Trying To Stay Sober On Tour With Bands That Party
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I've never kept my sobriety a secret, but recently I had a member of our Discord server ask me how difficult it is to stay sober while specifically working for a band like Electric Callboy. So let's talk about it.
00:00 Intro / Topic Background
01:29 Treat Yourself (Ekster Ad)
03:52 Turning Into An Alcoholic
05:02 Offending People By Not Drinking
05:46 Don't Be An Enabler
07:04 The Sober Life
08:59 Staying Sober With Electric Callboy
10:20 Accidentally Drinking On Tour
13:25 How Much Alcohol Is REALLY Out There?
15:34 There Will Always Be Someone There To Listen
16:49 Outro
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in two days i will celebrate my 10th anniversary of being sober
Massive congrats
Nice work!
Congratulations 🎉
2024 will be 15 sober yrs for me
Sober life saved my life !
Congratulations, I will hit ten years in November myself. Easily one of the best decision I ever made.
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For realssssss!
I purchased my 2nd home
( no mortgage) all due to being committed to my sobriety!!!
It warms my heart to know that the Electric Callboys, after finishing a show singing and playing songs about partying, going crazy, and being nincompoops in general, get off the stage, hop on their tour bus, and FaceTime their families.
King shit.
"alcohol is the only drug we have to explain not using" - random saying from the internet
I disagree. I don't have to explain jack shit to anybody.
100% agree that anyone who tries to convince someone who says no drinks to get a drink is completely the asshole. I don't understand why it's so hard to just let a person do what they want with themselves. Sometimes I wonder in social situations if it's a matter of the person being mad that they can't say no to the drink when deep down they don't want it or they really know they shouldn't have it.
Great video Tank. And screw that local brewery with the fake coca cola XD
I'm not much of a drinker due to being raised around alcoholics and a few years ago it was my cousin's bachelor party. I had one or two with him because I love my cousin but didn't want to drink anymore. His friend's kept trying to get me to drink and kept telling me to so much, that I ended up leaving because they wouldn't respect the fact that I didn't want to.
totally agree, especially if a bartender. Maybe I'm the designated driver. or, I just don't want to drink, which I'm doing more and more. A friend or even a possible friend I get though.
I have a theory that anyone who tries to pursue someone else to have a drink, is mostly insulted because they don't want to be confronted by how much they drink, how much they think is normal.
When I moved out of the suburbs to the mountains I ran into a weird situation. I was told by a real nice old man that if I didn’t drink the locals would not trust me. Well, the old man was absolutely right 🤷🏻♂️
especially a bar tender who has had to of been around the people that shouldn't drink and what can happen
I'm 36, I do not drink, I work at a gas station, we sell a lot of alcohol, and if customers ask how a new beer tastes, I tell them I don't know because I don't drink. Roughly 70% of customers are understanding, the remaining lose their mind.
Absolutely baffling to me that someone would take "no, thank you" as a personal slight. EVERYBODY knows someone who has an issue with alcohol. It's not difficult to imagine why someone might turn it down and it should be an immediate clue to change the subject because for some even bringing it up is either embarrassing or just intensely personal. You shouldn't just assume anyone who turns it down is an alcoholic, but one should be prepared that it's a potential reason and treat the subject with care.
I live in a country where alcohol consumption is very normalized. BUT if you decline a drink, people generally assume you are sick and taking antibiotics (those are not to be mixed) or pregnant if applicable and do not push further.
I find that many of those who get the most offended are people who already internally struggle with their own consumption and see an issue in their own life, but aren't ready to accept it. When I was drinking, having that mirror reflected back at me that recovery is possible was terrifying. It's an understandable reaction and I don't take it personally when someone gets up in arms trying to get me to drink. I understand where a lot of them may be at because I've been there, too. It's the old, "I don't have a problem if everyone around me is partying, too."
worked 3 years at a brew pub while sober. relapsed ironically after finding a better job in IT. 60 days sober next week. never felt better
October 16 2016 is when I stopped drinking. Life was rough then but I didn't realize how much better life was being sober. The thought of not drinking was terrifying to me for years. Wild how it's not even a thought now.
Here in Bulgaria (and Eastern Europe as a whole) being a non-drinker is being viewed as being a p***у, so we have a huge alcoholism problem in the region. I, however, rarely drink, and I haven't got drunk since I was a teen in 2006. I told myself I never want to get drunk again and I knew when to stop every time since then. There was a period I didn't drink ANY alcohol for about 2 years, but I do enjoy a drink or two on occasion or a beer with my food. Hell, I can't imagine going to Prague 3 times last year and not getting a Pilsner Urquell on the tap. So I kinda get the "Hey, come one, you gotta try this one!" instinct but I am also not a moron so I never do it and I never insist on anyone drinking with me. No matter the reason - the person doesn't drink, a straight edge, ex-alcoholic, or even for a silly reason like religion - I respect them all. I have noe respect, however, for people who disturb others with their drinking or force them to drink. It's a d*сk move. I'd rather be a р***у.
I'm from Serbia and I perfectly know what you mean
Alcohol is the only substance you have to explain why you DON’T use it. I’m coming up on 21 months sober and have recently started going to bars with friends and have found it surprisingly easy. I think it’s because I’m surrounded by friends that won’t pressure me and have my back. Stay strong Tank!
I've actually appreciated that you've talked about this. You're actually a huge reason why I've been sober now over a year because of you telling your story. I saw a lot of myself in what you talked about previously and it really gave me the extra push. Still not %110 sure if I'm gonna stay sober for forever, but just taking it a day at a time. Thank you Tank for doing what you do man 🤙
👏 I've seen this way of thinking very often at Twitter. Many sober guys wished each other "Good next 24 hours". When people asked what that means they said Just day by day.
Day by day is absolutely key. Don't think about tomorrow, don't think about yesterday, just focus on getting through another 24 hours without drinking or using. You sharing this totally humbled me up, and I'm glad that I can be of help to other people that may need it.
"Not today. Probably not tomorrow".
@@TankTheTech19 years now that I've been sober... Better life now by far, way better decisions now... Musically, financially, socially, and personally... I had lost just the pure love of morning, waking up (hard to be 100% after getting impaired... FACT)..
I feel fairly sorry for the people who don't remember the Freedom "sober" can give... "the crutch that cripples..."
Makes sense to me. Looking at things long term can definitely increase stress & anxiety with the perceived increased challenge, but breaking big things down into little chunks like "just day by day" helps immensely with sooooo many things even outside of sobriety. Absolute king life advice
Sometimes it's hard being in the music scene at all while being sober. I quit drinking in 2013 and sometimes it's hard. I'm in a band where everyone else drinks. We have a song about drinking and I have to admit is one of my favorite songs to play. People will want to buy us drinks at shows and I haven't had a negative experience yet. Everyone's been pretty chill about it.
My vocalists wife is a bartender at a venue we were playing at and she brought the band shots to drink while playing the aforementioned song and she brought me a shot glass with soda in it to make it look like I was drinking with the rest of the band.
Its wild that even today, as a generation thats now adults that have seen addiction and alcoholism devastate our friends and loved ones, people still look at you crazy when you tell them you don't drink or use drugs. I tried getting sober for the first time in 2007 i was easily the youngest one in church basements and outpatient clinics, but ive seen the demographic change so much. Sobriety in young people is way more common than it was 15 years ago. But people are still baffled when you tell them "no thanks i dont drink"
Tomorrow marks 6 years clean for me, after kicking heroin in 2013 and finally quitting weed and alcohol in 2018
Tank - I DJ & produce dance music- I’m 50 yrs old from Chicago, currently living in California-
I’m in the industry
Really busy DJING all over the country- I’m around ppl who drink and drug all the time
Took me 5 yrs in my sobriety to come back to DJing , I’ve found several dj’s and ppl in the industry who are sober just like you and I …
2024 will make 15 yrs
Clean & sober for me
( 100 % clean & sober)
Respect to you for sharing your sober journey!!
Sober life is the Best life !!
Glad to hear the EC crew was supportive and respectful of your choices. It’s always sad to hear people try and get sober, but their peers or friends are the worst influences for them. I’m 27 and was 24 when I had my first drink. Hated it, had a couple drinks after and haven’t touched alcohol since. Most of my friends drink, but none of them have (thankfully) pressured me nor made me feel out of place for not drinking.
Didn't intend to write this much lol. These are my experiences drinking. I'm 25 and I think I had my first drink when i was 20 or 21.
It was butter ripple schnapps, was ok but a little too sweet, only had a few swigs.
About a year and a half later was my second drink, went camping and wanted to try something else, my friends recommended rum, so I got a 750ml bottle of captain Morgan, mixed it about 1 part rum to 8 parts iced tea. Went through 3/4 of the bottle over 2 nights.
A month or 2 later I did the same thing, felt something from it after a few hours that time.
The next summer I wanted a different taste so I got a dark rum, ended up mixing it stronger, after about 3 hours I realized the effect had fully taken hold when i stood up at the campfire and almost lost my balance. I was slurring my words, walking required a lot more concentration, went to plug in my diesel heater because it was getting cold but couldn't figure it out because it was dark and I couldn't find my flashlight, climbed up into the tent and went to sleep but not before throwing up supper with my head of the rooftent door by the ladder, then passed out. Actually slept really well. In the morning I got and climbed down, walked around a bit, threw up twice and felt really hungry for the morning till my stomach settled and I could eat. A few months later I had a shot of that dark rum for my birthday party and felt like throwing up again.
Now it's a year and a half later and I found a long Island iced tea that I like, only have maybe a dozen in a year though lol.
I worked behind the bar at a music venue in Denver for many years And I developed some pretty serious drug addictions And for me personally I was not able to continue working at this venue, it was just too much. I just passed 6 years clean in august and I've repaired things with my family.
Keep it up man
Congrats, man! Keep it up! 6 years is a huge accomplishment!
@@TankTheTech thanks I really appreciate that.
As someone who grew up in a family that owned a pub/inn and worked the bar long before I was allowed to drink wath I served - the f-ing waiter/bartender saying *one doesn't hurt* makes me SO SO MAD!
I rarely drink and I hate the culture of people asking you why you don't wanna drink and making it a big thing. It's none of your buisness, there are many reasons not to drink (being sober, being sick/taking meds, being pregnant or simply: I don't want to). A simple no should be enough. (But as it is in other situations it sadly isn't...)
I'd say it is also a generation difference, younger people are more tolerant for sobriety, like in work events, and we are also having good variety of decent non alcoholic options now days, though usually those are not promoted without asking by staff in restaurants. Overall in music, lots of people have turned into taking care of themselves, not drinking excessively or even at all, looking what they eat etc, which leads to longer careers and hopefully better music and concert experiences for all sides.
With some exceptions, industry has also been moved more better way in this sense, eg there ain't any late night gigs any more, where start time is way beyond midnight to boost up venue alco sale. And what bands had to do when they have 10 hours of wait time?
Sometime last year, I was accidentally given a beer at my local bar. Had one sip and it tasted really weird. Looked at the bottle and found out, it wasn't a lemonade, but a "gold" beer. I honestly had a little panic attack and immediately cleaned my mouth out. I monitored my behavior for the rest of the evening and still check every bottle before taking a sip.
I did my first sober tour this past september/october and it was not easy ( more so dealing with drunk band members when sober ) and I have another tour coming up in March. This gives me a lot more confidence to stay sober and it be ok. Thanks for the video!
You got this. Keep up the great job staying sober
Never been drunk my entire life, don't like the taste and what it does, I always get some weird glances here and there :P
I chimed in at the very end of the chat; forgive me for repeating.
I'm a bartender, if a patron declines alcohol I respect their choice and offer N/A options.
Period.
I had a problem with booze. I hid it from everyone. I got money from the govrnment to go to school and every week id blow it on vodka I'd put in everything and if I ran out I'd skim shots from my mum's and top it back up with water so she wouldn't notice. It was a struggle to find places that would serve me or find people to buy it for me because I was so young and I didn't want anyone I knew to know. I quit on my 18th birthday because I realized if It was running my life now and it was hard to get hold off how bad was it going to be when I was legally allowed to buy it.
The first couple of years where rough. I lent on cigarettes and moved onto other... Things... But I eventually managed to kick that too. I've been clean from booze for 12 years if you don't count 1 relapse drink I necked the day I became homeless in 2018. Basically Everytime I go out I get asked why I don't drink then told "one ain't gonna hurt you" and to be honestly if I had 1 drink Everytime someone said that to me I'd have a worse problem then I had before I quit.
Thanks for flying the sober flag tank. Videos like this go along way in normalizing those of us that want to stay sober
I will be sober for 7 years in summer. It feels good to say that.
Regarding people sneaking beer around yo when you quit drinking: my friends and I use to do the same after a friend who had addiction went sober. Our reasoning was to not make him feel excluded or missing out if he saw us drinking while he can't; so it wasn't because we thought he'd go crazy if he saw alcohol.
It's possible your friends and touring crew were also doing that for the same reason
Our friend eventually also got offended because he thought we thought he'd go crazy if he saw beer, so we stopped sneaking around him
In hindsight, our behaviour was definitely ridiculous, even though our interactions were to be considerate. We just didn't think it though
I don't think you were being ridiculous you were trying to be mindful of his decision to quit drinking and were taking it seriously
I do not drink because I get a really bad headache even from the smallest sip. My body is basically telling me that drinking is toxic for me. Most people try to pressure me to drink anyway, but I do not want to waste a whole day for just a sip of champagner... having a bad headache the complete next day is not a good reason for them to not drink. I feel some people would be more considerate if i struggled with an addiction. My reason to stay away from alcohol might be different to most people, but I think it is a da** good reason. Everyone stay strong for your own reasons whatever they are...
I've been sober over 20 years; as in go to AA, have a sponsor, home group, work the steps. It's a way of life.
I have zero issues being in bands with members who drink etc. And I go to gigs all the time at bars and clubs. But only if I have business being there eg supporting a band. But I don't hang out at bars or go to parties just to hang out. And to be honest there are so many people, meetings, parties, barbeques, and musicians in AA that a newbie doesn't need to hang out around drinkers to have a full life.
If you're having a problem with alcohol or drugs try stopping for a year. If you can't you might have a problem. Even if you only drink or use a few times a year you might have a problem if when you do things get out of hand or go badly in some way, shape, or form. If you have a problem there's help.
And there's definitely a life after alcohol and drugs. My life didn't end when I stopped drinking; it got better. In fact I'd say I wasn't living until I stopped. I was just existing day to day. In sobriety I've gotten married, had children, went to college, went to music college for a year, jumped out of airplanes, traveled the world, and played my instrument at a higher level than I ever did drinking.
congratulations on your sobriety. I have been sober 10 years. The last time I drank I was hospitalized and my BAC was a .47. Most people die at .40 but I had an extreme tolerance due to long-term very heavy drinking.
I think Europe will be a bit of an eye opener for you. Europeans tend to eat while they are drinking, and yes it will be a family event, kids and all, up to maybe 11pm on a weekend. Europeans tend not to drink to get drunk, it's more relaxed, sociable, but also responsible. What's why I would have been surprised if EC had have been any other way. But that's not to say that they do not like to party, they'll just do it when or where there are no children about.
I consider myself as a dry alcoholic. Went completely over board with alcohol to a point that my little brother told me that he is scared about my wellbeeing. That hit me really hard and from that moment I stopped drinking completely.
In the beginning it was weird not drinking but more because the people around me knew me only that way and they always wanted me to drink something. So I told them that Im the driver for the evening and that always worked.
Now my friends know that I dont drink anymore and if they want to get shots for everyone they always order me a shot of water just so I can "drink" with them. Very cute of them
I'm a bartender who also had his own struggles with alcohol (not sober, but understand my limits now, I have a couple beers a month probably) and I would NEVER try to make a sober person drink a beer. If anything happened to that person the bartender would 100% be accountable.
not much related to the main topic of the video but I have to say that stay sober it's one of the best decision I've ever make. I started drinking the last 2 days of school back when I was 17 and 18, respectively. And the reason of that is because I got into a depression due to I suffer bullying at that time and I felt the "need" to do that. I was drinking almost non stop every week. But one day I said: no more, this ends right now, I need to change my life style. So yeah, it was a difficult decision but so proud to being sober since 4 years ago.
Congrats on 6 yrs Tank...I've been clean from booze and smack for 14 yrs and it was the best decision I've ever made...With that said bc of spinal cord issues and multiple surgeries I am on pain killers and have been a life long pot smoker so some of the more militant pll in sobriety would say I'm not sober but walk a mile in someone else's shoes before you judge them...Besides all the meds and pain have not caused a relapse and I have a great team of Docs and clinicals on my side so things are as good as they've ever been ✌️🧐🤘
Getting over any kind of addiction is hard. No matter what the addiction might be. I’m struggling with overweight all my life. In 2021\2022 managed to loose 110 lbs (50 Kg). But it has been a tough time with lots of discipline. All of 2023, I’ve been struggling to just hold my current weight. The big difference (from my point of view) is that you can live without alcohol, nicotine or drugs, but you cannot live without food. The hard part is to control my desires, as I just cannot stop eating completely.
I think be sober is more "normal" (on tour too). It's slowly become good life style and glad about this. I wish you and everyone else more sober years.❤
I never drank but I know I had tons of situations in the last decades when I had to explain myself why I don't drink and people started to pressure me. The worst part about it was that it was mostly in the working environment and not about my job with the musicians, it was with usual office jobs. There are many reasons not to drink, and people have to accept this personal decision. Tank, you are courageous to stand, and don't do it again! Day by Day, großartig!
Grew up around substance abuse and chose to be straight edge myself. Growing up in the midwest where drinking especially is just what you do was a struggle. People around here start drinking in their teens and i knew many friends who came to school with Mt. Dew bottles filled with booze. In adulthood sitting around the garage while people drink beer like water was just normal. Also everyone in my family smoked either cigs or weed. Many were also caught up in the infamous midwest addiction cocktail of pain killers and Xanax. I’ll be 42 in January and still substances free outside a few pain meds when i had all my wisdom teeth removed and post gallbladder surgery. It’s never once been easy and it’s depressing how many times grown ass adults have tried to pressure me into “just try it”. Seeing my young cousin, who rarely drinks, explain how easy it is for him gives me hope that this “cool to be wasted” culture is dying off.
t’s always been strange how open minded i about letting people do what they want but that curtesy is rarely returned to me and my choices.
It takes courage to stay sober and remain dedicated to this lifestyle. I have had close family members chose sobriety and we all loved them for it. We totally respected it.
15 years sober off all substances. You earned my respect and sub today!
10:37. I struggled for about three years with a meth addiction and being clean and sober now and being in a band and I’m really fortunate to be in a position where my band members and the support circle I have around me all want to see me do better, and no one wants to see me go back to the place that I was and They understand triggers and they understand that there’s certain things and certain people I am just not fond of being around or doing because it triggers you , I agree with the bartender statement though if a bartender is trying to get someone back into their addiction, who is it destructive person regardless, if they know their backstory or not, if they said they do not drink, they are still trying to push the issue I agree I think whatever that person does that the bartender be held accountable. A lot of people will try to say. It shouldn’t work that way you know you’re the one who made that you are someone who has been in the folds of a deep addiction. It is not simply that easy. Some of us have better control over ourselves than others, but some of us are not that fortunate. It’s the same thing that if you sell someone some laced dope and it kills them from an overdose, you should be convicted of murder. I don’t care everyone’s open to their own opinions, but when you have truly dealt with addiction, you understand that statement and there’s some power behind that brother and I love you and I support you and your sobriety keep going strong man.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
We had a work party at a bar and a recovering alcoholic almost didn't wanna go but because I wanted to hang out with him and help him be comfortable, I told him I'd be sobor with him and play pool with him so he could hang out with the crew and enjoy free dinner with everyone else.
Tank, I know I’m a nobody. But I would love to have a conversation with ya. I have been in recovery for almost 7 years and have done all of those on A level tours. The Struts, Dashboard Confessional, Andrew Mcmahon, etc. I would love to add value through my experiences. More so if anyone needs someone to listen or a sponsor with relative industry experience, I am at your service. Thank you for your advocating brother and congrats!
April 6th will be 3 years booze sober, for me.....
I hit rock bottom during pandemic and also started watching your channel about the same time...
You are at least partially responsible for my sobriety, after hearing your story....and for that, thank you brother...We had very similar situations...
I hardly drink now. I wasnt an alcoholic but i did have a bit of a problem. I also dont go to pubs anymore because I dont drink. I have lost litterally all my friends because i dont go out anymore. They know all too well my problems as they were there when this was happening. So i get told im distancing myself from them and now they wont talk to me.
Long story short people who know someone is sober or even just doesnt want to drink one night and tries to convince them to do so or stops talking to them, are total and utter fuckwits ( I could have used harsher language but would probably get banned lol)
Im also so happy to hear that the EC boys and crew were supportive. I guessed they would be but its nice to hear.
23 years clean and sober..
And I was the same way.. once i start.. I don't stop.. I don't miss it at all..
keep it up man..
I was playing death metal drums when i stopped drinking. One is one and two is twenty. Band was not cool with it until my playing improved noticably. Long fast songs could now go one right into the next without resting my legs.
Thanks for this video Tank! I’m a live sound engineer coming up on my 10th anniversary…. I really don’t even wanna think about those days, and how well quite frankly I thankfully never injured others or myself…. Had a touching moment last month celebrating my 20th year with a client, who basically saved my ass and gave me that last chance…. To anyone out there in internet land who’s hurting…. Your not bad person, and you’re not alone.. please never be afraid to reach out for help. “god’s greatest gift to alcoholics is other alcoholics “. Ps that bartender should be fired!
I can really relate with what you said about relapsing. I was so f***ing pissed when I found out that my sister, that had been sober for 11 years at that point, tried to start a conversation with her therapist about possibly drinking a glass of champagne on her own wedding day. He actually managed to advise her to try out drinking a bit here and there to figure out how it felt. 3 months later she had consumed a full bottle of wine without really noticing it herself before driving to pick up her daughter from daycare.
Thankfully she has now just passed 1 year sober again, but that could have ended really bad.
Most therapists are fucking charlatans.
Starting is never a problem. Stopping is the problem.
awesome video dude ,i once did an out patient rehab program and one day i went to lunch with my mam and asked for a non alcoholic beer ,i realized after drinking the beer it was not non alcoholic when i spoke to the bar tender she thought it was funny she gave me a alcoholic beer ,i said what the fuck even if i was not on a program i could have been driving some people just dont get it ,much respect
Yeah, the hard part of being sober are the people drinking and being angered because you don't drink with them.
Love that you go to meetings to meet and try and help others. Such a cool thing to do.
Thanks for sharing your experience, Tank! Went sober Feb 28th, 2020; I've been lucky in that anyone who heard about my sobriety has been super supportive. I do go out to bars with friends, but they make the effort to go to ones with non-alcoholic beers, cocktails or know the bartenders who can mix something kinda fancy. It helps keep me social so I don't kick myself about being in those environments because I care about my friendships; after a few months I never had the urge to touch alcohol again.
Cigarettes, though? I crave them especially in between bands and I miss squatting on the curb lighting up.
To anyone who wants to be sober, I wish you the best! My unsolicited advice is to surround yourself with supportive friends and also alcohol free activities (Muay Thai and archery for me).
Sooo... I'm French. We drink a LOT here, and it's extremely present throughout French culture. Mark my words when I say that I have never seen any situation where someone who doesn't drink is repeatedly prompted to do just that. ESPECIALLY if they're trying to go sober (if they just don't like it i mean we'll ask if they want to taste it cuz that's the polite thing to do i guess). The fact that you don't want to drink is well respected here.
Seriously proud of you. I only drink once a year, that being St. Patrick's day. Thats it. I drink a couple Guinness & blast Celtic Punk Rock. I dont ever crave alcohol & ive never smoked a thing or done any drugs of any kind. To all fighting to stay sober, keep going! Yall got this ❤
'nuff respect!
Glad to hear you stand your ground and that you get supported for doing so. AWESOME!
Just hit 3 years here! Thanks for doing this vid!
Thank you for taking the time to talk about this with us!
Good for you, brother, especially if you're in recovery 🙏🙏🏽🙏🏻
Great video, it’s awesome that you can talk about your experiences, keep up the good work.
Your actually really brave that you opened up about this 😊 keep strong and all the best for you and family 😊
Thank you for sharing on this matter topic again Tank! I just celebrated 5 years in December! I’m proud of you man and thank you for showing that it is possible to be sober in the music industry! I still go to meetings as well!
For all the issues I do have with over-consumption, I'm glad that drink & drugs aren't ones I've had struggles with. I'm glad, though not really surprised as they seem like a bunch of top blokes, that the EC boys were conscientious of you none the less.
100% support this
Good man. 🤘🤘
i already knew that i don't want to start drinking, and vids like this are a good reminder to keep it that way. thanks Tank :)
Love to hear this, Tank! You and the EC boys are awesome ❤
Wow I can feel with you xD Been sober for 3 years in March
tank. i am proud of you. for being sober.
Congrats on your sobriety and thanks for putting this up for those who may be struggling! Hope everyone's New Year has gotten off to a great start and know that there's ALWAYS someone who will hear you should you need someone! Me especially! 💙🙏🏼👊🏼
I've never had any substances issues but I'm always very happy and proud of people that become sober. Thanks for talking about this Tank!
Man you released this video at the best time… I unfortunately just got in a bad situation and messed up hardcore just two days ago. I was so proud for not drinking on New Years and I let life difficulties screw me up it convinced me to mess up. I think my main issue is I need to find people to call before I slip…. I am happy I made it a year, I just toured with Source as a roadie and they were super supportive with making sure that drinks were not offered to me my next roadie gig they are also extremely supportive. I actually think I’m more motivated to stay sober on tour compared to being stuck at home. Tank you have helped me a lot thank you.
Its great how something that was an issue (not drinking) became a positive for your career!! More ppl need to hear these types of stories
You are my favorite Content-Producer.
So interesting to me and so kind-hearted.
You doing such a good job.💪🏼
Thank you for talking candidly about this. I think your journey will inspire others to at least try to get sober. Lots of people respect you because you tell it like it is. You don't bullshit people, and you don't take bullshit from anyone. You seem very approachable and full of common sense. We can tell how much you love your family and your job but it's obvious that your family would come first in any given situation. So thank you for addressing the subject and being so positive. Please be safe on the road and take care of yourself. Can't wait to see more tour vlogs!
2 years sober for me on January 7th!! Thanks for being open and honest Tank.
Congratulations on your sobriety. Its not an easy path and not everyone makes it out sober. Job well done!
Good for you you talking about this so openly. I'm actually not surprised EC are very professional & don't actually go that crazy with the partying. That is very consistent with how you've described them.
Congrats on your sobriety! Normal day to day people have a tough time sometimes, but being around the environment and staying sober man. Nothing but respect for you. 🤘🤙
I'm sober 4 years! Keep fighting the good fight brother
Super proud of you. But also great to hear about the EC guys. They just impress me more and more and make me more and more happy the more I learn about them.
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Thank you for sharing this about your personal life on how living a healthy life style while also living the rock star life is such a difficult balance.
I'm actually not surprised EC was really chill about your sobriety. I lived in Germany for three years. In the states, whenever I said I didn't drink I'd get twenty questions about why and it was exhausting. I expected the same when I moved and my first time being around a bunch of Germans, they offered me a beer. I said no thanks, I don't drink. And they were like "okay, you want a soda?" And they just moved along like I said nothing. This continued to be the case throughout my time living there. The Germans like their drink, but they rarely get out of control and don't care if you drink or not. I miss that.
Proud of you man! Also the more I hear about EC, the more amazing they seem as human beings, really stand up dudes
Congratulations brother. It can seem impossible to many people myself included once upon a time. I was not able to be in those situations in the beginning. But being 12 years sober and 9 years clean I'm great in any given situation. But it's all about knowing who you are and your confidence in sobriety.
I commend you for your stand with staying sober. Can't even imagine being in an environment being surrounded by alcohol but glad to hear that you have people that respect your choice.
My daughter was part owner of a NYC nightclub when she realized she had a problem and quit. I admire her for being able to work there another year (before they sold it) and not have another drink again.
I always appreciate when you talk about this stuff. I'm 8.5 years sober other than one slip-up 2 years ago. I didn't get to the point of being an alcoholic back when I drank, not even close, but I have struggled / currently struggle with other addictions and I know that it's best for myself to just stay sober. Having other folks talk about their journeys is always encouraging and I feel proud of myself and proud of everyone else on the path, no matter how far on it they are.
Those stories about people just trying to get you to drink hit home. I just decided at a point (more than 20 years ago) to never drink alcohol again and of course some people just could not really accept that. But I don't know if I just weeded out such people, it does no longer happen.
I am very proud of you for remaining sober! It is an incredibly difficult journey for people with “normal” lives and I cannot imagine how it is like for those in “party” careers. Over the past year it has been really uplifting to hear of lots of music artists becoming/remaining sober.
Three days from now will be my 1 year sobriety anniversary and I will celebrate by staying home and watching videos of live performances I attended in 2023
this is one of the greatest videos i have watched in ages. I think the sober life needs to be assisted, and friends need to be made in the world of it in order to push on and learn to see the positivity in everything, even without religion for us who aren't practitioners of anything. I have seen many musicians and friends collapse to that sh(t.
I'm winding down a 45 year career as a touring crew guy (mostly as a sound engineer). Yeah I'm old. But I've had a great career by staying sober. I've never had a drink in my life and have seen plenty of those ass holes who insist you drink. I even got fired from a tour because the band didn't trust me because I was NOT doing drugs and drinking. Fuck 'em! I've seen friends lose control and die. I've had my share of great fun. No regrets. Much respect Tank!
I’ve been sober for 4 years as of this past November and it took me a long time to get to where I felt “normal” as of like the middle of the year last year to feel I guess just comfortable. It’s kinda funny because I’ve been to a couple of concerts and I get a little bit down at first but I get over it and when it’s time to leave it’s like hell yeah I don’t have to worry about anything driving home! Keep it up man I think it pretty amazing you can dart sober in your particular career 🤘
Last year I did dry January and it pretty much stuck. I never had a problem, per se (I acknowledge I’m very lucky), but just realized it’s bad for me and I wouldn’t miss it and I’ve cut back 90%-95% ever since.
All’s to say, it is *so* *goddamned* *annoying* dealing with people in social situations who hassle me about not drinking.
It gives me all the respect in the world for those of you who are sober and had to fight to get there and have to fight even harder to stay there. Keep at it 👊🏻👊🏻
I used to fulfill the riders, do catering and running for our local arena and it seems like it was way worse back in the 80's and 90's than it is now.. I was told on my first day at the arena that if the food doesn't get eaten for the band & crew (not local crew) then that means the band & crew drank / did drugs a lot. No food was eaten for one of the biggest & most "rowdy" country artists of that time. Worked out great for me cause I packed that food up and stocked my boyfriend's freezer full of food since 2 days after the show I was headed out for a 2 week tour of my home state of FL. I came back to an engagement ring and here we are 35 years later.
Hey tank thanks for that topic man definitely respect that did not think you were in sobriety myself also September 17th 2017 been drumming for 30 years I've played out sober and I've played out drunk and I bet much rather play out sober like you said I never know where I'm going to be if I do drink thank you so much this is from Springfield Massachusetts AKA animal
Probably a Wasatch beer, good stuff, shout out to my home town! SLC! But I'm glad you were able to get past that, I would have went back for the 2nd sip as someone who has been back and forth with alcoholism myself so great on you, relapses are hard. I'm watching this video as someone who relapsed recently and it helps listening to you when it happens.
Giving up the drink 2.5 years ago was the best thing I ever did. Had the same problem with it, once I started, it was go until I blacked out. Now I’m a coffee fiend and I’m better for it. Loved this video!