INFJ, it's time to know who you are.

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
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  • @JT-gm4fk
    @JT-gm4fk 3 года назад +72

    You will lose yourself if you're trying to please others, but you may lose others when finding yourself. Choose the later everytime.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +9

      Truly spoken. Thank you.

    • @nicky9148
      @nicky9148 3 года назад +4

      After 20 years with a narcissist..2 1/2 years of which our son & I have lived separate from him, my son & I choice .Found out what a narcissist was about 3 1/2 years ago; I have come into my own..went through hell..wasn't sure if I was gonna make it or not..but I am pretty damn stubborn..I have definitely become a stronger..more compassionate...but fierce..loving & open to love..but no longer so naive & idealistic..transparent & completely & wonderfully confident in my skin! Never ever going back or looking back..only forward!
      So excited for this beyond belief!
      Thank you & Good Luck!
      GOD Bless &
      GODSPEED

    • @nikiwelch9133
      @nikiwelch9133 3 года назад +3

      So well said jeremy! Im finding myself but have lost a few i love in the process

  • @jerryb7185
    @jerryb7185 4 года назад +14

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! My Mom was 20 days before she turned 18 when I was born in 1973. She was pregnant with me her whole senior year. I've always felt like a burden on my family. They didn't have to say it, I just felt it. Not big on hugs and comforting when my brother and I were young. He is 2 years younger than me. My Mom worked so I had to take care of him. I've given so much of myself to others. But now I realize that's what I'm here to do. I was never a burden. I am a gift to the people I meet. I love making people laugh. I'm pretty good at it 🤪. I was putting the burden on myself. Did I say Thank you? Thank you for helping me get my head out of my butt. Sorry about that. Exactly the help I've been looking for my whole life.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      You are welcome. I responded to your other comment, but wanted to say you are not a burden, and I'm happy you finally know it as well. Find your strengths in life and develop them - that is what makes a person special and unique. Sounds like you are starting to see your place in life. I wish you the very best as you discover more about yourself, and your purpose continues to unfold.

  • @goteamslugs
    @goteamslugs 2 года назад +13

    God sees beauty in both the little things and the large things.
    "You don't have to do big things to be a hero. Just - the right ones . ." - "Ratchet and Clank"
    ""Your beauty should not come from outward adornement,
    such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.
    Rather, it should be that of your inner self,
    the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit,
    which is of great worth in God's sight."
    - 1 Peter 3:3-4

  • @elizabethleach6346
    @elizabethleach6346 3 года назад +5

    Finding out that I'm an INFJ was such a relief. I'm not broken, I'm meant for different things.
    I have also come to appreciate my parents and my sister more. The amazing qualities they showed me as I grow up gave me a solid foundation to build my life on.
    They gave me their flaws as well, all unwittingly. Finding this channel has helped me let go of my anger over this.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +1

      Meant for different things ... definitely. I think we naturally feel broken because comparison to others has left us thinking different is wrong, when it's not. So yes, it is such a relief to know we have the company of others out there.

  • @jonathanbyington5997
    @jonathanbyington5997 4 года назад +16

    "Become who you are. Do what only you can do. Be the master and the sculptor of yourself."
    --Friedrich Nietzsche

  • @dcsari
    @dcsari 3 года назад +8

    Nothing is such a coincidence and I believe I found your videos at the right moment in my life where I have found my purpose and needed the courage to follow it. Thank you very much for all your insights, it gave me ( and i believe all INFJs ) enlightenment, great clarity and moral support. I wish you happiness and peace for all the good things you have done ❤️

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +1

      I agree. I think when it's time to hear, nothing can stop us from hearing. It sounds as if you are standing at the beginning of some beautiful things in your life. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement to me.

  • @loveleeme5495
    @loveleeme5495 2 года назад +8

    I have recently found out I am an INFJ and when I learned then it was mind blowing. I’ve been doing nonstop research about my personality and at times I feel so overwhelmed with emotions. I finally feel like I can somewhat understand myself. I still don’t know who I am and I have always dealt with this dilemma but know that I know it’s a legitimate struggle that us INFJs deal with it puts my mind more at ease. God has also helped me stay afloat in life. Without him I know I would be lost.
    I love your channel and I am very grateful I found it. You say things that my mind thinks but for some reason I am unable to put into words. I really hope I am able to find who I am and to become comfortable in my own skin. Thank you for being a blessing to my life. You have no clue how much your videos have helped my thoughts. God bless you.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  2 года назад

      Such a sweet comment ... thank you very much. You will get there. You are obviously already on your way.

  • @kingmarcusrich
    @kingmarcusrich 4 года назад +17

    As I’m listening to your video there’s a certain fire...almost anger..beginning to start as I realize how true these words are....Life is beautiful, and things happen...I don’t want to watch on the sidelines anymore..I intend to play...I don’t have to be the best...I don’t have to be perfect...I just want to live life . I hope this makes sense to anyone who’s stuck in a rut.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +3

      It makes sense to me. "Life is beautiful" ... I always say this after a good cry.

    • @cheyanne919
      @cheyanne919 3 года назад +1

      I feel the same way. I am on the side lines and I am realizing who I am. We are all connected to each other.

  • @dag5579
    @dag5579 4 года назад +7

    I truly think that these videos are so incredibly helpful for us infjs. They have helped me. I wish all lost infjs can find these videos, and hopefully find themselves in doing so. Thank you for being you. 💪❤

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      My greatest wish is that all of you find who you are and do beautiful work in this world. The world needs us to add our part.

  • @jaimiehorton9669
    @jaimiehorton9669 4 года назад +7

    Thank you so much for another encouraging video. I've spent many years stagnating until recently and waking up has been such an adventure. For all the pain to dig through and all the hard work of growing there's immense joy and deep connection too. When you can't/won't acknowledge yourself you don't know all the amazing things about yourself that you're missing out on because you're too scared to look. It's hard or impossible to change overnight though, it takes conscientious practice and starting over as many times as it takes. Honestly some days the well worn path and unexamined life seem awfully tempting, but when you look back at how far you've come it's obvious it's worth the work. I wish everyone the best as they forge ahead 😊

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +2

      I love when someone comes along and speaks words I didn't say but could have. Very valuable comment - others will be encouraged by your words, hopefully as much as I was when I first read them.

    • @jaimiehorton9669
      @jaimiehorton9669 4 года назад +1

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty I'm blushing now lol Thank you! ☺️

  • @SirMo
    @SirMo 3 года назад +6

    I came to my purpose and path in life haphazardly with age, before I even understood my INFJisms. Even though I am not materialistic and could care less about earthly possessions we live in a capitalist system the same system everyone we care about lives in, and so I figured out my path to best utilize my skills and try to make this world a better place for people who could use my help. Wish I had these resources earlier in life. But it's still affirming to hear your beautifuly spoken words. You are speaking of abstract things and yet because we are on the same frequency everything you say makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing!

  • @the69firefox
    @the69firefox Год назад +7

    Oh my gosh, I love you!
    I’ve never seen your face, but your heart is so beautiful, I really love the way you talked about us being a puzzle piece in this life and how we complete the picture thank you for sharing your knowledge and your deep thoughts with us you have a beautiful gift and I’m so thankful that you are using it, because you are helping so many of us to navigate this crazy and fun world and helping to understand what we are, and what we can be, I just wanted to say thank you, and I love your videos💕

  • @Alex-vc5dr
    @Alex-vc5dr 2 года назад +13

    While I agree, unfortunately today, it is healthier in some cases to not interact with people due to their lack of awareness, empathy, compassion or similarities. We are deeper than most, therefore we are often misunderstood or have no interest.

    • @nedthestaffieegan3452
      @nedthestaffieegan3452 Год назад +5

      I'm inclined to agree with you. The more I grow in self awareness and try to be more understanding and compassionate towards others, make allowances instead of blaming people for not understanding me, the more I seem to notice a lack of awareness (like you said), integrity and hypocrisy, where I'm past the issues with not belonging and rejection to a place of disillusionment and despondency about whether it's worth the effort.
      There seems to be a notable decline in the general quality of human beings, where not belonging doesn't bother me. The potential for cruelty and evil through ignorance is weighing on me quite heavily, where my usual idealistic and empathetic qualities have been drained. There's such a need for kindness and common sense, but mostly what I'm observing and experiencing is more isolation, disconnectedness and everyone out for themselves. Life on this beautiful planet feels energetically very challenging during this time. It
      would be amazing if we could evolve so we could go into hibernation for a period of time just to get a break 🐻

    • @redblue5868
      @redblue5868 7 месяцев назад

      @@nedthestaffieegan3452 This is very well said. But I somehow don't think hibernation is the answer, even if a part of me keeps yearning for it. There's got to be a more hopeful spiritual response.

  • @AmandaExpressions
    @AmandaExpressions 4 года назад +9

    Beautifully expressed. Thanks for continuing to show up in your unique way... for all of us. :)

  • @qideng26
    @qideng26 2 года назад +7

    This is my first comment on youtube after using this platform for so many years, and watching countless videos. I have to comment on this video. Just want to tell you that I really appreciate your sharing in this video, thank you. Thank you so much.

  • @jamesminichella9638
    @jamesminichella9638 3 года назад +4

    My best friend (Me) and I would like to thank you for allowing "us' to feel justified in " our" outlook on life despite it's rarity. I've been on a quest for self awareness for many years I've finally learned to love myself unconditionally
    The inner voice has become corporeal in nature and it has opened my eyes to talents and abilities my shall I say " physical" side had been unaware of. Bless you for imparting this knowledge to others. It surely would have made my quest easier and quicker had I heard it 50 years ago. I found freedom when I learned to look no further than myself for solutions. I don't have to think outside the box because I eliminated the box. And I take nothing said or done done by someone who doesn't know me personally if

  • @joyousprairies9313
    @joyousprairies9313 4 года назад +7

    Different does not have to be a curse. It can be a blessing. Be beautiful in the ordinary. Thank-you thank you thank you. I am standing at the door. To be myself and stop suppressing. I have taken steps out of the door way and walked back in. I am getting braver.
    Once again, beautiful words and encouragement ❤

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +2

      I say it's time to shut and lock that door behind you! 😄 Then give someone else the key, someone you love and trust.

  • @jordandavis2339
    @jordandavis2339 4 года назад +8

    What a thought-provoking video. To be truly extraordinary, be yourself to the fullest.... one of my take-aways.
    It's super easy for me to fall into the cynical. So hard, that now I've given up control and recognize the ups and downs as waves and just ride the wave of life. When I'm feeling cynical, I tell myself that a season of hopefulness is ahead and then continue being my cynical self. Great video, you pushed me in the hopefulness direction!

    • @jonathanandolina6001
      @jonathanandolina6001 4 года назад +1

      It's like you never know if your really on the right path .. just on some path .. maybe that's what it feels like to not have any expection in a direction. ?!? Lol your comment just got me thinking.. thanks 😊

    • @jonathanandolina6001
      @jonathanandolina6001 4 года назад +1

      I feel like I always comment before she finishes talking... It's like her thoughts get me going and I get on the same wave of thoughts and start jumping ahead .. lol I so thankful for found minds !! Brave on friends

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +2

      How beautifully stated. You ride the waves; you don’t let them toss you all around. It’s about mastering the emotions. We know they want to rule us - in immaturity, we let them run the show. But in maturity, we control them. Once in a while, I indulge in the self-pity party. There’s something oddly satisfactory about being self-deprecating in such a way. But now I am the party planner. I know when to say the party’s over … and go back to the everyday life.
      Thinking about it, it’s quite a funny thing to call the cynical side the party side. I don’t know about you, but that side is a bit wild. Best not to let it party too often, no matter how strangely enjoyable it can be. Hopefulness is definitely the better option long term. It accomplishes so much more as well.

    • @jordandavis2339
      @jordandavis2339 4 года назад

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty yes, that pity-party side can get a bit wild... the party-party side used to be wild also. The years have dulled it though. My wild side isn't what it used to be. I love your "party planner" idea... self-pity parties still happen, but there is a ton of power in recognition. If I know I'm doing it it's a lot less difficult to turn it off... It's a lot easier to ride waves you can see.

    • @jordandavis2339
      @jordandavis2339 4 года назад

      @@jonathanandolina6001 yeah, kinda... for me it isn't about being on the "right" path, but being on MY path is important. I have a certain way I see the world, that no one else has (at least that I've met). I've left all my old beliefs behind at this point. It's kinda scary, because it feels like as path that hasn't been walked before. But by being intimidating, it becomes more rewarding. It is tempting to turn back into the "masses" way, and it would be easy to do so, but where's the fun in easy?

  • @roberttyree7808
    @roberttyree7808 2 года назад +8

    I can relate to this so strongly. Now since living as my true self I haven't been able to relate to most people. Tell somebody the truth about themselves can have a way breaking people down then they don't like you, so door slam. Before you know there isn't anybody that relates to you. I've struggled with even knowing myself because of what I call the mask aka the lie. Taking the mask off wasn't what I call a good thing for me. Most people viewed me as brutally honest. I think I understood there shadows better than they did.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  2 года назад +2

      My wish for you is that living as your true self will bring a few to you who will see you for who you are, and love that you.

    • @nedthestaffieegan3452
      @nedthestaffieegan3452 Год назад +1

      Wow Robert I could have written exactly the same thing as my 'coming out' has been so painful. The people who have been berating me for people pleasing and being stupid for taking rejection to heart, are the ones who have turned their back on me when I needed them the most. It appears they weren't including themselves in their advice and expected me to continue my people pleasing to suit them.
      It's been devastating. They pushed me down this road in the first place (telling me there was something wrong with me and I needed professional help). Ten years later with so much dedicated healing and inner work I'm a different person, where I know myself better and the patterns that kept me stuck.
      They expect me to go back to who I was, they don't like this version of me.
      It's the ultimate rejection as this is a rejection of the person I worked so hard to find and value.

  • @Indigooroux_xmpljjdroid
    @Indigooroux_xmpljjdroid 10 месяцев назад +2

    I loved it! Bless your wonderful work you inspiring friend of humanity. A smile to my face and a light in the dark.

  • @DarkKittyfx
    @DarkKittyfx Год назад +4

    Thank you for this video it really gave me new perspectives on life. I was just fooling myself before clicking this video acting like I’m the king of person to get up super early to get a early start to my work when truthfully I like to sleep and start my work on my time. I also am looking at being different in a new way. Instead of feeling alien and like I don’t belong now I’m going to find out where I can put my piece. It’s time I fall into my full potential I’ve been telling myself to but never got on it.
    Last thing I want to say is this is the most unique video I’ve ever seen. I don’t know anyone who’s added nature the way you do while explaining ideas and your perspectives. You really proved every point you were talking about. You’re making videos with your added spice and being different in your own way. It’s time to accept who I am and love the life I deserve.
    Thanks much :).

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  Год назад +1

      You're very welcome. Thank you for noticing about the nature pairings. It doesn't always happen that way, but I believe nature is soothing on its own anyway. Yes, I am different and accepting of it and forging my way with it. I hope very much that you do the same in your differences. All my best to you 🧡

  • @unity001
    @unity001 3 года назад +7

    You are a beautiful soul..

  • @ja100222
    @ja100222 3 месяца назад +1

    That was beautiful. Thank you ❤

  • @wekndjunki
    @wekndjunki 3 года назад +4

    Listening to this brought tears to my eyes.. I finally felt understood.. I’m so thankful I came across your video❤️ growing up I felt so alone I didn’t have many friends and the ones I did manage to make they all ended soon after it began. Both of my parents are judgmental.. one asked once “why can’t you just be normal?” “You’re weird” and then proceeds to talk about my mental health in a jokingly manner.. I’ve been letting my childhood trauma handicap me for 20 years, listening to this video gave me even more hope than I had before! I know what I’m capable of so I’m going after it ! I enrolled myself into college my major is psychology applied behavioral analysis. I’m so proud of myself I pulled myself out of a rut❤️ I’m DONE! I will no longer let the pain define who I am.
    I pray my fellow INFJ take this lovely woman’s advice and run with it because I know I am.
    Peace, love, joy, happiness, GREAT ABUNDANCE !

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +1

      I'm proud of you too. And I hope you run further than you ever thought you could!

  • @kurtking8452
    @kurtking8452 3 года назад +3

    Once again, thank you my never sleeping beauty, for that thought-provoking and awaking presentation. I am still struggling to find where I fit in the puzzle but what you said, awaken in me a more desire to be more determined to find my place.

  • @deepakmalhotra
    @deepakmalhotra 3 года назад +4

    Glad I found you ✨🕊️ Thank you for being wonderful guide for us 🎈

  • @nadio_28
    @nadio_28 2 года назад +3

    I hate that this is right; I hate that a random person on the internet is very right, but it's the truth. Thank you for the message

  • @erikhernandez6634
    @erikhernandez6634 3 года назад +10

    We’re angelic devils.

  • @cheyanne919
    @cheyanne919 3 года назад +2

    I can relate to this. :D Thanks again. I love your videos and advice. I feel like the universe led me to the answers that I was looking for. This video of nature is very beautiful and calming. I love the baby birds. They are very cute! I am starting to find myself and where I fit in this puzzle.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +3

      I do believe it, that we are led to find what we need. And it always seems to turn up at exactly the right time. You are ready to find your place in the puzzle. It encourages me very much, and should encourage you too.

  • @elizabethleach6346
    @elizabethleach6346 3 года назад +3

    Last thoughts:
    I want to acknowledge that my sister, in true ENFJ fashion, told me this message first. She has been my greatest cheerleader this last decade.
    Love you sis!

  • @richiemcconnochie2506
    @richiemcconnochie2506 3 года назад +4

    Nice info..some of us are very powerful.in many ways..yet some hide.either way there is a positive effect on all.if truth is your master.

  • @elizabethleach6346
    @elizabethleach6346 3 года назад +4

    If doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is insanity, then you should just do the same thing over and over without expectation. This is life, life does the same thing over and over again without expectation and gets different results.
    This has been my greatest truth, I found there was nothing wrong with what I was doing to improve myself it was my expectations that were my problem.
    Frequently still is.

  • @stacyelaine5799
    @stacyelaine5799 4 года назад +4

    Just found your channel and Thankfully being blessed by your content🙏 thank you!

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      I welcome you, and am grateful you have found some meaning in my words.

    • @stacyelaine5799
      @stacyelaine5799 4 года назад

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty it's nice to hear so very many thoughts of mine clearly put into the words of understanding that I can wrap my mind around in a valiant effort to trust myself enough to come out of my hidden lost realm of protection that I seemed to have gotten lost under! My mom always told me that I, like the character Tigger, am the only one! It wasn't until 4mos prior to my 50th b-day that I stumbled upon 1 of my BIGGEST needed life puzzle pieces &with such perfect timing that only God could orchestrate, and that was that of these personality types, lol & the blessed pain of my discovering that I'm truly not alone, I just happen to be an INFJ! 😆 It figures, par for the course, and so very very greatful to finally have the information I need to hopefully heal & come out of this cocoon into the light I was created to be in. Long hard lonely life road that I now spend most of my time in the woods camping with my critters doing my best to sort all of this& everything out the best that I can. I haven't given up hope that perhaps once all the painful layers are peeled back & exposed, this flower just might actually finally Bloom🌻 If not... Oh well, at least I'll enjoy being surrounded by nature with all the camping & self discovery I'm doing away from the distraction of other people! 😆 Anywho, take care& God bless

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      Just reading your words, it seems as if you are coming into a new understanding of who you are. After that comes purpose, I believe. It seems to me there is something more for you than just camping in the woods. I think it will be revealed to you. We are set on a path and once we see some things unfolding, it's only a matter of time before it all starts becoming clear. Such has been my experience, and it's interesting to see you share a similar thing. And yes, it is orchestrated - we both know it. Who could think we're in control of these things? And aren't we glad we are not!
      I know you'll bloom and probably very soon. But the lovely thing is, you don't have to give up the times in nature - we need the break from people for our own sanity. I love my alone time now. It took me a long while to get there, but it's so precious to me now. Thank you very much for sharing of yourself.

  • @NoghtamGales
    @NoghtamGales 4 года назад +3

    Some time ago, while overthinking about life, I found a curious question, what is an insult? Why does it hurts people? The answer I figured out was "An insult it's a reality people are not willing to accept on their lifes. Be it true or fictional, they won't accept been seeing or called like that specific thing they don't accept"
    Now I must say, it was a bit weird to find a similar idea in your video. The layers of self delusion we built to hide what we neglect to see of ourselves.
    I can only thank you for the insight of your words. It has been a reminder of what's important to understand and change first, in order to find myself.
    After I thought about what an insult was, I also figured out an antidote for them: " If you don't want insults to hurt you, know yoursel. Discover who you are and what's your reality. So, the realities others could try to use to hurting you, won't have any effect."
    I think it's time to apply this antidote with myself.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад

      What an interesting comment to read. Thank you. I like your antidote.

    • @scottjays360s.johnson2
      @scottjays360s.johnson2 4 года назад

      Like it or not we are what we are. Little extreme on the feeling. A bit too much for a mature INFJ. Sorry I had to tap out. Your story, the channel operator, is rambling on and not getting to the point. There is no denying but your story is a writers novel. Sorry but my patients can't take this anymore. No such thing as ordinary being an INFJ. Your going down the wrong road here so hopefully it will help someone else but I can't agree with 80 percent of what your going around in circles making me dizzy trying to get at. No help her so beware and figure it out for yourself.. Should retest yourself because You are further away from what this personality really is. I'm truly sorry to mention this but your going to damage someone by the over kill. Your putting me to sleep and scrambling my thought process. Stop! Jeeze! Tooting your horn is not what a true INFJ does.

    • @roggies2008
      @roggies2008 2 года назад

      @@scottjays360s.johnson2 I suggest you prescribe a different medication for your patients. Your never sleeping beauty makes good advice video's but if they can't handle them it would be better to try something a bit more toned down.

  • @a_sm98
    @a_sm98 2 года назад +3

    All I can say is Thank you~ I felt understood.

  • @Betscu.
    @Betscu. 3 года назад +3

    This was so beautiful advice.

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen8036 3 года назад +6

    Weakness is not one of my qualities . This is all about self -deception.

  • @twistedsunshine3276
    @twistedsunshine3276 4 года назад +1

    I could listen to your video all day! Never get tired of it especially when i feel depressed. Keep on speaking your truth and encouraging other people on your point of view. You have a beautiful soul keep it shining. Namaste! ❤

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад

      Thank you very much for your words to me. I like your chosen name ... it's funny how we can say so much in two words.

  • @loref4200
    @loref4200 4 года назад +3

    Firstly, your property is lovely. Thank you for sharing it with us. Secondly, this has been a hard lesson. I'm still doing the work to figure out who I am. I think I can definitely be my own worst enemy. I am quite good at pretending. Thank you for the harshness of this truth.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      It is hard to hear but it was delivered with love to all of you, because I truly understand.

    • @loref4200
      @loref4200 4 года назад

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty I know. I appreciate it.

  • @jivan138
    @jivan138 8 месяцев назад +2

    ❤ Beautiful 🥺🙏❤

  • @jordsintuitive2987
    @jordsintuitive2987 4 года назад +4

    Thank you kind soul... 🙏🏽☺️

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      Hugs to you and wishes for a beautiful day.

    • @jordsintuitive2987
      @jordsintuitive2987 4 года назад

      Your Never Sleeping Beauty: Your words have inspired a desire in me.. it feels nice

    • @jonathanandolina6001
      @jonathanandolina6001 4 года назад

      I think when your ready subconsciously you have no choice to go back only forward. I'm in the in-between I think .. never ending in-between?! Maybe?

  • @Potato.495
    @Potato.495 3 года назад +2

    Just your usual Your Never Sleeping Beauty calling you out like that for your own sake. I could never truly appreciate the work and effort you put into your videos for making us all grow and feel comfortable in our own skin.

  • @some_oldsoul1129
    @some_oldsoul1129 3 года назад +2

    I Love the name of your channel. I've had issues with insomnia for over 20- years now, I wonder if you can relate as well.

  • @allenarrows9347
    @allenarrows9347 Год назад +4

    Know Thyself

  • @jjrj9343
    @jjrj9343 3 года назад +2

    I was lucky in a sense that My brother who I've lived with all my adult life is a completely fact and logic based 'don't bring your emotions into this objective conversation' kind of guy. he's good at analysing people to. so it's super uncomfortable because he can call me out on behaviours I display that are typical INFJ, even if he doesn't know what he's looking for. he just sees the abnormality and dysfunction. so even though it's not been fun, he's helped me grow through the uncomfortability and forcing me to look in a mirror at the less than ideal parts of myself.
    where we butt heads though, is when he assumes I haven't listened and therefore not understood and condescends me/ talks down to me. but it often turns out he just isn't satisfied with my answer. he likes focused discussions with a narrow context where he leads you to the point he's trying to illustrate and I enjoy broad open ended exploratory conversations. I detest being spoken down to, but for him the mode of language shouldn't matter, just the text itself as if read off a page. as if non verbal comms isn't the majority of what's being communicated. but I can remember so clearly growing up having my mum yell at me repeatedly 'it's not what you said, it's how you said it'. so because I'm so ready and willing to accept my mistakes and faux pas', yet I feel his stubborn pride would never allow him to do so frustrates me to no end and often makes trying to be on the same page as him an insurmountable task simply because I don't think he's acting in good faith

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +1

      I admire you, that you've been able to take what is being said objectively and grow from it. We need this kind of criticism, even though it's hard. When we can be honest with it, and apply it, then we have serious growth. Because it's to see yourself, when you would rather not.
      However, you are right that your brother is not acting in good faith. He has some things to learn himself. I think I can guess his type ... INTJ? They're great at forcing us to see ourselves, but when the tables are turned, will try to Te their way out of it, with a whole lot of very clever nonsense. Call him out on it every time you see it. He won't admit it at first, but inside, he'll respect you for seeing it. I've known several INTJs in my life. The ones who can admit they are wrong are gold, and are the best ally and companion you could ever have.

  • @jeannedouglas9912
    @jeannedouglas9912 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for your encouragement.

  • @Yamoon2000
    @Yamoon2000 4 года назад +5

    Is it strange that I relate more to your videos more than bigger INFJ channels (FJ for example)? Your videos are very insightful. I can really feel how you experienced those struggles. You do know how to dive deeply in the subject. When I watched FJ's video on that topic, the advice he gave didn't seem like it was his own experience. It felt like a more generic advice that could be given to anyone. I don't see a lot of similarities between your style (which is much better in my opinion) and FJs style. I'm not trying to say FJ is a bad person. I just don't understand how can two INFJs differ that much from each other.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +3

      Look at how you thought your way through the feeling you started with. The feeling you had was that you didn’t relate, and then you went on to find reasons as to why that was so. I don’t think you necessarily need me to help you with this. Read your last sentence - “I just don’t understand how two INFJs can differ that much from each other.” They can’t … you have already drawn this conclusion yourself. So what does this mean?

    • @Yamoon2000
      @Yamoon2000 4 года назад +1

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty If they can't, then why do I relate to your videos more? I would technically relate to both of you, but it's not the case. Perhaps it's not related to being an INFJ. Could it be that it's only a style preference? It's kind of confusing to me.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +5

      @@Yamoon2000 I am trying to get you to trust your own thought process. You have weighed two things (FJ and yourself) and discovered they do not measure out the same. You ended your first comment by remarking that it didn't seem possible for two INFJs to differ so much. So you have also weighed two other things (FJ and me) and discovered they do not measure out the same. Now weigh you and me. Will we measure out the same? If so, perhaps you and I are the same type and FJ is another.
      Be wise and do not always take on face value who people say they are. Use your mind to determine if that is so, just as you have done here. When you can make these determinations in life, when you can weigh things yourself and know what is true, you will be far ahead of the curve. Trust your thought process.

    • @Yamoon2000
      @Yamoon2000 4 года назад +1

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty I get it now. I do believe you're a real INFJ. I didn't want to admit that to myself because it'd be scary to think that FJ is lying to thousands of people. That's very unfortunate. Many people will think they're an INFJ when they're not because of him. I don't understand how pretending to be an INFJ is more important to him than telling the truth. Anyways, thanks for the help!

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +3

      Maybe FJ believes he is an INFJ. You and I have the same mindset; we see typology as a great tool towards understanding ourselves and others. However, not everyone sees it the way we do. Some aren't honest with themselves. Some people can't see themselves. Some people are in this just for temporary entertainment. This is why discernment is so important. As for those who think they are a certain type because of someone else, if they truly want to know themselves, they will eventually discover who they are.

  • @summerjupitervalentine4008
    @summerjupitervalentine4008 2 года назад +3

    Beautiful 🥰

  • @dopsleutel11
    @dopsleutel11 2 года назад +3

    Fantastic!

  • @girlgolfer1987
    @girlgolfer1987 2 года назад +4

    Poignant... I am an INFJ... I found myself as a child and embraced it... I'm happy to say

  • @wilesdukedubose4431
    @wilesdukedubose4431 2 года назад +2

    Thank you, who ever you are!

  • @jjrj9343
    @jjrj9343 3 года назад +3

    also, you have a really good presenters voice. steady calm and with a nice cadence

  • @shaunbeswarick7952
    @shaunbeswarick7952 4 года назад +1

    Lovely.. "such pretty forks in the road" - Alanis Morissette 😊

  • @ishratpopal9714
    @ishratpopal9714 3 года назад +2

    OH...YESSS....VERY RECENTLY I WOKE UP FROM A RESTLESS SLEEP....AND I KNOW QUITE WELL....WHAT I HAVE TO DO.....

  • @richiemcconnochie2506
    @richiemcconnochie2506 3 года назад +2

    Its about helping others..because we know we are all one..we know how the matrix works..being only positive and truthful.the door of the heart opens.

  • @thesencer1852
    @thesencer1852 4 года назад +2

    This is good to hear and I feel like I'm thinking a little straighter thank you for these words

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад

      It gave me joy to read your words. I don't know who said it, but it's very appropriate: One cannot think crooked and walk straight.

  • @genethuemler4728
    @genethuemler4728 4 года назад +2

    Thank you .

  • @ho8464
    @ho8464 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this vid. I’m currently on my journey to learn who I am

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  2 года назад +1

      Writing has helped me so much - it reinforces things for me, which is extremely helpful.

    • @ho8464
      @ho8464 2 года назад

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty yes-I write in my journal, and I also write poetry to help solidify my values, emotions, etc. It’s so helpful

  • @ashnabarzngy9581
    @ashnabarzngy9581 3 года назад +2

    thanks a lot...

  • @Alex-vc5dr
    @Alex-vc5dr 2 года назад +1

    Very true 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @zaitunkeji5990
    @zaitunkeji5990 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much.

  • @estebannestares2745
    @estebannestares2745 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful 🌱

  • @runaa62
    @runaa62 2 года назад +3

    How do I know if I know already who I am? I know I am an INFJ since 2 years. I watched a lot of videos til then, I know now why I thought I am different and why nobody understands me or nobody tries to understand me asking deeper questions. That's why it always seemed like I am alone although I wasn't. Does it mean that I now know who I am or how do you other INFJs define the finishing line when we finally can enjoy every aspect of our personality?
    Btw you have a beautiful voice, it is so relaxing and informative at the same time ❤ thank you for your audios

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  2 года назад +3

      This is an excellent question, and I don't believe anyone has ever asked this before - at least not worded this way ... there have been similar questions. It's funny, but I had already been forming (in my head) a video that answers this question. I can't make any promises when I will get it done, but I will try to put it together and publish it sometime in the near future.

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  Год назад +2

      Thank you very much for your question. Here are some of my thoughts in answer to you ... ruclips.net/video/nIMNJQY9YIc/видео.html

  • @lilithlight3570
    @lilithlight3570 3 года назад +1

    THANK YOU! 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @wonderly8542
    @wonderly8542 4 года назад +5

    Good that you do this You Never Sleeping Beauty.
    That`s a very interesting subject
    proud to see infj`s or a person speaking up.
    And very smart to be in the background anonymous.
    I'm like 90% feeling with you.
    I see myself in your video like the bird example.
    But i wonder if infj would live in more harmony and nature and peace. Happy for mother earth.
    Into energy would that effect be the same then?
    Lets call it Mirror reflex effect??

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +2

      Thank you for your comment, and you are welcome. I'm not quite sure what you are asking. Are you wondering if things would be better if we lived more in harmony with nature?

    • @cheyanne919
      @cheyanne919 3 года назад

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty I ask myself that a lot.

  • @zentient8840
    @zentient8840 3 года назад +3

    Years... wasted years 😢

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад +3

      It's okay to cry and grieve. But at the same time, they weren't truly wasted. Those years brought you to where you are now, and all the things you've experienced can help you right now in a powerful way. The insights you can come to now wouldn't have been possible without the years of wandering. Trust me ... let your mind reflect and digest it all. It wants to do it anyway and probably will, even without your permission. And if you allow your intuitive process to do its work, something tells me your years ahead may be better than you could believe them to be.

    • @zentient8840
      @zentient8840 3 года назад +1

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty Thank you for this wisdom and encouragement 🙏🏾

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen8036 3 года назад +1

    I am more intact with myself. Yes. Covering up = bottling up. I'm honest with myself .

  • @queenlove12355
    @queenlove12355 3 года назад +1

    I thank you.. 💌

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  3 года назад

      You're welcome ... be strong in your introspection. Beautiful things will be unearthed.

  • @dosh6604
    @dosh6604 4 года назад +4

    thank you for calling me out.❤

  • @ZakHumphreys
    @ZakHumphreys 2 года назад +3

    I offer the world my angelic side , Thus to cross moral lines , You will meet the demon inside .
    - Zak Humphreys -2022 INFJ-A

  • @dannewth8011
    @dannewth8011 2 года назад +2

    Its easiest to do shadow work through a spiritual lens.

  • @meOwjen29
    @meOwjen29 4 года назад +2

    THE BIRD POOPED 😂😂😂
    IM SO SORRY PLEASE.... CARRY ON......

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +4

      I know, but it's an eagle. An EAGLE!!! Eagle poop is welcome here anytime.

    • @meOwjen29
      @meOwjen29 4 года назад

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty 😂😂😂

  • @jasminemariedarling
    @jasminemariedarling 4 года назад +5

    Your voice sounds SO much like that of the host of one of my favorite podcasts, Wise Traditions- Hilda Labrada Gore. Maybe you are her? Feel free to erase this comment if that's true and you want to remain anonymous. sorry 😊 Or I just sound crazy, rambling on about nothing. Lol..Either way, great video & insight as usual!

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +3

      The Weston A. Price Foundation ... I've learned a lot from their findings and teachings. Proud raw milk drinker right here 😊

    • @jasminemariedarling
      @jasminemariedarling 4 года назад +1

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty 😃 I think you are Hilda lol Maybe not... But yes!!! They really helped me get over my long term unhealthy vegan brainwashed ideology. Anywho, glad to hear you're a fan too, Sleeping Beauty! ❤

  • @VikkiLynn
    @VikkiLynn 4 года назад +1

    Thank you. :)

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen8036 3 года назад +1

    What you describe about covering up n telling lies . That was what my NS is like.Not me.

  • @AyushSharma-jp9wd
    @AyushSharma-jp9wd 4 года назад +2

    Thank you :))

  • @improvingman6866
    @improvingman6866 4 года назад +3

    idk what im doing in life, like wtf, who do i go to to find the answers? jesus isn't here, people around me are fake, try to be real, but being real is painful

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  4 года назад +1

      What does "being real" mean for you? I want you to answer this.

    • @joseramirez-hh2sw
      @joseramirez-hh2sw 4 года назад

      Bruh let it out I'm here.
      Edit: ask

    • @improvingman6866
      @improvingman6866 4 года назад

      Your Never Sleeping Beauty Taking care of others, including myself. Really say what I think which I find hard. Being very sensitive.

    • @improvingman6866
      @improvingman6866 4 года назад

      jose ramirez thanks 🙏

    • @joseramirez-hh2sw
      @joseramirez-hh2sw 4 года назад

      @@improvingman6866 okay

  • @robertbordevik5072
    @robertbordevik5072 3 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @allenarrows9347
    @allenarrows9347 Год назад +1

  • @Omarbg95
    @Omarbg95 3 года назад +1

    Damn Google, RUclips and Tik Tok got together track me down, yeah yeah i get it i was just playing dumb hehe.

    • @Omarbg95
      @Omarbg95 3 года назад

      I'll change from engineer to an artist.

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 года назад +1

    What's this means?

  • @All-That-Is-69
    @All-That-Is-69 2 года назад +1

    Um.....on the minute 3:10, if it's ok with you to answer. What's the direct question, the person asked you???

    • @YourNeverSleepingBeauty
      @YourNeverSleepingBeauty  2 года назад +3

      If I thought it was important to the message, I would have shared it.

    • @All-That-Is-69
      @All-That-Is-69 2 года назад +1

      @@YourNeverSleepingBeauty I understand🙂🙂

  • @ricardobarron4574
    @ricardobarron4574 3 года назад +1

    :)

  • @benthelloo4790
    @benthelloo4790 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.