That second story makes me sick to my core, I swear, her old family is so sick, I feel so bad for the OP. None of it was her fault and now her life is basically ruined again because of a guy confessing. People are so heartless I swear. The police is also so useless. They're suppose to DEFEND people and not care. seriously. I hope the OP is better now
Man, two people in a bad place found each other and lifted each other out of a bad place. I wanna be judgemental, but I cannot. That is a best case scenario and I am so glad to hear it this morning It's nice that hurt can lead to healing. Its a charming thing
The son is one thing, but for the husband it probably wasn't really what it was presented as. The main point was probably that it was kept secret from him despite them getting married, which would not be good for the trust in the marriage.
@@BowserGlazer he has no right to be told about it. That's not how trauma works. You can't just willy nilly talk about it. Take your privileged opinion and shove it. That husband should take the route of the abuser
@@DumbAsh00 I'm privileged with common sense. Higher expectations are put on you when you enter into a marriage with someone else. There can be no secrets
@@BowserGlazer common sense isn't an argument. Literally a fallacy. Learn what having trauma is like. It's not something you want people to know or want to talk about. Especially when talking about it can lead to flashbacks to said trauma. I would rather keep it a secret than go through it. I don't talk about mine with people. I just can't. I can't talk about it. It causes breakdowns and panic attacks. That's not something you should be mad about not being told. Quit victim blaming and do a bit of research. There's a reason all psychologists disagree with your viewpoint, but what do they know right? They only have degrees and have been studying it their entire adult lives, and you have common sense! Lobotomites I swear
@@BowserGlazer on top of it it's preferential to not tell people, especially those who don't understand, cuz then they ask questions and constantly remind you of it. Look at all the shit that the sad excuse of a husband kept asking. He made it all about himself. What a loser
Wtf is up with the women’s family who was sexually assaulted. This shouldn’t of bothered them in anyway besides being pissed off at the guy who did it and the people being assholes to her. The entire thing makes absolutely no sense at all.
@@kaydeereed5748 The thing about the family is right, but that's a big secret to keep from your husband. Finding out that it was kept from you all that time would obviously destroy the trust.
@@BowserGlazer Nah, you'd be surprised the amount of us who've been abused that way out there that haven't told all of it to those we love. Why would you want to hurt others, especially those you love the most with some of your worst moments of the past you want to forget? My hubs knows some of what I've been through, but even he doesn't know all of it. Heck I still remember when I told someone I was close to and serious with as a teen and he got upset saying with how much bad'd happened to me by my early teens that I had to be exaggerating or lying(which is a big part of why we drifted apart). That stuff sticks with you.
The mother working with a bully of her kid: That would be a massive bridge of consideration and trust for me too. Like a big "FU I don't care about your feelings." WTF mom?
How can the abuser's wife sue OP? Her husband was the one who abused OP! I hope the wife's case is thrown out of court. OP is the one who was hurt, and she is now being hurt all over again.
Hi Sparky! I absolutely LOVE the long video. I actually didn't even realize how long it was until I was vacuuming up spilled flour after making bread. I like listening to videos while baking and this video made it a breeze to not have to constantly change the video. Keep up the great work!
Story 3: I'm in Amtgard, I regularly hang out with people in who dress somewhat strangely (one of my friends dresses as a Tiefling with red face paint and horns) it's perfectly fine, you might get weird looks but who gives a flying truck? I would dress more strangely but I don't like how fancier clothes feel and am to lazy
There must be some wacko conservative source for this “debts of a minor” thing because this is NOT the first time I’ve heard of that being used to try and manipulate kids who are trying to break free of their parents.
The OD story was hella confusing - it went from "oh it's unfair how my best friend is still a virgin" to "i reported what happened to the police" - like what?? And did she still go to a dinner alone?
She skipped over the incident but the bf invited her for dinner, when showing up for the dinner the friend was also there. They then SA'd her so that the virgin friend could have his experience. So she reported that
My dad used to spout this nonsense ‘debt of a minor’. He won’t talk about it cause I proved him wrong but I feel that only narcissist parents talk about this shit!
Actually it's quite normal to imagine life long relationships, what's not normal is this generation who constantly complains about being alone but also complains about relationships.
Story 2. While it could be psychosis, with the history of the father's side having those issues, there is something else that could have caused this... a brain tumor. Tumors can form and cause pressure on spots in the brain that can cause people to act differently. There's been cases of people that were never violent to become so, or even cheat or molest a child. In these cases, it was discovered through a brain scan a tumor was present. Once removed, the person reverts completely back to their normal self. Sadly, in certain situations of crime or cheating, the person is now feeling the crushing weight and emotions of their previous actions. Even though they literally we not truly themselves, they can have severe depression for what they did, and fear of what if another forms? Seeing as how it seemed to happen so suddenly, either the type of mental illness he developed was just not very apparent for years, is a type the can onset very quickly, or he could have a tumor.
For story 3 topic, I get the whole dressing to express your personality thing. I dress pretty colourful, but the thing most people notice on me is that I have like brown denim purse that’s shaped like a horse lol it’s got a head with buttons for eyes and legs that stick out the bottom. Most people think it’s neat, my grandma hates it and demands me to switch purses.
That sucks, my Grammy used to love all my girly stuff, she was convinced I should be a model on The Price is Right. Yours should be supporting you, too. Maybe she had a bad experience with a horse? (I'm totally joking) Wear what you want girl. If people don't like it, they don't have to look. I'm old now and still love my frilly mini dresses and big ass skate sneakers. Wear what makes you happy, because the people who matter, don't mind, and vice versa. 🖤🤘
@@shitneyb5562 oh ya, I where what I want, I do switch out my purse when I visit though, gives her one less thing to complain about lol XD She's one of those will never be happy with you grandmas, I do have a grandmas that love my crazy outfits too, one of which gave me the horse purse lol.
That kid’s parents should be arrested for grand theft auto and the car should be returned to him and his parents also owe the buyer the cash for the purchase of car.
I'm so confused on what happened with leaving a husband behind because he wasn't ready in time for a birthday dinner because none of that was even mentioned It was like most of the post was missing about what happened years before, although I did eventually gather that there was an assault by a so-called boyfriend and best friend. Does anyone know the actual story about the husband and the birthday dinner?
@@ACNordstrom probably. Just the other day a title said something about "dragging my nephew out of my wedding" and it was actually about an aunt/uncle who was trying to keep the nephew's financially and mentally abusive mother out of _his_ wedding to protect him. I'm pretty sure it was this channel, anyway. 🤔
I'm listening to story 1 and reading comments: I'm confused Edit: the amount of character development happened is wild, also "minor debt'? really? that even sounds fake
dress to have fun: I like wearing kilts, and I live in the middle of Tennessee. definitely get occasional looks, but thst also happens in the winter the few times we get snow, and I'm wearing shorts, sandals, and Hawaiian shirts 😂
Story 1- girl, the internet is FOREVER! Even if you had porn hub delete your videos, you have no idea how many people shared or save the image. It will come up when you least expect it.
Story 3. Mom is most likely in some sort of relationship with Dave. No good parent is going to side with the sons bully. There will most likley be an update confirming this.
46:38 I would just like to add, in this story (story 2?) the Tupac thing could be because it was what was playing when the incident happened, therefore hearing it brought back those painful memories
I don't actually blame the man for leaving the wife in story number 2. When you go into a marriage, there are no secrets between the 2 of you. The fact that this completely blindsided him is enough for me to understand his reaction.
op that can listen to tupac again, girl i’m so sorry. your family should’ve had your back at the very least. ignoring them and telling them to eff off is warranted edit: now these ppl have ruined her life AGAIN just pure selfishness. like i’m so angry on her behalf
Does the video get really really weird after 30 minutes like it said story 2 then started a different story and it was cut up and missing parts I understand cutting the sa parts but why is all out of no where and just dropped from the video
I feel so stupid, and Google isn't helping me out, so I have to ask: What does "RA" mean, in this context? (I know for damn sure it doesn't mean "Resident Advisor") I know what "SA" means, in this context, but I cannot for the life of me figure out "RA"
RA is R@pe. There's not any easy way to audibly censor/make the word advertiser friendly so I just use RA, apologies for the confusion. (Although I suppose I could use 'Grape' lol.) - Narrator
Debts of a Minor:
A wise person once said
"Everything you OWE to your parents you give to your own kids"
That concept actually exists in some places like China, backwards ass countries.
That second story makes me sick to my core, I swear, her old family is so sick, I feel so bad for the OP. None of it was her fault and now her life is basically ruined again because of a guy confessing. People are so heartless I swear.
The police is also so useless. They're suppose to DEFEND people and not care. seriously. I hope the OP is better now
Man, two people in a bad place found each other and lifted each other out of a bad place.
I wanna be judgemental, but I cannot. That is a best case scenario and I am so glad to hear it this morning
It's nice that hurt can lead to healing. Its a charming thing
Just paid off all my 'Debts off a Minor' this year! Let's go!!!
Let him coom 🔥🗣🗣
COOK*
@@Tisbilly LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, best typo I've ever seen lol
Ok I just finish the story ngl everytime you said that I chuckle like let me believe that lmao
Story 2: Why the heck is OP getting all the backlash?! Both the son and the husband are acting like it was all HER fault!
The son is one thing, but for the husband it probably wasn't really what it was presented as. The main point was probably that it was kept secret from him despite them getting married, which would not be good for the trust in the marriage.
@@BowserGlazer he has no right to be told about it. That's not how trauma works. You can't just willy nilly talk about it. Take your privileged opinion and shove it. That husband should take the route of the abuser
@@DumbAsh00 I'm privileged with common sense. Higher expectations are put on you when you enter into a marriage with someone else. There can be no secrets
@@BowserGlazer common sense isn't an argument. Literally a fallacy. Learn what having trauma is like. It's not something you want people to know or want to talk about. Especially when talking about it can lead to flashbacks to said trauma. I would rather keep it a secret than go through it. I don't talk about mine with people. I just can't. I can't talk about it. It causes breakdowns and panic attacks. That's not something you should be mad about not being told. Quit victim blaming and do a bit of research. There's a reason all psychologists disagree with your viewpoint, but what do they know right? They only have degrees and have been studying it their entire adult lives, and you have common sense! Lobotomites I swear
@@BowserGlazer on top of it it's preferential to not tell people, especially those who don't understand, cuz then they ask questions and constantly remind you of it. Look at all the shit that the sad excuse of a husband kept asking. He made it all about himself. What a loser
For me this video is themed:
"WTF is wrong with these parents?!"
Wtf is up with the women’s family who was sexually assaulted. This shouldn’t of bothered them in anyway besides being pissed off at the guy who did it and the people being assholes to her. The entire thing makes absolutely no sense at all.
And her husband is crap for getting upset he should care for her not be discussed with her
@kaydeereed5748 you are speaking straight facts
@@kaydeereed5748 The thing about the family is right, but that's a big secret to keep from your husband. Finding out that it was kept from you all that time would obviously destroy the trust.
@@BowserGlazer Nah, you'd be surprised the amount of us who've been abused that way out there that haven't told all of it to those we love. Why would you want to hurt others, especially those you love the most with some of your worst moments of the past you want to forget?
My hubs knows some of what I've been through, but even he doesn't know all of it. Heck I still remember when I told someone I was close to and serious with as a teen and he got upset saying with how much bad'd happened to me by my early teens that I had to be exaggerating or lying(which is a big part of why we drifted apart). That stuff sticks with you.
The mother working with a bully of her kid:
That would be a massive bridge of consideration and trust for me too.
Like a big "FU I don't care about your feelings."
WTF mom?
That teacher story is sad. That relationship is irreversibly broken, was broken for no good reason. The Mom failed her son.
The guy wanting a 23 yr old girl to stop dressing up in public should just let her be, why is he trying to change her?? Glad syndrome up with him!
How can the abuser's wife sue OP? Her husband was the one who abused OP! I hope the wife's case is thrown out of court. OP is the one who was hurt, and she is now being hurt all over again.
Hi Sparky!
I absolutely LOVE the long video. I actually didn't even realize how long it was until I was vacuuming up spilled flour after making bread. I like listening to videos while baking and this video made it a breeze to not have to constantly change the video.
Keep up the great work!
Why is story 2 so freaking confusing? 🤦🏼♀️
I got you, girl.
TL/DR: don't be friends with dudes. Women are not friends, we are fvck holes.
Story 3: I'm in Amtgard, I regularly hang out with people in who dress somewhat strangely (one of my friends dresses as a Tiefling with red face paint and horns) it's perfectly fine, you might get weird looks but who gives a flying truck? I would dress more strangely but I don't like how fancier clothes feel and am to lazy
Do you wear pants? That gets me weird looks sometimes too. Try pants. 🤜🤛
My brothers in hate, what the actual f is wrong with those "parents"
There must be some wacko conservative source for this “debts of a minor” thing because this is NOT the first time I’ve heard of that being used to try and manipulate kids who are trying to break free of their parents.
The OD story was hella confusing - it went from "oh it's unfair how my best friend is still a virgin" to "i reported what happened to the police" - like what?? And did she still go to a dinner alone?
She skipped over the incident but the bf invited her for dinner, when showing up for the dinner the friend was also there. They then SA'd her so that the virgin friend could have his experience. So she reported that
@@manuele.floresc Do you know their username?
Story 2: et cetera et cetera et cetera et cetera et cetera et cetera
My dad used to spout this nonsense ‘debt of a minor’. He won’t talk about it cause I proved him wrong but I feel that only narcissist parents talk about this shit!
Actually it's quite normal to imagine life long relationships, what's not normal is this generation who constantly complains about being alone but also complains about relationships.
Story 2. While it could be psychosis, with the history of the father's side having those issues, there is something else that could have caused this... a brain tumor. Tumors can form and cause pressure on spots in the brain that can cause people to act differently. There's been cases of people that were never violent to become so, or even cheat or molest a child. In these cases, it was discovered through a brain scan a tumor was present. Once removed, the person reverts completely back to their normal self. Sadly, in certain situations of crime or cheating, the person is now feeling the crushing weight and emotions of their previous actions. Even though they literally we not truly themselves, they can have severe depression for what they did, and fear of what if another forms? Seeing as how it seemed to happen so suddenly, either the type of mental illness he developed was just not very apparent for years, is a type the can onset very quickly, or he could have a tumor.
Man you can judge, but people find love in the craziest places. I just hope it goes good for them
For story 3 topic, I get the whole dressing to express your personality thing. I dress pretty colourful, but the thing most people notice on me is that I have like brown denim purse that’s shaped like a horse lol it’s got a head with buttons for eyes and legs that stick out the bottom. Most people think it’s neat, my grandma hates it and demands me to switch purses.
That sucks, my Grammy used to love all my girly stuff, she was convinced I should be a model on The Price is Right. Yours should be supporting you, too.
Maybe she had a bad experience with a horse? (I'm totally joking)
Wear what you want girl. If people don't like it, they don't have to look.
I'm old now and still love my frilly mini dresses and big ass skate sneakers. Wear what makes you happy, because the people who matter, don't mind, and vice versa. 🖤🤘
@@shitneyb5562 oh ya, I where what I want, I do switch out my purse when I visit though, gives her one less thing to complain about lol XD She's one of those will never be happy with you grandmas, I do have a grandmas that love my crazy outfits too, one of which gave me the horse purse lol.
@@sarahmartian316 I'm sure you're adorable 🥰
That kid’s parents should be arrested for grand theft auto and the car should be returned to him and his parents also owe the buyer the cash for the purchase of car.
I'm so confused on what happened with leaving a husband behind because he wasn't ready in time for a birthday dinner because none of that was even mentioned It was like most of the post was missing about what happened years before, although I did eventually gather that there was an assault by a so-called boyfriend and best friend. Does anyone know the actual story about the husband and the birthday dinner?
I swear this is a Mashup of older videos, like it was supposed to be that story but got bait n switched to a different story.
@@ACNordstrom probably. Just the other day a title said something about "dragging my nephew out of my wedding" and it was actually about an aunt/uncle who was trying to keep the nephew's financially and mentally abusive mother out of _his_ wedding to protect him. I'm pretty sure it was this channel, anyway. 🤔
I'm listening to story 1 and reading comments: I'm confused
Edit: the amount of character development happened is wild, also "minor debt'? really? that even sounds fake
dress to have fun: I like wearing kilts, and I live in the middle of Tennessee. definitely get occasional looks, but thst also happens in the winter the few times we get snow, and I'm wearing shorts, sandals, and Hawaiian shirts 😂
That intro bruhhhhh
story 2 is just wtf clearly the guy mistakes a lady being a buddy for gf stuff somehow
Story 1- girl, the internet is FOREVER! Even if you had porn hub delete your videos, you have no idea how many people shared or save the image. It will come up when you least expect it.
Story 3. Mom is most likely in some sort of relationship with Dave. No good parent is going to side with the sons bully. There will most likley be an update confirming this.
30:32 I once wore dress clothes and suspenders to school
The OD story is so damn confusing
lol nice reeled her in with cat pictures
46:38 I would just like to add, in this story (story 2?) the Tupac thing could be because it was what was playing when the incident happened, therefore hearing it brought back those painful memories
Long vid ngl kinda poped also kinda mad she didn't go into more detail about the tupac thing but I understand
I don't actually blame the man for leaving the wife in story number 2. When you go into a marriage, there are no secrets between the 2 of you. The fact that this completely blindsided him is enough for me to understand his reaction.
What? You are disgusting. It's not something you can just talk about. You have no idea what you are talking about
''Pee hub'' made me laugh so much 😂
op that can listen to tupac again, girl i’m so sorry. your family should’ve had your back at the very least. ignoring them and telling them to eff off is warranted
edit: now these ppl have ruined her life AGAIN just pure selfishness. like i’m so angry on her behalf
Am I the only one who's wondering what ReallySparked looks like
i think that's just the thing with no camera youtubers
46:24 when it happened they probably were playing Tupac to cover her screams or something idk but this was a horrible thing to happen
What is the game
Does the video get really really weird after 30 minutes like it said story 2 then started a different story and it was cut up and missing parts I understand cutting the sa parts but why is all out of no where and just dropped from the video
Let's GEAUX!!!! 😂
I feel so stupid, and Google isn't helping me out, so I have to ask: What does "RA" mean, in this context? (I know for damn sure it doesn't mean "Resident Advisor")
I know what "SA" means, in this context, but I cannot for the life of me figure out "RA"
RA is R@pe. There's not any easy way to audibly censor/make the word advertiser friendly so I just use RA, apologies for the confusion. (Although I suppose I could use 'Grape' lol.)
- Narrator
@@ABadPassword Ahhhhh okay that makes so much more sense. Thanks for clarifying!
this good
lol
Last
Hol up
“debts of a minor” isn’t a thing. report the officer and file charges against your parents
46:24 when it happened they probably were playing Tupac to cover her screams or something idk but this was a horrible thing to happen