REAL TRUTH: Everything I did in life was for the validation of women...
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Thanks for sharing your honest insights, John!
It's incredibly valuable to hear someone speak so openly about the drive for female validation, which I agree is something many guys, including myself, have experienced either openly or subconsciously. Your journey from external to internal validation is truly inspiring. Appreciate your transparency and the lessons it brings!
Growing up as a dorky nerd has left you with a bunch of unresolved trauma. I see a lot of guys that never grow out of it.
John has never been a nerd. He has always been a stud. A programmer with some serious weaknesses at times but always a stud. This is the truth.
Yeah look at that stud in glasses, acne, and weird hair 30 years ago
@@Tetrislover-xm4vi He's still better than you.
You’re right, praise the all mighty infallible John Sonmez
@@Tetrislover-xm4vi the man is super successful
All I ever did was for validation of women. Saying otherwise was cope. Most dorks still cope this way.
I completely agree with John’s arch. I’m following him for a long time, and he is great. Sometimes I agreed, sometimes not. But he is talking facts. John you are great!
interesting video
My corny, unwarranted advice: Trust in G-d.
Hey John, long time supporter here. First of all I want to say I deeply appreciate your honesty and it's one of the things that keeps me coming back to your channel when I have out grown many others of a similar elk.
I am going to be honest, I am disappointed that this was true about you for the majority of your time on RUclips. And if others are feeling the same I think it is deserved only because you always talked about being self-motivated. I understand it's nuanced since you were unaware of your own motives, but it's only natural for your fans to feel this way.
That being said I am curious as to why you still train and read books now that you're happily married to your dream girl?
You can say that "I'm doing it for me", but my question in response is "how do you know that?". Since you have been deceiving yourself for years how do you know if you are not just doing it again. "I just know" or "It feels different" also seems inadequate because I can very easily see past John responding the same way.
I know some of my comments may seem harsh, I am not saying for the sake of saying it. I do believe that you are on a depression loop that won't end until you gain clarity with your true motives and you truly live by your own principle of being self-motivated.
I wish you the best of luck in your journey John.
I think john should go back to what he was doing before. This relationship stuff is really not that useful, that market is oversaturated. I can say the things I do are not for chicks.
biological imperatives are the reason we're breathing right now and its really the only driver for humans biologically or some even say, empirically.
If you had more kids, you'd be motivated in more ways. Would be cool if you had a son, I know you mentioned in a previous video having a vasotomy but they can be reversed
loved the video, the journey of self-knowledge is the greatest journey out there and its always interesting to see others with the courage to express it, thanks
Hi Jon,
I’m in a kinda weird spot in life rn and would really appreciate some advice, I’m 23 just graduating college with a useless degree.
I am a relatively handsome guy and 6 ft tall though so I starting using a dating app two months ago and take social anxiety meds when on dates, and have actually had success getting second dates, and even getting laid. One girl has become an fwb that I’ve slept with 5 times now. I got friendzoned on first date by one of the six I met.
But I know if I’m not in a real career within a few years (or get out of shape) I will lose my ability to get girls. Also right now I’m pretty weak as a man (not a man yet tbh) so a relationship would probably be a disaster (not something I’d consider at this point)
What career path do you recommend? trade school? cyber security? is it too late to enter those since I probably wouldn’t get a career till late 20s? I really don’t know what to do career wise, but I can tell if I don’t choose something quick and work hard at it, it’s gonna be a real problem.
Great video btw, I can relate a lot to it at this stage in life haha
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A true bulldog doesn’t look up to his woman as the prize
Damn dude, how long were you with Nicole before you tried to get back with your wife?
It’s a long story. It was 6 or 7 months in. I was a mess from being riddled with guilt and then not seeing my daughter.