He never intended to pay in the first place. The "disapproval" was just the excuse. OP should've forced him to sign a contract back then. Glad he learned his lesson with the rental agreement, and I want to believe he only did it because, if the father had been forced to move out, it might've hurt the stepmother's alimony and child support.
Thanks to all the Reddit stories I’ve come to terms with the fact that “I don’t care if we’re related, I’ve known you for over a decade, we’re close friends, or any of that. If you wanna borrow money, you sign a contract.” It’s sad there’s almost no trust left to be had in this world, but damn I’m not taking those chances.
Honestly OP should offer Savannah to testify on her behalf in the divorce and custody hearings and if she refuses say it's compensation for being tricked into kicking her out of the wedding
The biggest irony about the father being blackmailed by his AP? Had the truth not come out, she would've continued to blackmail him, because once people start blackmailing, they never stop. So, in the end, OP did his sp--m donor even more of a favor. At least the alimony and child support are temporary.
Alimony can continue until one party is dead in some circumstances. Case in point all the Floridian divorcees moaning up a storm recently after a new law was passed in the state curtailed alimony lengths (that might cost DeSantis and the Florida GOP for the next few elections).
There is more... Jemma is a brat than suddenly shes a sweet child. Savannah is good and suddenly shes a scammer along with spermdonor... This one is either bad fanfiction or bad AI
People are so scared to say no, and to sue for what's theirs. As soon as the dad said the first "no im not returning the money", he would've been served the next day. You could see it coming from a mile away he wasn't gonna pay you back.
I'm glad at least the stepmom is a amazing woman, and the stepsister seems like a good person too (not really surprising she was a brat when young, and it's surely thanks for to her mom she grew up to be a decent person). What an awful person the dad is, though.
Some fathers don't need to be fathers plain and simple. Both my folks did the same thing regarding a laptop that I had bought only thing is the laptop was bought by me and it was supposed to go to me and it did but only after changing the deal on the thing 6+ times.
It's not your fault it's your dad's fault because he wanted him to pay for his step sister's college and he promised to pay him back the money but he didn't pay back the money and he didn't care about his own son he only cared about their own step sister and he scammed him out of his money and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for wanted him to pay for his step sister's college but he didn't pay him back and he didn't care about his own son and he only cared about their step sister and he scammed him out of his own money and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his fault not yours.
"I had literal flames coming from my ears", I wish I could see that. That being said, it this phrase and a few other ones where you know the guy isn't a writer and this isn't AI. A story I fully believe.
Not listened to the story yet, but if you never met, seen or been told stuff about cheating parent's new or first kid, then in your senses its 'their other child', or 'I guess technically we are a type of related. Huh. Moving on'. If the bond or even familiarity isn't there meeting later on would feel much closer to strangers, new distant cousin, or a step sibling, only less enthused because of pressure of outside expectations. Unless both really want this. Like purposefully searching for blood relatives or something
So.... first Jemma is a whinny brat and now suddenly she's a sweet kid? I know people change and all that but how would OP know that? The math ain't mathing here. Edit: Savanah didn't know that the father borrowed money from Grandpa but two seconds later the father specifically says he's going to borrow it from Grandpa??? Edit 2: Savanah CALLED OP and said that the money had been used for Ashely but suddenly Savanah thinks OP offered it willingly??? This is clearly either ai generated or OP can't write a coherent story to save their life because none of these facts are lining up.
Honestly OP is kind of an idiot. He just assumed Savannah was in on the dad's scheme for no reason. Also he didn't disinvite his dad despite him being blatantly racist against the fiance many times.
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The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
So he promised you HIS money for your college but he had to back out for family reasons and you're mad at him because you had to take loans out like everbody else. From the sounds of it he's not a 10 out of 10 dad but you sound really entitled to money you never work for.
He never intended to pay in the first place. The "disapproval" was just the excuse.
OP should've forced him to sign a contract back then. Glad he learned his lesson with the rental agreement, and I want to believe he only did it because, if the father had been forced to move out, it might've hurt the stepmother's alimony and child support.
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Thanks to all the Reddit stories I’ve come to terms with the fact that “I don’t care if we’re related, I’ve known you for over a decade, we’re close friends, or any of that. If you wanna borrow money, you sign a contract.”
It’s sad there’s almost no trust left to be had in this world, but damn I’m not taking those chances.
Honestly OP should offer Savannah to testify on her behalf in the divorce and custody hearings and if she refuses say it's compensation for being tricked into kicking her out of the wedding
Sounds like the stepmom is a better parent than the so called dad.
Of all the stories about step-parents to this stepmom actually respects OPs boundaries.
By SUCH a wide margin
The biggest irony about the father being blackmailed by his AP? Had the truth not come out, she would've continued to blackmail him, because once people start blackmailing, they never stop.
So, in the end, OP did his sp--m donor even more of a favor. At least the alimony and child support are temporary.
Alimony can continue until one party is dead in some circumstances.
Case in point all the Floridian divorcees moaning up a storm recently after a new law was passed in the state curtailed alimony lengths (that might cost DeSantis and the Florida GOP for the next few elections).
No wonder why OP's dad isalways mad at OP, because he's a cheater
Ashley isn't your step-sister, she's your half sister💀
If you give up money without a signed legal document, don't expect it back.
A friend of mine was assassinated by his own sister. The cause was also a loan without any proof of documents.
dad failed in so many levels that's beyond amazing
"reasonable excuse" being racist isn't reasonable, I'm really confused why he isn't calling his father that
Probably because it’s divisive and he might live in an area that sees accusations of racism as a sham.
OP: I will not be charging him the rent, because he deserves it. lol. This is why proofreading is a must.
"I uninvited him from my wedding"
Later "He's still has an invitation to the wedding"
C'mon AI do better.
There is more... Jemma is a brat than suddenly shes a sweet child.
Savannah is good and suddenly shes a scammer along with spermdonor...
This one is either bad fanfiction or bad AI
People are so scared to say no, and to sue for what's theirs. As soon as the dad said the first "no im not returning the money", he would've been served the next day. You could see it coming from a mile away he wasn't gonna pay you back.
I'm glad at least the stepmom is a amazing woman, and the stepsister seems like a good person too (not really surprising she was a brat when young, and it's surely thanks for to her mom she grew up to be a decent person).
What an awful person the dad is, though.
Remember kids, dont loan out large sums without contracts. Even family
Yes, I have seen 2 children disown their parents just because of loans without contracts.
OP's "father" would rather be thought of as a racist than a cheater.
Some fathers don't need to be fathers plain and simple. Both my folks did the same thing regarding a laptop that I had bought only thing is the laptop was bought by me and it was supposed to go to me and it did but only after changing the deal on the thing 6+ times.
That’s a damn good stepmom.
It's not your fault it's your dad's fault because he wanted him to pay for his step sister's college and he promised to pay him back the money but he didn't pay back the money and he didn't care about his own son he only cared about their own step sister and he scammed him out of his money and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for wanted him to pay for his step sister's college but he didn't pay him back and he didn't care about his own son and he only cared about their step sister and he scammed him out of his own money and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his fault not yours.
wtf, i see you in almost every telltales comment section, lol
holy moly, the dad is so deep into the hole that there's no basically any chance of him seeing the surface
I don't even know why he asumed stepmom complicity, didn't talk about it with her at all.
I taught the dad was a gambler but the is worse what he did.
Honestly, I thiught the dad was using the money for gambling and i didn't he had to pay off his mistress. I didn't see that plot twist coming.
I agreed, believing he would keep his word.
"I had literal flames coming from my ears", I wish I could see that. That being said, it this phrase and a few other ones where you know the guy isn't a writer and this isn't AI. A story I fully believe.
12:52 Ironic coming from the dad
Ashley is not a stepsister it’s your sister (half sister but she is your sister)
Not listened to the story yet, but if you never met, seen or been told stuff about cheating parent's new or first kid, then in your senses its 'their other child', or 'I guess technically we are a type of related. Huh. Moving on'. If the bond or even familiarity isn't there meeting later on would feel much closer to strangers, new distant cousin, or a step sibling, only less enthused because of pressure of outside expectations. Unless both really want this. Like purposefully searching for blood relatives or something
So.... first Jemma is a whinny brat and now suddenly she's a sweet kid? I know people change and all that but how would OP know that? The math ain't mathing here.
Edit: Savanah didn't know that the father borrowed money from Grandpa but two seconds later the father specifically says he's going to borrow it from Grandpa???
Edit 2: Savanah CALLED OP and said that the money had been used for Ashely but suddenly Savanah thinks OP offered it willingly??? This is clearly either ai generated or OP can't write a coherent story to save their life because none of these facts are lining up.
Embarrassing 😢😅
Dad gone money gone
There is incongruity. I guess this is an AI story
wow a different voice
Right? I guess the ai forgot to switch to their primary mic on the first take
Honestly OP is kind of an idiot. He just assumed Savannah was in on the dad's scheme for no reason. Also he didn't disinvite his dad despite him being blatantly racist against the fiance many times.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here..
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?
dr apala omofulma is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for his ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Hope you got the loan in writing.
"I sent i mass-text to my family. But I didn't do it for the drama."
Yeeeaaahhhh riiiiiight...
What kind of wedding was it?
That dad is a loser
First and why did he change his voice
Typically because the original AI voice had an issue reading the script for some reason
@@the83rdtrombonist60ty
So he promised you HIS money for your college but he had to back out for family reasons and you're mad at him because you had to take loans out like everbody else. From the sounds of it he's not a 10 out of 10 dad but you sound really entitled to money you never work for.
In the start of the video
YTA
Then stop watching the vids then
@@ZuriSmooth because?
First🎉🎉
No you are not first