I am gobsmacked by this content! I have been having bladder issues that I have seen a urologist and a gynecologist for, but neither of them put the pieces together 😠 I've been on multiple rounds of antibiotics (3x), back to back, because of "kidney infections" that turned out NOT to be infections, but false positives from the dip stick method. Had a cystoscopy of my bladder because they were telling me my symptoms were that of cancer! It wasn't. Had both an ultrasound and an x-ray of my kidneys - all normal. Then I find this video that explains the need for estrogen for your bladder! I could scream! So the reason for traces of blood in my urine is because it needed estrogen!?! I asked my doc for estradiol cream. We'll see, but I am so frustrated because I have been trying to address my hormones since I started menopause at 39-years-old!! I tried biodenticals but the specialist, whom I flew across the country to see, couldn't get it right. I finally gave up. Then this bladder frequency issue came up a couple of years ago, as a result of a strange mid-back pain that I thought were my kidneys. I was told that the pain was too high up to be kidney pain, but they took a urine sample anyway. I had a very high Ketone level at that time because I was trying to reduce my joint inflammation by going almost zero carb, and with the trace amounts of blood in my urine, they thought I should be in incredible pain, but I wasn't. And they whacked on my lower back a few times and I was fine. But they still put me on a round of antibiotics because the provider said that my diet containing excess proteins had scratched the inside of my kidneys and caused this situation. The urologist later said "that does not sound reasonable." So, 6 months later, and a lot of medical debt, unnecessary antibiotics, and stopping my diet, I'm back where I started, only now I have this information that is probably the missing piece of the puzzle. I know this is a long way to say thank you, but thank you!
If you can see a Nephrologist, you might get better answers. Round after round of antibiotics without confirmed reasons, are not the answer, they can cause gut problems. I hope things improve for you.
I am 70 but I have had this problem since I went through menopause at age 55. Every time I have mentioned this problem to my gynecologist I get no help or suggestions. Makes me feel as though I am alone with this issue. I finally just stopped asking about it.Thank you for explaining hand giving me some help in this area. This is very frustrating and makes me feel abnormal.
I’m 77 and I’ve suffered with awful burning pain in my vulva…I haven’t seen a doctor yet our docs don’t have a lady doc which put me off…but at 77 what the heck….anyway I thought I’d reply to you so you won’t think you are the only one xx
IM 75 N STILL SEXUALLY ACTIVE---I USE KY BEADS---U CAN GET THEM FROM AMAZON AND MOST DRUG STORES. THEY WORK WONDERS FOR ME. I JUST STARTED USING AND SO IMPRESSED---NO BLEEDING NO SCRATCHES ETC.
I had a total hysterectomy at age 54 a few years ago. Sex has been extremely painful. I’ve tried all the lubricants but it’s just not the same. I don’t want to take any prescription medication. It’s been horrible as I always had a great sex life. I’m not sure what to do.
@@lharr I learnt a few months' ago that being on the birth control pill, even for a short time, has a dreadful effect on the hormones. It is like a switch that turns off.
Oh my gosh! I have had a terrible time with this condition for about a year now. I am 69, had a partial hysterectomy at 21, after birth of my son. Then a complete at 33. I had almost decided I might have cancer as all types run in my family! I thought I was allergic to the elastic in my underwear, could not find a comfortable chair anywhere! Went through countless pillows, thinking it was the way I was sitting because of my OA in my lower back! Thank you so very much for talking about this painful condition! I will see a doctor asap! Thank you , Thank you!
Yes, the study done by WHI, was flawed and results shouldn't have been put out to the public, until the study was corrected. The media sensationalized the results, causing a huge backlash for women. This has caused women decades of unnecessary suffering, it was as if the medical profession washed their hands of annoying menopausal symptoms and prescribed antidepressants, instead of addressing the problems. Has there been any other health concern that's been so neglected? I hope more will be done, women shouldn't have to live half of their adult lives in pain and embarrassment.
I started out over 10 years ago at 58 using a compounded cream of Estriol. Not Estradiol or Estrogen, but Estriol. It’s like the first step I think to start with. It has worked wonderful, and I have not needed to move on to higher dosed or stronger estrogens. I got this from a naturopath, and then from my Nurse practitioner. It is a cream, and when I first started using it, it was as an insertion. Now I just use it topically. Game changer, start as soon as you can.
I went to a Pelvic Floor Program, at a hospital here in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada. It was a wonderful program. Before going I was in a lot of pain, frequent urination, pain, pain, pain. I now use Premarin cream, twice a week. I feel so much better. Wonderful dr.
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I had that issue, and my uterus and my ovaries hurt also. It was painful all the time and especially when I walked. The doctor examined me and said that everything was atrophied. Also, i had frequent cystitis. What helped me a lot was vagifem suppositories twice weekly. All the pain cleared up.
Oh my word i have struggled unknowingly with this condition for over 20 years initially thinking that i had Interstitial cystitis , i am now 70 and have just seen a Gynaecologist not for this problem but with an Ovarian problem i did mention this chronic Urinary problem infections and incontinence on examining me she mentioned VA i had no idea what that meant but checking with Dr Google all the symptoms were there even the uncomfortable sitting down which can be awful i have been put on Estrogen pessaries and i am waiting to see a Urologist, but i am just so pleased to come across video's like this that can finally tell me what i have.
It's really sad that women aren't given more information ahead of time, on what to expect and what to do. So many women are put on antidepressants which doesn't address the real issues, although women do suffer with depression due to lack of hormones and the physical consequences. The kind of information in this video, should be given by Drs to women as they enter perimenopause, and a discussion about what can be done to help women through and after menopause. It's a really neglected subject and causes women years of unnecessary suffering, myself included. Here's hoping for better research and help for women. It's overdue.
I'm 59 and have had this problem for a few years. My primary care doc is a woman and the same age I am. She knew exactly what to do. She did an exam and gave me vaginal estradiol suppositories. Beyond that, I use Good Clean Love lube, it's naturally water-based with aloe. I didn't want hrt, just a help locally and that's what I have. There are no words!
Estradiol cream was a game changer for me . Years of depo provera left me estrogen deficient . My NP explained it’s actually good for us to have monthly menses which releases hormones . Before estradiol I had pain , tearing and redness . All gone after stopping depo and using estradiol cream . I’m sooo happy ! ❤
@@jeanluby4636 I’m so sorry it hasn’t helped you ! It only took about 3 months to alleviate my symptoms at 5 nights a week during that first 3 months now it’s 2 -3 nights per week for maintenance.
I think it's time to give up for me when after 2 yrs. of trying every kind topical estro even oral nothing has changed and no kind of skin condition cause.
@@jeanluby4636 if you haven’t seen a specialist for vulva issues maybe that’s what you could do next . My NP was going to send me to one if I didn’t improve because it was taking longer than she thought it should but finally at 3 months we had success . Praying you get some relief .
Thank you so much for this video. I am 64 years old and had a partial hysterctomy at the age of 40 for eccessive menstral bleeding. I am also a type 2 insulin dependent diabetic. In 2008 iwas diagnosed with thyroid cancer having a complete thyroidectomy with post surgical radiation. In 2014 i was diagnosed with breast cancer and had bilateral mastectomy but no chemo or radiation. Over the past few years I have been having the problems you described in this video but over the past few months i have been dealing with almost unbearable vaginal dryness and severe burning and stinging on urination. My GP did a urinaylsis and found i have a UTI and am treating me with Macrobid. The burning is some better but still after I shower and use water i am still burning but not quite so bad. I've tried several creams for bacterial and yeast infections to no avail. I have an appointment to follow up with my GYN this week but to be honest I am a little concerned about vaginal/vulva cancer. I know they are very rare but just can't imagine what else could be going on. My husband is 80 years old and it has been quite sometime since we've had intercorse. I am so tired of feeling bad "down there" and hope something can be done. Thanks again for your video.
@@bettydamnboop3030 Terry, I began using vH essentials, Ph Balanced Daily Feminine Wash, Tea Tree Oil & Prebiotic about couple month ago. Helped tremendously. $7 on Amazon.
I really appreciate you addressing this. My doctor put me on the Estring after using estradiol tablets for a while and being annoyed by having to use them twice a week, so the Estring is great. The only issue is the tremendous cost!! Luckily for me my employer covers most of it, but I find it horrifying that insurance companies charge $400+ for this medication, when it's just estrogen. I was told by one doctor that they're able to charge that much because so many women find it taboo and are embarrassed to talk about it, and so tolerate whatever the cost is. That's so wrong.
@@jeanluby4636 Yes, it's just a silicone ring with estrogen that slowly releases over 3 months, so you only have to do something when it's time for a new one! SO much better, and the dr. said the continual release is a more steady dose than the spikes you get from the tablets.
I’m using vagifem, and my work insurance covers 80% of the cost, so my out-of-pocket expense is only about $12 for 18 pills, which will last me nine weeks since I’m on two pills per week. Vaginal health is so important. At 56 years old, I cannot even imagine not being able to have sexual intercourse because of vaginal atrophy. This is a normal function as a human. There is even a laser treatment for vaginal atrophy, which is about $1200 per treatment, and I believe three treatments are needed. This needs to be covered by insurance companies as well! Insurance companies need to realize that this is not for aesthetics, but to allow women to live a normal life. Insurance companies will cover massages and dietitians, which a lot of women do not take advantage of because it’s not needed for them. Insurance companies need to start covering treatments for women’s sexual health. They do not realize how this phase in a woman’s life can literally be so devastating!
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Thank you so much I thought I was the only woman to suffer with this. At times it hurts to walk or sit down. I have found a lubricant called Sylk it is make from natural ingredients and has helped me very much. It is good to know that many other women have this problem.
I would just like to say that breastfeeding IS a normal condition! Breasts are for babies first, men second. Interesting video, I learned a few things.
I use to have this pre menopause. I am now over two years, and the only thing that has helped me is practicing yoga. Let me tell you, I feel like I’m 35 down there.
Thank you - my gynaecologist said my vaginal walls were raw. I’m using an oestrogen gel now . I’ve had burning on urinnation. My husband has been impotent so that doesn’t help. He hasn’t been with me sexually for years now.
I had a full hysterectomy at 36/37 . I am 64 now .In my late 40’s I started having aloT of pain during sex. I went to 5 different gynecologists and they all said see a sex therapist. I was so pissed off! After another year & no sex since it hurt I went to another gynecologist who said my vagina was only 1 inch long and maybe half an inch wide. She said get these dialators to stretch it, but if the real thing hurts artificial ones hurt just as much if not more! She didn’t suggest any hormones which I had stopped because they had caused cystic acne. I never wanted to end my sex life. I have no dryness & never did. I refuse to go to any more gynecologist near me. They all blamed me when they did listen to me! I’m going back to my old gynecologist in nc I’m in nj because I trust him. & my ins will cover him. But I’m frustrated beyond belief due to losing so many years of a live life because doctors always want to blame everything on emotional issues when they refuse to do their job ! I had my hysterectomy due to POCD. I was bleeding 3 weeks every month and couldn’t handle the pain anymore, so after about 10 surgeries I chose a hysterectomy, but regret that also.
Hello. I just wanted to say I was going through so much pain like you're describing and my obgyn sent me to a urologist and they found out I have a very painful bladder condition called interstitial cystitis. When I was diagnosed the Dr really helped me a lot. I hope you feel better soon dear!!
Possibly Pelvic PT would help as it helped me. I was surprised to learn of the existence of one continuous muscle of the pelvic floor. Mine was as tight as a drum and my vagina was so tight that an internal by MD was painful and almost impossible. Also the estrogen cream prescribed cause irritation so I stopped it. My pelvic PT therapist recommended application of plain KY jelly daily after shower, just small amount, and no more irritation. Pelvic PT is becoming more popular and was a lifesaver for me. I hope this helps.
Wash with Estrogen, then mix pure aloe vera gel with coconut oil. Spread liberally on the affected area 3 times a day. Wear non leaky underwear in the day and none at night. Works wonders!
Girl.... I'm telling you people act like they don't want to HELP when you're in pain down there! If I say I don't know what's going on, then help me you're the doctor! You tell me I'm in menopause, I'm quite sure it's something that can be done!
Thanks so much for this video. I just recently been diagnosed with MS. I have had these kinds of problems for a while now. I have told the neurologist I saw about it. He referred me to a urinary specialist. I have been in menopause for a few years now.
I had a full and complete hystorectomy at 36 and any doc I have seen have been reluctant to help. I am now using Estriol but still have atrophy and can no longer have sex. I'm 72 and still want a healthy sex life. I like the idea of natural therapies.Thank you for all your suggestions.
Gr8 video 😎 Women are more likely to visit their doctor if they felt comfortable discussing their lady garden. If you could provide a SCRIPT conversation between woman and doctor that would be extremely helpful ~ Much Appreciated 😘
Dr, thank you for this podcast. I am 60 and going through it. My expensive cash-pay-only doctors treated me well. But, my doctors through my PPO Blue Shield of CA insurance have no clue and are underprescribing my medicines like HRT and estradial for my vagina.
I experienced the same thing. It is disgusting. My POS doctors are afraid of the "black box" warning but my Naturopathic doctor is willing and able to treat the whole body.
@@mdaze9753 Ever since the study done by WHI several years ago, which turned out to be really flawed, none the less, Drs stopped prescribing HRT, leaving women to live half their lives without hormones. Things are changing, I just wish it would change faster, too many women are suffering
@@carollynt How do you know the estrogen caused it? It could have happened anyway, but she would have lived with bad symptoms of low estrogen, like burning and pain, depression, and incontinence for all those years after menopause.
Thank you for this informative video! It has given me the impetus to start a discussion with my gynecologist as I am experiencing many of these symptoms after menopause.
Physical Therapists have to achieve a DPT (doctor of physical therapy) degree in order to be licensed. They have bachelor's, master's, and the DPT (think PhD), do residency, etc. They are entitled to be called "doctor," just as a PhD is, but due to the politics in most medical facilities, only physicians are referred to that way.
I'm a male, and I can fully sympathies with the women here about this issue. My wife and I have been married for over 40 years, and she had trouble with my size before menopause and the effects of loss of estrogen. She is a trooper and tried very hard to take care of my needs, but we finally just gave up on her having regular intercourse.
@@deborahbuffamanti4847 Thanks for the info, I'll mention this to her and see if she has any knowledge of this. I am not too sure this will help, any man who thinks having a large cock is a blessing should talk to someone who has one. When I was younger I had women look like I had pointed a gun at them most would say Oh no, you're not putting that in me" and just back away.
Good on you - my husband decided to take up with sex workers without even thinking about me! Why? Because he was embarrassed. I tried but he’s - whatever he is. 800 + sex workers! Yay me!
@@jtm1129 I'm sorry for what has happened to you, he had needs that needed to be taken care of, did he give you any options before he went to the professionals for his enjoyment? Just askin'....
@@barbararoberts4871 Men think that having a large cock is a great thing to have, not so much. I'm around 10" long and about the size of a frozen juice can, she just couldn't hardly deal with it when she was younger, so we just did the best we could do.
I have had what was suspected to be Interstitial Cystitis for at least 35, 40 yrs. I am living on pyridium. I am going to make an appointment with a urogynocologist and hopefully figure something out!!!!
I'm hoping your other videos will have more treatments for vaginal atrophy. I'm extremely sensitive in my vulvar region to the point that the doctor had me undergo MRIs instead of a pelvic exam. Unlike a lot of folks with this condition, I'm not dry "down there." The last thing I want to do is make it wetter!!!
Thank you. I am 68, had uterus removed after prolapse from giving birth and bladder suspension at 35. Had both ovaries removed at 55 due to a giant cyst and one that had already burst. All I have left are my saggy boobs. Taking. 5mg of Estradiol daily. I feel like the vaginally area is atrophied and falling. Getting old really blows.
I am almost 63.i had hysterectomy when I was in my 40s..But it's just few weeks ago I start to get discomfort down there.i haven to the Dr..and got 5days of antibiotic,but I am still not feeling well..I use sage..boil and keep it in the refrigerator and sip on it..I am comfortable drinking it rather than taking all these meds..Also I try to do the tighten excercise while standing especially at the sink this is helping me..and I also use castro oil and rub on the lower part of my abdomen..And most important praying is the key..Thank you all for sharing we are all together in this.❤
I had the same operation 5 years ago, it's left me with a prolapsed bladder I'm in such a lot of pain, the doctor as put a ring inside to hold me together but I'm in a lot of pain, I'm not getting anywhere with the doctors help I'm so upset 😢🇬🇧✝️
It does blows! I used to love having sex with my spouse. These days, forget about it! I’m 58 and I’ve been in menopause for eight years. So dry down there.
Thank you very much. I am going through this very issue for some time now. I am a breast cancer survivor and have been through chemo. I came upon this video seemingly in error but l think God directed me here so l could get this information. Thanks.
Honestly, the only symptom I thought women had when they were going through menopause was hot flashes. I had no idea about vaginal atrophy, never even heard of it before my gynaecologist mentioned it to me a couple of years back. I was horrified to hear it, I had never even heard about such a thing, or even heard it discussed by other women. As soon as I started getting symptoms, I went to see my gynecologist, and she put me on Vagifem [estradiol]. It’s like night and day. The burning and itching is gone, and without being too graphic, my vaginal area looks normal again, whereas before taking Vagifem, it looked like it had a literally shrunken. For the last couple of years, my gynaecologist encouraged me to take a mirror and look down there for signs of vaginal atrophy, but I was too scared. Until the symptoms started. It freaked me out how different it looked. I am forever grateful for Vagifem for restoring me.
Thank you for clarification on this matter. I thought i was the only one going through a stupid pain problem because my OBGYN has no clue as to what this is. I have had so many test for EVERYTHING! and found nothing wrong. the pain feels like throbbing, stabbing contractions right on the left side of my lady part ( mons pubis- labia). OMG! it's driving me insane. and all i need is estrogen?
I have vaginal atrophy, intercourse was so painful we had to stop! I miss the intimacy with my husband. My gyn subscribed an insert but that really was not any help at all.
I am terrified to get a pelvic exams. I cannot even imagine the pain it will cause me now after menopause and this terrible situation it has caused me. Im stuck with this horrible condition if Im required to have a speculum exam. I will not go.
It's been many many years since I've been to the gynecologist after my hysterectomy. I think I went once for a follow-up exam and she said atrophy had already set in that quickly! I have all of those lovely things happening to me as well... dryness, tearing and overall major uncomfortableness
Ms SD N - I haven’t had breast cancer, but my mom did & I don’t know if was estrogen related but I’m pretty sure it was because she had a very early in life hysterectomy & was on estrogen - anyway, my gynecologist tells me that estrogen cream is safe - it doesn’t go all through the bloodstream - I don’t really know, but thought I’d mention it
Thank you 😊🙏 I have a question, but this is RUclips. I have subscribed and I’ll listen. Looking forward to learning about something new and helping myself feel better.
I've had prior vaginal surgeries and the surgical site has one spot that feels like it's never healed over the last two years. I'm hoping for a good vaginal examination, especially the surgical site tomorrow. The Urologist was recommended for me but he only wants to have a phone conversation. To me that's crazy inadequate. I've also been referred to a pelvic Physical Therapist but she hasn't been willing to schedule anything with me this past month. I think she wants me to forget she was referred to me. I had two prior appointments before she disappeared. Their receptionist tells me "Ok, I'll let her know." It's frustrating trying to get proper examination, surgical revisions and willing practitioners. I'll be seeing the 4th MD by phone tomorrow. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. It's all I can do at this time. This latest MD is a 2 hour drive to the far side of Chicago. I haven't given up hope. I'm 80 years old and hurting.
why do I have vaginal pain and pressure after 5 weeks post anterior repair? I have been fine for 5 weeks. I was having estrogen therapy vaginally before surgery and no longer need it .
My Mother suffered from burning feelings in her bladder and it’s“ it‘s outlet“ ( i am Not a native speaker so don‘t know the corrected Name) and went to an urologist. He found no bactérial Infection. Her Problems went on she went to the same doctor who knew nothing about the low estrogên Levels and her pain and finally asked here, „ You want me to find bactéria?“ It still makes me angry, although I am more than 20 years behind that, my Mother was over 80 at that time. I myself am a doctor and Made a very good decision, whenever a question arouse I had no explanation for, I asked a colleague who might know better. To me what happened to my Mother was humiliating and a Lack of Knowledge.g
I saw a uro-gyn doctor for all that you described. He rx'd estrogen cream which I insert into the vagina twice a week. It cured me. I swear. My urinary symptoms cleared up and my vagina is not sore anymore. What a difference.
@@elite3737 My urologist told me that not much is needed. Just a fingertip full will work. I don’t use as much as what the directions say, and it works fine.
I'm in my mid 30s and recently diagnosed with cystocele. The prolapse has probably existed since the birth of my youngest in 2020, but didn't protrude until last month when saw the ob/gyn about it. I only have intercourse about twice a month, if that. I jokingly told my husband my organs are tumbling out of me because my meat wallet is wasting away (he has low libido)... but it looks like maybe I wasn't wrong after all 😩 I don't really have time or desire for ... ahem .. solo activities. I've been doing kegels and pelvic floor exercises for years, obviously to no avail. The prolapse isn't severe enough for surgery, thankfully. It stays in probably 70% of the time and will occasionally pop out after using the bathroom, until I have time to lie down and shimmy it back in. I don't know what else to do. I'm incredibly self conscious about it, and worried about further muscle atrophy and worsening of the prolapse. Oh well, thanks for listening to my novel if you did 😅😅
Happy New Year Dr. Christi! I subscribed to your channel today, as part of a healthier me in 2020! I look forward to restoring my mind, body and Spirit this year.🙏🏽💕🥗🥥🥑💕🥳
I'm 46. Two years ago had a full hysterectomy due to having a watermelon sized ovarian cyst mass, that blood work said was cancerous. I have severe vaginal dryness, no sex drive, scar tissue at the back of the vagina on the inside. Tried having sex on three different occasions after surgery, was unable to because of the dryness and pain. I feel like what makes me a full woman is destroyed. It's been a heart breaking frustrating two years for my husband and I.
Being told to use lube that doesn't do a damn thing don't help, or it's all in your head, you should see a sex therapist just pisses me off. Now I'm being sent to a pelvic floor physical therapist to attempt to get help. I'm discouraged and I honestly feel so damn alone.
Thank you for the video. I have had this problem since I was 41 when I went through menopause. I am now 67. I remarried at 40. So our sex life has suffered since my vagina atrophied. A few years I got the Mona Lisa procedure done. It didn't help. It's miserable. I avoid intercourse because of the pain.
I'm 55 and I got exactly the same problem. Intercourse is extrem painful, but to be honest I'm no more keen on it. If I don't have intercourse my vagina is fine despite the atrophy. Problem resolved!!!!!!
Teresa you mentioned you has the Mona Lisa procedure done? was it not a successful procedure for you? I'm considering it, because I'm at my wits end, but want to do my due diligence regarding research.
Thank you for posting this video. I have been diagnosed with VA and really struggle at work because I have a desk job. Can you explain why it is that sitting down is so uncomfortable yet standing gives almost immediate relief? It's just so frustrating.
ChristiMD Medical Group Omgoodness! You hit the nail on the head. As I sit here with so much pain and discomfort. Looking to iTunes to get help. I have seen my doctor who prescribed astrolube, use it daily. No relief. How can I get help? I have been to two doctors who seem to not care about my systems. I’m out of my mind. I’m also experiencing an odor due to an unbalanced viginia. What do I do?
@@pattyagnew1731 I read the lady garden is more acidic to be healthy and balanced but depleted estrogen throws it out of balance becoming more alkaline. Their are various probiotics available at heath and pharmacies to help restore proper pH.Also boric acid put into gelatin capsules are safe and inexpensive for BV versus OTC treatments. Reducing sugar helps keep body in check and helps reduce menofog or brain fog too ~ Cheers
The vaginal area's skin becomes very thin and sensitive to pressure. The only thing that will help you is estrogen cream. I was in so much pain last year and my doctor prescribed estrogen cream to apply down there -- the thought of touching that area made me want to cry but within a couple weeks I felt relief. I hope you found help because this condition is so debilitating and we are worth better health care.
I m still breastfeeding my 2.5 year old and this is becoming a monthly occurrence for me before my period and it is causing me a great deal of emotional stress but so does the idea of weaning..I know we will be ok to wean..its just hard 😪
@@FFlores79 just take your time with the weaning. I stopped nursing this week after almost 2 years- and it was much easier than i thought. You can use vaginal estrogen in the meantime...then you do not need to suffer and have less pressure for weaning ♡
Thanks for sharing this your amazing and I hope you have a very peaceful loving Christmas with your loved ones ask around you full of love joy and happiness...
The medical care for female problems down below is infuriating. I had a female gyno basically throw hrt at me without even testing me. Like a dummy I assumed it's common to be short on estrogen...but what about progesterone..testosterone? I didn't ask questions. Btw hrt did nothing for me. Then to add insult to injury treatments whether it be hrt or laser is not covered so it's to expensive. It makes it even more bothersome that if a man can no longer "rise to the occasion"...he can get an implant covered by insurance. 😡
Im 48 yrs old and I haven't had intercourse in 5 years. I was diagnosed with interstitial cystitis and I experience a lot of pain and discomfort. Hopefully I can get a urologist soon
I saw my gynecologist a couple years ago and was diagnosed with VA. She gave me a script for a small tube of cream that was $100. I am 73 and could not afford now if to continue. Mineral oil helped some. My husband died in 2008 so I really don’t know if sex hurts are not. Mine problem is very intense itching. The only thing that helps now is a product called Honey Pot. It’s is used to wash the vaginal area and never use soap
I was lied to and told i had vaginal cancer. Things didnt make sense. Doctor said she did biopsies after my hysterically and nothing spread. Few months later she says it came back. I did 4 chemo. Then stopped. I confronted her. She was quiet. All about the money
10 years without periods i had so many treatments before marriage but none of them was helpful. I get my periods only when i take hormonal pills. Now after marriage i cannot describe to u the pain the suffering i am going through. I die every night as i feel sever pain and after intercourse it burns so so bad that i cannot even sit for at least 1 hour. Can you feel my pain? If yes, please help me
sad for women the pain and worse for both, sucks to be the guy.....if he cant have intercoure and sucks to be oppositie position of having a man that has no sex drive or his sex drive is attached to his stress and no more drive as used too. ppl think its mostly men tht want sex all time... ya ok....
This one is just the need of needing to go slow, using lots of lube. I use ONE Move lubricant. It’s an oily feeling and works extremely well. I tend to have tightness as a result from intercourse in general. So taking out time and going slow does help. Sometimes if this is a psychological issue diaphragm breathing and trusting the partner to be gentle is the best start. There are therapeutic psych doctors out there. It might be worth the try to ask for Valium to get your self to calm down and get comfortable to the act itself. It’s useful to have a partner who won’t do anything unless you ask and go slow so you can ease into the moment. It also helps to try self pleasure to understand what you like, how you like it and get familiar with the sexual pleasure to help eliminate the anxious feeling that can create tightness. Hope this help. I haven’t found anything that eliminates vagina tissue flares from intercourse. Usually it’s just a slow down and not so often type of remedy. Most men tend to enjoy the extra tightness.
I have used vaginal dilators. Takes time but you can slowly build up to stretching out slowly and comfortably. Dilator set I bought came in four sizes. First one is generally the size of a tampon. Just depends on the set you purchase. Got mine from Amazon. Dr. Christine Northrop suggest Pueraria Mirifica. There are pills to help replace estrogen but she also has a vaginal moisturizer to put on your vagina. I’ve used the moisturizer and that helped. I didn’t take the pills long enough to see, but planning on buying them and starting up again. Good luck! ❤
Haven't found a video yet that helps the husbands who can no longer have intercourse with their wives. Ive watched several of these and all they do is try to educate us on what the woman is going through. And the men are just supposed to suck it up and be ok with never having intercourse again.
I appreciate you. I have the condition and mine is classified as severe but I was not informed on what to do to take care of the condition. I will do the home treatments and find a gynecologist that can help me.
The only symptoms I have is pain during intercourse especially in the missionary and doggy style positions. I have no pain if I am on top and sideways. So frustrating. I never knew this could happen to a woman 🙁. My husband is so patient and amazing 💞.
I'm 62, and I have had no sex for 7 years. For the last 4 years, I can not do a pelvic exam at all anymore!! No medical issues. It's October 2024. A year ago I was told I have a prolapse uterus. I went in to do a paper and screamed bloody murder and cried. They could insert fingers,but not the spectrum. I was told it's because I'm dry. It felt like I was being shredded. A week now and I still have burning. Can't sit. Can't stand. Can't walk. It's to painful. What can I do? My Dr is no help.
Wow I didn't know I had this until I went to get my coil removed and have a smear . Talk about painful. Now I understand how I got it and will take your advice and start the home treatment.
Mine started ten yrs after they took me off hormones that they gave me after my total hysterectomy ..I was fifty when I had the operation..sixty when all the soreness started I'm now 76 and instill suffer badly unless they give you hormonal cream it just carries on ...I'm not sexual active. So that helps ..but I would not wish it on anyone it can be a strain on your everyday activities
Could this malfunction include maybe issues with cysts? I’ve had a cyst that grows back every time it’s removed from my urethra. I am in pain every single day and every single time I go to the bathroom. Thencyst comes back every 5-6 yrs. I don’t get much help from doctors here. Do you think estrogen could be the issue? Just need something to bring to them to maybe get them to try something else. You also mention bladder infections. I’m on UTI #4 for this year.
Why does atrophy cause a watery discharge? I’ve had a normal pap done and no STD’s but after my pap about 2 days later I have a yellowish, watery but sticky discharge.
Please Doctor, could you create a video about Endometriosis sex pain? I had a endometriosis surgery but it didn’t improve my condition, I am on pelvic treatment but it just release the pain a little bit. Some symptoms looks like what you said but doctors usually say endometriosis is more about excessive estrogen. Help me if you can please, I am tired of doctors saying it is psychological. 😔 When they “blame” my mind they are the ones creating a mental problem in a healthy mind. Help me please if you are able to.
I had this problem for quite a while. The urogyne was a waste of time. Estrogen cream gave me severe vertigo so maybe it was not needed or it was an overdose. Who knows since I was never tested for any hormone levels.
Has a woman who had breast hormonal cancer, i was put on menopause and had quimoteraphy. Since then i am dealing with this problem. I can not have sex with my husband. I can not use hormonal therapy. I am using moisting hydratation and it's been very usefull. In April i will see my doctor again and see the posibility to do a laser treatment.
It's interesting how some women get this while others don't. My grandmother's, and my mother didn't get it even after being treated for cervical cancer. I have 3 older sisters that didn't get it. Unfortunately, I'm the only one that ended up getting it😢
I went into early menopause @ age 42. I have some of those symptoms. I am nearly 60 & the female GP that did my last PAP test said that I was very delicate & thin skinned down there. I've had 2 strokes & many TIAs over the past 11 years. I was put on hormone replacement therapy but my gynocologist went bolistic & took me off it & said it could cause another stroke - this time fatal. Question: Is there a treatment for someone like me ? I
Lucinda. Is your gynecologist old, or old school? He or she might still be wary due to a study done by the WHI several years ago regarding HRT/Estrogen replacement. Even though the study was declared as faulty and flawed, the damage was done, Drs stopped prescribing estrogen.. Can you see another gynocologist for a second opinion?
@@margaretr5701 My gynecologist, she is very old. Unfortunately, I live on the Mid North Coast. She is the only one who services this area & surrounding towns. She is in another town. I change buses 6 times to do a round trip for a 15 minute appointment. To see someone else I have to travel either 6 or 10 hours - round trip by car. Plus I don't & can't drive. I am too young to be on an age care package to get help with....... anything really. Oh. My family won't help! They abandoned me when I had my strokes & have since disowned me. Mother not only cut ties with me , she cut me from her will. .
I am gobsmacked by this content! I have been having bladder issues that I have seen a urologist and a gynecologist for, but neither of them put the pieces together 😠 I've been on multiple rounds of antibiotics (3x), back to back, because of "kidney infections" that turned out NOT to be infections, but false positives from the dip stick method. Had a cystoscopy of my bladder because they were telling me my symptoms were that of cancer! It wasn't. Had both an ultrasound and an x-ray of my kidneys - all normal. Then I find this video that explains the need for estrogen for your bladder! I could scream! So the reason for traces of blood in my urine is because it needed estrogen!?! I asked my doc for estradiol cream. We'll see, but I am so frustrated because I have been trying to address my hormones since I started menopause at 39-years-old!! I tried biodenticals but the specialist, whom I flew across the country to see, couldn't get it right. I finally gave up. Then this bladder frequency issue came up a couple of years ago, as a result of a strange mid-back pain that I thought were my kidneys. I was told that the pain was too high up to be kidney pain, but they took a urine sample anyway. I had a very high Ketone level at that time because I was trying to reduce my joint inflammation by going almost zero carb, and with the trace amounts of blood in my urine, they thought I should be in incredible pain, but I wasn't. And they whacked on my lower back a few times and I was fine. But they still put me on a round of antibiotics because the provider said that my diet containing excess proteins had scratched the inside of my kidneys and caused this situation. The urologist later said "that does not sound reasonable." So, 6 months later, and a lot of medical debt, unnecessary antibiotics, and stopping my diet, I'm back where I started, only now I have this information that is probably the missing piece of the puzzle. I know this is a long way to say thank you, but thank you!
Did you have burning
If you can see a Nephrologist, you might get better answers.
Round after round of antibiotics without confirmed reasons, are not the answer, they can cause gut problems.
I hope things improve for you.
Do you have vaginal pain?
Are you feeling better now? Please give us an update.
I am 70 but I have had this problem since I went through menopause at age 55. Every time I have mentioned this problem to my gynecologist I get no help or suggestions. Makes me feel as though I am alone with this issue. I finally just stopped asking about it.Thank you for explaining hand giving me some help in this area. This is very frustrating and makes me feel abnormal.
I’m 77 and I’ve suffered with awful burning pain in my vulva…I haven’t seen a doctor yet our docs don’t have a lady doc which put me off…but at 77 what the heck….anyway I thought I’d reply to you so you won’t think you are the only one xx
I’m 52 and I have had this since I was 48. No good suggestions
IM 75 N STILL SEXUALLY ACTIVE---I USE KY BEADS---U CAN GET THEM FROM AMAZON AND MOST DRUG STORES. THEY WORK WONDERS FOR ME. I JUST STARTED USING AND SO IMPRESSED---NO BLEEDING NO SCRATCHES ETC.
I had a total hysterectomy at age 54 a few years ago. Sex has been extremely painful. I’ve tried all the lubricants but it’s just not the same. I don’t want to take any prescription medication. It’s been horrible as I always had a great sex life. I’m not sure what to do.
@@lharr I learnt a few months' ago that being on the birth control pill, even for a short time, has a dreadful effect on the hormones. It is like a switch that turns off.
Oh my gosh! I have had a terrible time with this condition for about a year now. I am 69, had a partial hysterectomy at 21, after birth of my son. Then a complete at 33. I had almost decided I might have cancer as all types run in my family! I thought I was allergic to the elastic in my underwear, could not find a comfortable chair anywhere! Went through countless pillows, thinking it was the way I was sitting because of my OA in my lower back! Thank you so very much for talking about this painful condition! I will see a doctor asap! Thank you , Thank you!
It is sickening the number of doctors who don't want to prescribe BHRT because of a flawed study. Women are suffering needlessly.
Yes, the study done by WHI, was flawed and results shouldn't have been put out to the public, until the study was corrected.
The media sensationalized the results, causing a huge backlash for women.
This has caused women decades of unnecessary suffering, it was as if the medical profession washed their hands of annoying menopausal symptoms and prescribed antidepressants, instead of addressing the problems.
Has there been any other health concern that's been so neglected?
I hope more will be done, women shouldn't have to live half of their adult lives in pain and embarrassment.
@@margaretr5701soooo true - it’s cruel
I started out over 10 years ago at 58 using a compounded cream of Estriol. Not Estradiol or Estrogen, but Estriol. It’s like the first step I think to start with. It has worked wonderful, and I have not needed to move on to higher dosed or stronger estrogens. I got this from a naturopath, and then from my Nurse practitioner. It is a cream, and when I first started using it, it was as an insertion. Now I just use it topically. Game changer, start as soon as you can.
Hey thanks for sharing, is there risk for blood clots with that?
I would be so afraid to use any hormone stuff as this comes with a lot of risk like stroke, cancer, clots. No way.
It works wonders. I think it’s great
@@lynncameron9885 that’s great Lynn. I do wish you well.
@@cyn4246 some of those fears came about due to a faulty study done by the WHI.
All I can say being a guy is . I am glad to be a guy . We do not have half as many problems women go threw . Including dealing with us guys .
We guys can write names in the snow.
You can say that again, Wayne! Women have drawn the short straw, for sure. Its what makes us strong. Very strong. 💪
@@cottiechauncey strong and empathetic the best of qualities .
@@cottiechauncey No gotta agree, with men it's all pleasure nothing else
@@wayne9094 Why are you even reading this??
I went to a Pelvic Floor Program, at a hospital here in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan Canada. It was a wonderful program. Before going I was in a lot of pain, frequent urination, pain, pain, pain. I now use Premarin cream, twice a week. I feel so much better. Wonderful dr.
Thank for
guess it's not the same size we need
Thank you so much #drihenyenonojolu on RUclips by getting my herpes cured in 7days with your herbal treatment, thank you so much for bringing back my happiness #drihenyenonojolu!♥️
Did you wear white socks at your pelvic floor??
Premarin cream is what helped me and Astro glide
I had that issue, and my uterus and my ovaries hurt also. It was painful all the time and especially when I walked. The doctor examined me and said that everything was atrophied. Also, i had frequent cystitis. What helped me a lot was vagifem suppositories twice weekly. All the pain cleared up.
Lucky you! I've gone over 2 yrs. with no help. I'm now told pain management.
How long before the Vagifem worked? I am on 10mg twice weekly. Just started twice weekly.
Oh my word i have struggled unknowingly with this condition for over 20 years initially thinking that i had Interstitial cystitis , i am now 70 and have just seen a Gynaecologist not for this problem but with an Ovarian problem i did mention this chronic Urinary problem infections and incontinence on examining me she mentioned VA i had no idea what that meant but checking with Dr Google all the symptoms were there even the uncomfortable sitting down which can be awful i have been put on Estrogen pessaries and i am waiting to see a Urologist, but i am just so pleased to come across video's like this that can finally tell me what i have.
It's really sad that women aren't given more information ahead of time, on what to expect and what to do.
So many women are put on antidepressants which doesn't address the real issues, although women do suffer with depression due to lack of hormones and the physical consequences.
The kind of information in this video, should be given by Drs to women as they enter perimenopause, and a discussion about what can be done to help women through and after menopause.
It's a really neglected subject and causes women years of unnecessary suffering, myself included.
Here's hoping for better research and help for women. It's overdue.
I hope you're feeling better these days?
Thank you for the relief this video brought....I thought there was something "different" about me! This explains things very well.
I'm 59 and have had this problem for a few years. My primary care doc is a woman and the same age I am. She knew exactly what to do. She did an exam and gave me vaginal estradiol suppositories. Beyond that, I use Good Clean Love lube, it's naturally water-based with aloe. I didn't want hrt, just a help locally and that's what I have. There are no words!
so pardon my dumbness but is estradiol suppositories the same as HRT suppositories and its ok like I mean safe, god I get so confused
Estradiol cream was a game changer for me . Years of depo provera left me estrogen deficient . My NP explained it’s actually good for us to have monthly menses which releases hormones . Before estradiol I had pain , tearing and redness . All gone after stopping depo and using estradiol cream . I’m sooo happy ! ❤
How long did it take? I've been on various compounded estradiol so far no relief over 2 yrs trying
@@jeanluby4636 I’m so sorry it hasn’t helped you ! It only took about 3 months to alleviate my symptoms at 5 nights a week during that first 3 months now it’s 2 -3 nights per week for maintenance.
I think it's time to give up for me when after 2 yrs. of trying every kind topical estro even oral nothing has changed and no kind of skin condition cause.
@@jeanluby4636 if you haven’t seen a specialist for vulva issues maybe that’s what you could do next . My NP was going to send me to one if I didn’t improve because it was taking longer than she thought it should but finally at 3 months we had success . Praying you get some relief .
@@dj_1969 I did see one started on the compounded estro because it can be made stronger but now on third jar 6 months later nothing has changed
Thank you so much for this video. I am 64 years old and had a partial hysterctomy at the age of 40 for eccessive menstral bleeding. I am also a type 2 insulin dependent diabetic. In 2008 iwas diagnosed with thyroid cancer having a complete thyroidectomy with post surgical radiation. In 2014 i was diagnosed with breast cancer and had bilateral mastectomy but no chemo or radiation. Over the past few years I have been having the problems you described in this video but over the past few months i have been dealing with almost unbearable vaginal dryness and severe burning and stinging on urination. My GP did a urinaylsis and found i have a UTI and am treating me with Macrobid. The burning is some better but still after I shower and use water i am still burning but not quite so bad. I've tried several creams for bacterial and yeast infections to no avail. I have an appointment to follow up with my GYN this week but to be honest I am a little concerned about vaginal/vulva cancer. I know they are very rare but just can't imagine what else could be going on. My husband is 80 years old and it has been quite sometime since we've had intercorse. I am so tired of feeling bad "down there" and hope something can be done. Thanks again for your video.
Terry I’m praying for you hun 🙏🏻 .
@@bettydamnboop3030 Terry, I began using vH essentials, Ph Balanced Daily Feminine Wash, Tea Tree Oil & Prebiotic about couple month ago. Helped tremendously. $7 on Amazon.
In South Korea probiotics for vaginal health is widely used.
I really appreciate you addressing this. My doctor put me on the Estring after using estradiol tablets for a while and being annoyed by having to use them twice a week, so the Estring is great. The only issue is the tremendous cost!! Luckily for me my employer covers most of it, but I find it horrifying that insurance companies charge $400+ for this medication, when it's just estrogen. I was told by one doctor that they're able to charge that much because so many women find it taboo and are embarrassed to talk about it, and so tolerate whatever the cost is. That's so wrong.
That is one I haven't tried all rest hasn't worked. Is it just that you don't have apply it? Otherwise same stuff? Sounds expensive alright!!
@@jeanluby4636 Yes, it's just a silicone ring with estrogen that slowly releases over 3 months, so you only have to do something when it's time for a new one! SO much better, and the dr. said the continual release is a more steady dose than the spikes you get from the tablets.
I’m using vagifem, and my work insurance covers 80% of the cost, so my out-of-pocket expense is only about $12 for 18 pills, which will last me nine weeks since I’m on two pills per week. Vaginal health is so important. At 56 years old, I cannot even imagine not being able to have sexual intercourse because of vaginal atrophy. This is a normal function as a human. There is even a laser treatment for vaginal atrophy, which is about $1200 per treatment, and I believe three treatments are needed. This needs to be covered by insurance companies as well! Insurance companies need to realize that this is not for aesthetics, but to allow women to live a normal life. Insurance companies will cover massages and dietitians, which a lot of women do not take advantage of because it’s not needed for them. Insurance companies need to start covering treatments for women’s sexual health. They do not realize how this phase in a woman’s life can literally be so devastating!
Thank you for your welth of knolage. This is importent infomation and alot of women don't know where to look for answers to these problems.
Wow! This is amazing. You share so much important information women know so little about. This channel is great!
Thank you, Apollonia!
Okay what is the KY jelly moisturizer look like it dryness
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Thank you so much I thought I was the only woman to suffer with this. At times it hurts to walk or sit down. I have found a lubricant called Sylk it is make from natural ingredients and has helped me very much. It is good to know that many other women have this problem.
I would just like to say that breastfeeding IS a normal condition! Breasts are for babies first, men second. Interesting video, I learned a few things.
She said your vagina will go back to normal condition after breastfeeding when your estrogen starts again.
@@cmg2651 I'm not so sure about that. After listening to it a few times I can actually hear it either way.
@CMG oh, and just for the record I don't have a vagina, but wait, it's a new morning... I better check.
I use to have this pre menopause. I am now over two years, and the only thing that has helped me is practicing yoga. Let me tell you, I feel like I’m 35 down there.
Is it because Yoga relaxes you?
@@jeanluby4636 I’ll bet it does relax the pelvic floor muscles plus helps with blood flow to the area.
Wow, I've never heard of this before. So informational. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for watching and commenting!
Thank you - my gynaecologist said my vaginal walls were raw. I’m using an oestrogen gel now . I’ve had burning on urinnation. My husband has been impotent so that doesn’t help. He hasn’t been with me sexually for years now.
Thank you. I have been wondering what was happening here.. turning 50 isn't all what's its cracked up to be.. thanmb
I had a full hysterectomy at 36/37 . I am 64 now .In my late 40’s I started having aloT of pain during sex. I went to 5 different gynecologists and they all said see a sex therapist. I was so pissed off! After another year & no sex since it hurt I went to another gynecologist who said my vagina was only 1 inch long and maybe half an inch wide. She said get these dialators to stretch it, but if the real thing hurts artificial ones hurt just as much if not more! She didn’t suggest any hormones which I had stopped because they had caused cystic acne. I never wanted to end my sex life. I have no dryness & never did. I refuse to go to any more gynecologist near me. They all blamed me when they did listen to me! I’m going back to my old gynecologist in nc I’m in nj because I trust him. & my ins will cover him. But I’m frustrated beyond belief due to losing so many years of a live life because doctors always want to blame everything on emotional issues when they refuse to do their job ! I had my hysterectomy due to POCD. I was bleeding 3 weeks every month and couldn’t handle the pain anymore, so after about 10 surgeries I chose a hysterectomy, but regret that also.
Hello. I just wanted to say I was going through so much pain like you're describing and my obgyn sent me to a urologist and they found out I have a very painful bladder condition called interstitial cystitis. When I was diagnosed the Dr really helped me a lot. I hope you feel better soon dear!!
Possibly Pelvic PT would help as it helped me. I was surprised to learn of the existence of one continuous muscle of the pelvic floor. Mine was as tight as a drum and my vagina was so tight that an internal by MD was painful and almost impossible. Also the estrogen cream prescribed cause irritation so I stopped it. My pelvic PT therapist recommended application of plain KY jelly daily after shower, just small amount, and no more irritation. Pelvic PT is becoming more popular and was a lifesaver for me. I hope this helps.
@@patriciapasciuto9022 Ky inside or on the outside?
Wash with Estrogen, then mix pure aloe vera gel with coconut oil. Spread liberally on the affected area 3 times a day. Wear non leaky underwear in the day and none at night. Works wonders!
I felt like I was being sliced up down there every time I had sex I was crying in awful pain for weeks after having sex
Same
I've seen 2 UroGyns, 2 GYNs and a urologist for pelvic pain and bladder pain. None tested my Estrogens. Sad. I'm in my 40s.
Girl.... I'm telling you people act like they don't want to HELP when you're in pain down there! If I say I don't know what's going on, then help me you're the doctor! You tell me I'm in menopause, I'm quite sure it's something that can be done!
Thanks so much for this video. I just recently been diagnosed with MS. I have had these kinds of problems for a while now. I have told the neurologist I saw about it. He referred me to a urinary specialist. I have been in menopause for a few years now.
Thanks for watching! I hope this helps you!
Excuse me I am very late but I am 16 yr old I am panicking but can you help I have problem sitting and walking
I had a full and complete hystorectomy at 36 and any doc I have seen have been reluctant to help. I am now using Estriol but still have atrophy and can no longer have sex. I'm 72 and still want a healthy sex life. I like the idea of natural therapies.Thank you for all your suggestions.
You're welcome!
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Gr8 video 😎
Women are more likely to visit their doctor if they felt comfortable discussing their lady garden. If you could provide a SCRIPT conversation between woman and doctor that would be extremely helpful ~ Much Appreciated 😘
Dr, thank you for this podcast. I am 60 and going through it. My expensive cash-pay-only doctors treated me well. But, my doctors through my PPO Blue Shield of CA insurance have no clue and are underprescribing my medicines like HRT and estradial for my vagina.
I experienced the same thing. It is disgusting. My POS doctors are afraid of the "black box" warning but my Naturopathic doctor is willing and able to treat the whole body.
im glad i read your comment. i too, have ppo blue shield of ca. nightmare
@@mdaze9753 Ever since the study done by WHI several years ago, which turned out to be really flawed, none the less, Drs stopped prescribing HRT, leaving women to live half their lives without hormones.
Things are changing, I just wish it would change faster, too many women are suffering
@@carollynt How do you know the estrogen caused it? It could have happened anyway, but she would have lived with bad symptoms of low estrogen, like burning and pain, depression, and incontinence for all those years after menopause.
Good advice thank you
Thank you for this informative video! It has given me the impetus to start a discussion with my gynecologist as I am experiencing many of these symptoms after menopause.
I had the Mona Lisa Touch procedure,but it didn’t work, so I am right back at square one.Thanks for this.
Thinking about having a metal thing put up there right now when it feels like glass is up there omg.
Oil
Thankgod a real doctor talking about this. I just heard a Physical therapist calling herself "Doctor"! Thank u for this
? Physical Therapists are doctors. Why would they call themselves any different?
Physical Therapists have to achieve a DPT (doctor of physical therapy) degree in order to be licensed. They have bachelor's, master's, and the DPT (think PhD), do residency, etc. They are entitled to be called "doctor," just as a PhD is, but due to the politics in most medical facilities, only physicians are referred to that way.
I just got diagnosed with T this condition. I went to a urologist. Immediately when she knew when she started the pelvic exam.
I’m only 26 and this sounds exactly like what I’m going thru but I don’t do any of these things so now I guess I need to do more research 😭
I'm a male, and I can fully sympathies with the women here about this issue. My wife and I have been married for over 40 years, and she had trouble with my size before menopause and the effects of loss of estrogen. She is a trooper and tried very hard to take care of my needs, but we finally just gave up on her having regular intercourse.
Tell her to try monaLisa….. then, get on HRT pellets …. Sooner rather than later.
@@deborahbuffamanti4847 Thanks for the info, I'll mention this to her and see if she has any knowledge of this. I am not too sure this will help, any man who thinks having a large cock is a blessing should talk to someone who has one. When I was younger I had women look like I had pointed a gun at them most would say Oh no, you're not putting that in me" and just back away.
Good on you - my husband decided to take up with sex workers without even thinking about me! Why? Because he was embarrassed. I tried but he’s - whatever he is. 800 + sex workers! Yay me!
@@jtm1129 I'm sorry for what has happened to you, he had needs that needed to be taken care of, did he give you any options before he went to the professionals for his enjoyment? Just askin'....
@@barbararoberts4871 Men think that having a large cock is a great thing to have, not so much. I'm around 10" long and about the size of a frozen juice can, she just couldn't hardly deal with it when she was younger, so we just did the best we could do.
I have had what was suspected to be Interstitial Cystitis for at least 35, 40 yrs. I am living on pyridium. I am going to make an appointment with a urogynocologist and hopefully figure something out!!!!
I'm hoping your other videos will have more treatments for vaginal atrophy. I'm extremely sensitive in my vulvar region to the point that the doctor had me undergo MRIs instead of a pelvic exam. Unlike a lot of folks with this condition, I'm not dry "down there." The last thing I want to do is make it wetter!!!
REALLY? I AM THE EXACT OPPOSITE---I WANT IT WETTER SO IT DOESNT HURT.
Are you speaking of bladder or vagina?
@@margaretr5701 Vagina.
Check out my comment to the video with a lot of information in there about what I went through and what help me.
Thank you. I am 68, had uterus removed after prolapse from giving birth and bladder suspension at 35. Had both ovaries removed at 55 due to a giant cyst and one that had already burst. All I have left are my saggy boobs. Taking. 5mg of Estradiol daily. I feel like the vaginally area is atrophied and falling. Getting old really blows.
How was your uterus removed ..
@@marytaylor1542 vaginally
I am almost 63.i had hysterectomy when I was in my 40s..But it's just few weeks ago I start to get discomfort down there.i haven to the Dr..and got 5days of antibiotic,but I am still not feeling well..I use sage..boil and keep it in the refrigerator and sip on it..I am comfortable drinking it rather than taking all these meds..Also I try to do the tighten excercise while standing especially at the sink this is helping me..and I also use castro oil and rub on the lower part of my abdomen..And most important praying is the key..Thank you all for sharing we are all together in this.❤
I had the same operation 5 years ago, it's left me with a prolapsed bladder I'm in such a lot of pain, the doctor as put a ring inside to hold me together but I'm in a lot of pain, I'm not getting anywhere with the doctors help I'm so upset 😢🇬🇧✝️
It does blows! I used to love having sex with my spouse. These days, forget about it! I’m 58 and I’ve been in menopause for eight years. So dry down there.
Can this be reversed after 5 years of pain?
God bless you too! I just learned some new things thanks. 🙏🏼
Thank you very much. I am going through this very issue for some time now. I am a breast cancer survivor and have been through chemo. I came upon this video seemingly in error but l think God directed me here so l could get this information. Thanks.
Last period in July, so thank you for preparing me. So far, all is still good, but knowing what to expect is very helpful. Thank you.
Very good to know so you can start treatments at early signs so it doesn’t get worse.
Honestly, the only symptom I thought women had when they were going through menopause was hot flashes. I had no idea about vaginal atrophy, never even heard of it before my gynaecologist mentioned it to me a couple of years back. I was horrified to hear it, I had never even heard about such a thing, or even heard it discussed by other women. As soon as I started getting symptoms, I went to see my gynecologist, and she put me on Vagifem [estradiol]. It’s like night and day. The burning and itching is gone, and without being too graphic, my vaginal area looks normal again, whereas before taking Vagifem, it looked like it had a literally shrunken. For the last couple of years, my gynaecologist encouraged me to take a mirror and look down there for signs of vaginal atrophy, but I was too scared. Until the symptoms started. It freaked me out how different it looked. I am forever grateful for Vagifem for restoring me.
Thank you for clarification on this matter. I thought i was the only one going through a stupid pain problem because my OBGYN has no clue as to what this is. I have had so many test for EVERYTHING! and found nothing wrong. the pain feels like throbbing, stabbing contractions right on the left side of my lady part ( mons pubis- labia). OMG! it's driving me insane. and all i need is estrogen?
My doctor know I had lung cancer 20 years ago, she said estradiol cr .
O.1%,twice a,week and revaree 2 to 3 tima a week great revieves
I have vaginal atrophy, intercourse was so painful we had to stop! I miss the intimacy with my husband.
My gyn subscribed an insert but that really was not any help at all.
I am terrified to get a pelvic exams. I cannot even imagine the pain it will cause me now after menopause and this terrible situation it has caused me. Im stuck with this horrible condition if Im required to have a speculum exam. I will not go.
A gentle doc can help you! Communicate your fears and they can help ease your fears and help you relax during the exam! You can do it🎉
Request a reduced size speculum. Planned Parenthood has them and they are are way better than the regular size!
@@patriciainportland5567 great suggestion, thank you.
It's been many many years since I've been to the gynecologist after my hysterectomy. I think I went once for a follow-up exam and she said atrophy had already set in that quickly! I have all of those lovely things happening to me as well... dryness, tearing and overall major uncomfortableness
Smaller speclum
I’ve really struggled with this following treatment to treat estrogen positive breast cancer. Thank you
Same here. I use sea buckthorn.
Ms SD N - I haven’t had breast cancer, but my mom did & I don’t know if was estrogen related but I’m pretty sure it was because she had a very early in life hysterectomy & was on estrogen - anyway, my gynecologist tells me that estrogen cream is safe - it doesn’t go all through the bloodstream - I don’t really know, but thought I’d mention it
You are a sweet lady! Thank you for caring and doing what you do. ❤️. Listen ladies. 😇😇😍
Thank you 😊🙏
I have a question, but this is RUclips.
I have subscribed and I’ll listen.
Looking forward to learning about something new and helping myself feel better.
This is very new to me and I thank you for sharing with us.
You are welcome! Thank you for watching and commenting!
I've had prior vaginal surgeries and the surgical site has one spot that feels like it's never healed over the last two years. I'm hoping for a good vaginal examination, especially the surgical site tomorrow. The Urologist was recommended for me but he only wants to have a phone conversation. To me that's crazy inadequate. I've also been referred to a pelvic Physical Therapist but she hasn't been willing to schedule anything with me this past month. I think she wants me to forget she was referred to me. I had two prior appointments before she disappeared. Their receptionist tells me "Ok, I'll let her know." It's frustrating trying to get proper examination, surgical revisions and willing practitioners. I'll be seeing the 4th MD by phone tomorrow. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. It's all I can do at this time. This latest MD is a 2 hour drive to the far side of Chicago. I haven't given up hope. I'm 80 years old and hurting.
I hope you were able to get help. How are you feeling now?
@@nessasarry6977 Doctors finally decided to see me. I hope I don't hear from them that they don't have the time to look at the problem...
I'm not sure why this is on my algorithm. I hope I never have to deal with this! Good luck to anyone dealing with this
why do I have vaginal pain and pressure after 5 weeks post anterior repair? I have been fine for 5 weeks. I was having estrogen therapy vaginally before surgery and no longer need it .
My Mother suffered from burning feelings in her bladder and it’s“ it‘s outlet“ ( i am Not a native speaker so don‘t know the corrected Name) and went to an urologist. He found no bactérial Infection. Her Problems went on she went to the same doctor who knew nothing about the low estrogên Levels and her pain and finally asked here, „ You want me to find bactéria?“ It still makes me angry, although I am more than 20 years behind that, my Mother was over 80 at that time.
I myself am a doctor and Made a very good decision, whenever a question arouse I had no explanation for, I asked a colleague who might know better. To me what happened to my Mother was humiliating and a Lack of Knowledge.g
So informative! You always do such a great job of having a great videos for those people who have woman questions!
Thank you!
I saw a uro-gyn doctor for all that you described. He rx'd estrogen cream which I insert into the vagina twice a week. It cured me. I swear. My urinary symptoms cleared up and my vagina is not sore anymore. What a difference.
I'm so glad you found what works for you 😊
I have cream too. How much do you insert twice a week? I may not be inserting enough.
@@elite3737 My urologist told me that not much is needed. Just a fingertip full will work. I don’t use as much as what the directions say, and it works fine.
@@SteviePaints my gynecologist told me .5 two times a week so that sounds accurate
How long can you use that ? I heard it's nor for ever.
I'm so sensitive down there anything even if natural can hurt give me a burning sensation
Are you familiar with Interstitial cystitis? Any info is greatly appreciated.
Alkaline your body, detox your lymph and their is a homeopathy remedy you can use.
I'm in my mid 30s and recently diagnosed with cystocele. The prolapse has probably existed since the birth of my youngest in 2020, but didn't protrude until last month when saw the ob/gyn about it.
I only have intercourse about twice a month, if that. I jokingly told my husband my organs are tumbling out of me because my meat wallet is wasting away (he has low libido)... but it looks like maybe I wasn't wrong after all 😩
I don't really have time or desire for ... ahem .. solo activities. I've been doing kegels and pelvic floor exercises for years, obviously to no avail.
The prolapse isn't severe enough for surgery, thankfully. It stays in probably 70% of the time and will occasionally pop out after using the bathroom, until I have time to lie down and shimmy it back in.
I don't know what else to do. I'm incredibly self conscious about it, and worried about further muscle atrophy and worsening of the prolapse. Oh well, thanks for listening to my novel if you did 😅😅
Either you're not doing your kegels properly or often enough or you really do need surgery. Perhaps a pessary could help.
I did
Will estrogen cream help the vulva as well? Terrible atrophy, tearing..Haven’t been intimate with my husband in 1.5 years..
Has anything helped with this condition since this post
Happy New Year Dr. Christi! I subscribed to your channel today, as part of a healthier me in 2020! I look forward to restoring my mind, body and Spirit this year.🙏🏽💕🥗🥥🥑💕🥳
Good luck to you! I wish you a healthy and happy year😊❤️
I'm 46. Two years ago had a full hysterectomy due to having a watermelon sized ovarian cyst mass, that blood work said was cancerous. I have severe vaginal dryness, no sex drive, scar tissue at the back of the vagina on the inside. Tried having sex on three different occasions after surgery, was unable to because of the dryness and pain. I feel like what makes me a full woman is destroyed. It's been a heart breaking frustrating two years for my husband and I.
Being told to use lube that doesn't do a damn thing don't help, or it's all in your head, you should see a sex therapist just pisses me off. Now I'm being sent to a pelvic floor physical therapist to attempt to get help. I'm discouraged and I honestly feel so damn alone.
Thank you for the video. I have had this problem since I was 41 when I went through menopause. I am now 67. I remarried at 40. So our sex life has suffered since my vagina atrophied. A few years I got the Mona Lisa procedure done. It didn't help. It's miserable. I avoid intercourse because of the pain.
I have the same issue. Nice to see we are not alone
I'm 55 and I got exactly the same problem. Intercourse is extrem painful, but to be honest I'm no more keen on it. If I don't have intercourse my vagina is fine despite the atrophy. Problem resolved!!!!!!
Teresa you mentioned you has the Mona Lisa procedure done? was it not a successful procedure for you? I'm considering it, because I'm at my wits end, but want to do my due diligence regarding research.
No, it wasn't successful for me but apparently it is successful for many. I'll be praying for you.
Thank you for posting this video. I have been diagnosed with VA and really struggle at work because I have a desk job. Can you explain why it is that sitting down is so uncomfortable yet standing gives almost immediate relief? It's just so frustrating.
It is the direct pressure on the perineum that irritates the area.
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Omgoodness! You hit the nail on the head. As I sit here with so much pain and discomfort. Looking to iTunes to get help. I have seen my doctor who prescribed astrolube, use it daily. No relief. How can I get help? I have been to two doctors who seem to not care about my systems. I’m out of my mind. I’m also experiencing an odor due to an unbalanced viginia. What do I do?
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I read the lady garden is more acidic to be healthy and balanced but depleted estrogen throws it out of balance becoming more alkaline. Their are various probiotics available at heath and pharmacies to help restore proper pH.Also boric acid put into gelatin capsules are safe and inexpensive for BV versus OTC treatments. Reducing sugar helps keep body in check and helps reduce menofog or brain fog too ~ Cheers
The vaginal area's skin becomes very thin and sensitive to pressure. The only thing that will help you is estrogen cream. I was in so much pain last year and my doctor prescribed estrogen cream to apply down there -- the thought of touching that area made me want to cry but within a couple weeks I felt relief. I hope you found help because this condition is so debilitating and we are worth better health care.
Estrogen tablets that come in a loaded applicator, easy peasy.
Yes i went toilet start of this week and crazy i scream as was bad pain it so warm snd horrbile so watching this for comfort
It can occur also pretty fast, i developed it when my daughter was 2 months old ...
I m still breastfeeding my 2.5 year old and this is becoming a monthly occurrence for me before my period and it is causing me a great deal of emotional stress but so does the idea of weaning..I know we will be ok to wean..its just hard 😪
@@FFlores79 just take your time with the weaning. I stopped nursing this week after almost 2 years- and it was much easier than i thought. You can use vaginal estrogen in the meantime...then you do not need to suffer and have less pressure for weaning ♡
Red light! End of story!❤ It’s the only thing that completely changes you down there!
Thanks for sharing this your amazing and I hope you have a very peaceful loving Christmas with your loved ones ask around you full of love joy and happiness...
The medical care for female problems down below is infuriating. I had a female gyno basically throw hrt at me without even testing me. Like a dummy I assumed it's common to be short on estrogen...but what about progesterone..testosterone? I didn't ask questions. Btw hrt did nothing for me. Then to add insult to injury treatments whether it be hrt or laser is not covered so it's to expensive. It makes it even more bothersome that if a man can no longer "rise to the occasion"...he can get an implant covered by insurance. 😡
Gyno could not do a pelvic exam on me because of pain. She did examine me and said she thought b it was vaginal atrophy.
Im 48 yrs old and I haven't had intercourse in 5 years. I was diagnosed with interstitial cystitis and I experience a lot of pain and discomfort. Hopefully I can get a urologist soon
They misdiagnosed me with Interstitial cystitis as well. I just re-edited my comment please re-read hopefully this helps
I re- edited my comment with a lot of information. I also was misdiagnosed with Interstitial cystitis. Hope this helps.
Medical community doing over 55 female population huge disservice not addressing this and many other complications from no estrogen.
I saw my gynecologist a couple years ago and was diagnosed with VA. She gave me a script for a small tube of cream that was $100. I am 73 and could not afford now if to continue. Mineral oil helped some. My husband died in 2008 so I really don’t know if sex hurts are not. Mine problem is very intense itching. The only thing that helps now is a product called Honey Pot. It’s is used to wash the vaginal area and never use soap
I was lied to and told i had vaginal cancer. Things didnt make sense. Doctor said she did biopsies after my hysterically and nothing spread. Few months later she says it came back. I did 4 chemo. Then stopped. I confronted her. She was quiet. All about the money
My gynecologist told me to use Crisco. It works. Still having some issues we are trying to resovle but at least it helps
You have got to be kidding SMH
Shelley,,,,Crisco?? OMG....Coconut oil, it's white, in a jar, just like crisco,,, but,,,crisco works? WOW,,,,now, I've heard everything..LOL
Sorry, don't mean to make light of this, but this one really cracked me up!😅All I can say is, 'the things we do for love'.🤣🤣
your full of it.
Ty for this info 67 and dealing with atrophy
10 years without periods i had so many treatments before marriage but none of them was helpful. I get my periods only when i take hormonal pills. Now after marriage i cannot describe to u the pain the suffering i am going through. I die every night as i feel sever pain and after intercourse it burns so so bad that i cannot even sit for at least 1 hour. Can you feel my pain? If yes, please help me
Does your husband knows and then still puts you through this. My good.
@@JohnSmith-td6dn yes he knows and he cares for me. He does not do it and i feel pity for him
sad for women the pain and worse for both, sucks to be the guy.....if he cant have intercoure and sucks to be oppositie position of having a man that has no sex drive or his sex drive is attached to his stress and no more drive as used too. ppl think its mostly men tht want sex all time... ya ok....
Y dont u use lubricant?
Please do a video on uncomfortable intercourse due to tightness down there and ways to overcome it, thank you 🌹
This one is just the need of needing to go slow, using lots of lube. I use ONE Move lubricant. It’s an oily feeling and works extremely well. I tend to have tightness as a result from intercourse in general. So taking out time and going slow does help. Sometimes if this is a psychological issue diaphragm breathing and trusting the partner to be gentle is the best start. There are therapeutic psych doctors out there. It might be worth the try to ask for Valium to get your self to calm down and get comfortable to the act itself. It’s useful to have a partner who won’t do anything unless you ask and go slow so you can ease into the moment. It also helps to try self pleasure to understand what you like, how you like it and get familiar with the sexual pleasure to help eliminate the anxious feeling that can create tightness. Hope this help. I haven’t found anything that eliminates vagina tissue flares from intercourse. Usually it’s just a slow down and not so often type of remedy. Most men tend to enjoy the extra tightness.
@@auntigingy8666 thank you
I have used vaginal dilators. Takes time but you can slowly build up to stretching out slowly and comfortably. Dilator set I bought came in four sizes. First one is generally the size of a tampon. Just depends on the set you purchase. Got mine from Amazon. Dr. Christine Northrop suggest Pueraria Mirifica. There are pills to help replace estrogen but she also has a vaginal moisturizer to put on your vagina. I’ve used the moisturizer and that helped. I didn’t take the pills long enough to see, but planning on buying them and starting up again. Good luck! ❤
Vagifem suppositories work wonderfully. Just ask your doctor for them.
@@jgriffin282 Didn't do a thing for me!! Good Luck
Haven't found a video yet that helps the husbands who can no longer have intercourse with their wives. Ive watched several of these and all they do is try to educate us on what the woman is going through. And the men are just supposed to suck it up and be ok with never having intercourse again.
Sorry to hear your pain.
What sort of answers are you looking for?
Thanks for information I’m more looking for natural remedy estrogens I’m trying not to use due to side effects
You say to use a water based and then you say the two you make are silicone based. Now I'm more confused...
I appreciate you. I have the condition and mine is classified as severe but I was not informed on what to do to take care of the condition. I will do the home treatments and find a gynecologist that can help me.
Thank you so much I’ve finally got some answers. My gynecologist prescribe steroid cream which I hate
The only symptoms I have is pain during intercourse especially in the missionary and doggy style positions. I have no pain if I am on top and sideways. So frustrating. I never knew this could happen to a woman 🙁. My husband is so patient and amazing 💞.
A good doctor might be able ti help you
I'm 62, and I have had no sex for 7 years. For the last 4 years, I can not do a pelvic exam at all anymore!! No medical issues. It's October 2024. A year ago I was told I have a prolapse uterus. I went in to do a paper and screamed bloody murder and cried. They could insert fingers,but not the spectrum. I was told it's because I'm dry. It felt like I was being shredded. A week now and I still have burning. Can't sit. Can't stand. Can't walk. It's to painful. What can I do? My Dr is no help.
Thanks for information. This is new for me
Wow I didn't know I had this until I went to get my coil removed and have a smear . Talk about painful. Now I understand how I got it and will take your advice and start the home treatment.
Mine started ten yrs after they took me off hormones that they gave me after my total hysterectomy ..I was fifty when I had the operation..sixty when all the soreness started I'm now 76 and instill suffer badly unless they give you hormonal cream it just carries on ...I'm not sexual active. So that helps ..but I would not wish it on anyone it can be a strain on your everyday activities
Plz could you tell me does it really make vulva thin
What is the treatment?
Could this malfunction include maybe issues with cysts? I’ve had a cyst that grows back every time it’s removed from my urethra. I am in pain every single day and every single time I go to the bathroom. Thencyst comes back every 5-6 yrs. I don’t get much help from doctors here. Do you think estrogen could be the issue? Just need something to bring to them to maybe get them to try something else. You also mention bladder infections. I’m on UTI #4 for this year.
Deirdre Morris thank you and see I have IBS as well. Thanks for the info. I’ll check it out.
Why does atrophy cause a watery discharge? I’ve had a normal pap done and no STD’s but after my pap about 2 days later I have a yellowish, watery but sticky discharge.
Please Doctor, could you create a video about Endometriosis sex pain? I had a endometriosis surgery but it didn’t improve my condition, I am on pelvic treatment but it just release the pain a little bit. Some symptoms looks like what you said but doctors usually say endometriosis is more about excessive estrogen. Help me if you can please, I am tired of doctors saying it is psychological. 😔 When they “blame” my mind they are the ones creating a mental problem in a healthy mind. Help me please if you are able to.
I appreciate all this infor. I am 71. I have been using a bee honey type of moisture. But
it does still hurt.
I had this problem for quite a while. The urogyne was a waste of time. Estrogen cream gave me severe vertigo so maybe it was not needed or it was an overdose. Who knows since I was never tested for any hormone levels.
Has a woman who had breast hormonal cancer, i was put on menopause and had quimoteraphy. Since then i am dealing with this problem. I can not have sex with my husband. I can not use hormonal therapy. I am using moisting hydratation and it's been very usefull. In April i will see my doctor again and see the posibility to do a laser treatment.
It's interesting how some women get this while others don't. My grandmother's, and my mother didn't get it even after being treated for cervical cancer. I have 3 older sisters that didn't get it. Unfortunately, I'm the only one that ended up getting it😢
Agree it’s odd
I went into early menopause @ age 42.
I have some of those symptoms.
I am nearly 60 & the female GP that did my last PAP test said that I was very delicate & thin skinned down there.
I've had 2 strokes & many TIAs over the past 11 years. I was put on hormone replacement therapy but my gynocologist went bolistic & took me off it & said it could cause another stroke - this time fatal.
Question: Is there a treatment for someone like me ?
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Lucinda.
Is your gynecologist old, or old school? He or she might still be wary due to a study done by the WHI several years ago regarding HRT/Estrogen replacement.
Even though the study was declared as faulty and flawed, the damage was done, Drs stopped prescribing estrogen.. Can you see another gynocologist for a second opinion?
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My gynecologist, she is very old.
Unfortunately, I live on the Mid North Coast. She is the only one who services this area & surrounding towns. She is in another town.
I change buses 6 times to do a round trip for a 15 minute appointment.
To see someone else I have to travel either 6 or 10 hours - round trip by car.
Plus I don't & can't drive.
I am too young to be on an age care package to get help with....... anything really.
Oh. My family won't help!
They abandoned me when I had my strokes & have since disowned me. Mother not only cut ties with me , she cut me from her will.
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I too had a stroke but continue with HRT and blood thinner, Plavix. I wear a patch, Climara and get along fine.
I have an ache there and I have bv had antibiotics and inserts antibiotics did not work waiting to see gynecologist have a white discharge help