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My solitude doesn't depend on the presence or absence of people; on the contrary, I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering me true company. - Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Nietzsche
@@rodolfolopez8679 I was referring to the quote from Nietzsche at the start of the video ("Choose the good solitude..."). A bad solitude is when you hate yourself.
This video really resonates with me. Growing up Autistic, I feel like I've always been suited for this kind of isolation. Since Covid happened, I have learned more about myself than I ever have in my life, because now I don't have to worry about succumbing to the social pressures outside my house. I have never been happier, or have had more meaning in my life.
I haven't been diagnosed with autism but I really love my own company. Deepest condolences for all the deaths but Covid has granted me more blessings than I can count. We must be blessed. ✝️
For the person who went into solitude and came back to mankind to share what he learned but couldn’t teach anyone, I think I finally understand. I’ve been meeting more people who have been going through “awakenings”. I can’t talk about things like this to someone who watches the Kardashians 24/7, but I can with those who are awakened and/or are awakening. By awakening, I suppose I mean moving towards a higher state of consciousness.
Can you elaborate on the sort of state of consciousness you define as an "awakening"? This isn't a cynical comment btw, I felt the same sort of thing a couple months ago (I think), and would just like to see if your definition correlates with my own. What could a higher state of consciousness entail?
I am not really studying philosophy but what Nietzsche said in his books and especially this one, I have had the exact feeling and emotion on why I enjoy solitude or spending time alone. I just did not know how to express it until now.
You enjoy solitude, because your not really solitary. It's nice to get away from people when it's a constant thing, or you don't really like the people that much. Being solitary is literally never talking to anyone and isolating yourself. You only "enjoy" it as long as you convince yourself that your enjoying it, which is basically a requirement to continue living without loosing your mind, it's not a choice. The reality is that your life becomes "all in your head". You develop social problems. People just cut you off and forget about you. As you get older it becomes more and more difficult to form close relationships with people simply, because people tend to have less energy to want to be your friend. Attempts to make new friends usually ends badly, because people flake, are not reliable, and sometimes they're just not a good friend to you. Thus the existential crisis occurs of wanting to be alone, because you don't like people, but you don't really want to be alone and so you try to make friends, get burned everytime and then cycle repeats... Sadly this is from personal experience. I'm not as lonely as I was before though now and things have gotten better in some ways, but worse in others.
@@dickrichard626 I stopped making friends 6 years ago, it's all now passive, someone wishes to be my friend, they're welcome, someone who wants to avoid me, they're also welcomed, I won't put any effort because I know i will be repeating patterns. It's now so observant from my pov that I am mostly able to identify "patterns in human behaviour" It's like I already know how the person is going to behave in just minutes of me talking to them. I love this but then I hate it too, I am sort of "cursed" (for the lack of a better word) with this information....but I like it....... PS thanks for understanding
@@dickrichard626 what you sayi think is partially true for some of us, I do feel however for me, in some moments I am extraverted but in moments where I watch something like this I get excited and think who do I send it to and I end up realising nobody. Many thoughts and interests that I end up obsessing over in my own time without being able to really share. The ones of us here are outliers really. I think we all have some things and thoughts that make us feel lonely at times and that's probably why it resonates even more with the majority who are here. Ofcourse its part of the human experience but I do find myself thinking how good would life be if I just had regular interests cuh a lot of times I feel like theres 2 mes and the one that goes outside and answers my phone is really only doing it out of love and respect for people who I think deserve it from me. But a lot of the time it is very begrudgingly
Solitude is one of the greatest gifts that many avoid. Perhaps because they are afraid of who or what they really are. It’s like traveling to hell and then coming back to realize how blind we have been.
So true. Solitude makes them face the one of most fearful fears? That is feeling of abandonment.. that's very disheartening and scary for so many people. Because we are not taught on how to fight fears..
8:54 It is the solitary who is free, while it is the masses who have become conformists. 10:34 Flee into your solitude! Be once more like the tree that you love. 11:30 Solitude makes possible contemplation, which put's oneself in touch with one's deepest sources of wellness.
Hard to love a tree in central London. I wonder how many of those who post so easily about solitude- how many have cried with loneliness? I’ve just sold my home and moved into my son’s empty flat. I know no one here. I’m nearly 80 with a brain injury. I feel ill with loneliness.
Aside from occasionally talking to my parents and grandmother, ive spent the last three years completely alone. this has changed everything about my life. i was an extremely depressed drug addict and fashion designer before this. all that mattered to me no longer does. i dont care about clothing or anything material. i dont spend money or do drugs. my interests now are MY interests and not those of the people around me. i wasnt aware of how much impact my environment affected me throughout life. it almost feels as if i were lied to though thats not the case. im not recommending anyone to spend this much time alone. but for me, it saved my life.
Schopenhauer also mentioned how important solitude is. It gives you time to reflect and contemplate which is essential for self-actualization and in carving out your path in life.
For the most part, I lead a quiet and introspective life. I have no problems socializing, sometimes I attend events I am invited to, but by and large, I spend most of my time by myself. However, being a solitary person in a city like the one I live in (Barcelona) is complicated, what with the constant tourists and hip young people doing noises all the time. I want to move someplace else quieter and colder, perhaps by the Atlantic. I don’t care about making any new friends or having any relationships anymore. I’m seriously considering moving to a town filled with old people. I already have many of their qualities, and I appreciate the silence and the quiet.
Solitude is the key if you do it right. There’s a realization when you’re out alone in the expansive silence of a mountain summit that you are never completely alone. Being away from society enables you to takes your mind back and truly connect with what’s around you. You uncenter to recenter. There’s too much in our smart phone culture that pats you on the back and reenforces petty ego attachments. That ultimately weakens people and makes them dependent on a very superficial form of tribal validation that can’t see much further than image. You can be popular or you can be interesting.
I love channels like these. This is the "school" I would have loved immensely to attend. Channels that promote the pursuit of man's greatest and strongest self (for and by himself), and not his indoctrination into a sick society whose greatest pastime is wallowing in victimhood of some form or the other.
I recently checked out the book “beyond good and evil” and as always growing up alone because I guess I was never popular and weird. Now as I’m older and here I am writing this is very ironic. I was just telling a very kind soul of a girl that likes me, I just told her I can’t control anyone. Anyone should have free will but at the same time I don’t want to be a burden or be under it. Being alone makes everything else so much more beautiful in ways I can’t describe. But it’s like they say in the great gorgoroth,he who sits in the dark is the bringer of light. It’s something that I guess I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but someone has to. It’s something extremely difficult to experience and to want as well. Such is life, I will continue reading the book . It’s crazy how much I’m understanding reading things I feel but cant describe. Also it’s crazy that by us being alone, we rise above our own ability due to the fact or at least in my experience feeding off of those I don’t like and going against what they preach. It’s a beautiful thing
I've lived in harsh solitude. Now I live what would be described as comfortably with a woman and child. Both situations have pros and cons, and I'm always thinking about the pros I don't have - but self-interest is normal. My heart belongs to my daughter, so I'm happy where I am now. My mind needs solitude most of the time. I just don't connect with anyone around me so I'd rather entertain myself. People seem to thrive on manufactured stress. I don't get it. I could go on on but I'd probably cringe at my own words. It's hard to talk about stuff like this without it being misrepresentated as egocentric.
19 here and I have always felt like I must face my fears and meet the ones who don't accept me as I am(the society) etc and I did face them a lot of times and I still used to feel terrible afterwards. Today after watching this video and coming across the line, "he felt more alone among people who didn't understand him than he was alone" changed my viewpoint. I felt even more alone among the people who didnt have that same morals, etc., I used to think that if I merge with the society I will be more active but now I realise the power of solitude.
Trust me. Eventually you will find people who are on same grounds or frequency level as you are and you will vibe. I feel solitude and a good company goes hand in hand.
I can most certainly say that I've been in solitude for a great period of time since my late teens. Now I am 23 and almost every 23 year old today wouldn't and couldn't even perceive themselves without a lover, friend, acquaintances, etc. They would deem it evil and unbearable.
Hello I am 20 and I am seeing the same stuff now. I am trying to find my own intrinsic mission and the sickness of my peers concern me a lot. I see how ruined this society is and I want to do something but not sure what exactly. I want to achieve great things but in what field? I am an abstract thinker by nature and I have never quite fit in the superficial nature of the masses.
I'm 23 and I'm here to tell you there's nothing wrong with that. How do you think you were born? Your dad fucked your mum, and he only got to fuck her because he wasn't a weird recluse his entire life. Humans are inherently social animals, that's how we've evolved to survive. Nietzsche himself tried to marry a woman (twice! L simp). The difference between NIetzsche and yourself is that Nietzsche chose his solitude.
@@CraigStCyrPlus You underestimate me because of my age. You falsely perceive me because you think you know me. It is either 2 things that made you come to this conclusion about me: either you are envious of my serious perception of life, or you're just too lazy and greatly naive to know that what I commented is in fact the truth about life. Have a nice day
I cried while watching this video. A lot of your content has had such a profound impact on the way I perceive myself and the world around me. I don't feel lonely anymore in a way
They said, "Yaw choose this for little Little Jim. I didn't order your hatred or yaw's bullshit, not yaw, since, They were Assholes. I will handle them.
They said, "Who yaw gonna send after us, the fake, lying, shittalking bitches? They worked for us.". O'there federal witnesses, is that's different. I made you some drumsticks, but, they stole them from me. Sorry.".
By the age of 45 I had tried everything I could think of to not be unhappy and all that was left for me was to withdraw from the majority, it has freed me from all the drama and I am far more relaxed now. Im free of the pressure to be 'hard working' which always took more than it gave in my experience, instead I prefer to be the guy who does a lot for one so lazy! Our civilisation is under the control of the small minded having the expected disastrous consequences and I will enjoy my life the best I can without being guilted by a future that may never come.
I first was turned on to Nietzsche in 1972 when a friend gave me his book THUS SPOKE ZARATHUSTRA. It would be one of the most influential books I ever read. Over the years of my life it’s funny to see how unknowingly it would have been so much a part of my life. PS: something I find almost comical is there is a relatively new “trend” called Vipassana which people pay a lot of money to go spend 10 days in isolation, in order to to create a paid manufactured group experience of isolation with other paying members who are also in their own isolation. Odd that anyone would pay money to be disconnected and alone for 10 days when you could just stay home and disconnect all your electronic /communication devices. A contrived experience of being alone verses a life experience of solitude is like Tang to real fresh orange juice.
Maybe you pay because there is a guard to make sure you stay isolated, can't cheat. And you get a diploma and can talk with authority about your experience at cocktail parties. I quarantined for 14 days during the peak of the pandemic. I had internet though.
This is ignorant. Vipassana practitioners are not merely being 'alone' - they are engaging in challenging spiritual work for many hours each day. This is an effective means of making progress towards true spiritual liberation.
@@108padma that may be the intent of practitioners. My point is does one need go pay $100s of dollars plus cost and time of travel to go to some building to practice this being alone meditation. Seems if the the purpose was to practice this alone meditation. One can just stay at home turn off all personal devices and practice alone at home. What seems dumb is to think you need to do all that (travel/cost) to practice 10 days alone self meditation PS spiritual liberation should not require joining any group, organization, club, cult or pay for it. That’s what seems ignorant. That’s like paying to go be in a library so you can read a book that you could read at home
His sheer trolling of trying to transpose the ancient world into the modern. I suppose he did not realize that progress and technology would only make life easier.
I unironically identify with this philosophy. I am a lonely person not because society rejects me, but because I choose to be apart from people that wear me down. I feel comfortable being alone with my thoughts and the things I like, instead of forcefully doing things many others do in order to "fit". I tried talking about the things I like, but I have yet to find people that share my views. Therefore, I rather cultivate my soul in peace than to join the spiraling madness that society in general is.
Over the past few years I have really been craving solitude. A lot of people I work around are toxic especially certain family members. for so long I have wanted to go into the mountains and combined the isolation with a long extended fast. only real problem I can see is that I might enjoy it so much that I might never want to return.
Give yourself time and go for short vacation or hiking. See what would have happen. Don't let your fears hold you back. Otherwise, you won't even try and all you will be left is regret.. so take short trip..all the best for journey ahead..
Outstanding revelation of Nietzsche's most innermost philosophy. Thank you for this documentary. I perceive in my heart that this brilliant man could not come to terms with the imbrilliance of others. Yet his escape into solitude and isolation was only temporarily beneficial. What he lacked was a true and significant balance between the introvert within and the extrovert without. The man or woman of great intellect must master the ability to accept others just the way they are, and to meet with mindfulness even the stupid and profane, recognizing that all are equals, and that it becomes of necessity to stoop one's own self down in order to lift another one up. I will not say that Nietzsche lacked humility, but it is a virtue all must acquire. The Benedictine Monk Thomas Merton once wrote, "No man is an island." In striving for the Mastery, one must overcome many obstacles.
A healthy dose of solitude actually provides a great vantage point in looking into society and your immediate associations down to how you associate with yourself (hobbies,living space,mental and physical upkeep)and where you fit in society. It's the ultimate practice to self actualization.
8:00 Solitude like marathon run. It's about the low of the thing. And when you connect to the real world after you leave the solitude. You will feel life in a different way.
The “solitary” is also mentioned in the Gospel of Thomas, as the one who will find Heaven. I believe it was Nietzsche who said, paraphrased, that Heaven is a state of mind, to be experienced now.
Only the same as him can understand Nietzsche. The others can only show his words as a sign of wisdom but without really understanding what he truly said.
I have come across great people, i have read Nietzsche's work, a honorable man in his own right. though there are those whom i have come across who are the masters of pushing their mind and the mind of others in ways it has never worked before, in ways it has never perceived before, in ways it has not split its self before just to observe its self... there are great people out there that are able to guide people in to using different aspects of the brain
@@uncleusuh You could say the same thing about Nietzsche's writings. Give me an example of the Overman. He's full of grand adjectives but no concrete examples allowing the reader to interject their own meaning into his words.
I personally much prefer solitude, I think I have been like this since I was 13 or so. It was weird, at that point in my life I started realizing that I really didn't enjoy the company of most people, be they friends or stranger and I slowly started to develop interests completely different to that of my closest friends. Eventually, sue to my father being in the military at the time, I had to move out, it was on the same year that my friends started going out and throwing parties, when I came back I realized that any connection I had with them had been cut at that point unfortunately and while I still play with them from time to time, I almost exclusively feel better doing stuff on my own.
I actually feel more than the same. I think I’m I socially insecure, but I feel very comfortable alone. But for some reason (probably instinct) I still want a girlfriend, a bro, a father figure…. but I think that what I really want is someone to connect to. Someone with the same interests. Someone with the same values. Once, I felt home in my own friend group, but now… I still find them funny, nice bois, but we just don’t click anymore. Some of them even share the same interests! I think I found myself a goal in life, so that should keep myself busy for a good few decades. Is it normal for people who want to experience solitude to have hopes and dreams and likes and dislikes one shares with very few, and only partly at most? Thinks to think about. Thanks for reading the rant :)
As a neuro divergent who is Autistic, and has ADHD who lives in an increasingly toxic society. I highly value my solitude. I have some question me as to why I enjoy to spend time outdoors alone. I just tell them that I enjoy the peace. Truth is that I can be myself without judgment, I can have have time to reflect and recharge, I am not having other's ideology shoved down my throat, I am not being surrounded by consumerism, I am not constantly being told to be someone I am not, and not constantly being indirectly told that I am not good enough because I am not living up to shallow societal standards. When I actually see another person on a hiking trail, granted they are not immediate family, I get instantly disappointed, and want flee off.
Its so odd. All of my life i’ve felt as if ive had no one to really talk to. Its like im surrounded by people but completely alone at the same time. No one can understand what im saying. Is that my fault? Probably. Do i feel as if i am a narcissist? Yes. But time and time again these feelings are rarely disproven. Very few people can actually speak to me in a way that i am actually engaged. Ive recently found out that i am autistic. Ive had some thoughts of that in the past but never anything concrete. That definitely explains some things. But why do i feel intellectually superior? Constantly! Maybe im just a basket case. Maybe im not meant for society. Or people in general. Massive waves of depression overcome me constantly. And now im wasting my time writing a fucking paragraph for a youtube video. Which no one will probably read. I-do-not-fit-in.
You are not alone. I praise you from my own solitude. If i may suggest, try going for a walk, feel the breeze, the rain or the snow on your skin, and breathe. There will come a time where you'll begin to embrace your weirdness and/or uniqueness - that's where you will, truly, be a step closer to freedom. Superiority (hierarchism) is a construct of the same society that oppresses us. Please, find a way, if you can, to not be hateful or judgmental against the masses, because they, at the end of day, are also trying their best to be safe and happy. They are who they are, misguided, but do try to find the best in them. In terms of superiority, people are different, yes, but on a base level we are all the same, sharing the same instincts. Your journey to yourself will be long, windy and treacherous, but with determination, you might, eventually, be greeted by sunshine and mellow winds. Good luck. I am not even halfway into my journey, but i can assure you that it's been worth it so far.
To be alone it's so great,special in those times,,being lonely when you are in company of others it's a distress for the mind ,,,love it ,love it ,,thx 🎩
2:41 "such kinds of men are we,we free spirits! and perhaps you are something of this yourselves, you who are approaching? you new philosophers?" This passage is frightening to me. As I became, and continue to become more lonely ( in part because I reject society and conformists) the more I get into philosophy. I want to find those "higher men" but I can't. I didn't choose this. I'm in a field that has little to do with it, and still my Professor advised me to consider becoming an academic upon reading my essay on Aesthetics( I wouldn't want to become that). Seeing how Nietzsche and Schopenhauer ended up, sages but alone, makes me very scared that I might meet a similar fate.
Good amount of nice work put together to create a great video. Some of us haven't got the time to read or study as much as we would like. You do our lifes easier and more rich
He who tastes de sweetness of solitude is free from fear and free from sin while he drinks das fundamental law of Buddhism: This is because that is; this is not because that is not. This and that: You are in me because I am in you since we are 1! De 1 who knows de 1 becomes de 1. Oneness within oneself brings oneness with das whole universe.
Let's be honest. The people who listen to this today and think they can relate to what Nietzche wrote are involuntarily solitary and we simply try to avoid facing the truth that we don't have enough friends or a good social life. Either we had it in the past, when we were in school and simply do not have it now, or maybe never had it. And I am not referring to anybody who may feel this way who is under the age of 20. People who are still young don't understand what it will be like after you are 30 and especially when you are past age 40.
I despise authoritarianism, and I agree that it's horrible to the average person's wellbeing - but Nietzsche isn't talking to the average person. Though Nietzsche is talking about voluntarily plunging into solitude, I think much, if not all of this still applies for forced solitude as well. The people who have suffered most with lockdowns are those who have fled solitude their whole lives.
As each of you awaken, in I so do I awaken within myself. Outside of my view, there are others. Who like me, seek the light that glows far away in the dark corner of all space.
Its crazy that this Video came exactly today when suddenly i lost my fear of loosing somebody. Because my litle family my sister and brother and Me came finally together again. In an honest way. Im sooooooo fucking Grateful. Its an amazing feeling i will never forget! The fight seemed unwinnable. But ive noticed that it was close to that but the final price comes at the end it seems ❤
It's so true everyone that discovers Himself or herself will indeed facing Deep solitude .through that they undoubtedly discover their true purpose In life.then they are forever remembered
So true, I once took a dump into my neighbors koi pond, and then proceeded to wipe my ass all over their hamsters... it felt good to share my "inner piece" with them... no consequences, it's all "victimless crime, like punching someone in the dark"
Great video. I never thought I would say this about Neiche, but in a sense, I can relate. Genesis 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Proverbs 18:1 A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; He rages against all wise judgment. Think what you will about the Bible, but for centuries it has been a great source of wisdom and guidance to many. One of its main premises is real clear from start to finish, that it is better to be with company then to Isolate oneself. Yahweh had Christ and the Holy Spirit from eternity until time, Adam had Eve and the Isrealites and the church have each other. We who seek to run from God and others do so out of hurt, but we don't help ourselves when we isolate. We need help, healing, and love and so therefore surrounding ourselves with others is good for us, but the ones we surround ourselves with must have our best interests at heart. 1 Corinthians 15:33 Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” I agree that some form of isolation is necessary and helpful, for the Christian we would never get to know God properly if we didn't shut ourselves in with Him. Bad company hurts us and does not help. But good company is a source of great encouragement and help. So we must surround ourselves with those who wish to help us as we help them in this journey of life, yet take time periodically to isolate ourselves to grow and learn.
It seems that many of the great thinkers, philosophers, self-introspective people, eventually, went into solitude. You wonder why? They discovered that most of life drama is caused by humans...
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Great soul chooses his own company
Very important video thank you! I wish you truly well my friend!
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A bad solitude? What would that be? Alone is alone.
My solitude doesn't depend on the presence or absence of people; on the contrary, I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering me true company. - Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Nietzsche
Needed this. Many thanks.
what is "true company"?
@@parsbontatis4010 Company, which in exchange for the solitude lost is forgivable and redeeming.
@@WyattE.-ty2ye !
Even a bad solitude is preferable to a toxic society.
Bad solitude? ........like what....
@@rodolfolopez8679 I was referring to the quote from Nietzsche at the start of the video ("Choose the good solitude..."). A bad solitude is when you hate yourself.
@@cristianm7097 thxs for.....
Agreed.
@@cristianm7097 how can I love myself when I dont even know who I am?
"In fact, he feels more isolated with the people than being alone with himself." Yep, I can relate.
Solitude is your silent best friend forever.
This video really resonates with me.
Growing up Autistic, I feel like I've always been suited for this kind of isolation. Since Covid happened, I have learned more about myself than I ever have in my life, because now I don't have to worry about succumbing to the social pressures outside my house. I have never been happier, or have had more meaning in my life.
I enjoyed lockdown too. Also autistic.
I haven't been diagnosed with autism but I really love my own company. Deepest condolences for all the deaths but Covid has granted me more blessings than I can count. We must be blessed. ✝️
YAHsome! how some of us, were born for these days! ❤️🔥💯
@@paulustarsus yes, it is either a blessing or a curse. We are, indeed, blessed! ❤️🔥
I am also autistic, with ADHD, and the past two years of near isolation I am happier now than ever. Far less pressure to socialize.
For the person who went into solitude and came back to mankind to share what he learned but couldn’t teach anyone, I think I finally understand. I’ve been meeting more people who have been going through “awakenings”. I can’t talk about things like this to someone who watches the Kardashians 24/7, but I can with those who are awakened and/or are awakening.
By awakening, I suppose I mean moving towards a higher state of consciousness.
Knowledge is about the past wisdom is about the future
That’s me
Like minded people can understand each other unfortunately there a lot of reality show watchers. 🙏
Bad medicine makes us redundant. Gogol hoped to save his countrymen./women. Dead Souls. Chasing ...viruses in the remote Pale. Dear Chichikov.
Can you elaborate on the sort of state of consciousness you define as an "awakening"?
This isn't a cynical comment btw, I felt the same sort of thing a couple months ago (I think), and would just like to see if your definition correlates with my own. What could a higher state of consciousness entail?
It’s hard to teach folks in society what you’ve learned in solitude
The solitude is the teacher
I am not really studying philosophy but what Nietzsche said in his books and especially this one, I have had the exact feeling and emotion on why I enjoy solitude or spending time alone. I just did not know how to express it until now.
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You enjoy solitude, because your not really solitary. It's nice to get away from people when it's a constant thing, or you don't really like the people that much. Being solitary is literally never talking to anyone and isolating yourself. You only "enjoy" it as long as you convince yourself that your enjoying it, which is basically a requirement to continue living without loosing your mind, it's not a choice. The reality is that your life becomes "all in your head". You develop social problems. People just cut you off and forget about you. As you get older it becomes more and more difficult to form close relationships with people simply, because people tend to have less energy to want to be your friend. Attempts to make new friends usually ends badly, because people flake, are not reliable, and sometimes they're just not a good friend to you. Thus the existential crisis occurs of wanting to be alone, because you don't like people, but you don't really want to be alone and so you try to make friends, get burned everytime and then cycle repeats... Sadly this is from personal experience. I'm not as lonely as I was before though now and things have gotten better in some ways, but worse in others.
@@dickrichard626 I stopped making friends 6 years ago, it's all now passive, someone wishes to be my friend, they're welcome, someone who wants to avoid me, they're also welcomed, I won't put any effort because I know i will be repeating patterns.
It's now so observant from my pov that I am mostly able to identify "patterns in human behaviour" It's like I already know how the person is going to behave in just minutes of me talking to them. I love this but then I hate it too, I am sort of "cursed" (for the lack of a better word) with this information....but I like it.......
PS thanks for understanding
Crazy how well these guys nail it down. The clarity of thought and self awareness. It feels almost obtainable but only they manage to nail it
@@dickrichard626 what you sayi think is partially true for some of us, I do feel however for me, in some moments I am extraverted but in moments where I watch something like this I get excited and think who do I send it to and I end up realising nobody. Many thoughts and interests that I end up obsessing over in my own time without being able to really share. The ones of us here are outliers really. I think we all have some things and thoughts that make us feel lonely at times and that's probably why it resonates even more with the majority who are here. Ofcourse its part of the human experience but I do find myself thinking how good would life be if I just had regular interests cuh a lot of times I feel like theres 2 mes and the one that goes outside and answers my phone is really only doing it out of love and respect for people who I think deserve it from me. But a lot of the time it is very begrudgingly
"How could I help being thankful to the whole of my life?" This. It brought me to tears.
Solitude is one of the greatest gifts that many avoid. Perhaps because they are afraid of who or what they really are. It’s like traveling to hell and then coming back to realize how blind we have been.
So true. Solitude makes them face the one of most fearful fears? That is feeling of abandonment.. that's very disheartening and scary for so many people. Because we are not taught on how to fight fears..
8:54 It is the solitary who is free, while it is the masses who have become conformists.
10:34 Flee into your solitude! Be once more like the tree that you love.
11:30 Solitude makes possible contemplation, which put's oneself in touch with one's deepest sources of wellness.
When one immerses oneself in nature one becomes healthy on every levels
Seen the bamboo tree, how long it takes but then, what a tree it is!! That's just like us, which now takes us, from glory to glory. Shalom❤️🔥
Hard to love a tree in central London. I wonder how many of those who post so easily about solitude- how many have cried with loneliness? I’ve just sold my home and moved into my son’s empty flat. I know no one here. I’m nearly 80 with a brain injury. I feel ill with loneliness.
Aside from occasionally talking to my parents and grandmother, ive spent the last three years completely alone. this has changed everything about my life. i was an extremely depressed drug addict and fashion designer before this. all that mattered to me no longer does. i dont care about clothing or anything material. i dont spend money or do drugs. my interests now are MY interests and not those of the people around me. i wasnt aware of how much impact my environment affected me throughout life. it almost feels as if i were lied to though thats not the case. im not recommending anyone to spend this much time alone. but for me, it saved my life.
Me too! Same exact story
Same bro. Love you :)
I have a similar story,and I’m very thankful to be free from programming,influence,and to know my thoughts are my own
It's like rebooting...
i have spent 3 years alone in North Vietnam going on year 4. I have an entire RUclips channel about it
Nietzsche consistently amazes me with how concise but immensely impactful his literature is, even on us modern men.
praps it loses a bit in translation?
Schopenhauer also mentioned how important solitude is. It gives you time to reflect and contemplate which is essential for self-actualization and in carving out your path in life.
A man cannot be free unless he is alone.
Schopenhauer war vor allem ein Misanthrop
writers need solitude to get shit done
For the most part, I lead a quiet and introspective life. I have no problems socializing, sometimes I attend events I am invited to, but by and large, I spend most of my time by myself.
However, being a solitary person in a city like the one I live in (Barcelona) is complicated, what with the constant tourists and hip young people doing noises all the time. I want to move someplace else quieter and colder, perhaps by the Atlantic. I don’t care about making any new friends or having any relationships anymore. I’m seriously considering moving to a town filled with old people. I already have many of their qualities, and I appreciate the silence and the quiet.
the Atlantic.. iodine air cleanses the mind. powerful tides. you'll never go hungry.
Just try and test the idea, go for short trip , understand living condition and then decide. Don't wait.
Solitude is the key if you do it right. There’s a realization when you’re out alone in the expansive silence of a mountain summit that you are never completely alone. Being away from society enables you to takes your mind back and truly connect with what’s around you. You uncenter to recenter. There’s too much in our smart phone culture that pats you on the back and reenforces petty ego attachments. That ultimately weakens people and makes them dependent on a very superficial form of tribal validation that can’t see much further than image. You can be popular or you can be interesting.
Damn 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love channels like these. This is the "school" I would have loved immensely to attend. Channels that promote the pursuit of man's greatest and strongest self (for and by himself), and not his indoctrination into a sick society whose greatest pastime is wallowing in victimhood of some form or the other.
I recently checked out the book “beyond good and evil” and as always growing up alone because I guess I was never popular and weird. Now as I’m older and here I am writing this is very ironic. I was just telling a very kind soul of a girl that likes me, I just told her I can’t control anyone. Anyone should have free will but at the same time I don’t want to be a burden or be under it. Being alone makes everything else so much more beautiful in ways I can’t describe. But it’s like they say in the great gorgoroth,he who sits in the dark is the bringer of light. It’s something that I guess I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but someone has to. It’s something extremely difficult to experience and to want as well. Such is life, I will continue reading the book . It’s crazy how much I’m understanding reading things I feel but cant describe. Also it’s crazy that by us being alone, we rise above our own ability due to the fact or at least in my experience feeding off of those I don’t like and going against what they preach. It’s a beautiful thing
I've lived in harsh solitude. Now I live what would be described as comfortably with a woman and child. Both situations have pros and cons, and I'm always thinking about the pros I don't have - but self-interest is normal. My heart belongs to my daughter, so I'm happy where I am now. My mind needs solitude most of the time. I just don't connect with anyone around me so I'd rather entertain myself. People seem to thrive on manufactured stress. I don't get it.
I could go on on but I'd probably cringe at my own words. It's hard to talk about stuff like this without it being misrepresentated as egocentric.
08:05 is such a beautiful quote, sometimes you need to leave your loved ones to themselves, and for yourself, to learn to love them anew
19 here and I have always felt like I must face my fears and meet the ones who don't accept me as I am(the society) etc and I did face them a lot of times and I still used to feel terrible afterwards. Today after watching this video and coming across the line, "he felt more alone among people who didn't understand him than he was alone" changed my viewpoint.
I felt even more alone among the people who didnt have that same morals, etc., I used to think that if I merge with the society I will be more active but now I realise the power of solitude.
Trust me. Eventually you will find people who are on same grounds or frequency level as you are and you will vibe. I feel solitude and a good company goes hand in hand.
the feeling of nobody ever truly understood me no matter how clearly the word are put, is enough for me to know where i need to go
I can most certainly say that I've been in solitude for a great period of time since my late teens.
Now I am 23 and almost every 23 year old today wouldn't and couldn't even perceive themselves without a lover, friend, acquaintances, etc.
They would deem it evil and unbearable.
19 here and same!
Hello I am 20 and I am seeing the same stuff now. I am trying to find my own intrinsic mission and the sickness of my peers concern me a lot. I see how ruined this society is and I want to do something but not sure what exactly. I want to achieve great things but in what field? I am an abstract thinker by nature and I have never quite fit in the superficial nature of the masses.
I'm 23 and I'm here to tell you there's nothing wrong with that. How do you think you were born? Your dad fucked your mum, and he only got to fuck her because he wasn't a weird recluse his entire life. Humans are inherently social animals, that's how we've evolved to survive. Nietzsche himself tried to marry a woman (twice! L simp). The difference between NIetzsche and yourself is that Nietzsche chose his solitude.
There is no great deal of time between late teens and 23. Your growing perception of the world is in its infancy.
@@CraigStCyrPlus You underestimate me because of my age. You falsely perceive me because you think you know me. It is either 2 things that made you come to this conclusion about me: either you are envious of my serious perception of life, or you're just too lazy and greatly naive to know that what I commented is in fact the truth about life. Have a nice day
I cried while watching this video. A lot of your content has had such a profound impact on the way I perceive myself and the world around me. I don't feel lonely anymore in a way
Thank you, Eternalised. A gem for a very small crowd
It's incredible how just one of Nietzsche's sentences can mean so many things and make you think so many different things. It's unbelievable...
no one chooses solitude. Solitude chooses the one.
They said, "Yaw choose this for little Little Jim. I didn't order your hatred or yaw's bullshit, not yaw, since, They were Assholes. I will handle them.
They said, "Who yaw gonna send after us, the fake, lying, shittalking bitches? They worked for us.". O'there federal witnesses, is that's different. I made you some drumsticks, but, they stole them from me. Sorry.".
True.
entirely wrong.
By the age of 45 I had tried everything I could think of to not be unhappy and all that was left for me was to withdraw from the majority, it has freed me from all the drama and I am far more relaxed now. Im free of the pressure to be 'hard working' which always took more than it gave in my experience, instead I prefer to be the guy who does a lot for one so lazy! Our civilisation is under the control of the small minded having the expected disastrous consequences and I will enjoy my life the best I can without being guilted by a future that may never come.
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society"
Gracias por todos tus videos, tu canal es el más importante de RUclips para mi ✨
Aprendo mucho y es gracias a tu esfuerzo.
I first was turned on to Nietzsche in 1972 when a friend gave me his book THUS SPOKE ZARATHUSTRA. It would be one of the most influential books I ever read. Over the years of my life it’s funny to see how unknowingly it would have been so much a part of my life.
PS: something I find almost comical is there is a relatively new “trend” called Vipassana which people pay a lot of money to go spend 10 days in isolation, in order to to create a paid manufactured group experience of isolation with other paying members who are also in their own isolation. Odd that anyone would pay money to be disconnected and alone for 10 days when you could just stay home and disconnect all your electronic /communication devices. A contrived experience of being alone verses a life experience of solitude is like Tang to real fresh orange juice.
Vipassana is very old. Just got famous.
@@sheilakijawani2526 i was referring to the “trend” it recently became a popular trend it will probably fizzle out in a few years.
Maybe you pay because there is a guard to make sure you stay isolated, can't cheat. And you get a diploma and can talk with authority about your experience at cocktail parties.
I quarantined for 14 days during the peak of the pandemic. I had internet though.
This is ignorant. Vipassana practitioners are not merely being 'alone' - they are engaging in challenging spiritual work for many hours each day. This is an effective means of making progress towards true spiritual liberation.
@@108padma that may be the intent of practitioners. My point is does one need go pay $100s of dollars plus cost and time of travel to go to some building to practice this being alone meditation.
Seems if the the purpose was to practice this alone meditation. One can just stay at home turn off all personal devices and practice alone at home. What seems dumb is to think you need to do all that (travel/cost) to practice 10 days alone self meditation
PS spiritual liberation should not require joining any group, organization, club, cult or pay for it. That’s what seems ignorant.
That’s like paying to go be in a library so you can read a book that you could read at home
No one compares with the Neech's sheer brilliance and genius
Schopenhauer is very close.
Dostoevsky is much superior but I see your point.
His sheer trolling of trying to transpose the ancient world into the modern. I suppose he did not realize that progress and technology would only make life easier.
Solitude is one's lifelong friend.
Telling it exactly how it is...
I unironically identify with this philosophy. I am a lonely person not because society rejects me, but because I choose to be apart from people that wear me down. I feel comfortable being alone with my thoughts and the things I like, instead of forcefully doing things many others do in order to "fit". I tried talking about the things I like, but I have yet to find people that share my views. Therefore, I rather cultivate my soul in peace than to join the spiraling madness that society in general is.
Same
Same. I respond to things better when I have time for myself. It may seem selfish but to me solitude is necessary. And also proper boundaries.
Solitude refines genius.
Thanks!
Beautiful artwork to illustrate this extraordinary lecture!
Over the past few years I have really been craving solitude. A lot of people I work around are toxic especially certain family members. for so long I have wanted to go into the mountains and combined the isolation with a long extended fast. only real problem I can see is that I might enjoy it so much that I might never want to return.
Give yourself time and go for short vacation or hiking. See what would have happen. Don't let your fears hold you back. Otherwise, you won't even try and all you will be left is regret.. so take short trip..all the best for journey ahead..
your channel has changed my life over past week
Outstanding revelation of Nietzsche's most innermost philosophy. Thank you for this documentary. I perceive in my heart that this brilliant man could not come to terms with the imbrilliance of others. Yet his escape into solitude and isolation was only temporarily beneficial. What he lacked was a true and significant balance between the introvert within and the extrovert without. The man or woman of great intellect must master the ability to accept others just the way they are, and to meet with mindfulness even the stupid and profane, recognizing that all are equals, and that it becomes of necessity to stoop one's own self down in order to lift another one up. I will not say that Nietzsche lacked humility, but it is a virtue all must acquire. The Benedictine Monk Thomas Merton once wrote, "No man is an island." In striving for the Mastery, one must overcome many obstacles.
I've discovered society's greatest gift to me... solitude.
A healthy dose of solitude actually provides a great vantage point in looking into society and your immediate associations down to how you associate with yourself (hobbies,living space,mental and physical upkeep)and where you fit in society.
It's the ultimate practice to self actualization.
If Nietzsche were alive he would be the only philosopher who would have the right to talk about solitude.
This channel is a blessing.
Nietzsche was truly ahead of his time - his insights on human nature still hold true today
8:00
Solitude like marathon run.
It's about the low of the thing.
And when you connect to the real world after you leave the solitude.
You will feel life in a different way.
The “solitary” is also mentioned in the Gospel of Thomas, as the one who will find Heaven. I believe it was Nietzsche who said, paraphrased, that Heaven is a state of mind, to be experienced now.
Only the same as him can understand Nietzsche. The others can only show his words as a sign of wisdom but without really understanding what he truly said.
Nietzsche is like the Einstein of the human mind. He saw too much. No other philosophical works slap me as hard.
I have come across great people, i have read Nietzsche's work, a honorable man in his own right. though there are those whom i have come across who are the masters of pushing their mind and the mind of others in ways it has never worked before, in ways it has never perceived before, in ways it has not split its self before just to observe its self... there are great people out there that are able to guide people in to using different aspects of the brain
@@SmithsCrhronicles Could you give me an example of those so called great people?
@@SmithsCrhronicles What people?
@@uncleusuh You could say the same thing about Nietzsche's writings. Give me an example of the Overman. He's full of grand adjectives but no concrete examples allowing the reader to interject their own meaning into his words.
I personally much prefer solitude, I think I have been like this since I was 13 or so. It was weird, at that point in my life I started realizing that I really didn't enjoy the company of most people, be they friends or stranger and I slowly started to develop interests completely different to that of my closest friends. Eventually, sue to my father being in the military at the time, I had to move out, it was on the same year that my friends started going out and throwing parties, when I came back I realized that any connection I had with them had been cut at that point unfortunately and while I still play with them from time to time, I almost exclusively feel better doing stuff on my own.
I actually feel more than the same. I think I’m I socially insecure, but I feel very comfortable alone. But for some reason (probably instinct) I still want a girlfriend, a bro, a father figure…. but I think that what I really want is someone to connect to. Someone with the same interests. Someone with the same values. Once, I felt home in my own friend group, but now… I still find them funny, nice bois, but we just don’t click anymore. Some of them even share the same interests! I think I found myself a goal in life, so that should keep myself busy for a good few decades.
Is it normal for people who want to experience solitude to have hopes and dreams and likes and dislikes one shares with very few, and only partly at most? Thinks to think about. Thanks for reading the rant :)
Introvert
This channel never disappoints.
Thank you!
Where would I be without my never boring solitude?
Solitude is bliss, but still, one must come down from ones mountain.......occasionally.
Tsz chapter 'way of the creator' is a hell of read for a solitary man. Absolute legend
Thanks for posting. It's a kind of wholesome story between father & daughter.
As a neuro divergent who is Autistic, and has ADHD who lives in an increasingly toxic society. I highly value my solitude. I have some question me as to why I enjoy to spend time outdoors alone. I just tell them that I enjoy the peace.
Truth is that I can be myself without judgment, I can have have time to reflect and recharge, I am not having other's ideology shoved down my throat, I am not being surrounded by consumerism, I am not constantly being told to be someone I am not, and not constantly being indirectly told that I am not good enough because I am not living up to shallow societal standards.
When I actually see another person on a hiking trail, granted they are not immediate family, I get instantly disappointed, and want flee off.
Magnanimous Nietzsche, magnanimous video.
Solitude can be quite addictive
The one addiction to be reinforced by withdrawals?
If you know you know I fully understand this
sounds like you need rehab
@@seanchen9771 To be alone with my thoughts and think about that addiction? XD
@@seanchen9771 ugh, please not... _group_ therapy...
as a misanthrope with social anxiety, my autodidactism is greatly aided by my solitude.
Godspeed my brothers and sisters.
YOU the Narrator my friend, i would say you mesmerize people with your voice over 🙂👍
Its so odd. All of my life i’ve felt as if ive had no one to really talk to. Its like im surrounded by people but completely alone at the same time. No one can understand what im saying. Is that my fault? Probably. Do i feel as if i am a narcissist? Yes. But time and time again these feelings are rarely disproven. Very few people can actually speak to me in a way that i am actually engaged. Ive recently found out that i am autistic. Ive had some thoughts of that in the past but never anything concrete. That definitely explains some things. But why do i feel intellectually superior? Constantly! Maybe im just a basket case. Maybe im not meant for society. Or people in general. Massive waves of depression overcome me constantly. And now im wasting my time writing a fucking paragraph for a youtube video. Which no one will probably read. I-do-not-fit-in.
You are not alone. I praise you from my own solitude. If i may suggest, try going for a walk, feel the breeze, the rain or the snow on your skin, and breathe. There will come a time where you'll begin to embrace your weirdness and/or uniqueness - that's where you will, truly, be a step closer to freedom. Superiority (hierarchism) is a construct of the same society that oppresses us. Please, find a way, if you can, to not be hateful or judgmental against the masses, because they, at the end of day, are also trying their best to be safe and happy. They are who they are, misguided, but do try to find the best in them. In terms of superiority, people are different, yes, but on a base level we are all the same, sharing the same instincts. Your journey to yourself will be long, windy and treacherous, but with determination, you might, eventually, be greeted by sunshine and mellow winds. Good luck. I am not even halfway into my journey, but i can assure you that it's been worth it so far.
Time to enjoy the sun lol
@@mosswaysfilipo4384 oh i try to as much as i can! It really is something that improves my mood ten fold
Stop playing the victim, you are not special, no one is
Man, this is crazy. I know this was people out there that felt like this but hearing my thoughts from someone else is kind of a relief to some sort
You speak in a way that I can understand. Thank you so much
To be alone it's so great,special in those times,,being lonely when you are in company of others it's a distress for the mind ,,,love it ,love it ,,thx 🎩
"When I am alone is when I am most myself." Vita, duchesss de Boheme.
2:41 "such kinds of men are we,we free spirits! and perhaps you are something of this yourselves, you who are approaching? you new philosophers?"
This passage is frightening to me. As I became, and continue to become more lonely ( in part because I reject society and conformists) the more I get into philosophy. I want to find those "higher men" but I can't. I didn't choose this. I'm in a field that has little to do with it, and still my Professor advised me to consider becoming an academic upon reading my essay on Aesthetics( I wouldn't want to become that).
Seeing how Nietzsche and Schopenhauer ended up, sages but alone, makes me very scared that I might meet a similar fate.
In that solitude they were able to leave the world with great wisdoms to live by.
Not such a dreadful, useless way to live your life.
Good amount of nice work put together to create a great video. Some of us haven't got the time to read or study as much as we would like. You do our lifes easier and more rich
He who tastes de sweetness of solitude is free from fear and free from sin while he drinks das fundamental law of Buddhism:
This is because that is;
this is not because that is not.
This and that:
You are in me because I am in you since we are 1!
De 1 who knows de 1 becomes de 1.
Oneness within oneself brings oneness with das whole universe.
Let's be honest. The people who listen to this today and think they can relate to what Nietzche wrote are involuntarily solitary and we simply try to avoid facing the truth that we don't have enough friends or a good social life. Either we had it in the past, when we were in school and simply do not have it now, or maybe never had it. And I am not referring to anybody who may feel this way who is under the age of 20. People who are still young don't understand what it will be like after you are 30 and especially when you are past age 40.
Thats projection from your own condition
Another great video. Nietzsche is a legend in the philosophy world.
Voluntary solitude is the key. When we are forced into solitude like we have been since March 2020 that is horrible to one's well being.
I despise authoritarianism, and I agree that it's horrible to the average person's wellbeing - but Nietzsche isn't talking to the average person. Though Nietzsche is talking about voluntarily plunging into solitude, I think much, if not all of this still applies for forced solitude as well. The people who have suffered most with lockdowns are those who have fled solitude their whole lives.
As each of you awaken, in I so do I awaken within myself. Outside of my view, there are others. Who like me, seek the light that glows far away in the dark corner of all space.
Being alone makes me happy.
Very peaceful
The absence of social judgements and hypocrisy doesn’t suck.
Superb Master Nietzsche's resume. Many thanks & greetings from Cancún, México 🇲🇽 !
Viva mexico
There is in life only the choice between loneliness and vulgarity.
He was an underrated prophet
Its crazy that this Video came exactly today when suddenly i lost my fear of loosing somebody. Because my litle family my sister and brother and Me came finally together again. In an honest way.
Im sooooooo fucking Grateful. Its an amazing feeling i will never forget!
The fight seemed unwinnable. But ive noticed that it was close to that but the final price comes at the end it seems ❤
Love is solitude because my good faith of my self makes solitude a heaven for me
Great topic and a well-crafted video. Loved it. Bravo!
amazing video! Some of the best on youtube!
The artistic works, it's like the poetry in itself!
Great content man
I've always loved that monumental moustache of his!
Great, really enjoyed this.
It's so true everyone that discovers
Himself or herself will indeed facing
Deep solitude .through that they undoubtedly discover their true purpose
In life.then they are forever remembered
So true, I once took a dump into my neighbors koi pond, and then proceeded to wipe my ass all over their hamsters... it felt good to share my "inner piece" with them... no consequences, it's all "victimless crime, like punching someone in the dark"
I find myself with a pen and notebook every time I watch one of these videos..
Really enjoyed this one
Solitude allows you to dig DEEP INTO YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO DISTRACTIONS ❤
EXCELLENT! Great Video!!
A great mind, a great man, a glorious mustache!
This video is every bit as good as the content from Academy of Ideas. Subscribed. Replayed. Forwarded.
Great work
Great video. I never thought I would say this about Neiche, but in a sense, I can relate.
Genesis 2:18
Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
Proverbs 18:1
A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; He rages against all wise judgment.
Think what you will about the Bible, but for centuries it has been a great source of wisdom and guidance to many. One of its main premises is real clear from start to finish, that it is better to be with company then to Isolate oneself. Yahweh had Christ and the Holy Spirit from eternity until time, Adam had Eve and the Isrealites and the church have each other. We who seek to run from God and others do so out of hurt, but we don't help ourselves when we isolate. We need help, healing, and love and so therefore surrounding ourselves with others is good for us, but the ones we surround ourselves with must have our best interests at heart.
1 Corinthians 15:33
Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”
I agree that some form of isolation is necessary and helpful, for the Christian we would never get to know God properly if we didn't shut ourselves in with Him. Bad company hurts us and does not help. But good company is a source of great encouragement and help. So we must surround ourselves with those who wish to help us as we help them in this journey of life, yet take time periodically to isolate ourselves to grow and learn.
Great video 👍 🇸🇪
6:01 I feel this...
Thank you for sharing!
What's the name of the picture (and artist) at 11:24? Does anybody know :)
Thank you.
He is intelligence knowledge and spirituality combined mastered and personified
It seems that many of the great thinkers, philosophers, self-introspective people, eventually, went into solitude. You wonder why? They discovered that most of life drama is caused by humans...