Woman Realizes Why Males Don't Deserve Anything After Trying to Treat Her Man Like a King

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Комментарии • 357

  • @serenesrn3827
    @serenesrn3827 19 дней назад +321

    She will learn . Men don’t value what they don’t invest in .

    • @reginayfavors
      @reginayfavors 19 дней назад +72

      And men don't respect women who help them. I'm done.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +2

      Most men don't respect women.

    • @mimi42428
      @mimi42428 19 дней назад +32

      Stop it
      He won't even value her even if he invested in her. He is very entitled

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 19 дней назад +16

      @@reginayfavors They don’t respect women right now period. I don’t know what’s going on but guys have never been this vocal about their awful thoughts before, and I’d like to believe their awful thoughts have never been this bad.

    • @Handle70770
      @Handle70770 19 дней назад +35

      @@Calle.Hutch.. I promise you they were, they’re just vocalizing them now. And it’s a really good thing, I would hate to get in a relationship with somebody who wait years to have that vulgarity come out. Stop acting like it never was like that before when it was for generations. we just don’t let that shi fly anymore.

  • @blacknbougie8021
    @blacknbougie8021 19 дней назад +336

    She's shown him that he's the prize & he believes her 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @MsTemptation
      @MsTemptation 19 дней назад +29

      This statement exactly. I honestly don’t know why she bothered recording this outside of looking for validation.
      If that’s her ideal relationship to support her mates sprinkle sprinkled mindset then so be it.
      You can’t save all women if anything I just hope that they don’t have children, because no child deserves parents like them.

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +39

      @@blacknbougie8021 Absolutely. Women like her are why the bar is in hell and males are running around expecting the princess treatment 🥴

    • @decoraqueena6413
      @decoraqueena6413 19 дней назад +18

      He's in he's drizzle drizzle era 😂

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад +2

      ​@@ImaniForester why shouldn't men expect decent treatment?

    • @Smw006
      @Smw006 17 дней назад +6

      ​@@christopherbrown5409they aren't decent.

  • @isabella09dr
    @isabella09dr 19 дней назад +348

    Licking his fingers and making loud lip smacking sounds, dressing like hobo to a nice restaurant, not saying "thank you" for the kind gesture...what in the heck? What barnyard did this lady drag this man from? Smh. Not the life for me. I'm only treating MYSELF and best believe I will look in the mirror and be goddamn grateful to ME.

    • @Hi-Phi
      @Hi-Phi 19 дней назад +29

      Who wears tracksuit pants to a nice restaurant? Smh.

    • @tanyadru1484
      @tanyadru1484 19 дней назад +11

      Gurlll I heard fiance

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +2

      That isn't a nice Restaurant.
      It looks Dell and cheap.

    • @HaughtyHedonist
      @HaughtyHedonist 19 дней назад +20

      I Recently Kicked A Dude To The Curb, One Of The Reasons Being He Had The Nerve To Dress Like A Hobo While Running Late 🤦🏾‍♀️ Never Again Chile!

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +11

      @@isabella09dr that's what I'm saying! smh Thanks for watching 💜

  • @sourcandydoll
    @sourcandydoll 19 дней назад +343

    Some pickmes sadly can't be saved.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles 19 дней назад +33

      A lot of them don’t want to be saved or don’t think they need to be saved.

    • @sourcandydoll
      @sourcandydoll 19 дней назад +14

      @@so.many.obstacles period 💯

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +10

      @@sourcandydoll yup!

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 18 дней назад +5

      Nope

    • @jazshgs
      @jazshgs 18 дней назад

      As an Ex pick me (who never brought other women down. I was just desperately looking for a man) These men want submissive women and when they find one, they don’t want her and treat her like shit. They want the independent baddies and domesticate them and then they’ll fail and call all women gold diggers and h*es.
      So to all my ladies out there: The more you treat men like trash the more they’ll worship you.
      Put yourself first and be selfish and NEVER put your life on hold for them. You will regret it! They don’t appreciate it. A man is not a retirement plan and you should always have a back up plan cause these men are volatile.

  • @reesespieces4725
    @reesespieces4725 19 дней назад +303

    He likes the food, it’s her he doesn’t like. 🤷‍♀️

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 19 дней назад +27

      She could always walk away without picking up the cheque.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +53

      It's disgusting how he liks his Fingers. Like a Caveman

    • @KoreForever
      @KoreForever 19 дней назад +40

      He really wishes it was another woman

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +26

      @@reesespieces4725 omg yes! you clocked it 💯

    • @foreverblessed475
      @foreverblessed475 19 дней назад

      men will only accept what they want from the women they want

  • @Pro-skie
    @Pro-skie 19 дней назад +190

    He's just not that into her, "she dragged him out."

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +14

      @@Pro-skie omg 💯

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 19 дней назад +27

      He sounds & acts like a 3 year old. I got dragged here. Licks fingers, lipsmacks...😢

    • @Pro-skie
      @Pro-skie 18 дней назад +7

      @@beewest5704 exactly! He was picking his fingers while complaining. That's a turn off.

    • @moonlightstargem1006
      @moonlightstargem1006 18 дней назад +8

      That seems to be a lot of men. A lot of men are not into women

    • @Pro-skie
      @Pro-skie 18 дней назад +3

      @moonlightstargem1006 thays why you have to move around and leave them alone. I'm personally over it. Totally over trying to teach someine how to be a good person.

  • @heneverforesakesme4038
    @heneverforesakesme4038 19 дней назад +194

    A different perspective: I bet she looks flawless and put so much time into herself and he looks like he came in off the street, straight out of a cardboard tent. Ladies, I want you to please pay attention. If you go out on a date and that man shows up looking like a garbage dumpster, don't EVEN entertain him. He doesn't care about you. A man that cares, is going to clean up, every single time. Leave, turn around and LEAVE.

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 19 дней назад +17

      💯 this!

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +32

      Don't date. It's not worth it.
      Better have a good time with female friends.

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 19 дней назад +19

      That is just straight up child behavior, no grown adult acts like that man or woman, I am astounded.

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +11

      @@heneverforesakesme4038 great advice 😊

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 16 дней назад

      @@heneverforesakesme4038 Please leave!

  • @lf3554
    @lf3554 19 дней назад +68

    when the divorce comes, then they act all shocked!

  • @DreamBelieved
    @DreamBelieved 19 дней назад +74

    I let a guy THINK he was getting the princess treatment. I watched him feel sneaky and smug as I bought him and my kids food. It was a total turn off. I didn't want to fight or argue, I just let him feel spoiled and in control. He was stunned when he got cut off, seemingly out of nowhere lol

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад +4

      Why does basic kindness get called "the princess treatment"?

    • @gracefulgardenia7713
      @gracefulgardenia7713 18 дней назад +12

      Yeah the wicked sneaky grin that comes over there face when they mistake your genuineness for being a sucker.

    • @artlover3120
      @artlover3120 17 дней назад +12

      ​@@christopherbrown5409it's kindness when someone deserves it and is grateful for it But when they feel entitled, ungrateful and bratty then it's not!

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 16 дней назад

      @@DreamBelieved way to be direct in communication

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 16 дней назад

      @@DreamBelieved He probably wouldn’t have been a good baby daddy #3 anyways. Good for you 👏

  • @gcr1082
    @gcr1082 19 дней назад +111

    The Bible says don't cast your pearls to swine.

    • @BL8DM8N
      @BL8DM8N 18 дней назад

      you're really gonna sit here and cite the book that males constantly use to justify their abuse of women and children? please stop

  • @mizkomunikation9478
    @mizkomunikation9478 19 дней назад +51

    I just don’t understand women who put up with that kind of nonsense.

  • @mmxw2294
    @mmxw2294 19 дней назад +64

    It’s an abusive tactic to never give praise to never acknowledge the good in the person to never acknowledge anything they’re doing for you so that the person can continue to do more and more and more until they wear them self out and end up 🪦

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад

      Y'all do that to men all the time.

    • @RatetheDebate
      @RatetheDebate 18 дней назад +8

      @@christopherbrown5409She didn’t say this was something men do, she said it is an abusive tactic, so, something that abusers do. Men and women.

    • @food4thought692
      @food4thought692 18 дней назад +4

      @@RatetheDebate It’s a troll.

  • @diana-cy4kj
    @diana-cy4kj 19 дней назад +70

    Some women can’t be saved, unfortunately.

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 19 дней назад +7

      I believe they can if we can get it through that men are not really all that just for being men

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +4

      @@diana-cy4kj 😥 real.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 16 дней назад +1

      @@diana-cy4kj She don’t want to be saved.

  • @charlalee3859
    @charlalee3859 19 дней назад +79

    He's deserves McDonald's happy meals not nice dinners.

    • @ladosis5596
      @ladosis5596 19 дней назад +18

      Not even that. He can buy his own, lest he feels like " he's been dragged there"

    • @dhare07
      @dhare07 18 дней назад

      Raman. Paid for by his own coin.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 16 дней назад

      @@charlalee3859 Im glad you are not a judge. No one can really say what someone else does and does not deserve.

  • @truettadevil
    @truettadevil 19 дней назад +119

    Is this the German woman who married an "average Black man" and told Black women we were no competition??? 😂😂😂

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 19 дней назад +19

      😂

    • @sandrasteele976
      @sandrasteele976 19 дней назад +29

      surprised this comment wasn't deleted by RUclips.✊🏾😂

    • @nonaturalbornmalesallowed
      @nonaturalbornmalesallowed 19 дней назад +1

      ​@sandrasteele976 Why, because youtube has a political genda? Yes, yes it does.

    • @elenakalashnik
      @elenakalashnik 19 дней назад +8

      This 😂

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess 19 дней назад +19

      If she is, I don't feel sorry for her. She doesn't know her job is the clean up woman. Lol!

  • @knightyknight5399
    @knightyknight5399 19 дней назад +47

    Some women are addicted to PAIN!!!!🤔

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 19 дней назад

      Most humans are they like maltreatment

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +8

      @@knightyknight5399 True! Let's talk about it 👏🏽💯

    • @BL8DM8N
      @BL8DM8N 18 дней назад

      it's more like they've been groomed/brainwashed to accept it, tolerate it, and view it as normal. "boys will be boys", it begins from childhood.

    • @msliberated3899
      @msliberated3899 3 дня назад

      This!!!!

  • @darkvalkyrie5366
    @darkvalkyrie5366 18 дней назад +22

    Pickmes are the frontline guardians of patriarchy.

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 19 дней назад +106

    Also, call me a hater but I'm nearly never wrong about red flags from men who think they are the prize, Simone Biles needs to watch out.

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 19 дней назад +11

      A person acting like they’re the prize makes sense as a fun flirty kind of thing, but not when it actually gets down to a serious relationship. At that point it’s just weird.

    • @dhare07
      @dhare07 18 дней назад +18

      I wasn't gon say it but here it is. So many red flags. That dude doesn't like her and the media always hyping him up BECAUSE they're protecting HER image. Which if you think about is rare for BW. They know he's a bottom feeder. He said as much when he said the only reason he even paid her any attention was because of the number of followers she had. And she defended him. When a woman has to come to her mans defence on how he treats her, she's a lost cause. She still isn't able to see it yet. But I feel bad for her when she has no other choice but to see him for who he is. He really doesn't like her.

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад +2

      ​@@Calle.Hutch.. how does it make sense in ANY capacity?

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 17 дней назад

      @@christopherbrown5409 I mean like dressing up cute and putting yourself out there as someone that is desireable.

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 17 дней назад

      @Calle.Hutch.. you said THE prize, though, not A prize... how does one present themselves as THE prize?

  • @elalovatt2751
    @elalovatt2751 19 дней назад +40

    At this point, I don't feel bad for these women much any more. They clearly know they are being disrespected and embarrassed but they are never going to leave and will keep enabling his poor behaviour in the same way, they always have to get to this point.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 19 дней назад +6

      This

    • @stitches318
      @stitches318 18 дней назад +6

      Since women have a mothering instinct, they can confuse caring for someone for loving someone. They see someone who needs to be cared for and think love will come out of it the way it does with a child.

    • @gracefulgardenia7713
      @gracefulgardenia7713 18 дней назад

      @@stitches318 They need to slap themselves.

  • @CCBBAA1
    @CCBBAA1 19 дней назад +26

    If a woman acted like that, the dusty men would be all over her calling her ungrateful. Will they call out their own? **crickets** **locusts** **the rest of the plagues** **we all die waiting**

  • @teagoldleaf4137
    @teagoldleaf4137 19 дней назад +23

    We teach people how to treat us.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +8

      Our family tought us what Kind of behavior we have to accrpt. People from toxic dysfunctional families don't know that people Training them bad is unacceptable

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +4

      @@teagoldleaf4137 yes! 💯

  • @noonereally4798
    @noonereally4798 19 дней назад +130

    If it’s not his birthday you don’t need to buy him anything

  • @natcl9974
    @natcl9974 19 дней назад +40

    No man likes his woman treating him. I treated my ex with dinner because he was always taking me out, he didn’t act like this guy in the post but he did give a look that to this day I’ll never forget. I asked him what’s wrong and he shrugged and said you didn’t have to, and didn’t divulge any more than that. Years later, I tried to pay for my tab when I was out with a guy I dated years prior and he told me to never do that, that he “got it”… I just wanted to because I knew he had feelings for me and I wanted to let him know that nothing would happen between us, but even sending that kind of a message he hated it. Another man again didn’t like that I tried to pay, cut in front of me and whipped out his card so I wouldn’t pay. The only person that wanted me to pay was a man I had said I would not sleep with before we had dinner 😂

    • @Mindyhartwick
      @Mindyhartwick 18 дней назад +3

      Every once in a while I offer to pay for dinner when my boyfriend and I go out and his response is always "Are you sure?" I only offer because my last boyfriend seemed to be afraid that all women are gold diggers and I never want a guy to think that I just think of him as an ATM to pay for everything. It's like a balancing act. As a woman you want to be able to take care of yourself, but at the same time the man needs to feel like a man.

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад

      ​@Mindyhartwick the man needs to feel like a man because he's a man, not because he performs Acts ABC.

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад +1

      Speak for THOSE men, not ALL men.

    • @natcl9974
      @natcl9974 18 дней назад

      @@christopherbrown5409 so you like a woman buying you dinner and treating you? If so, are you contempt or appreciative?

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад

      @natcl9974 sure, from time to time, and appreciative; why?

  • @stilljocelyn_
    @stilljocelyn_ 19 дней назад +51

    I thought preferences got treated better?

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +15

      @@stilljocelyn_ Oop. 👀

    • @ladosis5596
      @ladosis5596 19 дней назад +11

      Nope! I'm a Latina and the harassment of the black male is global. In the country of Sweden , where cat calling and randomly approaching women in public places is not acceptable by women or men, I was harassed by black men (some African, some brits) on the bus and in the elevator. They are who they are

    • @cd6741
      @cd6741 18 дней назад +1

      THIS

    • @food4thought692
      @food4thought692 18 дней назад +1

      At first to trick you. Then it becomes the same thing.

  • @continuousself-improvement1879
    @continuousself-improvement1879 19 дней назад +19

    If she stays after that, it's on her.

  • @vibez8888
    @vibez8888 19 дней назад +53

    I could of told her to not do this! Never, because they will treat you like you’re worthless, because you don’t get that they want to be the one that earns and keep you. Women for some reason don’t get this.

    • @christopherbrown5409
      @christopherbrown5409 18 дней назад +1

      So you want to feel like a thing to be earned? A possession?

    • @vibez8888
      @vibez8888 18 дней назад +4

      @@christopherbrown5409 No. That’s just what works on men. I’m not necessarily saying be verbally mean to them, like saying belittling things, but being emotionally distant, allowing them to come towards. Im also not saying never do anything for men, but they voluntarily give me things. I act disinterested, and look good. It works.

  • @user-oz1yu1dr9s
    @user-oz1yu1dr9s 19 дней назад +25

    Yoo my man wouldn’t even allow me to pay for dinner

  • @NocturnalMissSoLostInSpace
    @NocturnalMissSoLostInSpace 19 дней назад +39

    She took him out for an all you can eat steak dinner, paid for it, and he's annoyed? I would be thrilled if someone did that for me. 😩
    I'm not saying women don't do this too. We've all seen videos of women being spoiled and not appreciating it.
    But I still see way too many videos of men acting annoyed with wives and girlfriends trying to do something nice for them.
    Actually, I also see it in person all the time with husbands snapping at their wives in grocery stores, big box stores, etc. I see men being annoyed and arrogant towards their women all the time (unless it's a woman they are distracted by and want to flirt with, in front of the wife or girlfriend, which is also awful)
    Ladies, take your girlfriends out to dinner instead. You'll have more fun and you can share the bill, making it more affordable. And if hubby or boyfriend gets pouty that you didn't take him out instead, then ask when was the last time he took you out for something besides fast food?
    Why is it so hard for folks to just be nice and considerate to each other in a relationship?
    If they're annoyed every time we go out somewhere together, then why are we dating them?

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +9

      @@NocturnalMissSoLostInSpace Great take! And asking the important questions 👏🏽💜

    • @stitches318
      @stitches318 18 дней назад

      She loves him. She sees someone who needs to be cared for which a lot of women will equate with love. The fact is he probably does not have the money to take her out. As the video said it embarrassing him that she has to be the one to take him out, yet it's not enough motivation for him to get a job and change.

  • @Greenplanet949
    @Greenplanet949 18 дней назад +15

    He was smiling when he showed his ingratitude. He likes hurting her. I could hardly watch it. What a vicious little man.

  • @fatz9810
    @fatz9810 19 дней назад +32

    She’s happy and sticking by her man. Posting just for engagement then be annoyed that not everyone agrees.

    • @divine9100
      @divine9100 19 дней назад +1

      Women will learn to stop posting these men and praising them cause they most definitely don't praise women on social media as much as women go out their way to!!

  • @changes649
    @changes649 19 дней назад +17

    Not cold ravioli out the can 😂😂😂

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +4

      @@changes649 🤭🤭

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 19 дней назад +3

      Cold can ravioli is all this "prize" deserves for dinner.

    • @Freverprincess
      @Freverprincess 16 дней назад +1

      He doesn't even deserve cold ravioli smh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TKOin2life
      @TKOin2life 7 дней назад

      He deserves two week old bologna on three week old bread with no mayo or mustard.

  • @vonnii1013
    @vonnii1013 19 дней назад +13

    These glimpses are why so navy of us women falling away from men... this is why we say we rather do bad alone.. this is why we are going celibate... this is why, this is why, this is why

    • @weirdloverwilde
      @weirdloverwilde 19 дней назад +1

      Part of the oppression was separating women and keeping them from communicating and telling one another the truths.

  • @Singleuntilmarried
    @Singleuntilmarried 19 дней назад +47

    It could never be me. You can give a guy everything and he could still be like “what’s in it for me ?” . I’m seeing multiple men at the same time if I see myself giving more than receiving .

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +4

      You date?
      What a waste of time.

    • @Singleuntilmarried
      @Singleuntilmarried 19 дней назад +7

      @@CordeliaWagner1999 never said I dated , I’m just saying what I’ll do in that situation

    • @elena3476
      @elena3476 18 дней назад +3

      ​@@Singleuntilmarriedim afraid its quite dangerous as a woman, some men you d date might see you dating another and think of you as a wh@re so "they d treat you like a wh@re"...i mean some women get SAd for this and get blamed for it too

  • @EarthOceanMoon
    @EarthOceanMoon 19 дней назад +44

    Im just glad no black women were harmed in the making of that video. 👀

  • @sherrilynnnelson703
    @sherrilynnnelson703 19 дней назад +14

    The finger licking.... gross 🤢

  • @gracefulgardenia7713
    @gracefulgardenia7713 18 дней назад +6

    He looked like he didn't like her at all.

  • @Emptytopfloor
    @Emptytopfloor 19 дней назад +65

    Pick mes give all women bad names.

  • @PullthaleverKronk
    @PullthaleverKronk 19 дней назад +11

    Man is basic at best

  • @Kekedouloveme11
    @Kekedouloveme11 18 дней назад +6

    It’s a lot of male pretty pretty princesses out here, and that’s why I’m single.

  • @anonymousbee
    @anonymousbee 19 дней назад +15

    And even if she never did anything for him, he would say, you don't do anything for me ever or don't plan any dates. It's a double edged sword

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +6

      @@anonymousbee ugh that's so true.

    • @Queen_EL11
      @Queen_EL11 18 дней назад

      True, but sometimes we’re doing things that they don’t actually like & that’s a problem.

  • @sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs.
    @sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. 19 дней назад +52

    0:43...So he didn't enjoy himself while licking the steak juice off his fingers.😳

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +12

      @@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. Riiight?? 🥴

  • @so.many.obstacles
    @so.many.obstacles 19 дней назад +33

    This is not her first rodeo with him. She likes it, she loves it.

  • @LoloCommentQueen
    @LoloCommentQueen 19 дней назад +51

    And they’ll keep doing it because that’s the definition of a pickme. “I’m different” is how they false/confidently live life. Some people say don’t go hard because we all used to be one but it seems so deliberate of pickmes. Like it’s not because of what they don’t know but, they likely know better and just don’t care. 😅🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @lmn1516
      @lmn1516 19 дней назад +3

      They got their "prize" though. I used to be mad because there will always be a pick-me to shield these guys from accountability. I began to realize thought that they are the ones stuck eating 💩and lying to themselves and everyone else that it tastes like chocolate ice cream.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 18 дней назад +2

      Yes I absolutely HATE pickmes. Idc how sweet and naive they are. They are purposely operating from a place of trying to control the relationship and stunting that man’s growth as man (usually just like their pickme momma) and while poorly auditioning to be a wife lol

  • @rosannarichardson7951
    @rosannarichardson7951 18 дней назад +6

    Whyd he go if he didn’t want to be there? Accountability much?? And the audacity to sit there and eat and licking steak juice off his fingers. Yea, okay you aren't enjoying yourself??

  • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
    @PettyIsMyMiddleName 18 дней назад +7

    I’m with the YT lady with glasses ? That would be the FIRST and LAST time I took him out to dinner for his bday , and he acted like that.
    The relationship would be over , period.

  • @xysarenottheprize
    @xysarenottheprize 18 дней назад +5

    Non-bears genuinely don't like being treated like kings. They think that's the treatment they want but once they get it they become miserable. They bond with struggle, not with comfort.

  • @Coco-nq3vg
    @Coco-nq3vg 19 дней назад +4

    She likes it i love it, she should take us out the group chat 😂

  • @sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs.
    @sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. 19 дней назад +9

    She knew who she chose. Everything isn't enough.

  • @VaisseauDivin-dr5nr
    @VaisseauDivin-dr5nr 18 дней назад +3

    Even the Devil doesn't attack empty vessels .. he attacks those with big hearts, sensitive giving good hearts .. so, then why would u waste time on an empty vessel ?

  • @juliana15yu
    @juliana15yu 18 дней назад +15

    Life with a man almost always = lower quality of life + emotional pain and suffering

  • @saharkhalili5303
    @saharkhalili5303 19 дней назад +9

    I believe is showing her that he doesn't like her, regardless of what she does. The tone of the woman sounded like she was goading him as they must have been having a bad time together on the date (cos he doesn't like her). So she filmed him in his moodiness to make him look bad, and he didn't mind playing that part at all. Whatever the reason for his actions, that woman needs to move.

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +3

      @@saharkhalili5303 So true. But she ain't going nowhere like she said. 😥

  • @missantrafalgar782
    @missantrafalgar782 19 дней назад +17

    I hate all of these rules.
    I don't think there's anything wrong with spoiling your boyfriend.
    But there's definitely something wrong with him being ungrateful.
    Both partners should be spoiling each other.. And if he's ungrateful you should leave.

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 19 дней назад +20

      What Kind of spoiling?
      Treating him like a little babyboy while he just sits and plays Video games and doesn't do his 50% of household Chores?
      Nah. I rather spoil myself

  • @heavenlee4544
    @heavenlee4544 18 дней назад +5

    OOP! I know this man 🤣 He literally just got out of jail too

  • @yishyabyard6898
    @yishyabyard6898 19 дней назад +40

    I wonde what the purpose of her posting that was. Unless they both thought it was funny and they're just playing around, I'd feel some type of way if my man reacted like that. If I'm not in on the joke, that reaction would not be funny. She co signed it tho and there'll always be women who complain about crappy behavior but never encourage their men to fix it. Smh at both of them.

    • @ImaniForester
      @ImaniForester  19 дней назад +8

      @@yishyabyard6898 💯 Agreed. If it was meant to be funny, it just wasn't. Attention maybe? But was it worth embarrassing yourself? Some women are shameless.

    • @yishyabyard6898
      @yishyabyard6898 19 дней назад +4

      @@ImaniForester exactly!!

    • @shaysmitt7936
      @shaysmitt7936 19 дней назад +4

      I tried to treat a man that I was dating to an upscale dinner and he complained as if he had to pay for it. I politely called the waitress over and told her , Ma’am I would like to thank you for your time… but I will not be entertaining this lowly uncouth man “. Then I tipped her $50 and walked out . I blocked him and went on about my day . I was trying to be nice and date a “ hard working “ average income man. NEVER AGAIN.

  • @SweetSurrender-wr2ru
    @SweetSurrender-wr2ru 19 дней назад +9

    I personally feel women shouldn't be treating (regularly) but if you decide to do so every now & again...If your man or date acts up or behaves rudely he gets the Quasimodo treatment from then on...no going out in public back to the Dungun he goes!

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 18 дней назад +2

    This channel shooting up fast and for sure one them 100k+ 🎉🎉

  • @LadyMarigoldWithers
    @LadyMarigoldWithers 19 дней назад +7

    Unpopular opinion possibly but if any man was sticking a camera in my face for social media clicks instead of being present with me on a date I’d act the same. Put the frickin’ phone down lady and pay attention. I never think to pull a phone and start filming anyone with a running commentary. It’s so incredibly rude! Put your phones away people!!!

  • @annajbananas
    @annajbananas 17 дней назад +3

    Ladies, stop trying to drag a man to your level. SMH it doesn't work.

  • @HaleyMary
    @HaleyMary 19 дней назад +11

    I feel bad for that woman who took her boyfriend out to eat at that restaurant. He told her to her face that he felt he got dragged there. Weren't there signs before they went to the restaurant? He must've had a less than enthusiastic expression on his face.

  • @erdftzgh
    @erdftzgh 16 дней назад +2

    She should treat her self to such a meal, alone. Selflove and putting yourself first is so important. People pleasing activities gets you nowhere in life, most of the time you will not get anything back but abuse, people think your compassion is weakness,...apply it to your marriage!

  • @thetruecrimeconnoisseur
    @thetruecrimeconnoisseur 17 дней назад +2

    That video from those two gave rage baiting, that's why I didn't get my panties in a bunch. 😂

  • @morganhumphrey5587
    @morganhumphrey5587 18 дней назад +3

    I lost hope in men when I argue with them on RUclips and modern men ate so in denial about mens violence against women and misogyny and they gaslight and victim blame

  • @chakradjuzeus9275
    @chakradjuzeus9275 16 дней назад +2

    He couldn’t even say it with a straight face 🤣 He was obviously enjoying all of it. Probably except for the camera in his face during an intimate moment.

  • @deborahgardner7862
    @deborahgardner7862 19 дней назад +19

    The Drizzle Drizzle, soft guy era is feminine in itself, you don’t have to look any further for a feminine then a man in his “soft guy era”.

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 19 дней назад +6

      Feminine does not equal entitled and childlike behavior. We all have masculine and feminine traits and I kinda wish that would stop being used to put guys down. I understand it’s an insult to men because being labeled as anything feminine is, but maybe we should find something else.

    • @deborahgardner7862
      @deborahgardner7862 19 дней назад

      @@Calle.Hutch.. I know what feminine means, and their should be a distinctive difference between men and women, it’s not putting them down it’s telling the truth, and people wouldn’t have a problem with it if we hadn’t coddled them in the beginning, now they can’t except the truth about anything, now you have to tiptoe around their emotions or they become violent and chaotic. I don’t defend behavior that is obviously out of order, and in contradiction to their creation, these guys are one step away from being gay, or are on the DL, hiding it and becoming violent with women and cower down to their own species, tell me that is not feminine, and knowing that he was created stronger than woman (a man) he will fight her, before he fight someone like him, that is feminine.

    • @deborahgardner7862
      @deborahgardner7862 18 дней назад +3

      @@Calle.Hutch.. you act like their is no distinctive characteristics of a male, their are, nobody says they don’t deserve to be appreciated, but we’re not doing that if you’re not worthy, and you don’t know that until you date them, unless you’re the hunter, then you can treat your man any way you want to, just expect the spoiled characteristics when you need him in a more powerful role besides physical. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t match my energy, so if this way of the masculine matches your energy, then I have nothing but good vibes for you and yours.

    • @Calle.Hutch..
      @Calle.Hutch.. 17 дней назад

      @@deborahgardner7862 Right, I guess I just mean that femininity itself gets put down all the time and using it as an insult toward men might backfire onto women. We’re basically attributing femininity to entitlement and incompetence by saying that the reason men are displaying these things, is because they’re feminine. I think what we should be targeting is the harmful ideology a lot of guys are adopting these days, and making that the enemy. I don’t know exactly why things have gotten so extreme lately, but I don’t think the conversation is even about what makes a man a manly, men are not even meeting basic adult maturity standards and that’s where the problem is.

    • @deborahgardner7862
      @deborahgardner7862 16 дней назад

      @@Calle.Hutch.. I understand the Spirit and their are distinctions but I also recognize my energy is very analytical and the energy I engage with has to challenge that, which means by my Spirit being powerful I expect a powerful masculine Spirit, equally balanced. See when I look at men at this Drizzle Drizzle era, I look at an unbalanced Spirit, we came to the Earth to bring the two together, our Feminine Spirit and our Masculine Spirit not someone else’s, I can’t see you reaching equilibrium if the Spirit you have in your space is not balanced, because he keeps you unbalanced and our purpose in being here is to balance our own Masculine/Feminine and assist the Masculine in any way, but he has to be receptive or he as conformed to the world. Nothing wrong with an insightful soft hearted man, but a worldly man doing worldly man things is a challenge for any woman’s psyche, but remember when you take on an unwilling unbalanced Spirit you jeopardize your own. A trick I tell people all the time, you can sit with yourself do things by yourself and be happy, because you love you, vet the men and see if he loves himself, not the physical him but himself or is it trauma after trauma, because those unresolved issues will find their way as obstacles in your progression as a healthier Spirit. It’s evident when some women leave relationships, some have aged 10 years, they look like they’ve been through the wringer, and that was just the way he affected her energy Spiritually. We’ve all been programmed to what is feminine and what is masculine, Our Creator gave us the Free Agency, to be us, to find our Masculine and Feminine and define what it is to you, living and walking in the Statues Laws and Commandments, if your Spirit is vexed (if you feel stress or chaos) then the Spirit you’re interacting with is not good for your Spirit, and shouldn’t be in your space, don’t accept any behaviors that you don’t want in your space any, if he’s willing to work through them away from you and come back a better person then fine, but never let anyone steal your Joy.

  • @Rosewtr_
    @Rosewtr_ 18 дней назад +3

    Hmm, interesting perspective, thank you for sharing!.. it’s like subconsciously he feels like can’t out do the dinner date/top that steak dinner.
    By taking him to the steak house she’s subtly setting a standard he can’t maintain (or doesn’t want to maintain that type of date standard) so he’s being rude about not really enjoying the date, smh, he’s being really self centered and mean…like just enjoy the dinner and say thank you. Guys can be so weird, seesh. Guys won’t be able to truly be in their feminine/drizzle drizzle era b/c they don’t know how to receive. They want to live a “soft life” but under that is a really mean and egotistical person that is resentful about receiving which makes them really mean and rude and honestly really toxic (but in a more covert way). It’s just no bueno
    In the future she should reserve those types of fancy dates for her close friends or sisters. Let her man plan all the dates that her and him go on together. Maybe she will see that she can treat herself well and that her man doesn’t really make a good effort to invest in nice dates that she likes (maybe it would reveal how that low investment translates to how he shows up in the relationship which ultimately will help lift the rose colored glasses to see the relationship more clearly).
    And he also probably tries to “humble her” in other ways as well, :/. I trust that people can choose their own partners and do what’s right for them, but I hope she doesn’t put up with other forms of mistreatment and ungratefulness for the sake of wanting to be in a relationship with him.

  • @formerlyknownas123
    @formerlyknownas123 19 дней назад +12

    Some lessons are learned painfully.

  • @ItsPouring
    @ItsPouring 18 дней назад +4

    He wouldn't even look her directly in the eyes (or camera) while _LYING_ and denying the pleasure he was experiencing when he answered "No," while licking his fingers!, _SMACKING!_ and being wholly incapable of holding back that devious little boy grin because he was refusing to give her her PROPS. All confirmation that he utterly hated it. Please never force that poor suffering man to go back there again.

  • @smileyglitter852
    @smileyglitter852 19 дней назад +10

    There's a lot of this, this has been going on way before drizzle drizzle...

  • @TIAOFNEBULA
    @TIAOFNEBULA 19 дней назад +2

    The food is great , he just doesn’t like her sometimes

  • @burgandymathis2644
    @burgandymathis2644 18 дней назад +3

    Is this couple even real? It's hard to tell who's legit or who's just craving attention.

  • @janb92
    @janb92 17 дней назад +2

    These dudes out here make me so happy to be a raging lesbian.

  • @goddesst5405
    @goddesst5405 18 дней назад +1

    Excellent example! Thank you for this video! 🌟🙏🏽🌟

  • @RaynaArman
    @RaynaArman 18 дней назад +1

    I would have definitely said that if I was begged to go there. He doesn't like her like that.

  • @sovereignseeker7126
    @sovereignseeker7126 18 дней назад +1

    I’m not even sure why she wanted to show him being ungrateful as if she’s going any where or gonna do anything about this type of behavior! If this is her person then she should accept this disrespect in peace and keep it off the internet, there are so many women like this, why televise it when you probably been accepting this and will continue to accept it!!!!!

  • @user-rj1vj5wk9f
    @user-rj1vj5wk9f 18 дней назад +2

    she deserves him

  • @akaishadouglas8259
    @akaishadouglas8259 8 часов назад

    lol no one in the comments or video saw his shirt says " up to no good".

  • @juliana15yu
    @juliana15yu 18 дней назад +1

    Man I hate my dad and my brother that are such a hateful force

  • @DontUNVME
    @DontUNVME 16 дней назад +1

    He eats like a long term convict. I wouldn't have taken him any where. Too embarrassing. Keep Fred Flintstone home

  • @beyzayildiz5296
    @beyzayildiz5296 9 дней назад

    He doesn't deserve her

  • @lemoncholyme
    @lemoncholyme 18 дней назад +2

    1:09 THIS 🎯

  • @Bonniebluetours2010
    @Bonniebluetours2010 17 дней назад +1

    She should get in her car and drive off and let him “drag” himself home on foot.

  • @jams1070
    @jams1070 17 дней назад

    He licking his fingers and smacking his lips and has the audacity to say ‘nah’ 😂😂 me when I’m lying 😂

  • @tachi4002
    @tachi4002 14 дней назад +1

    The flashback I got when my now ex-husband had an attitude the entire time we were at a nice Italian restaurant in the North End in Boston (something I treated him to for his bday)because, according to him, "he's not really into Italian food like that" which was news to me. I should have known then that he was a spoiled brat and would never change. You would have thought I took him to McDonalds.

    • @tachi4002
      @tachi4002 14 дней назад +1

      Also, I started to pick up on the fact that for Christmas every year, he would tell his parents he didn't like his present or never wear/ use anything that was gifted to him. Completed asshole. Don't miss him one bit.

  • @strega_babeharestreets2339
    @strega_babeharestreets2339 15 дней назад

    I pray my sons & nephews find a pickme like this, thank in advance.

  • @JustMe-vs1kj
    @JustMe-vs1kj 18 дней назад +2

    not him eating like hes starving and then saying that he was dragged there..... 🙄
    gross
    dont ever buy anything for a man that has not given that to you and then some. only give to those that also give or theyll "take" you empty!! and suck you dry!!

  • @ibuymyownroses
    @ibuymyownroses 10 дней назад

    I know a man who gets the princess treatment. Women sending him thousands of dollars and paying his bills. It’s wild to me.

  • @dhare07
    @dhare07 18 дней назад +1

    You can lead a mammy to water but you can't make her think.

  • @brandysears3546
    @brandysears3546 18 дней назад +3

    Here's a thought. What person wants to get a gift that requires a camera in their face to find out whether they are grateful or not? Then, put on social media? With that said, staged BS for views.

  • @nikpick33
    @nikpick33 6 дней назад

    Treat someone like a King or Queen they will treat you like a peasant

  • @user-lk9vu8nl8u
    @user-lk9vu8nl8u 10 дней назад +1

    I think it might be a game of roasting each other. Like kids are well behaved with strangers but throw tantrums with parents, because they feel safe to do it, to be nasty. It's like a teenager's desire "show me that you love me even when I make mistakes. Give me the right to be imperfect with you."
    What I mean is we don't know the full context of the situation, of their relationship. I think his facial expressions are quite open, it's obvious that he likes everything, but admitting it to the camera is too much, it's like loosing a competition of who's the boss here.
    So this doesn't look like a red flag to me. But it is a yellow one. That's immature behavior, he has a tendency to compete with his woman. He is not secure enough to express gratitude. That's what I notice here.
    And the sad thing is, it's unlikely that a man like this will become mature. He has to do a lot of work to become an adult. And because he may be not malicious, he can waste sooo much of woman's time.

  • @tarellehoskins688
    @tarellehoskins688 16 дней назад +1

    What an extremely sad generation, just pathetic

  • @StacyAnderson-nw7ib
    @StacyAnderson-nw7ib 17 дней назад +1

    A toxic environment.

  • @NurseNessey
    @NurseNessey 15 дней назад

    I have a problem getting anything for a man.

  • @yahira6928
    @yahira6928 19 дней назад +1

    This is the problem with opinions.....This woman has been taking care of him and this dinner was below what she usually does for him. He's been bought and he's had better from her and she's ok with that

  • @ladybug4885
    @ladybug4885 19 дней назад +8

    I most definitely not a pick me but from my perspective if MAN we're to record 😤me why im eating trying to enjoy my food I'd be ✅annoyed✅

  • @ashleyl6456
    @ashleyl6456 17 дней назад

    Times have changed so much that men are women, women are men. There's this guy who works in my area he's very attractive and always use to stop and watch me, even to the point of parking across the street from my building for his break, once we're in close proximity he wont say anything to me only when he's in his truck. I found myself looking for him every day just to see him, and he literally won't speak unless I do 1st. Idk if it's shyness or arrogance😮 I'm at the point where I'll gladly wait when it's my time for my Mr. To approach me 1st..I prefer to be in my feminine era just because there's equality for us, shouldn't mean we have to take or even want to take on masculine roles 24/7. You can tell just by a woman's form if it's soft or hard or half of both worlds same thing with men. All it takes is observation withn a little conversation

  • @MadMax-cg6gh
    @MadMax-cg6gh 12 дней назад

    The delusion is strong in these ones.

  • @dusklvr
    @dusklvr 6 дней назад

    His smirk 🙄

  • @halosunnah5446
    @halosunnah5446 11 дней назад

    Sis don't chase men. don't show him first that you're interested. I did it then he thought he was the prize & acted accordingly. 🤢

  • @SigFigNewton
    @SigFigNewton 17 дней назад +1

    So.. steak places are definitely among the least appealing places to eat I can think of.
    Kinda weirded out that this perspective wasn’t acknowledged to possibly exist