Storytime: single mom moving to Texas w/ no plan, a fresh start 💙

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @justsaynoe
    @justsaynoe 11 месяцев назад +61

    I’m a single mom of twins & I literally packed up and moved from FL to HTX in August . I don’t regret it & the girls love it here … continued blessings for you & your family 🤎

    • @ladydede88
      @ladydede88 10 месяцев назад +1

      How are you like Htx

    • @kensyroland-so3dc
      @kensyroland-so3dc 10 месяцев назад +1

      any advisse for me im a mother also i would lik to move to another state can you please help

    • @justsaynoe
      @justsaynoe 10 месяцев назад

      @@ladydede88I love it no regrets

    • @justsaynoe
      @justsaynoe 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@kensyroland-so3dcfirst and foremost take your time, get settled and comfortable, then start exploring not only entertainment for the kids but you. I have a babysitter so I can have free time and just know it’s ok if you get lonely your friends and family are just a call, plane or ride away

    • @missmaam3765
      @missmaam3765 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@justsaynoehow did u find a sitter you trusted?

  • @Rintheruler
    @Rintheruler 11 месяцев назад +31

    “You learn to make home where you are” 🥺❤️

  • @bellabells1486
    @bellabells1486 8 месяцев назад +17

    I’m moving to htx in 6 weeks and these videos inspired me!

    • @LovinnCay
      @LovinnCay 7 месяцев назад

      Me too

    • @KarambaSylla-tx1jt
      @KarambaSylla-tx1jt 4 месяца назад

      I looking good
      Are you a single girl

    • @KarambaSylla-tx1jt
      @KarambaSylla-tx1jt 4 месяца назад

      You are looking good are you a single girl

    • @MariA-jh1tr
      @MariA-jh1tr 2 месяца назад

      Stop moving here, WE FULL.

    • @Mariposaass
      @Mariposaass Месяц назад

      @@MariA-jh1trlol😂definitely full already 😭

  • @s.lashay24
    @s.lashay24 11 месяцев назад +31

    Coming from someone who’s from your hometown baby I’m so proud of you. Your growth is truly amazing. You look so much happier. You are thriving. Keep going mamas. We love you.

  • @n1kaylaap
    @n1kaylaap 11 месяцев назад +16

    Keep going Lani! I don’t have any kids but the way you carry yourself through adversity is truly admirable. Keep your head up 💕💕

  • @brieey400
    @brieey400 5 месяцев назад +6

    I felt that when you said, “You get a new narrative when moving to a new state”
    I got set up by my friends & they spread rumors about me to make it look like I’m a “freak” or “nasty” & that’s what a lot of people my age say when mentioning my name.🙄

  • @livbutifully2801
    @livbutifully2801 11 месяцев назад +5

    I’m so proud of you Loni. I’ve been watching you for years. You’re my little sister in my head. I’m 32, but I love to check in to see how you and my niece & nephew are doing, I can’t wait until April, because that’s when I’m leaving my home town. You go girl I’m super proud.❤

  • @achillesH.E.A.L
    @achillesH.E.A.L 8 месяцев назад +9

    I have been STRUGGLING! Vascilating since my oldest was 20 to move. All the fears settled in. I appreciate you Lani. I stayed until my gma passed and felt from God that was a "release" for me since I was her primary caregiver. I am suffocating here in my hometown. Toxic situationship, amd there is purely nothing here for me. I am uncomfortably comfortable, because I at least have job here. I fear taking my boys from their dad. However, they are in high school and live with him to school (for the past 2 months). Long and short, thank you for this. I busted into tears. I dunno anyone reliable in Houston Area, so it would be just me. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Richgirlshana305
    @Richgirlshana305 8 месяцев назад +11

    I know this video is not by accident I’m ready to move I’m Florida. It’s just me and my 2 yr old toddler. Single mom not easy but I feel like my time is up here. Just waiting for new beginnings.

    • @asyiantv3723
      @asyiantv3723 6 месяцев назад +2

      Girl why are we literally the same 😂. I’m ready to get out of Broward so bad, I’ve just outgrown Florida and am so ready to go somewhere else

    • @kamilhickley2004
      @kamilhickley2004 2 месяца назад

      @@asyiantv3723I feel you on that I’m ready to get out of the area in Florida I’m also and a single mom of an 11 yr old she’s homeschooled and have been since Covid

    • @cmediainterviews
      @cmediainterviews Месяц назад

      I’m ready too! Maybe we should connect!

  • @eboniec9535
    @eboniec9535 11 месяцев назад +5

    I needed to hear this, I'm looking to move from my small hometown in AL and have been wanting things to be "perfect" first but I love what you said about "choosing your hard" & I'd much rather take my chances in a new city. 😁 Best of luck to you & your children in TX!!💜🥰

  • @melb7174
    @melb7174 6 месяцев назад +4

    Yessss finally been waiting on this day!!! WELCOME TO TEXAS BABY!! 🥰🥰💜💜💜

  • @SYp958
    @SYp958 11 месяцев назад +2

    I’ve been following you for a couple of years now and I must say I’ve been very impressed with your open honesty about your life. Congratulations! I hope the next chapter of your life will be very productive. You are a great mother and you’re doing a phenomenal job taking care of your children. Be very careful who you let in your friend circle. You are very pretty and jealous and envy sometimes is hard to spot. Be careful!

  • @HawaiiR
    @HawaiiR 11 месяцев назад +3

    I started watching your YT maybe a year ago & you seem to have such a beautiful light & spirit ❤ I admire your determination as a young mom. Many blessings to you & your babies!

  • @dejaon444
    @dejaon444 6 месяцев назад +4

    I’m from Florida as well & want to move to another area or state for new beginnings and cheaper cost of living. My only guilt is taking my daughter away & not having the support.

  • @GetSlappedPlease
    @GetSlappedPlease 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love the entire look for this video. The hair, the makeup , the shirt, the accessories , the lashes, just everything.

  • @guardthegoat5925
    @guardthegoat5925 11 месяцев назад +5

    Rooting for you ! You got this !

  • @julieboops
    @julieboops 10 месяцев назад +1

    Omg girl I’m so proud of you, sometimes it’s so hard to get out of your comfort zone especially when you’re going through a lot. You’re so inspiring like this really brought tears to my eyes because I see so much of myself in you. Congratulations and Happy New Year! This year is going to be filled with so many blessings for you. ❤

  • @Confection_Academy
    @Confection_Academy 3 месяца назад +1

    Your caption is my EXACT story!

  • @jjackson2402
    @jjackson2402 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love this! You came through with a message.

  • @destinyfaith5254
    @destinyfaith5254 11 месяцев назад +2

    I’m so happy for you ! Been watching you since I was 16 years old and I’m now 22 years old with a 6 months old ❤ keep going for your babies, I don’t stay in HTX but I went to college out there for a while… take the babies to franklin drive thru safari 😊

  • @keemasfabshab4257
    @keemasfabshab4257 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your story! You are so brave! This inspired me. ❤

  • @akane65
    @akane65 6 месяцев назад +1

    We’re thinking about moving to Texas from TN, we want to start fresh but at the same time we already know it’s gonna be so hard to leave our home and area bc that’s where we’ve been almost forever 😢 but my family talked that it honestly would be a better move bc for all of our well being and happiness

  • @ayeasten
    @ayeasten 11 месяцев назад +1

    i been here for years and i just gotta say , i’m soooo fucking proud of you. that’s the comment. that’s it ❤

  • @SimplyBrinny
    @SimplyBrinny 7 месяцев назад

    This video was so helpful as a single mom planning to move from my small hometown and I related with so many of your reason's why! Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @melaniek.breatherelaxmedit2271
    @melaniek.breatherelaxmedit2271 4 месяца назад

    Welcome to Texas! Plan on moving to Houston from Dallas. Congrats on the baby. Loved your videos when i was not in a great place while accepting raising my baby on my own. So, again, WELCOME! 💕

    • @TraceyTyson-yo3fb
      @TraceyTyson-yo3fb 3 месяца назад +1

      I'm moving to Dallas from Houston. Is there a reason why you're relocating to Houston

  • @katchrist_
    @katchrist_ 6 месяцев назад +3

    We should create a small group of like minded individuals, single mothers who move from a different state

  • @Nandito-Greatness
    @Nandito-Greatness 7 месяцев назад +3

    I want move out feel like more opportunities will open up for me and god want me to move Texas but my love is Florida don't mind taking chance on Texas

  • @Mariestallings0505
    @Mariestallings0505 11 месяцев назад

    Love this, you came through with a message ❤

  • @autumnonpurpose
    @autumnonpurpose 6 месяцев назад

    I love this! Moved to ATL Texas is on my radar now

  • @prfctdia
    @prfctdia 10 месяцев назад

    Ahhhhhhh, so proud of you ❤

  • @deavonte76
    @deavonte76 11 месяцев назад

    Hey love I'm so proud of you. You have always been a good mother and I love it. Wishing yall the best in Houston. I'm in atl but I'm thinking about moving there too.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @THATSOSTARRY
    @THATSOSTARRY 10 месяцев назад +2

    I just moved to TX too 🥳❤️

  • @TonyBurns-hd1pk
    @TonyBurns-hd1pk 7 месяцев назад

    Hi beautiful I just moved to Houston 5 months ago from AZ and I didn't know anyone here but I love it here have not met anyone yet but I am good love your story you are truly gorgeous beautiful baby ❤❤❤

  • @RavenL09
    @RavenL09 11 месяцев назад +2

    So very proud of you Lani ❤ I believe this was the best move for you, your mental state and your children! Love this for you guys! I know you’ve been here for a while but Welcome to Houston! So happy you are loving it so far! (Fellow Houstonian here lol)

  • @GetSlappedPlease
    @GetSlappedPlease 11 месяцев назад +1

    It’s really so much to you than just a person that had a baby young. That’s not even half of it tbh.

  • @tkkimble645
    @tkkimble645 4 месяца назад

    Great Job!

  • @sydneyjames7883
    @sydneyjames7883 5 месяцев назад

    I've been in Alabama ALL my life, I'm READY to leave!!!

  • @nakiyanj3806
    @nakiyanj3806 10 месяцев назад

    Yes I wanna move this is motivation ❤

  • @jaleesafreeman870
    @jaleesafreeman870 11 месяцев назад +2

    I’m 27 , single mother , I live in New York and just about everybody I know is planning to move south. I’m a postal worker and I put in a couple of transfers. This video is right on time for me! 😩💕

    • @ipourojinmyglass
      @ipourojinmyglass 11 месяцев назад +2

      why ? all yall do is complain how we don't have this or that & how "slow" it is

    • @ipourojinmyglass
      @ipourojinmyglass 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@jaleesafreeman870 nope we full stay up there in the big apple

    • @jaleesafreeman870
      @jaleesafreeman870 11 месяцев назад

      I said what I said. Happy New year.

    • @ipourojinmyglass
      @ipourojinmyglass 11 месяцев назад

      @@jaleesafreeman870 and i said what i said tf

    • @Maryah2.0
      @Maryah2.0 8 месяцев назад

      @@ipourojinmyglass lmao why so negative 😂

  • @alwaysherself4081
    @alwaysherself4081 11 месяцев назад

    you got this! trust god❤

  • @fionadeshotel5119
    @fionadeshotel5119 11 месяцев назад

    Welcome to da H!!! ❤️

  • @LakeyaDarden-iy6iq
    @LakeyaDarden-iy6iq 11 месяцев назад +7

    It was meant for me to see this video, it's now 2024.. Wow, congratulations. I also been feeling the same way. And I'm 36 with three kids and I'm so over it lol

    • @chassidylewis3473
      @chassidylewis3473 9 месяцев назад +2

      Who you telling...

    • @kddblove9773
      @kddblove9773 5 месяцев назад

      Same

    • @kddblove9773
      @kddblove9773 5 месяцев назад

      @@chassidylewis3473same

    • @LakeyaDarden-iy6iq
      @LakeyaDarden-iy6iq 5 месяцев назад

      @@kddblove9773 hey, sis. I hope that the Father blesses you and your children to move. Love you and keep your head up, don't give up. keep pressing. Im proud of you although we haven't met in person and I don't know you and your children personally.

    • @LakeyaDarden-iy6iq
      @LakeyaDarden-iy6iq 5 месяцев назад

      @@chassidylewis3473 whoever wants to listen. Lol jk

  • @sydneyjames7883
    @sydneyjames7883 5 месяцев назад

    I love this video

  • @ayeeitssjordan8343
    @ayeeitssjordan8343 11 месяцев назад

    From Houston here ‼️‼️

  • @erikapg658
    @erikapg658 4 месяца назад +1

    Can you or anyone in the comments give any tips on how to move with small kids, looking for child care with no family to help or friends? I really need to leave my hometown.

  • @onetruway
    @onetruway 3 месяца назад +1

    HTX has been calling me

  • @aminutewithmaxx
    @aminutewithmaxx 11 месяцев назад

    Noooo… I just wanted to collaborate with you in FL📍 it’s okay I’m soo proud of the growth & change

  • @taghazoutmoon5031
    @taghazoutmoon5031 4 месяца назад

    How do you arrange for after school care and childcare when school is closed during holidays?

  • @Thatgirlinfaith
    @Thatgirlinfaith 7 месяцев назад

    I’m a single mom living in florida and i as well been talking about moving away. I’m a little nervous to leave my family. How have you managed that?

  • @kianaholland9775
    @kianaholland9775 6 месяцев назад

    I’m looking at this deciding if I want to randomly move to TX or Cali with my 2😩

  • @caleyaworld5157
    @caleyaworld5157 9 месяцев назад

    GREAT VIDEO

  • @_missraven
    @_missraven 11 месяцев назад

    Welcome to the H 🤘🏾

  • @jatonblackmon1224
    @jatonblackmon1224 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @TJohns-h7m
    @TJohns-h7m 11 месяцев назад

    I’m so happy I’m seeing this I literally left home a month ago with my daughter. It’s hard but it’s worth it😩

  • @DithsHauteSpot
    @DithsHauteSpot 10 месяцев назад +2

    Did you need the consent of your kids fathers before being able to move?

  • @destinyfaith5254
    @destinyfaith5254 11 месяцев назад +1

    Can we also get a makeup tutorial 😢 ?

  • @MelodieWashington-zu2kx
    @MelodieWashington-zu2kx 10 месяцев назад

    TRUST GOD in your journey each and everyday
    Please do not lower your up bringing raise by your parents standards for these no good guys
    Read your BIBlE daily
    Stay Focus
    You can make it by yourself
    You do not need a MAN to feel COMPLETE
    Enjoy!!! Enjoy!!! Your kids go along with your journey keep your kids very busy
    I am a elderly senior citizen giving some advice you will be okay stay busy
    Your a beautiful young lady
    Pray to God for your mate or husband
    Be specific when you pray especially when you want a Saved Man
    Your a complete package with your beautiful kids it’s awesome keep people out of your business at all times.
    I

  • @stormharden
    @stormharden 11 месяцев назад

    Ain’t watch yet but keep going.

  • @mariep.9767
    @mariep.9767 11 месяцев назад

    🙌🏼❤️

  • @kensyroland-so3dc
    @kensyroland-so3dc 10 месяцев назад

    what place you in on texas baby

  • @tamekadavis9051
    @tamekadavis9051 11 месяцев назад

    🙏🙏🙏😍

  • @TheOnlyBusinessModel
    @TheOnlyBusinessModel 7 месяцев назад

    17:17 made me click 🦋

  • @86Barbie03
    @86Barbie03 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow... i loved this for so many reasons. Thank you. ❤

  • @auriauri4682
    @auriauri4682 11 месяцев назад

    Prada u 🤍

  • @Denzelswife-rb7qz
    @Denzelswife-rb7qz 11 месяцев назад +1

    whats a nightlife job..and whos watching your baby?? everything is expensive and these single moms are banking on a youtube check....you have to be careful out here watch your surroundings...seek God with your whole heart

    • @jasminelynea
      @jasminelynea 10 месяцев назад

      Probably a bottle girl so like a waitress

  • @mybeautifullife9333
    @mybeautifullife9333 9 месяцев назад +2

    Some people like Texas with samll children some people don't...depends on your funds... its hard to get childcare or any assistance..must have a car because everything is far...and you need a ez tag sticker for the tolls..its a lot of low paying jobs

    • @Maryah2.0
      @Maryah2.0 8 месяцев назад +1

      Very encouraging 😂

    • @mybeautifullife9333
      @mybeautifullife9333 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Maryah2.0 this should be more encouraging I just packed all my things this week and I'm leaving Texas tomorrow morning lol 😂

    • @Maryah2.0
      @Maryah2.0 8 месяцев назад

      @mybeautifullife9333 where are you headed ? And will it be more affordable than Texas ?

  • @kjthegreat-dc9pl
    @kjthegreat-dc9pl 29 дней назад

    THIS IS VERY SELFISH YOUR BABY FATHERS CANT SEE THEIR OFFSPRING VERY MUCH RAAAAHHH YOU ONLY THOUGHT OF YOURSELF. I JUST SEEN ANOTHER WOMAN WHI HAD TI FIGHT TO MOVE ACROSS STATE AND THERE FATHERS WERENT EVEN IN THEIR LIVES. BUT SINCE YOU SPOKE ABOUT IT YOURS ARE. THIS IS A SELFISH MOVE NOT BLESSED BY GOD

  • @lexxsimone_
    @lexxsimone_ 5 месяцев назад

    loveeee this for you, we have so much in common 🫢🫶🏽💚

  • @ayeeitssjordan8343
    @ayeeitssjordan8343 11 месяцев назад

    From Houston here ‼️‼️