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Комментарии • 78

  • @moumitabiswas1801
    @moumitabiswas1801 6 месяцев назад +11

    It was truly relatable to me. “Being the girl” truly is a big pressure. I am slowly learning the art of not taking that pressure anymore. So let’s see how this comes along. But thanks for posting this ❤

  • @vaishnavibagayatkar4113
    @vaishnavibagayatkar4113 6 месяцев назад +7

    Your pressure is real and very honest as well while talking about it. It happens especially when you have reached a point quality-wise where you expect yourself to deliver top-notch every time. But doing things anyway, may be the only thing we can do to be consistent.

  • @Sikha3142
    @Sikha3142 6 месяцев назад +21

    Relatable Afffff🙂. I have experienced this ,the perfectionist in me sometimes works against me🥲....like if I will do it I will do it perfectly otherwise I won't do it ..iski wajah se bohot bari woh kam ho nhi pata hai😐

    • @snkashians
      @snkashians 6 месяцев назад

      Same mere sath bhi aisa hi h😂

    • @hsd287
      @hsd287 5 месяцев назад

      Perfection achi baat hai par ekdum perfect nahi hona chahiye give ur best and leave it ❤

  • @Manviya123
    @Manviya123 6 месяцев назад +3

    SHIVANGI !!!! Whatever that you wanna make just make and however make, hearing you is just therapeutic and I’ve always said this that it’s your energy. Do whatever you feel like we will always back you ❤

  • @katesinha5736
    @katesinha5736 6 месяцев назад +3

    U r a therapist and a strong women as well. I do agree on a lot of points here and is true. But i guess all we can do is not giving us more pressure of expectations and just try to do what we’re doing in that moment in a best way. If u think about it or overthink its gonna make ur mental health worse. Trust me.. it has happened to me. Took me year and a half to stop overthinking and get out of depression. Now i just enjoy myself here on youtube, watch makeup vedios and just have a good time.just divert yourself whenever u overthink. Take a walk of listening to to music, start a web series maybe, plan your content, cook or order or eat whatever. Hope it helps. ❤❤❤loads of love

  • @harvyshah
    @harvyshah 6 месяцев назад +3

    Totally understandable and relatable! really needed to hear this! We all go through these things one day or the other, sometimes battling with our own selves and sometimes with the world as well. But at the end of the day, its us and our life, we need to keep calm and going no matter what! Thank you for sharing this with us!! Lots of love and power to our fav.

  • @priyankabaidya7480
    @priyankabaidya7480 6 месяцев назад +2

    I really liked the video, you know simple kind of conversation , struggling with thoughts whether correct or not you know in general I feel sometimes my Own thoughts overthinking is so exhausting and destructive😅 but I felt relief that I'm not the only one 😂

  • @trendygirl7702
    @trendygirl7702 6 месяцев назад +1

    please give a review on Maybelline lifter lip gloss shade:- moon*

  • @soni2551
    @soni2551 6 месяцев назад +3

    You are totally relatable and you are doing good from inside & outside ❤

  • @ZartashaZar06
    @ZartashaZar06 6 месяцев назад +4

    totally agree your points

  • @Yashi4897
    @Yashi4897 5 месяцев назад

    Shiv I love your personality. ❤
    Don't give a shit about other people. Who matters is Arjun and your parents. Never ever doubt yourself infact beyond a point Arjun and your family's opinion also doesn't count cause what matters at last is you and your bona-fide happiness. So if anybody is hampering that through anything , just walk over that.

  • @subashnilendi
    @subashnilendi 5 месяцев назад

    Dearest I feel so sad that you feel like you have to be perfect at doing everything you do. So much self doubt is never good for anybody. You said that you have such great support system, your parents and your husband who totally believe in you. I never had such support group in my life but I am so greatful to God that I am such a confindent person and I am not a perfectionist. I am also thankful to God for that. Whatever I do, I do it with my whole heart and I give my best. Try to do your best and don't put such high expectations on yourself. You will destroy yourself and the people around you. Take care.

  • @akanshasaroha
    @akanshasaroha 6 месяцев назад +1

    bestest video i totally appreciate your video and your confidence I belong to a family where they never support me and all the time they need help from my side

  • @KKTheDaydreamer
    @KKTheDaydreamer 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your so right....being a girl i approve each and every word u said it's true for US 😭
    but I can say that your doing really well in both of ur channels..i just love you...♥️dont pressurize yourself too much if u need a break then u must take it dont think about others...i mean only u can make yourself a priority ✨ your really nice 👍🏼👑 take care too 💖 have been following u since years now and love to stick around with you 💌

  • @Kajukatliiiiii
    @Kajukatliiiiii 6 месяцев назад

    just faced the same thing today only
    i recently started my youtube channel shot a video tried editing it but it was not sounding "perfect" to me so i just deleted it i wasted all my efforts just to be perfect enough🙃

  • @divyatripathi5001
    @divyatripathi5001 6 месяцев назад +1

    Too much perfection sometimes take away the fun of doing anything....just enjoy the process love ❤❤❤❤

  • @lakshmitripathi7116
    @lakshmitripathi7116 6 месяцев назад +1

    U r 💯 percent correct but still don't strive for perfection, strive for progress. Don’t waste your time chasing people. Attract them. The people who are meant to be in your life will gravitate towards you without hesitation. Love u always ❤

  • @sd-ui2re
    @sd-ui2re 6 месяцев назад

    Hi shivangi.. u just make content basis what u like..n what u want to share..no one cares abt the backdrop and not even how u look..coz we hv seen u enough to not see u for ur looks but fr what u say 😊😊

  • @hsd287
    @hsd287 5 месяцев назад

    I always find u perfect in ur videos whether it's the humour ur looks or ur ideas it's fun and enjoyable to see u ❤

  • @swatsyy
    @swatsyy 5 месяцев назад

    Can't agree more with your points! Ye jo ladki hoke bhi aisa kar liya wala comment hai ye motivate to karta hi nahi, ulta demotivate kar deta hai n I start thinking k nobody even expects me doing this n that feeling just breaks my heart😢😢

  • @preetianand7304
    @preetianand7304 6 месяцев назад +1

    Completely agreed with your thoughts Shivangi.

  • @MiliPandey-n8b
    @MiliPandey-n8b 4 месяца назад

    I really love all your videos ...really soothing after a long day of work

  • @nafisashaikh2538
    @nafisashaikh2538 3 месяца назад

    Same thing with me. But i really like your video❤

  • @trendygirl7702
    @trendygirl7702 6 месяцев назад +1

    please make best top lip gloss vedios

  • @sheryzaman5611
    @sheryzaman5611 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love your natural look ❤

  • @khushbukhan897
    @khushbukhan897 6 месяцев назад +1

    Do a make look for Eid for day

  • @rupanjanaroy8959
    @rupanjanaroy8959 6 месяцев назад

    Whatever u said is absolutely true.."The girl pressure" is true and sometimes due to which we get lost in too much thinking .And yes we girls overthink a alot.Plesee bring more of this kind of talks

  • @neeneethsz4703
    @neeneethsz4703 6 месяцев назад

    Shivangi! On point gurl 👌🏻 thank u for bringing such topics.. I deal with this every single day, still don’t know wat is the purpose of life, so confused, so lost 😞
    Stay blessed alwys 🥰

  • @funwithbebo724
    @funwithbebo724 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤ lot's of love ❤❤

  • @sayantikaghosh4240
    @sayantikaghosh4240 6 месяцев назад

    I can relate to your story . I was insecure of my weight,looks and studies main itna parhai main itna achi nhi thi but i was good at art ush waje se mujhe appreciation milta ha bas. I am now art teacher but didnt achieve anything in life and make my parents proud. Mujhe rat ko nind nhi ata hain bcz mujhe crack krna hain just to maybe prove to people and family being a daughter and below avg student that can be successful 😢

  • @komalsugandh5407
    @komalsugandh5407 6 месяцев назад

    Don’t worry… we all are in the boat. We all have flaws and perfection is overrated so your effort is appreciated. In some or other thing we face this pressure and such comments from our workplace or family. We love such kind of raw and relatable chit chat videos atleast I love it. Please make more such videos, whenever you are comfortable. Btw I am also waiting for your crime thriller series video.

  • @aakankshaoswal9214
    @aakankshaoswal9214 6 месяцев назад

    You know i hundred percent related to this from start to end im very confident that way but i feel nervous when i look at my future im in 2nd year rn doing bba and its so pressurizing that soon ill have to work for me and handle my family and parents at same time , deal with new set of ppl maybe be mistreated by bosses and seniors and whether ill get the opportunity im looking for or not cause "Being a girl " the judgement you gets arent easy to deal with in good and bad context both...Thank you for making this video ❤

  • @barnaliballav1485
    @barnaliballav1485 5 месяцев назад

    Relatable affff😊....hun khud hi soch lete hain ki hum ladki hain to humee sob kuch ana chahiye...aur sob kuch perfectly hona chahiye....we take pressure unnecessarily...then self doubt... disappointment.. overthinking.... anxiety.. depression...sob ak sath hume(women) hit karti hain😢

  • @inayaevan
    @inayaevan 6 месяцев назад

    Relatebal but mere sath ye problem h mujhe kuch krna to bs krna h perfect ho ya na ho mujhe video bnana h to bs bnana h but na aapke videos bhut ache hote h light voice sb kuch perfect video quality bhi to dekh kr acha lgta h❤❤❤

  • @tanuahuja16
    @tanuahuja16 6 месяцев назад

    I can relate each and every word it’s tough to even explain yourself and please do this kind of thing it’s good and take care of yourself and just be normal just think of us your virtually family and it’s fine sometimes it’s okay to be not okay we all are going through much love 💜

  • @gayathriraghuambati2516
    @gayathriraghuambati2516 6 месяцев назад

    Hi! When is the second episode of Crimes in India coming?Loved that series and would love if you continue that series…😊

  • @sonakshijoshi7733
    @sonakshijoshi7733 6 месяцев назад

    We love you ❤

  • @ria641990
    @ria641990 6 месяцев назад

    And the way we being women judge other women who take things easy! We should learn from them I feel at times rather than judging them for being there for themselves.

  • @Noorali098
    @Noorali098 6 месяцев назад

    It’s alright it happens to everyone we are all on the same page somewhere or the other in fact I was thinking the same yesterday .Next time please Make it longer start hote hi khatam ho gai video to 😅

  • @monishasen338
    @monishasen338 6 месяцев назад

    Shivangi im proud of you i think i learnt a lot of things from watching your videos.u r the one whom i can relate to the most.xoxo❤

  • @Homevibes353
    @Homevibes353 6 месяцев назад

    Can relate with u over confidence issues. Still dealing with it and may be we are designed that way so it's ok. Or kya hi kr skte hai accept and move on.

  • @purvimodi__
    @purvimodi__ 6 месяцев назад

    Totally relate with you, whatever you are doing is just great and you are an inspiration for all of those who want to become a content creator and entrepreneur ❤❤

  • @akhileshp07
    @akhileshp07 6 месяцев назад

    I am 42 and your video is very very relatable. I am going through the same phase and it is kind of out of hand for me. My husband is my biggest supporter in everything I do or don’t. But that actually makes me expect more out of myself and criticize myself more and self doubt me more.

  • @anujasahni117
    @anujasahni117 6 месяцев назад

    Babe, you’re really very transparent, plus that honesty wow! Such a sensible girl n what lovely pep talk❤

  • @KhanSK13
    @KhanSK13 6 месяцев назад

    Halfway into the video...& already relating every bit of it !!!!

  • @tarannumquadri3375
    @tarannumquadri3375 6 месяцев назад

    I just love to watch your videos...your makeup is always beautiful i follow your recommended makeup and all they are so good...short videos are best

  • @jamilayusuf3372
    @jamilayusuf3372 6 месяцев назад

    Bring subtle eid makeup looks shivngi😊

  • @farhatshaikh4899
    @farhatshaikh4899 5 месяцев назад

    Hii New subscriber ❤❤❤

  • @ayeshaquraishi1
    @ayeshaquraishi1 6 месяцев назад

    I like you very much as it are authentic with your content and very good tutor for guided make up

  • @chayanikakar6129
    @chayanikakar6129 Месяц назад

    How are you di?

  • @nikitapatel9063
    @nikitapatel9063 6 месяцев назад

    You r right , but pahele ki ladies aisi nai thi like our mom's but apani generation aisi hai zyada sochne wali 😢

  • @rishimapatel
    @rishimapatel 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi. Curious to know which design you pursued.💜

  • @sonakshimittal9651
    @sonakshimittal9651 6 месяцев назад

    U looking fitter

  • @supriyavloggs
    @supriyavloggs 6 месяцев назад

    Love your vids like this, please make these types of videos

  • @kanikajain484
    @kanikajain484 6 месяцев назад

    How did you gain your confidence?

  • @shubhangiharlani
    @shubhangiharlani 5 месяцев назад

    So relatable

  • @rromi144
    @rromi144 6 месяцев назад

    Plz review fenty beauty blur skin tint

  • @varnikathakur3891
    @varnikathakur3891 6 месяцев назад

    I enjoy such random chit chats✨

  • @ArpitaMajumdar-
    @ArpitaMajumdar- 6 месяцев назад

    Absolutely right!!
    I feel this every day

  • @aishikanandi6377
    @aishikanandi6377 6 месяцев назад

    I am thinking of starting a you tube channel since ages now but seeing others around i feel mere se nei ho payega cz wo log kitne perfect n if i can't do it perfectly den let's not jst do it.. cz i will fail in my eyes as per my set expectations. Smtimes i feel i m procrastinating, smtimes depression n the list goes on.. i genuinely want to request you that when u come out of this situation plz make a motivational video as well to tackle for ppl like us..😊 LOL❤

  • @priyankaroy8158
    @priyankaroy8158 6 месяцев назад

    I feel like i am talking 😢this is me

  • @Priyahimachali
    @Priyahimachali 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shrushtilodha887
    @shrushtilodha887 6 месяцев назад

    💯

  • @dilipkapdi1218
    @dilipkapdi1218 6 месяцев назад

    Muje to apki koy bhi video bahut hi achhi lagti hai

  • @ritubhargav8555
    @ritubhargav8555 6 месяцев назад +1

    🤗

  • @srishtii1953
    @srishtii1953 6 месяцев назад

    Make more of such videos 😄

  • @RituKashyapRiit
    @RituKashyapRiit 6 месяцев назад

    An inspiring story ❤

  • @priyankaguin2183
    @priyankaguin2183 6 месяцев назад

    So so so much relatable....❤

  • @moumitabrahma1101
    @moumitabrahma1101 6 месяцев назад

    Love this type video ❤

  • @kavyasethi9710
    @kavyasethi9710 6 месяцев назад

    Keep shining❤️

  • @vatsala7
    @vatsala7 6 месяцев назад

    Loved the rawness ❤

  • @nikharvohra
    @nikharvohra 6 месяцев назад

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @akankshapathak082
    @akankshapathak082 6 месяцев назад

    As I'm watching this video and writing this comment, I feel like you're talking solely about me.🥹🥲