Girls' Expectations In A Relationship | ZULA ChickChats | EP 102
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- Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
- In this episode of ZULA ChickChats, we discuss what are some expectations girls have when they are in a relationship. Watch the video to find out!
Here are the timestamps of the topics covered during the episode:
0:00 - Intro
0:37 - Relationship experiences
3:40 - Showing affection
5:05 - Communication
6:53 - Solving conflicts
7:58 - Trusting your partner
9:56 - Future goals
11:27 - Physical appearance
12:52 - Sex life
14:25 - Resolving unmet expectations
15:38 - Tips and advice
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Renae Cheng - / renaecjc
Chow Jia Hui - / chowjiahui
Leah Shannon - / mizchiefmagik
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Yeow Jia Yi - / yeowjiayi
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Let us know what you expect in a relationship! And don't worry, a guys version is coming soon~ (:
expect non shit constants
Aside from her used to habit to go for fcukboys, I feel like Ranae offers the most sound, mature advice sometimes. 🤷🏽♀️ Hope she finds her forever person when the time comes 💛
yeah especially the depreciating value of women after 30
Yue lun Chloe great of you to continue imposing sexist and outdated views on what a woman’s “value” is or would be, solely based on her age. 🤦🏻♀️ you’re a disgrace
@@nl9444 first you need to be a woman to feel the pressure
Yue lun Chloe lol, I’m a 24 year old female singaporean. Hearing people like you still spouting sexist and outdated stereotypes, and feeling as if you have ANY right to put a “value” to a woman’s worth (much less say that women have “depreciating value”), is just disappointing at this day and age. I hope you keep your anachronistic and demeaning opinions to yourself instead of judging other people’s worth by your standards.
@@nl9444 wait till you are 30
The segments were great but I wished that this video can be longer with more discussions. (:
Maintaining or sustaining a relationship is the hardest... because you need to be patient and understanding with one another. Both parties have to be given the safe space to share their thoughts and feelings, and be heard...
My mom is my greatest role model because she has a big heart and mind. She is independent and dependable. Yet at the same time, she knows how to respect and support my dad even when things are not going well... but at the end of the day, what kept their relationship going were accepting one another, being honest, give and take, and working together...
Do a guy's expectations version too!!
Yes! And i would like to hear from Hafeez!
His genius with language makes me very curious.
Bolin has to be inside idc
And also, Bolin's 1 carpark lot
@@rachelkohwoonsim7445 we got you, stay tuned!!
@@ZULAsg
What bout lesbian n gay episodes?
i used to have this ex who was the same as what Renae mentioned.
The insta was full of those sexy girls pages (revealing half their boobs, sometimes even almost naked, huge knockers and stuff) and it was like 90% out of his following was those. I was so upset by it and it made me feel insecure about myself. When i told him about how i felt he just brushed me off and said "its normal for guys to do this. I see only" but it was so disturbing to know that he was comparing me to them as well especially when he started to tell me things like "you look different from your photos" etc. When he said that, i knew it was time for me to get out of this r/s.
One word for the guys out there - please don't do this kind of thing. it makes your girl feel inferior and insecure
this is so random but i just met this guy from uni, he's quite nice from what I've seen so far, he would call me cute and pretty every time i post my pictures that have been edited with filters, but when he looks at my old pictures which are more natural and raw, he usually says "wow you really look so different in the pictures", it makes me feel insecure, do you think i should just avoid him? :((
Chow's sitting positions 10001 hahaha, love she was comfortable!
This was a great video. My LDR gf is Singaporean and I'm a white boy from the US, I'm always trying to learn about how SG dating culture is different as I want to be a good boyfriend and be sensitive to any culture differences. I think you girls are really open which is awesome. Thanks for the video.
I learned that nobody has differences is we all have one set in mind and that is i want to stay with that person forever and create so many bond memories like marriage and having kids. As the more i think how simple we can be at dating all the option i had went out the window.
I like the Snoopy slippers that Mars is wearing!
i loved this episode so much!!
This is the best line up for this kind of topic!
Great advice and sharing from Mars and Renae! Wish Leah shared more as well but I guess she's the host.
13:22 was super funny!!! enjoyed this video
This video was so fun and engaging 👌🏼👌🏼
Leah's outfit is so cute!
Find someone you can solve conflicts amicably with
loving mars' vibes
For me is simple, As long as my partner is willing to accept me for who I am and willing to go through every single problem or issue that a couple will usually face.
really like mars!!!
Now I really wanna travel to Singapore. I love the personalities on this channel and Smart Local.
wa this is quite a long zula chickchats vid!! hehe🤩
Whut about expectations before dating/getting together?
9:07 i relate with this lmao, i once dated this guy whose instagram followings were filled with all these sginstababes girls! the worst part is that he would constantly compare me with them, putting me down and at that point of time i got rly insecure bc of that. thank goodness i got over it already and needless to say we didn’t even pass the 7 month mark 💀
yha not all guys do that and i don't know why he even do that in the first place i mean he already got you so why make it worst by comparing cause i learned from being around women all the time that's the reason some girls gets super insecure and why some guys don't like that.
Hi Renae, if d guy hs a♥️ of GOLD, he won't b a Fxxxboy anymore 😊.
Maybe u can start to style Rainier to dress like a hypebeast 👌
I think texting one or two does a day to your partner is fine tho... since after marriage I don’t think couples will even text each other except for important things... and I don’t want to text my partner every hour or so then after marriage my partner say something like “last time you not like that one” I think setting the standard for yourself is a bad thing..
I feel like I have a worse understanding of expectations and communication needed in a relationship and I don't think I know the actual point of being in a relationship either becoz I grew up in a single parent household. I mean there are also people who were just naturally wired to date but I am not it seems....
i thought renae was with rainer? i'm so confused
I think its amber light
I think the one thing i noticed when people go on dates or when i'm with the opposite gender is being simple and not over thinking things can be what ties the not to. . Like life is really to short to think stuff like how much money he or she makes or are they tall or short. I mean nothing is wrong with having options its just when is it to much as we are all not perfect at the end of the day everyone is going to be annoyed by somebody.
liked this cast
where is leah’s dress from!!!! :-(
Is it just me but i observe leah starbucks cup turn from green to yellow
HAHAHAHA
nothing special. is just colour changing cup
I thought Renae is attached with someone😏
Oh my God the show affection part. Drop a guy asap if the guy doesn't tell you outright he doesn't like any affection. Got blamed by a guy for giving him a brief hug 😑
Mad respect for Mars for handling that sexual encounter 👍😂👍😂
how do i show him without tagging him
put on your instastory and put close friends list but remove everyone from your list except him
@@oldschoolretroadver Your answer was genius. Can only hope he doesn't mute her or isn't someone who doesn't check IG (stories) often. Otherwise, I must say I'm shooketh by your solution/suggestion lol
@@dorischong2518 Haha I'm shocked to hear that this is genius but I'm glad it was eye-opening. All the best to all those who're gonna use this method!
Wait. I thought Renae is with Rainer?!?
i. thought so too
Accdg to Peps, Rainier's afraid of commitment n as said, Renae cldnt wait till 35!
Being a RAINAE fan, we still hope they can b tgt in real life cos they r so CUTE🤞😍
Renae is not Rainer???
@@Name-dw5vk rainae_ship consists of James Rainier & Renae Cheng, d 👫 R&R 😄
@@Name-dw5vk HAHAHA no!
Girl on the extreme left is the edmw version of a dinobu
Renae, I wish U wld find ur Mr Right soon. 🙏☺️
Wait.Chow is attached?
Check out her youtube... her fiance is there
Respect each othe
Zula actually if it dating the guy can hang out with as many girl as he want because the reason of dating is u can choose who might be Suitable for you in the Long run : and also who might be potentially husband material some people make good Friend but don’t mind good husband actually I aways Emphasise :
This when I am with my mom just to get get a better understanding of the entire situation
And see where my mom is coming from and also to better understand
A f*ckboy with a heart of gold...... Huh?
21 is late bloomer? 😭
When u hear chow is attached.. T_T
🙄
why Chow is not sharing much? :(
She’s just there to look pretty. Her answers were kind of fake anyway.
I do not find Chow's answers fake tho. There're some good advices. e.g. on the compatibility of values for the relationship to be sustainable which I can relate. maybe ur name more fake. euhjene? ew jennie?
@@InYourEpicPants there's smth called editing :)
Sheng Feng The number of likes speaks for itself.
Zed Low You mean the editors edited so that she looks pretty or so that her answers are fake/scripted. Which?
12:21 subs are off
nonsense
Hi Ranae, do you remember our 2 night stand?
Hypocrite? Guys follow insta babe or smthg cannot but she can drool over "hypebeast"?
Hypebeast = fashionable hipster
Ogling insta babe = lecherous pervert
Wld u rather ur sis date which of d above category?!