I got directed to your channel through another channel called Jaclyn Glenn in which (I think) they were saying that your channel is problematic or anti feminist or something like that? I am not sure as I didn’t watch their video all the way through. Instead, I went to your channel and watched some of your videos to form my own opinion. I have since been subscribed to you and have watched everything you’ve posted. I, myself, am a feminist, a working woman, and not very religious. Regardless of this fact, I still find that your channel is chalk full of wisdom and wonderful advice for women of every background. You often phrase things in such a way that lets your viewers know that you don’t judge them for whatever their personal beliefs or choices may be, that all of your advice is literally just what works for you. And I love that. I have absolutely loved your channel even though you and I live very different lives. EDIT: My original comment said “God is Grey” but I meant Jaclyn Glenn 😑
That's so kind of you being you have different opinions and beliefs on some things. Wish the whole world could get along this way and just being kind. God bless you.🙏💛😊
That's a total twisting and Ill intended wrong interpretation of what God is Grey said. She doesn't have a problem with her channel, she admitted she liked it and even defended her until she found Caitlin's Twitter and saw that she retweets and likes incel people like "The transformed wife" who literally defended marital rape.
God is grey doesn’t have probelm with her youtube channel, she was talking about her twitter which had likes and retweets from The Transformed Wife channel which is... a horrifying channel to say the least.
I applied for a job as a gymnastics teacher for children because of you. You inspire me to give back, support and love other people. Because of this, I applied and today I received the news that I got the job!
can always tell when someone is happy and kind through their eyes, your eyes are always glistening, I aspire to be this positive. I struggle with envy, its been really effecting my mental health, and I am failing university because of it, along with other issues of course. I am working on it, and videos like this really help
"Self-discipline just has to do with action." Wise words, Kaitlyn. Being a successful homemaker requires incredible self-discipline. Simplifying it to "just action" will serve you well.❤
“Bring it up, or get over it.” I really love this! A lot of people think women need to be 0-100 and either stay silent or say everything when in reality is takes a lot of maturity to bring up & handle conflict in a healthy and appropriate way.
I am so glad that you aren’t afraid to stand up for your beliefs in God and being a homemaker!! So proud of you girl! You inspire me to regain my life back after numerous spiritual and human attacks on my faith.
Even from the very beginning your production quality has an air of professionalism that have blown me away it's very rare for a person who only started last year to have that. It's also great even though you have those you connect with your viewers and feel very real I appreciate that.
I love her but it’s ignorant to assume that because someone can have good points that they can’t also be toxic. Like this video can exist and be so wonderful and tomorrow she could post a video about how racism isn’t all that bad. Not that she would but... people are allowed express concern where they see fit.
I’ve watched a critique video of her; they critiqued her for statements taken out of context or otherwise misinterpreted. For instance, she cautioned young women to avoid going into debt for colleges, especially if their future career choice wouldn’t financially warrant it. She suggested working part time while going to an online college or a community college before possibly transferring after the first 2 years. She brought up going to a less expensive state school. She also brought up alternatives of a gap year (personally, I think everyone should do this!), starting a full time job immediately, etc. The person critiquing her attacked her for advising women not to go to college and arguing that going to college didn’t necessarily have to incur debt-ie, they had the same POVs 🙈 Most other critiques were similarly out of context/misinterpreted. Granted, someone can be toxic while positive, and I might not always agree with everything she says. Overall, though, I love her and wish I’d found her sooner. And personally, I think she’s exactly what feminism needs nowadays: valuing and giving women the right to choose their priorities, life paths, and choices. Valuing not just masculine traits, but feminine ones as well. Respecting women’s choices and enabling them to make those choices (ie, women and men should have equal opportunities to choose a career as an engineer, but women should also have the right to value their family life first or for choosing to be a homemaker).
I leveled up my life by doing what I want to do instead of holding back due to fear of judgement from people that I don’t even consider my peers anymore. You’ve said it best!!
That’s interesting what you said about becoming higher maintenance and I totally agree! Because I noticed when I don’t put as much effort into my outfit or hair or just maintaining other areas in life, life doesn’t feel as fun, I don’t feel like my best self and therefore might not be as confident. Someone once said my makeup look brightened their day 🤣 I think it’s a matter of showing yourself that your life is important, that you value yourself, and respect the people at whatever event you are going to by bringing the best version of yourself.
It’s interesting how you bring up introspection. I am extremely introspective, but the last thing I concluded after many of my thinking experiments is that you need to be a person of action. I’ve since stopped writing about my thoughts and focused on my behavior.
I would genuinely be so grateful if you could do a video expanding on the topic of self parenting/ how to not be lazy / self discipline. I am stuck on the “be kind to yourself” mantra that also usually translates into letting myself be lazy :-(
“Just say no to emotions!” Yes! Thanks for addressing my question about overcoming laziness, whether that was intentional or not. I love hearing your honesty about your previous life and the hard work you are putting into living the abundant life Jesus promises us. So edifying! Love and blessings to you!
I started my glow up about 3 years ago at the age of 17. I admit I used to be quite hard on myself but I knew there was no other way around it. One of the greatest things that helped me through is my religion, I am not a Christian, I am a Muslim but some how I do relate to you and everything you say. That's what makes me admire your channel the most, we are all different, but we're all linked in a way, a beautiful way ^^💛
Hi.. it's great to see another muslim here. Im starting my femininity journey after 2 years of anxiety. I even uninstalled my social media due to this. Anyway, good luck in life! Peace be upon you :)
MMW, I could really relate to what you said about self-discipline. We are lacking a focus and value surrounding healthy discipline in our culture. I too struggle to get my “list” done on most days, but I always feel better when I actively participate in my life! I’m not a Christian or a homemaker, I’m not even married at 45 😕 But I am feminine and I enjoy your channel. Thank you. I love the “glow-up” videos because I’m getting over a breakup and it’s been tough on my self esteem. Thanks again for your work. 💖👏🏼
I AM JUST SO IN LOVE WITH YOUR VIDEOS I JUST CAN'T AAAAHHH Hello. I am a 16 year old girl and I love watching your videos. You can't imagine how sad I am that I will never know you in real life and that I will never be able to communicate with you. However, I am so glad that you decided to live this kind of a lifestyle and am so thankful to be able to watch your videos. You give life a beautiful, sparkling shine. Thank you so much, sister! ❤️ I still have to work a lot on myself especially on my character but I think it's going to be super beautiful in near future😘😊
yes!! Self parenting helps a lot!! sometimes tough love and higher expectations for yourself from yourself is needed. Part of self love is loving yourself enough to have those hard conversations with yourself!
AMEN,, People roll their eyes when I say. I am thankful for the electric. Or my children all have their own beds nice and warm. I am so thankful everyday!!!
I’m so happy to stumble upon your channel - you’re like my twin sister! I’ve been unconsciously implementing ALL you’ve been talking about over last couple of years and it’s been truly transforming. Now it all makes sense and I can also put more pressure on things I care about :) keep on doing an amazing job Caitlin!
everything we do this side of eternity requires commitment and often effort especially as women. Being a home maker is frequently viewed as an easy out. From one who has worked outside of the home and also not working outside of the home... my straight up home maker years required allot more self discipline. ALLOT more. Especially taking care of myself...so easy to let that slip and it doesn't take long before you find all other areas slipping in care and attention as well. Good advice wish someone had shared it with me 25 years ago.
great vid Cait!!! we are in a complainer/negative/lack-minded society driven by the commercialism giants. volunteering & ministry (especially in tragic times) have helped me tremendiously to APPRECIATE EVERYTHING!!! from daily hugs, indoor plumbing, clean water, a functioning body & balanced mind, etc. the list is endless. saying 'THANK YOU' as soon as i open my eyes each morning & dedicating time for gratitude/thankfulness/appreciation has changed me into my BETTER SELF. wishing us all positive GLOWUP for 2020! blessings all 🙏💖
A tip I would add that may be obvious is to address mental and physical health concerns. They will linger around if you don't address them. I know a lot of us ladies can kind of ignore our health to care for other things and I know I needed to hear someone else encourage me to take it seriously, so it might be good to just hear that.
Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. The most effective life-changing changes I've made were when I forced myself to see myself (the good, bad and the ugly).
I know you don't identify as a feminist but it must be said that being unapologetically high maintenance is a super badass way to stick it to the patriarchy! You and your channel are helping me understand how much I can learn from those with drastically different values than myself. Thanks! :)
Mrs. Midwest! Do you ever like wearing a variation of pigtails? I’ve grown my hair out very long for the Lord. It is my covering. But I find it hard to work without it getting in the way, when I want to keep it down to enjoy! So I have been doing half up/half down with pigtails. I believe in modest dressing, but for some reason they are very enticing for the hubby! I love your content ❤️ It is so positive and encouraging. You seriously rock! Beautiful from the inside-out! We’re connected on instagram & I recently saw your post on your “bear ears”-hair style. You’re so spunky and stylish! Thank you for all that you do ❤️ This is seriously life-coach material. And it blesses me so!
Your videos always bring me such peace. I’m in a chapter of my life of wanting to change and embrace my femininity instead of denying it. Love you and thank you for your wisdom 💓
1) I’m working on improving my look atm. I moved to a new place and I noticed I can’t really wear some of the things I used to wear back in my home state. Thanks partly to you, I have motivation to make my look more feminine. It will be a slower process because of money and time. 2) The daily gratitude one is one I need to work on too. Especially when I get impatient about things not falling into place when I want them too. 3) One aspect of this one is again, the patience. But another aspect is being more wise with my money. I have a bad habit of spending a lot on food and clothes and while those are things I do need, I don’t need to spend soo much on them. 4) The emotional aspect is one that’s new territory to me. I’m not used to vulnerability but slowly and surely I’ve been trying to be more vulnerable. But I also know it’s one thing I need to control. 5) That’s a whole new take on higher maintenance that I never thought about. Usually when people talk about being “high maintenance,” they usually refer to someone sucking all the emotions out of you.
Hey! I would really love a video on how to get started as a homemaker, what kind of skills I need (cooking, cleaning, repairing, managing finances, managing house admin etc etc) so I can begin to develop them. Really excited I found your channel, I didn't know I wanted to be a homemaker until I had 'permission' to do it - and my partner is really supportive as well.THank you :)
I would love for you to make a video talking more about how you got over your laziness and being hyper emotional! I struggle a lot with both and I really want to get over it
Loved this one Caitlin! Especially about being more ‘high maintenance’. God made us to take care of ourselves, others and our environments. It is satisfying and nurturing to pay attention to this area and to be unapologetic about taking care. I’ve felt guilty before about wanting to care about certain things that my friends were more blasé about, but that statement gave me more freedom to be unapologetically caring about my looks, my lifestyle, my beliefs and especially about the Lord! God bless girly! Keep on going sharing God with other ladies!
Just wanted to say thank you so much for your lovely videos. I'm a stay at home housewife/no kids, and your videos are so encouraging. You're supportive of this lifestyle when most are against it. Much love and God bless. 🥰
Thank you for reminding me of the importance of pushing myself. There are plenty of situations where I know I could’ve done better and now I want to hold myself to a higher level. Many great points in this video thank you! My introspection has been stealing my joy. Honestly love your videos so much.
Your advice about dealing with passive aggression is priceless! I will for sure use your binary "tell them or get over it" strategy! Love you and your videos 💕
thank you for being the big sister of each of us and creating this lovely community. your channel is such a breath of fresh air as well as you, yourself. so much love!✉️💗
it's like you're speaking to my heart. Here I am thinking I should be more like you, only to realise you also feel how I feel sometimes. And that's so comforting. Yes to the glow up videos
I did not expect to really enjoy this talk from a very traditional white woman but this was very substantial and opened up my mind. It really doesn't matter who's talking as long as it makes sense. Keep doing what you do.
All of your advice is always so on point. Especially the bit about putting in the effort for yourself each and every day, it truly does transform all areas of our lives. Loved this video so much!
Great advice and tips. Being high maintenance in improving oneself is really great, once you start to actually see how it has improved your life. Kudos to you!👍
First of all you’re darling and I love your channel!!! I wish I had this advice 20 years ago. Me and my 13 year old watch together, we love you!! Keep up the good work. Love from Oklahoma 💜❤️🥰
your best video yet! your gonna change lives out there. please please please don’t stop, your my motivation in life rn☺️💕 thank you for making me realize i have things in my life to change for the better and present myself in a more feminine and mature way.
I love love love your description of being “high maintenance”. Though I have never viewed the term in a negative light (I think self respect goes hand in hand with having high standards!), you took it to the next level. You are a breath of fresh air, Cait! ❤️
I recently bumped into your channel, all the way in South Africa and I am hooked😊❤️... Absolutely love it and thank you for sharing such positivity and life changing tips😊
Good points made! Great video! Especially the point about “self-parenting” or being firm with yourself. I practice that! Firm love as I like to call it when my children ask, is so very important because it promotes self discipline in children and the same happens to ourselves when we practice tough love of ourselves. In today’s culture that is received as mean but it is the complete opposite. It is complete love because you care enough to do something to change for the better. Not an easy or popular concept but very important. Great channel, I just found you a week ago and I love the content!
God bless you for so many good insights, I shared your insights with my 23 year old daughter about how faith influence your life, and this weekend will share with other two daughters. Life goes so fast, may God gives you a lot of babies and wisdom what to say each week to so many people.
Hi Caitlin! I need to say I really loooove your videos and your Instagram posts! You are such a wise, pleasant, sweet and beautiful lady 💖 I already lost 11 kilos (which is equivalent to 24 lbs) and I really feel better with my body and appearance. But you convinced me to go further: I want to take better care of my hair and I started to put oil the night before washing them; I also want to look more feminine and put together so I decided to put nail polish every week! I already got compliments from one of my friend saying I really look nice!! Thank you so much for your advice 💖 Lots of kisses from Paris ! (PS: you're becoming more beautiful each day, love your bangs!!)
You are such an inspiration to all sorts of women, no matter beliefs and social backgrounds. You are a creator on RUclips like I've never seen. Please keep up the content lovely! It's very refreshing to see a women of your beliefs and style in this modern day in age. Lots of love💕
You always make the most practical and helpful videos. Thank you 💕 Would love to see a video about dealing with hyperemotions, jealousy, and learning how to train yourself to respond positively verbally. Love from Singapore!
I am so grateful about how open and honest you are concerning your old habits and it shows me that I too can change and become a better young woman.💗 Thank you so much !❤
Caitlin, as always, I loved your video! Thank you for your beauty, from the inside out! Thank you for being real and your tips were just what I needed to hear. Im going to watch it again and take notes then POST them everywhere to keep them before my eyes! I am a very blessed and thankful woman... but we all need reminders. God tells us things over and over because we easily forget. Thank you Sis and love you! Keep up the good work! God bless!
Hi Mrs.Midwest. do you have a video on how to be a better daughter, daughter in law, sister, aunt and sister in law? Lol. I know that's alot but I need help! !
I love that your channel is so unique, you always talk about things and give tips that I never thought about! I am learning and growing so much through this channel, Caitlin! Can you make a video giving some feminine advice for girls like me in high school? (Kinda like big sister advice) ❤
You fill me with energy to go and do! Thank you xxx I've been watching all your videos this week, you're helping me and so many to bring out their femininity xxx
I love your point on being more "high maintenance". It occured to me at some point that the pressure to be "low maintenance" or a cool and unbothered girl was really just a way of invalidating my sense of self. If being authentic about who I am and what my needs are means being "high maintenance" so be it, right? Heck the stereotypes.
Everything you just described is me. : ( I'm trying to work on myself this year but it's also hard when I feel behind on life because I'm 30 and still in college and living at home.. I got married young and had a terrible divorce at 26 and ever since then iv been playing catch up on life. And that's really hard to do when I'm in college working on a degree all whilst working at a part time job cause I go to school full time. So I'm iv been stuck in feeling mediocre
Hey Lisa, Dont worry theres others out there like you. I got divorced at 24 as well, and i started medical school at 25. I’ll be in the same position as you . It’s ok. We rebuild, we get stronger, and we create what was always meant for us. You’re doing great :)
Lisa Luxx I’m sorry you had to go through that. I feel like I’m behind in life too. I went to college and have my degree, but I cannot get a job that pertains to my major. When temp jobs call me for an opportunity, it’s for a customer service type of job. I got married young and I feel like a failure as a wife because I’m not making enough money to support us. I just hope you’re doing great right now and I will keep you guys in my prayers. I cry about my situation almost every week.
@@r.m5883 ♡♡ thank you. Definitely needed to hear that today. I'm trying to get into nursing school right now so playing the waiting game is taking a toll on me.
I identify so much with you, Cait. In this video you spoke for me. Thank you for putting this video up and for being such an inspiration for me. Thanks to you I have started my glow-up journey as well. ❤️
Thank you your wonderful tips, especially on being thankful and be high maintenance. I've listened to this vlog before and it a good refreshing reminder always. Yes, your my role model to not hide being a Christian. Thanks again your for your vlogs, do please continue. God bless you and Im praying for your family.
Yesss. I get so happy when you upload! To go along with putting yourself together and leveling up with just looking your best: I recently read a quote from Read Homemaking that was along the lines of when you put yourself together it helps you with your confidence for the day and is motivating. I also really appreciate your constant motivation to be more self disciplined. I like what you said about self parenting. It’s for sure something I need to work on lately.
As an ex-evangelical, I am super confused with the hate that came your way....I literally don't see it. You don't push anything, you share your beliefs...never pushing, you actually promote self-love and options...I see nothing wrong here. I actually love your channel and look up to you! Keep shining your light and be you! Cuz honey, there are so many people who love you! XOXO
This is the best video for me! Honestly aaaalll of the points you made are true for myself and my struggles. I'm 23 almost 24...so I think we are the same age, but you are so much more adult than I am. Though I'm finishing university in june, and I still live with my parents. Which are two factors that made me stay in a more of a "student- less mature- less adulting state". But it is very much time to change...which is going to come naturally two, since I have to start working. All this time studing take up all my time. I coudn't spare time for hobbies, I didn't read as muh about the things I'm intersted in- and I feel I become a less interestig person like this. And also...more lazy. Because when I have time to rest, I usually spend it rather passivly...I'm tired -phisicaly, mentally, emotionally- university took away all my motivation...energy... But I should not wait until the point when I move away from my parents to make actions- though it is a bit hard when they often treat me like a child. I struggle the most with hipersensitivity. My emotions controll me so much- and so other people can do so easily. I depend too much on their support. So whenever there is a conflict with my partner-it can really put me in a desperate, sad mood. And affects my daily life. So I would very much appreciate if you could cover this topic more, on how to become less emotionally driven-controlled. It is not healthy. But I feel that if I weren't feeling those emotions- that would mean I don't care. So where is the balance between caring but not being affected so much.... it is difficult for me. Thank you for the video! I'm going to whatch again, and take notes! Take care :)
I like this video ❤️ so true the high maintenance part. A few ppl have told me that I am high maintenance and that I am a city snob...🤦♀️ but I like dressing well and taking care of my appearance.
1. Put more effort into my look 2. Daily gratitude 3. Be harder on yourself - effort, discipline, take action 4. Step away from passive aggression (bring it up in convo or get over it) and hyper emotion 5. Become higher maintenance on personal growth, expecting more from friendships
Thank you so much for sharing your work with the world! You’re so wonderful and inspiring :) Really made my life as a 19 year old college girl more navigable :)
This video really touched me and made me grow in esteem for you. Thankyou for touching on some of your weaknesses and the ways you set about improving. I do wish I had this type of instruction when I was a much younger woman.
I totally resonate with your view on being higher maintenance and not feeling bad about it. Even on a physical level, women nowadays are supposed to be "effortlessly beautiful". If we want to put effort in our looks, we are often ridiculed or called vain. Of course it is nice to be told that I look beautiful even if I just rolled out of my bed in the morning. But if I put effort in my appearance I don't want to be told, that other people prefer me "naturally". I just want them to appreciate the work I put in. Or at least say nothing if you just want to tear me down unnecessarily.
I got directed to your channel through another channel called Jaclyn Glenn in which (I think) they were saying that your channel is problematic or anti feminist or something like that? I am not sure as I didn’t watch their video all the way through. Instead, I went to your channel and watched some of your videos to form my own opinion.
I have since been subscribed to you and have watched everything you’ve posted. I, myself, am a feminist, a working woman, and not very religious. Regardless of this fact, I still find that your channel is chalk full of wisdom and wonderful advice for women of every background. You often phrase things in such a way that lets your viewers know that you don’t judge them for whatever their personal beliefs or choices may be, that all of your advice is literally just what works for you. And I love that. I have absolutely loved your channel even though you and I live very different lives.
EDIT: My original comment said “God is Grey” but I meant Jaclyn Glenn 😑
What a lovely comment. 😊
That's so kind of you being you have different opinions and beliefs on some things. Wish the whole world could get along this way and just being kind. God bless you.🙏💛😊
That's a total twisting and Ill intended wrong interpretation of what God is Grey said. She doesn't have a problem with her channel, she admitted she liked it and even defended her until she found Caitlin's Twitter and saw that she retweets and likes incel people like "The transformed wife" who literally defended marital rape.
God is grey doesn’t have probelm with her youtube channel, she was talking about her twitter which had likes and retweets from The Transformed Wife channel which is... a horrifying channel to say the least.
Alexandra Gutier Oh gosh, I meant Jaclyn Glenn, not God is Grey! They both did videos on Mrs Midwest and I got them mixed up.
I applied for a job as a gymnastics teacher for children because of you. You inspire me to give back, support and love other people. Because of this, I applied and today I received the news that I got the job!
Natalie Lubinska Congratulation
Well done x
congratulations!
Congratulations
Awesome
Being harsh on yourself is a seriously underrated tip. I feel like not enough people talk about this, especially in terms of self care.
"It's really difficult to feel crappy about yourself when you're so busy feeling thankful." Yes yes yes! Really love what you said
You should seriously look into starting a podcast!! Your voice is so calming!❤️
This! Yes please!
also the fact your voice is absolutely calming 🙏🏼
can always tell when someone is happy and kind through their eyes, your eyes are always glistening, I aspire to be this positive. I struggle with envy, its been really effecting my mental health, and I am failing university because of it, along with other issues of course. I am working on it, and videos like this really help
I can relate to this big time. ❤
I think a lot of us go through this. I have this problem, too, but I'm confident it's gonna be ok and I'll be able to be truly happy one day
I feel you girl. I’m sending lots of love ♥️
"Self-discipline just has to do with action." Wise words, Kaitlyn. Being a successful homemaker requires incredible self-discipline. Simplifying it to "just action" will serve you well.❤
“Bring it up, or get over it.” I really love this! A lot of people think women need to be 0-100 and either stay silent or say everything when in reality is takes a lot of maturity to bring up & handle conflict in a healthy and appropriate way.
I am an agnostic, liberal-minded woman and I love your videos. Just wanted you to know. Keep it up!
Me too! I’m liberal, from la and this channel has helped me soo much!
God loves you so much
Don't let a hard lesson harden your heart.
"...If you want the privilege of healthy relationships you have to put in the work and the sacrifice..."
I am so glad that you aren’t afraid to stand up for your beliefs in God and being a homemaker!! So proud of you girl! You inspire me to regain my life back after numerous spiritual and human attacks on my faith.
Even from the very beginning your production quality has an air of professionalism that have blown me away it's very rare for a person who only started last year to have that. It's also great even though you have those you connect with your viewers and feel very real I appreciate that.
Chris Frederic thank you!!
Sooo.. How are you "toxic" again? I still do not get how some people see you as "toxic." Great video again, Caitlyn! You shine nothing but positivity!
They read into the things she does NOT say somehow. 😅
I love her but it’s ignorant to assume that because someone can have good points that they can’t also be toxic. Like this video can exist and be so wonderful and tomorrow she could post a video about how racism isn’t all that bad. Not that she would but... people are allowed express concern where they see fit.
I guess they said she supports marital rape or sum like that, but idk
I’ve watched a critique video of her; they critiqued her for statements taken out of context or otherwise misinterpreted. For instance, she cautioned young women to avoid going into debt for colleges, especially if their future career choice wouldn’t financially warrant it. She suggested working part time while going to an online college or a community college before possibly transferring after the first 2 years. She brought up going to a less expensive state school. She also brought up alternatives of a gap year (personally, I think everyone should do this!), starting a full time job immediately, etc. The person critiquing her attacked her for advising women not to go to college and arguing that going to college didn’t necessarily have to incur debt-ie, they had the same POVs 🙈 Most other critiques were similarly out of context/misinterpreted. Granted, someone can be toxic while positive, and I might not always agree with everything she says. Overall, though, I love her and wish I’d found her sooner. And personally, I think she’s exactly what feminism needs nowadays: valuing and giving women the right to choose their priorities, life paths, and choices. Valuing not just masculine traits, but feminine ones as well. Respecting women’s choices and enabling them to make those choices (ie, women and men should have equal opportunities to choose a career as an engineer, but women should also have the right to value their family life first or for choosing to be a homemaker).
I leveled up my life by doing what I want to do instead of holding back due to fear of judgement from people that I don’t even consider my peers anymore. You’ve said it best!!
That’s interesting what you said about becoming higher maintenance and I totally agree! Because I noticed when I don’t put as much effort into my outfit or hair or just maintaining other areas in life, life doesn’t feel as fun, I don’t feel like my best self and therefore might not be as confident. Someone once said my makeup look brightened their day 🤣 I think it’s a matter of showing yourself that your life is important, that you value yourself, and respect the people at whatever event you are going to by bringing the best version of yourself.
songbird377 yes yes yes!!
I love how your positivity shines through on every video!
Waddupitskev thank you!! I was extremely excited when recording this one because it has been awhile!
Girl I just write in my diary I want to level up my life and boom you posted whaaaaattt you're the best
Law of attraction :)
It’s interesting how you bring up introspection. I am extremely introspective, but the last thing I concluded after many of my thinking experiments is that you need to be a person of action. I’ve since stopped writing about my thoughts and focused on my behavior.
I would genuinely be so grateful if you could do a video expanding on the topic of self parenting/ how to not be lazy / self discipline. I am stuck on the “be kind to yourself” mantra that also usually translates into letting myself be lazy :-(
“Just say no to emotions!” Yes! Thanks for addressing my question about overcoming laziness, whether that was intentional or not. I love hearing your honesty about your previous life and the hard work you are putting into living the abundant life Jesus promises us. So edifying! Love and blessings to you!
I started my glow up about 3 years ago at the age of 17. I admit I used to be quite hard on myself but I knew there was no other way around it. One of the greatest things that helped me through is my religion, I am not a Christian, I am a Muslim but some how I do relate to you and everything you say. That's what makes me admire your channel the most, we are all different, but we're all linked in a way, a beautiful way ^^💛
Hi.. it's great to see another muslim here. Im starting my femininity journey after 2 years of anxiety. I even uninstalled my social media due to this. Anyway, good luck in life!
Peace be upon you :)
@@98nabilahlolipop I'm so thrilled to know that you're finally finding your way to happiness and fulfillment. May Allah bless you 💛
MMW, I could really relate to what you said about self-discipline. We are lacking a focus and value surrounding healthy discipline in our culture. I too struggle to get my “list” done on most days, but I always feel better when I actively participate in my life!
I’m not a Christian or a homemaker, I’m not even married at 45 😕 But I am feminine and I enjoy your channel. Thank you. I love the “glow-up” videos because I’m getting over a breakup and it’s been tough on my self esteem. Thanks again for your work. 💖👏🏼
I hope you're okay and feeling better these days. God bless.
I AM JUST SO IN LOVE WITH YOUR VIDEOS I JUST CAN'T AAAAHHH
Hello. I am a 16 year old girl and I love watching your videos. You can't imagine how sad I am that I will never know you in real life and that I will never be able to communicate with you.
However, I am so glad that you decided to live this kind of a lifestyle and am so thankful to be able to watch your videos.
You give life a beautiful, sparkling shine. Thank you so much, sister! ❤️
I still have to work a lot on myself especially on my character but I think it's going to be super beautiful in near future😘😊
Where was this 10years ago?! Thankful for your guidance now, even though you’re younger than me you are so wise
I love your hair pulled back that way! I’ve always thought that style is so feminine and universally flattering! ❤️
Is it just me who thinks this lady is so sweet?! Omg! I love your content and You seem to be very lovely😊thank you for sharing with us your tips.
yes!! Self parenting helps a lot!! sometimes tough love and higher expectations for yourself from yourself is needed. Part of self love is loving yourself enough to have those hard conversations with yourself!
AMEN,, People roll their eyes when I say. I am thankful for the electric. Or my children all have their own beds nice and warm.
I am so thankful everyday!!!
I’m so happy to stumble upon your channel - you’re like my twin sister! I’ve been unconsciously implementing ALL you’ve been talking about over last couple of years and it’s been truly transforming. Now it all makes sense and I can also put more pressure on things I care about :) keep on doing an amazing job Caitlin!
Priscilla Harrington that’s a great compliment, thank you! 🥰
everything we do this side of eternity requires commitment and often effort especially as women. Being a home maker is frequently viewed as an easy out. From one who has worked outside of the home and also not working outside of the home... my straight up home maker years required allot more self discipline. ALLOT more. Especially taking care of myself...so easy to let that slip and it doesn't take long before you find all other areas slipping in care and attention as well. Good advice wish someone had shared it with me 25 years ago.
great vid Cait!!!
we are in a complainer/negative/lack-minded society driven by the commercialism giants.
volunteering & ministry (especially in tragic times) have helped me tremendiously to APPRECIATE EVERYTHING!!!
from daily hugs, indoor plumbing, clean water, a functioning body & balanced mind, etc. the list is endless.
saying 'THANK YOU' as soon as i open my eyes each morning & dedicating time for gratitude/thankfulness/appreciation has changed me into my BETTER SELF. wishing us all positive GLOWUP for 2020! blessings all 🙏💖
A tip I would add that may be obvious is to address mental and physical health concerns. They will linger around if you don't address them. I know a lot of us ladies can kind of ignore our health to care for other things and I know I needed to hear someone else encourage me to take it seriously, so it might be good to just hear that.
Prioritizing God's will to guide me about situations and my life💓
I love how down to earth this is. 💛 Admitting mistakes and problems is the first step to overcoming them!
Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. The most effective life-changing changes I've made were when I forced myself to see myself (the good, bad and the ugly).
I know you don't identify as a feminist but it must be said that being unapologetically high maintenance is a super badass way to stick it to the patriarchy!
You and your channel are helping me understand how much I can learn from those with drastically different values than myself. Thanks! :)
Mrs. Midwest! Do you ever like wearing a variation of pigtails? I’ve grown my hair out very long for the Lord. It is my covering. But I find it hard to work without it getting in the way, when I want to keep it down to enjoy! So I have been doing half up/half down with pigtails. I believe in modest dressing, but for some reason they are very enticing for the hubby!
I love your content ❤️ It is so positive and encouraging. You seriously rock! Beautiful from the inside-out!
We’re connected on instagram & I recently saw your post on your “bear ears”-hair style. You’re so spunky and stylish!
Thank you for all that you do ❤️ This is seriously life-coach material. And it blesses me so!
Your videos always bring me such peace. I’m in a chapter of my life of wanting to change and embrace my femininity instead of denying it. Love you and thank you for your wisdom 💓
1) I’m working on improving my look atm. I moved to a new place and I noticed I can’t really wear some of the things I used to wear back in my home state. Thanks partly to you, I have motivation to make my look more feminine. It will be a slower process because of money and time.
2) The daily gratitude one is one I need to work on too. Especially when I get impatient about things not falling into place when I want them too.
3) One aspect of this one is again, the patience. But another aspect is being more wise with my money. I have a bad habit of spending a lot on food and clothes and while those are things I do need, I don’t need to spend soo much on them.
4) The emotional aspect is one that’s new territory to me. I’m not used to vulnerability but slowly and surely I’ve been trying to be more vulnerable. But I also know it’s one thing I need to control.
5) That’s a whole new take on higher maintenance that I never thought about. Usually when people talk about being “high maintenance,” they usually refer to someone sucking all the emotions out of you.
Hey! I would really love a video on how to get started as a homemaker, what kind of skills I need (cooking, cleaning, repairing, managing finances, managing house admin etc etc) so I can begin to develop them. Really excited I found your channel, I didn't know I wanted to be a homemaker until I had 'permission' to do it - and my partner is really supportive as well.THank you :)
I would love for you to make a video talking more about how you got over your laziness and being hyper emotional! I struggle a lot with both and I really want to get over it
Loved this one Caitlin! Especially about being more ‘high maintenance’. God made us to take care of ourselves, others and our environments. It is satisfying and nurturing to pay attention to this area and to be unapologetic about taking care. I’ve felt guilty before about wanting to care about certain things that my friends were more blasé about, but that statement gave me more freedom to be unapologetically caring about my looks, my lifestyle, my beliefs and especially about the Lord! God bless girly! Keep on going sharing God with other ladies!
Yes, I dislike this idea, that we should not take care of ourselves because we not selfish
Always glowing up in every video 🥰
Yanji Yang Awh yay!!
You are an absolute God send! I needed to hear some of the things you said because I’ve been slacking in my Christian growth. Thanks!
Just wanted to say thank you so much for your lovely videos. I'm a stay at home housewife/no kids, and your videos are so encouraging. You're supportive of this lifestyle when most are against it. Much love and God bless. 🥰
I'm grateful to Allah for everything!
Gratefulness is really an amazing quality to have.
Thank you for reminding me of the importance of pushing myself. There are plenty of situations where I know I could’ve done better and now I want to hold myself to a higher level. Many great points in this video thank you! My introspection has been stealing my joy. Honestly love your videos so much.
Your advice about dealing with passive aggression is priceless! I will for sure use your binary "tell them or get over it" strategy! Love you and your videos 💕
thank you for being the big sister of each of us and creating this lovely community. your channel is such a breath of fresh air as well as you, yourself. so much love!✉️💗
I have never seen a channel like this, your channel is so uplifting, and an overall beautiful channel.
I love how you talk about self discipline, you’re so right.. I’m off to binge watch all your content again! Much love from Ireland:)xxx
Thank you for this. Have been struggling with adulting lately. I have more understanding from this
it's like you're speaking to my heart. Here I am thinking I should be more like you, only to realise you also feel how I feel sometimes. And that's so comforting. Yes to the glow up videos
I did not expect to really enjoy this talk from a very traditional white woman but this was very substantial and opened up my mind. It really doesn't matter who's talking as long as it makes sense. Keep doing what you do.
All of your advice is always so on point. Especially the bit about putting in the effort for yourself each and every day, it truly does transform all areas of our lives. Loved this video so much!
Great advice and tips. Being high maintenance in improving oneself is really great, once you start to actually see how it has improved your life. Kudos to you!👍
First of all you’re darling and I love your channel!!! I wish I had this advice 20 years ago. Me and my 13 year old watch together, we love you!! Keep up the good work. Love from Oklahoma 💜❤️🥰
your best video yet! your gonna change lives out there. please please please don’t stop, your my motivation in life rn☺️💕 thank you for making me realize i have things in my life to change for the better and present myself in a more feminine and mature way.
So true self discipline is so important!
Yet another wonderful video. I'm so glad you're working to better yourself! Again it's so encouraging for all us men out there! To do the same!
Chris Frederic we’re all on a journey of growth!!
I love love love your description of being “high maintenance”. Though I have never viewed the term in a negative light (I think self respect goes hand in hand with having high standards!), you took it to the next level. You are a breath of fresh air, Cait! ❤️
I recently bumped into your channel, all the way in South Africa and I am hooked😊❤️... Absolutely love it and thank you for sharing such positivity and life changing tips😊
Good points made! Great video! Especially the point about “self-parenting” or being firm with yourself. I practice that! Firm love as I like to call it when my children ask, is so very important because it promotes self discipline in children and the same happens to ourselves when we practice tough love of ourselves. In today’s culture that is received as mean but it is the complete opposite. It is complete love because you care enough to do something to change for the better. Not an easy or popular concept but very important. Great channel, I just found you a week ago and I love the content!
Girl, yes. I find myself stumbling over my emotions frequently. I'm still learning how to control them but it's so tough! Love your channel ❤️
God bless you for so many good insights, I shared your insights with my 23 year old daughter about how faith influence your life, and this weekend will share with other two daughters. Life goes so fast, may God gives you a lot of babies and wisdom what to say each week to so many people.
Hi Caitlin! I need to say I really loooove your videos and your Instagram posts! You are such a wise, pleasant, sweet and beautiful lady 💖 I already lost 11 kilos (which is equivalent to 24 lbs) and I really feel better with my body and appearance. But you convinced me to go further: I want to take better care of my hair and I started to put oil the night before washing them; I also want to look more feminine and put together so I decided to put nail polish every week! I already got compliments from one of my friend saying I really look nice!! Thank you so much for your advice 💖 Lots of kisses from Paris ! (PS: you're becoming more beautiful each day, love your bangs!!)
Bonne chance bisous
This was really great, thank you! I loved every one of your suggestions
You are such an inspiration to all sorts of women, no matter beliefs and social backgrounds. You are a creator on RUclips like I've never seen. Please keep up the content lovely! It's very refreshing to see a women of your beliefs and style in this modern day in age. Lots of love💕
Wow that purple is your color!! You look beautiful. I wrote down all of these tips so I could remember them. Thank you!
You always make the most practical and helpful videos. Thank you 💕
Would love to see a video about dealing with hyperemotions, jealousy, and learning how to train yourself to respond positively verbally.
Love from Singapore!
Great video! Can you maybe do a video on what you eat in a typical day? Love seeing you bake, but it’d be great to see savory meals as well!
I am so grateful about how open and honest you are concerning your old habits and it shows me that I too can change and become a better young woman.💗 Thank you so much !❤
Caitlin, as always, I loved your video! Thank you for your beauty, from the inside out! Thank you for being real and your tips were just what I needed to hear. Im going to watch it again and take notes then POST them everywhere to keep them before my eyes! I am a very blessed and thankful woman... but we all need reminders. God tells us things over and over because we easily forget. Thank you Sis and love you! Keep up the good work! God bless!
Hi Mrs.Midwest. do you have a video on how to be a better daughter, daughter in law, sister, aunt and sister in law? Lol. I know that's alot but I need help! !
Good point on being high maintenance. It's okay to take care of yourself, but not okay to force someone to take care of you.
I love that your channel is so unique, you always talk about things and give tips that I never thought about! I am learning and growing so much through this channel, Caitlin! Can you make a video giving some feminine advice for girls like me in high school? (Kinda like big sister advice) ❤
Cait, you're the role model I've always needed in my life! Thank you!
You fill me with energy to go and do! Thank you xxx I've been watching all your videos this week, you're helping me and so many to bring out their femininity xxx
I would love to hear you talk more about being higher maintenance and how you bring the right people into your life :)
I love your point on being more "high maintenance". It occured to me at some point that the pressure to be "low maintenance" or a cool and unbothered girl was really just a way of invalidating my sense of self. If being authentic about who I am and what my needs are means being "high maintenance" so be it, right? Heck the stereotypes.
Great job, Caitlin! This was very encouraging and helpful!
Love from a Christian channel :)
Delila Farrell xoxo
Everything you just described is me. : (
I'm trying to work on myself this year but it's also hard when I feel behind on life because I'm 30 and still in college and living at home.. I got married young and had a terrible divorce at 26 and ever since then iv been playing catch up on life. And that's really hard to do when I'm in college working on a degree all whilst working at a part time job cause I go to school full time. So I'm iv been stuck in feeling mediocre
Hey Lisa,
Dont worry theres others out there like you. I got divorced at 24 as well, and i started medical school at 25. I’ll be in the same position as you . It’s ok. We rebuild, we get stronger, and we create what was always meant for us. You’re doing great :)
Lisa Luxx I’m sorry you had to go through that. I feel like I’m behind in life too. I went to college and have my degree, but I cannot get a job that pertains to my major. When temp jobs call me for an opportunity, it’s for a customer service type of job. I got married young and I feel like a failure as a wife because I’m not making enough money to support us. I just hope you’re doing great right now and I will keep you guys in my prayers. I cry about my situation almost every week.
@@r.m5883 ♡♡ thank you. Definitely needed to hear that today. I'm trying to get into nursing school right now so playing the waiting game is taking a toll on me.
you are a hard working and aspirational young woman, don’t feel beat-keep it up (take a break when you feel down)..❤️
I identify so much with you, Cait. In this video you spoke for me. Thank you for putting this video up and for being such an inspiration for me. Thanks to you I have started my glow-up journey as well. ❤️
Thank you your wonderful tips, especially on being thankful and be high maintenance. I've listened to this vlog before and it a good refreshing reminder always. Yes, your my role model to not hide being a Christian. Thanks again your for your vlogs, do please continue. God bless you and Im praying for your family.
Yesss. I get so happy when you upload!
To go along with putting yourself together and leveling up with just looking your best: I recently read a quote from Read Homemaking that was along the lines of when you put yourself together it helps you with your confidence for the day and is motivating.
I also really appreciate your constant motivation to be more self disciplined. I like what you said about self parenting. It’s for sure something I need to work on lately.
So exicted to see a video uploaded from you. Your videos bring such homemaking inspiration esp while I am cleaning etc
victoria c yay!! Thank you for being here :):)
As an ex-evangelical, I am super confused with the hate that came your way....I literally don't see it. You don't push anything, you share your beliefs...never pushing, you actually promote self-love and options...I see nothing wrong here. I actually love your channel and look up to you! Keep shining your light and be you! Cuz honey, there are so many people who love you! XOXO
Lord knew, I needed to watch this video. Literally answered all my dishwashing thoughts today 😩👏🏻
This is the best video for me! Honestly aaaalll of the points you made are true for myself and my struggles. I'm 23 almost 24...so I think we are the same age, but you are so much more adult than I am. Though I'm finishing university in june, and I still live with my parents. Which are two factors that made me stay in a more of a "student- less mature- less adulting state". But it is very much time to change...which is going to come naturally two, since I have to start working. All this time studing take up all my time. I coudn't spare time for hobbies, I didn't read as muh about the things I'm intersted in- and I feel I become a less interestig person like this. And also...more lazy. Because when I have time to rest, I usually spend it rather passivly...I'm tired -phisicaly, mentally, emotionally- university took away all my motivation...energy...
But I should not wait until the point when I move away from my parents to make actions- though it is a bit hard when they often treat me like a child.
I struggle the most with hipersensitivity. My emotions controll me so much- and so other people can do so easily. I depend too much on their support. So whenever there is a conflict with my partner-it can really put me in a desperate, sad mood. And affects my daily life.
So I would very much appreciate if you could cover this topic more, on how to become less emotionally driven-controlled. It is not healthy. But I feel that if I weren't feeling those emotions- that would mean I don't care. So where is the balance between caring but not being affected so much.... it is difficult for me.
Thank you for the video! I'm going to whatch again, and take notes!
Take care :)
I like this video ❤️ so true the high maintenance part. A few ppl have told me that I am high maintenance and that I am a city snob...🤦♀️ but I like dressing well and taking care of my appearance.
1. Put more effort into my look
2. Daily gratitude
3. Be harder on yourself - effort, discipline, take action
4. Step away from passive aggression (bring it up in convo or get over it) and hyper emotion
5. Become higher maintenance on personal growth, expecting more from friendships
Thank you so much! I am already 30 yet I don’t feel like I am mature yet. Thank you! Thank you! You are my favorite RUclipsr!
i am so happy i found your channel! i absolutely ADORE your videos & your message! :) more people should hear these things! God bless xo
Thank you so much for sharing your work with the world! You’re so wonderful and inspiring :) Really made my life as a 19 year old college girl more navigable :)
This video really touched me and made me grow in esteem for you. Thankyou for touching on some of your weaknesses and the ways you set about improving. I do wish I had this type of instruction when I was a much younger woman.
I totally resonate with your view on being higher maintenance and not feeling bad about it. Even on a physical level, women nowadays are supposed to be "effortlessly beautiful". If we want to put effort in our looks, we are often ridiculed or called vain. Of course it is nice to be told that I look beautiful even if I just rolled out of my bed in the morning. But if I put effort in my appearance I don't want to be told, that other people prefer me "naturally". I just want them to appreciate the work I put in. Or at least say nothing if you just want to tear me down unnecessarily.
Anica S exactly seems like we are criticized regardless
wow! love this. So relatable for how I plan to improve myself this year! God willing :)
Your channel continues to change my life in each video 🥰
You're such a blessing!!