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  • @Ghurabahhh
    @Ghurabahhh 9 месяцев назад +177

    A coward will judge your character if you as a woman ask for his hand in marriage.But a real muslim will never judge you for that.Rather,he will honor you.

    • @thedrasc1465
      @thedrasc1465 7 месяцев назад +10

      The very best of creation was not the one who proposed marriage to his wife, Khadija RA, rather it was the other way around. He never held that against her either, rather, he honored her even long after she had died and always thought fondly of her. SubhanAllah.

    • @katestigsdotter
      @katestigsdotter 6 месяцев назад

      I’m a Khadija and I would proudly be the one who proposed

    • @TasneemSalie_
      @TasneemSalie_ 2 месяца назад

      When he said that I got so excited 😊😊😊 there’s nothing wrong with that . At all

  • @Unknown-jl4qd
    @Unknown-jl4qd 5 месяцев назад +41

    Some of you women are so ignorant, he did not degrade or talk down on his wife. He is telling other boys and men that the way he use to think is wrong and opening their minds to not look down on women that are divorced, older or with a child

    • @isabellopes890
      @isabellopes890 3 месяца назад

      Yes. The prophet has marriage an older, widowed himself.

  • @destinya5627
    @destinya5627 7 месяцев назад +15

    His naseeb forced him to open his eyes to the value in women who have had different backgrounds than the never married options he originally wanted. Allah swt teaches people through their experiences in life. They were meant to be and this is how they were brought together and made to never miss their union with one another. SubhanAllah. It was really meant to be.

  • @clementeen
    @clementeen 7 месяцев назад +45

    It shouldn’t have to come to the point where you can’t have children to be open to good women. I think muslim men need to stop looking at age. I’m 41 and I can’t find a decent and normal muslim man who has real iman. I’m still a virgin and trying my best, so please don’t be so cruel and look to us as human beings not “credentials”

    • @MuhammedIbnSuhaylIbnAbdAlAzeez
      @MuhammedIbnSuhaylIbnAbdAlAzeez 7 месяцев назад +8

      Well said sister.

    • @Sarah.G_2
      @Sarah.G_2 7 месяцев назад +8

      Some men will look at age because they want kids of their own so the wife has to be somewhat young. I don’t see anything wrong with that

    • @MuhammedIbnSuhaylIbnAbdAlAzeez
      @MuhammedIbnSuhaylIbnAbdAlAzeez 7 месяцев назад +2

      @Sarah.G_2 This is why Polygamy is made allowable for men.

    • @Sarah.G_2
      @Sarah.G_2 7 месяцев назад +1

      A lot of men cant afford polygamy or feel that dealing with one wife is enough. I'm talking about those men. @@MuhammedIbnSuhaylIbnAbdAlAzeez

    • @ninaleinnee8060
      @ninaleinnee8060 7 месяцев назад +2

      Very well said, thank you

  • @aslimtaslam1000
    @aslimtaslam1000 7 месяцев назад +11

    May Allah Almighty bless this brother and reward him for the noble act that he did.
    May Allah the most merciful grant such a husband to the divorced sisters who will accept and take care of their children like his own children🤲

  • @inspirationalmuslims3999
    @inspirationalmuslims3999 7 месяцев назад +9

    Riyad as-Salihin 1511
    Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
    The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "He who believes in Allah and the Last Day must either speak good or remain silent."
    [Muslim].

  • @hazzer4525
    @hazzer4525 7 месяцев назад +7

    Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."

  • @thedrasc1465
    @thedrasc1465 7 месяцев назад +15

    The mentality of the things he said in the beginning goes against the Islamic values of humility. May Allah lead people who think like this back to the straight path. The early sahabi considered marriage to divorced women first, not the women who were virgins, and most imprtantly, they valued the character of a woman more than her history. Divorce is justifiable and allowed in Islam. Theres nothing in Islam that deems divorced people or single parents as less marriage worthy than single people, except by character. That mentality is what the jahiliyyah did

  • @Abdullah_muslim1
    @Abdullah_muslim1 7 месяцев назад +7

    Road life, and not being able to have kids - he's not in a position to really pick but rather be happy with what he gets. This was a blessing in disguise and the doors to most women for him for marriage would've been closed. I think this would've been much harder for him marry his wife had he had many options which he clearly didn't.

  • @basmah7834
    @basmah7834 7 месяцев назад +14

    Men that want to marry a virgin and a woman that has never been with a man before must be a virgin too, it's as simple as that 💯

    • @DM-cf8fi
      @DM-cf8fi 7 месяцев назад +2

      Agree. Quran says this as well. Good men are for good women and good women and for good men. These red pills boys are anti islamic.

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 7 месяцев назад

      im a virgin. i ask around they ask about money.
      im like ???

    • @basmah7834
      @basmah7834 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@RaiiiL If you are what you said you are, work harder as well so that somebody's daughter won't suffer because of brokenness. May Almighty Allah not test us with poverty and grant us money with barakah.

    • @hadizamamud3209
      @hadizamamud3209 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@basmah7834 ameen

    • @kojo2773
      @kojo2773 5 месяцев назад

      That's like saying women who want to marry men with money should also have money of their own. So in conclusion women shouldn't want to marry men who make more money than them.

  • @iyoaw4360
    @iyoaw4360 7 месяцев назад +10

    I find it very sad that many people ca not behave like a good Muslim.
    Either talk good or remain silent is the sunnah. You shouldn't criticise him but ask for his forgiveness and well being of him and his family.
    His story shows how some things can change life completely and he's trying his best to adapt. I don't think she'd be ready to stay with him for 8 years if he didn't constantly adapt and learn ma sha allah.
    Some things will never really go away such as an illness either bodily or mentaly but this shouldn't be a reason to pick on somebody.
    May Allah guide us all to the right path.

  • @donnabushka5520
    @donnabushka5520 6 месяцев назад +12

    Such beautiful words for his wife. Mashallah

  • @inspirationalmuslims3999
    @inspirationalmuslims3999 7 месяцев назад +6

    Mu’adh ibn Jabal reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, you will continue to be safe as long as you remain silent. If you speak, it will be recorded for you or against you.”
    Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr lil-Ṭabarānī 20/73
    Grade: Hasan li ghayrihi (fair due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani

  • @Consistent_Sulpher
    @Consistent_Sulpher 7 месяцев назад +18

    Whyre so many people hating on this guy, hes just telling his story wtf

    • @loverofhumanity
      @loverofhumanity 7 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah that's the point. Guys like him shouldn't have a platform and pretend their in a position to influence. Stick to the deen and sthu. Nowadays everyone thinks they're someone that can give advice when they're just as confused and lost

    • @iyoaw4360
      @iyoaw4360 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@loverofhumanitythat's no point to do... Even if he just changes one person, he gets good deed. You're saying that lost people shouldn't give advice but aren't we all lost without Allahs guidance. And if someone wants to share his side of the guidance that Allah gave him why shouldn't he tell the people as long as he doesn't hurt anyone or go against the Deen?
      Also if one should stay with the Deen then learn to write and talk only good or else stay silent for that is the Sunnah.
      May Allah guide us to keep bad words for us and to keep us on the right path.

    • @adila2442
      @adila2442 6 месяцев назад

      The way he talks about his wife. Trust and belief if that women was your family member you would tell her to cut her losses. It's a marriage of convenience for him.

  • @basedon3334
    @basedon3334 9 месяцев назад +71

    His wife must be out of this world because this man keeps degrading her on social media and she is patient with him. He says he takes his anger on the little innocent boy, and that woman chooses to be patient with his bullshit. My blood is boiling here for that little child.

    • @F00D4theSOUL
      @F00D4theSOUL 9 месяцев назад +29

      In what way is he degrading her? He is speaking good about her, she has changed his life for the better ❤ he has traumas from the streetlife he lived those are the things he needs to sort out and find his peace. And ok it's sad that he works it out on her or her kid. But who is perfect... nobody. He is raising that kid as his own, he loves and respect his wife. Don't judge (who are you to judge anyways) by looking at fragments of an interview and look at the whole picture the whole interview.
      Anyways he'll get his haqq, like he said to all the haters who try to bring him down, on the day when he stands before Allah swt. Asalama alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

    • @_-FreePalestine-_
      @_-FreePalestine-_ 8 месяцев назад +17

      1. He did not degrade her once just talked about her circumstances and how different she was compared to the imagine he and many men have of the women they want to marry.
      2. Talked about how supportive, kind and patient she has been with him.
      3. He talked about how he has difficulty with ptsd and still dealing with anger issues from the difficult life he had led where he was tortured, stabbed and almost murdered including many other life experiences he had which affected his family life and fatherhood. He talks about how his wife has been patient with him and how he did/does his best to be a father to their child even though he isn't perfect and his past and mental health gets in the way and makes things difficult. It is clear you have no knowledge of how damaging ptsd and these psychological issues from extreme trauma can be on you and those around you as you can so easily judge this man.
      You have no right to judge this man and his family just because you watched a two minute clip of him.

    • @cyberspace7208
      @cyberspace7208 8 месяцев назад +1

      THANK YOU.

    • @capricornflower9317
      @capricornflower9317 8 месяцев назад +16

      @@_-FreePalestine-_He basically only married her in some rag tag Poundland wedding because he thought he couldn’t have children, had he not had a colostomy bag and the option of children he would have married one of his own. You know it and so does he.

    • @areejshams3253
      @areejshams3253 8 месяцев назад +1

      True

  • @deen_ki_khidmat
    @deen_ki_khidmat 7 месяцев назад +1

    Masha Allah. Alhamdulillah. May Allah fulfill your entire life with happiness, prosperity and harmony. Ameen 🇮🇳🇵🇸🇵🇸🇮🇳

  • @BigBroSadiq
    @BigBroSadiq 8 месяцев назад +18

    this brother needs to study aqidah more and focus on tasfiya wa tarbiyyah, Quran is shifa. i was shot and stabbed in jahilliya and i don't suffer from ptsd neither did the sahaba who had to see real war and fight thier own blood. focus on the actual Quran and sunnah and not trying to be a motivational speaker. your not teaching anything your using the internet as a open diary like therapy or something. focus more on zuhd and staying out of the light of the cameras lenses.

    • @mUsLiMaHx131
      @mUsLiMaHx131 8 месяцев назад +3

      Masha Allah I was thinking along these lines too. Saying that though seems like we are all a lot lot weaker than in sahabas times

    • @israafaraj3520
      @israafaraj3520 8 месяцев назад

      I don't know this guy. Never heard of him but cane across the video and your comment. Interesting point. How specifically do you think the Sahara were protected from PTSD etc ? How exactly do you feel quran and sunnah helps. Genuinely interested and not from a point of sarcasm lol

  • @CapucinoLatte-fs9wt
    @CapucinoLatte-fs9wt 7 месяцев назад +9

    I guess what his worry is normal, but Allah show him a best for him... and actually im a single mother before, no one women in this world want to be single mother, but one of sure, a single mother already have an experiance about a past and no one want a fail again for a 2nd married life, so at least someone having a fail experiance on married life before, they will more carefull to not fail again for next married life

  • @greatcaledonianpenicillin5378
    @greatcaledonianpenicillin5378 7 месяцев назад +5

    Don't really follow Aymen but this honestly shows his good character. Good on him and may he continue to inspire the youths.

  • @hudamustakkhanshab2024
    @hudamustakkhanshab2024 7 месяцев назад +5

    Oky so half of ppl here literally having this guy..why man? I just got to know about him and he already moved my heart, can't u guys see his suffering? you guys can not judge anyone like that..all of ur words ur keep using against him are disrespectful n disgusting..and lastly u should not judge the whole book when you have read only one chapter of it.

  • @hazzer4525
    @hazzer4525 7 месяцев назад

    Jazakamullah khairun may allah have mercy on your soul. Ameen

  • @survival_of_the_fittest27
    @survival_of_the_fittest27 8 месяцев назад +6

    Even Maria was a single mother, so who are we to judge when a single mother is mentioned more times in the quran than any other prophet. Subhanallah, these are bad habbits we should get rid of and use our god given brain. The same with men who wants to have sons so badly. The prophet sws only had daughters.. He adopted a boy but he himself was blessed with girls. And also he was one of the most respected and best people. We should really use our brain and espacially our hearts. Because traditions have nothing to do with our Religion. It was tradition to pray to Stones, are we doing that? No. It was tradition to burry women alive... Are we following this? Hopefully not. It was tradition that a woman is forced to a marriage she doesn't agree with, is this correct in Islam? No. It was tradition that a women has not the right to divorce (there are still people holding on that) is that something a muslim agree with? No, it's haram.
    Use your brain and your heart, dont be disrespectfull by an opinion of the society you live in.

  • @sheikhadnan4074
    @sheikhadnan4074 7 месяцев назад +15

    So basically you married her because you could never have kids. She was basically your last option

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 7 месяцев назад

      life is fate. dont use the atheist card and talk about options and calculations

    • @hadizamamud3209
      @hadizamamud3209 7 месяцев назад

      Anyone else could say the same thing but perhaps he did marry her for her and not because she was his last option as you said. As for me, I neither believe nor don't believe him. His life, his decision

    • @abeerkindred5038
      @abeerkindred5038 3 месяца назад

      He would've said he married her because he loved her, but no he emphasizes that she "slid into his DMs " and asked him​@@hadizamamud3209

  • @onelife41266
    @onelife41266 2 месяца назад +6

    But what if you could have children?

  • @lizz4390
    @lizz4390 9 месяцев назад +26

    It can never be me asking a bloody man to get married😂😂

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  9 месяцев назад +1

      🤣🤣

    • @nicholariffin2551
      @nicholariffin2551 9 месяцев назад +5

      Allah is in control ❤

    • @muzammilfarooq555
      @muzammilfarooq555 8 месяцев назад +4

      You could never be lucky enough to 've this kindaa husband ....To 've husband like him you should have eman

    • @AReflectiveSoul
      @AReflectiveSoul 8 месяцев назад +1

      Dont speak too soon

    • @IJustBeMackin
      @IJustBeMackin 8 месяцев назад

      Are you married now?

  • @TheCivilNegro09
    @TheCivilNegro09 6 месяцев назад +1

    akhi ayman really teaches that friends are the enemy i sets me back to a book i'm currently reading called ''Voltaire a life'' by ian davidson voltaire is french and while i was reading the book voltaire said ''lord ets me back to a book i'm currently reading called ''A life,Voltaire'' by ian davidson i recall him saying in the book and i quote''Lord protect me from my friends i will take care of my enemies'' what can we learn from Voltaire and akhi ayman here it's that they both say and can agree not on many things but on one important one it's that your friends are the one's that can ruin you both inside and outside oh and mentally too once they're done and see that there's nothing left your'e as fucked as someone can ever be, one last thing robert greene the guy who wrote ''48 laws of power said ''learn to use your friends'' not betray them or make it bait but to use them because your friends will always spill its human nature it ALWAYS HAPPENDS. i do know this comment isn't about this video but it's about him talking about how his friend has wronged him.

  • @EruRoraitoX
    @EruRoraitoX 7 месяцев назад +6

    These people talking how the follow the salafi but never acting like one. What happened to the Prophet a.s. which married a woman who had been married before and was older than him aswell, what happened to that Sahaba whom married a nok virgin woman because she was more mature and he needed one in his family because he had younger siblings.
    As I said, too much for a so called "salafi".
    In the end these group names means nothing.

    • @Adam10412
      @Adam10412 7 месяцев назад +2

      Being salafi has nothing to do with marrying divorces. The prophet (peace be upon him) also married 'Aisha
      and he also married multiple wives. In the hadith that you mentioned, the prophet also clearly inquires as to why the sahabi didn't marry a virgin as that would be the recommended option and the reason as to why he didn't marry a virgin is just as you mentioned, because he needed someone to look after his siblings as well. So the normative state of affairs would've been marrying a virgin because he was a virgin as well. And this is not to say that divorcees shouldn't be married but to claim that someone who's young isn't following the salaf because he didn't marry a divorcee is quite frankly a ludicrous notion.

  • @DM-cf8fi
    @DM-cf8fi 7 месяцев назад +32

    Guys the only reason he married her is because he can't have his own kids. If he could have his own kids he wouldn't consider her. So this is not him being a good person or a flex. He had no other options.

    • @loverofhumanity
      @loverofhumanity 7 месяцев назад +10

      Agree..dude just sounds like a loser. Wannabe ganster. What a poser. MF go be a good dad and stop harming that kid he doesn't deserve you spazzing all day

    • @kephrenh
      @kephrenh 7 месяцев назад +4

      The thing is that it is a herd mentality that got a lot of men saying they won’t date a single mother. Truth is they don’t know themselves how they will react if they find themselves attracted to one.

    • @clementeen
      @clementeen 7 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly, it shouldn’t have to come to a flaw within a man for him to consider women with “flaws”. There is no shame in being a single mother. Im 41 and still a virgin, still waiting to find a decent muslim man who doesn’t treat me like dirt. Please wake up muslim men!

    • @DM-cf8fi
      @DM-cf8fi 7 месяцев назад +2

      36 and a virgin because some of are actually on the Deen and not weak as hell like the Muslim men of today.

    • @Sarah.G_2
      @Sarah.G_2 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@kephrenhMuslims don’t date.

  • @usman7207
    @usman7207 Месяц назад

    Subhanallah ❤

  • @asid731
    @asid731 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love akhi and salfish

  • @user-zm3no5xb6t
    @user-zm3no5xb6t 8 месяцев назад +13

    So like was HE a virgin when he wanted to get married to a virgin?

    • @dh.9829
      @dh.9829 7 месяцев назад +7

      Ughh r u not watching? He literally said that was his mentally BACK THEN People grow they change thats literally what he says

    • @user-zm3no5xb6t
      @user-zm3no5xb6t 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@dh.9829 I’m not talking about MENTALITY. I’m trying to see if he had double standards or not

    • @Haroon-kp9gx
      @Haroon-kp9gx 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@user-zm3no5xb6t and how is that information gonna benefit you?

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 7 месяцев назад

      @user-zm3no5xb6t Nah, that's the worst part about it 😢 He doesn't have the qualifications that he is seeking in another. He did say within this conversation that he was sleeping around, because he was being advised by the woman (who is now his wife) to "get rid of the bad bitches"

    • @user-zm3no5xb6t
      @user-zm3no5xb6t 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@leaellas8400 I think it was more like “get rid of the pictures with other females” but I guess yours is similar 😂
      Man his wife must’ve really wanted him and cared for him despite his bad past and the fact he’s sick. You can see the remorse in his eyes though. I’m wondering how does a privilege guy like him with parents and siblings end up in a gang?

  • @michaelgerardcondon8531
    @michaelgerardcondon8531 7 месяцев назад

    My kurdish iraqi friend would flip out if his son did not marry a kurdish girl . I do not judge unfortunately many people will

  • @LuxHumilis
    @LuxHumilis 4 месяца назад +5

    So was she really his last option? He also could have married his preference and be childless.

    • @jiokenna
      @jiokenna 2 месяца назад

      And the woman?

    • @usman7207
      @usman7207 Месяц назад

      He loved her Character.

  • @Zxter
    @Zxter 7 месяцев назад +4

    Imagine not being able to have kids…

    • @gfdddf4388
      @gfdddf4388 7 месяцев назад +3

      It wasn't meant to be but that don't mean his life is meaningless

    • @Zxter
      @Zxter 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@gfdddf4388 true… it’s so sad actually, I could never imagine that. I have always wanted my own children.

    • @AmarLovesQuran
      @AmarLovesQuran 7 месяцев назад +2

      Allah blessed him with a daughter

    • @Thatguynumber1_
      @Thatguynumber1_ 7 месяцев назад

      @@AmarLovesQuransay Allahumma Barik MashAllah

    • @AmarLovesQuran
      @AmarLovesQuran 7 месяцев назад

      Allahuma barak@@Thatguynumber1_

  • @rukshanaali4958
    @rukshanaali4958 7 месяцев назад +2

    Pls people dont click on his video. Thats how he gets popular.

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  7 месяцев назад +11

      Nothing wrong in spreading good

    • @sumaiyaslaveofallah8324
      @sumaiyaslaveofallah8324 7 месяцев назад

      ‘If Allah touches you with harm, none can undo it except Him. And if He intends good for you, none can withhold His bounty. He grants it to whoever He wills of His servants. And He is the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.’”

    • @LickyTee
      @LickyTee 7 месяцев назад

      You’re just a hater

    • @rukshanaali4958
      @rukshanaali4958 6 месяцев назад

      @lickytee8153 sorry in my experience muslim men are the worst hypocrites. Being a Muslim is suppose to make you a better human being.

  • @user-kg1rm7ro1s
    @user-kg1rm7ro1s 7 месяцев назад +4

    We should never take advice from a man who keeps his hair in a ponytail.

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  7 месяцев назад +8

      Don't judge a book by it's cover ✌️

    • @user-kg1rm7ro1s
      @user-kg1rm7ro1s 7 месяцев назад

      @@Shareenbi8743 well if he is giving Islamic advice he should know that men can't have ponytails.

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  7 месяцев назад +1

      @@user-kg1rm7ro1s he doesn't have pony anymore

    • @user-kg1rm7ro1s
      @user-kg1rm7ro1s 7 месяцев назад

      @@Shareenbi8743 you can see in the video he has his hair tied up

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  7 месяцев назад

      @@user-kg1rm7ro1she went umrah so he don't have it anymore , watch his latest vids

  • @Musa_Nil
    @Musa_Nil 5 месяцев назад +2

    Riddle me this: why should I take care of a single mother when her first husband is still alive? Checkmate.

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  5 месяцев назад +35

      Does this look like a riddle page to you

    • @Musa_Nil
      @Musa_Nil 5 месяцев назад

      @@Shareenbi8743 why are you butthurt? I just spoke my mind is all

    • @Shareenbi8743
      @Shareenbi8743  5 месяцев назад +23

      @@Musa_Nil speak your mind else where

    • @Musa_Nil
      @Musa_Nil 5 месяцев назад

      @@Shareenbi8743 C'mon stop being melodramatic

    • @incrxdible9896
      @incrxdible9896 5 месяцев назад +14

      @@Musa_NilBecause he left her? Her ex husband isnt going to look after her

  • @BigAhmed-qj7wz
    @BigAhmed-qj7wz 7 месяцев назад +8

    I will never take advice from a road man or ex road man

    • @MysticYusha
      @MysticYusha 7 месяцев назад +1

      I would never take advice from a person with that kind of profile picture on youtube

    • @BigAhmed-qj7wz
      @BigAhmed-qj7wz 7 месяцев назад

      @@MysticYusha I uploaded this pic when I was around 20/21 years old and since then I can’t change it; I have tried numerous times.

    • @loverofhumanity
      @loverofhumanity 7 месяцев назад +1

      You nailed it lol. I'm happy when they change their ways but the auducity for somwone like that to actually go on a platform and think theyre wise enough to give advice. Mf your not someone any of us should aspire too. Stay off the Internet and focus on not getting stabbed. Unreal

    • @BigAhmed-qj7wz
      @BigAhmed-qj7wz 7 месяцев назад

      @@loverofhumanity Hahaha spot on 💯

    • @hadizamamud3209
      @hadizamamud3209 7 месяцев назад

      I don't understand. What's a road man?🤷