Actually Geralts slow movements are something that he does on purpose. As mutant he is much, MUCH quicker than avarage human so he does this to hide his ability from enemies and to prevent people from exluding him in situations like contract taking or just gaining info. (it was explained in books)
I just want to add the fun fact that Henry moves slow acting as Geralt because, as said by him and also as a reference to the books, Geralt is usually on high alert and doesn't want others to know how fast he can actually move thanks to mutation or alchemical stuff. Which actually makes sense for someone who usually has to fight and doesn't know if any normal person could eventually be an enemy.
I was trying to figure out how to explain exactly what you said. I suffer with PTSD, but I don't like it to be immediately obvious in case someone decides to use it against me. What I do is attempt to not appear as a threat or target; while constantly watching every detail of other people as I can. Most people have a tell when they are plotting something against you, and your gut instinct is typically right. How you react to it may not be. Essentially it's "be a wolf in sheep's clothing" with the expectation of stopping another predator instead of chasing the prey.
some NOTES here 1. SLOW, LANGUID MOVEMENTS: When you move slowly & comfortably you sub communicates to other people that you do not feel scared & pressured. That is perceived as confidence. Move at a pace that is self determined than environment determined. 2. BE COMFORTABLE TURNING BACK ON OTHERS: The person who ends the conversation & walks away usually the one with more power in a given situation. But don’t be like Geralt in this situation, for eg when someone enters a room you could turn & wave but better is to stand up head on & hand shake. 3. CONFIDENT PEOPLE CAN AFFORD TO HANDICAP THEMSELVES: You can do this by being more honest especially where you think it might set you back socially for eg if you have a nerdy hobby that you think other people might judge, often better off speaking about it with enthusiasm rather than downplaying it. 4. EXTREME NON-REACTIVE: When we notice that people who are resilient & their calmness are not easily feared we view them as more confident & capable. Whatever is coming at them that they can handle. firmly build up an internal calm so you are not always in constant reaction to the world. As always my crazy passion is to share summaries like started doing it on my channel with PDF summaries ✌ People say to me more often that I am slow in reacting to anything. Does that mean I am like Geralt? 😜
TLDW: 1. Geralt has slow, languid movements. 2. Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others. 3. Confident people can afford to handicap themselves. 4. Geralt is extremely non-reactive.
I've noticed a huge difference in how ppl react to me now... Since I started wearing these epic shoulder pads and body armour, And carrying a giant 4 foot sword everywhere I go
I'm glad he clarified that turning your back on people isn't a great strategy in modern society but now I definitely feel more prepared if I ever end up in a tense political dispute with a local lord
Flexibility is important, because you have to adapt to the situation you're in. As such you should never be dominant (or submissive) all of the time. For example, if you're attending a meeting there's no point in posturing and dominating the room when someone else in on as speaker and you're supposed to listen. However, when it's your turn to present as per the agenda, by all means step into your dominance. Any sane person will shift in and out of dominance and submission during the day as each moment requires. When it comes to seduction the statistically sound strategy to put forth as a fairly normal man is to step into dominance, because *most* women like a confident, dominant man. Turning your back on someone like Geralt does is more than confidence, which is why I call it dominance. Sometimes a less than optimal approach with your boss :)
@@elizabethcsicsery-ronay1633, I agree, someone they can relax around because they trust their decision making, but who isn't too insecure or distrusting to let go of the wheel.
Words are spells. The powerful people know that. Lying is to cause harm to oneself. When you constantly look inward to align with your true self speech and movements are slower. It is very refreshing to meet such an individual in person. I felt you are not fully understanding this one but great channel neverthless.
Words are spells on women, specifically. There's many more ways to influence people, and tangible methods are often more effective. But there's a place for them all, even the unsaid. Humans take 80% of environmental information from their eyes, and in social situations, sight tells more about people than their words will usually answer.
I actually tried to start delaying my speech, slowing my reactions and blinking slower and that I think is why the company shrink came to visit our department for a wellness check.
Great video! My *summary* of the 4 ways Geralt of Rivia demonstrates confidence: 1. Geralt has slow, languid movements. ○ Deep confidence is about being able to move at a pace that is self-determined rather than environmentally determined ○ Animal kingdom analogy ○ Predator movements = slow and languid; nothing to be afraid of; comfortably energized □ If you get too lethargic, energize yourself with a stretch or quick breaths ○ Prey movements = herky-jerky; in constant anticipation of danger □ If this happens, take a deep breath and open your body language to slow down 2. Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others. a. Animal kingdom: sign that something is unthreatening / unimportant i. Only predators can afford that b. Caution: That will make the other person feel unimportant (to you)! 3. Confident people can afford to handicap themselves. ("Handicap principle") a. Animal example: male peacock's feathers -> no other purpose than look sexy b. Example: Say something that might hurt your reputation -> ppl assume you must be strong enough not to need people to like you -> you come across as confident & more likeable c. How to implement that in everday life? Be less socially calculating and instead more honest in your self-expression, e. g. about your geeky hobbies. 4. Geralt is extremely non-reactive a. The ability to have a sturdy/resilient emotional center = key creator/indicator of confidence b. Low reactivity signifies you can handle whatever (stressor, problem etc.) life throws at you c. Animal kingdom: strong emotional mastery can trump physical strength in dominance battles d. It's important to recognize your specific emotional triggers; make a list proactively e. However, that doesn't mean swallowing your emotions; have the courage to be vulnerabe • What you want is unshakable deep confidence -> the rest (body language etc.) will follow naturally
I am the most confident man alive, someone asked me what time it was and it took me about an hour before I had replied. Of course, by the time I answered the time given was incorrect, nevertheless, everyone in the room congratulated my confidence in not being afraid of being wrong.
The deep breathing whenever anxiety starts to rev up really is a game changer, whenever I’m in a situation that trigger it, I always take a deep breath, and make an effort to do the opposite of what my anxiety wants - I speak and move slowly and goal oriented, keep my language simple and to the point, I lower the pitch of my voice. I have no problem with people seeing that I’m affected by the situation and that my demeanor change, but slowing down usually resets things, and builds a foundation for an anxiety free interaction from that point on! I’ve also found simply asking myself “why?” can snap me out of negative thought spirals:)
Your body language is a reflection of how you're feeling on the inside - focus on building core confidence and self-esteem and the body language will come naturally! But you definitely can learn body language and use it to build confidence from the outside in💪
@@KizaWittaker Both methods work. In fact, both methods can be employed and build off of each other. Think of it like compounding interest - The small improvements in one (internal or external) reinforce the other and vice-versa. Not feeling confident inside? employ some fake outside confidence and your inside will calm.
Yeah ur right but the opposite is also true, if you change your body language it will also impact and affect your emotions and beliefs aka how you feel inside
@@tellitlikeitis8691 I'm picturing in my head gazelle being hunted by lions, and I'm pretty certain the gazelle that keep their eyes on the lions and run away as a tight pack are less likely to be eaten than the gazelle that takes its sweet time ambling about confidently and turning its back on the lions!
@@patrickreynolds5463 Yeah no debate there, but there are certain prey that choose to fight instead of run and sometimes manage to be successful, especially when together.
The peacock’s huge tail does protect it. I’ve seen predators try to get them and they always end up with a mouthful of huge feathers. During nesting season, the males will deliberately scream at the slightest disturbance in order to draw any predators away from the plain looking female on the nest. Their huge bright tail also helps with this diversion.
I think your mental game plays a big roll on good looks since you got all that muscle everywhere and the magic thing is, muscles get controlled by brain.
What critics hated this?! Have they even played The Witcher game? Henry Cavill IS the living embodiment of Geralt. I can't believe HOW PERFECT a match it was; and his voice, jeez, flawless.
Don’t be the guy that “looks” confident but folds when he’s needed…. Actually get confident from getting better at everything you can. Working out is a huge help for everybody as well.
Straightening up the body with retracted shoulders makes immediate difference in how others treat you. Especially if you add a slow and present gait to the package.
The bit at 6:40 made me laugh. That whole point is heavily dependant on the perception that others have of you to begin with. I can honestly say that anyone (outside of my friends group) has never responded positively about my gaming hobby. Especially not women. Worse yet, they often make an effort to reply how boring games/computers are.
@@hkr667 it's about the way you say it, every women I told that I'm playing games immediately followed up with a question among the lines what I'm playing
Azor Ahai it’s obvious a guy like Henry Cavill doesn’t need to do much to be taken as attractive. But I can say as a female, I have been deeply attracted to many “physically ugly” men in the past because they had those confident characteristics. So if you are a man reading this, I can guarantee you that confidence is key to attract women
Nope. Young people find them really boring. Unless they happen to be very good looking. But even then after a while they become boring because they dont do anything.
A cool man in a storm. Someone like real life astronauts Neil Armstrong or Jim Lovell. Or, in fiction, a cool , calm and collected individual like James Bond.
A cool man in a storm. Someone like real life astronauts Neil Armstrong or Jim Lovell. Or, in fiction, a cool , calm and collected individual like James Bond.
4:22 The peacock's feathers have over a hundred eye's on it which is quite distracting for a predator and may confuse it causing an attack to miss it's target. Same goes for some butterflies or fish which also deceive by faking the position of the head guiding an attack to the rear of the animal.
@@OmarSlloum What is the peacock theory? Why does the peacock have such a beautiful tail? Darwin's theory of sexual selection says that nature's extravagances -- like the peacock's tail -- are advantages in the mating game. Darwin later said...“The sight of a feather in a peacock's tail, whenever I gaze at it, makes me sick!” wrote Charles Darwin in 1860, just a year after the publication of The Origin of Species. The intense detail is not at all necessary for mating, and his theory had no reasons why, it was that way.
Not just for confidence, but overall posture health, always have your shoulder blades retracted with your chest out. And keep your head up when walking, I used to always look down while walking and that only caused neck pain.
I found this was much easier after adopting a heavy regular back workout. To begin with I was focusing on holding good form under heavy load, but its carried over into my general posture.
Yeah, I heard about this advice before and implemented it. Since then, I've stepped into poo several times and I decided that I rather prefer to look week than to clean my shoes every other day :P
This reminds me of 'butch walking'. In a famous study, muggers in prison were shown videos of people in streets and asked about who would they would select victims. It turns out that how people walked was more important that how wealthy they looked. People with a timid hunched gait were likely to be selected as victims. People with an upright posture and a strong 'butch walk' were not.
It helps that Geralt has the ability to kill just about anyone in the kingdoms, and that Henry (and subsequently Geralt) is not only taller than most, stronger than most he is aslo far better looking then most. I'm sure those qualities help.
That discription reminds me of the narcissistic bad guy in 'Beauty and the Beast!' Five pre-schoolers in the other room can't be wrong. They watch it once or twice a week!
I recently had a confrontation at work with someone who considers themselves important in the area. Since I have no intention of getting into physical fights at this job, I simply approached him and took a relaxed posture (leaning on the counter) and never raised my voice above conversational tone and volume. I maintained direct eye contact, deflected all verbal attempts at provocation, and seemed practically dismissive. He considered himself someone to be feared/respected and in me, he found someone who calmly and solidly challenged him. The attention of all this has been interesting, as he has never followed up on his words and has had conversations with multiple people who told him he was essentially in the wrong. He's still mad, but won't do anything about it, so far.
Lots of average looking guys with confidence.. Lots of good looking guys without it. Hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com.. Those books are really good.. it's all about mindset.
You can improve your looks without plastic surgery. Search a RUclips channel named "Brawny King Fitness". It has a video on getting a lean face. Watch it. It works, trust me
I had this predator-like confidence for years, but army boosted it much more. Now I intimidate people. Also this handicap principle was new to me, I like it and will practice it.
Watching this has given me some insight into how I unconsciously changed my demeanor after I went through PTSD therapy. People started treating me with much more respect, abusive gf lost power and parted ways, new gf was absolutely enamoured with me and thought I was the best thing since cider was invented (she loves cider).
I'm a millennial myself and I wish more millennials took heed to this advice to avoid being quick to anger and quick to trigger. Not only that, but I believe now is the time to look inwardly for answers more often instead of allowing external elements to make you into a person who'll never find real purpose in life.
Quick to anger is a child like response to being immature every generation feels more and more like everything should be given to them and they dont knoe anything about hard work sacrifice and honesty
I'm a GenXer and have lived by "now is the time to look inwardly for answers more often instead of allowing external elements..." my whole life. I've never understood other people's need for outside validation, the way people do today. People need to stop caring what other people think and do and start thinking and doing for themselves.
I think this is one of your best videos. Some of your older stuff falls into the common pitfall of 'this works, so do this'... but this one actually considers 'just because it works... does that make it ethical?' That raised my estimations of your (already very good) channel considerably.
How to be confident Step 1: Go to Kaer Morhen Step 2: Undergo the extremely dangerous and deadly Trial of the Grasses to transform into a Witcher receiving enhanced strength, speed, senses and more Step 3: If you survive that (which you more than likely won't) begin your training that will last years in combat, magic and studying the plethora of different dangers the world has to offer from some of the greatest and wisest warriors alive Step 4: Go out into the world and slowly become famous for slaying extremely dangerous monsters all over the world Step 5: get mad sorcerer pus Oh, and be Henry Cavill Confidence 100
Good stuff. Importance of being “grounded.” Latin word for “ground” is “Hum.” To be “Humble” is to be well-grounded - which typically generates natural confidence.
I see a couple of comments from a while ago, kind of poking fun at these concepts. Although harmless, I do want to say how true these concepts are. This channel is the real deal.
Meditation can certainly help... BUT there's a lot to be said about what you focus meditation upon, while ridding your mind of "useless monkey chatter". There's a point where embracing an emptiness has to be replaced with refined focus and rumination, or you short-change yourself for the benefits you could experience. There's also more benefits from a practiced meditation, rather than simply quiet meditation. Practices like Yoga, or Tai Chi will enhance your balance and coordination while you meditate, making the slowed deliberate motions more natural to your body and easier to carry on naturally, too. It is a kind of pity, that a lot of people aren't even aware that Tai Chi and Yoga were meant as a form of meditation practice... not just a series of stretches and "old people's martial arts" exercise... BUT such is life. AND no, you don't necessarily have to work through the prescribed sets according to one or another school... Simply adopting the philosophy and finding your own way can be a benefit. Obviously, if it's available to you, getting some direction (from a qualified teacher) has it's own benefits. I wouldn't discourage it. At the same time, "you gotta start somewhere". ;o)
Just came back. It went pretty good I think. Im gonna hear from them in a couple of days, so I'm gonna update you when they contact me. Thanks for the support!
An example of handicapping yourself, James Bond's signature introduction "My name is Bond, James Bond" is his way of boldly announcing his real identity. He is so good, he doesn't need a cover.
Rewatching the Witcher now i all noticed these traits too, but i would also add that Geralt is able to see trough the lies and deduce the true intentions of the people he meets that want something from him and calls them out which in turn leads to those people revealing what really happened and being honest. This is probably from experiences of being betrayed and learning from it or just basic knowlegde of human nature.
RUclips videos like this are for insecure men. Just dislike it so the algorithm doesn't shove this content down your throat. Channels like this use popular tags like THE WITCHER NETFLIX to get views.
@@ruleaus7664 Yes. 100% true, and as a insecure little 16 year old you learn that by first faking confidence. Seeing how people react more positivly to you that way, and then once it becomes real confidence you start noticing what you are lacking and how you can improve.
Geralt actually has a lore reason to move in small very pronounced movements. When a Witcher takes potions, his speed may even double to his normal dancing swordplay. Therefor, he's trying to make it normal that people can see him move slowly. Obviously Geralt's faster then this, but it is very much something he does.
One of the suggestions is to acknowledge another as to bring them into the conversation. Nice dance technique. In a diff video of yours it says give the person you are talking with your attention to make them feel important. Display confidence by bring in another to conversation or choose to have the person in your conversation like you. It is all about situational awareness in interpersonnal interactions
Agree. Regarding the 3rd point: Just today I went jogging with my dad. At the end he said: You are in great shape now, right? As he just saw me jogging way more distance in less time than Im used to. I said: No, not yet anyway. He nodded in silence and smiled at me. For one second I felt powerful and I knew I could not gain that kind of respect If i had answered something like: Yes, I know or Yeah, im in awesome shape.
Something pretty similar happened to me today. My dad basically asked me "How are you holding up ?" I felt great but sensed it was not the adequate answer and said "I'm on cruise control and I maintain it". I really felt powerful too, even though it was not the most positive answer one could hope to hear.
Don’t forget Geralt is in great shape. This permeates into all other aspects of life. Getting in shape should be step number one to being confident lol
But you gotta fake it at first while you're self DEVELOPING and eventually you'll 100% gain the true confidence when you start making good money, improving your lifestyle,social skills, and physique. The problem with people this generation is instant gratification, Gary Vee preaches it all the time, TRUST AND LOVE THE PROCESS/GRIND
It's a good thing point, but if you ARE confident, but are lacking body language that displays said confidence in the best possible light, you aren't taking full advantage of the influence you could be commanding.
Thing is. It doesn't work unless you can back it up. Any confident person will hold you to it to see if you're bluffing. Fake it doesn't work. Facing it, does.
You also have to be tall and muscular. Imagine some skinny short guy doing these things, it wouldn't work. A large part of Henry's dominance is the fact that he's tall and muscular. Physicality is EXTREMELY important
It's true. Having a strong physique usually gives a more powerful impression. But you can get it by eating properly and working out. Even if you're not tall, you can still be buff and attractive.
There are small people with a crazy charisma though. A lot of it is in the facial expression and posture. I can only imagine that this sort of confidence would be harder to have if you feel inadequate due to your body size. But it is definitively possible.
Small people can be (and have been) dominant and confident. The difference is that small people have to be even more confident and dominant in order to make up for lack of height. Examples are Tom Cruise, Kevin Hart, Al Pacino and Joe Pesci.
I feel like Adam Driver is a good example of these actions and also proves that you don't have to look like a god to still come across as confident and be attractive. He seems to have very sure, powerful movements which I image probably comes from his time as a marine. He also tends to not answer questions very quickly, he takes his time to make sure he says what he wants to say. A lot of guys seem to not be able to figure out why so many women go crazy for Adam Driver but I think it has to do with how he carries himself and the quiet confidence he projects, making us prefer him over a lot of "classically handsome" guys.
I was thinking about how confident people can afford to handicap themselves. I'd love to get some feedback but it feels like people who overly handicap themselves, over-share, or handicap themselves in improper social situations don't demonstrate confidence but rather over-comfortablility with the people they're around.
The point is, you need to be able to be effective at whatever you strive for, even if you handicap yourself. As long as this is achieved it, people will take it as confidence. People who over handicap themselves usually aren´t effective. The point is to reach your goal, as long as you manage that, people don´t take it in a negative manner.
It all depends on the situation and how you handicap yourself. It is one thing to tell a funny story and put yourself as the target of a joke - self irony. It is a totally different beer, to start describing all your red flags and laugh about it. I usually use self irony a lot. People tend to react positively to it (granted they are not a total lost cause and cannot tell whether I am joking or am being serious). I have met a person who simply started listing how big of failure and psycho he was, 10 minutes into the conversation. You might say he was over handicapping himself, but in reality he is simply not reading the situation properly and does himself a disservice. There is nothing wrong with handicapping yourself as much as you want, but as the video mentioned, you have to seem stronger despite your handicap. Listing your red flags does not do that for you. For example, if you say "I went to a therapist and we found out I am simply an alcoholic. Hahaha! What is a person to do when he has fun with a good company!? Cheers!" - shooting yourself in the foot. On the other hand if you say, "I used to drink a lot in the past. I have recently discovered, with the help of my therapist, that I was a low-key alcoholic. I am currently working on changing this. Only one beer for tonight, though - I am in a good company! Cheers!" - handicapping yourself, but you seem strong for trying to change your problem.
Just be honest. If someone catches you on mistake, let them. If someone assumes that you've archived something you didn't, correct them. If someone (all of that can be woman) outdoes you in smth, don't get envy, angry or competitive. Congratulate them, I guess. Such things don't hurt your identity. Well, they shouldn't.
9:30 this is the biggest issue I have. Reactivity. I hate to use the term “empath “ as it is overused, but I will say I’m very sensitive to the emotions of others. So much so that I will react almost indefinitely. Biggest hurdle to overcome 100%
1. 0:30 Geralt has slow languid movements 2. 2:37 Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others 3. 4:02 Confident people can afford to handicap themselves 4. 7:10 Geralt is extremely non-reactive
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The reason Geralt is taking so long to respond is me taking so long to determine what option to take in game conversations.
*YoU wAnNA pLAy GwEnt?*
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@@SexiestSnowLeopard How about a round of Gwent?
Wanna play a round of cards? Gwent, specifically.
@@lolathelivingdoll seriously 😂
Tried slow languid movements and immediately felt confident and strong....missed the train twice.
😂
LMAO
No...the train missed you😉
@@gavindalziel9022 🤔😂😂😂
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Watching this really brings home how well Cavill nailed all of Geralt's personality traits and mannerisms.
same
As well as just being able to look like him
Did you know that Geralt actually movies slower because he intentionally tries to.
Geralt has the ultimate advantage: the writer is on his side.
Considering how the books end, I'm not sure 😂
😂😂😂
J. T -spoiler-
TristoMietiTrebbia bruh he didn’t spoil anything
The writer is definitely not on my side.
Girl: Oh hi! How's it going?
Me: *confidently turns back and walks away*
hahahaha
But wait 12 seconds before you do.
Yes, that's exactly what you should take from the video 😂
Slowly
*hmm* intensifies...
Actually Geralts slow movements are something that he does on purpose. As mutant he is much, MUCH quicker than avarage human so he does this to hide his ability from enemies and to prevent people from exluding him in situations like contract taking or just gaining info. (it was explained in books)
both explanations can be true, I think
I like how confident you are in your expertise on mutants vs. humans. Keep it up--one day someone will need your expertise!
I just want to add the fun fact that Henry moves slow acting as Geralt because, as said by him and also as a reference to the books, Geralt is usually on high alert and doesn't want others to know how fast he can actually move thanks to mutation or alchemical stuff. Which actually makes sense for someone who usually has to fight and doesn't know if any normal person could eventually be an enemy.
Yes indeed. Just finished all 8 books and can attest to this. Great point
Same reason why Eddard Stark doesn't fight in Tournaments. He doesnt want people to know what he's capable of.
@@IsaTehGothicMando Thats how he ended up beheaded
I loves reading this comment. Great insight.
I was trying to figure out how to explain exactly what you said. I suffer with PTSD, but I don't like it to be immediately obvious in case someone decides to use it against me. What I do is attempt to not appear as a threat or target; while constantly watching every detail of other people as I can. Most people have a tell when they are plotting something against you, and your gut instinct is typically right. How you react to it may not be. Essentially it's "be a wolf in sheep's clothing" with the expectation of stopping another predator instead of chasing the prey.
some NOTES here
1. SLOW, LANGUID MOVEMENTS: When you move slowly & comfortably you sub communicates to other people that you do not feel scared & pressured. That is perceived as confidence. Move at a pace that is self determined than environment determined.
2. BE COMFORTABLE TURNING BACK ON OTHERS: The person who ends the conversation & walks away usually the one with more power in a given situation. But don’t be like Geralt in this situation, for eg when someone enters a room you could turn & wave but better is to stand up head on & hand shake.
3. CONFIDENT PEOPLE CAN AFFORD TO HANDICAP THEMSELVES: You can do this by being more honest especially where you think it might set you back socially for eg if you have a nerdy hobby that you think other people might judge, often better off speaking about it with enthusiasm rather than downplaying it.
4. EXTREME NON-REACTIVE: When we notice that people who are resilient & their calmness are not easily feared we view them as more confident & capable. Whatever is coming at them that they can handle. firmly build up an internal calm so you are not always in constant reaction to the world.
As always my crazy passion is to share summaries like started doing it on my channel with PDF summaries ✌
People say to me more often that I am slow in reacting to anything. Does that mean I am like Geralt? 😜
Great 👍
@NimbuX Nobody likes someone who types like an obnoxious prick.
My man
Thanks mate, you saved me several minutes!
Am I the only one that finds this dude too try hard?
TLDW:
1. Geralt has slow, languid movements.
2. Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others.
3. Confident people can afford to handicap themselves.
4. Geralt is extremely non-reactive.
I'm slow as well
*Didn't watch just read tldw summary...*
"So I need to be handicapped huh..." *stabs both legs multiple times*
"How do you like me now?"
*Passes out*
@@sanethpierre8560 that’s some Ricky Bobby energy
@@codyleach7271 lol
This needs pinning to the top please
I've noticed a huge difference in how ppl react
to me now...
Since I started wearing these epic shoulder pads and body armour,
And carrying a giant 4 foot sword everywhere I go
They're called spaulders
@@deannicely535 You misunderstood him. He is just wearing giant shoulder pads.
@@delved2deep266 shoulder pads are for blunt force, spalders and pauldrons are for deflecting strikes
Four foot of razor sharp steel really does boost your confidence big sword energy
@@deannicely535 im suprised you didn't also mention a 4 foot blade really isn't in the big range. Its more of a mid length sword.
I'm glad he clarified that turning your back on people isn't a great strategy in modern society but now I definitely feel more prepared if I ever end up in a tense political dispute with a local lord
Flexibility is important, because you have to adapt to the situation you're in. As such you should never be dominant (or submissive) all of the time.
For example, if you're attending a meeting there's no point in posturing and dominating the room when someone else in on as speaker and you're supposed to listen. However, when it's your turn to present as per the agenda, by all means step into your dominance.
Any sane person will shift in and out of dominance and submission during the day as each moment requires.
When it comes to seduction the statistically sound strategy to put forth as a fairly normal man is to step into dominance, because *most* women like a confident, dominant man.
Turning your back on someone like Geralt does is more than confidence, which is why I call it dominance. Sometimes a less than optimal approach with your boss :)
@@hrvad No, most women do NOT like a dominant man. Hell no! Confident yes, but not dominant.
@@elizabethcsicsery-ronay1633, I agree, someone they can relax around because they trust their decision making, but who isn't too insecure or distrusting to let go of the wheel.
@@elizabethcsicsery-ronay1633 no. YOU don’t like a dominant man. Stop generalizing. I know many women and men who like dominant personalities
@@morgantorium that’s more acceptable then her statement.
Words are spells. The powerful people know that. Lying is to cause harm to oneself. When you constantly look inward to align with your true self speech and movements are slower. It is very refreshing to meet such an individual in person. I felt you are not fully understanding this one but great channel neverthless.
Cool words :) It is written, it is good.
That, and Always Say Less Than Necessary.
Silence should say more than your words ever could.
So when you speak, people will listen.
@@AlexGreeneHypnotist Silent breaks in between sentences also allows the other party to digest what you just said.
Words are spells on women, specifically. There's many more ways to influence people, and tangible methods are often more effective. But there's a place for them all, even the unsaid. Humans take 80% of environmental information from their eyes, and in social situations, sight tells more about people than their words will usually answer.
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Slow languid movements is how I get out of bed everyday.
Actually I'm feeling so confident, I'll just stay in bed.
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Omg 🤣
😂
Are you a Gemini?
@@sanjayw9878 yep
I actually tried to start delaying my speech, slowing my reactions and blinking slower and that I think is why the company shrink came to visit our department for a wellness check.
😂😂😂
Because you dominated every other worker and they have PTSD
lmfaoooo 😭😭😭😭
Lol
bro thats too funny 😭
"Move slowly and languidly..." I don't know, Geralt drinks a lot of potions. I think he might just be stoned...
"Move like a predator"
*Grows neckbeard and puts on fedora*
I was looking forward to this comment xDDD
And a Trenchcoat?
*becomes a discord mod*
*Becomes Reddit admin*
Starts pushing for kink and kids at pride.
Great video! My *summary* of the 4 ways Geralt of Rivia demonstrates confidence:
1. Geralt has slow, languid movements.
○ Deep confidence is about being able to move at a pace that is self-determined rather than environmentally determined
○ Animal kingdom analogy
○ Predator movements = slow and languid; nothing to be afraid of; comfortably energized
□ If you get too lethargic, energize yourself with a stretch or quick breaths
○ Prey movements = herky-jerky; in constant anticipation of danger
□ If this happens, take a deep breath and open your body language to slow down
2. Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others.
a. Animal kingdom: sign that something is unthreatening / unimportant
i. Only predators can afford that
b. Caution: That will make the other person feel unimportant (to you)!
3. Confident people can afford to handicap themselves. ("Handicap principle")
a. Animal example: male peacock's feathers -> no other purpose than look sexy
b. Example: Say something that might hurt your reputation -> ppl assume you must be strong enough not to need people to like you -> you come across as confident & more likeable
c. How to implement that in everday life? Be less socially calculating and instead more honest in your self-expression, e. g. about your geeky hobbies.
4. Geralt is extremely non-reactive
a. The ability to have a sturdy/resilient emotional center = key creator/indicator of confidence
b. Low reactivity signifies you can handle whatever (stressor, problem etc.) life throws at you
c. Animal kingdom: strong emotional mastery can trump physical strength in dominance battles
d. It's important to recognize your specific emotional triggers; make a list proactively
e. However, that doesn't mean swallowing your emotions; have the courage to be vulnerabe
• What you want is unshakable deep confidence -> the rest (body language etc.) will follow naturally
My man
Nice
Thx man
Nice one bruv
Thank you
Honestly I love the phsycology behind emotions and scenes in movies, it’s so fascinating
I am the most confident man alive, someone asked me what time it was and it took me about an hour before I had replied.
Of course, by the time I answered the time given was incorrect, nevertheless, everyone in the room congratulated my confidence in not being afraid of being wrong.
😂😂
LOL, reminds me of few guys who took slow moving a bit too far. 😅
"And then everyone stood up and clapped
"
🤣
epi-tome of hyper-bole
Ok having a yellow eye is sign of confidence right?
lopese no. It’s a sign of jaundice.
Or liver disease
lopese Jaundice here I come!
Siths are all confident...thats how Palp wins after all
Lmao, that's what I was thinking
"Move like a predator."
Buys an old Chevy van and writes "Free Candy" on the side.
You mean free WiFi
LMAO
The deep breathing whenever anxiety starts to rev up really is a game changer, whenever I’m in a situation that trigger it, I always take a deep breath, and make an effort to do the opposite of what my anxiety wants - I speak and move slowly and goal oriented, keep my language simple and to the point, I lower the pitch of my voice. I have no problem with people seeing that I’m affected by the situation and that my demeanor change, but slowing down usually resets things, and builds a foundation for an anxiety free interaction from that point on! I’ve also found simply asking myself “why?” can snap me out of negative thought spirals:)
True
Sounds like you should make a RUclips channel.
No I'm not being sarcastic.
Razi Ismail Wow, that’s an amazing compliment, I’m really flattered, thank you! And I’m not being sarcastic either:p
its in words
@Sam I am Not necessarily slow, but relaxed.
Your body language is a reflection of how you're feeling on the inside - focus on building core confidence and self-esteem and the body language will come naturally! But you definitely can learn body language and use it to build confidence from the outside in💪
Fake it until you make it.
@@KizaWittaker Both methods work. In fact, both methods can be employed and build off of each other. Think of it like compounding interest - The small improvements in one (internal or external) reinforce the other and vice-versa.
Not feeling confident inside? employ some fake outside confidence and your inside will calm.
Your comment caught my attention and just subscribed to your channel. Looking forward to learning more.
Yeah ur right but the opposite is also true, if you change your body language it will also impact and affect your emotions and beliefs aka how you feel inside
Michael Dennis you are absolutely right 🙏🏻 preach
All of these tips are great, but being incredibly fit and well trained in combat will almost definitely boost your natural confidence the most.
Mos def
And give a type of look and movement that conveys such.
But then the bluff is no longer a bluff, so...
"Zebras are unimportant."
*Zebras would like to know your location*
Zebras are damn scary
@@taigerus4418 only in a stampede.
@@seldonwright4345 bruh, have you seen zebra's Killing their own?
@@taigerus4418 nope but not surprised
Theendman why? So they can stare at him drinking water from the watering hole? Lol
my friend - “hey i think im suffering from depression”
me- slowly turns my back and slowly walks away”
Ahaha
Ha
"The prey that acts like a predator gets eaten": Sun Tzu, probably
"Fake it till you make it":the prey, probably
"the prey that acts like prey will definitely get eaten" predator, probably
@@tellitlikeitis8691 I'm picturing in my head gazelle being hunted by lions, and I'm pretty certain the gazelle that keep their eyes on the lions and run away as a tight pack are less likely to be eaten than the gazelle that takes its sweet time ambling about confidently and turning its back on the lions!
Did Sun Tzu write THE ART OF WAR?
😈😎😇
@@patrickreynolds5463 Yeah no debate there, but there are certain prey that choose to fight instead of run and sometimes manage to be successful, especially when together.
Girlfriend: .... I'm pregnant ....
Me: *stares at her for 12 seconds, turns back and walks away confidently*
Bruh ...lmao
*Golf Clap*
Lmao a little before covid I used to behave like that.
Gotta say, you get less things done, but you always look like a badass in every situation
😂😂
"Wind's howling"
Start doing this: *turns your eyes to satanic yellow*
The ultimate power move
Is that why everyone loves anakin 🤔
Their cool though.
Should be more like cat yellow than satanic yellow
Use the force Luke
The peacock’s huge tail does protect it. I’ve seen predators try to get them and they always end up with a mouthful of huge feathers. During nesting season, the males will deliberately scream at the slightest disturbance in order to draw any predators away from the plain looking female on the nest. Their huge bright tail also helps with this diversion.
How to instantly look more confident: be incredibly good looking your entire life
Actually looks don't outweigh a confident and charismatic nature and personality
If you're talking about Henry, he was a former fat kid.
I think your mental game plays a big roll on good looks since you got all that muscle everywhere and the magic thing is, muscles get controlled by brain.
@@irov5884 “good looking eye balls” lmao
@@AlbinoKneecaps I meant ocular arches. The more they have depth the more it's masculine
Love how the majority of critic's hated the acting of this show. Little do they know he nailed Geralt of Rivia. The acting was flawless.
Nobody hated Henry's acting...
Literally the only good thing about the show.
What critics hated this?! Have they even played The Witcher game? Henry Cavill IS the living embodiment of Geralt. I can't believe HOW PERFECT a match it was; and his voice, jeez, flawless.
@@jerrievans3997 I haven't completely played the game and when I saw him act . I can definitely say , "Yeah that's definitely Geralt"
This is better than house of dragons I think
Don’t be the guy that “looks” confident but folds when he’s needed…. Actually get confident from getting better at everything you can. Working out is a huge help for everybody as well.
Good advice. Confidence comes from competence.
Straightening up the body with retracted shoulders makes immediate difference in how others treat you.
Especially if you add a slow and present gait to the package.
When I need to get somewhere I usually just walk there (“with a purpose” as my dad always said) and don’t pay attention to other people.
@Corsafire we're usually short on time because we don't prepare well. If I plan the day beforehand, I have time for spontaneity.
If I were to see someone doing that, I'd have trouble holding back laughter :))
@Corsafire Just seem like you are going at your own speed, a carefree purposeful movement.
and a couple of swords
Yeah, I'd look and feel more confident too if I had that jawline.
people here are delusional right . thinking if an ugly guy acts like him girls swoon over him
Stop projecting your insecurities like that...
The bit at 6:40 made me laugh. That whole point is heavily dependant on the perception that others have of you to begin with. I can honestly say that anyone (outside of my friends group) has never responded positively about my gaming hobby. Especially not women. Worse yet, they often make an effort to reply how boring games/computers are.
@@hkr667 it's about the way you say it, every women I told that I'm playing games immediately followed up with a question among the lines what I'm playing
Azor Ahai it’s obvious a guy like Henry Cavill doesn’t need to do much to be taken as attractive. But I can say as a female, I have been deeply attracted to many “physically ugly” men in the past because they had those confident characteristics. So if you are a man reading this, I can guarantee you that confidence is key to attract women
"Sturdy emotional center" - very beautifully said, a good thought to affirm once in a while.
People admire and find comfort in someone who is strong and impassible like a rock amongst the waves of the sea
Lao Tsu says to be like water...
People admire and find comfort in good people.
Nope. Young people find them really boring. Unless they happen to be very good looking. But even then after a while they become boring because they dont do anything.
A cool man in a storm. Someone like real life astronauts Neil Armstrong or Jim Lovell. Or, in fiction, a cool , calm and collected individual like James Bond.
A cool man in a storm. Someone like real life astronauts Neil Armstrong or Jim Lovell. Or, in fiction, a cool , calm and collected individual like James Bond.
Step 1: Get hair as Geralt
Step 2: Get jawline as Geralt
Step 3: Everything else portrayed in this video
Paul Giamatti can do it. So can you.
Geralt? Sorry, never saw GOT. I thought it was Brock Samson.
Don't forget the really big sword
thank goodness for jaw implants right
Step 4: be 6’ tall, broad shouldered with a good face and full head of hair
4:22 The peacock's feathers have over a hundred eye's on it which is quite distracting for a predator and may confuse it causing an attack to miss it's target. Same goes for some butterflies or fish which also deceive by faking the position of the head guiding an attack to the rear of the animal.
the kinds of predators big enough to hunt an adult male peacock are not intimidated by feathers. we're talking about big cats and stray dog packs.
@@OmarSlloum
What is the peacock theory?
Why does the peacock have such a beautiful tail? Darwin's theory of sexual selection says that nature's extravagances -- like the peacock's tail -- are advantages in the mating game.
Darwin later said...“The sight of a feather in a peacock's tail, whenever I gaze at it, makes me sick!” wrote Charles Darwin in 1860, just a year after the publication of The Origin of Species.
The intense detail is not at all necessary for mating, and his theory had no reasons why, it was that way.
Not just for confidence, but overall posture health, always have your shoulder blades retracted with your chest out. And keep your head up when walking, I used to always look down while walking and that only caused neck pain.
You poor bastard
A good way to do this is to do a posture exersise
I found this was much easier after adopting a heavy regular back workout.
To begin with I was focusing on holding good form under heavy load, but its carried over into my general posture.
Yeah, I heard about this advice before and implemented it.
Since then, I've stepped into poo several times and I decided that I rather prefer to look week than to clean my shoes every other day :P
@@tonito7175 your eyes move independently, look down perhaps?
This reminds me of 'butch walking'.
In a famous study, muggers in prison were shown videos of people in streets and asked about who would they would select victims. It turns out that how people walked was more important that how wealthy they looked. People with a timid hunched gait were likely to be selected as victims. People with an upright posture and a strong 'butch walk' were not.
Only people who grew up in the hood know this. That and sociopaths.
Love this! Reminds me of Robin Williams trying to teach Nathan Lane how to "walk like a man" in The Birdcage.😅😂
Yep and don't look down and avoid people. Look up and around
@@JimmyLeeJr ppl who grew up in the hood can take one look at you and know your life story 🤣🤣 it's amazing
@@Noctua8 like da sayin “it takes 1 to know 1” gangstas can pick up on other gangstas cause it’s certain traits u develops by livin in dat environment
It helps that Geralt has the ability to kill just about anyone in the kingdoms, and that Henry (and subsequently Geralt) is not only taller than most, stronger than most he is aslo far better looking then most. I'm sure those qualities help.
That discription reminds me of the narcissistic bad guy in 'Beauty and the Beast!'
Five pre-schoolers in the other room can't be wrong. They watch it once or twice a week!
Instructions unclear: Slayed a whole village of men and grew God hair
I thought you'd say : She got pregnant
What was I to do? They attacked me... - (and it made no sense for them to do so, because their leader wanted my help...)
Did your eyes turn yellow.. Still waiting a month after my 2nd attempt.
@@Dr.Hoffman its vague in my eyes but patience is key
I don't see a problem here
Tip 1: have yellow eyes
Tip 2: Be Henry Cavill
Senor Studly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tip 1: Be your own Cavill
@@Krobelux Deep! 👍
Scratch the first one, you can have green or blue ones
henry cavill can tank, thats my argument
I recently had a confrontation at work with someone who considers themselves important in the area. Since I have no intention of getting into physical fights at this job, I simply approached him and took a relaxed posture (leaning on the counter) and never raised my voice above conversational tone and volume. I maintained direct eye contact, deflected all verbal attempts at provocation, and seemed practically dismissive. He considered himself someone to be feared/respected and in me, he found someone who calmly and solidly challenged him. The attention of all this has been interesting, as he has never followed up on his words and has had conversations with multiple people who told him he was essentially in the wrong. He's still mad, but won't do anything about it, so far.
Mom: “why didn’t you do the damn dishes?!”
Me: *waits 7 seconds to assert dominance*
(Edit) I’m just waking up, heaven looks cool
Hey you you're finally awake, got caught arguing with your mom, aye?
@@daygenhall6126 do you mean, her brown eye???😁
@@gil-juniorriseabovebetraya5972 he meant "Aye", which means yes.
If you did that to your mom…I think you actually woke up in the depths of hell.
*about to voluntarily do dishes*
mother: "do the dishes"
sigma male: "nah"
How to look more confident: look like Henry Cavill.
Lots of average looking guys with confidence..
Lots of good looking guys without it.
Hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com..
Those books are really good.. it's all about mindset.
@@DoverAthletic10 yeah I know, I was just having a joke.
@@mtbrapture1890 forget your r/whoosh and just go to the dudes website link. Ya pig 😉
Just get plastic surgery. It will fix all your confidence problems. Not.
You can improve your looks without plastic surgery. Search a RUclips channel named "Brawny King Fitness". It has a video on getting a lean face. Watch it. It works, trust me
I had this predator-like confidence for years, but army boosted it much more. Now I intimidate people.
Also this handicap principle was new to me, I like it and will practice it.
Watching this has given me some insight into how I unconsciously changed my demeanor after I went through PTSD therapy.
People started treating me with much more respect, abusive gf lost power and parted ways, new gf was absolutely enamoured with me and thought I was the best thing since cider was invented (she loves cider).
There you go. 🤘
Champ😎
Love it!!!
I am happy for your happiness. 😊
Legend 🙏 keep it up! You got this 💪😎
I'm a millennial myself and I wish more millennials took heed to this advice to avoid being quick to anger and quick to trigger. Not only that, but I believe now is the time to look inwardly for answers more often instead of allowing external elements to make you into a person who'll never find real purpose in life.
Good insight friend.
Quick to anger is a child like response to being immature every generation feels more and more like everything should be given to them and they dont knoe anything about hard work sacrifice and honesty
Either they figure out by 30 or they don't.
To millennials, the answer is always for someone else to do it.
I'm a GenXer and have lived by "now is the time to look inwardly for answers more often instead of allowing external elements..." my whole life. I've never understood other people's need for outside validation, the way people do today. People need to stop caring what other people think and do and start thinking and doing for themselves.
I think this is one of your best videos. Some of your older stuff falls into the common pitfall of 'this works, so do this'... but this one actually considers 'just because it works... does that make it ethical?' That raised my estimations of your (already very good) channel considerably.
How to be confident
Step 1: Go to Kaer Morhen
Step 2: Undergo the extremely dangerous and deadly Trial of the Grasses to transform into a Witcher receiving enhanced strength, speed, senses and more
Step 3: If you survive that (which you more than likely won't) begin your training that will last years in combat, magic and studying the plethora of different dangers the world has to offer from some of the greatest and wisest warriors alive
Step 4: Go out into the world and slowly become famous for slaying extremely dangerous monsters all over the world
Step 5: get mad sorcerer pus
Oh, and be Henry Cavill
Confidence 100
Girl I just met: "So how's it going?"
Me after watching this video: "......wind's howling."
Beautiful way of saying you just farted & confidently don't care about her being airborne-poisoned
@@eldritchmorgasm4018 Omfg I woke the toddler trying to contain my laugh at that comment!
@@j0nkan I guess that's a "good" thing... from a certain point of view 😅
"How do you like that silver?"
"Might wanna look around some."
Good stuff. Importance of being “grounded.” Latin word for “ground” is “Hum.” To be “Humble” is to be well-grounded - which typically generates natural confidence.
“Move like a predator”
Me: *proceeds to go to girls house
Chris Hanson: take a seat
😂😂😂😂
🤣
It did make me laugh out loud
Hilarious
🤣
That thumbnail is like: “Step one: wear yellow contact lenses“
I see a couple of comments from a while ago, kind of poking fun at these concepts. Although harmless, I do want to say how true these concepts are. This channel is the real deal.
Impala watching this video: "I need to move slower and less jerky."
(immediately eaten by a lion)
Geralt is also a seasoned meditator. Those slow movements and non reactivity can definitely in part be attributed to that.
And if you are wounded you can just meditate and you will be healed. It is complete magic! Apply that instead of looking for a doctor or food.
Meditation can certainly help... BUT there's a lot to be said about what you focus meditation upon, while ridding your mind of "useless monkey chatter". There's a point where embracing an emptiness has to be replaced with refined focus and rumination, or you short-change yourself for the benefits you could experience.
There's also more benefits from a practiced meditation, rather than simply quiet meditation. Practices like Yoga, or Tai Chi will enhance your balance and coordination while you meditate, making the slowed deliberate motions more natural to your body and easier to carry on naturally, too.
It is a kind of pity, that a lot of people aren't even aware that Tai Chi and Yoga were meant as a form of meditation practice... not just a series of stretches and "old people's martial arts" exercise... BUT such is life. AND no, you don't necessarily have to work through the prescribed sets according to one or another school... Simply adopting the philosophy and finding your own way can be a benefit. Obviously, if it's available to you, getting some direction (from a qualified teacher) has it's own benefits. I wouldn't discourage it. At the same time, "you gotta start somewhere". ;o)
gnarth d'arkanen i agree
I've been learning so much on this channel. As a person and as a writer.
Guys, tommorow I have a job interview. Gonna try to use this. Wish me luck
You got this!!
Answer every question with, "Hmm." Good luck
Tell us how it goes bro!!
Just came back. It went pretty good I think. Im gonna hear from them in a couple of days, so I'm gonna update you when they contact me. Thanks for the support!
@@zbanowanynalesnik good luck!
An example of handicapping yourself, James Bond's signature introduction "My name is Bond, James Bond" is his way of boldly announcing his real identity. He is so good, he doesn't need a cover.
I've always used this in Gym, to me it comes very naturally, and I've seen the magic of this trick, it literally works.
"Move like a predator"
Chris Hansen: Hello Geralt, why don't you take a seat?
Geralt: WE WERE JUST GONNA HANGOUT I SWEAR!!!
But you see how this looks like...!?
I was just trying to get to the beach
GERALT MADE ME DO IT
thumbnail: move like a predator
me: gets on all fours
😆 - wait, what abaut the lion that runs away from that tribe ?
🤣
That was easy. Usually I’d have to buy you dinner before we get to this point **unzips pants**
@@CommanderShepard-wq3wo I'll get the other side mmmk.
Furvert
Everybody walk the dinosaur
Rewatching the Witcher now i all noticed these traits too, but i would also add that Geralt is able to see trough the lies and deduce the true intentions of the people he meets that want something from him and calls them out which in turn leads to those people revealing what really happened and being honest. This is probably from experiences of being betrayed and learning from it or just basic knowlegde of human nature.
Id imagine the most unconfident thing you could do is worry about how confident you appear.
yet here you are
@@Gevaudan1471 you say that like i searched for it.
Although true. There is something that is called "fake it till you make it" i also faked confidence. But eventually it becomes reall confidence.
RUclips videos like this are for insecure men. Just dislike it so the algorithm doesn't shove this content down your throat. Channels like this use popular tags like THE WITCHER NETFLIX to get views.
@@ruleaus7664 Yes. 100% true, and as a insecure little 16 year old you learn that by first faking confidence. Seeing how people react more positivly to you that way, and then once it becomes real confidence you start noticing what you are lacking and how you can improve.
Standing with your back straight has helped me significantly!
Geralt actually has a lore reason to move in small very pronounced movements. When a Witcher takes potions, his speed may even double to his normal dancing swordplay. Therefor, he's trying to make it normal that people can see him move slowly. Obviously Geralt's faster then this, but it is very much something he does.
Charisma on command uploads a video about Geralt of Rivia:
Me: HMMM...
Denis Kasperovich 😏
Me: yummy...immediately clicked
The slow-blinking is probably related to the contact lenses he's wearing. When I wear mine I blink much less frequently and less quickly, too.
True, when you are Henry Cavil, anything you do is a alpha trait, even stop blinking because lenses hurt.
Slow blinking is recognized as being calm thou. Anxious people blink more often.
*cries in borderline dry eye.* I blink often, and quick because my eyes aren't moist enough or I'm constantly bringing out the eye drops.
So to be confident one needs contacts, regardless if its a necessaty or not 😂
Ha
One of the suggestions is to acknowledge another as to bring them into the conversation. Nice dance technique. In a diff video of yours it says give the person you are talking with your attention to make them feel important. Display confidence by bring in another to conversation or choose to have the person in your conversation like you. It is all about situational awareness in interpersonnal interactions
0:47 Picking dialogue options be like
kek
Agree. Regarding the 3rd point: Just today I went jogging with my dad. At the end he said: You are in great shape now, right? As he just saw me jogging way more distance in less time than Im used to. I said: No, not yet anyway. He nodded in silence and smiled at me. For one second I felt powerful and I knew I could not gain that kind of respect If i had answered something like: Yes, I know or Yeah, im in awesome shape.
Or he just felt that you had a angry tone and he didnt want to upset you any further. Plenty of ways you can view that interraction.
Something pretty similar happened to me today. My dad basically asked me "How are you holding up ?" I felt great but sensed it was not the adequate answer and said "I'm on cruise control and I maintain it". I really felt powerful too, even though it was not the most positive answer one could hope to hear.
Bro.
Aww
Don’t forget Geralt is in great shape. This permeates into all other aspects of life. Getting in shape should be step number one to being confident lol
He moves slow because he carry all those coints, have you ever try running with change in your pocket?
🤣🤣
Yeah. All those COINTS boiiii. I have alot of COINTS
The goal is not to look confident,
IT'S ABOUT BEING CONFIDENT...
But you gotta fake it at first while you're self DEVELOPING and eventually you'll 100% gain the true confidence when you start making good money, improving your lifestyle,social skills, and physique. The problem with people this generation is instant gratification, Gary Vee preaches it all the time, TRUST AND LOVE THE PROCESS/GRIND
Yes 1000%, 2 replies above me are correct. All about faking it till you make it.
yesss
It's a good thing point, but if you ARE confident, but are lacking body language that displays said confidence in the best possible light, you aren't taking full advantage of the influence you could be commanding.
Thing is. It doesn't work unless you can back it up. Any confident person will hold you to it to see if you're bluffing. Fake it doesn't work. Facing it, does.
Being conformable in your own skin, being authentic, lends itself to a confident appearance.
Henry Cavill seems like a good guy. Glad he played Geralt he did good.
8:56
Lion: *wait that's Illegal*
Humans are the worst! 😂
I agree. Henry Cavill and Geralt have amazing body language...his body speaks volumes.
You also have to be tall and muscular. Imagine some skinny short guy doing these things, it wouldn't work. A large part of Henry's dominance is the fact that he's tall and muscular. Physicality is EXTREMELY important
It's true. Having a strong physique usually gives a more powerful impression. But you can get it by eating properly and working out. Even if you're not tall, you can still be buff and attractive.
There are small people with a crazy charisma though. A lot of it is in the facial expression and posture. I can only imagine that this sort of confidence would be harder to have if you feel inadequate due to your body size. But it is definitively possible.
@@Markenjiru That's true.
@@Markenjiru like Tom Cruise
Small people can be (and have been) dominant and confident. The difference is that small people have to be even more confident and dominant in order to make up for lack of height. Examples are Tom Cruise, Kevin Hart, Al Pacino and Joe Pesci.
Lol no lie when that gorilla ran up on him and didn’t flinch I was like wtf😂😂 I just need to watch that one clip twice a day
Do you have a link to the gorilla documentary?
lol it never gets old
That's how it looks when you practice your correct philosophy. Evolutionary psychology is real.
It is a bit sad, that you have 5 million followers but you've got "only" 5000 clients. Great videos. Thank you so much!
I love how you compared Geralt to animals. Shows how beastly and spot-on the tv series truly is
Fantastic, I think some of these are natural to Henry Cavill too, he has some similar behaviours as Superman too
That character is also extremely powerful and confident.
This whole channel is hysterical
I feel like Adam Driver is a good example of these actions and also proves that you don't have to look like a god to still come across as confident and be attractive. He seems to have very sure, powerful movements which I image probably comes from his time as a marine. He also tends to not answer questions very quickly, he takes his time to make sure he says what he wants to say. A lot of guys seem to not be able to figure out why so many women go crazy for Adam Driver but I think it has to do with how he carries himself and the quiet confidence he projects, making us prefer him over a lot of "classically handsome" guys.
true, yet he is still above average in looks
These videos actually have helped me, I never thought they would.
Henry even pulled out the black stone fortress from 40k on the witchercon. He is not afraid of showing his hobbies with enthusiasm
How to move like a predator: Go to nearest playground and observe
Underrated comment lol
Yes officer, this man right here
What the hell.
Had to think about it. I started chocking with i got it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Can anyone explain? I did not get it.
@@pavankumar-nb9bx he made a joke about child predators, people who prey on vulnerable children
Early af boy. Toss a coin to your Charismitcher.
🎶Oh valley of clickbaiiit🎶×2
Using the Witcher show to illustrate the points you're making is a very interesting but effective angle for this video. ...Very cool video.
Your predator/prey comparison has been extremely helpful! I want to thank you for sharing that comparison!
I was thinking about how confident people can afford to handicap themselves. I'd love to get some feedback but it feels like people who overly handicap themselves, over-share, or handicap themselves in improper social situations don't demonstrate confidence but rather over-comfortablility with the people they're around.
The point is, you need to be able to be effective at whatever you strive for, even if you handicap yourself. As long as this is achieved it, people will take it as confidence.
People who over handicap themselves usually aren´t effective.
The point is to reach your goal, as long as you manage that, people don´t take it in a negative manner.
It all depends on the situation and how you handicap yourself. It is one thing to tell a funny story and put yourself as the target of a joke - self irony. It is a totally different beer, to start describing all your red flags and laugh about it.
I usually use self irony a lot. People tend to react positively to it (granted they are not a total lost cause and cannot tell whether I am joking or am being serious).
I have met a person who simply started listing how big of failure and psycho he was, 10 minutes into the conversation.
You might say he was over handicapping himself, but in reality he is simply not reading the situation properly and does himself a disservice. There is nothing wrong with handicapping yourself as much as you want, but as the video mentioned, you have to seem stronger despite your handicap. Listing your red flags does not do that for you. For example, if you say "I went to a therapist and we found out I am simply an alcoholic. Hahaha! What is a person to do when he has fun with a good company!? Cheers!" - shooting yourself in the foot. On the other hand if you say, "I used to drink a lot in the past. I have recently discovered, with the help of my therapist, that I was a low-key alcoholic. I am currently working on changing this. Only one beer for tonight, though - I am in a good company! Cheers!" - handicapping yourself, but you seem strong for trying to change your problem.
Just be honest. If someone catches you on mistake, let them. If someone assumes that you've archived something you didn't, correct them. If someone (all of that can be woman) outdoes you in smth, don't get envy, angry or competitive. Congratulate them, I guess. Such things don't hurt your identity. Well, they shouldn't.
@@leolegendary3275 thanks man. That's a really cool distinction
9:30 this is the biggest issue I have. Reactivity. I hate to use the term “empath “ as it is overused, but I will say I’m very sensitive to the emotions of others. So much so that I will react almost indefinitely. Biggest hurdle to overcome 100%
"DON'T TURN YOUR BACK ON ME, SCAR!"
You just need to learn the smoldering intensity skill.
1. 0:30 Geralt has slow languid movements
2. 2:37 Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others
3. 4:02 Confident people can afford to handicap themselves
4. 7:10 Geralt is extremely non-reactive
Seing thumbnail now: hmm he probably will talk about confidence and eye contact
12yr old me: This is how you get the SHARINGAN