Yeeeeesssss!! Also if anyone gets told they're "to young" after coming out to someone tell them: 'Well Hayley Kiyoko knew she liked girls when she was 6 (which is true) and still likes girls and now she's 28 so you're wrong.' hope this helps!!
I wish I didn't have to hide, but the family I live with wouldn't accept me being gender-fluid. They already don't accept me being Pan and my brother is a transphobic git.
When I came out my mum said I was too young to know my own feelings. I don’t care tho. I’m still gonna love who I wanna love. Thank you Dutchy for giving me the confidence to confront them about my sexuality. Love you always and forever. ❤️🏳️🌈
It's Spring and it's snowing...mother nature trying to keep people inside. YAS a new Dutchy vid to distract us all from the outside world, bless. Hope everyone is doing okay Update: excuse me while I go cry because I’m going to miss the premiere
I told my step-mom I am bi and she immediately said things like "I don't think you are" "There is no such thing, it's either gay or straight" "You're just confused" etc. I wish I never told her and I'm no longer going to tell anyone in my family until I'm older, that way they might believe me. I just want to say thank you so much for making videos so people like me don't feel alone
When i came out she thought i was h o m o p h o b i c because I was like "Gay people, haha, umm, yeah theyre uhhh crazy right ahaha" lmao, what an odd child
Here's the story of me coming out to my best friend: Well basically one saturday she invited me to come over, to study. So when she went to use the toilet i hid in her closet.... When she got back i just jumped out of her closet screaming: HA IM NOW OUT OF THE CLOSET
I'm bi, and I've told my dad, sister, best friend/crush, and my friend, and they were all accepting of me. it was a double coming out to my friend actually. I told her this Valentine's day. I told her I had a crush, but that *they* weren't at our school. I only referred to my crush with neutral pronouns, so I wouldn't out myself. she (being my friend) asked what their name was (she didn't assume it was a guy and I felt like crying), but I told her I didn't really want to say that. she then asked, "can I at least ask their gender?" and I replied to that, saying "female, but please don't tell anyone." (I go to a Christian school, and considering the amount of homophobes there, I'd definitely get bullied). the double coming out is when I actually told her my sexuality. we were walking outside and she asked "so are you a lesbian or bi?" and I told her I was bi, which led her to telling me she thinks she's bi too. so it went pretty well.
dutchy, thank you for helping me come to terms with my sexuality! watching your videos really helped inform me of different sexualities and helped me find out what i was and who i was attracted too. thank you!! i love you and look up to you so much!!
I was watching this while making "support" cards for me and bff for when thing happen that we don't fell good about talking about to other people because I know it's happens before
i'm never this early lol. i love how i'm like all aspects of the LGBTQ+ community. (i'm lesbian, non-binary and ace). i have only come out to my family as bi because i feel like they wouldn't except me. well i'm out to my dad as gay and he is so excepting. i'm only out to a few people as ace and non-binary.
Every time I go to grandma's house gets mad at me for not knowing how to sit in a chair and I just really what to scream at her I'M BI NOW LET ME SIT HOW I WANT but to deep in the closet what do I do?
I’m gonna call my mom into my room, get inside the closet, and scream “AAAAH! STRAIGHT PEOPLE SCARE MEE! 🤣 or I’m gonna FaceTime her at my friend’s house cus she knows already🤣
When me and my mom were having a conversation she said, "I'd rather you date a dude than a girl because it's the natural way." Let's say my heart shattered after that.
I'm just a smol confused child who isn't sure if she's lesbian or bi. I've only come out to my close guy friend (who by the way was really supportive). I'm absolutely terrified to come out to the rest of my friends because they've joked about me being lesbian so they either wont believe me or will judge me probably. I still know I have to at some point. (But not to my family, they're homophobes ;-;) So yeah thx for reading :/
I just came out last week by sending my two best friends "I know why I can't sit straight now..." and a meme about gays not sitting properly. And they just laugh and told me that it's all clear now !
I’m pan and my mom didn’t believe me. At first she thought it was a joke and then she said it wasn’t true because she thought I had a crush on a boy. 1. We were friends 2. I’m PANSEXUAL (I fully accept it but I’m not gay!) Now she’s just mad at me and thinks I’m lying for attention or because it’s “trendy” wtf Any advice? :(
It will take some time for her to really understand what you are going through.i understand what you are going through, coming out is terrifying but you need to know that you are loved and supported no matter what ❤️
That's not fair on you at all. As much as it hurts, maybe give her some time to cool off/come to terms with it. Then a few weeks down the track you could sit her down and say, it's not trendy and it hurts your feelings that she even mentioned that. And maybe educate her with a youtube video on what being pansexual is? :)
So here's how I came out to my family: I sent a meme with a cat that says "I'm lesbian" best part of this story is that my older brother said he already knew. I hadn't told him,he just knew 😀😀🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
*comes out to parents* * parents say it’s ok* me: *cries* my mom: why are you crying me:*confused* ofc i cry i thought my parents would hate me they like hecka strict
My closet only lets the anxiety in through the door crack, and the depression through the acs........I've been to Narnia before, I saw myself coming out to my crush who has already come out to me and another friend....I will never do it irl though.......I'm too scared
I'm half out, it went like this: >Tell mom I have a crush >Tell her it's a girl >Mom says I just want her as a friend Rip Edit: she still supports me but I don't think she believes it
I hope I’m not a downer, but I stumbled across your video while sad, and I want to tell someone. When I came out as bi to my father; he punched furniture, screamed, and took me to his ex pastor friend to have me half-ass exorcised. Then I attended bible studies with her every week, for the three months of summer afterward. I have PTSD, anxiety, depression, and I have broke almost all contact. I miss them, the old them. My dad has changed so much. He is open about his horrible beliefs now. He is isolating my mother from my family. My little brother has changed in the same way. I miss them so much, but they can’t go back to how they were. I hope more people realize how much religion-a religion im a part of-is twisted into something people use against others who simply want acceptance.
I baked a rainbow cake and wrote letters for everyone who needed to know and my dad came into my room after reading. He gave me a kiss and he left and then he came back in and said loved the letter and the cake was good while crying and i never felt better!!
The funny thing about me being pan is that I had hints when I was little but I never knew what the word was. In February, I was watching tv and I saw a model in an ad and I said aloud “she looks CUTE” thank god my older brother was asleep 🤣🤣
My coming out, I had a few. My mother, Her friend saw me going out, with an outwardly gay guy, She asked my mother if I was and that led to a long alcohol fueled argument, not good. I left comments on my status about prayers for Bobby, hard drive plugged in the Tv. She was home a few days later, watched it and everything was amazing after that, she loved it. My other family, I just arrived with a guy to a family party, The youngest 11 at the time pulls me aside, and asks is that your friend or your friiiieeeenndd, after hesitating, she looks me dead in the eye, don't lie to me, 😅😅😅🤣🤣
So I'm coming out soon, and I wanted to share because I'm so excited! Okay so my plan is to make my coming out a game for my mother (single mom) So my brother and I made stickers that say "I'm transgender" along with clue cards and we will hide them in the house, so basically I am coming out using a scavenger cute lmao Edit: Thank you so much for the highlighted comment sksubkjsbjbs
Hey Dutchy! So I know I commented on you're last video like 20 times, I'm sorry for being a annoying bean. I just recently came out to some people and I watched you're "Ways to come out" video and was going to use one of you're ideas I don't remember which one. I didn't end up using it tho but you're channel still helped and is helping me alot! Oof this is long sorry for boring you!
This coming out stories are so cute. Mine coming out storie isn't not so cute but when I came out to my mom I was so scared that i was crying and everything. I want to come out to my class but I am so scared
I came out to my mom when we were watching Marvel's Runaways. It was some fight scene with Nico, and I just said (accidentally) out loud "That's hot". And then she asked me if I was gay, and I told her yes. Now everytime we watch the show and Nico comes on the screen she just says Hey! It's your wife.
Hi Dutchy! I'm still in the process of coming out to people. I was just finally getting the courage to come out to my family when this coronavirus hit and now I can't see any of them. But it's giving me time to think about how to do it. I already told my mom, and she accepted me. (She even let me play some Hayley Kiyoko for her in the car while we were driving.) I've also told most of my friends. The worst person is probably going to be my sister, since she's super Christian and frankly, she's pretty much asexual. She's never had a crush in her life, so she doesn't understand it. But anyways, I'm out to most of my friends at least now, and all but one of them has accepted me. And the nice thing is, I'm talking with this girl and it sounds like we might start dating! Sorry for the long comment; I just get excited when you upload lol. 🏳️🌈😁
Hi Maggie!! Yeah Corona has really thrown a spanner in the works for a lot us for a lot of things hey. I think yeah it can give us time to reground, find ourselves etc which is good in one way. We live in such a crazy, fast-paced environment so in one way it's doing us a world of good. I'm glad you're out to your friends, that's a good start! Aww t's so cute that you're talking to a girl, I love that. Good luck with telling the rest of your fam, I hope it all goes well & be sure to keep us all updated :D
Love the many creative ways of coming out. I hope that a time will come when you won't have to come out anymore. You also don't have to come out as straight.
I am 26 and when I was 23 I got drunk and came out bi by accident still cant remember saying that but my mom got it on video since it was my 1st time getting drunk so me coming out is also on video and we cant stop laughing about it good thing is she accepted me
Every time I hear someone's coming out story about them not being accepted by their parents/friends I just want to hug them :( It also makes me aprecciate my friends more (I'm not out to my family). I remember that my friend diagnosed me with gay, 'cause I wrote "realistic" (that's what she called it) lesbian contemporary books. A year later I came out as bisexual. What really helped me was a lot of my friends also coming out as part of the LGBT+ community and I can't imagine my life without them. Half a year after that I became openly bisexual, only my family doesn't know about it. Once I tried to come out to my mother, but she just said "You're too young to know that." To make this comment at least helpful in some way, shape or form - a book that also really helped my with my sexuality is "How to make a wish" by Ashley Herring Blake. The main character is bisexual and it also focuses on her alcoholic mother. It normalizes lesbian sex and female masturbation. Stay safe everyone ❤️
i kinda hate that i don't remember coming out (i dissociate a lot) my older sister remembers, but idk if i even wanna remember bc it might be cringy...
I came out by making a bunch of rainbow shirts in animal crossing New Horizons. I forced all my villagers to wear them, then made a shirt with my pride flag on it and wore it. It was nice-
I am a 13 year old girl and Ive recently been confused. Soooo confused. So ever since I can remember I’ve only been interested in girls. So one year ago, I came out to my friends as a lesbian. They were so supportive!!! Love my friends! I was living my best gay life when I met this guy... lets call him Brandon. So Brandon and I were in a musical together (im a theatre kid) and him and I became friends fast. Everytime i saw a notification pop up on my phone my heart would secretly hope it was him... soon enough I found myself having a MAJOR crush on him. I AM SO CONFUSED! I thought i just liked girls. So then I thought I was a Bisexual, but I don’t wanna have sex with guys! Ive always been interested in having sex with girls but THATS IT. Idkkkkk man... what is this called?
I'm a lesbian and I recently came out to my cousin about it. She's straight af, but she's very supportive and loving 💖 I wish my parents had seen me the same way, but that's probably not gonna happen, so I'm not gonna come out to them
Thanks for watching you beautiful humans!!
Yessssss!!!!!!!!
That would be awesome!Btw- love you and your channel!
Yes, I love these!
Yes please!! :D
Yeeeeesssss!!
Also if anyone gets told they're "to young" after coming out to someone tell them: 'Well Hayley Kiyoko knew she liked girls when she was 6 (which is true) and still likes girls and now she's 28 so you're wrong.' hope this helps!!
My dad told me I looked a lesbian
I just said" that's actually the whole point"
I look like I'm bi (I love my flannel shirts) but my parents still cant figure it out
my dad said that, i said thats disgusting. it was only after he passed away that i discovered this
I'm not out yet, it's to comfortable in the closet no one can judge me there
It's totally okay, stay there for as long as you want :)
I wish I didn't have to hide, but the family I live with wouldn't accept me being gender-fluid. They already don't accept me being Pan and my brother is a transphobic git.
If you come out with a gacha story it kinda makes it a little easier just sayin’
No ones making you come out only do it when you’re ready
AylahMarie there is no age limit to liking the gender you like
My coming out story: Playing never have I ever with friends and I said never have I ever been straight
YES :D
I've said that too
I usually win because I'm aroace. Never had: sex, a crush, a romantic relationship, or kissed anybody
@@cameronwarmerdam4251 and i thought I was good at never have I ever 😂😂
That's golden mate
Ima just tell mine
I changed my Netflix profile to “The bi child”,
Me and my mum hugged and crying 🥺🏳️🌈
That actually really smart 👍👍
Smart lol
Smart
That’s good
Imagine being bi and quarantined with your conservative grandmother who will kick you out if she finds out. Ha ha heh heh oh god my life is sucks
oh no, here for you!!!
Aw I'm sorry x
Same condition 🤘🏼
I feel u dw
Billy Bob aw i’m so sorry ;( same here I’m in the same house with my dad who is a homophobe
Last time I was this early, I could still go out
• Mara • ha ha yeah
Mood! We gotta stay safe tho
Dutchy 👏🏻👏🏻
lol coming back 7 months later and the pandemic is still raging because people wont stay home or wear masks
The one dislike is from that one kid in elementary school.
We all know who I'm talking about 😂
Sofia ilise
Actually I don’t to many
Im gonna end up watching this before school starts
When I came out my mum said I was too young to know my own feelings. I don’t care tho. I’m still gonna love who I wanna love. Thank you Dutchy for giving me the confidence to confront them about my sexuality. Love you always and forever. ❤️🏳️🌈
you are loved no matter what ❤️
Thanks @Rianne Fontes. That means a lot. ❤️🏳️🌈
Never too young Amy
It's Spring and it's snowing...mother nature trying to keep people inside. YAS a new Dutchy vid to distract us all from the outside world, bless. Hope everyone is doing okay
Update: excuse me while I go cry because I’m going to miss the premiere
Hahahah❤️
Aww! Glad I can distract y'all if even for a little while
lol I had to miss it cuz my fam wanted to play a board game
Gracey Gryffindor haha I missed it cause I was eating dinner
I told my step-mom I am bi and she immediately said things like "I don't think you are" "There is no such thing, it's either gay or straight" "You're just confused" etc. I wish I never told her and I'm no longer going to tell anyone in my family until I'm older, that way they might believe me. I just want to say thank you so much for making videos so people like me don't feel alone
When i came out she thought i was h o m o p h o b i c because I was like "Gay people, haha, umm, yeah theyre uhhh crazy right ahaha" lmao, what an odd child
Here's the story of me coming out to my best friend:
Well basically one saturday she invited me to come over, to study. So when she went to use the toilet i hid in her closet.... When she got back i just jumped out of her closet screaming: HA IM NOW OUT OF THE CLOSET
hehe wholesome!!!
Hahhh Tht was great and funny. Congrats...Meow
Love that😹
I don’t have insta but I’ll say it here!
My parents found out I was “Pansexual” threw my tik tok and now I’m lesbian how do I come out now?
You can come out again or you don't have to if you think it's going to cause confusion. Just love who you want to love :)
Thank you for the support my friends were confused when I came out! I only came out to them
Dutchy PREACH
I feel you I first came out as bi then as pan and now I know I’m a lesbian help
My mom accidentally posted a picture of me wearing a pride hat. My whole family knows. I can't go see anyone because I'm too scared
I'm bi, and I've told my dad, sister, best friend/crush, and my friend, and they were all accepting of me. it was a double coming out to my friend actually.
I told her this Valentine's day. I told her I had a crush, but that *they* weren't at our school. I only referred to my crush with neutral pronouns, so I wouldn't out myself. she (being my friend) asked what their name was (she didn't assume it was a guy and I felt like crying), but I told her I didn't really want to say that. she then asked, "can I at least ask their gender?" and I replied to that, saying "female, but please don't tell anyone." (I go to a Christian school, and considering the amount of homophobes there, I'd definitely get bullied).
the double coming out is when I actually told her my sexuality. we were walking outside and she asked "so are you a lesbian or bi?" and I told her I was bi, which led her to telling me she thinks she's bi too. so it went pretty well.
I can't wait I wish my dad accepted me I hope all of you people are accepted 💕😊
💗💜💙
I am so happy for you yes!!
dutchy, thank you for helping me come to terms with my sexuality! watching your videos really helped inform me of different sexualities and helped me find out what i was and who i was attracted too. thank you!! i love you and look up to you so much!!
aww you're so welcome, i'm glad I could help!!! ahh bless thank you!! love you so much that's so sweet xx
My first girl crush was a cartoon and thats when I came out oof lol
so cute :')
@@MsDickerz :´) thx
@Rose Callaghy noice
@Rose Callaghy Leni Loud from the loud house made me realize I was les
I was so confused about my gender identity and when I found out I was literally squealing with excitement tho I still haven’t come out yet.
I was watching this while making "support" cards for me and bff for when thing happen that we don't fell good about talking about to other people because I know it's happens before
Imma come out to my crush in May. Wish me luck!
Good luck!! :D
Lmao yeah. I hope she takes it well.
Did she take it good? :D
how was it :)
i'm never this early lol.
i love how i'm like all aspects of the LGBTQ+ community. (i'm lesbian, non-binary and ace). i have only come out to my family as bi because i feel like they wouldn't except me. well i'm out to my dad as gay and he is so excepting. i'm only out to a few people as ace and non-binary.
Hehe well today you were!!
I love that too!! I'm glad your dad is accepting :) that's okay! I'm proud of you!
Same lol, I’m enby, lesbian and ace too :>
Every time I go to grandma's house gets mad at me for not knowing how to sit in a chair and I just really what to scream at her I'M BI NOW LET ME SIT HOW I WANT but to deep in the closet what do I do?
Nobodies awake
I'm changing my Netflix profile to "the gay one" wish me luck
Good luck👏
Heres a taco🌮👌🏼
This is how I wanna come out:
Group chat to my whole family:
I AM THE GAY COUSIN
I'm the BI COUSIN so who has the other half of the gay? Hmmm...
Sophia Roux
Lol
10:54 IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I’M ONE OF HER BI FRIENDS OMG LOVE U FRAN 💗🌈🥺
Noice
Damn these stories to cute🥺🥺 I tried coming out which ended up with me being grounded and not being able to see my best friend 🥺🥺
hi im wyatt oleff and your watching disney channel
Well that sucks
first Shannon and now Dutchy, this is my new favorite day
aww yess I better go watch Shan's new video now :)
I didn’t read the part where it said premiering in 7 hours and I died on the inside
right?! worth the wait though
Gabby F yes it is!
I remember u
awww i'm sorry!
my comeing out story
i like the closet imma stay in here
I came out to my friend when I told her I had a crush on someone in our class. I go to an all girls school.
Lighting is alot more inviting and calming.
Perfect for the video.
You, "here is my handle".
Me, "...here is my spout".
I haven’t come out yet but when I do I’m gonna create a group chat called ‘straight ppl’ and then leave it
Love from Wales 🏴🏳️🌈 xx
Good one 👍👍
I’m gonna call my mom into my room, get inside the closet, and scream “AAAAH! STRAIGHT PEOPLE SCARE MEE! 🤣 or I’m gonna FaceTime her at my friend’s house cus she knows already🤣
• I’m just a random ramen eater •シ that’s a great idea 😂
Happy to report I came out today! My mum was supportive but my dad left the house🥺 But thank you Dutchy for inspiring me❤
When me and my mom were having a conversation she said, "I'd rather you date a dude than a girl because it's the natural way." Let's say my heart shattered after that.
I'm so sorry. I hope you doing ok now.
Narnia is my home so I'm definitely not here
I'm just a smol confused child who isn't sure if she's lesbian or bi. I've only come out to my close guy friend (who by the way was really supportive). I'm absolutely terrified to come out to the rest of my friends because they've joked about me being lesbian so they either wont believe me or will judge me probably. I still know I have to at some point. (But not to my family, they're homophobes ;-;)
So yeah thx for reading :/
hey! just know you never have to come out! theres no law in the lgbtq+ agenda thats says ya gotta come out! 💕 dont feel pressured :)
I just came out last week by sending my two best friends "I know why I can't sit straight now..." and a meme about gays not sitting properly. And they just laugh and told me that it's all clear now !
Ohhh! I’m a Gay Wizard is a published version of a Wattpad book!!! I’ve been meaning to find it!
I'm so happy you exist because u answer all the questions I cant ask my homophobic family ❤💞
Here for you always
Why is the closet so comfortable
I’m pan and my mom didn’t believe me. At first she thought it was a joke and then she said it wasn’t true because she thought I had a crush on a boy. 1. We were friends
2. I’m PANSEXUAL (I fully accept it but I’m not gay!)
Now she’s just mad at me and thinks I’m lying for attention or because it’s “trendy” wtf
Any advice? :(
It will take some time for her to really understand what you are going through.i understand what you are going through, coming out is terrifying but you need to know that you are loved and supported no matter what ❤️
That's not fair on you at all. As much as it hurts, maybe give her some time to cool off/come to terms with it. Then a few weeks down the track you could sit her down and say, it's not trendy and it hurts your feelings that she even mentioned that. And maybe educate her with a youtube video on what being pansexual is? :)
Dutchy hey sorry I’m late but thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it :) I’ll try it and let everyone know how it goes. Thank you❤️
Rianne Fontes thank you so much :,)❤️
So here's how I came out to my family: I sent a meme with a cat that says "I'm lesbian" best part of this story is that my older brother said he already knew. I hadn't told him,he just knew 😀😀🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I might come out to my family with a sign that says “ I’m shy, BI, and ready to try!” Before I leave for college next year
*comes out to parents* * parents say it’s ok* me: *cries* my mom: why are you crying me:*confused* ofc i cry i thought my parents would hate me they like hecka strict
I loved this!! Keep up the great work! Love your channel! Have a great day or night and be safe!!
How bi are you? They ask
Well, just yesterday my doctor told me that my posture is so bad it gave me scoliosis.
Does that answer your question?
My closet only lets the anxiety in through the door crack, and the depression through the acs........I've been to Narnia before, I saw myself coming out to my crush who has already come out to me and another friend....I will never do it irl though.......I'm too scared
your so sweet and deserve the world keep doing you :)
I came out to some of my friends just by telling them... Some of them are quite young, but they still accept me
I came out by going to the liveing room and saying to my mom "lets get one thing straight, im not" Then i woke up😭
I literally remember you reaching 50k wtf. Soon you’ll be at 100k
I'm half out, it went like this:
>Tell mom I have a crush
>Tell her it's a girl
>Mom says I just want her as a friend
Rip
Edit: she still supports me but I don't think she believes it
Get a girlfriend maybe and then she'll believe it? 😅🤔🤔
@@harlyn9521 I'm planing on asking my (also bi) crush out soon or something
@@smite7907 wow you go! 👍😎
I come out to my parents and they ask me to leave the house immediately.
I'm sorry to read that. It doesn't mean you are not valid, just live your life and love the people you love.
“Who lives in a beanie all day long? Dutchy Dijkman!” that’s going to be stuck in my head forever. 😂
(Sorry if I spelt your name wrong.)
These are always the best, love you Dutchy 💖
aww i'm so glad to hear it, thank you
The kid who was 14- my mom did that too. She's gradually become more homophobic. love that!
That's not great at all, here for you always
I hope I’m not a downer, but I stumbled across your video while sad, and I want to tell someone. When I came out as bi to my father; he punched furniture, screamed, and took me to his ex pastor friend to have me half-ass exorcised. Then I attended bible studies with her every week, for the three months of summer afterward. I have PTSD, anxiety, depression, and I have broke almost all contact. I miss them, the old them. My dad has changed so much. He is open about his horrible beliefs now. He is isolating my mother from my family. My little brother has changed in the same way. I miss them so much, but they can’t go back to how they were. I hope more people realize how much religion-a religion im a part of-is twisted into something people use against others who simply want acceptance.
These are so cute
I baked a rainbow cake and wrote letters for everyone who needed to know and my dad came into my room after reading. He gave me a kiss and he left and then he came back in and said loved the letter and the cake was good while crying and i never felt better!!
This is the earliest I have ever been
Mj Cheer I love your new profile pic
Ellie Nichols thank you but I had to change it was a little risky
Mj Cheer no I like it it’s not nothing to be ashamed of🙂
Ellie Nichols my mom would figure it out
Mj Cheer your mom Will support you you are going to be okay you know what you like🙂
Awesome vid! As always 🔥❤
The funny thing about me being pan is that I had hints when I was little but I never knew what the word was. In February, I was watching tv and I saw a model in an ad and I said aloud “she looks CUTE” thank god my older brother was asleep 🤣🤣
I’m coming out with this video whoop (I’ll let you guys know how it goes 🤞🤞)
YESSS let us know
My coming out, I had a few.
My mother,
Her friend saw me going out, with an outwardly gay guy,
She asked my mother if I was and that led to a long alcohol fueled argument, not good.
I left comments on my status about prayers for Bobby, hard drive plugged in the Tv.
She was home a few days later, watched it and everything was amazing after that, she loved it.
My other family, I just arrived with a guy to a family party,
The youngest 11 at the time pulls me aside, and asks is that your friend or your friiiieeeenndd, after hesitating, she looks me dead in the eye, don't lie to me, 😅😅😅🤣🤣
Awww this was so cute!!
hehe thank you
no one:
dutchy: oH. my gOd. *wholesome*
I used to be out of the closet, but then I denied it. Right now, I'm fairly comfortable in the closet.
Me to
hey Dutchy i love your content keep doing what you're doing
but i jus dont feel it's time for me yett..........not ready at alll
So I'm coming out soon, and I wanted to share because I'm so excited!
Okay so my plan is to make my coming out a game for my mother (single mom)
So my brother and I made stickers that say "I'm transgender" along with clue cards and we will hide them in the house, so basically I am coming out using a scavenger cute lmao
Edit: Thank you so much for the highlighted comment sksubkjsbjbs
That's pretty smart 👍😊
@@harlyn9521 awwwww thank you
That’s so cute
@@LouisT910 awww thanks!
Bangtan Girl
No problem
Hey Dutchy! So I know I commented on you're last video like 20 times, I'm sorry for being a annoying bean. I just recently came out to some people and I watched you're "Ways to come out" video and was going to use one of you're ideas I don't remember which one. I didn't end up using it tho but you're channel still helped and is helping me alot! Oof this is long sorry for boring you!
hi dutchy i love your videos there so amazng and allsome
aww thank you :D
@@MsDickerz OMG you replyed and your welcome :)
This coming out stories are so cute. Mine coming out storie isn't not so cute but when I came out to my mom I was so scared that i was crying and everything. I want to come out to my class but I am so scared
I came out to my mom when we were watching Marvel's Runaways. It was some fight scene with Nico, and I just said (accidentally) out loud "That's hot". And then she asked me if I was gay, and I told her yes. Now everytime we watch the show and Nico comes on the screen she just says Hey! It's your wife.
aly pritchett that’s super cute
Premiers in 9 hours , CANT WAIT ! ♡
hehehe
2:02 wasn't my story but it went exactly the same 😂
I literally came out two days ago and my mum was so supportive 🥺
YAY!!! I am so proud of you!!
Hi Dutchy! I'm still in the process of coming out to people. I was just finally getting the courage to come out to my family when this coronavirus hit and now I can't see any of them. But it's giving me time to think about how to do it. I already told my mom, and she accepted me. (She even let me play some Hayley Kiyoko for her in the car while we were driving.) I've also told most of my friends. The worst person is probably going to be my sister, since she's super Christian and frankly, she's pretty much asexual. She's never had a crush in her life, so she doesn't understand it. But anyways, I'm out to most of my friends at least now, and all but one of them has accepted me. And the nice thing is, I'm talking with this girl and it sounds like we might start dating! Sorry for the long comment; I just get excited when you upload lol. 🏳️🌈😁
Hi Maggie!! Yeah Corona has really thrown a spanner in the works for a lot us for a lot of things hey. I think yeah it can give us time to reground, find ourselves etc which is good in one way. We live in such a crazy, fast-paced environment so in one way it's doing us a world of good. I'm glad you're out to your friends, that's a good start! Aww t's so cute that you're talking to a girl, I love that. Good luck with telling the rest of your fam, I hope it all goes well & be sure to keep us all updated :D
Love the many creative ways of coming out. I hope that a time will come when you won't have to come out anymore. You also don't have to come out as straight.
Yeah so do I!! That would be great :)
I am 26 and when I was 23 I got drunk and came out bi by accident still cant remember saying that but my mom got it on video since it was my 1st time getting drunk so me coming out is also on video and we cant stop laughing about it good thing is she accepted me
Ahhhh!!! So pure!!!!
Isn't it :D
Every time I hear someone's coming out story about them not being accepted by their parents/friends I just want to hug them :(
It also makes me aprecciate my friends more (I'm not out to my family).
I remember that my friend diagnosed me with gay, 'cause I wrote "realistic" (that's what she called it) lesbian contemporary books. A year later I came out as bisexual.
What really helped me was a lot of my friends also coming out as part of the LGBT+ community and I can't imagine my life without them. Half a year after that I became openly bisexual, only my family doesn't know about it. Once I tried to come out to my mother, but she just said "You're too young to know that."
To make this comment at least helpful in some way, shape or form - a book that also really helped my with my sexuality is "How to make a wish" by Ashley Herring Blake. The main character is bisexual and it also focuses on her alcoholic mother. It normalizes lesbian sex and female masturbation.
Stay safe everyone ❤️
Aww thank you so much for sharing this with us
@@MsDickerz :)
i kinda hate that i don't remember coming out (i dissociate a lot) my older sister remembers, but idk if i even wanna remember bc it might be cringy...
When I come out I want Dutchy to know bc the more videos I watch on her channel the more I want to come out
When you said 'take it ti the gram' i low-key thought you were talking about your grandma. XD
I cant beleive Dutchy liked this!!! Imagine her actually responding. #nevergonnahappen
omg I love your content you're the reason I came out
Congrats Clary, embrace it and be happy....Meow
Hello, i really want to come out to my mom, but the problem is i dont know how. I really want to do it before the end of the year.
I came out by making a bunch of rainbow shirts in animal crossing New Horizons. I forced all my villagers to wear them, then made a shirt with my pride flag on it and wore it. It was nice-
I'm so late but AAAAA you actually reacted to my coming out story !!! I'm glad you found it cute uwu
I love u dutchy🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 dutchy i watched u to learn how to come out!! Now that I'm out how do I accept myself?
I love you tooooo! I can do a video on that
I am a 13 year old girl and Ive recently been confused. Soooo confused. So ever since I can remember I’ve only been interested in girls. So one year ago, I came out to my friends as a lesbian. They were so supportive!!! Love my friends! I was living my best gay life when I met this guy... lets call him Brandon. So Brandon and I were in a musical together (im a theatre kid) and him and I became friends fast. Everytime i saw a notification pop up on my phone my heart would secretly hope it was him... soon enough I found myself having a MAJOR crush on him. I AM SO CONFUSED! I thought i just liked girls. So then I thought I was a Bisexual, but I don’t wanna have sex with guys! Ive always been interested in having sex with girls but THATS IT. Idkkkkk man... what is this called?
I think that it is called biro-sexual
It’s called bisexual.
Thank you so much for sharing my story!🤗💖
It's 6:55 in case anyone wants to know🤷🏽♀️
Hhahah Laugh at the one holding the Bi flag tripped outta the closet and didn't realized someone was there hahah....Meow
I told my mom im gay and she said "i love you, i just really want you to go to heaven"
Dutchy I wanna send you a beany do you have a PO box for me to send it to?
I'm a lesbian and I recently came out to my cousin about it. She's straight af, but she's very supportive and loving 💖 I wish my parents had seen me the same way, but that's probably not gonna happen, so I'm not gonna come out to them
*Perfect!*