Right.?! I hope the mother knows that if she won the guy by cheating he is more than likely going to cheat on her as well. Then I'd sit back with popcorn while mommy dearest lives in regret and shame.
Give it five or so more years and the female person will go whining to OP about how her stepdaughter doesn't give a damn about her and she needs her "real kind daughter" to take care of her.
Is it cold in the hospital you're in? Are you about to flatline and slip into the darkness and you just want to spread unhappiness and despair one last time? @@Defx10
Well, add another zero or two to that figure, and it will also come out of the make believe bank account that the original $50,000 did. This is fiction, nothing more. The "court case" was resolved within a few weeks. That's fiction.
Then again it’s like OP said, it wasn’t really about the money it was the damage that she could cause for the betrayal her mom gave her. She let her suffer for years.
It’s not about the 50k it’s about the principle behind it. Imagine OP’s mom tries to go on a hate campaign, it’s easy to disprove and the case destroys that good mother image, which also can affect her boyfriend and his image. Surgeon who cheated and supported an abuser.
@@Mr.Yahoo_Zoom the median income per YEAR of a middle class family (in the states) is 65k. The average person works 40 years before retirement thats 2.6 million dollars not including investments retirement accounts etc. So no 50k is not more then the average person will see. Sure it might be more then the average person will ever SAVE during a 40 year career but that has more to do with poor financial habits then anything else. Her mom was getting thousands a month as an allowance from her affair yet let OP live like they were dead broke and even guilted her by talking about how hard she worked and how much she struggled. so where did that money go on top of her own salary? Especially if he was paying for dates or other gifts too. Even if she was getting 2k a month from him, and we estimate on the low end. Over the course of 8 years, that's 192 000 dollars. Had she put that money in a high yield savings or an investment account, it could have grown to even more. So sure you could argue that the mom didn't owe her that money since under the law her only obligation is to provide a roof over OP'S head and food. HOWEVER , had she been honest and told her the truth " I'm dating your bullies dad and while I have money its MY money and i dont need to spend it on you" that would have been shitty but still given OP the choice to see her mom for what she is and accept it or not. That's not what the mom did she lied, painted herself as this struggling single mom, and used OP's trauma and her dads death as weapons to keep her emotionally manipulated and dependent on her. She made her feel guilty for wanting to speak up. Thats the text book definition of emotional abuse and trauma. 50k doesn't even begin to repair the far-reaching damage that has and will still cause on OP's life.
@@JustinAdamson270 some people defy their parents for the wrong reasons... But its rare for someone to defy their parents abuse. Cuz those kinds of parents brainwashes their children to the point the child cant even make a decision without being CONSTANTLY anxious of what their parents might feel 😒.
The mother is the last person to talk about “family loyalty” when she’s the adulterer, ruining someone else’s marriage and disregarding Ops feelings about this, there’s over a billion people in the world and she chose a man with a kid that bullies Op.
@@JustinAdamson270 it is not the fact she was "picked on", but the fact that the one person one should be able to confide in chose their own happiness over that of their child, so what that your childhood was worse than this, that doesn't excuse you from being shitty, if anything, i pitty the fact your childhood was so shitty you chose to defend a person that reminds you of your tormentor, go see a shrink instead
I wouldn't be surprised if the bully started bullying after the rumors about her father and OP's mother spread. I've heard a lot of bullies act that way due to family issues. So I wouldn't be surprised if her mother caused her to get bullied in the first place.
Most bullies actually just copy their parents who are bullies themselves. The trope that bullies do so to act out and vent is mostly a myth, only some do this and they grow out of it and generally feel remorse, the rest never feel remorse as they are just mean people.
And that would be the reason her mom never told her the standard 'theyre just jealous' 'theyre just having a hard time at home' shit. Because imagine saying that about your boyfriends daughter when You're the hard time at home. Too much cognitive dissonance.
OP should've add defamation to the case as her so-called "mother" and her money bag started spreading hate about her in social media during the process.
Also can't sue for defamation because she's not successful enough to be defamed family talking shit on social media isn't a crime and she doesn't have a case
@@JustinAdamson270Defamation doesn't have a success clause and defamation is defined as false statements that injure a 3rd parties reputation so spreading hate and lies on social media could 100% be used as defamation if they were done intentionally to harm her reputation.
You know whats sad. The mom might have been able to save the relationship with her daughter, or at least avoided the law suit by admitting she was wrong and apologizing.
@mgntstr Yep. In the same way at the end of Batman Arkham 2 Bat; "You know what's funny, after everything you did, I was still going to save you.." Joker: "That actually IS pretty funny. HAHA..."
Don't you know that it's scientifically proven that it's impossible for a mom to admit her own faults? In all seriousness though, the fact she's surprised at all that this happened is Ludacris, I wouldn't be surprised if her daughter wants her dead at this point
I wouldn't be surprised if the mom started cheating while the dad was alive. Or maybe being a single parent made her hate her daughter. Also its funny how the mom thought op woild just be okay with all of this. I heard this one before and that that the mom and rich boyfriend broke up. Because his reputation took a hit and he blamed the mom for it.
Bruh, choosing a relationship with a man whose child bullies your child, over your own daughter who you raised and birthed, clearly the mother here was in deep desperation for a man and would be willing even to compromise her own priorities with her daughter just to keep this man around. I tell you, some of these people are just pure evil.
Yep. Honestly there are billions of men in this world and she chose the dad of her daughters bully the moment she found out that the dad was the person who bullied her daughter she should have ended it in milliseconds, end of the story. I hope OP has a happy life and I hope the mother tries to reach out just for OP to slam the door in her face
"i don't want to ruin my relationship with her because I have no other family to speak of.." Love you have NO family to speak of. That woman never was your family. She certainly didn't consider You to be family.
Makes me want to sue my mom for emotional distress but I don’t have any evidence + I’ve forgotten so much from that time of my life. I knew that you could sue for stuff like this but you never see mention of it much so I thought it was one of those “legally you can but it won’t go anywhere” type things. If I knew it would go somewhere I probably would have collected SO much evidence when I was younger
The fact that OP actually won is probably a combination of how bad things were and the fact that the bullying happened in public so there were witnesses. Plus her mother was going out with a married man, and no one likes a marriage-wrecker. Then OP had a panic attack after meeting the father and ended up in the hospital, so there's documentation of real distress caused by all of this. Perfect storm for the lawsuit. If it had all happened at home she would probably have lost. The thing that sucks about so much of this stuff is that it's only in hindsight you realize documentation would have been invaluable
Because this is a fake story and you cant sue your parents cause they didnt stop your school bullies. There is a reason why you dont see these type of court cases outside of tv/reddit.
I am grateful for my mom. back in elementary i got wacked in the face and she immediately went to the school. Infront of me, the bully, my mom and the guidance councilor. My mother said i should punch the bully in the face to let him know how it feels to be punched. The guidance councilor was against this but my mother told that they allowed the bullying to happen in their supervision so that is why they should be held accountable and guess what the councilor was convinced then i clenched my fist and swung the hardest i can. I came home smiling that day knowing that my mom was a badass i wont forget how my hand was injured being cut by his teeth but damn i was happy.
Dude.... I really appreciate you choose other stories aside from cheating scandal. This kind of justice winning that doesn't involve ruining someone life is pretty nice lol. I recommend the pro revenge, petty revenge, or malicious compliance for some "justice served" story.
yea those are the best.the wife or husband or bf or gf or fiancee cheated on me are very boring.the ones with absive parents and justice served stories are best
@@malikwillis05 why not? nothing wrong with holding someone accountable for their wrong doing, no matter how long ago it was. now it would be one thing if the mother was remorseful and realize how wrong what she did was. but that's not the case. she didn't see anything wrong with what she did, no remorse whatsoever. so if it's a lawsuit that's needed to hold her accountable then that's the right course of action. otherwise people like the mom never learn that actions have consequences. not to mention that the mother sounds like an overall despicable human being. spreads lies about her daughter, doesn't care about her daughters well-being, is a homewrecker. I'd even argue she got off way better than she deserves.
@@cipher5150 she never lied and at the end of the day destroying his marriage was on him she even said she didn't even give her bully or her family a chance people change over time. She said it's been over 7 years. At some point you got to move on
That 'Mom' is going to find herself in a nursing home all alone. Her BF will probably cheat on her and once Dad moves on, Bully will drop her like a hot potato. Forget ever meeting any future partners or children her actual daughter may have.
i wouldn't be satisfied with that kind of revenge but im glad the OP is satisfied and will live her life peacefully away from these trash excuses of human beings.
@@kingkongaintgotshitonemejudging from the way that they’re apparently acting on social media, calling her ungrateful and all that, I think it was mainly a matter of hurting their pride. Not only did they pay a really good lawyer just to do this, but they wound up losing and now everyone knows they got their comeuppance too. I suppose it would have been satisfying if they were also forced to pay a ton of money, but that’s about that. I doubt that she’d have been able to come away with that much more depending on how good the opposing lawyer was.
@@penguinpingu3807 ... and your entire family which you break apart by doing so... go ask anyone whos parents got divorced or fought endlessly because of infidelity if they think it had nothing to do with them and they don't feel like one of their parents betrayed them by prioritizing their selfish desires by cheating. What is next if one of the parents goes and commits some premeditated unnecessary crime just for the thrill of it and gets put in jail then it shouldn't be counted as abandoning/betraying/not taking into account your family because they didn't do anything bad directly to them ? What if there is domestics violence in the house does it not count as something that charms children as long as they do not directly beat up their kids ?
as someone who was severely bullied, so i know what it’s like firsthand, this makes me sick to my stomach. i can’t imagine someone doing something so disgusting and trying to justify it
Raised by a golddigger, then gets gold from the dig site and the digger herself as revenge. Good for OP, hope she gets to live the rest of her life loved and cared for!!
Bullying is serious. It can absolutely ruin someone's life. The fact that the mom is trying to say that it's not a big deal just shows that she cares more about herself.
Those social media posts after losing the lawsuit are stupid. OP could have been "Justice was served as 'Mom' allowed me to be bullied for years because of her affair with the bully's father."
I’m not only sue the mom for what she did, I would sue the boyfriend and the bully just to really be petty. I know a lot of people would say oh well, the bully would’ve moved on, but no, her father knew what was going on and didn’t do anything and he could’ve started it anytime as OP said, but he chose to let the princess hurdle P very badly so I’d say hey guess what actions have consequences I hope you got 50 K in your account!
I'll be honest I wouldn't be surprised if they bully was targeting OP specifically because she found out her dad was cheating with OP's mother. Obviously that wouldn't make it acceptable but it would certainly have made more sense.
@@rabbitguts2518 I never thought of it that way. It could explain why she was more vicious than anyone else but still if she was in on it and knew that she was hurting her that I definitely say she is liable criminally for it and also financially if OP did decide to sue.
@@runeingebretsen8378 💀 You kinda lackin a brain too yk? Her mother was the only one in her life that she feel close to, and also she did asked the one she only trusted her whole life "her mother" for help. Knowing her mother rejected cuz she said "were poor... We cant make any more troubles.." she felt unsure of it, making her not reach out to others who can actually help her. Please think, before you type.
@@Mellow502 ok einstein,it's normal for people to seek help from others,when your mother is indifferent,but that depends on how the mother said it,was it a suggestion or a threat.
@@runeingebretsen8378 You missed my point bruh 😒. i never said it wasn't normal to ask someone for help, i was explaining what MADE her to shut herself to others around her. Also it was a suggestion, the mother suggests her daughter to just "deal with it/ cope" instead of giving the daughter her needs of the mother's emotional support, which concludes to her having the thought of "no one will help me", shutting in and decreasing her chances of getting mental help.
really funny hearing all the "you'll regret cutting off your family" when i'm someone who knows from experience that you can just build your own. my only immediate family that i have is my mom and dad since my relatives are all overseas, and over the years my found family has grown to include my godmother, her boyfriend, her son and his wife (and her parents), and even a friend of hers from the gym who let us go to his cottage for free for many years because he was lonely there. your family, the one that you love, don't have to be the ones you're the most similar to genetically. i'm glad this woman got some form of compensation for this bullshit. i can't imagine having a parent that explicitly did not support me while i was being bullied and all for cash.
and why did she tell the bully she forgave her,i would have told her she made my childhood a living hell and i will never forgive her and that i hate her forever.
alright so i'm gonna take a look at the crystal ball. OP's mom is basically dating a cheater who most likely will cheat on OP's mom in the future and then come crawling back to OP for forgiveness. just my prediction
Good for this woman! When that doctor dumps the 304 she will have no one and the daughter will not be there for her. Hope there's an update 6 months or so later
I think about my own childhood and about all the bullying I received (mainly elementary and middle school - high school I grew a bit of a backbone) and how all the support I got was basically just “you should fight back” or “you should tell the teacher” and finally pawning me off on the school’s counselor (who was a very nice lady that had absolutely no power to do anything for me - yeay public schools in the 90s!). When OP talked about crying herself to sleep and hiding out in random places in the school it really had me thinking about my own stuff and I empathize with her so much. My parents had more of an indifferent attitude than OP’s Mom - so it always felt like I had no support whatsoever and that i simply had to “take it” when I got bullied. (This caused me to have some pretty terrible coping mechanisms and attachment issues - but thats for another time). But when it was shown that not only was the mother actively telling OP to “not cause trouble” and “learn to get along” or whatever - she was fully aware of the main bully because she was fucking his Dad?! How many years was she being actively bullied while she was screwing the Dad?! My heart hurts for this woman. The OP’s mom needs to be paying 50k / MONTH instead of just the one payment.
The mom tried to justify that valuing her boyfriend over her daughter was "normal", when I have to agree with that. Society has withered so much that people value themselves over the safety of their own children and it's disgusting.
NTA!! I don't know if you should or shouldn't sue your mother. I don't really know much about legal requirements for that sort of suit. What I DO know is that you need to cut ties with her. She's NOT your mother. She just the woman who gave birth to you. That woman is selfish and self-centered, willing to sacrifice your mental health and well-being on the altar of happiness. Screw her!
When I was fourteen, my mom started dating a horrible woman. She would steal my clothes (we were the same size) and when I complained my mom said nothing at first. I had a period of observation in a business to do and my then step mom offered to help, I slept on the floor because she had not planned a mattress (even blowup would have been fine) and she had no couch because she lived in a small studio. After a year of dating, my mom gathered my siblings and I and asked if we liked her girlfriend and I think we all aired our grievances there. My sister also had a hard time with the woman but I don't remember what, my brother had silly reasons based on the feeling of "forever losing dad" which we were not, as it was also the time our dad came back around to see us more and reconnect. I was just very mad about my favourite turtle t-shirt and the "report" on the observation week that was not mandated by the school back then (it's now part of the curriculum now decades later) but that the step mom asked me to do without any kind of guidance. This was also just as the Internet was taking off, in the mid 2000s so I had no idea that I could find stuff there aside from my fanfiction websites, forums to speak about music and MSN for private messaging. My mom started to cry and said that she was afraid of all of this because she loved our then step mom and we all ended up hugging. A month later, my mom announced us we wouldn't be seeing step mom again. It had lasted a whole year but we were all relieved. She explained that she realised her children should always come first and she actually spoke to her about the stolen clothes and found her wearing it when she went at her studio appartment on a weekend we were at our dad's place and the argument broke out : turns out that the step mom had been complaining about us all the time, how we always came first and never her, how she never prioritised her children over her relationships. When my mom had rightfully pointed out that the step mom's children were in their late teens and early twenties, adults having left the nest and that you cannot ask the same of children who were between 11 and 15 years old then, the step mom had started slandering us and the wool over my mom's eyes had come off. That woman prioritising her relationship over her child's wellbeing is absolutely bonkers and make me realise that despite all her flaws and all the pain for a year of having this horrible hag around, my mom did the right thing in the end even if it only was apparently at the end that she had been listening to us a little more than the person she said then she was in love with.
Yes, it's a shame kids aren't grateful that their parents are home wreckers who let their affair partners' kids bully their kids, especially in this situation. I mean, it isn't everyday that a widow snags a rich, married man. Her mom worked hard to sleep her way into a pot of gold, wreck someone's marriage and destroy their kids' lives, and all OP can think about is herself, and her well-being. So selfish OP. Do better. (This sentence is for all the people who need to be told that the above is sarcasm.)
Waiting for the update about when OP’s mom shows up at her doorstep like a kitten, wanting to ‘reconcile’ in her old age or when she becomes a grandmother 😂
At least Cats have a reason. This monster of a mother didn't. She only cared about herself when she had the means of protecting her daughter. With cats they either all die, or just the kittens die. Key thing, cats leave when they can't protect their kittens.
@@Olimar92Animals tend to just adopt certain behaviours. The only reason abandoning the young stuck is because those that didnt didnt live to pass that onto others. Incompetent parents however dont get weeded out like before
If that isn't karma, I don't know what is. OP's mom chose her own love life over protecting her daughter from menacing bullies. The moral high ground, finger-wagging types are usually the biggest hypocrites. She was literally sleeping with the enemy. The audacity to call her own daughter immoral when she was the one who broke up a marriage is just dumbfounding. I guarantee you her mother, her mother's boyfriend and the boyfriend's horrible daughter will play the victim to anyone who will listen for the rest of their lives. Now all OP can do is live her best life possible. That is truly best kind of revenge. Sadly, parents who put their own personal interests and selfish desires over the welfare of their children is quite common. I knew a lady much like OP's mother. Let's call her let's call her Sally. Sally was what we now refer to as a stereotypical common garden variety Karen. She never worked or maintained employment long enough for to make a dent in her finances, but she always had her hair done, her nails done, a full pack of cigarettes and booze in the fridge. She neglected her children to the point that criminal charges should have been pressed. I distinctly remember when her youngest, her son, his teeth were rotting out of his head because she let him eat whatever he wanted and never made him brush his teeth. She would lament how she couldn't afford to get him proper dental care but suspiciously always had money to blow at the beauty parlor. Her daughter who was older by seven years (different fathers), had just started getting her "monthly visitor” and had to embarrassingly go bum feminine hygiene products off of the neighbor's wife. Again, Sally's excuse was she couldn't afford to get her daughter what she needed to deal with the new factor in her life. Yet Sally always had a full carton of cigarettes and a bottle of booze in the fridge. To make an already long story much shorter, I cut contact with Sally a decade ago. Flash forward to the last few years where I heard through the grapevine, Sally's children have understandably put their mother on a low-information diet to the point of grey rocking her and have barred her from seeing her grandchildren. I also heard that, unsurprisingly, Sally plays the victim to anyone who will listen and wonders "what went wrong” with her life, how her “ungrateful” children could stop talking to her, etc. Sheesh! Talk about no introspection whatsoever. Sally has made her bed of nails and now she has to lie on it.
Parents are such enemies that you can’t even fight she was really strong for doing the right thing I personally couldn’t able to do it my family ruined my life and ruined my mental state but I just move on sometimes I just look back and wish that I shouldn’t be born alas you can’t control so people having segg what miserable life we all live in
I dont felt that it will end there. Without any restraining order, that fake mother will try to enter her life again when she had a baby. Waiting for the inevitable sequel
Since this happened in school, the bully was a minor, good luck suing a minor for saying a few mean words almost a decade ago that an overly sensitive girl claims caused her panic attacks and requires therapy.
@@CuteDwarf11 Not necessarily for suing the mother and breaking off contact, I can kinda get that given that she lied to her for almost a decade, but certainly for claiming to needing therapy and having panic attacks years afterwards though when the so called bullying was basically limited to elementary school level name calling like "huehue your pants are a bit too short slendy". Such people have never experienced what real bullying is actually like, I have, and believe me, the people who suffered from it would have given their right arm to only having to deal with some childish mockery in school or online.
@@Triplebrc For all we know, the bullying she endured was worse than the things she mentioned; she did say that the bullying escalated to borderline homicidal which she couldn't talk about, leading to why she needed therapy. Also, her mother is a self centered narcissist.
I could NEVER put a man above my own daughter. Anyone who puts their partner above their own child shouldn’t be a parent because they’re not a good one.
While I do agree that a parent’s happiness is very much important, that is no longer the case when the parent’s happiness costed their own child’s wellbeing.
There's nothing to sue for - by the OP's own admission she never actually reported the bullying so there is no record of it. You can't build an entire case entirely on hearsay arguments.
The mom complains that 'greedy' and 'immoral' OP won the court case, as if the mom herself didn't chose rich D over her child's wellbeing. (¬_¬")
I think it's called projecting
Right.?! I hope the mother knows that if she won the guy by cheating he is more than likely going to cheat on her as well. Then I'd sit back with popcorn while mommy dearest lives in regret and shame.
Give it five or so more years and the female person will go whining to OP about how her stepdaughter doesn't give a damn about her and she needs her "real kind daughter" to take care of her.
Right?
@@MizzShortaithat doesn't even make sense if she cheated to get with him why would he cheat
Dude, guaranteed when OP gets married and has a kid, her Mom is going to suddenly show up all smiles again. Watch out OP!
Guaranteed she never gets married because nobody would ever want to marry a lunatic who throws temper tantrums like she's 5 years old
Is it cold in the hospital you're in? Are you about to flatline and slip into the darkness and you just want to spread unhappiness and despair one last time? @@Defx10
OP should get a restraining order against her mom, bully, and the bully's dad.
Everyone gets bullied it's part of life grow tf up
@@JustinAdamson270But not if you mother is bullying you or approving it for her own benefits... stupid
I was shaking with anger the whole time I read this...
50k is not even 1% of what this vile, disgusting excuse of a mother should've paid.
Well, add another zero or two to that figure, and it will also come out of the make believe bank account that the original $50,000 did. This is fiction, nothing more. The "court case" was resolved within a few weeks. That's fiction.
Then again it’s like OP said, it wasn’t really about the money it was the damage that she could cause for the betrayal her mom gave her. She let her suffer for years.
It’s not about the 50k it’s about the principle behind it. Imagine OP’s mom tries to go on a hate campaign, it’s easy to disprove and the case destroys that good mother image, which also can affect her boyfriend and his image. Surgeon who cheated and supported an abuser.
@@Mr.Yahoo_Zoom the median income per YEAR of a middle class family (in the states) is 65k. The average person works 40 years before retirement thats 2.6 million dollars not including investments retirement accounts etc. So no 50k is not more then the average person will see. Sure it might be more then the average person will ever SAVE during a 40 year career but that has more to do with poor financial habits then anything else. Her mom was getting thousands a month as an allowance from her affair yet let OP live like they were dead broke and even guilted her by talking about how hard she worked and how much she struggled. so where did that money go on top of her own salary? Especially if he was paying for dates or other gifts too. Even if she was getting 2k a month from him, and we estimate on the low end. Over the course of 8 years, that's 192 000 dollars. Had she put that money in a high yield savings or an investment account, it could have grown to even more. So sure you could argue that the mom didn't owe her that money since under the law her only obligation is to provide a roof over OP'S head and food. HOWEVER , had she been honest and told her the truth " I'm dating your bullies dad and while I have money its MY money and i dont need to spend it on you" that would have been shitty but still given OP the choice to see her mom for what she is and accept it or not. That's not what the mom did she lied, painted herself as this struggling single mom, and used OP's trauma and her dads death as weapons to keep her emotionally manipulated and dependent on her. She made her feel guilty for wanting to speak up. Thats the text book definition of emotional abuse and trauma. 50k doesn't even begin to repair the far-reaching damage that has and will still cause on OP's life.
Dont worry it's just one of many creative writing exercises on the sub. No lawyer would take this case because there's no way it would succeed.
A woman standing up to her mother. Girl. You won my heart
Everyone defies their parents she ain't special
@@JustinAdamson270let me know, are you her mother?
Because you are in all comments defending the Mother of OP 😂
And if you are f*you
@@JustinAdamson270clearly not everyone, she almost didn’t
@@killerparticles5839 you're an idiot if you honestly believe that kids never backtalk anyone
@@JustinAdamson270 some people defy their parents for the wrong reasons...
But its rare for someone to defy their parents abuse.
Cuz those kinds of parents brainwashes their children to the point the child cant even make a decision without being CONSTANTLY anxious of what their parents might feel 😒.
The mother is the last person to talk about “family loyalty” when she’s the adulterer, ruining someone else’s marriage and disregarding Ops feelings about this, there’s over a billion people in the world and she chose a man with a kid that bullies Op.
"Her relationship was more importat than the one with her daughter"
All I feel is revulsion towards the "mother". WTF??
You'd be surprised how many people like that exist in this world, I personally know three.
Daughter is mad she's not getting her way so she made up a story about suing her mom she'd be laughed out of court
@@JustinAdamson270Maybe That's THE OP MOTHER'S HERE GUYS!
This account is defending OP Mother obsessively 😂
@@MeiaBombaofc because she did nothing wrong my childhood was worse than someone picking on me
@@JustinAdamson270 it is not the fact she was "picked on", but the fact that the one person one should be able to confide in chose their own happiness over that of their child, so what that your childhood was worse than this, that doesn't excuse you from being shitty, if anything, i pitty the fact your childhood was so shitty you chose to defend a person that reminds you of your tormentor, go see a shrink instead
I wouldn't be surprised if the bully started bullying after the rumors about her father and OP's mother spread. I've heard a lot of bullies act that way due to family issues. So I wouldn't be surprised if her mother caused her to get bullied in the first place.
Most bullies actually just copy their parents who are bullies themselves. The trope that bullies do so to act out and vent is mostly a myth, only some do this and they grow out of it and generally feel remorse, the rest never feel remorse as they are just mean people.
@@RexhunterjYeah, but the fact the bully went out of her way to target op indicates that it was due to the affair.
@@Rexhunterjno they don't stop making shit up to coddle a kid mad she's not the center of the world
@@Rexhunterjand how would you know it's a myth you clearly have no clue what you're talking about
And that would be the reason her mom never told her the standard 'theyre just jealous' 'theyre just having a hard time at home' shit. Because imagine saying that about your boyfriends daughter when You're the hard time at home. Too much cognitive dissonance.
OP should've add defamation to the case as her so-called "mother" and her money bag started spreading hate about her in social media during the process.
She 100% did or else she probably wouldn't have gotten that big of a summ.
@@65kasarait's fake
Also can't sue for defamation because she's not successful enough to be defamed family talking shit on social media isn't a crime and she doesn't have a case
@@JustinAdamson270Defamation doesn't have a success clause and defamation is defined as false statements that injure a 3rd parties reputation so spreading hate and lies on social media could 100% be used as defamation if they were done intentionally to harm her reputation.
@@kcnichols8968 In almost every jurisdiction defamation does have a de facto 'success clause' because compensation is based on damages.
You know whats sad. The mom might have been able to save the relationship with her daughter, or at least avoided the law suit by admitting she was wrong and apologizing.
That's the funny part.
@mgntstr Yep. In the same way at the end of Batman Arkham 2 Bat; "You know what's funny, after everything you did, I was still going to save you.."
Joker: "That actually IS pretty funny. HAHA..."
Don't you know that it's scientifically proven that it's impossible for a mom to admit her own faults? In all seriousness though, the fact she's surprised at all that this happened is Ludacris, I wouldn't be surprised if her daughter wants her dead at this point
I wouldn't be surprised if the mom started cheating while the dad was alive. Or maybe being a single parent made her hate her daughter. Also its funny how the mom thought op woild just be okay with all of this.
I heard this one before and that that the mom and rich boyfriend broke up. Because his reputation took a hit and he blamed the mom for it.
Could you provide a source? I'd really like to read that.
Oh shit! I want to read that update too. Please provide.
A cheating POS decides to dump a fuck buddy because everyone knows he's a POS? Not a surprise. His affair and divorce were likely kept quiet.
Heh! Screw them both!
I need that info too
The fact that the mom basically tried to get the bully to re-bully her own daughter into submission is wild.
Bruh, choosing a relationship with a man whose child bullies your child, over your own daughter who you raised and birthed, clearly the mother here was in deep desperation for a man and would be willing even to compromise her own priorities with her daughter just to keep this man around. I tell you, some of these people are just pure evil.
Yep. Honestly there are billions of men in this world and she chose the dad of her daughters bully the moment she found out that the dad was the person who bullied her daughter she should have ended it in milliseconds, end of the story. I hope OP has a happy life and I hope the mother tries to reach out just for OP to slam the door in her face
"i don't want to ruin my relationship with her because I have no other family to speak of.."
Love you have NO family to speak of. That woman never was your family. She certainly didn't consider You to be family.
Makes me want to sue my mom for emotional distress but I don’t have any evidence + I’ve forgotten so much from that time of my life. I knew that you could sue for stuff like this but you never see mention of it much so I thought it was one of those “legally you can but it won’t go anywhere” type things. If I knew it would go somewhere I probably would have collected SO much evidence when I was younger
The fact that OP actually won is probably a combination of how bad things were and the fact that the bullying happened in public so there were witnesses. Plus her mother was going out with a married man, and no one likes a marriage-wrecker.
Then OP had a panic attack after meeting the father and ended up in the hospital, so there's documentation of real distress caused by all of this. Perfect storm for the lawsuit. If it had all happened at home she would probably have lost.
The thing that sucks about so much of this stuff is that it's only in hindsight you realize documentation would have been invaluable
I feel the same towards my own mom and I am sorry you had to experience that 😭😞
😢 Same here. I go to therapy.
@@hansb.jaeyni8230it's fake you can't sue for emotional distress just because you didn't get your way
Because this is a fake story and you cant sue your parents cause they didnt stop your school bullies. There is a reason why you dont see these type of court cases outside of tv/reddit.
I am grateful for my mom. back in elementary i got wacked in the face and she immediately went to the school. Infront of me, the bully, my mom and the guidance councilor. My mother said i should punch the bully in the face to let him know how it feels to be punched. The guidance councilor was against this but my mother told that they allowed the bullying to happen in their supervision so that is why they should be held accountable and guess what the councilor was convinced then i clenched my fist and swung the hardest i can. I came home smiling that day knowing that my mom was a badass i wont forget how my hand was injured being cut by his teeth but damn i was happy.
Your mom is an inspiration, and a genius for giving you a chance to get your two cents in the way she did😂
Never happened just like the video
@@gratedradish6699 If I had that mindset every time my best bud told me a story, most of them would be lies. But he ain’t no liar
My mom always said I better never start a fight. But I better make damn sure I finish it.
Your mom is amazing.
Dude.... I really appreciate you choose other stories aside from cheating scandal. This kind of justice winning that doesn't involve ruining someone life is pretty nice lol.
I recommend the pro revenge, petty revenge, or malicious compliance for some "justice served" story.
yea those are the best.the wife or husband or bf or gf or fiancee cheated on me are very boring.the ones with absive parents and justice served stories are best
Good for OP. Its not only about the money. Its to teach people a lessons that action has consequences and they can even come years later
I do agree with with the mom that was wrong but at the end of the day she should not be suing her over something that happened years ago
@@malikwillis05 she was bullied for years. She still has trauma and her mom doesnt seem to regret or apologize.
@@malikwillis05 why not? nothing wrong with holding someone accountable for their wrong doing, no matter how long ago it was.
now it would be one thing if the mother was remorseful and realize how wrong what she did was. but that's not the case. she didn't see anything wrong with what she did, no remorse whatsoever. so if it's a lawsuit that's needed to hold her accountable then that's the right course of action.
otherwise people like the mom never learn that actions have consequences.
not to mention that the mother sounds like an overall despicable human being. spreads lies about her daughter, doesn't care about her daughters well-being, is a homewrecker. I'd even argue she got off way better than she deserves.
@@cipher5150 she never lied and at the end of the day destroying his marriage was on him she even said she didn't even give her bully or her family a chance people change over time. She said it's been over 7 years. At some point you got to move on
@@mejimiky at some point you have to move on
That 'Mom' is going to find herself in a nursing home all alone. Her BF will probably cheat on her and once Dad moves on, Bully will drop her like a hot potato. Forget ever meeting any future partners or children her actual daughter may have.
trust me she will find her "daughter" and demand she take care of her.
i wouldn't be satisfied with that kind of revenge but im glad the OP is satisfied and will live her life peacefully away from these trash excuses of human beings.
I would. It's not about making money, it's about punishing the mom's betrayal.
@@RequiemPoete yea but does she even feel punished by paying 50k though?
@@kingkongaintgotshitonemejudging from the way that they’re apparently acting on social media, calling her ungrateful and all that, I think it was mainly a matter of hurting their pride. Not only did they pay a really good lawyer just to do this, but they wound up losing and now everyone knows they got their comeuppance too.
I suppose it would have been satisfying if they were also forced to pay a ton of money, but that’s about that. I doubt that she’d have been able to come away with that much more depending on how good the opposing lawyer was.
@suikahe1856 I mean 50k. Depending on when the judge ordered her to pay up by, might force the "mom" to sell their house, or other possessions.
@@kingkongaintgotshitonemewtf are you talking about I was bewildered by the 50k I thought at most she would be getting 5k 50 is amazing
Bully really thinks that forgiving a parent for cheating is the same as the betrayal by your own mom.
It is.
@@Mytelefe cheating is an act of betraying a partner
@@penguinpingu3807 ... and your entire family which you break apart by doing so...
go ask anyone whos parents got divorced or fought endlessly because of infidelity if they think it had nothing to do with them and they don't feel like one of their parents betrayed them by prioritizing their selfish desires by cheating.
What is next if one of the parents goes and commits some premeditated unnecessary crime just for the thrill of it and gets put in jail then it shouldn't be counted as abandoning/betraying/not taking into account your family because they didn't do anything bad directly to them ?
What if there is domestics violence in the house does it not count as something that charms children as long as they do not directly beat up their kids ?
Glad to hear OP is feeling good because I'm fuming.
The complete lack of introspection is just insane. *Never* let that woman back in your life, OP.
as someone who was severely bullied, so i know what it’s like firsthand, this makes me sick to my stomach. i can’t imagine someone doing something so disgusting and trying to justify it
Justice well deserved.
Raised by a golddigger, then gets gold from the dig site and the digger herself as revenge. Good for OP, hope she gets to live the rest of her life loved and cared for!!
I’m so glad that OP sued her narcissistic mother. More people should sue their parents for abusive behavior.
This is incredibly sad. I want to give OP a hug.
When they said that they won I reflexively put my arms up in cheer.
Bullying is serious. It can absolutely ruin someone's life. The fact that the mom is trying to say that it's not a big deal just shows that she cares more about herself.
I nearly punched my phone about 100 times watching this. This is a sorry excuse of a mother
if you can't put your children first don't have them,period
@@runeingebretsen8378 yeah and I don’t give a rats ass if you want to get laid. The well-being of your child should come before your need to fuck
A mother that doesn't stand up for their kids, isn't a mother at all, I'm glad OP won her case.
Those social media posts after losing the lawsuit are stupid. OP could have been "Justice was served as 'Mom' allowed me to be bullied for years because of her affair with the bully's father."
Makes me wish I could get back at some of the terrible foster parents I had
CPS should get involved about the 14 year old too.
I’m not only sue the mom for what she did, I would sue the boyfriend and the bully just to really be petty. I know a lot of people would say oh well, the bully would’ve moved on, but no, her father knew what was going on and didn’t do anything and he could’ve started it anytime as OP said, but he chose to let the princess hurdle P very badly so I’d say hey guess what actions have consequences I hope you got 50 K in your account!
I'll be honest I wouldn't be surprised if they bully was targeting OP specifically because she found out her dad was cheating with OP's mother. Obviously that wouldn't make it acceptable but it would certainly have made more sense.
@@rabbitguts2518 I never thought of it that way. It could explain why she was more vicious than anyone else but still if she was in on it and knew that she was hurting her that I definitely say she is liable criminally for it and also financially if OP did decide to sue.
You didn’t have a mother. You had an egg donor.
and she didn't have a brain either,she could have told the principal or cps that she lived in constant fear at school and home because of the bully.
@@runeingebretsen8378 💀 You kinda lackin a brain too yk? Her mother was the only one in her life that she feel close to, and also she did asked the one she only trusted her whole life "her mother" for help.
Knowing her mother rejected cuz she said "were poor... We cant make any more troubles.." she felt unsure of it, making her not reach out to others who can actually help her.
Please think, before you type.
@@Mellow502 ok einstein,it's normal for people to seek help from others,when your mother is indifferent,but that depends on how the mother said it,was it a suggestion or a threat.
@@runeingebretsen8378
You missed my point bruh 😒. i never said it wasn't normal to ask someone for help, i was explaining what MADE her to shut herself to others around her.
Also it was a suggestion, the mother suggests her daughter to just "deal with it/ cope" instead of giving the daughter her needs of the mother's emotional support, which concludes to her having the thought of "no one will help me", shutting in and decreasing her chances of getting mental help.
I feel off my chair celebrating that she won I’m so happy about it
Both of my divorced parents did the same thing with their partners. Never truly forgave them
How sad, when the parent cares more about money then their own family
really funny hearing all the "you'll regret cutting off your family" when i'm someone who knows from experience that you can just build your own.
my only immediate family that i have is my mom and dad since my relatives are all overseas, and over the years my found family has grown to include my godmother, her boyfriend, her son and his wife (and her parents), and even a friend of hers from the gym who let us go to his cottage for free for many years because he was lonely there.
your family, the one that you love, don't have to be the ones you're the most similar to genetically. i'm glad this woman got some form of compensation for this bullshit. i can't imagine having a parent that explicitly did not support me while i was being bullied and all for cash.
How could her own mother do that to her. At least some justice was served by even through the scars will probably stay with op for a long time
and people wonder why schools shootings happen.
That explains why that disgusting mother did that. She had an affair with a married man. Glad that "thing" lost
and why did she tell the bully she forgave her,i would have told her she made my childhood a living hell and i will never forgive her and that i hate her forever.
alright so i'm gonna take a look at the crystal ball. OP's mom is basically dating a cheater who most likely will cheat on OP's mom in the future and then come crawling back to OP for forgiveness. just my prediction
Close, but not quite.
Nah, he dumped her after people recognized him as a POS for his hand in ruining OP's life.
@@Olimar92So she came crawling back at OP? 😂
Good for this woman! When that doctor dumps the 304 she will have no one and the daughter will not be there for her. Hope there's an update 6 months or so later
I think about my own childhood and about all the bullying I received (mainly elementary and middle school - high school I grew a bit of a backbone) and how all the support I got was basically just “you should fight back” or “you should tell the teacher” and finally pawning me off on the school’s counselor (who was a very nice lady that had absolutely no power to do anything for me - yeay public schools in the 90s!).
When OP talked about crying herself to sleep and hiding out in random places in the school it really had me thinking about my own stuff and I empathize with her so much. My parents had more of an indifferent attitude than OP’s Mom - so it always felt like I had no support whatsoever and that i simply had to “take it” when I got bullied. (This caused me to have some pretty terrible coping mechanisms and attachment issues - but thats for another time).
But when it was shown that not only was the mother actively telling OP to “not cause trouble” and “learn to get along” or whatever - she was fully aware of the main bully because she was fucking his Dad?! How many years was she being actively bullied while she was screwing the Dad?!
My heart hurts for this woman.
The OP’s mom needs to be paying 50k / MONTH instead of just the one payment.
The mom tried to justify that valuing her boyfriend over her daughter was "normal", when I have to agree with that. Society has withered so much that people value themselves over the safety of their own children and it's disgusting.
NTA!! I don't know if you should or shouldn't sue your mother. I don't really know much about legal requirements for that sort of suit. What I DO know is that you need to cut ties with her. She's NOT your mother. She just the woman who gave birth to you. That woman is selfish and self-centered, willing to sacrifice your mental health and well-being on the altar of happiness. Screw her!
When I was fourteen, my mom started dating a horrible woman. She would steal my clothes (we were the same size) and when I complained my mom said nothing at first. I had a period of observation in a business to do and my then step mom offered to help, I slept on the floor because she had not planned a mattress (even blowup would have been fine) and she had no couch because she lived in a small studio. After a year of dating, my mom gathered my siblings and I and asked if we liked her girlfriend and I think we all aired our grievances there. My sister also had a hard time with the woman but I don't remember what, my brother had silly reasons based on the feeling of "forever losing dad" which we were not, as it was also the time our dad came back around to see us more and reconnect. I was just very mad about my favourite turtle t-shirt and the "report" on the observation week that was not mandated by the school back then (it's now part of the curriculum now decades later) but that the step mom asked me to do without any kind of guidance. This was also just as the Internet was taking off, in the mid 2000s so I had no idea that I could find stuff there aside from my fanfiction websites, forums to speak about music and MSN for private messaging. My mom started to cry and said that she was afraid of all of this because she loved our then step mom and we all ended up hugging.
A month later, my mom announced us we wouldn't be seeing step mom again. It had lasted a whole year but we were all relieved. She explained that she realised her children should always come first and she actually spoke to her about the stolen clothes and found her wearing it when she went at her studio appartment on a weekend we were at our dad's place and the argument broke out : turns out that the step mom had been complaining about us all the time, how we always came first and never her, how she never prioritised her children over her relationships. When my mom had rightfully pointed out that the step mom's children were in their late teens and early twenties, adults having left the nest and that you cannot ask the same of children who were between 11 and 15 years old then, the step mom had started slandering us and the wool over my mom's eyes had come off.
That woman prioritising her relationship over her child's wellbeing is absolutely bonkers and make me realise that despite all her flaws and all the pain for a year of having this horrible hag around, my mom did the right thing in the end even if it only was apparently at the end that she had been listening to us a little more than the person she said then she was in love with.
Like father, like daughter. The bully learned from her own father , to be a bully. I’m so happy and grateful I had at least 1 loving parent.
Yes, it's a shame kids aren't grateful that their parents are home wreckers who let their affair partners' kids bully their kids, especially in this situation. I mean, it isn't everyday that a widow snags a rich, married man. Her mom worked hard to sleep her way into a pot of gold, wreck someone's marriage and destroy their kids' lives, and all OP can think about is herself, and her well-being. So selfish OP. Do better.
(This sentence is for all the people who need to be told that the above is sarcasm.)
Kinda wish OP would use those social media posts as fodder for a defamation and intentional infliction of emotional distress case.
So…take that money and sue all 3 of them for defamation for their social media posts…
why she never told the principal or cps is beyond me.
Waiting for the update about when OP’s mom shows up at her doorstep like a kitten, wanting to ‘reconcile’ in her old age or when she becomes a grandmother 😂
Cats will do this thing where they will abandon their kittens in order to protect themselves. Really sad when I see people acting like animals
At least Cats have a reason. This monster of a mother didn't. She only cared about herself when she had the means of protecting her daughter. With cats they either all die, or just the kittens die. Key thing, cats leave when they can't protect their kittens.
@@Olimar92Animals tend to just adopt certain behaviours. The only reason abandoning the young stuck is because those that didnt didnt live to pass that onto others.
Incompetent parents however dont get weeded out like before
You don't win 50k unless there's too much truth to fight. I applaud the audacity of OP's "mom" for trying to spin it the other way though.
If that isn't karma, I don't know what is. OP's mom chose her own love life over protecting her daughter from menacing bullies. The moral high ground, finger-wagging types are usually the biggest hypocrites. She was literally sleeping with the enemy. The audacity to call her own daughter immoral when she was the one who broke up a marriage is just dumbfounding. I guarantee you her mother, her mother's boyfriend and the boyfriend's horrible daughter will play the victim to anyone who will listen for the rest of their lives. Now all OP can do is live her best life possible. That is truly best kind of revenge.
Sadly, parents who put their own personal interests and selfish desires over the welfare of their children is quite common. I knew a lady much like OP's mother. Let's call her let's call her Sally. Sally was what we now refer to as a stereotypical common garden variety Karen. She never worked or maintained employment long enough for to make a dent in her finances, but she always had her hair done, her nails done, a full pack of cigarettes and booze in the fridge. She neglected her children to the point that criminal charges should have been pressed.
I distinctly remember when her youngest, her son, his teeth were rotting out of his head because she let him eat whatever he wanted and never made him brush his teeth. She would lament how she couldn't afford to get him proper dental care but suspiciously always had money to blow at the beauty parlor. Her daughter who was older by seven years (different fathers), had just started getting her "monthly visitor” and had to embarrassingly go bum feminine hygiene products off of the neighbor's wife. Again, Sally's excuse was she couldn't afford to get her daughter what she needed to deal with the new factor in her life. Yet Sally always had a full carton of cigarettes and a bottle of booze in the fridge.
To make an already long story much shorter, I cut contact with Sally a decade ago. Flash forward to the last few years where I heard through the grapevine, Sally's children have understandably put their mother on a low-information diet to the point of grey rocking her and have barred her from seeing her grandchildren. I also heard that, unsurprisingly, Sally plays the victim to anyone who will listen and wonders "what went wrong” with her life, how her “ungrateful” children could stop talking to her, etc. Sheesh! Talk about no introspection whatsoever. Sally has made her bed of nails and now she has to lie on it.
Stories like these make me frateful for my family. Theyre normal, kind and affectionate people. No way my mom, or dad, would let me get bullied.
Awesome ending!! This could make a good short film. There was some interesting twists and turns in the story. 🙏🏽☺
Mom: I'll date this married man.
Also Mom: I'll let his daughter emotionally and physically abuse mine.
Hm. I see.
I’m dubious you can win a lawsuit like this in just two-three months.
What else do you expect from a homewrecker.
She should have told mom that to be ungrateful, she must have done something that would warrant gratefulness
Im so happy for OP
Parents are such enemies that you can’t even fight she was really strong for doing the right thing I personally couldn’t able to do it my family ruined my life and ruined my mental state but I just move on sometimes I just look back and wish that I shouldn’t be born alas you can’t control so people having segg what miserable life we all live in
7:56 yeah, i’m disowning that woman. never come back . just know that to your dad you were everything .
I dont felt that it will end there. Without any restraining order, that fake mother will try to enter her life again when she had a baby.
Waiting for the inevitable sequel
If she ever contacts you again, end every other sentence with: "At least I am not a Homewrecker."
Money can't buy happiness, but poverty sure does invite misery and stress.
I didn't know you could sue for this!
I'm glad she's sued her backstabbing, gold digging mom, but what about suing the bully?
Right?
Since this happened in school, the bully was a minor, good luck suing a minor for saying a few mean words almost a decade ago that an overly sensitive girl claims caused her panic attacks and requires therapy.
@@Triplebrc "Overly sensitive"? Are you saying that OP was just being drastic? Please clarify.
@@CuteDwarf11 Not necessarily for suing the mother and breaking off contact, I can kinda get that given that she lied to her for almost a decade, but certainly for claiming to needing therapy and having panic attacks years afterwards though when the so called bullying was basically limited to elementary school level name calling like "huehue your pants are a bit too short slendy". Such people have never experienced what real bullying is actually like, I have, and believe me, the people who suffered from it would have given their right arm to only having to deal with some childish mockery in school or online.
@@Triplebrc For all we know, the bullying she endured was worse than the things she mentioned; she did say that the bullying escalated to borderline homicidal which she couldn't talk about, leading to why she needed therapy. Also, her mother is a self centered narcissist.
3:53 "Oh. It's you." -GLaDOS
That voice line is all I can think about right here.
😢 beautiful ending. Truly a hallmark movie classic 😬🍿
50k only? It should be 50 million since her mom's boyfriend is that rich!
She had to pay her lawyer?! The bill should have went to the mother who lost the case. You shouldn't have to pay for being right.
State laws or sge just wanted to pay him for his help
wonder what would happen if just gave demonic snicker everytime he was called "slenderman"
Yeah this story doesn't sound real
As if filing an emotional law suit is that easy
Let alone winning it
Why didn’t she sue the bully too?
With OPs family continuing the drama the second lawsuit will be for deformation of character.
Op's mother has truly thrown away morals and dignity for money bank and her security
Her boyfriend will leave her and then she'll have nobody and try to crawl back to OP. I hope that update comes soon LOL
I would add another sue for slander.
Damn, you really have to fail as a parent for your own kids to sue you damn
i would have told the principal and cps,and gotten out of both places as fast as possible.
Now that’s a good ending. I felt for OP
OP to the bully: So, your money is now my money. Suck it up.
Their mom is a terrible person, I hate her!
You know you can sue them for Defamation and slander and get MORE from them; That seems to be the only thing they care about, so take it from them
if they keep talkin' lies, she should also sue for defamation
the full time i just wanted someone to call out her mom and tell her she was a HORRIBLE mother if you could even call her that
every kid deserves to have a parent but people like her mother don't deserve to have kids
Enough internet for today
I could NEVER put a man above my own daughter. Anyone who puts their partner above their own child shouldn’t be a parent because they’re not a good one.
Op, I were in your shoes, I would’ve complained anyway. There never a point in putting up with someone else’s bullshit!
While I do agree that a parent’s happiness is very much important, that is no longer the case when the parent’s happiness costed their own child’s wellbeing.
I can't believe the melodrama of this. It's all ridiculously over-the-top 😂🤣
and it's not just she didnt defend her ... the bully probably start BECAUSE the mother was the homebreaker ...
'Sordid' is the operative word here.
People like to do one thing pick sides only. The best thing to do was to hear everyone side, bet no body know what really happened.
She sacrificed her first born for relationship who's offspring is the one tormenting the first born.
Wow, she really did her revenge against her egg donor (because such a B isn't allowed to be called "mother" at all).
why is bullys allowed to bully unchecked at schools,where are the g damn cameras.
There's nothing to sue for - by the OP's own admission she never actually reported the bullying so there is no record of it.
You can't build an entire case entirely on hearsay arguments.
There is evidence so she can sue
I betcha that 50k is coming from the bully daughter inheritance 😂