We must all suffer from one of two pains. The pain of discipline or the Pain of regret. The difference is discipline weights ounces and regret weights tons. -Jim Rhon
- Pain is inevitable, either pain now which is better later - First things first, priorities first - Mindset: "How" questions rather than "should" questions. 45:31 - Dedicating to create an outcome, an explosion - Book: Take the Stairs: 7 Steps to Achieving True Success by Rory Vaden 49:58 - "When you're experiencing pain, the healthiest and I think like the only way to respond to it is to choose to believe that the pain you're going through is preparing you to become the person you one day need to be for somebody else. " (this is not a full summary) *_And if you're like me, stop watching youtube now. Watching RUclips is a form of procrastination if you haven't done your priorities yet. You know what to do, stop what your doing, take a short break and just start now. This is your calling._*
3 types of procrastination 1. Classic Procrastination - consciously procrastinating something 2. Creative avoidance - subconsciously creating things for yourself to do so you can do those things and feel productive but it’s really a scheme to distract you from the thing you know you have to do 3. Priority dilution - your attention shifts to less significant but more urgent tasks
The only people saying this, is actually people who can't stay in place for 5 minutes...like they have a worm in their butt... lol... No, the truth is, exercising is not giving you more energy IN THE BEGINNING. But if you stick to a good routine every day, your mind with start be quicker, and you will feel more positive, that, in chain, will make you feel more energetic and encourage you to pursue doing it more! That's why it is so tough at the beginning... you force yourself but you fell no benefit, only discomfort. Most people don't have the focus necessary to maintain this level of commitment, unless their health is falling apart, which is a very bad time to start... So, don't wait untill your health is low, start today and STICK TO IT. In time, you will feel the NEED to do it. Don't do it for other people. Do it for yourself. Be selfish with this... You deserve to do it for yourself...
🤩 Finally someone! WE ARE MIND-BODY, even Science knows it. Let's get of our head, the mental masturbation isn't enough! 🤭 MOTION CREATES EMOTION AND THE CHANGE OF EMOTION IS A CHANGE OF DESTINY 🤩
@@PrettyINCs WE ARE MIND-BODY, even Science knows it. Let's get of our head, the mental masturbation isn't enough! 🤭 MOTION CREATES EMOTION AND THE CHANGE OF EMOTION IS A CHANGE OF DESTINY 🤩
@@PandemoniumGameDev I have never made a hard choice that was either not beneficial to myself or someone else. Anyone can talk themselves out of “doing” by simply using justifications. Or numb themselves with drugs and alcohol to avoid the inevitable. A person that takes initiative is more in balance with “what needs to be done” regardless of how much work one needs to invest to accomplish the plan. May ALL the fruit from your hard work benefit you. Even if for another person, you still benefit one way or another. If not, change priorities.
@@nancycrisman7496 not saying you should avoid hard work or hard choices. But as you said sometimes you need to step back and analyze your priorities, in some cases doing the hard thing maybe less productive than switching focus to something that yields more results, happiness etc.
I not only needed to hear this at the current stage in my life, but I need to review these principles daily and ingrain them into my every day life. I was there at one point intuitively, but it’s time to bring it back.
This ranks as one of the most important personal learning experiences that I have ever had "in one sitting". It allowed me to unify a lot of my life milestone events and experiences in an multi-faceted approach to acheiving all types of success in my life. In terms of reflection on my life (I am 72 years old) accomplishments in some areas and "failures to thrive" in other areas, it has allowed me to understand how and why those events and outcomes turned out the way that they did. I really do appreciate your podcast and your choice of how to spend your life inservice to others while acheiving your own personal success in the process!!!
Omg, omg, this is the first video that gave the real meaning of procrastination. Omg the example of why we do it and why we should stop. Omg thank you. Yes, yes this is the school of greatness. THANK YOU. I’m saving this video for when I start procrastinate again.
thank you, i listen to this while exercise. 1. classic procrastinator (comfort zone) 2. creative avoidance (we make some other schedule while focusing on our priority) 3. priority dillute ( many outside opportunity challenge our focus )
This is an amplified version of Chick-fil-A founder Truet Cathy's book from 20yrs ago, 'It's Easier to Succeed Than to Fail'. I love how Rory explains himself so even a child could understand.
Each time I listen to this, I am, once again, awed at how many powerful truths and practical and readily applicable recommendations are presented in the short interview with Rory. Also, what a powerful way to reset one’s perspective and thinking when they swerve into the rut of negativity once again.
My brain has it reversed. It likes to start things for dopamine-- and then once I get it all figured out and can clearly see the end results, I lose interest. Creative Avoidance. Absolutely brilliant term and I bet millions of people do this. You helped me put a name to what I already knew was one of my flaws. I am so grateful. I am going to start today looking for and identifying this phenomena. When my creative avoidance surfaces, I will call it out and double down on embracing the boredom and discomfort of completing the task as a form of character building. I am going to enjoy this new me and I thank you greatly.
This video is exactly the kick up the ass that I needed. I have been putting off lots of things that I know I need to do (dentist appointment, sticking to my budget. writing an escape plan to get out of my bad marriage, etc) and those things will be done 1 by 1 starting right now.
@@tejumadeolomola2627 Nah not out yet man. I found out the hard way that marriage is very easy to get into but hard to get out of. Most of the other things are done though :)
@@punanny123 Have you not ever heard of Paul Simon's classic song _50 Ways to Leave Your Lover_ ? 🎧😉🎵💽 On the serious side, though, I think if you wanted to badly enough, you would do it, pronto! For instance, let's say that you're in a marriage where you're being severely abused both physically and verbally by a spouse who has deep psychopathic tendencies. 😳 I bet that you would be out of there, FAST, and then miraculously attract 🧲 ways to legally cut ✂️ that umbilical cord, in record time! 🏎️💨 So it sounds like you need to create a sense of urgency 🚽🪠 for yourself. I'm assuming there is no fear factor to motivate you, so your basic instinct for survival doesn't seem to be activated. It's therefore too easy to settle for a so-so existence because there is no severe front-end pain involved. However, this doesn't mean the bigger pain isn't waiting for you at the back-end of the entire ordeal. 🌒 As the iconic Fram filters slogan goes, "You can pay me now, or pay me later."🚦🚗 And also, as the timeless saying goes, "You can run but you can't hide." 💀😱 Personally, I think it would be a big help to sit down and make a list of reasons WHY you need to part ways. What are your motives for ending the arrangement? Putting those motives to paper will transform into the motivation that you need for moving forward with your life. BTW, you must make sure that you write your "Why's" in positive terms. For example, you want the *_freedom to_* (which is positive) but NOT *_freedom from._* (which is negative). This is because whatever you write down will likely manifest AGAIN in your future life experience, due to the surprising power of the law of attraction. Speaking of which, there is only one big caveat with all of this. If you have any understanding at all about the law of attraction, you should already know that "you take yourself with you wherever you go". This means that whatever is in your vibration, regarding the unpleasant things about your marriage, if you don't find a way do the "inner work" required to clean up 🧹 your vibration, you'll eventually find yourself in the same pickle 🥒 all over again, on down the road. 🛣️ I wish you good luck. 🌿🍀💚
I think the quote was "do today what others won't, so tomorrow you can do what others can't". Great video by the way! I spend hours upon hours watching your content and it has helped my life in so many ways! Thank you!
key takeaways for me (1) Easier to do it now (2) Ask How not Can I (3) Words are a key link between thought and action (4) Harvest season (5) Peace = Perspective (6) Rent is due everyday - thanks gents for a great discussion.
Thank you❤️so profoundly precise on what it takes to Walk you through a decision that you are commited to be and Do. You MUST be it, its an energy level you Tune up to by release the believe, the stagnagt energy you have about control. You release that and structure and disiplin have more space to play with. 🙏❤️ much love to all of you.
I'm lol😆 so hard at the replies that I'm realizing that humor is making it easier 2 do the hard thing now. So here's 2 all my fellow cows transforming into buffaloes 🍻
Biggest takeaway ..... How in the face of experiencing difficulty ......asking myself how I'm going to face it. And facing the storm like Buffalo. ❤ that was great ty!!
But Watch Later also saves you from watching many unnecessary videos that you are tempted to watch in that moment of time , but you refuse to watch. And you later find out you don't actually want to watch that video , thus saving you a lot of time.
After a kundilini awakening last night I feel in alignment. I was watching a different channel when my phone, which was sat on the side, had a spasm. It passed several channels and settled on this. The universe was giving me this message. The whole conversation was/is important to me. Thank you. II AM so grateful to have this lesson today. X
As a single ambitious mother with many goals and ambitions this insightful teaching is so relatable. Children/teenagers are a blessing and generate many levels of distraction. The harvest ideal is the perfect analogy for people in my situation. You must stay focused.
Wow! Super amazing to listen. Couldn't sleep up middle of the night. Happened to come across this. Really really inspiring. Thought provoking. Defining intergerity. Philosophy.. Surrounding oneself right people. Taking the stairs. Happiness is our job..
You make me feel better just listening to your voice. I almost turn my phone and suddenly you speak up on whatever matter it is and bring realness and beauty to the situation. Love your truths and your heart is always connected. Thank you so much 💓
I'm SO glad I listened to this. I appreciate how the host asked the question about, "focus" and how to stay focused, when "life" happens.... meaning-stress from uncomfortable change and how do we stay focused on the other things that need our focus when someone has died or family gets sick or .... the world goes through a p (l) andemic and EVERYTHING changes as the truth rises. So.... he says - the show must go on kinda things... but, tbh, I've had the hardest couple of years of my life and I was actually wondering if someone can die, from so much stress. So, "FOCUS" was NOT on my mind and in fact was very very difficult to commit to, under such stressful situations. Is there something "wrong" with me? Am I stupid? Am I too sensitive? Am I too emotional? Do I take life too personally and lose myself to outside circumstances? HOW do you stay focused on the work that needs you? Only survival will get you to "focus" because our brains are NOT wired for success... it is wired for survival. SO - to "focus"-it must be about survival... OR you MUST change and grow out of the old ways that are sabotaging your success.
Lewis, EVERY DAY I come to you for guidance on my life and my business. I would love to tell you specifically what I've gleaned, what I've implemented and the changes I employed and their results. THANK YOU BROTHER.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU JANINE JUST A MESSAGE I NEEDED TODAY!! CONTINUING TO HOLD THE LINE AND SHINE THE LOVE AND LIGHT TO OUR GLOBAL FAMILY ❤️🌎❤️
@1:00:50, People focus on their strengths and personalities because their peers will ridicule, mistreat, and overlook them if they are not particularly fond of them. Your service may do the world plenty of good, but if people see you as vulnerable, they will seek to capitalize at your expense. I spent 24 years in the military, I am now in education. I've seen it. I've experienced it.
Wow, this is exactly what my soul needed. I've been in a stagnant slump and just procrastinating and make excuses for everything. Thank you for another great video!
My home burned down a month ago in the Marshall CO Fires. I needed to hear this video--to refocus, have faith, and move forward with integrity to rebuild. Thank you.
Who also smiles because he is so energetic, super intense while talking about the philosophies of procrastination, laziness, going into the storm, stop avoiding and being so super passionate about what he carries out to the world? 😁 And Lewis is in his calm and wondering what's going on here... ❤️ 😂 Omg watching and listening to this especially is such a nice, refreshing and windy thing 😂❤🤩 I love intense people! ❤
I love how you put them all together here. I learned so much from this. I love you Lewis and your guests! Truly, there are a lot of great people out there. Thank you Lewis for sharing them to the world!
The example of the fatal car accident. Actually happened to me. Except I had left really late to return home, but if I had left on time I wouldn't be here. Taking a step back during hardship really helps, and you become naturally grateful. In my humble opinion. 😊
Oh my Lewis! I waited to get my teeth fixed and now I’m already 45 and my mouth is still a mess. My front teeth have chipped and I’m missing molars and need braces so bad! My issue has been money, I have children and not employed for a ling time ... also cause the teeth became an acumulated problem permeating many areas of life, my self esteem, my neck muscles, gives me tense neck, and including higher chances for better incoming and follow my dreams, to be like you for example, because of not being able to smile as I’d love too! :( - I’ll take this talk to heart!
I also had low self-esteem due to dental issues. I had extensive repairs done at the university's faculty of dentistry. Just completed everything November 2020. Which city are you in?
Have u considered implants? They are getting cheaper and work w you. I wanted invisaline and discussed this w my dentist. She wanted to fix my one crown I had done by doing an implant. Cost 5K geez! After all done, I said now we can start the invisaline! No, you can’t budge the implant ,it’s in with titanium! Sorry…. Errrr
I was a master at Creative Procrastination! I've invested time and effort in identifying the reasons why I did what I did. I can now look back and confidently say that was the "old me". I feel so much better about my ability to tackle the tough tasks and prioritizing them instead of identifying other seemingly important tasks thus assigning them a higher priority. Thanks L Howes and R Vaden creating for this video.
I started watching this today while I ate lunch, thinking about the essay I have due at midnight, the dentists and doctors appointments I still haven’t made amongst other things. It’s dinner time, I’ve come back to watch more. Essay still isn’t done. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Great program! Thank you so much. I learned a lot from it. I have faith that if we watched the program, is because we are interested not only in transforming our lives but also to impact the entire environment around us.
Wow! This has been so inspirational, that I can’t wait to get home to get things done. Thank you so much, it has helped me understand myself. Will let you know about my progress! 🙏
I haven't given many comments to this channel, but I do want to express just how much digesting this kind of content has changed my life. I'm 23 and I had been battling severe depression and anxiety after some pretty shitty circumstances I was thrown into as a teenager. This year, I quit my job to find something more fulfilling, I've saved 10k, have completely changed my outlook on myself, and I am just about the most productive person I know. Regardless of the financial success (even though I took a significant pay cut), I'm overwhelmed with gratitude because I feel alive. Two years ago I was fighting myself just to be alive, but now I'm living. I'm a better mother, friend, daughter, and person because of it. I see colors brighter and I'm excited for my future. Thank you, Lewis, for giving us this kind of content. I didn't know what I was capable of until I found it.
Mr Howes, this has been another great class! Thank you again for the knowledge you open all of us up to. You are a 1% in pushing positivity and giving out great life experience. I am truly greatful to have someone to look up to such as yourself. Thank you.
I normally don’t finish videos in full. I did with this one. They say the teacher will come when the student is ready.. If you have struggled with completing this or other things. Be patient and kind to yourself. you will get there. When you are ready to receive , this podcast will speak to you.. And, you will learn from it. I have taken away lot of valuable nuggets from the podcast. And looking to hear it a few more times. We are all work in progress… Lewis : Thanks for all the amazing work you do.
My emotional energy is definitely stronger than my physical. Almost to the point where I feel like my emotions run my life. The procrastination the past few months for me has been ridiculous. The disciplined path definitely is something I’m going for starting today!
@@outdoorcat5107 well I got a job started working out and getting out the house more so it was going well and definitely looking up but I’m sitting in a hospital bed right now so we’ll see how long that lasts.
Don’t be a should head! Focus on ONE thing I can dominate and be an expert on. Run into the storm. Pay now or pay later with interest. One of the best episodes I have listened to! Or at least the one that spoke to me where i am at the most. Getting the book!
These videos changed my life in this moment!!!! Thank you Lewis and Rory and Brandon! I needed to hear that our brain is wired for safety. Omg!!! I may have heard it before but finally got it. I also realized I had a belief from listening to Abraham that “don’t do anything until you feel like it or feel the impulse or joy to do something.” Because maybe things will go wrong if you’re not in “alignment.” That may be true too that maybe better things happen when you’re aligned in joy vs. just doing it even if you don’t feel like it. What I got from this is - when you have clarity of your deepest desires and have and set clear intentions - the rest is executing, even when it’s uncomfortable!!! Oh it’s so gorgeous! Thx!!!!
This is the first time I've watched a procrastination video where i didn't think to myself , "Well if I could follow your recommendations I wouldn't be in this predicament in the first place." He is so real. Thank you for a great episode.
Wow!! This is the best episode Ive seen! This stuff should be taught in school! Im 58 and Im always evolving and improving. Thank u for giving me tools!
Think, speak, act and it will happen 💯💯💯 also choose to suffer now or later is up to self 🎯 such important interview wow have faith and take the steps I'm speechless ❤👏🏿
I guess that’s about what I have been trying to say for a few years I just couldn’t get that lu greatness on it to sound that good.. your service is your rent to the universe . I tell the people I try to help whatever it is that you want BE THE SOURCE. If you want more money give more money, you can have anything you want as long as you know what you want. I try to help anyone in my town that’s struggling with addiction or homeless and just need a little hope I give a free year rent in one of my rentals I keep the water and electric paid. They can work for me whatever you want to do to get back in there feet. We always say it’s a hand up not a handout.
56:33 1-High Performers seek clarity and setting intention- Who do I want to be ( Future oriented in the now )- They are more clear on what skills to develop to reach their next level of success.
Good, that we are neither cows nor buffalos! We have a frontal lobe and can think and make independant responsible descisions. We can seek shelter and not be affected by a storm at all. 😉💃🤩
So amazing... I took notes from all the speakers. I was really amazed when Dr. Michael Gervais spoke about the Personal Philosophy. Because knowing this will help us with overcoming procrastination...
We must all suffer from one of two pains. The pain of discipline or the Pain of regret. The difference is discipline weights ounces and regret weights tons. -Jim Rhon
That’s good!
This is a KILLER VID ....BEST ONE IVE SEEN FOR MOTIVATION...
Wow, that certainly puts everything into perspective. 🦋
One of my favorite quotes, so true!
💯✊🏽
- Pain is inevitable, either pain now which is better later
- First things first, priorities first
- Mindset: "How" questions rather than "should" questions.
45:31 - Dedicating to create an outcome, an explosion
- Book: Take the Stairs: 7 Steps to Achieving True Success by Rory Vaden
49:58 - "When you're experiencing pain, the healthiest and I think like the only way to respond to it is to choose to believe that the pain you're going through is preparing you to become the person you one day need to be for somebody else. "
(this is not a full summary)
*_And if you're like me, stop watching youtube now. Watching RUclips is a form of procrastination if you haven't done your priorities yet. You know what to do, stop what your doing, take a short break and just start now. This is your calling._*
Martin T, thank you, turning off RUclips now, I got things to do!
Success Is the result of your little daily choices .
Ya but I do it at work while i work
And get paid to watch it.
You Tube is procrastination ,boy is it ever. You said it 👏
Love this one! I procrastinate all the time
3 types of procrastination
1. Classic Procrastination - consciously procrastinating something
2. Creative avoidance - subconsciously creating things for yourself to do so you can do those things and feel productive but it’s really a scheme to distract you from the thing you know you have to do
3. Priority dilution - your attention shifts to less significant but more urgent tasks
Working out also adds to overall energy thorough out the day. A body in motion stays in motion!!!
Not for everyone. Working out just makes me want to sleep. If everyone felt good and energized after exercising, everyone would do it.
The only people saying this, is actually people who can't stay in place for 5 minutes...like they have a worm in their butt... lol... No, the truth is, exercising is not giving you more energy IN THE BEGINNING. But if you stick to a good routine every day, your mind with start be quicker, and you will feel more positive, that, in chain, will make you feel more energetic and encourage you to pursue doing it more!
That's why it is so tough at the beginning... you force yourself but you fell no benefit, only discomfort. Most people don't have the focus necessary to maintain this level of commitment, unless their health is falling apart, which is a very bad time to start...
So, don't wait untill your health is low, start today and STICK TO IT. In time, you will feel the NEED to do it.
Don't do it for other people. Do it for yourself. Be selfish with this... You deserve to do it for yourself...
@@PrettyINCs could be due to bad diet, sleep.
🤩 Finally someone!
WE ARE MIND-BODY, even Science knows it.
Let's get of our head, the mental masturbation isn't enough! 🤭
MOTION CREATES EMOTION
AND THE CHANGE OF EMOTION IS A CHANGE OF DESTINY 🤩
@@PrettyINCs
WE ARE MIND-BODY, even Science knows it.
Let's get of our head, the mental masturbation isn't enough! 🤭
MOTION CREATES EMOTION
AND THE CHANGE OF EMOTION IS A CHANGE OF DESTINY 🤩
“Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.”
― Jerzy Gregorek
Hard and meaningful, choices can be hard but fruitless. Identify what matters the most and brings the most results and maximize that.
@@PandemoniumGameDev I have never made a hard choice that was either not beneficial to myself or someone else. Anyone can talk themselves out of “doing” by simply using justifications. Or numb themselves with drugs and alcohol to avoid the inevitable. A person that takes initiative is more in balance with “what needs to be done” regardless of how much work one needs to invest to accomplish the plan. May ALL the fruit from your hard work benefit you. Even if for another person, you still benefit one way or another. If not, change priorities.
@@nancycrisman7496 not saying you should avoid hard work or hard choices. But as you said sometimes you need to step back and analyze your priorities, in some cases doing the hard thing maybe less productive than switching focus to something that yields more results, happiness etc.
not all hard choices give you an easy life though. sometimes less is more
Easy choices can get you an easy life as well when you open yourself to the universe and let it guide you. I am going through it right now. 🙏
Thankyouuuuuuuuuu Thankyouuuuuuuuuu lewis .THIS REALLLLY IS THE SCHOOL OF GREATNESSSS...MUCH LOVE
Indian?
He is
I not only needed to hear this at the current stage in my life, but I need to review these principles daily and ingrain them into my every day life. I was there at one point intuitively, but it’s time to bring it back.
Yes … there at one point intuitively … was it in a strand of our dna our innocence our will our youth … more over, full circle we must come
@@camirose3009 Whatchu talkin' bout Willis?
The question is how do you plan to do that? How
This video gives the easier method to reprogram your mind ruclips.net/video/6-Cvh-tsWpA/видео.html
Same here tbh. Eyeopener.
Lewis, you bring my tribe on your show. Thank you for bringing these wonderful speakers, I always learn and get inspired.
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
Right!
I agree. Do you feel that Lewis Howes is a really inquisitive person and could be a really cool friend to invite to Starbucks? ☕ ☕
The tribalism is tearing the US apart
I was almost too lazy to click this and just procrastinate to watch it later but I’m here 🤗😂
😂
I was thinking that if I just click watch later I've at least done some of the work
Haha me too!
A week later and I haven’t finished the video lol
Good for you sis!
This ranks as one of the most important personal learning experiences that I have ever had "in one sitting". It allowed me to unify a lot of my life milestone events and experiences in an multi-faceted approach to acheiving all types of success in my life. In terms of reflection on my life (I am 72 years old) accomplishments in some areas and "failures to thrive" in other areas, it has allowed me to understand how and why those events and outcomes turned out the way that they did.
I really do appreciate your podcast and your choice of how to spend your life inservice to others while acheiving your own personal success in the process!!!
Humble pie mmmmmm you make the best.....
72nd like :)
Omg, omg, this is the first video that gave the real meaning of procrastination. Omg the example of why we do it and why we should stop. Omg thank you. Yes, yes this is the school of greatness. THANK YOU. I’m saving this video for when I start procrastinate again.
Good luck, I'm with you on that
It's a great interview!
Agreed! This is the first video that breaks it down with actionable steps.
dont save it ....no save it ...no
Why so many omg
thank you, i listen to this while exercise.
1. classic procrastinator (comfort zone)
2. creative avoidance (we make some other schedule while focusing on our priority)
3. priority dillute ( many outside opportunity challenge our focus )
“Great results are achieved through short seasons of imbalance.” 🙌🏼
This was a great one.
Intensive Imbalance!!
what kind of imbalance?
Amen 😇❤️🔥✌️☮️
@@VictoriaWonders Discomfort
This video really gave clarity. Biblical without the preaching. I heard it loud and clear.
P.s I also love preaching 💯✊
This is an amplified version of Chick-fil-A founder Truet Cathy's book from 20yrs ago, 'It's Easier to Succeed Than to Fail'. I love how Rory explains himself so even a child could understand.
I've gotten to the point where I watch more Lewis videos than everything else all together. Thank you bro. 😊 Real content for real human issues.
He’s great and his guests are solid. 😉
Same 😍
I have a problem with commitment and I have become organically committed to watching these videos✌🏿
yes,! live today like no one else, so that tomorrow you can live like no one else!
One of the best episodes ever and ever i have listened to
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
same!
Same!
This man was made to speak. I really enjoyed just watching his animated conversation.
I've listened to this 3x. "Neutral isn't good enough." Powerful!!! Gotta go the hard things first.
neutral= anxiety for me and loud noise, peace is coming from how doi get this at 100%
Each time I listen to this, I am, once again, awed at how many powerful truths and practical and readily applicable recommendations are presented in the short interview with Rory. Also, what a powerful way to reset one’s perspective and thinking when they swerve into the rut of negativity once again.
My brain has it reversed. It likes to start things for dopamine-- and then once I get it all figured out and can clearly see the end results, I lose interest. Creative Avoidance. Absolutely brilliant term and I bet millions of people do this. You helped me put a name to what I already knew was one of my flaws. I am so grateful. I am going to start today looking for and identifying this phenomena. When my creative avoidance surfaces, I will call it out and double down on embracing the boredom and discomfort of completing the task as a form of character building. I am going to enjoy this new me and I thank you greatly.
“Success is never an accident, it is deciding every day to keep going.” Is very deep.
"Conflict avoided is conflict multiplied" - Wes Watson
The interview with Rory Vaden is the most learning experience I have in my life in finance matters.
👍
This video is exactly the kick up the ass that I needed. I have been putting off lots of things that I know I need to do (dentist appointment, sticking to my budget. writing an escape plan to get out of my bad marriage, etc) and those things will be done 1 by 1 starting right now.
The escape plan is funny thou.
You got out?😄
@@tejumadeolomola2627 Nah not out yet man. I found out the hard way that marriage is very easy to get into but hard to get out of. Most of the other things are done though :)
@@punanny123 gj my G
@@punanny123 Have you not ever heard of Paul Simon's classic song _50 Ways to Leave Your Lover_ ? 🎧😉🎵💽
On the serious side, though, I think if you wanted to badly enough, you would do it, pronto! For instance, let's say that you're in a marriage where you're being severely abused both physically and verbally by a spouse who has deep psychopathic tendencies. 😳
I bet that you would be out of there, FAST, and then miraculously attract 🧲 ways to legally cut ✂️ that umbilical cord, in record time! 🏎️💨
So it sounds like you need to create a sense of urgency 🚽🪠 for yourself. I'm assuming there is no fear factor to motivate you, so your basic instinct for survival doesn't seem to be activated.
It's therefore too easy to settle for a so-so existence because there is no severe front-end pain involved. However, this doesn't mean the bigger pain isn't waiting for you at the back-end of the entire ordeal. 🌒
As the iconic Fram filters slogan goes, "You can pay me now, or pay me later."🚦🚗
And also, as the timeless saying goes, "You can run but you can't hide." 💀😱
Personally, I think it would be a big help to sit down and make a list of reasons WHY you need to part ways. What are your motives for ending the arrangement? Putting those motives to paper will transform into the motivation that you need for moving forward with your life.
BTW, you must make sure that you write your "Why's" in positive terms. For example, you want the *_freedom to_* (which is positive) but NOT *_freedom from._* (which is negative). This is because whatever you write down will likely manifest AGAIN in your future life experience, due to the surprising power of the law of attraction.
Speaking of which, there is only one big caveat with all of this. If you have any understanding at all about the law of attraction, you should already know that "you take yourself with you wherever you go". This means that whatever is in your vibration, regarding the unpleasant things about your marriage, if you don't find a way do the "inner work" required to clean up 🧹 your vibration, you'll eventually find yourself in the same pickle 🥒 all over again, on down the road. 🛣️
I wish you good luck. 🌿🍀💚
How is marriage exit plan?
I'm saving this for later.
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Im watching it in full now and then watching it again another day to let it burn in my brain haha
Rory... my friend, you are INTENSE!! ITs AWESOME! Thank you for sharing this wisdom... many nuggets for transformation assistance!
I think the quote was "do today what others won't, so tomorrow you can do what others can't". Great video by the way! I spend hours upon hours watching your content and it has helped my life in so many ways! Thank you!
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« Only those who have the patience to do simple things perfectly will acquire the skills to do difficult things easily. » - Friedrich Von Schiller
“Self discipline is the ability to make yourself do what you should do, when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not” ~ Elbert Hubbard
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Like blackmail scientologists
"...to choose to believe the pain you're going through is preparing you to become the person you one day need to be for somebody else."
key takeaways for me (1) Easier to do it now (2) Ask How not Can I (3) Words are a key link between thought and action (4) Harvest season (5) Peace = Perspective (6) Rent is due everyday - thanks gents for a great discussion.
Absolutely loving this interview! So, so powerful and useful! Thank you, guys! Rory is a wealth of knowledge! And Lewis has the best questions!
Appreciate you! 🙏
Laziness and procrast-i-nation is imagined. 💞
Thank you❤️so profoundly precise on what it takes to Walk you through a decision that you are commited to be and Do. You MUST be it, its an energy level you Tune up to by release the believe, the stagnagt energy you have about control. You release that and structure and disiplin have more space to play with. 🙏❤️ much love to all of you.
Rory always tells it how it is. Appreciate his honesty and no-nonsense approach. Had to listen to this twice to let the jewels sink in 💎
Glad you enjoyed it!
I'm lol😆 so hard at the replies that I'm realizing that humor is making it easier 2 do the hard thing now. So here's 2 all my fellow cows transforming into buffaloes 🍻
"Think it, speak it and act on it" Integrity. 100% on point.
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Biggest takeaway ..... How in the face of experiencing difficulty ......asking myself how I'm going to face it. And facing the storm like Buffalo. ❤ that was great ty!!
You know you are a procrastinator when you immediately save this video to “ Watch later.” I promise I’ll get to it. 😬
Lmbo!!!!
hey! I said "I would get to it tomorrow."
But Watch Later also saves you from watching many unnecessary videos that you are tempted to watch in that moment of time , but you refuse to watch. And you later find out you don't actually want to watch that video , thus saving you a lot of time.
@@prashantkumar9758 My Watch Later totally isn't filled with videos I put there 3 years ago...😅
Hey, it only took me a few months to get to it. Jeez! You can't even let a guy think things through properly! Lol!
After a kundilini awakening last night I feel in alignment. I was watching a different channel when my phone, which was sat on the side, had a spasm. It passed several channels and settled on this. The universe was giving me this message. The whole conversation was/is important to me. Thank you. II AM so grateful to have this lesson today. X
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I need to watch this over & over. This is life changing!! 🙌
As a single ambitious mother with many goals and ambitions this insightful teaching is so relatable. Children/teenagers are a blessing and generate many levels of distraction. The harvest ideal is the perfect analogy for people in my situation. You must stay focused.
Wow! Super amazing to listen.
Couldn't sleep up middle of the night.
Happened to come across this. Really really inspiring. Thought provoking.
Defining intergerity. Philosophy..
Surrounding oneself right people.
Taking the stairs. Happiness is our job..
Rory Vaden is so organized and intelligent. This interview just kept my jaws dropped throughout. One of the best teachings I have ever come across!
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Thanks your videos. What got from your first guest is now the motto for our homeschool this school year: "CHARGE THE STORM"
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You make me feel better just listening to your voice. I almost turn my phone and suddenly you speak up on whatever matter it is and bring realness and beauty to the situation. Love your truths and your heart is always connected. Thank you so much 💓
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I'm SO glad I listened to this. I appreciate how the host asked the question about, "focus" and how to stay focused, when "life" happens.... meaning-stress from uncomfortable change and how do we stay focused on the other things that need our focus when someone has died or family gets sick or .... the world goes through a p (l) andemic and EVERYTHING changes as the truth rises. So.... he says - the show must go on kinda things... but, tbh, I've had the hardest couple of years of my life and I was actually wondering if someone can die, from so much stress. So, "FOCUS" was NOT on my mind and in fact was very very difficult to commit to, under such stressful situations. Is there something "wrong" with me? Am I stupid? Am I too sensitive? Am I too emotional? Do I take life too personally and lose myself to outside circumstances? HOW do you stay focused on the work that needs you? Only survival will get you to "focus" because our brains are NOT wired for success... it is wired for survival. SO - to "focus"-it must be about survival... OR you MUST change and grow out of the old ways that are sabotaging your success.
Lewis, EVERY DAY I come to you for guidance on my life and my business. I would love to tell you specifically what I've gleaned, what I've implemented and the changes I employed and their results.
THANK YOU BROTHER.
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THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU JANINE JUST A MESSAGE I NEEDED TODAY!! CONTINUING TO HOLD THE LINE AND SHINE THE LOVE AND LIGHT TO OUR GLOBAL FAMILY ❤️🌎❤️
@1:00:50, People focus on their strengths and personalities because their peers will ridicule, mistreat, and overlook them if they are not particularly fond of them. Your service may do the world plenty of good, but if people see you as vulnerable, they will seek to capitalize at your expense. I spent 24 years in the military, I am now in education. I've seen it. I've experienced it.
Omg this is priceless! Thank you so much for sharing it with the world!
Wow, this is exactly what my soul needed. I've been in a stagnant slump and just procrastinating and make excuses for everything. Thank you for another great video!
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Short term imbalance to create the breakthrough. Breakthrough season ! I like that. Once again thank you Lewis for a great interview.
My home burned down a month ago in the Marshall CO Fires. I needed to hear this video--to refocus, have faith, and move forward with integrity to rebuild. Thank you.
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This is exactly what I need to hear I'm not lazy but I procrastinate way too much
I won't even sugarcoat. This is the best thing I've come across on RUclips. It feels like Eureka to me. Thank you so much.
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Who also smiles because he is so energetic, super intense while talking about the philosophies of procrastination, laziness, going into the storm, stop avoiding and being so super passionate about what he carries out to the world? 😁 And Lewis is in his calm and wondering what's going on here... ❤️ 😂 Omg watching and listening to this especially is such a nice, refreshing and windy thing 😂❤🤩 I love intense people! ❤
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Been up for a hour listening to how to shift my Paradigm. And to stop procrastinating That’s my number ☝🏾
I love this entire video !
Thank you Rory
Thank you Lewis
And everyone involved!!!
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
I love how you put them all together here. I learned so much from this. I love you Lewis and your guests! Truly, there are a lot of great people out there. Thank you Lewis for sharing them to the world!
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“Discipline is the antidote to procrastination”
The example of the fatal car accident. Actually happened to me. Except I had left really late to return home, but if I had left on time I wouldn't be here. Taking a step back during hardship really helps, and you become naturally grateful. In my humble opinion. 😊
Oh my Lewis! I waited to get my teeth fixed and now I’m already 45 and my mouth is still a mess. My front teeth have chipped and I’m missing molars and need braces so bad! My issue has been money, I have children and not employed for a ling time ... also cause the teeth became an acumulated problem permeating many areas of life, my self esteem, my neck muscles, gives me tense neck, and including higher chances for better incoming and follow my dreams, to be like you for example, because of not being able to smile as I’d love too! :( - I’ll take this talk to heart!
I also had low self-esteem due to dental issues. I had extensive repairs done at the university's faculty of dentistry. Just completed everything November 2020. Which city are you in?
Have u considered implants? They are getting cheaper and work w you. I wanted invisaline and discussed this w my dentist. She wanted to fix my one crown I had done by doing an implant. Cost 5K geez! After all done, I said now we can start the invisaline! No, you can’t budge the implant ,it’s in with titanium! Sorry…. Errrr
I was a master at Creative Procrastination! I've invested time and effort in identifying the reasons why I did what I did. I can now look back and confidently say that was the "old me". I feel so much better about my ability to tackle the tough tasks and prioritizing them instead of identifying other seemingly important tasks thus assigning them a higher priority. Thanks L Howes and R Vaden creating for this video.
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I started watching this today while I ate lunch, thinking about the essay I have due at midnight, the dentists and doctors appointments I still haven’t made amongst other things. It’s dinner time, I’ve come back to watch more. Essay still isn’t done. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
😂😂 same here
Life doesn't come with a menu
We're all unavoidably learning
From our mistakes I appreciate ya'll for this conversation.
Happy to hear this :)
"Don't be a should head" 😆
Rory is so good 🙌
Great program! Thank you so much. I learned a lot from it. I have faith that if we watched the program, is because we are interested not only in transforming our lives but also to impact the entire environment around us.
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Wow! This has been so inspirational, that I can’t wait to get home to get things done. Thank you so much, it has helped me understand myself. Will let you know about my progress! 🙏
I haven't given many comments to this channel, but I do want to express just how much digesting this kind of content has changed my life.
I'm 23 and I had been battling severe depression and anxiety after some pretty shitty circumstances I was thrown into as a teenager. This year, I quit my job to find something more fulfilling, I've saved 10k, have completely changed my outlook on myself, and I am just about the most productive person I know. Regardless of the financial success (even though I took a significant pay cut), I'm overwhelmed with gratitude because I feel alive.
Two years ago I was fighting myself just to be alive, but now I'm living. I'm a better mother, friend, daughter, and person because of it. I see colors brighter and I'm excited for my future.
Thank you, Lewis, for giving us this kind of content. I didn't know what I was capable of until I found it.
Mr Howes, this has been another great class! Thank you again for the knowledge you open all of us up to. You are a 1% in pushing positivity and giving out great life experience. I am truly greatful to have someone to look up to such as yourself. Thank you.
I normally don’t finish videos in full. I did with this one. They say the teacher will come when the student is ready.. If you have struggled with completing this or other things. Be patient and kind to yourself. you will get there. When you are ready to receive , this podcast will speak to you.. And, you will learn from it. I have taken away lot of valuable nuggets from the podcast. And looking to hear it a few more times.
We are all work in progress…
Lewis : Thanks for all the amazing work you do.
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
😊 , is the book for beginners as well or only for high achievers looking to level up ?
My emotional energy is definitely stronger than my physical. Almost to the point where I feel like my emotions run my life. The procrastination the past few months for me has been ridiculous. The disciplined path definitely is something I’m going for starting today!
Just curious, how is that going for ya?
@@outdoorcat5107 well I got a job started working out and getting out the house more so it was going well and definitely looking up but I’m sitting in a hospital bed right now so we’ll see how long that lasts.
@@chloeodom1447 wish you all the best!
@@outdoorcat5107 to you as well.
Don’t be a should head! Focus on ONE thing I can dominate and be an expert on. Run into the storm. Pay now or pay later with interest. One of the best episodes I have listened to! Or at least the one that spoke to me where i am at the most. Getting the book!
Love the school of greatness! Thank you 🙏🏾
These videos changed my life in this moment!!!! Thank you Lewis and Rory and Brandon! I needed to hear that our brain is wired for safety. Omg!!! I may have heard it before but finally got it. I also realized I had a belief from listening to Abraham that “don’t do anything until you feel like it or feel the impulse or joy to do something.” Because maybe things will go wrong if you’re not in “alignment.” That may be true too that maybe better things happen when you’re aligned in joy vs. just doing it even if you don’t feel like it. What I got from this is - when you have clarity of your deepest desires and have and set clear intentions - the rest is executing, even when it’s uncomfortable!!! Oh it’s so gorgeous! Thx!!!!
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Great stuff! I love the part about focusing on one thing to prevent dissipating your energy. That’s one I need to internalize.
Napolean Hill called it definiteness of purpose and has a lot of great writings and lectures on it.
This is the first time I've watched a procrastination video where i didn't think to myself , "Well if I could follow your recommendations I wouldn't be in this predicament in the first place."
He is so real. Thank you for a great episode.
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“Our ability to have peace is directly proportionate to our level of perspective” WOW
Wow!! This is the best episode Ive seen! This stuff should be taught in school! Im 58 and Im always evolving and improving. Thank u for giving me tools!
Thank you so much for watching!
Think, speak, act and it will happen 💯💯💯 also choose to suffer now or later is up to self 🎯 such important interview wow have faith and take the steps I'm speechless ❤👏🏿
Enjoyed the podcast a lot! Rory Vaden is such a passionate speaker! Thank you very much!
Have a great one everybody!
I guess that’s about what I have been trying to say for a few years I just couldn’t get that lu greatness on it to sound that good.. your service is your rent to the universe . I tell the people I try to help whatever it is that you want BE THE SOURCE. If you want more money give more money, you can have anything you want as long as you know what you want. I try to help anyone in my town that’s struggling with addiction or homeless and just need a little hope I give a free year rent in one of my rentals I keep the water and electric paid. They can work for me whatever you want to do to get back in there feet. We always say it’s a hand up not a handout.
Key for me is “ the way you create break through is unbalanced focus for a season”…💫
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am indeed blessed. Both spiritually and mentally. more grace
Loved the "harvest" metaphor. Makes so much sense. Thanks for sharing!
56:33 1-High Performers seek clarity and setting intention- Who do I want to be ( Future oriented in the now )- They are more clear on what skills to develop to reach their next level of success.
Thanks for this wisdom pill. The advices to reprogram my mind are excellent and sounds easy to implement. I´m on it.
Thanks
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Good, that we are neither cows nor buffalos! We have a frontal lobe and can think and make independant responsible descisions. We can seek shelter and not be affected by a storm at all. 😉💃🤩
OMG one of the best compilations ever. Thanks, !!!!!!!!!!! So good, that I downloaded it.
Thank you for showing love and your continued support 💜
This is truly incredible. This is the meaning of life.
So amazing... I took notes from all the speakers. I was really amazed when Dr. Michael Gervais spoke about the Personal Philosophy. Because knowing this will help us with overcoming procrastination...
This was one of your best videos!!!! Great job.
Appreciate you! 🙏
I’m digging Mr. Vaden’s ideas and messages! Thanks!
Choose & Decide: Either to live your life suffering or as a beautiful state of being!
I must choose the latter every day!
Wow who is this guy?! I love the way he explains everything
super conversation and great information has been shared