Debunking Success: Alcohol, Laziness & Social Media Addiction Isn't Holding You Back | Alex Hormozi

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @TomBilyeu
    @TomBilyeu  Год назад +307

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @Ketobbey
      @Ketobbey Год назад +1

      LOL!!
      @JAChadburn1

    • @Ketobbey
      @Ketobbey Год назад +11

      but if you did... Winky face XD hahaha this was an awesome interview!

    • @Ketobbey
      @Ketobbey Год назад +1

      hahaha! I have watched it through 3 times now. I watch at 2 times speed.@JAChadburn1

    • @antdx316
      @antdx316 Год назад +8

      This video ran super super deep beyond everything and I'm not even halfway through the video. I subscribed.

    • @TammyReneeCoaching
      @TammyReneeCoaching Год назад +3

      That’s when you know you made it big is when you have clones online! I’m actually offended that I’m not big time enough to have one myself lol

  • @vagabondcaleb8915
    @vagabondcaleb8915 Год назад +1156

    "You can't give yourself more willpower...But you CAN make the GOOD decisions more convenient...and the BAD ones less convenient." That's a good one.

    • @NatrajChaturvedi
      @NatrajChaturvedi Год назад +41

      I can speak from some experience on this lol.😅
      I had been trying to get clean for while with medium success. Then the cops in my city finally got rid of drug dealers close to where I live for good and so I had to go some distance to get drugs. Plus there were other inconveniences in going farther like occasionally getting cheated or robbed...
      That's when I was able to finally quit my addiction for good. Now I'm a recovering sober drug addict for some 8 years.

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 Год назад +12

      It's a rip off of Atomic Habits

    • @Thisisausername556
      @Thisisausername556 Год назад +15

      @@scottk1525A lot of stuff is rips from other stuff. Making the message concise, understandable, and available to a wide audience is important. And it’s important that the person saying it actually lives it and has the evidence of the outcomes to prove it.
      I just started reading Atomic Habits yesterday, so I’ll get to that point soon.

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 Год назад +5

      @@Thisisausername556 I would argue that the more "concise" a message is, the less compelling and informative it becomes. People get a momentary buzz from their little tweets, tag lines, and catch phrases, but hearing a snappy line on a podcast isn't going to create any meaningful changes in one's life.
      Reading a book on the subject, on the other hand, is significantly more likely to inspire lasting change. That's why people like this that rip the ides of others should at the very least give credit, and point people in the direction of the source.
      Life changing book by the way. Easily the most important book I've ever read for improving... anything.

    • @Quick--
      @Quick-- Год назад +8

      ​@scottk1525 you're just typing to type he literally references atomic habits in the first 2 minutes lmao. Remember also that the brain and neuroplasticity love repetition so hearing something again just helps cement it

  • @kvinkn588
    @kvinkn588 4 месяца назад +27

    Just here to tell you, sometimes you reach adults. 27, was addicted and jobless for two years, even lost my apartment. A couple months ago I decided to turn my life around, stopped doing drug completely and am now, since April, working at my first job in IT as a network engineer. Absolutely loving it. The more momentum I build the better my life seems to get. All aspects of it. Your podcasts have had a huge impact on my thinking (others too, like Lex Fridman and Andrew Huberman) and have been invaluable throughout the process of crawling out of that hole. Thank you!

  • @socialnijivotni
    @socialnijivotni Год назад +291

    Awesome intrview! I loved this talk. Here's what resonated with me:
    1. The number one problem is that no one takes action.
    2. Building an identity around hard work is something to strive for, instead of building an identity around beauty or intelligence.
    3. Being able to delay gratification.
    4. Map out what you want to do.
    5. Consistency is key, and you need evidence of your consistency.
    6. What can I do to make this day worse?
    7. If you act positive and think negative, you can still succeed, but if you think positive and act negative, you won't move forward.
    8. Tom has rules in his life; for example, you don't drink two times a week.
    9. Alex doesn't have rules; he's only interested in what works. He says that since morning routines are so different for every person, this means that they don't really have that much of an impact. If you do the things that are important for your business, you can also drink, watch adult content, eat sweets, and so on. You need to focus on the formula that will move your business forward and decide how you'd like to live your life. But the way you live your life is not that important to your business. The only thing important to your business is whether you work or not.
    10. If you don't have patience, you need to figure out what to do in the meantime.
    11. Sadness is the perceived lack of options, which is an ignorance problem and can be fixed with more knowledge.
    12. Anxiety is having too many options and not knowing which one to choose, which means that you need priorities and need to make decisions.
    13. Are you going to play the victim, or are you going to play the game?
    14. Alex thinks that values are skills that can be trained. Tom does not share the same opinion; he thinks that emotions are an echo of a person's beliefs and values.
    15. How Alex knows when the work is done: He asks a person to edit a 30-second clip for 30 minutes, after that asks the person what they would do if they had 2 hours, after that 2 weeks, and once there isn't anything more that can be done, then the work is finished.
    16. The rate at which you decide what the next most meaningful step for your business or life is a sign of intelligence.
    17. Being predictable in a good way and delivering when you promised that you're going to deliver will be liked by everyone.

    • @Kanesauce
      @Kanesauce Год назад +2

      #9 starts at 21:20 , loved it

    • @noelavila
      @noelavila Год назад +7

      Well written young lady

    • @tnemsdz
      @tnemsdz Год назад +3

      ❤️🙏🏻

    • @redmed10
      @redmed10 Год назад +1

      9 watch adult content. Ha ha ha. I like how you slipped that one in there.

    • @StephaniRoberts
      @StephaniRoberts Год назад

      Love Alex’s perspective on this. It’s liberating!

  • @ambition112
    @ambition112 Год назад +436

    1:03: 🗒 Alex Hormozi discusses the importance of controlling variables, changing environments, and building self-esteem based on traits like delaying gratification, having a vision, and having drive.
    15:49: 🧠 People have a hard time holding sophisticated ideas in their head, but it is possible to develop confidence through evidence-based behaviors.
    26:00: 💡 Success has physics and if you're not trying to do something that violates physics then you're going to be fine, and how you get there is somewhat irrelevant.
    37:29: 🔑 Emotions are subjective reactions to perception, and by understanding this, we can take control of our emotions and make different choices that move us towards our goals.
    50:35: 🔑 The key to behavior change is understanding the rewards and punishments that drive our actions.
    1:03:09: 💡 Rewarding behavior is more effective in the long term, while punishment can change behavior in the short term.
    1:15:23: 🔑 The key to changing behavior and achieving desired outcomes is understanding and modifying one's frame of reference.
    1:28:14: 📚 The ability to break down complex problems into actionable steps is crucial for success.
    1:40:47: 📈 The process of testing and refining a business strategy involves breaking down failures into smaller steps and focusing on measurable behaviors.
    2:03:36: 💡 Leverage is the difference between what you put in and what you get out, and it can be achieved through skills, collaboration, capital, and content.
    2:05:26: 📈 The key to leverage in business is to maximize the number of potential units sold and the gross profit per unit, while considering competitive dynamics and upfront capital investments.
    2:17:33: 📚 Russell Brunson demonstrated the concept of his books through exceptional offers, achieving record-breaking success in online marketing.
    2:29:20: 📚 The author explains how he used various methods to advertise and generate leads for his book launch, emphasizing the importance of building a strong brand and making and keeping promises.
    2:47:49: 💼 Businesses solve problems and make the world better, and entrepreneurship is the way to solve as many problems as possible.
    2:53:56: ✨ The concept of 'one of zero' is about defining your own path, keeping promises, and earning your own approval.
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @FrancesRyan-b2p
    @FrancesRyan-b2p Год назад +782

    All you need is pure intention and a bit of practice. The more you focus on what you want to manifest, the more likely it is to happen. Keep your mind open and be willing to receive whatever it is you’ve been dreaming of and it’s possible if you believe in yourself!! Thanks for the words..

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    • @JewellOguin
      @JewellOguin Год назад

      I remember friends calling me crazy when I started but i now shut them up with my four Figure weekly returned

  • @AlanGonzalez-mn4pw
    @AlanGonzalez-mn4pw Год назад +101

    “You solve sadness through knowledge, you solve anxiety by actions.” Incredible.

  • @skbgyal
    @skbgyal 10 месяцев назад +4

    I’m so happy I found this video. It just changed my life. Tom for 30 years I’ve been stuck on a hamster shell of thoughts and feelings lost and going nowhere. And as soon as your guest opened his mouth I understood what I needed to do and shed. Thank you both! This was powerful.

  • @matiasdubs
    @matiasdubs Год назад +26

    This is 3 SOLID HOURS of smack-you-in-the-face lessons. Alex Hormozi's own "meditations".
    Can't say "thank you" enough to both of you!!! You are today's prophets and role models.

  • @MoonTrading611
    @MoonTrading611 Год назад +120

    I'm going to replay this podcast dozens of times. This is pure gold, and both perspectives of Tom and Alex just compare and contrast beautifully!

    • @clippext
      @clippext Год назад +3

      was thinking this every second as i watch it hahahah. this one deserves

    • @Squirrel-zq6oe
      @Squirrel-zq6oe Год назад

      Yo for real, DREAM TEAM

    • @derekjp6043
      @derekjp6043 Год назад

      Pure diamonds.. purer than the most valuable form of matter on earth, whatever that is today and will be 100 years from today.

    • @rustyshackleford6637
      @rustyshackleford6637 Год назад

      I'll listen to it when I take a SHIT

    • @TomBilyeu
      @TomBilyeu  Год назад +3

      Love to hear it!
      What was your biggest take away?
      Best,
      Impact Theory Community Manager

  • @tomw485
    @tomw485 Год назад +10

    I’ve learned that one of the most important aspects towards getting things done is momentum. At first you kind of just have to force yourself to do what you think is right. This is the hardest step. It hurts, it sucks, it’s boring, and it’s stressful at the beginning.
    However once you start doing things right consistently and seeing some small wins you get a little bit of wind at your back that propels you forward. You’ve started to build towards something that will crumble if you stop. So you get an internal drive that pushes you to keep going, keep building and keep getting better because you know that once you stop all the work you already did will be for nothing. Then you get to a point where sitting around is actually far more emotionally taxing and stressful than it is to simply get the work done. That’s the momentum you need to achieve big things.
    The most basic example is working out. You consistently hit the gym and build a lot of strength and endurance you never had. You clean up your diet and you look and feel better than you ever have. At this point a healthy active lifestyle becomes a part of who you are and despite the temporary pain of taxing g your body through strenuous exercise you’re now more at peace with yourself through healthy dietary choices and working out than relaxing and eating tasty junk food. The thought of sitting on your couch eating potato chips at this point literally upsets you and adds stress because you realize how destructive this behavior is to your body and how much work you need to do to heal from that.
    The same principle applies to accomplishing things in work, business, and the quality of your relationships. Good healthy decisions literally become an addiction. Ultimately you end up really liking and respecting yourself. You know how they say respect is earned? Well that applies to self respect too.
    But the beginning is the hardest. You have to force yourself to do it initially. You have to suffer a bit. But the rewards of a life well lived are immeasurable.

  • @vngelsvnddemons5292
    @vngelsvnddemons5292 Год назад +10

    Perfect example of a Stoic and an Overthinker (dives deeper in their thoughts) having a conversation.

  • @chocolate_chip21
    @chocolate_chip21 11 месяцев назад +2

    "Living for the future version of yourself and letting that person be your ultimate judge" So simple yet so powerful! I know alot of people including myself that have done things to get others approval.

  • @RyanGetLow
    @RyanGetLow Год назад +70

    Alex's simplistic way of viewing things is so refreshing to me. I align with his mindset very much. I always thought I had to change more about myself to align more with others, like Tom, for instance. Not that one is right or wrong, but which (amongst other mindsets and views, not just these two) is right for me. Or, perhaps, it's just owning my own mindset. Thank you, gentlemen, for all that you do. This is the stimulating conversation and knowledge that people and the world need.

    • @PropGear
      @PropGear Год назад +4

      so true. Defining terms and breaking things down to first principles is so refreshing and actionable. In a world full of fluff and mantras, this gives so much clarity.

    • @bobby8630
      @bobby8630 Год назад

      That's so interesting to hear your perspective, I'm more like Tom, I feel like if I understand the why I can predict what happens - I feel like I am on stable footing. That being said, I fall into Alex's category of inaction - and so need to find a balance between the two.

    • @NeuroPulse
      @NeuroPulse Год назад

      "Absorb what is useful, discard what is useless and add something specifically your own."
      - Bruce Lee

  • @TammyReneeCoaching
    @TammyReneeCoaching Год назад +92

    Being fat, high as a kite and naive has cost me millions of dollars these past 2 decades. I was the pioneer of the discount plus size industry, and I’ve been in affiliate marketing since the infomercial days. I worked for Dean Graziosi as well. I should have been a multi millionaire by now, but I didn’t have the mental clarity and since I was fat, I stuck with telemarketing instead of being in the spotlight on social media. Now I’m down 129 pounds & I have 40 more to go PLUS I’m sober. Tom, I will be on your show in the next three years. I’m confident of that and LISA’s show too! I love what the two of you are doing to bring us such a great content.

    • @Kevin-kj5th
      @Kevin-kj5th Год назад +2

      Awesome! Congrats!

    • @warmaxxx
      @warmaxxx Год назад

      you sound deluded lol

    • @TammyReneeCoaching
      @TammyReneeCoaching Год назад +1

      @@Kevin-kj5th Thank you so much!

    • @hawed19
      @hawed19 Год назад +8

      Life is about perspective, Lizzo gets high as a kite and is "fat" but she made it. Just giving another viewpoint...

    • @TammyReneeCoaching
      @TammyReneeCoaching Год назад

      @@hawed19 yes, it depends on the industry that you’re in. I’m in the business of coaching women to make 6 to 7 figures online as well as speaking on stage. Therefore, I don’t want to be huffing and puffing, sweating my ass off underneath the stage lights. Plus, I need to have the mental clarity and energy to coach my clients, as well as scale my own company. Lizzo is in the business of entertainment and motivating plus size women. I was involved in the plus size industry for over two decades, and I made a ton of money smoking blunts all day and stuffing my face. So it definitely depends on the industry.

  • @shelleyshell475
    @shelleyshell475 Год назад +6

    It all boils down to "FEAR"!! When we strip away the layers... you're left with FEAR!! Stand up to the fear. Positive affirmations allow us to speak it into existence!!

  • @YoungWhite01
    @YoungWhite01 Год назад +4

    I needed this video. Tons of people have told me that I needed to have a jovial attitude and demeanor while doing the work needed to grow my business to see results; that working without having a happy personality all the time was the reason I wasn’t seeing the results i I wanted. I told everyone that I won’t always be happy but I can always choose to do the work despite how I felt and I was instructed that that wasn’t enough.
    It’s good to know that I think similarly along the lines of Hormozi on this topic.

  • @arlenethedragonlady
    @arlenethedragonlady Год назад +90

    I like how Alex makes things approachable and actionable but I like that Tom goes to the abstract and reasons behind actions because that’s what makes us human and not robots

    • @Jamesrwatsonx
      @Jamesrwatsonx Год назад +3

      That’s also what makes humans more fallible and computers more effective. Trust me humans are not this complicating or “smart”dumb. Tim is the epitome of over complicating things

    • @kayakMike1000
      @kayakMike1000 Год назад

      Sorry, as far as I know, you're not a human. Until proven otherwise, you're a robot.

    • @janesickler5497
      @janesickler5497 Год назад +1

      Great message here!! There is something to be learned from listening to this conversation but I can't get past the black strip on his nose...that's all I focus on and the rest is blah,blah,blah...like how the school teacher sounds in the Snoopy cartoons...lol...no shade given here to either of you but my ADHD brain just kicked in amd hyper focused on the black strip on his nose!! I'm like the baby you pick up to talk to and the whole time you are cooing at me or talking to me, I am trying to yank your glasses off of your face or your earrings or necklace, with that being my whole focus😂😂😂

    • @michaelburrell4685
      @michaelburrell4685 Год назад +4

      Listen to the podcast again without watching it. I don’t have 3 hours to sit and and watch something anyway so I listen while I do non mental tasks.

    • @bobby8630
      @bobby8630 Год назад

      I love this question and all of the commenters here.
      I would love to be more like Alex, just take an action-orientated approach and do not care about the why? Because really - it does not matter. It just seems to disagree with my personality, partly because I feel like if I understand the why, then I am on a strong foundation - if I don't know why something works - it seems a bit frustrating to me. Does anyone else feel like that?
      I also feel one of the reasons people like to know why, is when they start to understand the brain or trauma, they stop being self-judgmental or having a lot of shame, they feel like they are not broken.

  • @DrAl.SmileArtist
    @DrAl.SmileArtist 11 месяцев назад +2

    Sadness comes from a lack of options, which feels like hopelessness. Solve it with knowledge, gives you something to do, you do have an option.
    Thank you.

  • @Stn53
    @Stn53 Год назад +5

    This is a GOLD MINE of a podcast. This really helps you to look/think about things differently.

  • @RealTimeLeadGen
    @RealTimeLeadGen Год назад +42

    Absolutely epic convo between two of my all time favorite people. Total Bosses

    • @kayakMike1000
      @kayakMike1000 Год назад +2

      This guy seems okay, speaking simple wisdom. Tom barfs up some sound bytes here and there...

    • @michaelburrell4685
      @michaelburrell4685 Год назад

      Damn you roasted Tom in the kindest most efficient way possible…

  • @limitless88
    @limitless88 Год назад +22

    When Tom speaks about his rules that’s another way of talking about his non-negotiable commitments to self. Those require a lot of self restraint, that’s built up over time (with experience), so to get there, easiest is to remove the things that detract from your best self.
    Great conversation!

  • @AndresDiazSBS
    @AndresDiazSBS Год назад +1

    I have seen multiple interviews of Alex, and the happiest i have seen him is when He or someone define terms.

  • @avalerionbass
    @avalerionbass Год назад +46

    I can tell Tom has taken the advice of people watching his videos. This particular interview shows a different call and response interview than the traditional conversational style of interview.
    It conveys a stronger element of showcasing the guest and their thoughts and experiences vs Tom's relentless desire for knowledge and growth. Good job man!

    • @PaulLumen
      @PaulLumen Год назад +3

      would love you to expand on this. have watched a lot of Impact Theory (and many many other podcasts besides), what was the specific feedback on the other videos? what do you mean by call and response? i think i understand what you mean by Tom’s relentless desire for knowledge and growth, but i’ve always felt him give ample space for the guests to explain themselves and he tends to ask interesting follow-up questions (at least from IT episodes i’ve seen). do say more, it’d be very helpful!

    • @TuanTran-h5f
      @TuanTran-h5f Год назад

      If you need to come on RUclips to get control of your life, you probably need professional help already.
      This guy being interviewed is a con man.

    • @firsthelix6726
      @firsthelix6726 Год назад +2

      I‘m annoyed by his constant urge to do the talking, instead of letting the guest do the talking TBH!

    • @davidbooher5559
      @davidbooher5559 Год назад

      Great observation. After you mentioned it, it was obvious to see a different and improved method of interviewing.

    • @firsthelix6726
      @firsthelix6726 Год назад +1

      Not sure what you mean, he continues to interrupt people and and claims more ‚talk time’ than his guests, instead of holding his horses.

  • @sunnc
    @sunnc Год назад +1

    19:12 !! Just do. Regardless of feelings
    23:30 just work. The routine is work. 24:58
    1:29:32
    2:04:00 naval leverage

  • @meuzick777
    @meuzick777 Год назад +8

    Holy smokes it took me a few nights to get through this one but I can't thank you guys enough for doing this interview. My fascination and inspiration around developing an offer and telling others is through the roof. Grade A+ content right here. Well done bravo!

    • @derekjp6043
      @derekjp6043 Год назад

      Same! I keep relistening to the beginning and finally made it to the end.

    • @BusinessWolf1
      @BusinessWolf1 Год назад

      Don't tell others if they're people who give you validation, aka not customers. It took me way too long to learn this lesson, but telling someone else about what you're doing, and actually accomplishing it makes our brains give very similar satisfaction, so we end up never completing the thing because we already got the reward.

  • @GOLDENCHERRYSUMMERSUN
    @GOLDENCHERRYSUMMERSUN 6 месяцев назад +1

    Doing is most important but if the root of not doing is thinking you have to fix the thinking. If the root of not doing is feeling you have to fix the feeling. The root of not doing can have many reasons, thats where you start otherwise you will be able to continue, it could even set you back. Look the step that needs to be taken in the moment to get you running. Honesty is the key 🗝️

  • @Seek.Ario88
    @Seek.Ario88 Год назад +4

    I love how Alex removes the emotional variable n can break down everything in life into logical truths.

  • @insightsrocks
    @insightsrocks 8 месяцев назад

    I resonate deeply with Alex Hormozi's perspectives shared in this video . In my view "Character" holds paramount importance for all individuals. As the adage goes, "If money is lost, nothing is lost; if health is lost, something is lost; but if character is lost, everything is lost." It's a poignant reminder of the invaluable essence of integrity and moral strength in navigating life's journey. Take care, and here's to wishing everyone a fulfilling and joyous existence filled with happiness and purpose

  • @PaulHindt
    @PaulHindt Год назад +5

    "Operationalizing" a feeling that you don't know how to handle literally is cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). One of the hardest things about overcoming self-destructive behavior is identifying the feelings and emotions that are leading to an unwanted behavioral response (drinking, gambling, compulsively eating). That is what CBT tries to help you to do, as well as to come up with an alternate response to that emotion, so that it can be put into practice the next time those thoughts or feelings come up.

  • @MrHeimes
    @MrHeimes 8 месяцев назад +1

    Im listening this podcast for the second time, this really cracked my brain into action and im enjoying myself. Thank you both so much for this

  • @Jawsh98
    @Jawsh98 Год назад +20

    Hormozi is your top 3 guest of all time. Goggins, Hormozi & Sinek. Thank you and the team for the amazing videos.

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад

      Well you can say that after they have succeed in making this world better, peaceful, prosperous, ecofriendly, utopic etc.

    • @Jawsh98
      @Jawsh98 Год назад

      @@ttii9 you’re a weird individual

  • @NewYorkNadia
    @NewYorkNadia 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love the interview BUT I think there is a major misunderstanding here; yes, actions/behavior are what get you where you want to go. However, those are driven and controlled by your beliefs. Beliefs are the thoughts you repeat to yourself. By changing the repetitive thoughts, your beliefs are changed, as is your behavior. To ignore this basic trait of human psychology is to ignore the fastest way to succeed in any endeavor. Alex mentioned the Stoics, great example; the behavior the Stoics proposed was based on their beliefs. This is why training doesn’t stick if the beliefs and mindset were never addressed first; the mindset remains the same so the person eventually reverts to the behavior that matches their mindset. Mindset AND behavior create your life; it’s “and” NOT “or.” Hope this helps.

  • @mndflctzn
    @mndflctzn Год назад +6

    Alex's outward persona without knowing anything about him pushes many away but if you listen closer you will hear that he speaks many truths.
    I'm becoming a fan.

  • @NobodysFaultPodcast
    @NobodysFaultPodcast 8 месяцев назад +1

    One of the best podcast discussions I've heard this year! It unlocked some big stuff for me.
    Lots of notes taken.
    🔥 🔥🔥🔥

  • @GPTeacherReis
    @GPTeacherReis Год назад +3

    Thank you I.T. for bringing valuable context to several of my favorite quotes:
    “To know and not do is to not know” &
    “Every class is a language class”

  • @MonicaMoveMIRealty
    @MonicaMoveMIRealty 5 месяцев назад

    The most enjoyable thing about Tom's interview style is his willingness to listen and to chime in at the ideal moment to encourage deeper insights.

  • @masonltompkins
    @masonltompkins Год назад +3

    "The way that you feel is your subconscious mind, which can process information faster and vaster..." than your conscious mind, which compresses information into words and images. THAT was a golden segment.

  • @santoniop5618
    @santoniop5618 Год назад +2

    Absolutely incredible interview. I subscribed to Alex when he was at 80k on RUclips. I knew he was the real deal and this was the best interview I’ve heard all year.

  • @KingBurger404
    @KingBurger404 7 месяцев назад +5

    I like that Tom doesn’t just agree with everything his guests say, for the sake of “being polite”

  • @IFBBProYeo
    @IFBBProYeo 11 месяцев назад

    Talk about reward and punishment!! I have lost count of how many commercials have been in this episode! The message is so good but it is completely and utterly interrupted by dozens of ads. I came to listen to this man speak because I found him on modern wisdom, and I must have listened for 3 hours with hardly an interruption and I was so freaking immersed!! Talk about flow state! Over here I'm not sure if I can even finish this there's so many ads.

  • @chartingwithliv
    @chartingwithliv Год назад +4

    This one could break the internet, the two of you i watch avidly and to see him them together made me giddy

  • @My_oh_face
    @My_oh_face 5 месяцев назад

    You’re 1,000% right about that. It comes down to keeping promises. It’s so simple. I’m speaking as a consumer, when I buy something or go into any kind of business arrangement, that’s all I hope for. Keep your promises, deliver on what you said you would, and everything is gravy…

  • @Vitsupp
    @Vitsupp Год назад +4

    55 minutes into this & I am thinking 1. Alex has spent time understanding behavior analysis and found ways to apply it to himself & those around 2. Tom has iron clad rules he lives by. He has picked an identity and is true to himself. Both are action oriented.

  • @steveprpr
    @steveprpr 2 месяца назад

    This is your best podcast ever. Your speaker was such an inspiration. You also need to know you were 100% out matched.

  • @dylanc1925
    @dylanc1925 Год назад +12

    This feels like therapy and my takeaway is that I need to do a better job of understanding and processing my emotions.

    • @terrytari1891
      @terrytari1891 Год назад

      Dylan: Why does that man have black tape on his nose? Did he use to be a Cocaine addict?

    • @NatrajChaturvedi
      @NatrajChaturvedi Год назад +1

      Listening to some of Jordan Petersons talks or lectures feels like therapy too.

  • @stvn0378
    @stvn0378 Год назад +2

    Indeed. Sometimes the problem seems to be focusing on the "problems."

  • @RaoulDuke-k9q
    @RaoulDuke-k9q Год назад +5

    “Sadness is a lack of options. The way to break through from feelings is knowledge.”
    “Anxiety comes from having too many options, but no priorities. You solve that by making decisions.”

  • @RobertHollis
    @RobertHollis 11 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing Interview Thank you for being a blessing!

  • @SyedMuktasid
    @SyedMuktasid Год назад +35

    22:03 - Man I was actually waiting for this. I remember listening in one of Alex's videos where he said that he doesn't want to have any clutches or rules that hold him down so that he doesn't depend on things for him to get work done. I remember thinking of Tom Bilyeu at that exact moment because Tom has a lot of rituals that he does to be optimal. I actually felt that Alex was talking about Tom at that moment haha.

    • @cristalallen8826
      @cristalallen8826 Год назад +12

      It’s great to see two successful people have two very different approaches. Certainly proves that we need to be open to all different approaches and find what works for us

    • @SyedMuktasid
      @SyedMuktasid Год назад +5

      @@cristalallen8826 True, as long as they do the important work that makes them successful, the rest probably doesn't matter as much.

    • @bshowto
      @bshowto Год назад +1

      Alex is making the point that all the rituals are not the work but can be done or not. As long as the work is done the rituals are just side things they could actually be limiting the work done (could be doing more work instead of the rituals). Tom and many others (Huberman, lex, etc) do the rituals as part of their health/well-being, which then helps them 'feel' better or ready for work. I think they could actually separate the rituals(for health) from work when talking about their routines but it is so much the talk/content relative to their online business brand. Alex still gets his exercise in, but he speaks much less about that as he is really focused on business how-to/operationalizing as his content/speak.

    • @TheDionysianFields
      @TheDionysianFields Год назад

      It's not rules, but POLICY. And we all have it. Maybe your policy is to eat whatever you want to, well then you probably have another policy that says you have to be in the gym at least x days per week. What I'm saying is that Alex is full of s__t. He probably has more policies than any of us.

  • @mike_strong
    @mike_strong Год назад

    It comes as no surprise as these are my two favorite people, this is the best podcast I have ever listened to. Thank you. I will listen to this multiple times!!

  • @redlipmarketing
    @redlipmarketing Год назад +4

    Thank you for having him. I bet you 2 will knock it out of the park. ❤

  • @mysteriousman3000
    @mysteriousman3000 5 месяцев назад

    You can tell Alex loved this conversation. Alex sounded genuinely excited that he was having an interview with someone on his level

  • @Noble.Hustler
    @Noble.Hustler Год назад +6

    Thanks Tom & Impact Theory! Some of these videos are quite literary continuing education at the collegiate level!

  • @lorenwebb7069
    @lorenwebb7069 Год назад

    One of the greatest minds of our time. And I am FULL of gratitude for coming across his existence, because it has only made my own brighter.

  • @jakelucas7789
    @jakelucas7789 Год назад +4

    Absolutely incredible episode. Thank you both for having this conversation. This content is immensely valuable.

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад

      Now start putting it in practice.

  • @sadfioasjdfoija
    @sadfioasjdfoija Год назад +2

    Thanks Tom! I love that this is 3 hours long. I remember when your talks were only 50 minutes and it felt too short. THanks!

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад +1

      Unless a you live it, you'll have wasted your time listening!

  • @Zoltans_Channel
    @Zoltans_Channel Год назад +2

    Can’t get enough of Alex’s interviews/podcast. Always get so much value out of each episode. Also I finally subscribed after watching like 5-6 podcasts from your channel.

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад

      Don't just listen, try living it.

    • @Zoltans_Channel
      @Zoltans_Channel Год назад

      @@ttii9 I’m applying everything I learned from his books to my photography business I’m starting.

    • @TomBilyeu
      @TomBilyeu  Год назад +2

      Love to hear it! Alex is wonderful.
      Check out the channel for other related content you'll enjoy!
      Best,
      Impact Theory Community Manager

  • @mattpigott
    @mattpigott Год назад +1

    This is the best podcast I’ve listened to IN MY LIFE, I’ve been a fan of Alex Hormozi for a couple of years now, but I know for a fact this podcast has fundamentally changed my life for the better in a massive way. WOW

  • @Alexa1995ns
    @Alexa1995ns Год назад +4

    Tom is much better at holding a podcast and asking great questions with Alex than other podcasters he has been a guest, and I probably watched them all... Looking forward to the 3rd pod next year

    • @tusharthakur420
      @tusharthakur420 Год назад

      I think it’s bc they’re meeting as relative equals. Tom 1) actually has things to share w success to back them up and 2) feels justified contrasting his perspective with Alex’s. Usually, hormozi will get on a pod w the interviewer just fawning over him for an hour (and justifiably so) w/out adding much bc he’s just not on that level.

    • @ItsameAlex
      @ItsameAlex Год назад

      chris williamson was also good

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 Год назад

    You and Lisa look so good together we love your show . You two rock, keep changing the world ⭐️🫶🏽⭐️

  • @werkzeugmann6224
    @werkzeugmann6224 Год назад +5

    Plans are important, but the routine Work is more important, staying motivated= the most important!

  • @WillbWriting
    @WillbWriting Год назад

    I am also thankful to be alive during this time. Thank you both!

  • @Kward1
    @Kward1 Год назад +4

    I literally listened to this whist running a half marathon! Absolutely brilliant, two awesome people and I was hooked, amazing learning for me, thankyou guys 🙏

  • @EsotericallyWikked
    @EsotericallyWikked Год назад +2

    I’m going to say that attitude and perspective is so important but health and wellbeing and nutrition is really important and you have to have a work ethic.

  • @enricogarcie
    @enricogarcie Год назад +2

    The simple way Alex Hormozi speaks provides a clearer and more cohesive way to understand his message.

  • @IAm03j
    @IAm03j Год назад +3

    1:29:00 I agree nothing matters until you put some action in in the real world but there’s two ways to look at it. When focusing on what you believe (toms approach) and change how you view the world and view yourself, you will find that your actions naturally align with those beliefs. Therefore changing your conception of self and what you believe can produce the actions necessary to reach your goals in a way that you don’t have to consciously devise. It’s easier for me personally and there’s less resistance.
    Alex has a more direct approach by simply going straight to changing his actions but I think he has a unique way of disassociating with his behaviors. Maybe I’m interpreting it wrong but when I try to change my actions without changing my beliefs I always end up in a cycle it’s like I’m fighting my own nature. It seems like he’s able to say fuck all that and simply change. I think he has a more logical and no nonsense mind. He’s so self aware that he can go straight to the root and attack the problem directly while someone like me would have to change how we think and then our actions naturally change as a byproduct.
    I love these convos man

    • @TheDionysianFields
      @TheDionysianFields Год назад

      Alex is the algorithm that would turn us all into robots.

  • @daffertube
    @daffertube Год назад

    This is one of the greatest biz podcast collabs ever.

  • @jeremybond2
    @jeremybond2 10 месяцев назад +2

    This man is the first person I have ever heard speak of the idea of having undefined words. Please for the love of god, make a list of words that make you angry, sad, lonely or any negative emotion and please for your own sake, figure out why and change it. That is the cure to all the strange behaviours that can hold us back when we know we should do something differently.

  • @idalbertodl
    @idalbertodl Год назад +1

    Wow the anxiety part was gold for me, thank you Alex thats 100% true most of my feeling are because i had so many paths in front of me i just didint know which one to take

  • @ayaazarm3478
    @ayaazarm3478 Год назад +3

    YES, definition of what things means! I sometimes don’t get it, like raise your standards. I know it is simple ( now I get it) but initially I was like “ what does that mean ,how do I raise my standards “
    Nice episode, I LOVE it , and I love all your episode. THANK YOU TOM!!

  • @Morill128
    @Morill128 9 месяцев назад

    So this is what happens when an amazing interviewer meets an amazing interviewee. First time on this channel, instant sub

  • @sophiec3592
    @sophiec3592 Год назад +3

    I’m finally coming back to myself after years old spending too early. Lately I been sleeping and taking care of myself more. Be true to yourself everyone. Everything will be okay.

  • @HOC242
    @HOC242 Год назад

    I hope my honesty helps just one person:
    Wow, I have received your videos for a while. This one is intriguing..
    i don’t have a problem with wanting to achieve more, the feeling of a lifelong chess stalemate, has settled me to the lesson of Frank Abagnale, what have I done that brings me the most legitimacy, before everything breaks; or do you push knowing it has been a lifelong stalemate, with the awareness there’s more. That can’t be had…or at least it seems out of reach…

  • @WarNinGXK
    @WarNinGXK Год назад +56

    No one is going to comment the fact that the guy has a black tape in his nose with advertising on it? 😂🤣

    • @RobertJohnson-lc5bj
      @RobertJohnson-lc5bj 9 месяцев назад +9

      I’m looking for an explanation - it’s like the 600 pound gorilla in the living room - could be an airway opener for the sinus - I had the idea - then I saw someone else invented it

    • @analeej5
      @analeej5 7 месяцев назад +6

      It’s distracting! 😅

    • @gj1695
      @gj1695 7 месяцев назад +3

      And why didn't the manufacturers of the nose device -- make the device in skin colors... peach and brown?

    • @tommasterplus
      @tommasterplus 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@gj1695 they do, Alex indeed sometimes use the more subtle version 😂

    • @Badger345
      @Badger345 5 месяцев назад +2

      I was just thinking what is on this guys nose 👃
      How dose he have a serious conversation with a sign on his nose 👃
      Reminds me of Monty Pythons Flying Circus

  • @derekjp6043
    @derekjp6043 Год назад +2

    I've been in a mild funk of not spending my time at home well during the week for a couple months. I have the trait of working hard, MWF are 10-13 hour days; I love running the tightest ship at higher and higher levels of professionalism at my job. Anyways... the funk is around using my Tuesday's to build a business, and letting fear of what other's might say if I succeeded or failed cause me to not do it... as well as worries of again, the potential thoughts of other's I live with if I were to be different than them and actually get good at being up early.
    I don't expect anyone to read that.. this video means so much to me.. that's the point. I beyond intend on executing things I've gleaned from this.. and I couldn't be more grateful to have found Alex and Tom and to have been listening to them for some time, off and on.

  • @CarlitoFluito
    @CarlitoFluito Год назад +6

    Hey Alex,
    Love the behaviorism phase you’re going through. I had one when I studied Skinner and Watson at the university.
    Emotions help consolidate memories. Thus, feeling “good” or “bad” actually helps and it’s associated with the learning process, and thus, the likelihood of repeating (or not) the behavior in the future.
    Btw, love the whole vibe = bunch of behaviors difficult to describe. In many occasions vague language is just a heuristic for an accumulation of elements. A manner of speak.
    Keep on rolling!!!

  • @1ICON1
    @1ICON1 8 месяцев назад

    Tom you are awesome love how you have such an open and accepting heart of everyone

  • @jtrenow
    @jtrenow Год назад +5

    I love the way Alex thinks. He is able to break down completely ideas and philosophy into simple and easy to actions

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад

      Easy actions only for the young. The older one gets frailty prevents us living to our desired standards. Reality!

    • @TomBilyeu
      @TomBilyeu  Год назад +1

      We're stoked you appreciated the conversation!
      Alex is incredibly smart and we're happy to have him on the show.
      Best,
      Impact Theory Community Manager

  • @igotbit9454
    @igotbit9454 10 дней назад

    Hormozi just getting started. I see greater things coming for this guy

  • @PropGear
    @PropGear Год назад +4

    "I sit in bed for 45 minutes on my phone" - what makes Alex so great... so incredibly successful yet he is so human.

  • @diamondgarcia9409
    @diamondgarcia9409 9 месяцев назад

    Wow. My favorite podcast from them both. I'll listen to this many times.

  • @davidfaiheng
    @davidfaiheng Год назад +3

    It all comes down to 'Focus on what you can control'

  • @Dietzstroyer
    @Dietzstroyer 2 месяца назад

    Alex says things that help me understand things about myself that I’ve never been able to articulate

  • @jenniferbrantley5931
    @jenniferbrantley5931 Год назад +2

    Very cool to hear someone come at these topics from a behavioral lens and make them so accessible! Love Alex :-)

  • @TheDarthpsi
    @TheDarthpsi 11 месяцев назад

    Ok, I agree about knowing the meaning of things and words, you can 100% repeat them to exhaustion and never forget them, but you can also not engange with these words because you don't truly know what they mean, for example, the anthem of a country or a prayer, you can repeat them and remember them forever, but you may spent your lifetime without knowing exactly what they mean.

  • @Jamesrwatsonx
    @Jamesrwatsonx Год назад +9

    Tom is what entropy is all about. In the name of knowledge, organization… it’s actually disruptive and actually shows how non-secular he is or insecure, however you want to phrase it. Tom and his relentless pursuit of knowledge, detail and all that a thing can consist of is impressive right? Because he is successful right? Wrong. More doesn’t always mean better. Here's the thing-when we dive too deep into organizing every bit of information, life gets overly complicated. It's like overeating, but in our minds. We end up craving more and more knowledge, mentally becoming overweight. It’s knowledge gluttony sort of like how the depressed eat. You can tell how uncomfortable he was trying to maintain comfort.
    Nature's wisdom lies in simplicity, where chaos and order coexist harmoniously. But our thirst for knowledge sometimes makes us lose touch with this natural flow. Instead of being in sync with the universe and focusing on productivity, we become collectors of labels and information.
    Alex is clearly simple, effective with far less disorganization in the name of its opposite. Keeping it simple and embracing the unity within diversity is the key. It's about finding balance between chaos and order, just like nature does, being effective, knowing that not knowing if or why. The universe doesn’t care why it just does and just is. Great lesson here indeed.

    • @chadwickbromley735
      @chadwickbromley735 Год назад +1

      Well said

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад

      Universe doesn't care? Is it inanimate? What meanest thou?

    • @Jamesrwatsonx
      @Jamesrwatsonx Год назад

      @@ttii9 you know the universe is in a constant state of flow. Harmony over resistance it’s really that simple. And it is animate and animate doesn’t mean in the analysis of its resistance, animate is evolving and expanding out of the state it is in and as. Breath out and you’ll see what that state is… Alex is the exhale Tom is the inhale.

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад

      @@Jamesrwatsonx Existence of God is a fact!

    • @Jamesrwatsonx
      @Jamesrwatsonx Год назад

      @@ttii9 Existance of God? Define God… I say that knowing, not being smart but please, define God, or can one even define such a thing?

  • @lovemyfreetime
    @lovemyfreetime 7 месяцев назад

    Holy Shit Guys!!! You're absolutely killing it in this conversation The synapses in my brain are firing their asses off and going just f****** crazy I swear to f****** God my head is hot right now. I call it connecting my mental map. The new pathways you've created from the ideas in this content are absolutely phenomenal. So valuable Thank You!!

  • @LeadWithAdam
    @LeadWithAdam Год назад +11

    Has anyone else taken a second to fathom that Alex and Tom spoke on this level of depth of thought for 3 HOURS? 🤯

  • @whiteknifespeaks
    @whiteknifespeaks Год назад

    4:20 is simply profound. After all the explanations regarding principle, this is what is left on the crucible

  • @TheBurnedTheBrokenTheBeautiful
    @TheBurnedTheBrokenTheBeautiful Год назад +6

    Confidence without evidence is Delusion!!! THANK YOU ALEX & TOM. ❤️‍🔥💪🫶

  • @bridgetc.marinaccio8024
    @bridgetc.marinaccio8024 Год назад +1

    THE most profound video. A must for every person, family, and business.

  • @thetroothhurtz
    @thetroothhurtz Год назад +7

    This is exactly like a 4:45am cocaine conversation that I would have with my buddies LMAO

  • @SavvySapien1
    @SavvySapien1 Год назад +1

    The “ How does it help you I don’t know, you still didn’t make the calls” hit me hard! Those 3 minutes from 50:00 opened a new perspective. Very insightful!

    • @truthseeker3412
      @truthseeker3412 Год назад

      What does this mean to you?

    • @SavvySapien1
      @SavvySapien1 Год назад +1

      @@truthseeker3412 It reminds me the fun I am looking for is in the repetitions I tend to avoid.

  • @jed88
    @jed88 8 месяцев назад +3

    Acting poorly and thinking positively gets you nowhere. Thank you for this priceless piece of advice.

  • @Lexus211
    @Lexus211 Год назад +2

    I admire how Alex isn’t afraid to speak his mind. Especially, the part when he said that 99% of the viewers doesn’t think like Tom does but yet he’s pushing this agenda like they should when the opposite way of doing it just as fine too.

    • @Freshprankstv1
      @Freshprankstv1 Год назад +1

      Well considering that Tom looks anorexic it isn’t that shocking lol. I used to have a roommate that u can leave a cake in the fridge for a month and he wouldn’t touch it. Just not that interested in food really

    • @octopus4925
      @octopus4925 Год назад

      ​@@Freshprankstv1wtf Tom doesn't look anorexic at all, he looks really healthy. Don't go around insulting ppl for no reason...

  • @Vitsupp
    @Vitsupp Год назад

    There it is - 1:33:41 - B.F.Skinner

  • @mcginnnavraj4201
    @mcginnnavraj4201 10 месяцев назад +24

    I feel investors should focus on under-the-radar stocks, especially given the present rollercoaster nature of the stock market, because 35% of my $270k portfolio consists of plunging stocks that were once respected, and I'm at a loss for what to do now.

    • @tampabayrodeo2474
      @tampabayrodeo2474 10 месяцев назад +1

      To manage market risks responsibly, distribute investments over many asset classes such as bonds, real estate, and international equities, seek the advice of a professional.

  • @westcoastpreneur
    @westcoastpreneur Год назад

    Two of my favorite people. Thanks for providing value

  • @et2792
    @et2792 Год назад +7

    yeah tom is the complete anomoly.
    the key to change for 99.99999999999% of people is to make conscious changes to your environment while you are in a point of strength and complete awareness and complete self control so that your environment will encourage your desired behavior choices when you are in a point of weakness, lack of awareness, and lack of self control.
    my hypothesis here regarding tom's assertion that he will follow his rules regardless of his environment is that either he is lieing to himself (and us), or has never been in a position of weakness in an environment that encourages behavior he doesn't want to engage in.
    the key strategy for success in life is to shape an environment that will lead to the success you want. this is an incremental shift of your environment to become more and more a reflection and an enforcement of who you desire to be as a person. in otherwords shape the mirrior that you want to see yourself in, and be shaped by the reflection you see.

    • @ttii9
      @ttii9 Год назад +1

      Life's too short for people pleaing.

    • @Chris-rv7nr
      @Chris-rv7nr Год назад

      Well said