What we’ve learned in this season of life
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- Опубликовано: 13 июн 2024
- Today we talked about what we’ve learned in this season of life…which is A LOT! We are so thankful to be walking through this journey together (and with all of you!) What are some things you’ve been learning lately? Let us know in the comments below!
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Goodness this is so toxic
MyKayla, you are not “doing nothing all day”. You are growing a human, your body is going through huge changes and from what you have expressed pregnancy hasn’t been an easy journey for you. You deserve all the help, support, praise and rest in the world. Something marriage has taught me is that it is never 50/50. It’s generally 70/30 and that changes each day between us, therefore compromise is a must. I am currently dealing with infertility and a chronic illness I have had 3 surgeries in 18 months and my husband has been my rock, I couldn’t have done it without him and his unwavering support with absolutely no complaints. I have good days and on those days I will do as much as I can, I have more bad days where I’m in such debilitating pain I can barely get out of bed and my husband may need to do “extra” things here and there to help, as I would do for him. Continue to take it easy and listen to your body now as your pregnancy continues and especially as you navigate postpartum, recovery & becoming a new mum. Take all the help and support you can get, there is absolutely no shame in asking for help.
I feel like Jonas isn't really appreciating what MyKayala is going through. Pregnancy is no joke and it sounds like she has been so sick and in so much pain and Jonas keeps leaving her alone. You can easily do these trips and play games when you're wife feels better. I feel bad for her, she's growing a human and it sounds like she barely spends time with her husband. I'm sure they love each other, but I think some counseling could help them understand each other better. God Bless I hope this baby is a blessing for your family.
You're like 17. You have no idea what you're talking about.
It’s immaturity. It’s clear he’s not ready for this chapter of his life. He does love her but he’s just not ready to give up his old life. I don’t think either of them are ready for the right reasons.
My husbands friends all had kids several years ago when they were also still in a younger phase of life. I’m glad I’ve waited for my husband to be ready now (35) because he is 110% all in, reading baby books with me, planning the nursery and I come first 100% of the time. It makes me so happy to see him lean into this next stage of life. I guarantee you - if I pushed him to have kids 5 years ago, he would be acting just like Jonas. It’s not Jonas fault, he’s just not ready.
I agree 100%. I feel like they use this podcast as couples therapy, but they could definitely use a real therapist….
@@layray210 Therapy makes such a difference in any relationship- even healthy ones
I love when there's a Melo cameo!!
Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m a first time mama of a 10 month old and our journey to him was through a long road of infertility. I see so many parallels in what you two are saying with conflicts me and my husband continuously find ourselves in now that we’re in this season. Pregnancy is hard. Physically and mentally. For women its experienced first-hand, and for men it’s obviously very different. I’d encourage you both to sit down and set some initial expectations and boundaries around responsibilities when it comes to caring for the baby (even if you breastfeed, dad can still be very involved! for example mama feeds in the middle of the night and dad does the diaper change so she can go back to sleep). Also setting clear intentions around how you’re going to communicate when there is conflict. Everything about this season, the pregnancy, the labor & delivery, the first few weeks of the shock and new way of life you find yourself in while caring for a human while Mak is physically recovering is really trying. Stay grounded in the things you appreciate about each other and lean into investing in your communication. This sh*t is hard and it’s super easy to want to knit pick everything about the other partner when you’re sleep deprived and stressed, but remember you’re on the same team ❤
I appreciate you guys and your honesty. Thanks for keeping it real.
I feel like the name of the show is pretty on point. Good luck, guys!
Congratulations for the pregnancy. May God bless your family immensely.
Hope everything turns out really good !! Live this experience 😊❤
Oh gosh, seeing Mykayla’s face when Mello jumped had me scared too!
Aw nice video mykayla and jonas
I feel you guys! We are sooooo busy too. We are literally gone 12 weekends in a row in other states. I’m gonna miss home. We have like 3 weekends for my husband and I and im not gonna see him most of those 12 weekends 😢 busy summer I guess for everyone !
It's ok...my husband complains about the same thing...I tell him it's your choice to eat leftovers🤯
Maybe a Christian marriage counselor could be helpful? The tension is palpable.
Why does the counselor have to be christian? What a weird qualifier. But I agree there is tension, and if they think pregnancy is hard, they stand no chance once they actually have a baby at home.
Do the baby moon before baby arrives even if it’s just a weekend.
for the most part, zelda games are all I've played over the years. but for breath of the wild I couldn't get enough into it because I personally don't like the changes. I always liked the dungeons the most in the older zelda games and now they just aren't the same. so I still haven't bought tears of the kingdom yet.
You won't get any weekends once the baby comes. 🤣
Mykayla go get a Prenatal massage. Jonas is not a Massage Therapist. He can get one as well. Leave the bodywork to the professionals.
Jonas is so quiet in these videos.
Zion weekend, They are going to sleep on the floor, in other words…. YOU are NOT invited.
This podcast was sooooo depressing… too much complaining & whining 😝
It’s difficult for men to stand up to rebellious women.. even the perfect man Adam couldnt stand up against Eves rebellion.
MyKayala is not rebellious for gosh sake. She is growing a child that comes with a lot of pain, hormones changing, emotions, etc. Men cannot fully appreciate what a period cramp even is much less a little human.
@@hermionepink96 says the lady who has probably never been pregnant before. Currently pregnant again… A women should be in the kitchen learning to cook meals for their husband & keeping the home tidy for him. (At minimum) Of course their are days for being under the weather but majority speaking
@@hermionepink96 Mikayla seems impossible to please. She seems high maintenance. She complains a lot 😢.
@@chantaln6843 It was his choice to marry her. She's an Olympic gymnast who grew up under strict rules. I don't think she's that hard to please.