The Female Happiness Paradox: Why aren't women happier?

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @sugergod2011
    @sugergod2011 Год назад +90

    Women can't even understand themselves.

    • @alcr107
      @alcr107 Год назад +7

      0 self awareness

    • @republitarian484
      @republitarian484 Год назад +3

      in a nutshell

    • @CesarNostradamus-wj9uq
      @CesarNostradamus-wj9uq 5 месяцев назад

      Did he say having kids? What planet is she on

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 9 дней назад

      They can, but they won't, because they don't want to.
      Women's problems only get bigger, because they refuse to solve them. They just want to talk about them.

  • @drmode
    @drmode Год назад +55

    Blame yourselves. You had it great as housewives, but you wanted to work, be independent and act like Men. Welcome to our world.

    • @emptylikebox
      @emptylikebox Год назад

      Women become too greedy. They want it all. But reality is, we cannot have everything. And that's why women's greed is also their downfall and the one that's causing them their unhappiness. And I'm a woman.

    • @caindain2179
      @caindain2179 10 месяцев назад

      Pffft that’s sexist… but that’s sadly true 😢
      I think the feminist part is they think Men be like : “BITCH MAKE ME A SANDWICH”
      that was way back in the 90s . . .
      But I do agree that some remember *”SOME”* men do that to women but are very rare or hidden which makes this more difficult
      But Jesus Christ, the feminists now a-days are making women look stupid -_-

  • @bradleymosman8325
    @bradleymosman8325 2 года назад +57

    "Women are having to do everything." As a husband I didn't always wash the dishes at night. Sometimes I'd crawl under the house to repair a floor furnace or ruptured sewer line. Or maybe stand outside in the 20 degree temps to repair HER car. I've done a lot of housework. None of it is hard work.

    • @kaptkronik135
      @kaptkronik135 2 года назад +6

      Exactly. These crows are deluded.

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 7 месяцев назад +2

      Living alone, it takes maybe an hour a week to keep my place clean.

    • @WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle
      @WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle 4 месяца назад

      "Have to do everything" = "doing what men always have had to do and thinking it is oppression"

    • @BlackPrimeMinister
      @BlackPrimeMinister 8 дней назад

      @@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle "Have to do everything". I have heard this rubbish time and again. They are absolutely deluded and are best ignored. Let them prattle on.

  • @rickysampson8759
    @rickysampson8759 Год назад +22

    Women never happy. Wow shocking news

  • @StephanVayda
    @StephanVayda 2 года назад +46

    "The world has said do these things and then you will be happy" The "world" here is feminism. Women are sad because they think that by doing what men have traditionally done that they will be happy. If feminism was right, women should feel happy about working and building a career, I know I am happy about my work. This is just another case of men and women wanting different things yet we are told that we all want the same things, but sorry it's clearly wrong and it doing a number on our society via birthrate, divorce rate, marriage rate, number of sexual partners, etc etc etc

    • @cooka.s2817
      @cooka.s2817 Год назад +1

      When I lived in Japan for 3yrs, Korea for 2yrs, Columbia for 3yrs, and currently here in Sao Paulo Brazil for 14yrs i never ever seen these women chose negative men over good men. Those women out in U.S and U.K are satanic.

    • @Ariovistus50
      @Ariovistus50 Год назад

      No no, you are wrong. Women will insist it's because 'men don't do chores'. What is hilarious because in my country men doing 50% of the chores and I rarely meet women who cook. So young women have young men doing 50% of labour and still.....30% of young women have mental health problems and aren't happier. Men should first think about themselves, then let's talk about mental health in women because those women are a burdon to men's health as well.

    • @ekladka
      @ekladka Год назад +2

      Couldn’t have said it better myself
      Also in addition to your points a big factor of divorces, which are initiated mostly by females, (70-90%) is cos they feel overwhelmed in trying to balance a career and the home. Furthermore women entering a SELECTIVE sector of the workforce has devalued the job market cos it allows the employer to have more leverage cos now he has more workers to chose from. Also women entering the workforce causes their infants/children to be institutionalized in daycares and prevents them from forming the parental bonds in the tender years of these children. Then there is the issue of hypergamy….women are becoming more accomplished from a career standpoint but now cos of hypergamy they seek partners/spouses who are higher in status (earning, physical stature, etc) than themselves cos this is biologically ingrained in females. But the truth of the matter is that majority of us men aren’t “high value men” and most of us hold average jobs. So most of these “career women” are unable to find partners. Lastly women being in the work place has hurt them cos they are being objectified, exploited, sexually harassed etc and as a result u have movements like “Me too”, “Time’s Up”!!!
      Just look up the study conducted by Blanchflower and Oswald. Also the paper titled “The paradox of declining female happiness” by Betsey Stevenson

    • @RemziCavdar
      @RemziCavdar Год назад +4

      Even if men had the choice, men wouldn't want to work lol ⠀ We primarily work for the family and to be able to afford that. Otherwise, most men wouldn't want to work either. And bachelor men like me don't work much because we live a more minimalist lifestyle.

    • @PinoVoyage
      @PinoVoyage 11 месяцев назад

      In 2024 womens look like the mens in the 70-80….acting so wrong

  • @babyzorilla
    @babyzorilla 2 года назад +34

    Hate to be a man but “Women have to do everything” right off the bat? 30 seconds in? Calm down sister.

    • @jack-of-all-trades1234
      @jack-of-all-trades1234 2 года назад +10

      She admitted that men are going off and doing the work. So how are the women "doing everything" in this equation? Busy posting woke TikTok videos?

    • @pmcollectorboy2929
      @pmcollectorboy2929 2 года назад +10

      Man puts $X in bank: Woman goes "I do everything around here!"
      Man makes less money but is home more: Woman goes "You're not doing enough!"

    • @watamutha
      @watamutha Год назад +2

      They just like to gas themselves up.

  • @plumeria66
    @plumeria66 2 года назад +42

    When will women stop whining?

    • @convoluteduniverse5917
      @convoluteduniverse5917 2 года назад +1

      When will men stop making everything about them?

    • @dzvw
      @dzvw 2 года назад +1

      @@convoluteduniverse5917
      You misspelled women.
      Remember the "it's concerning that 25% of the homeless population are women!" headline? Lmao. Females and their endless projection.

    • @convoluteduniverse5917
      @convoluteduniverse5917 2 года назад +1

      @@dzvw Remember the "what about the se*ual harassment of men?" narrative during the metoo movement? Even though women make up over 90% of all SA victims, and most SA perpetrators are men.
      Remember the "what about men who get killed in wars?" during campaigns to raise awarenesd about femicide? Even though warfare is created and perpetuated by men and some of the primary victims of warfare are women. (i.e. The Nanking Massacre).
      I can go on and on. Males and their neverending narcissism and fragility.

    • @dzvw
      @dzvw 2 года назад

      @@convoluteduniverse5917
      Lmao. And how many of the me2 allegations were actually proven to be true?
      You can count them on one hand. The vast majority of these allegations are false, like the Amber Turd situation, because women can lie about it and receive zero legal repercussions. And they get to have their 15 minutes of fame too while they're at it. Meanwhile the accused men's lives are ruined, regardless of whether it's true or not, because for men it's guilty until proven innocent, and even if you're innocent you're still guilty.
      War is created and perpetuated by men?
      Have you ever heard of the white feather movement? It's literally women shaming men who refuse to go to war. This kinda of crap happens all around the world.
      You're viewing women as if they're angels who can do no wrong. They're just the females of our species. They're just as bad, if not worse, considering that the vast majority of them have not and cannot develop a comprehension of justice. Refer to the Six Stages of Moral Development. Also refer to Briffault's Law.

    • @Giacomo_Nerone
      @Giacomo_Nerone Год назад +1

      @@convoluteduniverse5917 Uwu

  • @BlackPrimeMinister
    @BlackPrimeMinister 2 года назад +54

    Stop blaming men. You did this to yourselves.

    • @sgt.cricket7365
      @sgt.cricket7365 3 месяца назад

      Its always a mans, or men in general, fault in some strange way.. 😅😂

    • @BlackPrimeMinister
      @BlackPrimeMinister 3 месяца назад

      @@sgt.cricket7365 The best answer? Ignore. I've become deaf to their opinion. I see their jaws moving up and down but what they say, I don't know.

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 9 дней назад +1

      The old trope of the old deaf guy. Turns out, he was never hard of hearing - he just pretended to ignore his old lady.

  • @jerichosharman470
    @jerichosharman470 2 года назад +22

    It’s not that women are unhappier it’s than men are happier………and mens happiness is growing……..they give up relationships, and they have hobbies and seek peace. Unlike women……they are always trying to live up to what they imagine to be a man’s life, they always want gossip, they want to live up to each other woman’s expectations, they naturally gravitate toward focussing on their appearance and their sicknesses. They always expect the worst in situations, they are paranoid about everything.

    • @mh4624
      @mh4624 2 года назад +7

      I disagree that men are happier. Modern men are lonelier and unhappier

    • @jerichosharman470
      @jerichosharman470 2 года назад +3

      @@mh4624 as Socrates said…..”wether you choose marriage or celibacy, you are bound to repent”

    • @Giacomo_Nerone
      @Giacomo_Nerone Год назад

      @@mh4624 Who said that??

    • @ryandeffley7652
      @ryandeffley7652 Год назад

      You think men are happier? Check out the staggering stats on male suicides as well as the fact that 80% of men are not sexually active.
      In fact, recent numbers are showing that 30% of all men age 18-30 are still virgins. So men aren't connecting with women, they're offing themselves in record numbers, and the majority of the homeless population is men.

    • @2009jadeorchid
      @2009jadeorchid 10 месяцев назад

      Women actually NEED hobbies , to get out of a '' poor me '' phase

  • @republitarian484
    @republitarian484 Год назад +12

    How about you just say Feminism was wrong.

  • @pinbraid
    @pinbraid Год назад +15

    What is a woman?

  • @republitarian484
    @republitarian484 Год назад +5

    Men work longer hours and women look to schmooze the boss over in order to get off early for various reasons.

  • @Silverback_21
    @Silverback_21 Год назад +13

    Men are happy because we are very simple. So so so simple. Even the smartest men can be entertained with a stick and sand. Don't get me wrong, I love woman but if they are all like this new gen woman. I can be happy with my boys and homiest.
    I don't even care what she do in her free time, but I still listen to her and ash how is her day, because I love her. I respect her but if she ever think like those kind of woman I will leave her immediately.

  • @jeffn1384
    @jeffn1384 2 года назад +10

    Ask Bill Burr

    • @VashTheDamnFiend
      @VashTheDamnFiend 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah since he married an angry black woman he should be well aware

  • @bplayerr1
    @bplayerr1 Год назад +1

    Women will reject and trample a man asking himself "who am I?" Saying non sense like "I choose myself."

  • @InTheGame21
    @InTheGame21 2 года назад +9

    Because they are stuck with crap daytime TV these days. I mean come on

    • @absolutechad8805
      @absolutechad8805 2 года назад +2

      🤣

    • @crecenciogonzalez9875
      @crecenciogonzalez9875 2 года назад

      Happiness knowing
      Serving Jesus
      Get educated how
      Many Hollywood
      People are happy money
      Don’t happiness
      Alot them live
      Miserable
      Comit suiccide
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bradleymosman8325
    @bradleymosman8325 2 года назад +4

    This woman advises women to ask Who am I? Men, on the other hand, ask themselves, "What am I made of?"

  • @republitarian484
    @republitarian484 Год назад +3

    How many female roofers are there?

  • @magallanthepenguin9132
    @magallanthepenguin9132 Год назад +2

    but 90% of plumbers, electricians, coal minners, construction workers(that do heavy lifting or operate vehicles) , oil rigs, dangling tall bridge for repairs. still done by men...
    these people sure want recruits. why don't most women join we are open and we will offer to pay you more than the men. so much for equality.
    women: it is dirty job, make the men do it
    even if men train more and gain muscle from these jobs. still crushes our bones you sure and you will struggle and sweat a lot. you sure you have it harder?
    yes more women are more educated but took the decent paying jobs that have better working environment and air conditioning.
    remember people, if men are outside doing work to earn money. if the wife does not go to his work place to see him hard at work. then the women thinks the man is doing NOTHING.
    of course there will always be those lazy men who are dead beat dads, that's the minority.
    sadly it's actually rising. america and the ridiculous amount of freedom makes you undisciplined.
    most women i would consider smart is...
    use feminine charm and not female masculinity to make men do the heavy lifting so you will have comfortable life instead of being combative saying men are useless or we need no man. all you are doing is abusing basically your money printing machine :U
    let's be honest, women objectify us like this.

  • @johan.gw.w
    @johan.gw.w 17 дней назад

    I divorced a few years ago, and my happy levels have gone through the roof since.
    Dear men, advice from a 53 year old man: don't marry, don't commit "until death do us apart", but commit "until it stops make us happy" and work on yourself. You'll be even more happy.
    Perhaps that might even work for women too 😂

  • @russellheyns1846
    @russellheyns1846 Месяц назад

    What she really means is that she went more traditional and stopped listening to feminism shaming her for trying to “have it all”. Even the way she has to present this on TV shows how you can’t go against the mainstream narrative. Despite how incompatible with reality it may be

  • @erindabney2758
    @erindabney2758 Год назад +1

    As a woman, I’m unhappy because I went to therapy and learned that zero other humans can be trusted.

  • @republitarian484
    @republitarian484 Год назад +4

    Sorry, but you haven't done it all in the way men have done it.

  • @blakef.4401
    @blakef.4401 3 месяца назад +1

    When I immediately saw that this was a panel of all women, I immediately knew none of what they’re going to say has any meaning or factual context lol.

  • @Tab-f9t
    @Tab-f9t Месяц назад

    The problem is women think life and everything they do is for themselves... "me me me". Men and women contribute what they can to the family and work on that. The true meaning and purpose lies in the effort and living for your family. This is called.. humility. The fact that this woman says that women come home and "have to do it all" completely undermines their spouse... and even their kids.
    It takes more than going to work, managing kids, and doing your part of house work. Yes you think youre "doing it all".
    Who cuts the lawn, shovels the snow, fixes the car, puts up the xmas lights, changes the furnace filter, repairs the leaking faucet, moves the boxes, gets rid of spiders and mice, changes the propane on the grill. Then gives the woman a break and does laundry, dishes, etc. Does this woman do all of this?
    Yet... the woman "does it all" and feels unfulfilled. That'a because she thinks looking after other people is unfulfilling. Relationships are about working on yourself. This seems to be the biggest struggle with women... empathy. Theyre programmed to never be happy because they will never achieve what they are told to to obtain this reward called "happiness". Then if/when they get it, it's not what they expected because it comes at the expense of others. Then they have to deal with that.
    Any woman who says they are unfulfilled that their children are dependent on.. that woman has some serious mental issues.

  • @MAGAStan
    @MAGAStan 22 дня назад

    So, what is this "great job" that allows her to have a "career" and be a stay-at-home home-school mom? She's NOT an attorney or a doctor or a medical professional or an accountant or a sales manager or a construction supervisor. So, what is this job?

  • @freeyourmind7538
    @freeyourmind7538 Год назад +4

    i dont get it, what the world wants is pretty much a safety net, how can that make anyone unhappy?
    A stable job, family, a roof over their heads, food in the fridge, a car and utility bills paid for.
    I dont get her point🤷‍♂ You can 'find' yourself with the above things mentioned and this 'find' yourself is stupid, people aged 30+ still 'finding' themselves. Sounds more like. ' i need guidance because im so confused right now'

    • @republitarian484
      @republitarian484 Год назад

      It's the Adam and Eve in the garden of eden and the fall of man. . . somehow she'll find a way to ruin it.

  • @michaeltaylor7099
    @michaeltaylor7099 5 месяцев назад

    I busted out laughing when right after she said why women are less happy than men. Then pans to the other woman and she has RBF 🤣

  • @lawrencenoctor2703
    @lawrencenoctor2703 Год назад +1

    Its me with e recurring forever.womens main subject is theselves. Grow up ,its the same for everyone only others dont constantly moan about it.

    • @powerbeard5653
      @powerbeard5653 11 месяцев назад

      Their favorite subject is how their unhappiness is always men's fault.

  • @louissavoy4832
    @louissavoy4832 10 месяцев назад +1

    Lost souls. I didn't hear one defendable point. Just a lot of victim/ not-my-fault word-salads.
    As a man in a long-term relationship I dare say it sounded very familiar.

  • @Lemthepoetofficial
    @Lemthepoetofficial 2 года назад +11

    Women are unhappier because *the world tells them to rely on men for stability in every area of their lives.* True happiness comes from a stable life which is full of the things that make one's heart happy, which later brings success and a sense of accomplishment. From the first date men are expected to pay for everything and the rest of the time men are expected to provide. Men are expected to pay to raise the kids. Most women are emotionally unstable due to being lost from not having education or a clear life goal besides relying on a man therefore men are expected to help women get emotionally stable, too. Men are expected to satisfy women sexually. Women are unhappy because they rely on men for their stability and happiness. Truth is happiness comes from within and humans are imperfect and they can make mistakes. To a woman, her man making any mistake is the end of the world because it is end of her stability, for that reason women are angry at men all the time for not providing the full stability the world promised men would provide. On the flip side, men who are the providers for a family will get that sense of accomplishment as long as he is providing because he is working towards something that makes him proud and because he understands himself and he knows that it is ok for him to make mistakes and he is only human. The moment he realizes he needs to be the actual Superman to make his woman happy, marriage ends. He starts looking for other women whom won't compliant all the time / won't put too much pressure on him to make him feel like he needs to be a Clark Kent for his partner to be happy. He distances himself from his kids because his wife used the kids initially to drive him away saying "You are not a good father." which is not what he expected to hear after everything he worked and sacrificed for after all these years. There you have it..

    • @tiger05rtc
      @tiger05rtc 2 года назад

      Wrong, woman are much happier to be at home and have a man lead. They have too much ego to do that now, so now they are not happy.

    • @Lemthepoetofficial
      @Lemthepoetofficial 2 года назад +1

      @@tiger05rtc if you think of it that way then most men would be much happier at home depending on a woman too. If I became rich tomorrow I am sure my boyfriend would quit his job. Working is stressful in general.

    • @tiger05rtc
      @tiger05rtc 2 года назад +11

      @@Lemthepoetofficial No the man would not be happy doing that and you wouldn't want him. This is why rich woman marry rich men and rich men marry poor or less rich woman. We are different and thats what we have to be to make it work. If your theory was right then most rich females would be married to men who make much less than them and be fine with it. However your theory doesnt pan out in reality as when females make more, they expect their mate to make more. Its completely natural and fine, you are just rejecting human nature and that's a recipe for disaster. !

    • @dzvw
      @dzvw 2 года назад

      @@Lemthepoetofficial
      That's wrong, because of hypergamy.
      Women are hardwired to seek a partner who is better than her. That means the man typically has to be older, taller, makes more money than her, has a higher social status than her, etc. Don't believe me? Look around. You will hardly see (if at all) any woman partnered with a man who is "inferior" to her. Unless she's past the sell by date and is desperate for a man's presence in her life.
      Also, Briffault's Law. Women do not love men unconditionally. Women are simply incapable of it. That's why most women would leave their husbands if their husbands ever became crippled or unemployed. There is no compassion in a woman's heart. Only ruthless survivalism.

    • @Giacomo_Nerone
      @Giacomo_Nerone Год назад

      Female happiness started declining after the advent of feminism.That implies, Women who relied on men before feminism were much happier with their lives. Stats show that.

  • @StuJones-gn7te
    @StuJones-gn7te 7 месяцев назад

    Like virtually everyone who discusses these topics, they reach the wrong conclusions. The fact is, women enjoy complaining about their problems. When a man or men in general fix a woman's problems, she becomes frustrated and has to find something else to complain about.
    This is why giving women the vote didn't shut them up. This is why avoiding women in the wake of me2 didn't stop their complaints.
    Women are unhappy because the world today is better than its ever been for women. There is much less to complain about than ever before. Their frustration over this leads to anger, which in turn, pushes men away, which adds to the frustration in a vicious and possibly never ending cycle.

  • @2009jadeorchid
    @2009jadeorchid 10 месяцев назад

    Individuals are happy when they do what they want to do , not given a map and told to follow a certain path

  • @crecenciogonzalez9875
    @crecenciogonzalez9875 2 года назад +7

    Happiness
    Knowing serving
    Jesus not serving
    What the world offers
    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @peemartick4655
    @peemartick4655 9 месяцев назад

    I'm so glad your happy now, u b u. As a man I really appreciate feminism because it's showing the true nature of women to men.
    Women don't have to lie anymore. Women have always used men they don't even like because that had to survive. Understandable.
    Obviously men have always used women too. We all now know love is a fallacy most of the time. Now we have a choice not to be used by not engaging or accepting we are going to be used.
    As a man I am happy remaining as a single person using women occasionally. I've also never been happier. My pets provide me with all the real love I need. Pet's are awesome. Thank you for your honesty.

  • @WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle
    @WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle 4 месяца назад

    Who would have thought working all the time instead of embracing what nature built them for and giving men everything they want (access to sex) without forcing the man to earn it, all in the name of "empowerment," would make then misersble?
    I am all for the freedom for women to chose the life they want, but don't complain about getting exactly what you wanted.

  • @kyshaunsmith154
    @kyshaunsmith154 Год назад +2

    It was a choice women decided to make.. and now they want someone to blame 😂😂

  • @silo3com
    @silo3com Год назад +6

    Simple explanation: men used to provide for things. Now women have to get it for themselves. They hit 30 and realize "Wow I'm a friggin retard. I could have had a man get it for me ..."

  • @WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle
    @WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle 4 месяца назад

    Gave them everything they wanted. Not happy. Sounds like they were happier when "oppressed"

  • @pablogarcia4146
    @pablogarcia4146 2 месяца назад

    Hmmmmm.....or maybe it could be the one person is fit for one role while the other is fit for another role??? Hmmmmm

  • @johnconnor4571
    @johnconnor4571 9 месяцев назад

    If stupidity was one person

  • @leyoshivenere350
    @leyoshivenere350 5 месяцев назад

    imagine women admitting they're happy tho XD

  • @vladimir.putinn_007
    @vladimir.putinn_007 Год назад +4

    GO to therapy women 😂😂😂
    Isn't therapy amazing 😂😂

  • @MsBonsaihero
    @MsBonsaihero 2 года назад +1

    Then the Supreme Court reverses Roe versus Wade and then wonder why women are even more pissed

    • @tiger05rtc
      @tiger05rtc Год назад +1

      they didnt reverse it, you can go to commie states and kill babies if u want

    • @orecreeper2128
      @orecreeper2128 Год назад +1

      Is it because of the few months of Roe being overturned or the 50+ years of modern feminism?

    • @cheesemccheese5780
      @cheesemccheese5780 Год назад

      this was before that?

    • @jocular1910
      @jocular1910 Год назад

      Roe v. wade determined a right that does not exist in the federal constitution; with a right to privacy reasoning that is not tenable.. States are able to let women kill their offspring with or without limits. So if that is your quest, take it to the states.