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  • @hootowlholler3760
    @hootowlholler3760 Год назад +42

    I'm reaching through the phone to give you a big hug & to tell you that it isn't your fault. I believe that you did all that you could for Chino & you did not fail him nor your child! Have you thanked God that you got to nurse & take care of one of His greatest creations? Thank Him for the experience & the knowledge that He gave you. Trust Him. Now, please tell me Gracie & Storm didn't roll where Chino died. Was he buried on the Farm?

    • @sandyc6569
      @sandyc6569 Год назад

      😊👍

    • @Lex-vx9zx
      @Lex-vx9zx Год назад +6

      @@sandyc6569sandy this is not the time for those dang emojis lol

    • @sandyc6569
      @sandyc6569 Год назад +1

      @@Lex-vx9zx I am agreeing with Hoot! Leave my DANG emoji alone! 😂😂

    • @mered30
      @mered30 Год назад +3

      I’m reaching through my iPad to give them a hug too.

    • @sandyc6569
      @sandyc6569 Год назад +2

      @@Imgonnatouchyu IT WAS NOT LAURA"S FAULT! Who are you to be saying something like that? You need to move on,you are not wanted here!! 👿👿👿👿👿👿

  • @SarahCleaver-d6k
    @SarahCleaver-d6k Год назад +21

    Delete the comment if you want but filming vlogs over his death for views is incredibly distasteful

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      Filming vlogs over a tragedy that happened in our family allows us to share when we need to most. It allows us an outlet to share and honor his story. It allows us to get comfort from our community when we need it most, and it gives us a digital memory that we will have forever. We deserve to share our grief and honor his life in any way we chose.

    • @SarahCleaver-d6k
      @SarahCleaver-d6k Год назад +17

      A digital memory of your horses decline? sure. my heart goes out to gabby for losing her horse and i hope she grieves in the way she needs. But the fact that you make money off this is exploitative. @@DayByDayVlogs

  • @KarenBadrick1
    @KarenBadrick1 Год назад +6

    RIP Chino,
    You didnt fail him, you went above and beyond in helping him, you tried alot more then some owners would have

  • @thecountrygirl4846
    @thecountrygirl4846 Год назад +10

    Words can’t describe how sorry I am. I hope Gabby takes the time she needs to grieve. You all did everything you could for chino and he knows that. Just hang in there and take everything step by step. Allow yourself to feel emotions, it’s sad, it’s not fair and blocking in those feeling will not help. I appreciate you showing us the hard parts, like others I feel like I lost chino too. He was loved by so many. Rest in peace Chino ❤

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +2

      Thank you! Thanks for loving him with us!

  • @pnhnut
    @pnhnut Год назад +4

    Oh no... completely ugly crying right now. I can't believe he is gone. Oh no, dear Gabby must be devastated... sending love and hugs to Gabby. oh no... poor baby - he is going to be missed. This is utterly heartbreaking. I am so sorry to hear this guys, I hope your hearts are healing.

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      I have literally been ugly crying to 2 days. It just comes when i least expect it. Thank you for caring about iur boy!

    • @pnhnut
      @pnhnut Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs I am so sorry Laura. I felt so connected to Chino because he was so similar to my Marco.. they could have been twins. I lost my boy too soon to an enlarged heart and eventually congestive heart failure. I still cry to this day thinking about the day we released him from his miserable life. Now he runs free with the happy glimmer in his eye once again. ((hugs to Gabby)) Poor girl, I can't imagine how painful this must be for her with a new school and all the things that are teenage girl life - losing Chino must be especially devastating for her. Please take care of yourself and allow your grief to ride those waves.

  • @tonyassage
    @tonyassage Год назад +5

    You did not fail him you did everything you could. You did right by him through it all. His life ended with love and dignity so many horses do not get that. He will live forever in your hearts and memory's.

  • @LD_Eventerjumping12
    @LD_Eventerjumping12 Год назад +2

    Im sorry for your lose..I got informed that Peanut that was at my camp called woodland horse center had sadly passed away, and smudge got bought! My friend Meg really loved Smudge… I miss my friends at woodland but maybe I will see them again…

  • @scarletbishop6289
    @scarletbishop6289 Год назад +13

    Don't apologize Laura. I think I speak for all of your loyal viewers when I say that if you need time to mourn, whatever that looks like for you, take that time. We will understand. You are experiencing a great loss. We will be here, no matter what content you do or don't post.

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +4

      Thank you so much! These comments truly help to heal us. The support and kindness makes me know he was so well loved and I'm so grateful to have shared him.

  • @lesleyprice3740
    @lesleyprice3740 Год назад +5

    Please don't think you have failed Chino, you did everything you could for him. You kept your final duty to him, letting him go and be pain free even though your heart is breaking.😢❤️

  • @katieroenigk7200
    @katieroenigk7200 Год назад +7

    I believe we will see our animals whether dogs cats or horses in heaven again someday, their beautiful souls were here for a short time but they live in.. I lost a dog and my horse last year it still hurts almost a year later to think of them and I still cry but God knows

  • @IntoTheDarkness24
    @IntoTheDarkness24 Год назад +21

    I feel like Stella was waiting for Chino on the other side of the rainbow 🌈 he not alone but he always be in our hearts 💕

  • @clairebear_9
    @clairebear_9 Год назад +5

    Laura, Sam, Gabby & Sophie the loss of Chino has had a profound affect on you in your own unique way. Please take the time to grieve for that beautiful boy, forget the channel for a while, everyone will understand you need to process what has happened. Those of us who have lost horses no matter how they passed, know exactly what you are feeling right now. Know that we are thinking of you and in a small way that we are grieving for Chino with along with you. ❤
    None of you are to blame, you did your absolute best for Chino, bless him for he is at rest now running free across the rainbow bridge 🌈
    In time the grief will become bearable which will allow those wonderful memories of him to shine through. Lots of love from the UK ❤xx

  • @kevincadventures2976
    @kevincadventures2976 Год назад +5

    Laura, Sam, Gabby and Sophie I'm sorry for your loss of chino, chino was a great horse.

  • @kerrietowell760
    @kerrietowell760 Год назад +9

    How is Gabby doing Laura and everyone else I know it's hard but we're all here for you xx

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +5

      Shes quiet .. nights are hardest but she's ok. She hasn't been back to the barn yet...

    • @kerrietowell760
      @kerrietowell760 Год назад

      @DayByDayVlogs it will be hard on her, but with all your love, she will when she's ready. I hope you are doing OK too xx

  • @amandamanwering6940
    @amandamanwering6940 Год назад +3

    Hugs and prayers you gave him the best life, diseases is something we can't always control. My cousin lost one of his professional team roping horses to epm a few years ago. It was very hard on him.
    Our horses are our best friends they will always have our hearts. Even if the angels are taking care of them for us until we can reunite. Love you gals husband and me are both praying and sending hugs.

  • @katlee888
    @katlee888 Год назад +4

    you didn’t fail him, you gave him the most amazing life he could of ever wished for, a while ago i wrote a little poem, i hope it gives you comfort,
    Home,
    when i go home please don’t be sad,
    im free of that body now that can’t be bad,
    i’ll feel no more pain and life long drain,
    i will be welcomed by family i’ll be home again,
    life was a series of lessons i needed to experience and to see;
    i chose my symptoms my pain and misery.
    when it comes for the day for you to go,
    i’ll be there beside you to welcome you HOME
    written by kat lee

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      This is incredibly beautiful! Thank you for sharing your poem

  • @andreaburke6009
    @andreaburke6009 Год назад +19

    You did what you could for him now he’s not in pain and he’s running around with Stella ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @cathymcglasson6947
    @cathymcglasson6947 Год назад +2

    No one failed our big beautiful boy he was struggling and I could see it I just didn't want to believe it as I convinced myself he would beat this but it wasn't meant to be but no one failed him. How's Gabby doing? I worry about her heart

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      She is numb and trying no to think about it. Nights are hardest. She hasn't been back in the barn yet. Maybe today...

    • @cathymcglasson6947
      @cathymcglasson6947 Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs I hope she can pull through this with open eyes I know it's hard and going to be for a long time.

  • @AdeleRoseBracken
    @AdeleRoseBracken Год назад +5

    Grief is a hard thing to bear. It leaves an invisible wound that although may heal over time it leaves a scar. Know that you tried for him and Gabby, you fought for a long time and sadly you didn’t win this battle. But You gave him the best shot with what you had! As someone in veterinary medicine I applaud you for your care to Chinobambino. He was so lucky to have you! It’s so sad how it didnt work out, but you can’t save them all 😢 Take time for yourselves and grieve ❤️

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much! Our vet said the same thing... oddly it never feels like enough!

    • @AdeleRoseBracken
      @AdeleRoseBracken Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs it never does because we always hope and pray for the best outcome possible! Its good because it keeps us going but hurts so much when it doesn’t go to plan. Sending you all lots of love.

  • @rosalineclarke9232
    @rosalineclarke9232 Год назад +2

    It is not your fault. Hug your animals and think of the happy memories you made with him❤❤❤❤ 8:00 8:02 8:03 ❤❤

  • @gemmamatheson1675
    @gemmamatheson1675 Год назад +13

    You didn’t fail . You did the absolute best for chino and chino knows that. Failure is not trying and you and the vet and farrier did the best that you could for him.sending prayers from New zealand

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +6

      Thank you. I truly thought he wouod get better. The end came so suddenly!

    • @braydenwilde8643
      @braydenwilde8643 Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogsI had the same situation, but with my dog. He was sick, and because of his age he had done that before and bounced back. I thought he would. Then he was gone.

  • @pamelalalmond8322
    @pamelalalmond8322 Год назад +5

    Thank you for videoing today
    I’m sure your grief is heavy… but you sharing the video helps us cope also. I feel he was my horse too in a virtual sort of way

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      Thank you so much for that! I just answered another comment saying that us videoing about him is distasteful, and I forgot to tell her that so many of you know him and are a part of our story and you deserve to be a part of the ending as well!

  • @Velcro1997
    @Velcro1997 Год назад

    I’m very sorry for your loss. I had to let my first horse go March 16, 2010 and my two other heart horses this past May. The loss of these three still physically hurts my soul. Doing the right thing by letting them go leaves us so broken. 😢

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      I'm so sorry. It's so hard that they all don't get to stay! God bless. I hope your doing om!

  • @suzetteosgood1385
    @suzetteosgood1385 Год назад +3

    You all did everything you could for Chino to make him feel better 😢he knows that he was loved, Rest in peace big handsome man we all love you and miss you 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @melinaowen2668
    @melinaowen2668 Год назад +3

    Hugs to all of you. Letting an animal family member go is very hard. Sweet Chino is in a better place now, not hurting anymore.

  • @theimperfectequestrian
    @theimperfectequestrian Год назад +6

    When they leave us they break our hearts. But it's important to know there is a reason they do this. It's the only way, they can take a piece of your heart with them. When your heart heals there will always be that little piece missing, but it's not gone. They still have it with them. They will use that piece to find you again one day when it's time. And then they will rebuild your heart and all the love will be whole again.

  • @Lex-vx9zx
    @Lex-vx9zx Год назад +6

    I’m so sorry to you all, but especially Gabby 🩵 grief is a long, painful process and it never really goes away. I hope you all can find peace with this loss. You made the best decision for Chino, he will appreciate that while he’s able to run freely in horsey heaven. Rest in paradise beautiful Chino 🩵🩵

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      Time will help... its just do early still

  • @sandyc6569
    @sandyc6569 Год назад +2

    I sooo sorry this happened! Laura you did everything you could! Please don't take this out on yurself! You worked hard trying to get him better! It was just his time to go! He in horse heaven now with Stella running free and having the time of his life! Hows Gabby? Bless her heart! I know it's gonna be painful for a while to come but eventually the pain will lessen but it will never go completely away! I will keep you folks in my prayers for sure! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      Gabby is sad and doing her best. It's so hard sandy... I wish I had expected it!

    • @sandyc6569
      @sandyc6569 Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs I know it is gf It truly is heartbreaking! Hey if you need to take a break from YT please do so! We be here when you get back! 🙏🙏🤗🤗💗💗

  • @AshleyKerr232
    @AshleyKerr232 Год назад +10

    You didn’t fail at all as I’ve said before you did everything you could have. Don’t be sorry as words can’t always describe how you’re feeling and what you’re going through right now. Chino knows how much you guys loved him and how much the world loved him just because of seeing him in videos and at shows. Hugs to all of you especially gabby.

  • @cindynaylor8043
    @cindynaylor8043 Год назад +1

    You definitely did not fail Chino X he couldn't have been cared for better than you all cared for him X you all made him happy, and loved, he had a best friend in Gabby who loved and understood him X you were all lucky to have had each other X and in another life you will be together again X sending big hugs to you all X X

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      Thank you! He truly did love her . I'm so glad he knew love!

    • @cindynaylor8043
      @cindynaylor8043 Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs He really did X you should all be proud of all the time, love and care you gave to Chino X you could truly see from your videos the connection between Gabby and Chino X nothing will take that away X keep inspiring everyone X lots of love coming your way X

  • @jenlski8768
    @jenlski8768 Год назад

    I am so very sorry for your loss. RIP Chino Bambino. 😢😢😢

  • @muckingfentalkaren5592
    @muckingfentalkaren5592 Год назад +2

    You didn’t fail you did ur best and as someone said he is with Stella running pain free sending love to you all ❤❤❤

  • @Fijiholic
    @Fijiholic Год назад +1

    Aww this is devastating, absolutely heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for you all, especially your daughter Gabby. 😢 Chino was her heart horse. Everyone tried so hard for him, you never gave up, and stood by him until the end. ❤

  • @Sapphire771
    @Sapphire771 Год назад

    I just read/saw your social media [facebook] post I’m so sorry for the passing of Chino… he’s with Stella and Levi (the bird) and with my mini Goldie, my llamas Galaxy and Heidi, and my maltese mix dog Fern

  • @cooper1645
    @cooper1645 Год назад +4

    I hope Gabby finds another horse to love soon.

  • @kittvskarrkr6074
    @kittvskarrkr6074 Год назад

    I lost a horse this year too. Then my grandpa and my dog. My heart goes out to yall

  • @Kae-700
    @Kae-700 Год назад +1

    Owning horses can be the best blessing and then there are these days. The days you have to say goodbye because that's what you do. What's best for the horse. Their well-being over your own. I am absolutely sorry for your loss. My prayers go to you and your family.

  • @BarnBootsandCountryRoots
    @BarnBootsandCountryRoots Год назад

    Grief and pain are almost more overwhelming in the days following the loss, than the actual day itself. It is the silence, and their missing presence that swallows us whole. Allow yourself to feel it. When we lost Foxy last year, I would think I had cried all the tears I could, and then something would happen and I would burst into tears all over again…. This went on for months. Give yourself grace, and allow yourself to cry. It is the only way to process the grief of losing your boy. And give yourself grace in knowing that you didn’t fail. You didn’t make him sick. Nobody can prevent a single bug bite, or cancer. Nobody. It is impossible. You searched tirelessly for answers. When you found the answers, you followed all the recommendations given. You sought second opinions. You followed what the medical professionals suggested, and when they didn’t work, you gave your boy peace. At NO POINT did a vet say it was time to put him down and you refused. They thought they could help, and everyone fought along side him. Anyone who loves animals would do the same. They would do their best to exhaust all possibilities that could possibly save their animal, and if the options didn’t work, they would make the difficult decision to say goodbye. That is exactly what you did. It hurts. You miss him. You wish things could have been different, but you didn’t fail him. Never think that. ❤😢

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      We are so similar! It's always the same for me too.❤️

  • @Siobhan_Shivaun
    @Siobhan_Shivaun Год назад +3

    So sorry for your loss ((hugs)) 💔 😢 R.I.P. Chino

  • @ally-o-oreo6090
    @ally-o-oreo6090 Год назад +4

    Laura at some point in time, you really should contact whatever agency overseas veterinarians in your area and inform them of the vet that wouldn’t listen to you and did not diagnose him sooner that’s a form of malpractice refusing to do testing in. Ultimately it led to Chino suffering you did the best you could you tried as hard as you could nothing more you could’ve done. The reason I said report the vet that did not do the testing is because you don’t want anyone else to have to go through the pain that you’re going through and just know he’s no longer suffering. He’s with Stella. ❤

  • @donnacoffey4947
    @donnacoffey4947 Год назад

    Gabby and Family, i went back and watched some past videos of you an Chino riding and competing. Through my tears I could see the love between the two of you build and build. Gabby, his eyes always shone and lit up when you were around. My heart hurts for you, your family, and the herd. Please know that so many of us pray for all of you to take your time, cry, laugh through your tears, and just do the best that you can in your own space and time.

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      Awe! Thank you so much. I'm going to do that this weekend as well. I just need to harden my heart first

  • @law7897
    @law7897 Год назад

    Laura, please don’t feel like you failed. You fought for Chino and did everything you could to make him pain free. Unfortunately the outcome wasn’t what we all wanted, but he is pain free now and that really was the last of act of kindness you could give him when he was struggling. R.I.P Cappuccino Minute (Chino) run free now xx

  • @Lola-lw6xy
    @Lola-lw6xy Год назад +8

    You haven't failed, You tried everything that you could in your power to save him.... I unfortunately lost a load of animals and people so I understand what you are going through if you need time to process take it we're always here for you... And there not gone your memories with him is alive as well as him being in your heart and he'll be always looking down on you! ' Rest in peace Chino you will be missed by your Family, the other horses, and by us Viewers!.''

  • @jalenewarner9514
    @jalenewarner9514 Год назад +3

    You did the best you could for Chino! I understand that you all are hurting and that's understandable when you lose a family member. God Bless you Laura and your family.

  • @PatriciaGarcia-sm8is
    @PatriciaGarcia-sm8is Год назад +2

    Laura, you dont needs words your actions speaks volumes. Laura and family you all did everything you could for Chino. Sadly Chino’s body started to shut down. If it wasnt for God calling Chino home he would have continued to fight for Gabby. Chino stayed through all this for Gabby. Just remember the bond Chino and Gabby have will never be broken. Remember Chino , grieve for your loss, take time to grieve. No one is expecting anything from you loss is hard . Just praying Gabby is alright along with the rest of the family. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰💜💜💜💜

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      Thank you!

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      He walked for gabby. Sam and I tried and tried, but he wouldn't even take a step in those fancy shoes that were supposed to mean no pain. Gabby asked him once to walk and he did... he did for her. It was a slow walk to grass but he did it for her, and she will always remember that.

    • @PatriciaGarcia-sm8is
      @PatriciaGarcia-sm8is Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs that memory will live forever in Gabby’s heart . Gabby will always be Chinos person. Even more so now . Chino will be her guardian angel. Chino was in your lives to fill a special place in your hearts. No one would have ever loved him as much and Gabby or your family. You never gave up on him and he knows thats why he did and gave his all for Gabby until The very end. Gabby I am sure told him in her own words its okay to allow Chino go over the rainbow in peace to be with Macy and Stella and all the rest of your loved ones. Love kept him going and the lived shared set him free. No matter how hard it is to love and say good bye , its never truly good by but until we see you again 🤗🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰💜💜💜💜

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @biancagravely4372
    @biancagravely4372 Год назад

    It’s always so hard to loose them….I lost my dream horse this year and haven’t fully healed from it. She was a true unicorn and I didn’t get enough time with her 💔I feel your pain. Just know he’s flying high now

  • @debbieplummer4127
    @debbieplummer4127 Год назад +6

    Sending my hugs and thoughts in this hard time rest in peace beautiful chino xxx

  • @29socharmed
    @29socharmed Год назад +2

    I’m completely heartbroken for your family. You guys did everything you could for him. Sending all the love to your family ♥️♥️♥️

  • @leahheapp
    @leahheapp Год назад

    Cleaning up after an animal you have just lost is such a painful part of the loss. I have often left it for days before I could face it myself. Or I have had to do it straight away before the reality of them being gone hit in. It hurts to clean away any tiny bit of them you have left. Take care of yourselves and surround yourself with love and your animals. Sending you all love ❤️

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      Grief truly is such a personal experience, isn't it. There's no wrong or right way to handle it. It's just whatever feels right at the time. Gabby hasn't been back to the barn yet even.

  • @heidimoodie5577
    @heidimoodie5577 Год назад

    Laura, you didn't fail Chino. You did everything you possibly could. Chino knows you loved him. Just think of this. He Is in no more pain. He is in a much better place.
    Take your time to grieve. No one is gonna be upset. We all love you guys. Please send my condolences to Gabby. My heart breaks for you all. God bless.

  • @Harlow_fanpage634
    @Harlow_fanpage634 Год назад +1

    I know Lara it’s hard but it’s not your guys fault he will the happiest life in horse heaven with more horses he will always come down to the barn and you guys and he will always be in your guys heart for ever he’ll be running with Stella that’s what you just have to think of god will take such good care of him love you guys ❤❤ love you chino bambino ❤❤😢

  • @victoriaslife66
    @victoriaslife66 Год назад

    Crying right now ugh I’ll miss chino I know I never met him but I loved that horse 💔 I’m sorry gabby

  • @anntovey4064
    @anntovey4064 Год назад +5

    ❤️❤️Love Chino❤️❤️ my heart goes out to you ,you couldn't have tried any harder than you did ❤❤

  • @sheblyne
    @sheblyne Год назад

    He had some very happy years with all of you and Gabby and Willow. He was always happy to be with you. Did you fail him? I don't think so, certainly not once you had the diagnosis. It was getting the diagnoses that could have gone better and finding it much quicker may have lead to a different outcome. I believe now you are confident enough if something is not working, or a certain vet is not able to do what you feel a certain horse needs to be done, or you're not getting the results you need to be seeing , that now after Chino you'll be able to ask for a second opinion or a referral to a vet that does proide that service or even a referral to the clinic at Guelph if you can't get any answers. But we only know what we know so in the future things will be different for you. Poor Gabby never failed Chino and spent so much time nursing him and being with him and I know that made him very happy. I know he loved being shown by Gabby and doing his best for her. That will always be Chino's stall,maybe you could put a nameplate on it that says just that. His buckets and tubs, his halter and bridle should be his alone and Gabby should keep them or move them on, her choice. He's so much a part of your new barn and will always be.

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      YA thats such a great idea thank you! I am definitely a different person now for sure.

  • @wearefarm-ish4986
    @wearefarm-ish4986 Год назад +3

    ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
    I can only be called a failure if one did not try ❤

  • @jessicaconrad133
    @jessicaconrad133 Год назад +1

    It isn’t your fault you guys gave him the best life ever and I know he knows you did what you had to do

  • @mered30
    @mered30 Год назад +10

    How is Gabby handling this? Giving virtual hugs to her.

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      He is numb!

    • @suzetteosgood1385
      @suzetteosgood1385 Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs give Gabby big hugs for me, it's never easy saying goodbye to anyone let alone your best friend and partner. Chino reminded me of Freedom same build and same maners same color Freedom, Stella , Chino are all together.

    • @mered30
      @mered30 Год назад +1

      @@suzetteosgood1385 I’m so sorry for your loss too

  • @melissamiller1513
    @melissamiller1513 Год назад

    So very sorry my heart goes too out to you family especially Gabby. Remember the good times ,chino would want you to smile and remember his life all the love he received. It's not goodbye its so long for now till you meet again .

  • @sarahhughes2080
    @sarahhughes2080 Год назад

    You did nothing wrong please don’t be sorry you did everything right you got a second opinion and got him pain medication to help him you gave him the best care and most importantly he passed knowing all the love you gave him there’s absolutely nothing wrong in that

  • @kathifrangquist7319
    @kathifrangquist7319 Год назад +2

    you gave him the best gift he could've ever had.... you let him go!

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      It was the hardest gift to give. We followed the recommendations of our vet and let him lead us in his care and when to let him go. Thats all.we.could do.

  • @littleninja0
    @littleninja0 Год назад

    I'm sorry that you had to go through this, hopefully in a while you will realise that Chino is not suffering any more and is at peace. I understand that everything hurts right now as things remind you of him. But your other animals seem happy and healthy and hopefully you won't have to deal with this scenario again. x

  • @karentilney3829
    @karentilney3829 Год назад

    You certainly didnt fail him, you gave him every chance but unfortunately it wasnt meant to be. Its always so difficult saying goodbye to our animals, they are such a huge part of the family. Take comfort in knowing hes no longer in pain. I still often think of our mare who we had to pts but know in my heart we did what was right for her and im sure youll be the same in time. Xxx

  • @Starry_Night_Sky7455
    @Starry_Night_Sky7455 Год назад

    I hate to ask this but where was he buried?
    Also now that you all went through lyme, you will probably always be vigilant regarding ticks. Horses can be completely asymptomatic. Others get lyme and all complications show up. It's just potentially difficult to manage as you now understand. It is weird cleaning up after they're gone. But if you look around, strange signs from their freed spirit can appear.

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      I haven't seen any signs of him yet....😭 chino had lyme for a long but it only truly became an issue when he got run down. I don't think I will ever not know when a horse has Lyme again. I've gotten messages from people who have tested their horses for lyme because of chino. So that's a blessing!

  • @willow21
    @willow21 Год назад

    Im sorry for your loss its hard to lose a pet or a famliy member or even a friend but you have them deep in your heart ❤ my cat passed away a year ago but it was hard for me to let go of being sad i had great memories with her tho but it is heartbreaking to lose a pet or a family member or a freind just remember you have subscribers including me by your side supporting you. did you have anything to remember chino by?

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      We have all cbinos things and lots of photos and videos.

  • @jeannelandree3148
    @jeannelandree3148 Год назад

    Laura, the Serenity Prayer is helpful. It helped me through some tough times and I still say it every day. Blessings! 🙏

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      Thank you! I will read it now. I do believe God brings peace when you ask but.... is it almost feels like having peace is a betrayal of the grief he deserves. It's incredibly difficult to be overwhelmed with sadness. It changes how you feel and see things!

  • @Jessica-91
    @Jessica-91 Год назад

    Laura you didn't fail with Chino. You showed him love, you gave him food and water and most importantly you gave him comfort. All your loyal You Tube subscribers, Facebook followers and Instagram followers love Chino and know you gave Chino the best life ever. Hugs to Laura, Sam, Sophie and most importantly Gabby.

  • @Cameliabunnymoon
    @Cameliabunnymoon Год назад +11

    This is not your fault, you have not failed very unfortunately he got Lyme disease and passed on, sending all my love to the family and support. Remember Chino will be watching over you in the stars, I understand the blaming yourself when an animal dies as I lost my heart horse a year ago. Sending love ❤😭

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +3

      I do feel he will.watch over us...and thsts a huge comfort!

    • @Cameliabunnymoon
      @Cameliabunnymoon Год назад

      @@DayByDayVlogs No problem :)

  • @morgan9844
    @morgan9844 Год назад

    Please take the time you need to grieve, there is no pressure to post. Losing an animal is a truly hard thing to go through especially when you tried so hard. But please don't think that you failed him. He's a lot happier now and he won't be alone, he has Stella 🌈🕊

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад

      And he will be there when it's our turn!

  • @judithfryer7024
    @judithfryer7024 Год назад +4

    You have not failed. Chino was lucky you were in a position to be able to try to help him. A lot of people would not of been able to afford to do what you have done. You tried your hardest and made his final days happy and loved. ❤

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +5

      Thank you! It would definitely have been harder had we not been able to try. My heart goes out to anyone who hasn't been able to go the distance. we need to make some sort of chino fund that helps people get the money it takes for antibiotcs and blood tests..

  • @shauna1313
    @shauna1313 Год назад

    Laura there are no words that heal the hurt. But Just know we are here with you and for you Always. Time doesn't make things easier (someone who had to put down their 14 year old best friend (dog) 2 years ago...I still question if it was right. It was. He was failing very much like Chino. Lost so much weight he was literally just skin and bones, kept falling when walking and the light left his eyes. Beating ourselves up does not change anything. I learned I have to change my mindset to say "He is no longer in pain, He is now running and happy" Chino was not upset with you, in fact I know he knew you were trying. He had the best life with you. All of your pets do. Do not become sad that your other pets are happy...IT means you are doing the best you can for them. Everything will be hard for a little while, Just find comfort when you can and know that Time will make you able to find happiness again for yourself. When one door closes another will open. You will find happiness again. Sending much love

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      Thanks, Shauna! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I was focusing on the loss instead of changing my mindset.. It's just hard when it's so fresh.

  • @MeAndMahDog
    @MeAndMahDog Год назад +6

    You didn't fail! You did the very best you could for him. You did everything the vet's recommended and more. You went above and beyond! The disease won in the end. It's a nasty disease that doesn't respond well to treatment. You gave Chino an amazing life surrounded by love! He's at peace now. Sending you all the biggest hugs ❤️

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      Thank you! It truly doesn't respond well to treatment for sure!

  • @Maryf.18
    @Maryf.18 Год назад

    You didn't fail him you and your family gave him soo much love and he knew you guys tried your hardest to save him. He is no longer in pain and is running free in the pastures with Stella eating all the grass that he wants. You guys will see him again, one day. ❤ If you guys need time to heal we understand, you guys lossed someone that you loved so deeply. Take time to heal your hearts. And your true loyal supporters will be here waiting for you guys. We Love you guys and we want you guys to heal. Im praying for you and your family 🙏

  • @jillcarter275
    @jillcarter275 Год назад

    So sorry you all lost your sweet Chino. You did the best anyone could have done. RIP sweet boy.❤

  • @chacharealsmooth9113
    @chacharealsmooth9113 Год назад +1

    Prayers of comfort towards y’all during this time 💞

  • @stephaniemcgillivray7535
    @stephaniemcgillivray7535 Год назад

    You did the best thing you could have done by letting him go and be pain free. By the look in his eye in yesterday’s video, he was ready. Even though it hurts, you did the right thing. ❤

  • @carmenfoster8266
    @carmenfoster8266 Год назад

    Why does Sam and Gabby lose. Their heart Animals..Please prote. Storm and gracie ..molly ruby...Gabby and dad's strength. Is amazing...The Farm ..????

  • @aoifemaeflanagan1982
    @aoifemaeflanagan1982 Год назад

    I’m so sorry for your loss, you guys done everything that was possible to save your boy. Chino is now at peace, looking down from heaven with Stella too. I’m sending you guys all my love, virtual hugs. 💓💓

  • @goddessqueen7730
    @goddessqueen7730 Год назад

    R.I.P chino, you will be miss. I hope gabby isnt taking it to hard. And you didn't fail. You tried you cant save them all.

  • @valeriesparling5854
    @valeriesparling5854 Год назад +3

    You should never have to be sorry, you did 100% plus for Chino. Hugs to your family❤

  • @sunset934
    @sunset934 Год назад

    Chino we miss you rest in peace , Gabby will always love. ❤❤❤

  • @diannefeinstein5135
    @diannefeinstein5135 Год назад

    I don’t think anyone of you cold have tried harder to make Chino well. Know you gave him the best life you could and in the end you did the kindest thing to release him from his pain. I know words can to little to erase the fact Chino is no longer with you. But he will live forever in your heart.

  • @taylakittow5322
    @taylakittow5322 Год назад +1

    But he did get to he happy, he got to be pain free ❤

  • @nataliee.934
    @nataliee.934 Год назад

    You all did the best you could do. I know you all hurting right now, it will get better as time goes by. You are all in my prayers. God Bless You all

  • @InspirationEmPire25
    @InspirationEmPire25 Год назад

    I’m so sorry right now. You guys are awesome and I feel the hurt. Rip Chino

  • @Raceboy354
    @Raceboy354 Год назад +1

    I am soo soo sorry u lost him but it's not ur fault.

  • @annanicholson5861
    @annanicholson5861 Год назад

    I'm sending hugs and kisses u all did the best for Chino and that's all that counts hun so don't let anyone tell u different I know exactly what u are going through I've been through same and it hurts so bad keep your chins up hun thinking of u all at this sad time god bless u all xxxx

  • @coraliesentch4515
    @coraliesentch4515 Год назад +4

    It’s totally natural Laura that you feel helpless and sad !! Please don’t think you have failed somehow though, you didn’t at all !! You succeeded in giving Chino a wonderful life and a loving home for all this time, and got him the best care possible….you should feel proud doing all that you did 💔💔💔

  • @GailKenyon
    @GailKenyon Год назад +1

    Loving Arms Of The Angels Surround All Of You 💞🙏💞 You Became The ANGELS He Needed Before He Transitioned Home .. Where You Will See Each Other Again .. My Deepest Sympathy and Tears I Am Soo Sorry 💞🙏💞

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +2

      Thanks Gail! So people become angels when someone needs it? I've always had a weird feeling about people who swoop in in emergencies and help. It's like they truly are sent from God!

    • @GailKenyon
      @GailKenyon Год назад +2

      We Are The ANGELS and the Hands Of God 💞🙏💞@@DayByDayVlogs In Service ;)

  • @Kissies3434
    @Kissies3434 Год назад +3

    you didn’t fail because Chino knew he was loved. You did the best thing you could for him. I know sometimes it’s the hardest thing to do but sometimes the last act of kindness is the best. I wished I could reach through the screen and give you a huge hug. From Virginia

  • @lstewart1967
    @lstewart1967 Год назад

    Just know that you did do everything you could to provide for your dear one. I know there are no words, we love your family of humans and animals...We get to see a good honest glimpse into a life i have always wanted but never had...prayers for your family, especially Gabby and Chino

  • @jennybarlow2233
    @jennybarlow2233 Год назад

    There was definitely no failures here you all litrally did all you could! Take your time to heal and allow the massive anxietys to pass slowly ❤ its so sad for you all. I really hope gabby does get through this ok he was without doubt her heart horsex

  • @katybiercamp3697
    @katybiercamp3697 Год назад

    Is Gabby ok l am thinking off her

  • @unshodcircle3425
    @unshodcircle3425 Год назад

    Im so sorry he didn't make it.. I'm wishing you the best wishes! Rip Chino.. we all will miss you.. ❤️❤️

  • @presleyhuhn3122
    @presleyhuhn3122 Год назад

    I have lost horses to and it’s the more verbal I will help you guys go through it I promise I want to be seen your video that you guys post and I will make it up to you guys and so sorry for you guys this loss

  • @elianalancaster8081
    @elianalancaster8081 Год назад

    Chino was a lucky horse to have you and your family, Laura. He only ever knew love and comfort with you all. Please know that you didn't fail him. You tried everything you could and went above and beyond to try and heal his body. Even though his body failed in the end, you had the bravery and the kindness to allow him to pass peacefully. That takes courage and selflessness--to let a creature that you love so dearly leave the world. Thank you for loving Chino so deeply and sharing his journey with us. 💗 Please take time to heal and step away from the channel if you need to (though I also understand why you're trying to keep busy with your normal routine right now too). Sending all the love, hugs and prayers 🙏

  • @suzannesawyer9226
    @suzannesawyer9226 Год назад

    You have nothing to say I'm sorry about I believe that Chino knew that you tried everything you could do it might have been different two years ago if the vet would have listen to you but then again only God knows sometimes you have an animal or a person for a season sending God's blessing to you and your family 🌈

  • @tracycaple6313
    @tracycaple6313 Год назад +1

    You have nothing to be sorry for and you didn't fail Chino you all did everything you could do for him I know nothing we say will heal the hurt you have for the loss of Chino but remember we are here for you

    • @DayByDayVlogs
      @DayByDayVlogs  Год назад +1

      I know you are and it truly helps! Thank you! Time heals all.wounds.

    • @tracycaple6313
      @tracycaple6313 Год назад +1

      It will take time but take all the time you need you don't have to feel like you need to post every day,you need time to grieve and give Gabby a hug from me she is going to be devastated by his loss

  • @morganshellswell9753
    @morganshellswell9753 Год назад

    You did not fail him at all ! You did everything you could !

  • @diamondequestiancenter5973
    @diamondequestiancenter5973 Год назад

    Hi Daybyday i just got your guys message just now i just what to say that you guys havent failed you guys tried to save him that only really matters you guys really love him and Chino he knew that you guys tried your hardest to save him also Chino he really loved you guys so much and you guys really loved Chino as well Chino will always be in your guys hearts i know that Chino is happy up there and Chino is waiting for you guys up there.❤

  • @vilmaarce2066
    @vilmaarce2066 Год назад

    My ❤ goes out to you and fam. Take your time to grieve abd ignore bad comments.