest boys 🥰🧿
I'm from Japan. My parents never praised me no matter how much I achieved😂It caused low self-esteemed😂Being humble is very important for them. But I think the American way is much better than my parent's. I will praise my children a lot from today❤Thank you!
It’s not- it encourages mediocrity. There has to be a healthy mix of the two. Set high standards but obviously if your child gets a 97 you praise them- not scold them for not getting a hundred.
Boom
Conclusion: American way of parenting is BETTER than Japanese
Implication: America should produce better children than Japan (as a whole)
If I take your opinion granted
Americans always exaggerate, they often praise for nothing
@@aniruddhapyas9616but american are losers compared to japan. Do you prefer live in Japan or America given free circumstances? You’re welcome
hmmm so maybe i should show my parents this so they might start praising me too LOL i have the same issue that uv had with ur parents
I personally think its a great combination of descipline both cultures 2gether will definitely have genious kids
I agree with this.. when both perspectives meet their common grounds, the kids will be much more disciplined & have more mature thoughts about everything..
Agreed... discipline is best cultivate at young age...👍👍👍
On the mark guys!!!
Me being an Indian, I can totally relate to this😂
During the entire video i was smiling and thinking about my childhood.
The video is really cute. Really loved it guys😍.
The boys r sooooo lucky to have wonderful parents like you.god bless u both
I am Arabic and can relate to absolutely everything indian parents do 😅👍🏻👍🏻Well done!
Kumar is actually Malaysian, but it's still the same behavior 😂. What Arab country are you from tho?
@@aryamanbhadauria1584 oh okayyy... I was so confused hearing his accent 😂
@@aryamanbhadauria1584 i think he might be Tamil(Indian) descent Malaysian
A lot of Malaysians were Indian migrants
@@haroldbalczac6431 Actually there are a lot of Arab countries. Those are the only two which have Arab in the name. Arab countries are those where the first language or official language is Arabic.
Ok but your kids are so adorable, I was just smiling the whole time. 😘
And being an Indian, I realised we all Asians have the same parents. 😂
I am a 36 years old man.
When I was young my Mom was always FOR having friends over and sleepovers.
She would make things to eat and drink.
She recently told me that one of the reasons she was so receptive to the idea is to see the types of friends I had.
Your child might be influenced in a very bad way by bad friends especially in the early development stages.
You as a parent have very limited exposure to your child's friends.
I did have a good friends around me but I appreciate my mom looking out for me. (As I was a boy with boy friends mostly my dad also participated, told jokes etc and I am sure he checked my friends as well)
Classmate sleepovers are usually not a thing of culture on southeast asian countries, but I do agree of the advantages, parents can see acquainted and be familiarized with the friends and classmates their children are regularly mingling around.
@@rdu239 I didn’t have many sleepovers as most people in my country live in flats and you only have 1 bath.
It is not like with houses in the US that are usually bigger.
So you could get maybe 1-2 friends max to sleep over in my country.
However - watching movies, playing console games etc.
It is more than enough time for mom or dad to get a feeling and a vibe check of your friends.
Also my parents did not over extend their presence and they were not outwardly noisy so neither me or my friends felt bad.
I will definitely be using this parenting advice if I, God willing , become a parent.
As an American this is weird for me to hear because I basically spent every weekend over at a friend's house or with a friend at mine during high school.
Almost every weekend my friends would come stay at my house, and my mom became like a second mom to them. She always tells me how much fun she had when we were all there, and she loved that she could be 100% sure we were fed, comfortable and safe.
2 culture. Both has its benefits and both has its cons too. U should mix it i guess.
Hi, I am Hungarian and some situations are the same in our country: "eaten yet" (your parents think you are starving all day long 😂), sweet dreams, safety and vet hair paranoia and cutted ONIONS under the bed. It was funny and interesting, thank you.
The Vicks part got me laughing so hard 🤣🤣🤣
Totally man 😂
@@kundanikachennuru1006 I know right 🤪🤣😂😂😂😂😂
That’s so relatable 😀
@@arlenec3983 I know right 🤣🤣
Hahahaha😂😂😂
Asian here! It's entertaining because it's sooooo relatable, both as a child then and a parent now. 🤣
This all says how much protection love care and this sweet upbringing Asians have towards their childrens ❤️
But while playing,you shouldn't get overprotective and let them learn,teaching them to rise after falling and being strong rather than overprotecting them,letting them face the challenges and solve them us an important part of life and you shouldn't rob them of that,and honestly most Asians aren't overprotective,it's mainly Americans😂
@@riyasingh2729 yaaa that true but you know how Asian loves are 😂😂😂😂😂 can't complain
@@riyasingh2729you talk too much as kids able to perceive all that. Asian are better at teaching kids, because CONSEQUENCES always come for every action you do rather that white lying sweet talking everything, thats why western have gender pronouns shit.
It’s always sweet to hear dads calling their sons “my baby” or “my love”.
Love that the kids were part of the video. They did so well too. So real to Indians all over.
I just respect how you both can be together and get along and blend with different culture. You guys just made it. Ya i laughed and my thoughts are exactly goes well with the Malaysian culture there. Lol Hahaha... That's just so true. Well done you both.
Logesh No shoes on the bed! What would your mother say?! 😂
Great video, and I relate to everything as an Indian mom living in the US learning it's strange ways of bringing up kids.
My husband is Slavic, just like me, but he grew up in the US. I grew up in Ukraine. I can relate with the Indian guy 100%. How is that?
I am Greek and I laughed so much , especially at the onions. I just put an onion at my little boy's room!!! 😂
Parenting is the hardest heartfelt you'll ever do. They can only start from what they learned as a child and build on that. Nobody gets it perfect, thank God they even try!
Agreed 💯
2:18
As a cantonese, this is soooo relatable. Since I am a kid, my parents something block out some, scenes. I like adults movies that have violence squid game, vikings valhalla, etc. Once theres a unexpected making a baby scene, my parents cover my eyes. When I watch alone, I usually skip it.
Same
So nice to see you Zae Zae! Lots of love!
#SmartKidsArt
I'm an Asian & I could so relate to this one!!! this is exactly how we think & act 😂😂😂😂
As a Russian, same. :)
As an American I do very same. Even Vicks and onions.
Kiss that scene goodbye 😂. That is so true for me as an asian. Sometimes, parents do turn to other channel on tv to skip that part.
Agree..
This is not just Malaysians, this is Indians in general. I'm from South Africa and I'm Indian, we the same here😂😂😂
Were you on family feud SA?
Really?? Owh! 🤭
@@snawani86 no
not just indian but asians in general
It's Asian actually
LOL I've been reading through the comments and it's so funny to see how many different cultures vibe with the Asian parent and how few vibe with the American parent. As an American parent, I find that amusing and a little surprising that so few do things as we would. Very interesting. :)
I scored exactly 97% in my 10th class board exams, my parents were happy but just to tease me they said this exactly -
" where did you lose rest of the 3 %? " 😂😂
SAME! it happens all the time with my Asian parents too lol
The onion part 😭😭 I pray both of you and the kids good health and life! I love the behind the scenes!! Made the video so much more wholesome than it already was!! Relatable video especially as i'm from the South East!
6:55 One mistake.... Indians don't say I love you to children. They just show it through their actions
You know after watching the videos i realise how much beautiful asian are ❤ really they try to make a child in both sector moral & practical areas from childhood
This dad is terrific. So much to love about him ❤
Nice video! 👍🏻 I'm really happy to see you guys again! ❤️
I am Malaysian and those are what happened in Malaysia when a parent tries to educate their child hahah. 100% relatable.
I am "white" American and my husband is Hmong American. Everything is pretty much right except the accidental spill on the couch scenario. I am the one who makes him clean up and my husband is the softy.
The kids in the bed is SO true. I finally convinced my husband to let our older boy sleep in his own bed. Our younger one still sleeps with us. I dont mind the cuddles.
Its all about communication and compromise. ❤
For those reliving their childhood traumas... know that you can be free from that pain and you can forgive your parents because they're sinners like ANYONE else. Once I learned about my own sin nature, I understood that of my parents. I forgave them and now I am able to parent with joy, and help my son to forgive as he grows- knowing that NONE of us are perfect.
Thanks for thinking of us.
LOVE THIS VIDEO ! U GUYS CAPTURED IT EXACTLY. I LAUGHED AND LAUGHED 😂😂😂
4:36 That's right healthy lunch. Good job dad
Sooo... relatable to Malaysian life ... as you put it in a short video. can see that we are cold most of the time, yet actually so loving...