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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024
  • Hey ❤️
    #SouthAfricanRUclipsr #cultureshock #aupair#roadto2000subsribers
    This video Is overdue ! In todays video I’ll be talking about my culture shocks as a South African living in America !
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Комментарии • 209

  • @Qharisma
    @Qharisma 10 месяцев назад +15

    As someone who was born in America this video is hilarious. I've never considered how awkward it would be for someone from South Africa to visit America ... Now I totally understand.

  • @danellenoble6185
    @danellenoble6185 2 года назад +18

    I was Aupair coming from SA. Left 20 years ago and made America my home. Married and kids here. I too, had culture shock but I did adjust

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      Oh wow for 20 years ! where are you based now !

    • @danellenoble6185
      @danellenoble6185 2 года назад +1

      @@TimewithModiTime I'm in the Chicagoland area

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +2

      @@TimewithModiTime you also need to settle there sis. SA is a nightmare especially with loadshedding and corruption. I'm also planning to move soon.

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj Год назад

      ​@@asiphejohnson6543uyakuthetha ukuny nontroi

  • @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118
    @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118 2 года назад +137

    Please speak a bit slower😭😭😂hape o fast😂

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +11

      😭😭😭dude I promise you I don’t speak fast 🤣🤣do I speak fast in rl too ? 😳

    • @stonitangawizi1252
      @stonitangawizi1252 2 года назад +22

      @@TimewithModiTime I had to listen to you at x0.75

    • @tebohonaphtali7938
      @tebohonaphtali7938 2 года назад

      😂

    • @ladyvrega2670
      @ladyvrega2670 2 года назад +4

      @@TimewithModiTime first time here but yoo girl you’re running jooo slow down try to speak normal don’t run.

    • @kagontleserutle5775
      @kagontleserutle5775 2 года назад

      Yes u speak to fast,i can't hear u well#😂

  • @kaylalouw3041
    @kaylalouw3041 2 года назад +34

    1. Driving on the other side of the road
    2. People only speaking english and not vernac
    3. No taxis and south african cars, no cabs, mostly found in the cities
    4. Calorie counts on all food
    5. Not having petrol assustants at petrol stations (filling up your car by yourself)
    6. How expensive it is to do hair
    7. People don’t relax their hair
    8. Most foods and items are in family size/bulk size
    9. Tax not being included in prices
    10. At restaurants they don’t have cards machines, they take your card to the back and make the payment
    11. Metric systems not being the same
    12. Travelling times are different (for example in SA 30 minutes away is far but in america it’s not that long at all)
    13. No walls around homes or only fences and you see your neighbors all the time
    14. Adjustment of how you say words and using slang
    15. The amount of self service available in america is different from sa

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +3

      haha thank you so much for the summary 🥺❤️

    • @morenakhaya655
      @morenakhaya655 2 года назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣 thanks I won't watch da video

    • @rams228
      @rams228 2 года назад

      @@morenakhaya655 😅😅😅

  • @Lindaaaaaaa2
    @Lindaaaaaaa2 2 года назад +18

    I’m in india from SA In India it’s insane the stare is too much😂😂😂love you sissy all the best watching all the way from India

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +4

      What are you doing in India and how is it for you 🥺

    • @stephanszitha8844
      @stephanszitha8844 Год назад +2

      Lol i can imagine but you might have a cost of living advantage sometimes thats nice

    • @Lindaaaaaaa2
      @Lindaaaaaaa2 Год назад

      @@TimewithModiTime I’m studying it been hell🤣🤣but I changed the state now I’m in Gujarati it’s better than Haryana

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +1

      @@Lindaaaaaaa2 that's amazing sis. Please settle there or move to Europe because SA is a nightmare.

    • @j-groovy5339
      @j-groovy5339 Год назад +1

      I experienced the major stares in India too, they stare like they are in a trance 😅

  • @MJ31579
    @MJ31579 Год назад +17

    I'd cry because of hair prices too 😅
    That is ridiculous
    In SA, for $90 you can get unbraiding, washing and braiding at a decent place

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Год назад +4

      This is why I cut my hair haha because no way I was over it 1🤣

  • @andreipretorius92
    @andreipretorius92 2 года назад +26

    Great video. How I miss SA people. Love hearing your voice and mixing languages 😂😂. I hate the imperial system, we are used to metric system. The card at restaurants always freak me out. I miss having walls between houses. You have great energy.

    • @andreipretorius92
      @andreipretorius92 2 года назад +3

      I also think the distance is weird. I complain driving 45 minutes and they think that’s nothing, it’s insane

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      Girl there is no reason for them to be so extra haha 🤣🤣

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      Its better in the city its not insane haha 🤣but in the Suburbs its just bad yoh it never made sense to me haha

  • @Nala-xf6rz
    @Nala-xf6rz 2 месяца назад +1

    Nah 'not seeing Quantums, GTI's and a lot of Polos on the road' is freaking hilarious as a culture shock

  • @tumelomojapelo5577
    @tumelomojapelo5577 Год назад +11

    Mara I like how unique we south Africans are it's like we live in our own planet we love freedom in complexity and it's in our DNA...it's funny how we work well in groups...put a south African in any group you'll enjoy the attention he/she commands...Pride in public freedom💁🏾‍♂️ normally rea phapha😒

  • @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118
    @mohlatlegobeautysethosa6118 2 года назад +7

    Loved this!was super interesting to hear

  • @wmccormack4647
    @wmccormack4647 2 года назад +7

    Turning right on red depends on where you live. It can vary by state and municipality.

  • @poetalegalis3635
    @poetalegalis3635 Год назад +9

    Open a class teaching native South African languages, and solve the problem. You will make a lot of money with no competition. Blessings and one love 🙏🇿🇦🇯🇲🇬🇭🇰🇪🇿🇼🇬🇲

    • @asiphejohnson6543
      @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад +1

      This might really come in handy hey. Zulu was recommended as an additional language in the US curriculum for those who wish to learn it a few months back. 🇿🇦

    • @gidi3250
      @gidi3250 Год назад +2

      @@asiphejohnson6543 they do force the collage kids who is trying to turn basketball into a professional thing to learn a language and the instructors and coaches order them to learn Swahili.

  • @simphiwembatha1039
    @simphiwembatha1039 2 года назад +16

    One that really shoooock me was the invincible fence for dogs.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +5

      Omg I forgot about that one 🥲it had me running so fast 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 2 года назад +4

    Okare you're in heaven! Haibo the lighting!

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      It was doing too much 😭😭the lighting washed me the camera washed me kori bona!!

  • @erickwagithuku707
    @erickwagithuku707 2 года назад +3

    Hi modi I have just watched your video clip I felt the same way you did when I came to this country as an African student.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      haha and I am so sure that every state is different too !

  • @caroline___
    @caroline___ Год назад +2

    You have great energy. Love the video

  • @comfortskha2600
    @comfortskha2600 2 года назад +3

    Lmao😂🤣🤣as for quantum and Polo GTI 😂🤣you cracked me up straight,I also struggled when I was working for United nation Hq

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      😂😂dude I can count the amount of times I see a gti haha !!

  • @tebohokibe7555
    @tebohokibe7555 Год назад +1

    Gumba-gumba pack 😅. Nice video ausi. I think Quantums are SA style taxis, manufactured in Durban. If possible, try to be slower when you speak. All your points are nice. Speedpoint machine, etc. 👌

  • @karabomasela5387
    @karabomasela5387 2 года назад +2

    Hahaha I was cracking up throughout this video, very informative 😂

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣 still adjusting I think in the city its so different and I need to do a SF one haha

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 2 года назад +3

    the card payment part did it for me !

  • @ntivokhoza
    @ntivokhoza 2 года назад +6

    Chile I giggled throughout the entire video 😭🤣.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      It’s all the little things that will make you miss home 😭🥺

  • @bettyboo9786
    @bettyboo9786 2 года назад +17

    When you said nnete, nnete wow I enjoyed it. Motswana here in Toronto. Much love

  • @boitumelonokgipa6336
    @boitumelonokgipa6336 2 года назад +1

    Love your videos... Thank you so much for this 💕

  • @bongimemeza9959
    @bongimemeza9959 2 года назад +2

    We will miss you Mama, love from SOWETO

  • @khayalethumkhonza9964
    @khayalethumkhonza9964 2 года назад +13

    we must take 10 million south africans,, proper ones with maPara included,, we shall restructure america,,, this will go to history,,, cause mzansi is thee country of countries,,

    • @kobe8034
      @kobe8034 2 года назад

      How u going to do it tho??

  • @cindyhayward2066
    @cindyhayward2066 Год назад

    I adore your video because you speak fast and you haven't learned the habit of saying "like" before each word!

  • @incredibleconnections4980
    @incredibleconnections4980 2 года назад +5

    I've heard another RUclipsr complain and shocked by the braids prices.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      It’s not cute at all 🥲🥲I know I’m a working hun mara ha ?!

  • @Thapppie
    @Thapppie 2 года назад +5

    Enjoyed it ❤️. Time thing is almost like CT a 30mins drive here is not that much as compared to when I am in Limpopo it feels like I’m driving 2hours. 🤣
    Also Self service we have quite a number of self service stuff.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      When we are home it feels like forever!! It’s the mountains 🏔! That’s why 🤣🤣

  • @himynameisjumbo
    @himynameisjumbo Месяц назад

    Next time please bring props. I want to see the Gimba food items.

  • @ItsEntleMwelase
    @ItsEntleMwelase 2 года назад +6

    Love the video ❤️😌
    But I'm still surprised by the payment of unbrading & washing your hair 😱 R1 260 😭. USA is so expensive bathong. So now do you braid your hair?

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      Girl I was so upset Yoh I was mad ! I braided for my birthday ! And today I relaxed my own hair 🤣🤣the thought of braiding again at a salon makes me sad 🤣🥲

  • @FransHattingh
    @FransHattingh Год назад

    Girl, you're from Centurion?! No way! 😲 So am I! 💜

  • @DibweDesigner
    @DibweDesigner Год назад +1

    the petrol service and speed point is stressing me out huh! yuh

  • @splashafrica
    @splashafrica Год назад

    When you watch video and you here that "ja" it hits hard 🙂

  • @nosinkewana488
    @nosinkewana488 2 года назад +6

    USA is expensive, I was there for a short while. Even buying bread was shocking, normal bread for about R30 back in 2002. Then there's this tax thing. As for hair, I refused. Braids were going for thousands of rands back then. I kept relaxing my hair until I came back home. As for snow 🥶🥶🥶😭😭😭 then we got invited to a barbecue, and we thought of Madea's cookout. Was it not a vienna braai 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the disappointment... Americans though

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      the bbq part killed me oh no lol, if it was that amount back in 2002 I don't even want to convert it to now haha this tax thing us frustrating oh my goodness me !

    • @resegomolosiwa7659
      @resegomolosiwa7659 2 года назад +3

      Vienna braai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tracywalker244
      @tracywalker244 2 года назад +2

      Trust me what you had was not normal bread 😂🤣

    • @JustMe-rl5ym
      @JustMe-rl5ym 2 года назад +2

      Vienna braai!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 года назад

    I love the picture frame of you and your Ma 😍

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      Thank you 🥺❤️one of my favorite pictures ! It’s like she was there !!

  • @staciegreene2262
    @staciegreene2262 2 года назад +1

    SISSSSSS you are in Georgia 🥰🥰. We need to hang . I’m about 45-50 mins away from Atlanta.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      I dont stay in Georgia anymore I'm all the way in the West 🥺

  • @Gxamalaza
    @Gxamalaza 2 года назад +2

    Wow. I just googled how much 90 dollars is in rands. Yeesh! Ayingeke, ngamane uyeke. 😆

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      it sounds and looks bigger in rands but in dollars it isn’t 😭

  • @sagoralemel5492
    @sagoralemel5492 Год назад

    Sounds like heaven 😍 ❤

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Год назад

      😂😂the safety>> (depending on where you are is great)

  • @lindanizulu9436
    @lindanizulu9436 2 года назад +1

    I love your Vlogs ❤❤❤

  • @vergespierre4271
    @vergespierre4271 2 года назад +2

    English is a derivative of Greek and Hebrew- we speak a derivative of our mother tongue ( hebrew- Aramaic; which is not a "white" mans language due to popular belief/lies)- its a way deeper history to us as "black" Americans. That's something most people don't know or care to know due to mental conditioning and lies. So we speak our language- also English is the number one business language around the world- so many people speak it abroad: plus we never learn or are encouraged to learn anything other than english

  • @sabrinamadison8769
    @sabrinamadison8769 Год назад +1

    Yes. The braids in the USA is crazy

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Год назад

      It makes sense to learn how to do braids but I’m lazy or to cut 😂😂

  • @busishauntelle
    @busishauntelle Год назад +6

    The way I want to move to USA . I’m literally so tired of Asia😢
    Great video ❤

  • @alvinmarshall9446
    @alvinmarshall9446 10 месяцев назад

    Wow you speak fast! Lol. Cool vid

  • @Emkayel
    @Emkayel 2 года назад +3

    Is this video on fast forward?😄
    I watched it so fast🔥

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      I think maybe its because I spoke fast haha 😅😅

  • @bassie.sebola
    @bassie.sebola 2 года назад +1

    notification gang 🥺😍

  • @sylviagreybe672
    @sylviagreybe672 2 года назад +3

    America is one of the few countries to still use the Imperial system (there's only 2 or so countries that do). It is left over from when the UK controlled the USA. You'd think they'd want to get rid of it because of the UK colonialism connection, but no. They still insist it's the "best" system, despite the opposite being so obvious all the rest of the world has changed to metric. Funnily enough, even the drug cartels in the US use the metric system! :) Everyone knows the metric system is better because of it's simplicity and elegance. The US was going to change to the metric system in the 60s, but the next president came in and abolished the law that said they had to change before it was enacted.

    • @hcalo
      @hcalo 2 года назад

      America is NOT a country... American are everyone that live in all continent... North, South and Central America... thank you

  • @phindandabula6010
    @phindandabula6010 2 года назад +2

    My shock was how many black cars are on American roads, it's like everyone drives a black car, in SA we don't like black cars, it is an obvious difference.

  • @thayandamkalipi4765
    @thayandamkalipi4765 2 года назад +1

    OOOO FAV 😍😍

  • @coodie_coco4754
    @coodie_coco4754 2 года назад +1

    it's giving accent❤️🤌🏽

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      dude I don't have one all the people around me are getting changing accents nna new 😭😭

  • @mclaren_nkoana
    @mclaren_nkoana Год назад +1

    The testimony I have the day I had to put in gas for the first time 😭

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Год назад +2

      I still struggle today and I forget which side I must pour the gas haha 🤣🤣

    • @mclaren_nkoana
      @mclaren_nkoana Год назад

      @@TimewithModiTime 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AFRICAGOODLIFE4993
    @AFRICAGOODLIFE4993 Год назад

    Wow

  • @star_athlete
    @star_athlete 2 года назад +1

    First one here 🥺🥺

  • @lethaboswafo9639
    @lethaboswafo9639 2 года назад

    I love ❤ your videos

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 года назад +4

    I’ve never seen a Quantum 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 SAME SIS

  • @adolfmudau9956
    @adolfmudau9956 2 года назад +1

    WOW.....chill ...your moving fast

  • @LungileNgcobo
    @LungileNgcobo 2 года назад +1

    ♥️♥️♥️

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      Aww love it you’re always here ❤️❤️🥺thank you !

    • @LungileNgcobo
      @LungileNgcobo 2 года назад +1

      @@TimewithModiTime you’re so welcome boo! I love everything about you x

  • @Lindo_Makhaza
    @Lindo_Makhaza 2 года назад +4

    This scares me😭😭😭

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Год назад

    Can I please do a reaction video 😂😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️ Damn $90 for just hair 🤯

  • @tylerdurden3722
    @tylerdurden3722 3 месяца назад

    Letting someone walk off to some backroom with my card is weird.

  • @michiiey_s4232
    @michiiey_s4232 2 года назад

    Please do more sit down videos

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      I will ❤️🥺 please give me topics ❤️

  • @ncedomagwebu7862
    @ncedomagwebu7862 2 года назад

    English is Vernac there.

  • @harmtimmerman9309
    @harmtimmerman9309 2 года назад +1

    Dont't say robot, it is traffic light

  • @molamoalbertus1294
    @molamoalbertus1294 2 года назад +1

    You just spoke in my language Sepedi,where in SA are you from

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +1

      Family is from Polokwane and born and raised in Pretoria

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 года назад

    Speak on it!!!!

  • @phaphamaricky2674
    @phaphamaricky2674 Год назад

    I wanna go to the United States but I'll keep my xhosa culture

  • @asiphejohnson6543
    @asiphejohnson6543 Год назад

    You need to settle there sis SA is a nightmare especially with loadshedding and corruption. I'm also planning to move soon. 😊

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Год назад +2

      You see when you guys say this I feel a bit of stress and pressure because I’m like where must I go or stay haha 😂😂🥲🥲

  • @dawnmiller6899
    @dawnmiller6899 Год назад

    My God time difference really? That’s worldly

  • @adolfmudau9956
    @adolfmudau9956 2 года назад +2

    America and common sense....hey

  • @Oarabile__M
    @Oarabile__M Год назад

    They way I want to come to the us😭😭

  • @thaboturner1280
    @thaboturner1280 Год назад

    people are leaving america n come to africa n you go there your really bold

  • @kingnews23
    @kingnews23 2 года назад +3

    So undoing your braids and washing your hair cost was R1350 I can't deal.

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      This is why I do everything on my own 😂😂😂

  • @thinadlamini4671
    @thinadlamini4671 2 года назад +1

    😂😂😂... Quantums are a South African thing that's what makes us unique. 😌😌😌

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Год назад

    Water pronunciation 😂😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️

  • @maburwanemokoena7117
    @maburwanemokoena7117 2 года назад

    Ke rata Sepedi sa gago. Hope you enjoy yourself there♥️

  • @mbalimahlangu1202
    @mbalimahlangu1202 2 года назад +1

    That’s why I do my own hair bcoz fok man

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      The ghetto with the prices friend 🙍🏽‍♀️🙍🏽‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      Yeah sure ! ❤️what would you like me to talk about 🥺

  • @erickwagithuku707
    @erickwagithuku707 2 года назад

    Hi sis

  • @Emma-ey8cu
    @Emma-ey8cu Год назад

    OMG slow down!!!

  • @rethabilemoatshe7255
    @rethabilemoatshe7255 2 года назад +1

    Americans don't do Vrrrpha's like us sis, they have a different version

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      they don't it even when I see it, it doesn't make the same sound !

    • @nosinkewana488
      @nosinkewana488 2 года назад

      Cadillac is their vrrrpha

    • @Shadow_Blazer
      @Shadow_Blazer 2 года назад

      Any muscle car is their Vrrrpha

  • @sibusisoattiemahlangu7088
    @sibusisoattiemahlangu7088 2 года назад

    Doesn’t venac mean language of the land???

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад

      This is the google definition it means "a language or dialect spoken by the ordinary people in a particular country or region."

  • @uMsubathi
    @uMsubathi Год назад

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @vineshen3599
    @vineshen3599 Год назад +2

    Yoh bra, why you speaking so fast? You got a rapping audition tomorrow? Sup from S.A👊

    • @kayteekon
      @kayteekon Год назад

      She doe not speak too fast, it's jus you listen slow, lol just joking, she is a fast talker indeed

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  Год назад

      😂😂

  • @tribalpeacock
    @tribalpeacock 2 года назад +8

    How did you expect to hear African vernacular languages in America? Like duh!

  • @thisguy4505
    @thisguy4505 10 месяцев назад

    Store employees cannot sit down 💀

  • @FransHerbst93
    @FransHerbst93 2 года назад +1

    just talk slower next time please😅

  • @allysonvine
    @allysonvine 8 месяцев назад

    I love your video, but please talk slower... Whew

  • @onicamatidze5547
    @onicamatidze5547 Год назад

    are u treated like a foreigner there,do they call u names sista,just like how us South Africans treats others

  • @sekgabimasobe9690
    @sekgabimasobe9690 2 месяца назад

    Modisana you talk too fast slow down tog togi tog

  • @lianaburgers1770
    @lianaburgers1770 Год назад

    Enjoy your video, just speak a bit slower....

  • @himynameisjumbo
    @himynameisjumbo Месяц назад

    Spoil yourself with braids😂

  • @greensistaruns7209
    @greensistaruns7209 2 года назад

    Pfft speaking vernac your in USA . Hehe Cece wake up

    • @TimewithModiTime
      @TimewithModiTime  2 года назад +2

      Even when I see a Afrikaans person I get excited and I start speaking in Afrikaans lol !

    • @greensistaruns7209
      @greensistaruns7209 2 года назад

      @@TimewithModiTime hehehehe girl it happens to all of us.