Be yourself. Respect yourself. Be kind to yourself. Don’t lie yourself. Don’t settle for less then the best for you and everything will fall into place.
You need to come with the same amount of effort that that person comes with. If it doesn’t match how you are, then you move on. Saves unnecessary stress & drama expecting someone to be on the same page
I whole heartedly agree. I’m at a place in my life where I love myself so much that even if I fall in love with Him and he leaves, my only words would be “ I feel sorry for you leaving a woman this worthy”. Giving the relationship time to go through all the stages is highly important. We must allow the attraction phase to slow down so we can learn and get to know as much as possible about the other BEFORE sex, getting pregnant or getting married, etc. We would save ourselves a lot of pain and heartache if we actually allow TIME for the relationship to grow- that way one will know if this is a life partner that you can learn, grow, and build with. Giving a man our bodies before we know if he is worthy of YOU is a BIG mistake. 🙏 Powerful message.
So right thanks for reminding me this. I need to judge a man by his investment and his interest level on me, rather than how I feel about him, to match his investment in time and attention. Now I realized this is not playing game, this helps us (the emotion-driven woman) to match a man's emotional pace, they are much slower than us :)
Indeed. I don't like to move too fast. The first few months I will see a guy only once a week, instead of giving all my time to him before I know for sure he loves me.
Invest only according to how much he is investing into the relationship, stop fanticizing on the perfect image you made of him. Thanks Brian, very well said!
Beautiful Brian! I have wasted So Much time and effort diving into relationships with the Wrong mindset, instead of TAKING TIME to get to KNOW a man before committing AND BEFORE having sex. Heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak.
I have heard other relationship coaches say not to place value and look at what a guy could be in the future but look at what he is like right now. When I listened to your video and heard you say it it finally hit me for the first time and made sense to me what you guys are saying:)
I've been very intense with a guy that I see as someone perfect. It's been a year and often I feel like, what if my intense emotions drove him away? But he stayed, despite my good and bad... It's the first time happening with a guy. In the past, what Brian said in video is what happened. I guess you'll just need to keep seeking until that one right guy who let's you just be yourself and everything would be simple
Hands down best relationship coach on RUclips! So intelligent and every one of your videos insight mind blown moments! The heart is treacherous, who can know it? Please upload more often :)!
Males and females have been in relationships for thousands of years; this is not a new concept. Why are we making it so difficult. There is way too much analyzing of relationships and not enough love, commitment and loyalty. Too many people want to hop in and out of relationships because they want to keep their options opened . Love is not for the fearful game players. Love takes courage and it involves taking risks, but the payoffs are enormous,
@Jamilla Dobson i wouldn't say "most men".....most men I know are the honorable types who actually enjoy being married and don't let their need to copulate dictate their decisions....besides, to claim "most men" would require questioning all men on earth and that, would be a lofty goal lol
Me and my boyfriend had this conversation last night, he was shocked I read books on relationships and shocked I knew like everything about a man 😂 but his said “love shouldn’t be a game, it should be easy” and it’s write. But everything Brian says it’s spot on according to him too 😂 When you meet the right one, it’s easy. There’s no worrying. There’s nothing but happiness.
Love should be easy? If so, then doing a great job of raising kids should be easy. Getting through graduate school or medical school should be easy. Becoming a professional dancer or pianist or a world-class chess player should be easy. Etc. Nothing but happiness? Define happiness.
@Amy Italo it's entirely possible I'm missing what you're saying. What I'm hearing is that love should be easy and if you've found the right partner, you'll only experience happiness. I obviously disagree with this but you might be trying to say something different and I might agree with what you're actually saying if I only knew what that was. Thanks for your participation and I wish you well, too.
This is so true. Take it from someone who made a mArriage error. Had I had this advice - and the ability to listen at the time I would have never trapped myself into a long marriage that I am struggling to break free from. The alarm bells were ringing when we first met. I just didn't want to listen
I wasn't too fast and he just pulled away. And he is not perfect, I know. But I was ready to invest on a relationship but he said "not ready for a relationship"... Bye. But I didn't stop my life for him but i was ready to share my life. Anyway, I am moving on.
Great video!! It's so important to take ur time when getting to know someone. I have a lil theory that u don't see someone's true nature til after 6 months. Like a seed that's planted ALL good things take time to grow. If it's Love it will find a way and the feelings will stay, so just enjoy ur time together, have fun and see what happens. An expression I heard awhile ago is it's hard to scare off the right one but like u said in ur analogy that I LOVED, if it's too easy, too fast it's usually not worth ur time. S-L_O_w it down.
If a guy was moving fast, I wouldn't mind, as long as it was the right guy. I make decisions quickly and accurately, so I'd expect the guy to be the same. I don't like men who dawdle, I'm usually first to dump them. Then they come crying back. Well tough, hope they learnt their lesson.
Judge someone on who they are(how they treat you and your friends and family), not based on what they have or pretend to have or the perfect image of them you have in your mind.
It’s important to recognize the difference between physical attraction and your fill in the blank fantasy prince with the reality of who somebody is. Handsome can turn ugly after so many disappointments if you expect the guy to be someone other than who he is. I heard it today, you can’t him unless he’s wearing diapers. Be fair to him and to yourself. Understand the stages of relationship and keep your head on.
No, I’ve never been turned off by a guy who behaved this way. I love it. I just don’t love when he realizes i’m a real person with faults…then I feel like I’ve disappointed him. But no, a guy that is head over heels and giving me attention and priority-that has never been a turn off. I actually really love it when guys do that. But I don’t think guys feel the same way, according to this video.
Wish I watched this video earlier. I mean, I feel like this is exactly what happened. And now I'm at a stage where I needed to watch Brian's other video of A Man Will ONLY Say "Not Ready for a Relationship" When... because that's what happened now. It hurts because I feel like it was my all my fault. But I needed to learn so thank you. Edit: On the other hand, I feel like it was just really as simple as we're not meant for each other. Period. But really, great advice!
I'm a guy and I've done what he said. I've tried to sell myself to someone before & they didn't want to buy when I did that. Made me feel pretty horrible, but i know my value now. c:
Very good advice Brian , thank you for trying to keep us ladies in check of our heart sometimes we get caught up in the intensity of what our heart is feeling and forget to focus on reality some men really do know what to say and when to say it but given time patients and a clear mind you will see his true colors and time will tell if he's what we need and deserve and if he deserves us as high value women we are or should be ❤ keep an open mind and heart ladies
I have known a guy for 18 months started with him being more interested in me than I in him. He was my best friend and then now he has said he wants more with me so I’m thinking ok he’s asking for a relationship so now two weeks later he’s now saying all he wants is some one to talk to , watch movies with ,ring anytime and to have dinner with ! What the hell is he doing ! I’ve said I want a relationship too and that’ I care for him. And now he’s saying I’m too needy because I want a commitment! He’s the one that asked for this and now he’s running away and making excuses why we can’t be together ! I don’t get this ? I’m so hurt and can’t stop crying. I’ve lost my best friend ! Please help me to understand why he’s doing this and to stop it from hurting so much! 🤷🏻♀️
I like this guy, 👌 he plays No Games. He gets Straight-to-the-point No guessing and beating around the bush! Thank you very much for your informations and a a devices they are very Helpful.
Infatuation is a real disaster. thank you for highlighting this important topic. Would it be possible if you made a video about how guys would scare girls ? i love your videos and explanations.. Thank you for all the effort you do to help us understand men and women more!!
You are very wise. I have been there recently and that is exactly what I did. I gave us space and time to get to know each other and he stepped back then forward then back again. Of course I tried my hardest not to get involved with him because I was a shambles at the time and barely hanging on to my sanity. It’s been a couple of years now and it still hurts. I feel like this is the only time in my life that I have ever been in love. It just doesn’t get better but I wasn’t willing to jump into anything because I knew I was vulnerable.
Im trying to do things better this time. The thing is i always look like i care, a bit too much when in fact I'm just going with the flow. I seriously need to know when to stop and when to say no . coz I'm always why not.
I absolutely understand that this is your nature. You are very genuine. Unfortunatelly, it's not good to put all out there immediately. See it as: he needs to "earn it" (he needs to prove with his actions that he is worthy of what you can give him), don't give it "for free" because not knowing him you might be giving it to a guy who is not worthy of is. You will be able to understand why this is so important if you immagine an extreme: imagining the guy is really bad.
Cudos to you Brian, you are an amazing relationship coach, Im so glad I found you, you stand out because you nail the message in the head! I look forward to eventually buy some of your programs.
So so so true! He needs to show the King Or not that he really is and thus how he deserves to be treated ;) Thank you for the clear and concise reminder Geert! ( p.s. Just a quick tip, because I had to rewind the vid...the word « recipe » is pronounced « receh-pee ») Cheers from Canada
Don’t fall in love , stand in love and be love . I’m abundant in love energy , I don’t require any man to make me happy , he can amplify my happiness though
Best to find someone you like, even love as a friend but not be in love with .Make sure he treats you well, respects you, truly loves you and sees his future with you. Then years later , after having built a healthy, beautiful bond together, you can allow yourself to fall for him, for all the lovely bits of him he has proven to you he has. I'll give this a try next time.
Sometimes guys act really sweet to you and also to other girls.. you are blind with the feelings so always should take opinions from friends at least about behaviour
I fall into this trap: in love with an image in my head. Not that he is of low value. He is , in essence , a good person. But the laziness is setting in from his side... Do I pull away now? Honestly I still want to see where this can go.
You basically fell in love with yourself and fabulous fantasie you created, but not into reality that comes with the guy. In my opinion you should leave him alone, because I could already see it is going to become very toxic.
He needs to want to see where this is going at least as much as you do. Otherwise you will always need to help push the boat. When a man is truly interested he will move monutains!
@Ankida Edin depending on his levels of self awareness talk to him about it. See if you can create a plan where he rediscovers his ambitions and where you can support him in this (you guys have this power) reinforce his positive movements and actions. It's hard to find the perfect premade guy.
That is really helpfull thanks. Really that is what I am learning - treating my self as a treasure and letting relationship unfold slowly. Thanks for the comparison.
Brian, you make me laugh out Loud in my office.... Hahaha.... His point of interest goes so low that dusting his plants becomes more interesting... Died! LOL... Great Tips Brian, Thanks!
I laughed so hard, and teared up just a tad, at how this kinda nailed my current situation. I'm taking my foot off the gas pedal and coasting for a bit. 😂😂😂
It's pretty simple. The problem is 1 OPTIONS. There are too many. People are evil and get off on hurting others. The grass isnt any greener on the other side, they just water and care for their lawn. So put in the effort, quit playing "games" quit wondering what else there is when the going gets tough.2 Dont be a doormat, if you dont love and respect your no.1.(yourself) they wont either. And lastly, unruley kids.. if you have bad mouth, disrespectful, wild kids, it wont matter how awesome you are. Nobody wants to deal with all that. The end :)
I have liserned to this video twice ,my favourate part is rushing to make Him a king he has not prove yet😜 woman develop feelings very quick but we better learn how to be patient and make Him prove who really he is before imagining building a Kingdom with Him
The less you know someone the easier it is to fill in the blanks with fantasy
Facts!! ✌🏾
Wow yes
Truth
Be yourself. Respect yourself. Be kind to yourself. Don’t lie yourself. Don’t settle for less then the best for you and everything will fall into place.
Can you explain it how to love and respect ourself
"Falling for the perfect image for someone, not falling for who he really is." Thats so true.
You need to come with the same amount of effort that that person comes with. If it doesn’t match how you are, then you move on. Saves unnecessary stress & drama expecting someone to be on the same page
Celisse Willis yessssss
Hi 2 Mann bitter Name
Omg you hit the nail on the head. We fall for our image of what we think could be not what actually is.
Yep. Too late. I did exactly this & putting the broken hearted pieces back together. Oh well. Know better next time
I whole heartedly agree. I’m at a place in my life where I love myself so much that even if I fall in love with Him and he leaves, my only words would be “ I feel sorry for you leaving a woman this worthy”.
Giving the relationship time to go through all the stages is highly important. We must allow the attraction phase to slow down so we can learn and get to know as much as possible about the other BEFORE sex, getting pregnant or getting married, etc.
We would save ourselves a lot of pain and heartache if we actually allow TIME for the relationship to grow- that way one will know if this is a life partner that you can learn, grow, and build with.
Giving a man our bodies before we know if he is worthy of YOU is a BIG mistake.
🙏 Powerful message.
So true
Precisely!
Exactly....I made that mistake before but good learning lesson....
" Putting effort based on who he is, and not the ideal him that you have imagined " - GOLD ADVICE.
If they’re scared away than they’re not the man for you!!! God will help guide you to the man you need.
Johanna, very SMART to say and know. Luv ur true comment! Smile. Common sense. I admire how you pointed it out. No heartache for no one.
So right thanks for reminding me this. I need to judge a man by his investment and his interest level on me, rather than how I feel about him, to match his investment in time and attention. Now I realized this is not playing game, this helps us (the emotion-driven woman) to match a man's emotional pace, they are much slower than us :)
Indeed. I don't like to move too fast. The first few months I will see a guy only once a week, instead of giving all my time to him before I know for sure he loves me.
Invest only according to how much he is investing into the relationship, stop fanticizing on the perfect image you made of him. Thanks Brian, very well said!
Beautiful Brian! I have wasted So Much time and effort diving into relationships with the Wrong mindset, instead of TAKING TIME to get to KNOW a man before committing AND BEFORE having sex. Heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak.
:'(
I do believe men need to be studied
@@rematr1477 u r 200% correct....
I have heard other relationship coaches say not to place value and look at what a guy could be in the future but look at what he is like right now. When I listened to your video and heard you say it it finally hit me for the first time and made sense to me what you guys are saying:)
When heart and hormones are in control and your head isn't in the mix... eventual disaster and heart ache!
I've been very intense with a guy that I see as someone perfect. It's been a year and often I feel like, what if my intense emotions drove him away? But he stayed, despite my good and bad... It's the first time happening with a guy. In the past, what Brian said in video is what happened. I guess you'll just need to keep seeking until that one right guy who let's you just be yourself and everything would be simple
EinMadchën this is exactly the real thing ☺️🙂...thanks for sharing...stop playing games girls! It’s not worthy!!! Be yourself!
It's actually true that is with the "right person" somehow you can't screw up. Because love is stronger than that.
THANK YOU FOR THIS
Hands down best relationship coach on RUclips! So intelligent and every one of your videos insight mind blown moments! The heart is treacherous, who can know it? Please upload more often :)!
Males and females have been in relationships for thousands of years; this is not a new concept. Why are we making it so difficult. There is way too much analyzing of relationships and not enough love, commitment and loyalty. Too many people want to hop in and out of relationships because they want to keep their options opened . Love is not for the fearful game players. Love takes courage and it involves taking risks, but the payoffs are enormous,
abnattitude Love is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. The "game" only changes. That"s why game players rarely experience true love.
Beautifully said!
so well said and so true!!!!!
as Dave Chappelle would say.... Word.
@Jamilla Dobson i wouldn't say "most men".....most men I know are the honorable types who actually enjoy being married and don't let their need to copulate dictate their decisions....besides, to claim "most men" would require questioning all men on earth and that, would be a lofty goal lol
Don't fall for the perfect image of someone but for the real man whom you've known over the years 💖
Very powerful video and I completely agree that infatuation is dangerous x
Me and my boyfriend had this conversation last night, he was shocked I read books on relationships and shocked I knew like everything about a man 😂 but his said “love shouldn’t be a game, it should be easy” and it’s write. But everything Brian says it’s spot on according to him too 😂
When you meet the right one, it’s easy. There’s no worrying. There’s nothing but happiness.
Love should be easy? If so, then doing a great job of raising kids should be easy. Getting through graduate school or medical school should be easy. Becoming a professional dancer or pianist or a world-class chess player should be easy. Etc. Nothing but happiness? Define happiness.
@@GoddessBlessYou I mean, no game playing.
I see life as a little more complex than a simple case of no game playing.
SacredDreamsCoaching I think you’re misinterpreting what I’m trying to say but I wish you well anyway :)
@Amy Italo it's entirely possible I'm missing what you're saying. What I'm hearing is that love should be easy and if you've found the right partner, you'll only experience happiness. I obviously disagree with this but you might be trying to say something different and I might agree with what you're actually saying if I only knew what that was. Thanks for your participation and I wish you well, too.
This is so true. Take it from someone who made a mArriage error. Had I had this advice - and the ability to listen at the time I would have never trapped myself into a long marriage that I am struggling to break free from. The alarm bells were ringing when we first met. I just didn't want to listen
This man is full of wisdom.
I really like the sound of your voice its so calming and nice to me 🥰
I wasn't too fast and he just pulled away. And he is not perfect, I know. But I was ready to invest on a relationship but he said "not ready for a relationship"... Bye. But I didn't stop my life for him but i was ready to share my life. Anyway, I am moving on.
Really appreciate that you keep the advice real and to the point with just a touch of quirky humour. Keep up the good work Brian. 😇
Great video!! It's so important to take ur time when getting to know someone.
I have a lil theory that u don't see someone's true nature til after 6 months.
Like a seed that's planted ALL good things take time to grow. If it's Love it will find a way and the feelings will stay, so just enjoy ur time together, have fun and see what happens.
An expression I heard awhile ago is it's hard to scare off the right one but like u said in ur analogy that I LOVED, if it's too easy, too fast it's usually not worth ur time.
S-L_O_w it down.
If a guy was moving fast, I wouldn't mind, as long as it was the right guy. I make decisions quickly and accurately, so I'd expect the guy to be the same. I don't like men who dawdle, I'm usually first to dump them. Then they come crying back. Well tough, hope they learnt their lesson.
Haha!!😄
"We love to buy,
But we hate to be sold!"
This is an absolutely perfect video! I don’t know of anyone who explains things better. Well done! Please keep them coming! ❤️
If only those videos existed 10 yrs ago. That would have spared me a lot. Thank you :)
Judge someone on who they are(how they treat you and your friends and family), not based on what they have or pretend to have or the perfect image of them you have in your mind.
It’s important to recognize the difference between physical attraction and your fill in the blank fantasy prince with the reality of who somebody is. Handsome can turn ugly after so many disappointments if you expect the guy to be someone other than who he is. I heard it today, you can’t him unless he’s wearing diapers. Be fair to him and to yourself. Understand the stages of relationship and keep your head on.
You really don’t know a person till you live w them
Amen to that!!
I think it should be how not to scare a woman away.
A woman is the prize NOT the man. Stop focusing on a man.
But a man is a problem here not a woman, so we have to focus and deal with a man
This is great. Very wise, practical, sobering advice. Be hopeful but also realistic. Thanks Heath/Brian!
No, I’ve never been turned off by a guy who behaved this way. I love it. I just don’t love when he realizes i’m a real person with faults…then I feel like I’ve disappointed him. But no, a guy that is head over heels and giving me attention and priority-that has never been a turn off. I actually really love it when guys do that. But I don’t think guys feel the same way, according to this video.
Wish I could go back in time and show myself this video lmao. Great advice as usual :)
We all experience this feeling....
Dont worry!
Use this logic in your future
Ugh same I'm not sure why relationships seem to be so challenging
Wish I watched this video earlier. I mean, I feel like this is exactly what happened. And now I'm at a stage where I needed to watch Brian's other video of A Man Will ONLY Say "Not Ready for a Relationship" When...
because that's what happened now. It hurts because I feel like it was my all my fault. But I needed to learn so thank you.
Edit: On the other hand, I feel like it was just really as simple as we're not meant for each other. Period. But really, great advice!
That's so true love is time and time will tell great video
This is deep and it makes real sense
I'm a guy and I've done what he said. I've tried to sell myself to someone before & they didn't want to buy when I did that. Made me feel pretty horrible, but i know my value now. c:
Very good advice Brian , thank you for trying to keep us ladies in check of our heart sometimes we get caught up in the intensity of what our heart is feeling and forget to focus on reality some men really do know what to say and when to say it but given time patients and a clear mind you will see his true colors and time will tell if he's what we need and deserve and if he deserves us as high value women we are or should be ❤ keep an open mind and heart ladies
A guy went like this for me. A lot very soon in the relationship. It was so odd I kept asking myself why are you so involved so soon...
Great info thanks Brian you always make things seem so straight forward and easier to understand.
This makes so much sense.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful messages! I have read your books and enjoyed them as well!
Thanks a lot Brian ...plz continue making video ...
I have known a guy for 18 months started with him being more interested in me than I in him. He was my best friend and then now he has said he wants more with me so I’m thinking ok he’s asking for a relationship so now two weeks later he’s now saying all he wants is some one to talk to , watch movies with ,ring anytime and to have dinner with ! What the hell is he doing ! I’ve said I want a relationship too and that’ I care for him. And now he’s saying I’m too needy because I want a commitment!
He’s the one that asked for this and now he’s running away and making excuses why we can’t be together ! I don’t get this ? I’m so hurt and can’t stop crying. I’ve lost my best friend ! Please help me to understand why he’s doing this and to stop it from hurting so much! 🤷🏻♀️
He did this but I held back, then I stopped holding back but not before he started putting up walls. I miss him every day...
I like this guy, 👌
he plays No Games.
He gets Straight-to-the-point No guessing and beating around the bush!
Thank you very much for your informations and a a devices they are very Helpful.
You got me but thank goodness I can pause and look at things with clarity now. Thanx Nox
I needed this. Thank you.
Infatuation is a real disaster. thank you for highlighting this important topic. Would it be possible if you made a video about how guys would scare girls ? i love your videos and explanations.. Thank you for all the effort you do to help us understand men and women more!!
You are very wise. I have been there recently and that is exactly what I did. I gave us space and time to get to know each other and he stepped back then forward then back again. Of course I tried my hardest not to get involved with him because I was a shambles at the time and barely hanging on to my sanity. It’s been a couple of years now and it still hurts. I feel like this is the only time in my life that I have ever been in love. It just doesn’t get better but I wasn’t willing to jump into anything because I knew I was vulnerable.
GOOD WISDOM HERR - BRIAN
all the way from Dubai💘 i love your books and this topic is interesting!
Very informative and well put.
Omg I needed to hear this thank you
Im trying to do things better this time. The thing is i always look like i care, a bit too much when in fact I'm just going with the flow. I seriously need to know when to stop and when to say no . coz I'm always why not.
I absolutely understand that this is your nature. You are very genuine. Unfortunatelly, it's not good to put all out there immediately.
See it as: he needs to "earn it" (he needs to prove with his actions that he is worthy of what you can give him), don't give it "for free" because not knowing him you might be giving it to a guy who is not worthy of is.
You will be able to understand why this is so important if you immagine an extreme: imagining the guy is really bad.
Cudos to you Brian, you are an amazing relationship coach, Im so glad I found you, you stand out because you nail the message in the head! I look forward to eventually buy some of your programs.
So so so true! He needs to show the King Or not that he really is and thus how he deserves to be treated ;) Thank you for the clear and concise reminder Geert! ( p.s. Just a quick tip, because I had to rewind the vid...the word « recipe » is pronounced « receh-pee ») Cheers from Canada
I really like this one, its so true.
Don’t fall in love , stand in love and be love . I’m abundant in love energy , I don’t require any man to make me happy , he can amplify my happiness though
This applies to both men and women ~ most are in love with love when they fall in love quickly with someone they hardly know.
Best to find someone you like, even love as a friend but not be in love with .Make sure he treats you well, respects you, truly loves you and sees his future with you. Then years later , after having built a healthy, beautiful bond together, you can allow yourself to fall for him, for all the lovely bits of him he has proven to you he has. I'll give this a try next time.
Sometimes guys act really sweet to you and also to other girls.. you are blind with the feelings so always should take opinions from friends at least about behaviour
Fact
You are changing my life thank you Brian
Wow this video comes in perfect time..thank you Brian n.big thanks to YOU TUBE FOR MAKING OUR LIVES BRIGHTER LIGHTER
You are the man! I absolutely love your videos
True...many AHAs and yes I did just that! Sad to say.😞
Thank you for this video Brian! right on time for me!!
Your advices are the best 😃. And you have a very nice way of conveying them. I love watching your videos. Thank you very much 😊
Also I forgot to say I’ve known him for 18 months do really know him and I didn’t expect this to happen
THANKS FOR SHARING BRIAN
Your videos are amazing Brian I appreciate the great content with the valuable information it’s truly helpful seeing things from a males perspective.
I fall into this trap: in love with an image in my head.
Not that he is of low value. He is , in essence , a good person. But the laziness is setting in from his side... Do I pull away now? Honestly I still want to see where this can go.
You basically fell in love with yourself and fabulous fantasie you created, but not into reality that comes with the guy.
In my opinion you should leave him alone, because I could already see it is going to become very toxic.
@@miljanaantic8712 Being by myself sucks way less than being someone's furniture, so.... Sadly, I think you're right.
Damn it
He needs to want to see where this is going at least as much as you do. Otherwise you will always need to help push the boat. When a man is truly interested he will move monutains!
@Ankida Edin depending on his levels of self awareness talk to him about it. See if you can create a plan where he rediscovers his ambitions and where you can support him in this (you guys have this power) reinforce his positive movements and actions. It's hard to find the perfect premade guy.
The way he says recipe....so funny
Definitely Aha moments in this video thanks Brian !
You are the best 😂😂 ...that annoying pigeon in the park. I'm done 😂
You are such a great great mentor😚
That is really helpfull thanks. Really that is what I am learning - treating my self as a treasure and letting relationship unfold slowly. Thanks for the comparison.
I love your videos Brian... pls keep us updated with new ones. U r awesome 1 best of luck in your job! :)) greetings from Istanbul
Brilliantly said
I love this guy..
You explained this perfectly!!
Omg this is me. I did this. Ty
too late. i already scared him 😔 why i didn't see this before
Jane Fiddler me too haha ...but deep inside I don’t think those kind of man are worthy...
@@gemapina8080 you're right
...then he wasn't the one.
Thank you Brian Nox!
Brian, you make me laugh out Loud in my office.... Hahaha.... His point of interest goes so low that dusting his plants becomes more interesting... Died! LOL... Great Tips Brian, Thanks!
I love your videos. Just LOVE them. Thank you
Perfect speech, very helpful, thanks! 👍🏼
Brian, I love your videos. And today's topic was exactly what I needed to hear. Exactly that. How did you know???
Still looking for the French speaking rabbit 🐰
Love your videos @briannox! So glad you uploaded new vids again :-)
Thank you so much for this wonderful video ❤️❤️❤️
I laughed so hard, and teared up just a tad, at how this kinda nailed my current situation. I'm taking my foot off the gas pedal and coasting for a bit. 😂😂😂
This was the most effective video i've ever seen.... thank you
I laughed BUT YOU ARE SO RIGHT.
Excellent points
It's pretty simple. The problem is 1 OPTIONS. There are too many. People are evil and get off on hurting others. The grass isnt any greener on the other side, they just water and care for their lawn. So put in the effort, quit playing "games" quit wondering what else there is when the going gets tough.2 Dont be a doormat, if you dont love and respect your no.1.(yourself) they wont either. And lastly, unruley kids.. if you have bad mouth, disrespectful, wild kids, it wont matter how awesome you are. Nobody wants to deal with all that. The end :)
I love ur videos. Really interesting and ur so easy to listen to. Plus just god for people’s self esteem too. Nice 😃
I have liserned to this video twice ,my favourate part is rushing to make Him a king he has not prove yet😜 woman develop feelings very quick but we better learn how to be patient and make Him prove who really he is before imagining building a Kingdom with Him