I've learnt that some people will never change, they simply see no issue in their behaviour.. I've spent too long making that my problem, wasting time trying to get them to see the error of their ways and the consequences and knock on effects that behaviour has on others.. Today I'm letting it go... Thank you
I feel the same way I think we cant change people if they were meant for us they will catch up if not then fine there is a life of fulfillment ahead and today I am letting go of what cant change.
I agree and think self-awareness is key. The reason observing the thoughts can be so powerful is because doing that makes us aware of what we are thinking and aware of those patterns. The key then becomes allowing those thoughts to be there and allowing them to flow through us with awareness. Bringing the awareness in will allow the momentum to begin in a new direction. Great video Brendon.
I was struggling tonight. I actually have severe and persistent mental illness and didn't have anyone to text. I believe in asking for help because I often have distorted thinking that clouds my judgement. Listening to you was so helpful. I found your style of coaching to be pleasant and interesting. I used to be a teacher and now struggle with my memory and cognition. This is the first I've seen of your videos and I wish you the best of luck and much success in your career.
It is quite magical when someone spesks up exaclty how you feel, but you were not completely aware, or was not looking at it. Thank You Brendon for being this incredible wizard.
It never crossed my mind that letting go of the "good things" is also necessary to move forward. Just because we arrive at a good place doesn't mean we need to park in that place or we become stagnant. Seek growth, expand your horizons, keep learning. Excellent. Wish I had access to this information decades ago, but that is the past and the future is facing my seventh decade head on and full throttle. Thanks for the guidance.
Every time I am going through a painful situation or negativity I always watch your videos, thank you. I always manage to find strength when I watch you.
Relationship will remain strong if two individuals decided to set aside their pride and work things out as a team. If one is willing to fight for the relationship and one is willing to give up then it will not eventually work. It's better to end the relationship than to engage in cheating and it will just lead to hurting each other's feelings.
Thank you for making me a better person and professional, everyday! Having you as my mentor, even not directly, made me make a choice that my knowledge and experience can be shared with more people than I imagined before. Thank you for expanding my vision
Your posts almost always fall in line with what's going on in my life. They are always the exact encouragement and reinforcement that I need at that time in my life. I swear it's kind of eerie. I want to say thank you for being exactly who you are and for sharing that with us as you do. I try to support you and promote you in every way that I can. I hope to one day be able to help you in some way that stands out. Thank you. Yael The World I See Begins With Me
I had to let go of the known, and my ego, and my story about how I was important when I was in a relationship healthy or unhealthy, but I realize how I used people out of low self esteem
I love this too! Get a new momentum for the next chapter in your life and let go of past experience. be grateful for the bad and good times but yes keep going and I’m excited 😊 thank u Brendon for your motivation videos 🙏🏼!
i had to listen to this video a few time throughout the year last year, and watching it again now in this time of my life, i can digest the content more.. thank you for putting this here for everyone to see and benefit from
Letting go of what’s right because you know that you’re in your comfort zone is one of the hardest things to do! Thanks Brendon for this awesome video 🙏🏽 Much love from Bali ❤️
Thank you for such a helpful and inspiring video ♡ My favourite part is 'that things aren't happening "against" us, they are happening "for" us'. It just changes ones entire outlook on a situation. Love it!
My trauma is loss and infertility.. and Im feeling so hateful to others that have what i want and for people who has never struggled! This is not a good way for me to live. Because other people dont care about my loss and my feelings and they dont have to. They have their own Life. But i really need to just get on with my life!! I can’t see that this video really spoke to me, but I am trying! I really am !
Your enthusiasm is infectious! We need more of you out there. Can you make a video for people who waste their time on gossip? It is a real problem these days!
Oh yes, removing expectancy and bringing the love to yourself is the trick. Honestly people fail to give up because many miss this, WHAT DID I LEARN, brilliant, I have been applying it myself, and it really works.
Wowww, thanks for a great video. 2020 has been a year of dropping toxic people for me & I'm just going to to keep the momentum going in 2021. Who else experienced the same?
Thank you Brendon, I've struggled to let go of the past situation for two days. I am a member of some of your courses. I've been watching lots of your videos including these in member's area. This video helped me a lot to make that switch into the future. Thank you very much.
Hey, Brendon. Every time I have something bad going on, I watch your videos. Right now I am at work, crying and I am very grateful that your made this chanel. I am sending my best greetings. Thank you for help.
Sometimes you have to just sit down and say wtf is going on in my life. And then figure out what to do and take necessary action. Sometimes we might not because of fear or hurting the other person but we need to take care of ourselves ultimately and the other person if they love you will make the necessary changes. if not let go.
Brendon you are the best inspiration I've ever seen. thanks !! keep it up !! im going through a massive transformation currently and your content was a huge contributor to my personal development
Thank you so much Brendon! I'm so grateful for all your videos. I needed this today and already I feel the same spark of determination to get back on track with improving myself and my life after having been neglectful for a few days of the things I want to pursue in my life. I'm so grateful too that you gave another 1,000 High Performance Habits books away! When I saw the video-I had previously thought of buying it on the original give-away-I took it as a sign from the universe that I needed to buy it. I'm so glad I did and I can't wait for my copy to come! Again, I am so grateful for all your videos because they have helped me become much more confident and disciplined and self-loving. Again, thank you so much Brendon for sharing with us!
You're So Darn Awesome Brendon...Thank You For Your Amazing Attitude Towards Life & For Wanting To Help Others... Wishing You A Very Happy & Brighter New Year!!! 😇💕🙏💗🕊️
So much truth in everything you said. Thanks for helping me know even though I still hurt and grieve from the change I made I will succeed, thanks Brendon !
every like 5 years of my life i breakdown, lose my self confidence & stop believing in myself. . But God always send my someone to take me out of the hell & this time it's you 🌸
Brendon, you're passionate spirit and wisdom that you share in every video you make, inspires me so greatly. You give me so much insight in my life. You have no idea how much I appeciate that. Thank you. You're the best! :)
Brendon thank you for your tranings, advise and techniques. I really enjoy your short precise videos. I would like to watch your videos without the music sound in the background. It is distracting. Great job!!!
No one should feel ashamed of seeking help, especially mental help. Yes, there is stigma attached to it, like many other beneficial things in life. Fight the stigma.
@brendon thank you thank you man, seriously this is what i needed to push myself in the direction I need. Again, thank you so much for this and the help you are giving for people. Me and this girl that we like eachother a lot but she is going threw a lot and so am I and im giving her the space she needs and I need. I teared listening to this cause it was so right for me. long distance can be tough but space is sometimes the best and focusing on ourselves. thanky ou again, god bless man.:.)
Very interesting observation about letting go good things as well as bad. We should remember Heraclitus Panta Rei, everything changes - bad and good. Emotions are like clouds, they come and go, nothing is forever so live the moment, it counts and is real.
As that quote goes you don't drown by falling in the water; you drown by staying there. Let go and move on. Great video as usual, thanks Brendon!
I've learnt that some people will never change, they simply see no issue in their behaviour.. I've spent too long making that my problem, wasting time trying to get them to see the error of their ways and the consequences and knock on effects that behaviour has on others.. Today I'm letting it go... Thank you
Jon Harrison My sentiments exactly! I'm so grateful for Brandon's wisdom.
Alie Makk 👍👍 I'll second that. 😊
I feel the same way I think we cant change people if they were meant for us they will catch up if not then fine there is a life of fulfillment ahead and today I am letting go of what cant change.
true that
Jon Harrison today I finally choose the same.
I agree and think self-awareness is key. The reason observing the thoughts can be so powerful is because doing that makes us aware of what we are thinking and aware of those patterns. The key then becomes allowing those thoughts to be there and allowing them to flow through us with awareness. Bringing the awareness in will allow the momentum to begin in a new direction. Great video Brendon.
Have you read The Power of Now? It's so good.
Aaron Doughty why you so cute though ??🙃
I was struggling tonight. I actually have severe and persistent mental illness and didn't have anyone to text. I believe in asking for help because I often have distorted thinking that clouds my judgement. Listening to you was so helpful. I found your style of coaching to be pleasant and interesting. I used to be a teacher and now struggle with my memory and cognition. This is the first I've seen of your videos and I wish you the best of luck and much success in your career.
leo21 leo21 do wish you all the best and keep seeking advises whenever the need arises.
leo21 leo21
I am also teacher and struggling with same kind if problem
You must never believe in your diagnosis... doctors don't know what they're talking about...😂🤣😂
It is quite magical when someone spesks up exaclty how you feel, but you were not completely aware, or was not looking at it. Thank You Brendon for being this incredible wizard.
Yup I know what you mean. It's just amazing, it's like he knew you wanted this video!
It never crossed my mind that letting go of the "good things" is also necessary to move forward. Just because we arrive at a good place doesn't mean we need to park in that place or we become stagnant. Seek growth, expand your horizons, keep learning. Excellent. Wish I had access to this information decades ago, but that is the past and the future is facing my seventh decade head on and full throttle. Thanks for the guidance.
Every time I am going through a painful situation or negativity I always watch your videos, thank you. I always manage to find strength when I watch you.
Thank you for sharing! I keep doing this because of comments like this!
This reply made me happy. You care so much about the world and society around you. I am so glad.
Dang...."what are my new rules for how I am going to treat myself in the future."
Love this.
Relationship will remain strong if two individuals decided to set aside their pride and work things out as a team. If one is willing to fight for the relationship and one is willing to give up then it will not eventually work. It's better to end the relationship than to engage in cheating and it will just lead to hurting each other's feelings.
So true, you can let go of any thoughts and emotions and feel better immediately. Thanks for the reminder Brendon!
Thank you for making me a better person and professional, everyday! Having you as my mentor, even not directly, made me make a choice that my knowledge and experience can be shared with more people than I imagined before. Thank you for expanding my vision
Your posts almost always fall in line with what's going on in my life. They are always the exact encouragement and reinforcement that I need at that time in my life. I swear it's kind of eerie. I want to say thank you for being exactly who you are and for sharing that with us as you do. I try to support you and promote you in every way that I can. I hope to one day be able to help you in some way that stands out.
Thank you.
Yael
The World I See Begins With Me
I want to thank you. I've been struggling. And these have helped me so much!!!
Brendon, you're intrinsically a good person. Thanks so much, for your good advice you post on RUclips.
You're a fantastic human being, Brendon. You helped me out a ton with every single upload, there's a lot to learn from you :)
This video truly helped me so much. I rarely comment under videos, but I want to genuinely thank you for this. It has helped in such a big way.
So always get something positive out of even a negative experience.
I had to let go of the known, and my ego, and my story about how I was important when I was in a relationship healthy or unhealthy, but I realize how I used people out of low self esteem
Oh my goodness I'm 16 and doing my exams and your giving me an abundance of information to pull me out of a crisis, truly your a god sendxxx
May the universe's blessings always be with you Sir. Thank you so much.
- An Indian learner.
Very Solid advice! I went through a breakup recently and handled it just like you said.
I can only tell everybody, it seriously works ;)
Update ??
I love this too! Get a new momentum for the next chapter in your life and let go of past experience. be grateful for the bad and good times but yes keep going and I’m excited 😊 thank u Brendon for your motivation videos 🙏🏼!
i had to listen to this video a few time throughout the year last year, and watching it again now in this time of my life, i can digest the content more.. thank you for putting this here for everyone to see and benefit from
Letting go of what’s right because you know that you’re in your comfort zone is one of the hardest things to do!
Thanks Brendon for this awesome video 🙏🏽
Much love from Bali ❤️
Thank you for such a helpful and inspiring video ♡ My favourite part is 'that things aren't happening "against" us, they are happening "for" us'. It just changes ones entire outlook on a situation. Love it!
My trauma is loss and infertility.. and Im feeling so hateful to others that have what i want and for people who has never struggled! This is not a good way for me to live. Because other people dont care about my loss and my feelings and they dont have to. They have their own Life. But i really need to just get on with my life!! I can’t see that this video really spoke to me, but I am trying! I really am !
You are a gift to humanity
Brandon you changed my life with your videos, Thank you
Your enthusiasm is infectious! We need more of you out there. Can you make a video for people who waste their time on gossip? It is a real problem these days!
Oh yes, removing expectancy and bringing the love to yourself is the trick. Honestly people fail to give up because many miss this, WHAT DID I LEARN, brilliant, I have been applying it myself, and it really works.
Wowww, thanks for a great video. 2020 has been a year of dropping toxic people for me & I'm just going to to keep the momentum going in 2021. Who else experienced the same?
Thank you Brendon, I've struggled to let go of the past situation for two days. I am a member of some of your courses. I've been watching lots of your videos including these in member's area. This video helped me a lot to make that switch into the future. Thank you very much.
I have never been so grateful about life not because of this video, but thanks to it
Hey, Brendon. Every time I have something bad going on, I watch your videos. Right now I am at work, crying and I am very grateful that your made this chanel. I am sending my best greetings. Thank you for help.
This was SO great on so many levels - not dwelling on the past and looking to the future! So uplifting, THANK YOU!
Thanks Brendon I'm a big fan of you for 2 years from Iran. 👐🏼
Sometimes you have to just sit down and say wtf is going on in my life. And then figure out what to do and take necessary action. Sometimes we might not because of fear or hurting the other person but we need to take care of ourselves ultimately and the other person if they love you will make the necessary changes. if not let go.
Monique Zmuda well said
Brendon you are the best inspiration I've ever seen. thanks !! keep it up !! im going through a massive transformation currently and your content was a huge contributor to my personal development
Thank you so much Brendon! I'm so grateful for all your videos. I needed this today and already I feel the same spark of determination to get back on track with improving myself and my life after having been neglectful for a few days of the things I want to pursue in my life. I'm so grateful too that you gave another 1,000 High Performance Habits books away! When I saw the video-I had previously thought of buying it on the original give-away-I took it as a sign from the universe that I needed to buy it. I'm so glad I did and I can't wait for my copy to come! Again, I am so grateful for all your videos because they have helped me become much more confident and disciplined and self-loving. Again, thank you so much Brendon for sharing with us!
Hi brendon, your book came in yesterday and it was on my birthday. The best gift:)
I cannot thank you enough, so happy there are people like you in this world. Also cool that you are in my hometown, go timbers!
The best video at the right time for me. Thank you Brandon. I will have yol listen to this every day for a while.
You're So Darn Awesome Brendon...Thank You For Your Amazing Attitude Towards Life & For Wanting To Help Others... Wishing You A Very Happy & Brighter New Year!!! 😇💕🙏💗🕊️
Thank you so much for posting your videos! Your words and advice is real and has helped me evolve.
Ok I have to subscribe ✅ I love your advice.
needed this at this moment. so glad I follow!
Thank you so much for this video. I had a really hard time going through my break up but now i will follow your advice.
Pratyush Chakraborty SOOOON GOKUUU!!!!!!! 😬😤👿😤😬 -Zamasu
So much truth in everything you said. Thanks for helping me know even though I still hurt and grieve from the change I made I will succeed, thanks Brendon !
Wow, this is the video that I need.. Thank you very much Brendon. God bless you!
I love your brain actually..keep up the good works😘😘😘
This is my favorite piece of your work so far.
Thank you.
Awesome work. Thank you.
every like 5 years of my life i breakdown, lose my self confidence & stop believing in myself. . But God always send my someone to take me out of the hell & this time it's you 🌸
once again always saying something that I need to hear
that you for you videos and that they truely do help people. myself included
I love the background music of these videos, makes it very uplifting
thank you , you help people to find the right way and get ready to the futuer , so continued in this thare is always someone waiting for you
i Love when u upload new videos. Brings Such posivity into my day🙌🙌😁
Hello, thank you for posting this video. I feel like someone understands. Thank you!
this is the most thing I am grateful for is you and your great videos . Thanks sir
thank you Brendon, this is what I needed to hear, as I set vision and goals for this year
Thank you sooo much Brendon. I love all your videos, they really help me to put my life in the right direction. God bless you
Brendon your videos are awesome! you teach in simple and understanding way.
as usual , concentrated..strong..and in goal ,every time i need some help,open your channel .. and find you talk about my problems! thank you !
Thank you man,i appreciate it.
But got damn i'm going through some tough things.
I'm ganna keep trying my best,again thank you.
the last 2 minutes was amazing and humbling.
These words was just what I needed. Thank you Brendon!
You seem a good, kind, warm person with great insight. Thank you for your videos. x
you are the best brendon ..
love to teach from you more and more ..
thank you so much
this is what i need exactly ..
love you
Thank you, I needed this.
Perfect timing
I love your advice, it really resonates and you can feel it's so genuine and from the heart :) you've help me alot! Thank you so much
This came right on time. Thank you Brandon.
It's crazy how it works out sometimes. Right video and right timing! 🙏
Brendon, you're passionate spirit and wisdom that you share in every video you make, inspires me so greatly. You give me so much insight in my life. You have no idea how much I appeciate that. Thank you. You're the best! :)
I can relate. He's a hug inspiration. Whatta great video.
Brendon thank you for your tranings, advise and techniques. I really enjoy your short precise videos. I would like to watch your videos without the music sound in the background. It is distracting.
Great job!!!
many things I just forgot they seem so obvious. Thanks for sharing.
Great! Sell a book and I would happily buy it. You pumped me up fort today. Thanks!
His books are amazing . I recommend.
Everything you have said is absolutely right but just so hard to do... If it was that easy to do id do it in a heartbeat!!
Hey Brendon can you do a video on how you get energized in your trigger moments and what gives you energy
Wonderful video!! Thank you very much . Love the positivity. 🙏🙏🙏
No one should feel ashamed of seeking help, especially mental help. Yes, there is stigma attached to it, like many other beneficial things in life. Fight the stigma.
Thanks for the positivity
@brendon thank you thank you man, seriously this is what i needed to push myself in the direction I need. Again, thank you so much for this and the help you are giving for people. Me and this girl that we like eachother a lot but she is going threw a lot and so am I and im giving her the space she needs and I need. I teared listening to this cause it was so right for me. long distance can be tough but space is sometimes the best and focusing on ourselves. thanky ou again, god bless man.:.)
Very interesting observation about letting go good things as well as bad. We should remember Heraclitus Panta Rei, everything changes - bad and good. Emotions are like clouds, they come and go, nothing is forever so live the moment, it counts and is real.
Omg you are such a blessing in my life .. keep posting videos they are extremely helpful!👍🏻
THANK YOU!
I never commented on any video but i just wanted to let u know. That Video was exactly what i needed....
Thank you ;)
So many valuable tips and expressed beautifully, thank you Brendan!
I needed this video with my current situation.
Thanks for inspiring us, Brendon! You are amazing.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU BRANDON,AND YOU INSPIRED ME A LOT ,ALL THE BEST ❤💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕❤👋✌
Thank you will come back to this as I move forward!
Thanks for this video.
Regards from Portugal
Thank you so much. This video blessed me.
Great video! It's like you know exactly what I'm going through. Great reminders, thank you.
Your energy is encouraging
Thanks, Man. I just subscribed and after I found your channel, I've been doing real good.
Thanks Brandon!!! I needed to hear this!!! I’m gonna take this advice!!!!
that was sir.....and your speaking skill is extra-ordinary..cheers
WOW! This came at the right time during my current mindset!
Law of attraction in working lol. Wonderful video though! Thanks to Brendon
Thank you. Something I needed to hear again.
Brilliant, my friend! I fully agree, but you've really laid it out clearly, beautifully !
Thanks Brendon for the insights! great video
This really resonates with me today. so good thanks for posting
Brendon you are an inspiration to people, keep going :)