Oh dear Lord, girl in story 4 needs therapy. She refused to accept the fact that he SAd her, she kept making excuses as to why it wasn't SA. I truly hope that she gets the help she so obviously needs.
Good lord, if you open a text book on abuse, it would have his picture as a 3 page fold out centerfold. SA, gaslighting, getting physical, screaming, blaming her for medical issues, messing with her emotions saying SHE would be the bad parent if she didn't do things his way, apologizing, gifts and love bombing. This is a man (using that term very loosely) that up coming councilors would use as training material in school. This poor girl both is caught by sunk cost fallacy ""we already spent so much time together building this" and believing his gaslighting "oh it was my fault, I woke him up". I hope some day she realizes that she doesn't deserve this, that he was NOT showing her love, and that his BS is never ok.
One of my friends got drunk and the dude they were with forced themselves on my friend but my friend was like, oh well I mean I was being pretty flirtatious and when I got drunk I wanted to a little bit I guess. My friend is dating that dude now and I feel so bad for them.
Sister's ashes story...Where does OP live? Because it is not in the USA. Cemetery plots are real estate and come with a title. Ownership is a matter of public record. So, being told that the information cannot be given is a lie, if OP is in the USA. Even cemeteries with no availability still have to allow that information, as legally, the plots can be sold by the title holder or their descendants...hence OP'S mother offering to sell to OP.
The ashes story is so sad. I think op should accept that she will never be able to get her hands on dust sprinkled randomly in a cemetery. At this point she must start giving and accept that lil sis is in her heart. Maybe have a piece of some of her belongings ( a dress or a picture of her) and put it in a necklace. It's heartbreaking to see how much she suffers😢
OP in story 4 is so frustrating like girl read your story objectively and be happy enough you can apparently get out of this abusive relationship relatively easily and run
Nothing frustrates me more than the posts where OP comes to Reddit looking for advice, gets hundreds of responses telling them what they should do to make they're situation better, and OP goes "Nah, I'ma do my own thing." It almost never ends well. At least the OP in the last story finally did the right thing in the end.
It is truly disturbing how many people (especially women) keep saying "I love him so much" about a partner who is clearly abusive... Girls... please... clearly nobody in your lives ever told you or showed you that YOU DESERVE BETTER, but YOU DO!
Story 4: my ex bf was apologising too after SAing me and it doesn't mean he really was sorry or not doing it on purpose, it's juste manipulation. And about the periods.. When I soil my friend sheets he doesn't care, changes them, and wash them without complaining at all wtf
Poor girl was very deep in the abusive relationship. I'm glad she's out now and knows better, but she needs therapy to help her understand better all of this
My mom's first husband forced her to miscarry. She didn't see him as abusive until he threw a loaded shotgun on her lap during an argument saying to shoot him. IT WENT OFF AND PUT A WHOLE IN THEIR TRAILER
The final story was tough to listen to. This poor girl is clearly extremely naive and I suspect she's a people pleaser. I'm worried she'll find a way to compartmentalise his abuse and slip back into a relationship with him. Or potentially worse, start dating a similarly abusive man. It goes without saying, but therapy is an absolute must for her.
Therapy really is needed. Some time single and a DV course to recognise all the abusive red flag signs too, to make sure she breaks being caught in the cycle of abuse.
Story 4: I really want to like OP but it’s hard, she has a savior complex for someone that clearly just doesn’t care. Maybe I’m just cold but if I asked my SO for help and got berated, insulted and dismissed for it, I’d just leave. She needs therapy and time alone and he needs to grow up and get anger management if he’s so notoriously angry and impulsive.
Yeah I was ripping my hair out. I understand this is common for abuse victims but it's still frustrating. It's hard to watch, every time she says "I know" I blurt out "no clearly you don't".
@@igotmyapplejuice7094 The real problem is she _did_ know. She didn't _want_ to know throughout most the saga. She knew and was trying desperately to lose that information.
Story 4 - they’re not using birth control, but she’s sure she didn’t have a miscarriage. I’m afraid for this young woman, she seems to rely on denial to get through life, which perhaps ties in to being assaulted earlier in her life.
that mom is so so horrible. if she wanted to reconcile all she has to do is TELL THEM WHERE THE PLOT IS instead she’s telling them that they can give the mom $9500 in order to know where the sister/daughter is honestly, they can sue for the info
They need to call her out for it directly: "you betrayed us, you lied to us for years, and now you want us to PAY YOU for the location of our sisters remains that you scattered illegally? If you ever want a hope in hell of forgiveness, you will tell us where she is and not demand payment for it. If you don't tell us right now, for free, then consider yourself to not even be a mother, because we are not your family" Emphasis heavily into "you want us to pay you so we can honor our sister, you are the worst kind of evil"
Research PCOS. It's not normal for periods to get THAT heavy, painful, and weakening to her. PCOS is grossly under-diagnosed and is FULLY TREATABLE IN THE EARLY STAGES. It is NOT an STD. It's a hereditary condition 20% of all women get. Including me. I lost my own fertility and my choice to have children. OP needs to ask a Gyno about it pronto!
The last story.... Girl WTF, I know you are young and have trauma, but you cannot be that thick. At least she got the fuck out, but that situation could have been so much worse. SMH
The girl who got SA'd, that is just so painful to listen to. That story gives a flag store a run for its money with the number of red flags the guy was throwing out. I'm a very forgetful person but something as important as a partners trauma is not something you simply forget about in the moment. Then theres the very obvious mental and emotional abuse she suffered. She doesn't realize it but its there. They guy needs to face some consequences for what hes done.
As someone who personally lost their big brother recently I would be beyond furious at my mom. I have a tiny urn that is exactly identical to my brothers big urn, if I found out my brothers ashes were fake I would absolutely lose my mind on my mother. This whole story infuriates me like no other. I can't believe a parent could ever do this to their child who lost their sibling, and don't get me started on the whole plot thing. This whole story is disgusting on the mothers half and absolutely heartbreaking on the families half.
That mother in that story has a maddening capacity for thoughtless, illogical, rampant LIES like my late Mom had. I loved her dearly, despite almost going NC with her because of her frequent weirdly secretive, alcohol-fueled forays into utterly dishonest, sometimes almost psychotic, forays into weird behavior about which she'd needlessly lie over and over, creating a tapestry of lies, shredding my trust, and showing pathological approval at my brother's approbation toward her dishonesty, plus at Dad's complete bafflement as to why I was "crazy enough" to care about "sentimental things" or my Golden Child brother doing hard street drugs and getting more and more out of control, until his fiance put her foot down where no other woman in his life would or could. He got straight and has a strong marriage but is NC with me on my say-so for other, very valid reasons...
That girl is story 4 is... Her story is so sad. Her exboyfriend is an abusive asshat in literally every way possible. All the people saying "uR oLd EnOuGh 2 KnO uR pErIoD wIlL hApPeN11!!!!1!!!" are so, _so_ wildly misinformed about how periods actually work in reality and still somehow think they have the chops to criticize anything about when her "period" started. Nobody can seem to actually READ given how many times she had to re-iterate the exact same details. Her period was actually a miscarriage. She is traumatized beyond reason and is shrugging off therapy. It's so sad.
Woooo, story 4... the two incidents don't even sound like the same guy, which reeks of manipulation to me. And to all the redditors and people shaming her for not being prepared for her period, periods are not always consistent. Foe a variety of reasons, they can be extremely late, or extremely early. People seriously need to stop shaming women for their bodily functions, regardless of how prepared they "should" be. It's bs. This is coming from a girl who has extremely unpredictable, very heavy and very painful periods. Let's not shift the blame here and shame her for bleeding when this mf clearly has no empathy.
Story 4: Unless he had early onset dementia, he didn’t forget. He was crying because he thinks your gonna get the cops involve and take him to court which you could have very much won!! But I guess some people are just that prideful until the BPD kicks in 😡
OMG S4 I heard the first part a few months ago and then the second part... I never realized they were the same people 😮 that girl is completely blind to the truth.
Excuse me… wtf is story 4??! I’m just a few sentences in and the pain I felt in my belly just from imagining her being assaulted like this is making me go insane. That shit hurts, especially when we’re “dry”. And even if it somehow didn’t for someone out there, WHAT THE FUCK? “Good morning!” That mf would wish to never say that again if he did that to me or someone I know. That’s assault, to put it lightly.
*** Sorry for formatting and any grammatical errors. I am using speech to text on my phone*****Okay so the brother in prison his behavior is not okay and what he has done and said to people is not okay and I do not condone this but something happened to him very traumatic in prison and he got no psychiatric help for that. That's not something you can work through on your own. Also, he's an addict. Addiction is a disease and not a choice. I'm going to repeat that addiction is a disease, not a choice. An addiction specialist will tell you the same. Damn thing. I myself am a recovering opioid addict and it is a f****** disease. I do not blame anybody else for my choices and I was never violent like that but I don't know what psychiatric issues that man has that is interacting with all those drugs. After he needs a lot of psychiatric help and that's what the family should have done instead of using pretty words and throwing money at him. And being done with them I get it. You need to focus on your own mental health, but that's kind of kicking somebody when they're already on the ground.
I just did a college paper on this. People with Substance Use Disorders are more likely to be reincarnated, it's more likely to coincide with mental health, the drugs replace the dopamine receptors, and a lot of the time people with SUD need to hit rock bottom before they get back up. The family isn't at fault. There is just a massive lack of understanding in the Reddit comments.
To the identity theft story ; how is it easy to create cards just by their social security number? (Not american here) & how do check your credits? Do you have to physically go & ask every bank in existence? That is so scary
This is how my ex opened two cards in my name bc she got access to my SS number. Online applications don't verify and most younger people don't always check their credit reports unless they need to apply for something so a sneaky person can do some real damage in a short period of time.
Story 4 was so saddening, but I'm glad it got its bittersweet ending. He was 100% trying to baby trap that poor woman. Also, as someone who's wanting to get a psychology degree, I'm not surprised she went back that one last time. I'm just upset he had that chance to hurt her again, but at least it (for lack of better wording) knocked some sense into her, and allowed her to cut ties and free herself from him. She's still vulnerable to his manipulation, but there's a crack in the rose tinted glasses, and that crack is only going to grow and shatter.
The fact that the mother in the Asges story won't just TELL them what plot it is tells you everything you need to know about her. She is holding onto that because it's the only thing that gives her power over them to try and prevent them from forcing her out of their lives.
The cremains story, if she scattered them, the cemetery probably doesn't know. And it was done illegally. To even put a cremated loved one in the casket with you, you'd have to pay for opening and closing twice. That's probably why the cemetery doesn't have record of the sister in the cemetery because they wouldn't keep that from anyone.
Well... that miscªrriage was on good timing not gonna lie. OP then would be trapped with a r*pist and an abuser. I don't undersand why she tried to get back with him. So in the end he did really hit women.
DV is very complex, and it can take on average 7 attempts to really get out. The manipulation, gaslighting, love bombing and trauma bonding can be so effective, that it can make it hard to recognise that what's going on is even abuse, and even make the victim feel like they're at fault for a long time, keeping them trapped, and wondering if they did something different, maybe the abuse wouldn't have happened.
I was going to comment "you should have your siblings check their own credit, if he did this to your mom, then you, then who else?" He STOLE from you, they should be mad at HIM.
I hope OP in story 4 learns from this. Don't tolerate any abuse. You can have arguments, but the moment you try to tear your partner down you don't deserve them any more. If her periods are often so heavy they could be mistaken for an abortion she should try to get that under control, hormones can help a lot. Either through birth control or otherwise.
The woman who scattered her daughters ashes and refuses to tell her family where she scattered them is extremely selfish. She lied to them by giving them necklaces filled with ordinary ash. The least she could do is tell them where she scattered the daughters ashes. The whole family is grieving for the girl, not just the mother, and she must stop gatekeeping her daughter's ashes so the rest of the family can go and mourn the girl and get some spil from the place where the girl.was scattered.
If the OP in the last post doesn't get therapy, she's bound to repeat the cycle of abuse.Insight, clarity into her actions and healthy boundaries won't develop spontaneously
Story 4, I getting in my last nerve, he is a narcissist all the things he does to her are the biggest red flags, and he did SA her. I am an SA survivor, and this just triggered me big time
24:29 That's such a sad story. Was it mentioned how the sister died? Cauze if no,then the ashes in tnis case might be a murder evidence too. Just report anonimously you suspect a murder of a child,i think kf you tell all the detsils,and a court sees how is the mother wnd the stepdad,they will obligate the police to exhumate the body
Yep she is going to be an abuser that's how it starts up they're really nice at first and then you start seeing red flags a little later on this girl will learn the next time he's going to beat her up and give her a black eye and hopefully she'll leave him but this guy he gave her gifts afterwards that's another sign of an abuser they give letters and gifts after they hurt somebody they think they love but they don't
What op in 1 ineeds to understand is that prison doesn't fix you or rehabilitate it will make you worse...one of these days hes going to commit "die" and you all are going to sit there wondering why.
Story 4...... nope nope nope nope!!! I just couldn't. I hope she gets out and gets help. At the same time, I feel like it's fake because there is no way. 😡
39:55 Just for me is strange that the girl didn't mention in the first post,that once before she let him do the exact same sleeping thing,only the replies,so basically she chamged her nind about the story,so for me that's questionable too
The one where she wakes up with her bf ontop of her that is 100% SA their was no consent, no asking and was preparing for it while you whete unconscious he only stopped when you started crying because you woke up he was going to do it while you slept without consent its literally rape
S4: I thought it was only about the SA, which still can be salvageable in this case imo, since It can be a mistake and can be fixed with a proper communication and more firm boundaries if she wishes to want to continue. And yeah, I don't agree with her apologizing And then... it's more than that. Run away girl and get some help
Period girl needs treatment, there are pain meds and another med that reduces the amount of blood you lose. Changed my life when I found these. Wish someone had told me sooner.
I’m sorry you literally said you were fine with him having sex with you when you was sleeping you said nothing about something being wrong with that 🤦🏽♀️you are supposed to say something so he won’t do it again it’s your fault cuz you didn’t say anything but the other stuff damn break up with him that is good but in the future make sure you let your new bf know your not okay with something they do cuz if not they will think 💭 oh your okay with him doing that
I am sorry the last story the guy is garbage but she shouldn't have keep putting hands on him she should have just left a long time ago and no I am not justifying what he did he is a terrible person but she needs therapy and stop putting hands on people and taking there stuff
Story 4 I was willing to say that was just miscommunication or forgetfulness because of the seemingly remorse but the updates no that was intentional stay broken up nothing good will come from staying or getting back with him 💯 like I was diagnosed at 18 with intermittent explosive disorder meaning I can be chilling one moment and flip out the next it’s not an issue now after working on it though I do still have anger issues in general but the one I claim to love 9/10 is the one who calms me down it’s like Betty Ross and the hulk in the 2008 hulk movie in the city that’s probably the best I can describe it
Some people just have to learn the hard way, and story 4 OP is one of those people. Her saying she'd never been hit in the face before in her entire life made the rest of the story make so much sense. 😅
story 4 is so infuriating that i feel bad for how mad im getting at a clear victim but my GOD girl i don’t wanna see on 5 o lock news or viral on tiktok or twitter because he finally went too far. please leave
Regarding the sister’s ashes story, the PI brought up by the narrator is a great idea. Someone should track down the post and suggest this to OP.
Oh dear Lord, girl in story 4 needs therapy. She refused to accept the fact that he SAd her, she kept making excuses as to why it wasn't SA. I truly hope that she gets the help she so obviously needs.
Good lord, if you open a text book on abuse, it would have his picture as a 3 page fold out centerfold. SA, gaslighting, getting physical, screaming, blaming her for medical issues, messing with her emotions saying SHE would be the bad parent if she didn't do things his way, apologizing, gifts and love bombing. This is a man (using that term very loosely) that up coming councilors would use as training material in school. This poor girl both is caught by sunk cost fallacy ""we already spent so much time together building this" and believing his gaslighting "oh it was my fault, I woke him up". I hope some day she realizes that she doesn't deserve this, that he was NOT showing her love, and that his BS is never ok.
One of my friends got drunk and the dude they were with forced themselves on my friend but my friend was like, oh well I mean I was being pretty flirtatious and when I got drunk I wanted to a little bit I guess. My friend is dating that dude now and I feel so bad for them.
Sister's ashes story...Where does OP live? Because it is not in the USA. Cemetery plots are real estate and come with a title. Ownership is a matter of public record. So, being told that the information cannot be given is a lie, if OP is in the USA. Even cemeteries with no availability still have to allow that information, as legally, the plots can be sold by the title holder or their descendants...hence OP'S mother offering to sell to OP.
She sounds unhinged. She needs grief counseling. Complete overreaction and way too violent.
The ashes story is so sad. I think op should accept that she will never be able to get her hands on dust sprinkled randomly in a cemetery. At this point she must start giving and accept that lil sis is in her heart. Maybe have a piece of some of her belongings ( a dress or a picture of her) and put it in a necklace. It's heartbreaking to see how much she suffers😢
OP in story 4 is so frustrating like girl read your story objectively and be happy enough you can apparently get out of this abusive relationship relatively easily and run
Nothing frustrates me more than the posts where OP comes to Reddit looking for advice, gets hundreds of responses telling them what they should do to make they're situation better, and OP goes "Nah, I'ma do my own thing." It almost never ends well. At least the OP in the last story finally did the right thing in the end.
It is truly disturbing how many people (especially women) keep saying "I love him so much" about a partner who is clearly abusive...
Girls... please... clearly nobody in your lives ever told you or showed you that YOU DESERVE BETTER, but YOU DO!
Story 4: my ex bf was apologising too after SAing me and it doesn't mean he really was sorry or not doing it on purpose, it's juste manipulation.
And about the periods.. When I soil my friend sheets he doesn't care, changes them, and wash them without complaining at all wtf
Poor girl was very deep in the abusive relationship. I'm glad she's out now and knows better, but she needs therapy to help her understand better all of this
These were kinda heart breaking and I wish the best for the OP of the last story.
My mom's first husband forced her to miscarry. She didn't see him as abusive until he threw a loaded shotgun on her lap during an argument saying to shoot him. IT WENT OFF AND PUT A WHOLE IN THEIR TRAILER
The final story was tough to listen to. This poor girl is clearly extremely naive and I suspect she's a people pleaser.
I'm worried she'll find a way to compartmentalise his abuse and slip back into a relationship with him. Or potentially worse, start dating a similarly abusive man.
It goes without saying, but therapy is an absolute must for her.
Therapy really is needed. Some time single and a DV course to recognise all the abusive red flag signs too, to make sure she breaks being caught in the cycle of abuse.
A little part of her feels violated?! WITAF
Story 4: I really want to like OP but it’s hard, she has a savior complex for someone that clearly just doesn’t care. Maybe I’m just cold but if I asked my SO for help and got berated, insulted and dismissed for it, I’d just leave. She needs therapy and time alone and he needs to grow up and get anger management if he’s so notoriously angry and impulsive.
Yeah I was ripping my hair out. I understand this is common for abuse victims but it's still frustrating. It's hard to watch, every time she says "I know" I blurt out "no clearly you don't".
@@igotmyapplejuice7094 The real problem is she _did_ know. She didn't _want_ to know throughout most the saga. She knew and was trying desperately to lose that information.
Story 4 - they’re not using birth control, but she’s sure she didn’t have a miscarriage. I’m afraid for this young woman, she seems to rely on denial to get through life, which perhaps ties in to being assaulted earlier in her life.
that mom is so so horrible. if she wanted to reconcile all she has to do is TELL THEM WHERE THE PLOT IS
instead she’s telling them that they can give the mom $9500 in order to know where the sister/daughter is
honestly, they can sue for the info
I hated the casual, coming out conflict between them and their mom like so your mom has always been awful. wtf
They need to call her out for it directly: "you betrayed us, you lied to us for years, and now you want us to PAY YOU for the location of our sisters remains that you scattered illegally? If you ever want a hope in hell of forgiveness, you will tell us where she is and not demand payment for it. If you don't tell us right now, for free, then consider yourself to not even be a mother, because we are not your family" Emphasis heavily into "you want us to pay you so we can honor our sister, you are the worst kind of evil"
Actually periods can be so painful that some people even pass out with them
Research PCOS. It's not normal for periods to get THAT heavy, painful, and weakening to her. PCOS is grossly under-diagnosed and is FULLY TREATABLE IN THE EARLY STAGES.
It is NOT an STD. It's a hereditary condition 20% of all women get. Including me. I lost my own fertility and my choice to have children. OP needs to ask a Gyno about it pronto!
I don't think that's at all healthy
Get help stop projecting
The last story....
Girl WTF, I know you are young and have trauma, but you cannot be that thick. At least she got the fuck out, but that situation could have been so much worse. SMH
So, Narrator, which was more frustrating/annoying to read, Kendall's story, yesterday's last story about the unhinged guy, or today's last story?
Crazy guy from yesterday and it's not even close 😂
*KENDALL*
Oh my god, the unhinged guy was... Quite a ride
Kendall still hitting up ABadPassword for money to this day😂
@@Azulakayes who's kendall?
The girl who got SA'd, that is just so painful to listen to. That story gives a flag store a run for its money with the number of red flags the guy was throwing out. I'm a very forgetful person but something as important as a partners trauma is not something you simply forget about in the moment. Then theres the very obvious mental and emotional abuse she suffered. She doesn't realize it but its there. They guy needs to face some consequences for what hes done.
As someone who personally lost their big brother recently I would be beyond furious at my mom. I have a tiny urn that is exactly identical to my brothers big urn, if I found out my brothers ashes were fake I would absolutely lose my mind on my mother. This whole story infuriates me like no other. I can't believe a parent could ever do this to their child who lost their sibling, and don't get me started on the whole plot thing. This whole story is disgusting on the mothers half and absolutely heartbreaking on the families half.
That mother in that story has a maddening capacity for thoughtless, illogical, rampant LIES like my late Mom had.
I loved her dearly, despite almost going NC with her because of her frequent weirdly secretive, alcohol-fueled forays into utterly dishonest, sometimes almost psychotic, forays into weird behavior about which she'd needlessly lie over and over, creating a tapestry of lies, shredding my trust, and showing pathological approval at my brother's approbation toward her dishonesty, plus at Dad's complete bafflement as to why I was "crazy enough" to care about "sentimental things" or my Golden Child brother doing hard street drugs and getting more and more out of control, until his fiance put her foot down where no other woman in his life would or could. He got straight and has a strong marriage but is NC with me on my say-so for other, very valid reasons...
My above paragraph has some flaws, but still makes sense, and I'm too tired to fix it perfectionistically...
i listened to story 4 while driving and had to pull over so many times out of frustration
That girl is story 4 is... Her story is so sad. Her exboyfriend is an abusive asshat in literally every way possible. All the people saying "uR oLd EnOuGh 2 KnO uR pErIoD wIlL hApPeN11!!!!1!!!" are so, _so_ wildly misinformed about how periods actually work in reality and still somehow think they have the chops to criticize anything about when her "period" started. Nobody can seem to actually READ given how many times she had to re-iterate the exact same details. Her period was actually a miscarriage. She is traumatized beyond reason and is shrugging off therapy. It's so sad.
Woooo, story 4... the two incidents don't even sound like the same guy, which reeks of manipulation to me.
And to all the redditors and people shaming her for not being prepared for her period, periods are not always consistent. Foe a variety of reasons, they can be extremely late, or extremely early. People seriously need to stop shaming women for their bodily functions, regardless of how prepared they "should" be. It's bs. This is coming from a girl who has extremely unpredictable, very heavy and very painful periods. Let's not shift the blame here and shame her for bleeding when this mf clearly has no empathy.
The thing that got me like girl are you kidding me was he said HEY GOOD MORNING as he S!A her??? Also I got the miscarriage right sadly.
Story 4: Unless he had early onset dementia, he didn’t forget. He was crying because he thinks your gonna get the cops involve and take him to court which you could have very much won!! But I guess some people are just that prideful until the BPD kicks in 😡
OMG S4 I heard the first part a few months ago and then the second part... I never realized they were the same people 😮 that girl is completely blind to the truth.
Excuse me… wtf is story 4??! I’m just a few sentences in and the pain I felt in my belly just from imagining her being assaulted like this is making me go insane. That shit hurts, especially when we’re “dry”. And even if it somehow didn’t for someone out there, WHAT THE FUCK? “Good morning!” That mf would wish to never say that again if he did that to me or someone I know. That’s assault, to put it lightly.
If he is caught snitching in prison... O boy plus being with family... No money. O boy
*** Sorry for formatting and any grammatical errors. I am using speech to text on my phone*****Okay so the brother in prison his behavior is not okay and what he has done and said to people is not okay and I do not condone this but something happened to him very traumatic in prison and he got no psychiatric help for that. That's not something you can work through on your own. Also, he's an addict. Addiction is a disease and not a choice. I'm going to repeat that addiction is a disease, not a choice. An addiction specialist will tell you the same. Damn thing. I myself am a recovering opioid addict and it is a f****** disease. I do not blame anybody else for my choices and I was never violent like that but I don't know what psychiatric issues that man has that is interacting with all those drugs. After he needs a lot of psychiatric help and that's what the family should have done instead of using pretty words and throwing money at him. And being done with them I get it. You need to focus on your own mental health, but that's kind of kicking somebody when they're already on the ground.
I just did a college paper on this. People with Substance Use Disorders are more likely to be reincarnated, it's more likely to coincide with mental health, the drugs replace the dopamine receptors, and a lot of the time people with SUD need to hit rock bottom before they get back up. The family isn't at fault. There is just a massive lack of understanding in the Reddit comments.
To the identity theft story ; how is it easy to create cards just by their social security number? (Not american here) & how do check your credits? Do you have to physically go & ask every bank in existence? That is so scary
Online application will do it on both counts
Some companies still do applications by mail as well.
This is how my ex opened two cards in my name bc she got access to my SS number. Online applications don't verify and most younger people don't always check their credit reports unless they need to apply for something so a sneaky person can do some real damage in a short period of time.
Story 4 was so saddening, but I'm glad it got its bittersweet ending. He was 100% trying to baby trap that poor woman.
Also, as someone who's wanting to get a psychology degree, I'm not surprised she went back that one last time. I'm just upset he had that chance to hurt her again, but at least it (for lack of better wording) knocked some sense into her, and allowed her to cut ties and free herself from him. She's still vulnerable to his manipulation, but there's a crack in the rose tinted glasses, and that crack is only going to grow and shatter.
The fact that the mother in the Asges story won't just TELL them what plot it is tells you everything you need to know about her.
She is holding onto that because it's the only thing that gives her power over them to try and prevent them from forcing her out of their lives.
The cremains story, if she scattered them, the cemetery probably doesn't know. And it was done illegally. To even put a cremated loved one in the casket with you, you'd have to pay for opening and closing twice. That's probably why the cemetery doesn't have record of the sister in the cemetery because they wouldn't keep that from anyone.
Yeah….theres CNC, there’s somno kinks, and then there’s…..THAT. Not okay. Not at all.
The bar for men is so low its a damn tavern in Hell
And it's still a 14 story climb 😂
Well... that miscªrriage was on good timing not gonna lie. OP then would be trapped with a r*pist and an abuser. I don't undersand why she tried to get back with him. So in the end he did really hit women.
DV is very complex, and it can take on average 7 attempts to really get out. The manipulation, gaslighting, love bombing and trauma bonding can be so effective, that it can make it hard to recognise that what's going on is even abuse, and even make the victim feel like they're at fault for a long time, keeping them trapped, and wondering if they did something different, maybe the abuse wouldn't have happened.
Girl of story 4. Please, please, please for the love of God leave him before he takes your life.
I was going to comment "you should have your siblings check their own credit, if he did this to your mom, then you, then who else?" He STOLE from you, they should be mad at HIM.
Story number 4 depresses the hell out of me.
I hope OP in story 4 learns from this. Don't tolerate any abuse. You can have arguments, but the moment you try to tear your partner down you don't deserve them any more.
If her periods are often so heavy they could be mistaken for an abortion she should try to get that under control, hormones can help a lot. Either through birth control or otherwise.
The woman who scattered her daughters ashes and refuses to tell her family where she scattered them is extremely selfish. She lied to them by giving them necklaces filled with ordinary ash. The least she could do is tell them where she scattered the daughters ashes. The whole family is grieving for the girl, not just the mother, and she must stop gatekeeping her daughter's ashes so the rest of the family can go and mourn the girl and get some spil from the place where the girl.was scattered.
If the OP in the last post doesn't get therapy, she's bound to repeat the cycle of abuse.Insight, clarity into her actions and healthy boundaries won't develop spontaneously
Story 4, I getting in my last nerve, he is a narcissist all the things he does to her are the biggest red flags, and he did SA her. I am an SA survivor, and this just triggered me big time
Story 4 hopefully he gets help. Sounds like he needs therapy. His issues ruined a good relationship
24:29 That's such a sad story. Was it mentioned how the sister died? Cauze if no,then the ashes in tnis case might be a murder evidence too.
Just report anonimously you suspect a murder of a child,i think kf you tell all the detsils,and a court sees how is the mother wnd the stepdad,they will obligate the police to exhumate the body
Report him story 4 girl. Men like this will cheat, and also SA you again. This is an abusive man.
The brother one that you know the second story I think your brother has undiagnosed schizophrenia that's what it sounds like
Just a suggestion: time stamps for stories are awesome
Story 4-period girl. She sounds f*cking exhausting
Period girl needs to get out of the relationship until she grows up. She sounds like she's about 13.
Yep she is going to be an abuser that's how it starts up they're really nice at first and then you start seeing red flags a little later on this girl will learn the next time he's going to beat her up and give her a black eye and hopefully she'll leave him but this guy he gave her gifts afterwards that's another sign of an abuser they give letters and gifts after they hurt somebody they think they love but they don't
What op in 1 ineeds to understand is that prison doesn't fix you or rehabilitate it will make you worse...one of these days hes going to commit "die" and you all are going to sit there wondering why.
Story 4...... nope nope nope nope!!! I just couldn't. I hope she gets out and gets help. At the same time, I feel like it's fake because there is no way. 😡
39:55 Just for me is strange that the girl didn't mention in the first post,that once before she let him do the exact same sleeping thing,only the replies,so basically she chamged her nind about the story,so for me that's questionable too
The one where she wakes up with her bf ontop of her that is 100% SA their was no consent, no asking and was preparing for it while you whete unconscious he only stopped when you started crying because you woke up he was going to do it while you slept without consent its literally rape
The guy from story 4 is bipolar. For people calling him an abser get your sh together. I was absed in way worse ways and no one batted an eye on it.
Plus periods can be very irregular hell mine since I have some thyroid issues my periods can be very irregular infact mine is a month or two later
What game is that?
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you told everybody i beat girls..
then he proceeds to beat a girl. geezus....
S4:
I thought it was only about the SA, which still can be salvageable in this case imo, since It can be a mistake and can be fixed with a proper communication and more firm boundaries if she wishes to want to continue. And yeah, I don't agree with her apologizing
And then... it's more than that. Run away girl and get some help
I feel like the last story was just rage bait.
Story 4 is really frustrating...
Story 4: that’s rape.. there’s no other way to define that
Also that relationship is so insanely abusive i genuinely just have no idea what to say.
Story 3 I would made lawsuit with ut
Period girl needs treatment, there are pain meds and another med that reduces the amount of blood you lose. Changed my life when I found these. Wish someone had told me sooner.
I’m sorry you literally said you were fine with him having sex with you when you was sleeping you said nothing about something being wrong with that 🤦🏽♀️you are supposed to say something so he won’t do it again it’s your fault cuz you didn’t say anything but the other stuff damn break up with him that is good but in the future make sure you let your new bf know your not okay with something they do cuz if not they will think 💭 oh your okay with him doing that
I am sorry the last story the guy is garbage but she shouldn't have keep putting hands on him she should have just left a long time ago and no I am not justifying what he did he is a terrible person but she needs therapy and stop putting hands on people and taking there stuff
Story 4 I was willing to say that was just miscommunication or forgetfulness because of the seemingly remorse but the updates no that was intentional stay broken up nothing good will come from staying or getting back with him 💯 like I was diagnosed at 18 with intermittent explosive disorder meaning I can be chilling one moment and flip out the next it’s not an issue now after working on it though I do still have anger issues in general but the one I claim to love 9/10 is the one who calms me down it’s like Betty Ross and the hulk in the 2008 hulk movie in the city that’s probably the best I can describe it
I like the other guy better he yaps less and makes less annoying voices
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Some people just have to learn the hard way, and story 4 OP is one of those people. Her saying she'd never been hit in the face before in her entire life made the rest of the story make so much sense. 😅
story 4 is so infuriating that i feel bad for how mad im getting at a clear victim but my GOD girl i don’t wanna see on 5 o lock news or viral on tiktok or twitter because he finally went too far. please leave
story 4 was so insane i forgot the initial plot was about her period. THIS is your sweet innocent guy?
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