story time: making it through a toxic unplanned pregnancy
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Currently in tears because you guys literally believe in me when I constantly doubt myself. I love you Lani gang💕 the support never goes unnoticed.
🥹🥰 Lani Gang ♾️💕💕💕💕💕💕
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You’re an amazing woman and mother. I pray that your next partner will give you the love and respect you deserve❤️
Thank you so much for sharing 🤗. Stay strong. You are so beautiful in and out.
Be there or not.. even if you don’t need the child support, put the money in a savings account. That baby will grow up to go to college, a car, a class ring & etc… save the $. Don’t engage if you don’t want a baby sir.
exactly!
“When you see other people who have done it right…it’s sad, it’s triggering, and it hurts” sheeesh I felt that deep! You are not alone! So glad to see how far you’ve come. Only up from here ❤
But I also think you should still get that child support. He made a choice to have unprotected sex and to release into someone…this is what comes with it. Even if he’s not physical involved, he needs to pay.
I agree however, it takes two to tango… he knew what it takes to create a child, so I’m not gonna be the only one taking care of the child financially. He will be put on child support.
Ladies why risk your life to birth a child for these undeserving men? Why take on this lifetime of a commitment alone without these men being held accountable?
exactly
They’re not understanding this!!
THISS
The only option a woman has after an unplanned pregnancy is adoption. So why end a child's life if a man wants nothing to do with the child? Or why should a woman abandon a child in a toxic system?
Because of the stigmatization (that she promoted in this video) behind abortions and child support 🤦🏾♀️. Very sad.
I’m ngl, I felt the hurt throughout all of your vlogs when you were pregnant. I thought of you everyday because we were pregnant at the same time. I applauded you for pushing through & handling up for your babies. You’re definitely superwoman.🥹💕
I don’t shame women for putting a man on child support because I feel like if a man didn’t want a kid he would use protection or not have sex but I do feel like if a man doesn’t want anything to do with the kid just do your best doing it alone don’t force him because you and your child would be better off alone without someone who is like that
I made that mistake once and now I’m going to stay on birth control until I meet a man who wants to marry me and love me before I birth his child. It’s been traumatic raising a child from a toxic relationship. I’m fiercely protecting my womb now & im sorry you had to go through this again but you will get through it!
There is a bit of medical misinformation in this video that needs to be addressed. Having an abortion during the early stages of pregnancy is not an equivalent to “killing your baby”. Also, if a woman has an unwanted pregnancy, stigmatizing abortions has been the reason for a lot of women committing suicide and infanticide during postpartum periods.
Another thing I heard that sounds very crazy was the part about putting a child’s father on child support being the action of a “bitter” woman. That’s also stigmatizing women who need financial support for their children. If a man ejaculates into a woman’s body, he should be held accountable for the ramifications of that. If you don’t believe in abortions then how do you NOT believe in putting a father on child support? You did not create life on your own, love.
All in all, you’re still extremely young and I hope that your education as it relates to child care, motherhood and mental illness grows. I’m sorry you had a difficult pregnancy and I wish you and your children the very best in life 🫶🏾
Hi,
I would like to give a little clarification to what I said. In my opinion I am very PRO choice but I do feel like it is a baby from the very beginning.
I also stated that I do feel like as the mother has a choice to decide if she wants to keep the baby the father also has his choice. If he states he does not want to go be there, for my decision I wouldn’t put them on child support for the simple fact of you made it very clear from the beginning you wanted nothing to do with this child. I feel like this can differ depending on the mother and no mother is wrong. Whatever she decides. I can only state what I would’ve did being in that position. You didn’t create the life on your own but made the choice to continue the pregnancy by yourself.
You can’t force someone to be there. I also never said that makes you bitter. Child support doesn’t make a women bitter.
But thank you. Hope this can clear up the confusion.
Facts, put that man on child support. I don’t have kids at all but if I was in this situation he definitely would be on child support. Calling women “bitter” is a gaslighting tactic men like to use to absolve themselves of responsibility. This is why so many women end up single mothers because of absolving men of accountability and failing to see obvious red flags due to internalized misogyny
It's a life. That life matters just as much as yours.
It’s like killing your baby to many people it’s ok to have different beliefs system
Besides the “if a man tells you he don’t want a kid don’t put him on child support” part I agree! Although that may be true, he chose to lay down like the woman did unprotected. So if the woman decides to keep the baby if she gets pregnant then oh well. If you want to prevent the bs, use protection or stay abstinent. Period.
Love you Lani. Ladies DEAD THE SITUATIONSHIPS. Speaking from experience thank god a baby didn’t come from it but stop dealing with men that don’t want to commit don’t want to love you etc. I wasted a yr and a half and learned my lesson never again.
I’m sorry you went through that heartbreak at such a vulnerable time. GOD please strengthen Lani and heal her heart and let her know how much you love her.
😢 yes this was me my son is now 2 and I cried every night still struggling with doing everything alone
Being a woman is really hard. 😢 I pray that we all learn our worth and that we found what God purpose is for us❤ be encouraged Jesus God you lean to him
The end broke my heart! You are so worthy of love, thank you for sharing. Thank you for your transparency. Even though you had your baby, don’t think you have to constantly be strong. Let those tears out, remain faithful to the God that loves you. 🥺
Truly broke my heart too
Thank you for sharing your story. Literally went through a similar pregnancy. Going through pregnancy without your child father is rough, something I wouldn't wish on nobody. Despite the circumstance, I'm blessed to have my babygirl in my life. She makes it all worth it! ❤
Sorry you had to go through that 😢. I went through the same thing.
Thank God that you are still standing and you are where you are now. We would never judge you, thank you for the vulnerability. There are too many unplanned pregnancies that aren’t thought out but it’s great to see you on the other side of all you went through. You are loved🫶🏽
Girl, I’m proud of you! It’s time to learn from these mistakes, embrace your blessings and boss up! I know you’ll be the best mom ever for your two babies. Keep pushing❤️
Not that this makes a difference but you are a gorgeous gorgeous girl! I can’t believe how we allow ourselves to be treated sometimes. It happens to us all, unfortunately! You are not alone in this. Men can be so cold & evil but When it’s all said & done, you are not a fool for loving someone wholeheartedly and without limits.
The glow is real, your faith in God is real and will always get you through. Keep living and creating in your purpose Lani. 💗🙏🏾✨
Lani thank you for being so real and authentic with us and vulnerable enough to show us that video at the end because that is the exact way mothers be when they go through that but we don’t show that side because we want to be so strong all of the time but it’s okay to cry i’m so glad God brought you out and showed you that there was light at the end of that tunnel now look at you flourishing so beautiful your kids so beautiful you went through this to help young girls because you inspire that’s why you are a youtuber you speak and give life to others you are doing so amazing and you will have your husband one day and you are deserving of love the best kind God is already molding your husband right now and you as well and i can’t wait to see all of that Lani gang forever we all love you so much i know i do ❤️
Hey Lani I’m so happy to see you in this light. You look so happy! I’ve been following you since you were pregnant with your boy. Watching you made me feel like i was not alone when i went through my pregnancy alone in March 2023. My child’s father abandoned me. You gave me inspiration 😢when i was at my lowest and i just wanna say thank you for that ❤️. Keep going girl 💕. & congrats on your move to Houston! I’m glad you like it! I live out here as well. 😊
Well spoken and proud of you for sharing your story! 🥹 you were put on this platform for a reason to be the voice for others who may feel like they have no one. ♥️ May god continue to bless you, your heart, and your babies!
I'm sorry you went through that. You didn't deserve it. On the plus side, the heart ache did bring you a little angel. He's a blessing. Both of your beautiful children are blessings.
I went through this and she is my very first baby❤ it’s not a common experience but I’m glad to see how far you’ve come🤗 thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for this. Im going through this right now pregnant with my second child. I have a 3 year old and now pregnant by the same person. It was very toxic and I tried to make it work for my 3 year old. After all the mental abuse I finally found the strength to leave but once I left 2 weeks later I found out that I was pregnant again which put me in a depression. Once I told him I was pregnant he was okay with it thinking that just because I was pregnant that ment that we would be back together. Once I told him no just because I’m pregnant doesn’t mean that things will change he told me to get an abortion! I don’t have it in me to kill something Ive created so now I am doing this pregnancy alone!
but do yall ever think about the child? The child suffers in the end due your selfishness. YOU didn’t create anything and YOU can’t . You need a HELPER which is how it’s naturally designed to be. Moms be thinking their superhuman and I’m NOT trying to take away from single moms because yall do yall very best but doing your very best has NEVER raises the best child or even a listening respectful one at that.
@@DusaX_ when did I say that he wasn’t going to help??? Im not a single mom I just choose to be single and do my pregnancy alone. As I stated I already have a 3 year old with the same person and despite our differences he’s a great dad & I also have lots of support from his family as well as mines.. yes he wanted an abortion because nobody wants to have children and not be a family. But where did I state that he was not going to help regardless?? I choose myself I choose to be single because I want to , I choose to do my pregnancy alone because I want to! That’s not being selfish.. what’s selfish would be killing my child just cus I couldn’t have a dream family .. my 3 year old still has 2 loving parents and so will my unborn. Everything ain’t the perfect fairytale and it don’t always have to be
@@tanasiamonae help is NOT the full 1 on 1 with raising a child. Texting , calling, checkin up on a child is NOT raising a child, WEEKEND VISITS ***** cause them be having most mothers thinking he doing his duties now ALSO NOT RAISING THE CHILD. you didn’t sleep with your parents or the village I hope so when yall bring that up ONLY FURTHER LETS ME KNOW they was once needed cause im sure he didn’t and you couldn’t !!! Selfish is KNOWING you child needs both parents , knowing his dad only wanted he/she to be here if yall were together and you still CHOSE to birth that child hence the child already coming into a toxic of affairs. This same scenario is why a lot of black kids grow up the way we grow up and it’s so sad yall think it’s for the dream fairy tale cause it only shows black women think marriage is a dream fairy tale (probably because the vast minority of them have your mindset) so they’ll never have it but both parents in the house is a normal thing and the ONLY way it’s excused is if he pulls that bullshit AFTER the baby is born if he shows you his true colors BEFORE the baby is born yes ma’am you are selfish for birthing a baby who can only receive half love and love from people who didn’t help create them because the one that did kind of refuses to see the important of kids unless he had the mom.
@@DusaX_ girl you don’t know me 😂😂 you don’t know what he does , you don’t know what type of parent he is to even be trying to tell me anything honestly. Who ever said he was a weekend dad? Who said he only text and call?? Just because I don’t want to be with a person does not mean that they are not a father father! And that’s the problem. People like you think just because you have kids with someone you are supposed to stay where you don’t want to be. This is my decision. If it was up to him we would be together having our second child. He wasn’t a boyfriend he was my fiancé . He suggested an abortion because we both come from households and parents with 30 plus years of marriage. It was a discussion not a decision. I been with the same man for 10 years and have a 3 year old child with him already trust me honey I know what I’m dealing with. It looks like you got your own demons you need to clear up cus you so busy trying to comment on other people’s lives that you don’t know nothing about 😂 I want to be single because I want to!! I choose to separate because I want to . Not because I have to . Worry about yourself
@@DusaX_ like why even come comment on this lady’s video where she’s expressing herself to be negative.. Yu simply ain’t even have to watch it 😂 go deal with your own demons girl 🤦🏾♀️
Really sorry you had to go through this ,its so hard letting go of someone you've come accustomed to and leaving sees worse than staying ,which is why I empathize with everything your saying, at last you made it out so far ❤❤
Wow! I have so much admiration for you! ❤❤ YOU HIT THE NAIL IN THE HEAD with everything you said. Narcissistic abuse is the WORST. Love you girl 🎉
Thank you for this💗. I feel a lot less alone & misunderstood after hearing your story.
I was there the whole pregnancy and before and you have come such a long way, I always say I feel like a proud big sister keep shining Queen it’s only up from here and no you can look back at those videos and see how far you have come ❤❤❤
Girl the end had me crying at work!! So glad you got to the other side of this! I’m currently you at the end of this video. Can’t wait until I get to the other side
You had me in tears right with you! I truly admire you for posting that clip at the end of your video and I’m glad you made it through that. I’ve been watching your videos for years now and I enjoy seeing your growth. May all of God’s richest blessings bestowed upon you and your beautiful babies! You are doing an amazing job and don’t ever forget that! ♥️
Girllllll. Not me sitting here crying.
First and foremost, I love you girl all the way from Chicago. We were pregnant at the same time, I think you were a week before me so I’d watch you to see your symptoms and know kinda what to expect. I also had a solo pregnancy because I moved to GA away from everyone I know after finding out my bd had a baby on me. It was so lonely but we got through it. My baby is 11 months now and I’m literally just now feeling like myself. Postpartum was crazyyyyyy this time around. I’m so proud of us. Keep pushing babessssss. ❤️
I been watching since your first video. I noticed the energy and sadness through the screen. I knew you was fighting battles . Thank God you’re out of that situation . That mental abuse is so deep and crippling.
I really hate seeing you cry .
Saw that on her instagram feed, but never commented on it tho
@@LindaWilliams-xc5wc exactly
Thank you for sharing your story! Pray God continues to bless you and your kids❤
I definitely disagree and I’m a mom as well. I don’t care if a man says he don’t want my baby, you shouldn’t have laid down and had sex with me. You know the consequences of having sex, especially unprotected sex. If you don’t help, you will go on child support and child support doesn’t make you a bitter woman. Children are not cheap. If a man doesn’t want kids, he should get a vasectomy or not have sex. Sorry you had to go through all of this.
Child support definitely doesn't make a woman bitter. That's his kid. He should contribute.
Yes you both is definitely right! I disagree with her comment about not putting the father on CS if the mother chooses to raise the child on her own or if the father doesn’t want to be involved . I’m a mom as well and it takes 2 to make a child. The guy knows if he has unprotected sex with the female what can potentially happen. If the father doesn’t help or financially be there for the child he needs to be put on child support . Child support doesn’t make a mom bitter .. Raising a child is very expensive and it’s not right the mom has to deal with all the burden when the father is out here living his best life ! Absolutely NOT!! I feel that if a mother later comes back and put the father on CS maybe she is struggling taking care of the baby on her own. The father doesn’t get a choice if he wants to take care of his child and if he feels that he has a choice if he wants to take care of his child . CHILD SUPPORT! But that’s just my opinion.
@@TDion94 100% agree. Men don’t get to pick and choose. It’s not fair at all. They get off too easy. “Oh Ima sleep with women with no condom but when they get pregnant ima just say I’m not ready to avoid accountability.” No sir, raise your kid. No one is ready for parenthood. My husband and I planned our baby and it’s still hard with TWO parents in the home.
@@Justine2U exactly!!! Men get off wayyyyyyy too easy when it comes to having children. They feel that they have a choice to be there or not and it’s not fair at all. We as mothers don’t have that choice. Child support is very necessary especially if he is not contributing his part into raising the child . If the guy doesn’t want a child then he shouldn’t be having sex or use condoms. It takes TWO!
Yes i love your response
I’m proud of your growth😭. It’s so many stages to ts and you’re just growing and growing. It’s like watching a caterpillar grow into a butterfly. Keep pushing love . I’ll say a prayer for u before i go to bed🦋
I was in the same situation with my son, he is 5 now. I found out about his fathers wife and kids when I was 5 months. He told me he couldn’t be there any more. We are ok!!! I loved everything about this video❤❤❤
You made the right decision! ❤️
Wow...I just LOVE how honest you continue to be on here. My daughter is almost 7 and some of these things are still a thing for me.. Let women get up and just walk off & its Child Endangerment , Neglect , Jail...etc. and child support is always higher and now a requirement, since you the woman left... So you are stuck to endure "YOUR" outcomes... alone. My heart goes out to you. But you know...RUclips life comes through the more you post. Just like Cardi B told Summer Walker put that shit in your music...put that shit in the videos...all of it...the checks will come and then sum girl. Still trying to build my confidence to start my channel but, aaall those people from back then..not only do I fear them watching all my ugly moments but also them having access at all to here I'm at in life... You doing it frfr...you good. And make us women that have been..."sent the corner"..feel like a human again just trying to navigate life too... xoxo your real fans see you
Great video!!! ...life is a continuous journey and we all are born knowing absolutely nothing..the journey was for you to develop a healthy relationship that you didnt have with yourself...now you have that and will never go back to the past..you have two beautiful children and you have an entire life to live...Live it well!!! Keep moving forward never look back!
Thank you so much for sharing this I’m going through the exact same thing he didn’t want it but I decided to keep it we were in a toxic situation due to me being pregnant tryna hope for the best cause he said he wanted a family with me wanna make it work I am now 6 months and I’ve been betrayed,cheated on,lied to my mental health is not good I just don’t know what to do anymore I am stressed,I cry but I pray everyday about it my happy ending will come one day
I just came across you channel ! So happy I did ! I’m certainly 20 weeks and 5 days and needed to hear all of this 🩷 you put me in a better head space 💯 love your courage ! And strength
I’m so proud of you! 💖 Definitely one of my fav RUclipsrs, you’ve come so far and you give us nothing but the real every time you come on camera no matter how hard it may be. God has nothing but greatness lined up for you! 🫶🏾
Aww Lani you’re beautiful and your babies will admire you for taking care of yourself for them and being your best self. OG LaniGang ❤
The last clip baby I just cried my heart out my daughter is now almost 7mons I can relate very well with your testimony ❤
hearing this and then remembering your vlogs from when you pregnant is surreal i’m so proud of you. ❤️you deserve all the happiness , i def needed to hear this
Your story is such a blessing and helpful for me. I am going through this right now, I'm due in may.
Glad you choose you we as woman go through a lot with them baby daddies stay prayed up 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
The video at the end made my heart break. I am so glad to see you come out on the other side. I know a man is the last thing on your mind, but your husband will find you ❤️
This is exactly what I went through now he telling everybody I won’t let him see his kid like dude you told me that you didn’t need no more kids, & he didn’t matter 🤷🏽♀️ now my son hardly knows him he think it’s my fault.
You’re such a beautiful person !! I pray for you that you find light and healing from within and look to God 🤍!!
Hey Lani, i dreamt about you the other day and i hugged you so hard, i think it’s because our stories are similar, i also fell pregnant last year with my second last year, she is 1 aswel, i started following you then when i was pregnant because my baby daddy was on and off and i discovered your channel coz i was searching for other single moms like me, i wanted to do it right the second time around but just like you, it was unplanned and my then partner chose not to commit,,, we got this mama, You are strong mama and i know exactly what you went through last year because i went through the same thing ❤❤❤ lots of love for you and your babies ❤❤❤
Women, whether the man wants to be a father or not, you are not solely responsible for your child's financial needs because you did not make said child alone. If fathers don't want the responsibility of caring for a child, they should not have sex or, at the very least, use prophylactics.
it takes 2 to tango...stds are real as well, these single moms are trying to get youyube rich off having babies
You are so amazing so happy you left and went to Houston continue to shine bright in this world!
Thank for sharing your story and I really hate that you experienced .. I had a similar situation and experienced like this even tried to family thing and it’s just too much and toxic and I’m at the point in life where I just want to heal from it and moving on with myself 💘🥹 and may god continue to bless you and your babies ❤
Sending you sm love 🤍 you hold it down for your kiddos and I love that about you
Sorry you had to go through this. He was just manipulating you because he knew how bad you wanted him to be around & work it out. That was wrong, but you’re going to boss up and a real man will marry you.
wow it’s amazing bc Honey is SUCH a happy baby. you did the best with what you had.
Young ladies in the comments, please try your hardest to avoid this. no he won’t stop sleeping with you bc he doesn’t want a kid. no chances are he won’t use a condom unless you tell him to. NO RING. NO WOMB. no commitment, no baby. it will save you all so much heartbreak! please.
Been here from the very beginning. I’m happy that you’ve moved on and healed/are healing. You got a perfect little boy out of it. And for that, God is good 🩷🩷
Hey love, I'm so glad that you come out of it and o have a beautiful niece and handsome nephew, and we love yall so much. ❤️ Stay strong 💪
Proud of you ❤sending much love and blessings
Amazing message ❤️ 👏🏾
Speaking from experience this sounds like my situation when I was pregnant with my son.. I’m much older than you but I know you said you don’t want to put him on child support, I was in the same state of mind as you when I had my son. If wasn’t until an older lady said “ you better put him on child support your child deserves that” I listened, and even though that person doesn’t pay it frequently, that’s money that my child will get until it’s paid off… Just think about it. You didn’t make this child by yourself
God got you, 🙏 yes it’s hard but that’s why god always show up, don’t I know about it ❤
I understand stuff happens. But why have a child and you know the child is going to be fatherless??! I know I’m the moment you might think you’re super woman and you can handle it but children deserve to have both parents it’s really not fair to the kid. But I admire your vulnerability for sharing your story!
I needed to hear this 😢
I pray you find a man who deserves you ❤
I’m happy for you. Your so beautiful ❤
I just wanna say this if you have never been pregnant or are currently pregnant speaking on topics and downing someone saying what you will and won’t do or won’t tolerate our telling people to get a abortion. Trust when I say you have no idea what it feels like until your that exact situation as them and guarantee all that smoke behind them sentences you have will not be there if was in them same shoes so let’s be kind and supportive everyone has to make hard decisions and even if you don’t agree be nice to people cause you never know where there mental is I just wanna say I’m proud of you and you made it you did what was best and that all that matters ❤ congratulations
Ladies please Stop having sex without the commitment of Marriage. You are worth the wait💕
Hi hun ur story was very inspirational! ❤
Can u share where the background music is from please?
You are so beautiful and brave
This video broke me down 😢
Only if women can understand the power of choice is in their hands. Do we understand the implication of a child without present father? You said he was a fling...if he couldnt have solid relationship with you...he was not cheating but doing same pattern with others.
Dang girl I feel bad
I agree, if a man tells you he doesn’t want to have a child you HAVE TO expect to & be prepared to RAISE THAT CHILD ON YOUR OWN if you decide to keep it. Yes they lay down with us & blah blah blah but the reality is like you said, everyone one has a choice. You can’t force someone to want a child. That’s why if you do decide to keep it you have to do it for YOU. & everything after that is in God’s hands 🙏🏾
This is helpful
it’s ok bookie WE GOT THIS 17:14
Well he told u @ the beginning of pregnancy and you'll was just a thing so I'm confused 🤷🏽♂️
there's nothing to be confused about if you open your ears, close your mouth & freeze ya fingers. Hush up!
I’m confused because she did say it was just sexual then she said he was cheating. So were they in a relationship or not?🤷🏽♀️
through the beginning til a couple of months after i had my son we were in a relationship. But the point of this video was just to tell my story of how i felt during my pregnancy and to try to spread awareness to younger women to protect themselves. Also to show other women who are going through it that you can make it through that rough patch. I don’t want to try to focus so much on him more so on the decision i made to keep my son and the feelings i endured. This wasn’t to bash him. He is great to our son. Just wasn’t the best to me during a time I needed him the most.
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This is me now
Unplanned? How is it unplanned. If you didn’t use contraceptives
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Wow, thank you for making this video! I’m currently 6 months pregnant and I’m literally going through a very similar situation with the father of my son. I know it was a difficult and emotional experience for you. I’ve literally cried almost every single night and feel so awful knowing my baby can feel everything I’m feeling . I’ll pray for you and wishing the best for you and your son on your journey as a loving and caring mother to him! 🤍
The ending was so relatable for me. My whole pregnancy me and my child’s father were at our worst. A few days before I found out I was pregnant we had ended things. I cried every night and blamed myself because it was my fault and I knew that things could’ve been “perfect.” I also felt like I wasn’t worthy of love and even now I feel like I’ll never be in a relationship. Thanks for sharing🩷
Lani, you give me strength to keep going. ❤️🩹 I'm currently experiencing an unplanned pregnancy without the presence of the father, & this has got to be the hardest thing ever. Thank you for this!! ❤ Please keep making these vids.
Girl your beautiful your amazing your a good mother don’t ever let a fk ninja 🥷🏽 play in your face your going to have a husband one day that’s going to love on you so good you won’t even remember these days my heart hurts for you because us that have been here awhile watched you get through high school graduate and be a full time mother while working and I know it hit different because of your mom and grandma keep putting you and them babies first you got this ❤
I always felt more fault at the parent who still kept it tho. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BIRTH A CHILD THAT YOU KNOW NEEDS BOTH PARENTS AND BOTH FORM OF LOVE KNOWING ONE HAS ALREADY OPTED OUT. Men have played this same game since before Christs but I NEVER UNDERSTOOD why the woman still kept the child though. Like naturally the single mother statistics, backlash and comments are forced on you just for trying to be the one to give the child a chance and a good life. Men should NOT be sleeping around unmarried and unprotected at that but if he tells you while the woman still has time to prevent the birth of the child and the child is still born they shouldn’t be at fault because both parties knew of the consequences
I feel if he was willing to pay for fetus termination he SHOULD NOT be placed on child support because you willingly chose your child’s life BY YOURSELF so you’re 100% responsible BY YOURSELF
You’re worthy of everything. The road may be different but it’ll a be exactly what you pictured one day 💕🫶🏾.
The entire notion that women SHOULD abort and terminate pregnancy JUST because a man that has knowingly had sex with that woman unprotected says he doesn’t want the baby is insane!!! Thank you for sharing, you’re beautiful! This was so uplifting 🫶🏼❤️
This is exactly what I went through now he telling everybody I won’t let him see his kid like dude you told me that you didn’t need no more kids, & he didn’t matter 🤷🏽♀️ now my son hardly knows him he think it’s my fault.
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