If A Man Does THIS, He's Loyal To YOU!
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If A Man Does THIS, He's Loyal To YOU!...In this dating advice video, I will give you one of the signs he’s loyal to you that you need to look out for. You may want to know the signs he’s loyal to you on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating help and be sure to watch the entire video.
I don’t want you to be in a relationship where you doubt your partner's loyalty and that’s why in this relationship advice I will give you a dating guide that will help you to understand men better and assist you in answering the question of is he loyal or is my boyfriend loyal to me? As your relationship coach, I want you to embrace this dating advice so that you can know when he's loyal to you and when he's not.
I agree that loyalty is hard to find, but I don’t want you to be asking yourself is he loyal to me every now and again. I don't want you to think that there are no loyal men out there. This relationship advice will give you all the dating help and dating guide that will assist you in knowing the loyalty of your partner so that you can build a successful relationship.
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I didn't think any of this in a man was real until I met my man now. He put his social medias on my phone without me asking. He posts me without asking and told me if this specific girl messages him that I have the pass to tell her that he's with me. My man has gone above and beyond to prove his loyalty .. all without me asking.
I hope more woman find a man like this.
I hope I can find someone like that 😔🙏
This is great!
ah that's really good. I should prove the same to my boyfriend actually since he seems to distrust me a little sometimes
Wow. You are so lucky.
When a man is loyal he would not put himself in a position to loose you. He will make you a priority and be aware that he would not entertain a other females . He would set boundaries with other females and make clear what is appropriate and not . It's about respect
Thats right
I had no problem with him having female friends but as soon as I saw that those female friends turned into his mistresses that's where I drew the line and now we are getting divorced because I told him Time After Time that he should not be engaging with women and making phone calls behind my back and visiting them even at their house to spend time talking to them. Believe me, he is suffering regretfully his decision to do so.
Same situation
Yep i went through the same thing. He didn’t set boundaries with other women. He bought his ex a house while we were together. He still pays all his ex bills. Always goes to his exs house to do repairs, to watch the kids…. Always comes late after midnight because he has baby mama issues… I was tired. He said I was just jealous… I left, I don’t tolerate crap.
I be telling my Wife about this being that she alway's want to hang out with her male friend's that you either use to go to school with, work with or use to work with!
GOD PLEASE SEND MORE MEN LIKE STEPHAN INTO THIS WORLD!!!! 😫🙏🏼
I'm laughing with the mother thing because the Bible states a man must leave his parents and join with the spouse. Its starts from the beginning of the relationship.
Never stiffle yourself if you're uneasy when your significant other is having unnecessary conversations with other females. Let these ladies check in with a psychologist, pastor or their own significant other etc... Set boundaries. The situation they want to confide with your man could be addressed by the aforementioned professionals. If that guy is still persistent in continuing these types of relationships with ex wives, ex-girlfriends, coworkers or friends of friends then he has to go sis....
Having been through a long relationship with a man I expressed healthy boundaries to, and he was happy to give the appearance he agreed to (later reneged) I realise it's not how they treat the mother/sister/cousin/friend/ex-girlfriend, that you need to look out for. It's whether they draw boundaries as part of their nature. A man who demonstrates measured restraint, based on a principle he believes in (not the people around him) is someone who can be loyal to any decision they make in life, pertaining to themselves.
A man (or woman) who believes they will only be loyal, if you're the right fit/person/behaviour/situation for them - they have no relationship with loyalty. They don't understand what it means. It's something they say they do, until it's something they don't do.
Very well said!!
Perfectly stated! Such and under emphasized point
This is actually great advice, can't believe i found it in a youtube comment! Thank you so much!
IMO If a guy keeps girls close some times that means he has a que. Waiting for something to happpen in his current relationship. If he's not prepared to set boundaries with ladies. He's probably getting ready to move to the next in line. That's a dangerous man that is not ready for commitment.
To all men and women reading this, I recommend you to be in a relationship with a men/women who is an introvert rather than an extrovert, because the chances of an introvert cheating on you will be much lower than an extrovert cheating on you, trust me. And I think it's because extroverts have more friends and a greater social circle, making them more likely to cheat. This is why extroverts are more likely to be unfaithful than introverts
This also goes for women. I was in a relationship with my now ex girlfriend who through time started prioritizing her male friend. I prioritized her but she prioritized him/them. I never told her to stop seeing him but I addressed the situation by telling her where is the boundary of boyfriend and friendship. That if I was to do the same it would come off differently. As time went on she developed some red flags. While I was prioritizing her, taking care of her, giving her love, putting my best foot forward to make her happy, she would spend more time with said male friend. I had another talk with her months after and she cried and said she wanted to put in the effort and so we tried. The week after she became distant and for that month she spent more time with male friend not even texting me as much but many times telling me she was hanging out with him. So I told her since her interest is out there then be out there and I'll take my leave. She cried even more saying I love you and what am I going to do without you? and I repeated what do you want? and after she finally came clean just to tell me she doesn't what she wants. She doesn't know what she wants and she doesn't know if she would have the same feeling 5 years later and I was confused because she says she loves me crying but then says that. Why not just tell me that from the beginning ? And So I told her it's clear your interest and your priority is with another person so It's best to end this. A year and a half down the drain and it really felt like I was taken for granted and was an option to her.
Thanks for being so honest in regards to setting boundaries with their mother. It feels like when girlfriends mention it the guy always gets defensive and takes it negatively or simply doesn’t see where we are coming from. It is extremely overwhelming when the mother is so involved or oversteps in your relationship. It seems to be a taboo subject guys never want to discuss, so it’s nice to hear a man talk about it
I always address concerns if I have them and he automatically makes adjustments. If it “bothers” me or if I ask he knows it’s serious and makes changes. 🤞🏾
This is good! Thank you, Stephan!🌟
🔥We must remember no one is perfect!
GOD will bring two people together even if one is lacking in a certain area(s)! No relationship is perfect! It’s all about communication, understanding, respect, and living for GOD!🔥
Amen 🙏🏾
Some people are uncomfortable with an opposite sex “best friend” because they feel that THEY should be their partner’s “best friend”. These types of relationships must be discussed prior to moving forward or insecurities may surface. Boundaries MUST be in place and if TRUST isn’t there anyway, the problem is bigger than that “friend”.
I think it's not a good idea for opposite sex best friends because men an women are naturally pulled to be attracted to each other.
I love the way you elaborate things.
It wouldn't be a problem if I were introduced to her and had some sort of relationship with her as well. If you feel uncomfortable it's usually because the man leaves things feeling that you cant fully trust. A man should make you feel like you are able to count on him
Love the color 💜 on you Stephan
When me and the player first started dating he ask if I was the “jealous type” bc he has a lot of female friends.. I responded are you sleeping with them? He says no, fast forward he has one in particular he called a platonic friend who he never set boundaries with helped her in all aspects of her life, text her on the regular, and I believe he was in love with her. He used me as a placeholder until he made a choice which I was naive to allow I can’t believe I allowed that to happen to me!! I bc think they call the term “pickmeisha”
It's okay sis happened to me too but just remember that karma is real we go through things to become better versions of ourselves thanks for sharing your story and best believe someone will make him feel exactly how he made you feel that's how karma works, stay blessed ✨👑🦋
My thing is if it’s not okay for me to do it then don’t expect me to be okay when U do it. Periodt. 🤨 My EX had a female “friend” that he claims was getting stuff from her job and she would give him boxes 📦 of stuff from food, to fruit, meat, etc. Now mind U I never met this woman but he would always mention her name. She never came to the house 🏡 which was red flag 🚩 number 1. He always met her at the park or he would go to her house to pick up the boxes. The 2nd red flag 🚩 was he told me her EX was a good friend of his…..and when I asked him if the friend knew that she was giving him all this stuff he said NO. 😏 Now I’m looking at him like really dude?! Stevie Wonder can see what’s going on here! LBS ✌🏾
After getting back to dating after having healed, I am proud of myself for no longer settling and feel comfortable communicating my needs, standards, and values.... I was prioritizing him while he was prioritizing his girl best friend....I asked multiple times for him to set boundaries and he refused.... and I walked away...... it still hurts but I'm happy I have the strength to walk away.
COMMUNICATION and TRUST are very VITAL in all relationships. Loyalty is very hard to come by now a days. God is definitely in CONTROL. We all have to be HEALED and WHOLE before engaging in spiritual exchanges with folks.
I told him time and time again how his relationship w/ “her” was wrong & unhealthy but I was ignored at every turn, including this last time. (He was previously locked up b/c of his loyalty to her and no boundaries). He continued to deceive me even after I made it clear as to why I didn’t want him to have any kind of relationship at all w/ her. I have blocked him and don’t see him but I feel like such an idiot and like I got played all over, again.😡😭😡😭
Profoundly video❣️🔥🔥🔥🔥 I agree, and have noticed throughout the years that there are many women who will shut down any friendship that their man has with the opposite sex (woman) before they met their woman. I think, this has been an unfair issue that very well can end a loving relationship especially, if a man has been sexually involved with that woman before. Personally, in my past relationship I never had an issue with it as long as I know and they know what time it is now (respectfully boundaries.) because I look at life as “You maybe attractive, but don’t ASSUME I’m attracted because KINDNESS is commodity often confused with DESIRE…
Yes.
This doesn’t make sense at all! If they were involved sexually, they are still friends …is because they want to still have that option there! No healthy individual drags along in his life, former sexual partners and then puts the label of “friend”!
@@blacksea1726 Your right maybe not all people will become friends after sexual involvement if they realized they are not made for each other. However, I do believe that it does exist with some people who have went there & decided it was a mistake but overall that person still could have been a good person as a friend doesn’t mean they will be a good lover. I think, it’s reality that can happen in real life but, of course based on a person maturity level to leave things on a Pontiac friendship could be question. Otherwise, some people can’t handle the truth on what really happened, maybe they grew up together or dated as teenagers or young adults or however that person became friends to begin with because some women already know, that a man having a BFF some of them probably hit that before or closed to it at some point of time or it could be all innocent of meeting nothing happened between them. I think it’s possible, so either a woman is still willing to have real love with that man knowing the truth or it’s a deal breaker for her.
This doesnt make sense at all, child. A smart women will shut down any mf who have his ex or his female friends by his side when he gets into a relationship. I experienced it myself. Boundaries are sure to be broken. I tell myself let this mf spend time with his female friend...next thing i knew, he's flirts, lust, dance, and gives her rides while putting me last and going against me. They both had the nerve laugh at me. Lesson learned.
This was a good, revealing clip about creating a fine foundation upon which to build upon. Communication + Boundaries! Tighten up your communication and be honest about your non-negotiables.
So, about his female bestie(s), there's an adage: Women know other women.… AND bestie may treat his new interest as competition, instead of someone with whom she has to share his attention, she suddenly becomes extra needy, it can become a pet peeve for both women and he's stuck in the middle.
so... 🤷🏿♀
It is very true. I am separated from my husband after 8 years of marriage. Initially everything was fine. But he didn't know to set boundaries with his mother and sisters. They are money mongers who used his character to stripe us off our money. Literally his entire salary was going to them. He even took credit card loans to enable them to live a lavish and luxurious life. When I started questioning this, all hell broke loose and they started manipulating him and he succumbed to their lies. He started ill treating me and I started experiencing domestic violence. He became emotionally attached to them more than to me. Started hating me. Wouldn't even talk to me for weeks together. Long story short, I had to leave him and our house with my 4 months old daughter. Now my daughter is 4 and half years old. Still I am living alone. He didn't even regret one bit until today... Now I have made up my mind to move forward and I am intending to find a new life. So these issues are very serious and true and are happening in a lot of households.
That's disgusting...Im sad you and your daughter went through that. He sounds like he was abusive already and used his family members to hide behind. The family members enables the behaviour, this definitely happens. Men have to get their priorities straight, especially with children involved.
❤️Tell the back row please!
And so much for the loyal, respectful, caring son/brother… that never fools me if anything it’s a red flag that someone doesn’t have adult boundaries.
Peace
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@@sinceresong9907 Thanks for understanding and support. But in all this God is with me and he is leading us and providing us so that we don't lack in anything. Many years before I was very naive, ignorant and innocent and trusted them so much. Now even if a man says that he is very much attached to his family, I get scared and run away. I came from a healthy childhood and family background, so I didn't even know that these kind of people existed. But God is healing my broken heart and sure I will come out victorious in this. Thanks
@@tantig5923 Yeah definitely people need to set their priorities right. Whether it is a man or a woman everyone needs proper boundaries and priorities in life... if they can't prioritise properly, they shouldn't get married in the first place... Why are some people spoiling others' lives...
@@CuriousR Hey, I understand as I have been through very Similar. Everyone got put before me, once I was dependent one him with a baby. Sadly that period of time was some of the worst most lonely, traumatic years of my life. My son literally kept me going.My experience with my sons father( ex) has totally changed me too. I was all the things you mentioned...now much wiser, stronger (abuse does that to you). I won't allow anyone to cross boundaries. I have chosen not to get involved with another man thus far, my son is 9.
Thank you so much for this. My guy and I were having a lot of these issues. There were lots of gems and clarity dropped, thank you so much!
Stephan great video as always! But further more THANK YOU for walking in purpose and being the modern day Tychicus that I need… this world needs!
Can’t wait for next video💜🙌🏾🥰
WOW thank u for clearing that up for me..I experienced this before n I felt it was him but I excused it as me being insecure because that's what he was saying...Wow
Well put and much appreciated and understood! Thank you so much! 🙏🏽💪🏽❤️💯😘
This is why I won't even date a man with female friends. Out of all the other relationship issues/challenges we may encounter, not having a female friend is ONE LESS issue to possibly deal with. ALSO, for me "female friend" is the title I want with my man! Besides the female members of his family, I want to be the other significant opposite sex relationship. I'm not compromising on that one.
So can you have male friends?
Same though
@@SouthernBelleBEE I don't have any, and never had any interest in having male friends.
EnMode, I understand your thoughts but as a woman who has 2 close male friends (closer to me than my blood brothers) it is very realistic for a man & woman to be nothing but platonic friends. I interact with their wives and there are no issues. Why? We all went to war together & that is a bond/friendship most cannot understand unless they have been through it.
Someone I truly loved, had an issue with it and wanted me to cut all ties with them, I refused and it is what it is.
Just sharing.
@@listeningviayoutube7229 Thanks for sharing.
Spot on when it comes to the boundaries with his mother. I do believe context is important when talking about opposite sex relationships and boundaries. How long has this friendship been established and what were the circumstances that formed the friendship? Is the friend male or female respectful of the significant other and their boundaries? Have you attempted to get to know the friend and see their interactions first hand? Ive been on both sides of this having a former partner that was clearly 'keeping an open option' and also being that female friend for 20 years to a man I still consider a brother. When his wife who was also my best friend died I was there for him as a spiritual sister and helped raise my God children. I encouraged him to date almost 2 years after my best friend passed (i was and still am with the same partner we communicated about the whole situation and he was comfortable with it, if he hadn't been i would've repected his position, he also respected that i love my God kids as much as my own son and wanted me to be there for them through such a difficult time). When my friend met his current wife they got engaged and pregnant within a month. I knew it was time for me to step away from the day to day involvement with my God children as God had blessed them with a new family dynamic.I could tell from the beginning she was not comfortable with the friendship I had with my God kids father and attempted to address it with her but she refused to acknowledge it. I can say it was more difficult to lose the relationships I had with my 4 God kids than my spiritual brother. So sometimes it's not even 100% about the platonic friendship, it's about so much more and hopefully men and women that find themselves in situations where they feel uncomfortable with opposite sex friendships take those other factors into account. And no we were never romantically involved (if anyone is wondering).
Boundaries are very important
Characteristics of an unselfish man❤️
Had an intimate relationship with this guy I never intended to…. Guy would leave out of any club or party to call me. I knew he loved me then
Stephan, your videos are really intrested i try not to miss any.
Man that was good content! I concur. 😂 I hope there’s more men watching these videos behind the scene….🤣💪🏽
Now lady's if a man does this for you he is real. Be real back and don't destroy his confidence scrolling options on social media or hang out with guys when he has time away from grinding. I shouldn't have to say it
I'm dealing with this now with girlfriends.
Ain't no thing as a female best friend unless that woman is Ellen Degeneres category. Take it from me, I'm a woman who used to love men being a best friend. Every single one of them -don't matter if you put them in the sibling category or maybe he's not straight category- every single one professed their feelings eventually - one even waited 7 years ! So ain't no such thing as 2 heterosexual people from the opposite sex just being a best friend. Women have those boundries but men usually want to be your bestie because deep down inside he thinks you're smokin' hot.
Indeed loyalty is had to find, you are always spot on, stay positive and blessed,
I just love all of your video. Thank you so much. ❤
He made a boundry with me by telling me that we don't talk in front of the same guy. Closet gays are very abusive
I have been through it.
What if he is closet gay and he speaks with guys for hours every day.
Cmon now say it & say it. So on point and well said.
They already know when they want somebody or that person wants him
my ex's junior was literally saying 'I love you' to him via text and he was treating that as no big deal. when I called him out on this and highlighted that he lacks personal boundaries then he made this about me having trust issues.
Gotta have healthy boundaries with mom too.
I recently divorced cause my ex was disloyal . Im at peace and moved on
To all men and women reading this, I recommend you to be in a relationship with a men/women who is an introvert rather than an extrovert, because the chances of an introvert cheating on you will be much lower than an extrovert cheating on you, trust me. And I think it's because extroverts have more friends and a greater social circle, making them more likely to cheat. This is why extroverts are more likely to be unfaithful than introverts
This was excellent information. I have already made changes in my space with male associates to avoid this in the future.
To all men and women reading this, I recommend you to be in a relationship with a men/women who is an introvert rather than an extrovert, because the chances of an introvert cheating on you will be much lower than an extrovert cheating on you, trust me. And I think it's because extroverts have more friends and a greater social circle, making them more likely to cheat. This is why extroverts are more likely to be unfaithful than introverts
Yes it is and I will be with one.
My bf was swinging hips standing while another guy was sitting down.
Your hair looks good
I've never seen braids like that.
Very handsome.
I would like to hear why if he prioritizes his mother over me, why is that a bad thing .
Idk Mr. Stephen.....frm the mom perspective...i have seen and experienced ALOT wit my sons and their dating choices. On behalf of ALL moms...women know women....periodt. young, old, rich, poor so be careful wit setting boundaries wit Mom remembering that we want the same respect and boundaries as fathers wit their daughters.
Blessings to all
I Agree
He told me he would end things with her that she’s not going to be a problem tho , but he be like I want you , but I can’t stop talking to her because there’s more … so I told him on text when I got home that it’s over between us … I don’t know if I did good 😢 he has been ignoring me ever since
You're right 💯❤️.
One day I hope I'll find one, two out of seven was unfaithful or spread our personal business, mainly mine out of spite. He's out there somewhere waiting to find me one day at the right place and time.
Why is he going to lunch with a female friend and we’re in a relationship but he keeps that from me? I asked him about it but he’s not answering. If it’s nothing then he should tell me he has a work lunch female friend!!!
Heather❤️, maybe the lunch friend is a partner, accountant, etc it’s not always a love interest when your man goes out with a female, that’s making you seem very insecure and I honestly wouldn’t answer you either especially if I know there’s nothing goin on. Now! It very well can be a love interest and he doesn’t really care to answer you because someone else is consuming his mind, and he doesn’t care anymore( sad but true) so he’ll ignore you and disconnect.
Realistically, you know your situation and “I” think your the only one that can honestly answer this question for you. Whatever the solution is just remember self love is the best.😉❤️
U R not insecure, dont listen to other B****. Trust ur instinct. Going to lunch with a female coworker is what grown boys do lookin for fun...a genuine man will call u up and tell u he's having lunch with his business partners (multiple people so there's nothing private) before he does it...and ohhh hell naw that mf is going with a female friend (one on one privately) RED FLAG!
Heather… he hiding something. You know him better than anyone else and your intuition tells you there’s more to it. Why hide this from you if it didn’t mean anything to him?
@@mjohnson8206 I agree too
If he keeps it from you, he is up to no good.
Stephan is such a good man! ❤️🙏🏼
To all men and women reading this, I recommend you to be in a relationship with a men/women who is an introvert rather than an extrovert, because the chances of an introvert cheating on you will be much lower than an extrovert cheating on you, trust me. And I think it's because extroverts have more friends and a greater social circle, making them more likely to cheat. This is why extroverts are more likely to be unfaithful than introverts
Lol 😆 yes all woman and I'll do the same also👍its so uncomfortable when men don't do this. This is a video I'll have to save and sit my butt down to watch with pen in hand. Thanks Steph
I’m so glad to see shorter videos. 😆 thanks
Amen... your right there.
Now this is a good guy.
No "Mama's Boys" for me!
All that "Mama said...." stuff..." 🤨
Hi my situationship partner gets me confused every day, he’s so sweet with me I’m sure he hasn’t cheat since we started but , according to him he told me previously he doesn’t want to hide anything from me, now he tells me he’ has someone else in his life that he knew before me, n he can’t get her off his head !! The funny part is that this girl has 2kids with another man (baby mama ) issh , and they still talk on phone… I think she has a hold on him 😢what can I do she so authoritative with him
It's #1 for me! Great video🙌🏾
As long as I can hav a male Bestfriend
Thank you
Hello, So thankful for the work you do.
I shared with my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years.
He has many female friends. They call him for advice, or to help with different things. I’ve shared these women having access to him makes me uncomfortable. I was met with defensiveness, and told I accused him of cheating. I never used those words. We haven’t resolved anything’s . I’m being told these are his friends… I’m just being jealous. I’m being judgmental. No wonder my past relationships didn’t work. What are your thoughts? Thank you.
Find man THAT cares how you feel and takes steps to ensure you are happy in the relationship.
That mf accused u and put words into ur mouth, Gurl, if u stay with him its gonna still affect u 18 years from now. RUN.
Honestly. If he is not willing too shut them all down for you then he does not see u as a priority u have too move on and leave him alone period … im just keeping it 100 💯… please remember you are not being jealous or insecure …. Now don’t get it twisted if he has a female friend that is a best friend too him that he has never been intimate with her in any way shape or form then this is ok however my thoughts iffff u communicated too him that u r uncomfortable with him being a therapist too many woman unless he has a license professionally… put on your roller skates and run sweetheart. Or u will keep wasting your time. He is who he is let him be. you cannot change him. sooo goo you deserve a man that wants the same as u. Never ignore the signs god gives you. He may not be the intended man for you accept it and goo u have too or you will remain miserable. Trust me. U will be blessed
He’s a narcissist and projecting it on you
It doesn’t get better, one of the reason me and my ex broke it off. The fact that he was even defensive and called you jealous is a red flag. It just means that they don’t care about you enough to put your needs above their friends. Sounds harsh but that’s really what it boils down to. If he wanted to do it he would
I think you hit the nail, Stephan. My boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable showing me off on social media but he often shows him hanging out with his opposite sex friends on his social media 😂
My fear is that he doesn't see me as girlfriend material or want to disclose to anyone that he's dating me. He's mentioned something about not wanting to make his dating life public because of a past circumstance.
I need to address this with him. He also knows I love it when someone shows me with them on their social media. It makes me feel so valued and cherished and loved.
He’s giving you an excuse to keep hiding you. I’ve been through this SAME scenario and didn’t listen to others when they said RUN. Sis, he ain’t the one. You deserve better
@@TamarasTreasureTrove agreed time to walk away
@@TamarasTreasureTrove sorry to hear that you went through something similar. I hope you're in a better place now 💖
How about those that want their mothers to plan their weddings instead of what their woman thinks! He says,"babe yall will figure it out just keep me out of it"
Is there a full video to this?
Amen!
Man and woman cannot be friends, much less best friends, unless you're in a relationship - engaged/married;
If you ain't got peace it's your own damn fault you cannot buy peace ☮️ .... Peace is a feeling inside that I could even find in a sinking ship in cold waters of Alaska..... And I have lost my peace at small things... But I have only myself to blame no matter the game if I blame and don't claim I cannot tame the darkness see we are the SAME no shame everyone bleeds and we all have needs we all want to be free as a bee and sit by the sea sipping some tea buy the coconut tree nature is free you see there is no fee except to just be🤯
My bf and I are in a 2 month relationship, everything is going well except of one thing. He doesn't want to have kids and he wants to fly back to his hone country after 5 yrs stay in Germany
We love each other so much but I have a feeling dating this guy is wasting time since his goals are not long-term.Is this a major redflag? Should I let him go?
I would really appreciate for your answer thank you in advance.
Is it bad that I want to be his best friend...its the only way to me...I want my bestie to be s man
I know my last conquest isn't the one..but really I want a travel buddy . But this last dude is cut from an alcoholic cloth..Older men ain't it Sis
None of them all the way all specially if they can’t do any better but they won’t better none of them are loyal
Hey bro, can you do a video of how a lot of these ladies be hording...well cuffing these good men in their friendzone...and don't wanna hook them up with their supposed other gal friends. IJS
Like I don't understand why they can't just let them go and would want them to be with the person they should be with...if they don't want you like that. Like they are still holding out hope or something.
Like either the man still holding out hope for her...or vice versa. SMH!
But I truly feel that when I hear and see women Constantly say...yo where's the good men at...I be thinking...they are in your or your women friends circle somewhere...in the cut. But she don't wanna tell you about him...just because.
Bro, Stephan Speaks can't do a video of how women think, he's never a women.
Friend zone? 🤡 🙄
He can’t have females friends that what I’m in a relationship for friendship, you pick your mother over me im definitely not going to be with you that shows you still a lil boy
My ex would jump for his mother. He would leave the middle of a meal to go help her with her computer or whatever. We were hosting an event and he even changed the plans that we had because his mother wanted to do things differently. I'm so glad he's gone.
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My ex husband his daughter and him looked so freaky I know something happened when she was young and she controls him with it glad I'm gone
Wait what???
Where's your punctuation sis?
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My whole entire book is Prophecy I'm tired of you people that don't believe in God
Right on time. He never had a serious relationship before. He was a good friend of mine for years. Just never saw him in real life and we started talking for hours on video the past few months. However one day before I met him in real life (him continually saying how he never let a girl stay over at his place. Let alone a week) he hooked up. Literally had a casual hook up. Now I know he was a player. But damn. Sure did it hurt. Especially since he knew I don’t go to bed with someone easily unless I’m committed. I truly felt used. And he understands it now and has apologised numerous times. I just don’t know what to feel about this; is this any indication of him cheating in the future ? He knew my ex cheated on me and it just keeps messing with my mind on how he didn’t tell me this from the get go. Truly feel used for the smash. Despite him saying how special it was for me to come over. Currently we 4 months together. And he admitted that I was special to him but never thought we would turn serious. And as soon as we started being intimate he said he cut her off. I truly should have asked to show the chat between him and her especially since he was so bothered at the time of hurting her. Like truly; excuse me but what?! Any advice would be so helpful. I don’t know if he truly is sorry and regrets it and just rolls like this when single. But idk.
PS: the distance doesn’t help. At all. Makes me go more paranoid and confused since we both busy but damn. He ain’t even texting me lately that much. Straight up online and ignoring my messages. So it’s unread but clearly he saw me message him. Just absurd tbh.
You answered your own question right there. Time to honor and value yourself. He will never do it for you.
Actions speak louder than words. Always trust your intuition. Don't ignore the red flags.
Yes he’s a player and used you as a place holder until he made up his mind. Sorry this happened to you I just got of a situationship with a f boy who did that. It does hurt but you live and you learn and next time we’ll know better to run away from that type of guy!! Peace
Thank you both very much for the confirmation 💜 It’s not good news but at least it is the truth… ☹️ I guess I kept denying it out of feelings and seeing the best in people. 😞 I should seriously stop doing that…
Sis he moved on .. from he stop texting you and not communicating with you . I stop telling ppl I’m seeking a boyfriend . I’m more looking for my husband . If he if and but about it then I press gas and move on . Try to mentally know someone before sleeping with even if it take a year before sleeping with them ( during this time don’t be so open up to them about your past, just state what you looking for in a husband. If he’s not ready to be one just move on don’t waste your time. I just hate when men behave like
That honestly . Try to talk to someone from a different culture that will open the door for you etc . To be honest I don’t date African American men.
If he has no loyalty to God and himself, there is no loyalty to any. Unless he makeßs
A mama's boy is a red flag. Beware 📣🚩🚩🚩❌❌❗❗❗
If actions speak louder then words then how is it that all things were created with nothing but a word? Entire nations have fallen by a word.... Men die because of false words that woman speak... How do you figure out weather someone is right for you it takes words... Actions can be used as a way to deceive... I call it short actions verses long actions... Some ppl do a small thing for attention but it's when ppl do things when nobody is watching that action will define you...
To all men and women reading this, I recommend you to be in a relationship with a men/women who is an introvert rather than an extrovert, because the chances of an introvert cheating on you will be much lower than an extrovert cheating on you, trust me. And I think it's because extroverts have more friends and a greater social circle, making them more likely to cheat. This is why extroverts are more likely to be unfaithful than introverts
OK what if he is still talking to the women he has slept with
We move on quickly!
Is he the last man on this planet ? Geez girl. Get rid of him.
If they are as bad as they say they why on earth did you try to stay???
I'm curious. I dated a man for 2 yrs. We are friends now. We met dancing. So we go out dancing still. We still talk on the phone and see each other. We are not fwb. I have other friends that go out dancing with too for several years now. I have a dance friend ...her and I get along very well. I did open up to her about the guy I like. She is very understanding and trusting. Out of nowhere she started flirting with the guy I was dating. I know we are not a couple now but I didn't expect her to do this. Very hurtful. The guy I like is responding to this. Very confusing. I go out dancing with her and a group of friends for a long time now. Any suggestions how to handle this?
Define your boundaries if it bothers you day that if it’s not respected look at who these people really are
cut them off!
@@Addease yes true. Just shocked it is a girlfriend that I trusted not a stranger 😔
What do you Think of a guy who always flirt/give her attention with the waitres when out? 🙈
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If actions speak louder then words then why are you on here speaking nothing but words? I think you underestimate the power of words... Your whole game and I do mean GAME, is words....
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@@DMaria216 does your emoji mean that you work for the clown in the video? Or does It mean you think you know who I AM? Either way you can feel your true hearts intentions and I can feel that they are not good Intentions and since you have bad intentions towards me a child of God then God will have those same Intentions for you as it is written you reap what you sow 😇 sorry I forgive you but my Father who sent me doesn't forgive you yet.... You will have to learn your lesson first for him to forgive you for stepping on his child.... Sweet dreams your going to have an interesting night tonight.... And you will remember it was God you sent that emoji to not me because he sent me 🗝️🙏🤲
@@DMaria216 suffer well or you will suffer again for the same trespass against God 🙏😇