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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2023
  • "I felt the most lost, anxious and hopeless I ever have in my entire life." this video is for anyone who is feeling lost, stuck or behind in life. 🤍
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    - faq
    where are you from? i'm british chinese, grew up in london and currently living in lisbon!!
    what did you study and where? i studied classics for 4 years at oxford university & did a term abroad in rome at sapienza university
    why did you move to lisbon alone? this video should explain things a bit more: • PLOT TWIST: i’m now a ...
    how can you afford to travel so much? i choose to spend my money on travel and experiences & hope to show on this channel that not only can travel be a lot cheaper than you think, but that it's perfectly possible to work full-time whilst travelling! if i can do it, so can you :)
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    #lifelessons feeling lost, feeling lost in life, feeling behind, feeling behind in life, life in your 20s, feeling behind in your 20s, feeling like a failure, when life doesn't go to plan, for people who feel lost in life, motivational video, video about life

Комментарии • 44

  • @tajashania
    @tajashania 11 месяцев назад +21

    Literally watched this twice, it was amazing!! I’m 25 with no money or job, and I’ve never felt more lost or alone. Seeing videos like this really helps me though so thank you so much for sharing ❤

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  11 месяцев назад +1

      Taja, I’m so glad this resonated and that it has helped others. it’s always so reassuring to know that what we’re feeling is completely normal and natural, and that we aren’t alone 💛 things will work out exactly as they’re meant to, I promise xx

    • @falgunipatel2284
      @falgunipatel2284 Месяц назад

      Same here girl

  • @MBwolf21
    @MBwolf21 11 месяцев назад +13

    I’m just about to go on my first solo travel for four months as a 33 year old! Everyone’s path is different. Enjoy the ride

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  11 месяцев назад

      exciting, I love that for you! where are you going?!

    • @MBwolf21
      @MBwolf21 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@violahelen_ Thailand for a month, then Laos,Vietnam,Cambodia,Malaysia,Singapore,Indonesia, Philippines then might go Korea as more of a holiday on the way home. Could probably do with more time but with life commitment’s best to do what I can when I can. 😄

  • @thedoode22
    @thedoode22 11 месяцев назад +8

    Very brave to post this admission on social media, I respect that.
    I am living a life akin to many of your Oxbridge peers - 25 years old and ranked highly at a multinational company, with the associated financial benefits, and have optimised my life to maximise wealth. I have enjoyed living vicariously through your Thailand vlog series and dreamt of that nomadic lifestyle, but I know that the grass is always greener on the other side.
    Despite having done 'well' on the surface, I have never felt less fulfilled in my life - recent breakup, loss of my best friend and general uncertainty about the future of my life fill me with anxiety day-to-day.
    As you say, we're all on our own journeys and we have to learn to embrace change and uncertainty - I think it's a key component of true happiness.

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  11 месяцев назад +1

      thank you so much for sharing this. the grass is always greener on the other side, it’s true! hope that things start getting better for you soon xx

  • @daysofsunshine5974
    @daysofsunshine5974 11 месяцев назад +2

    I feel this so much. Having episodes of severe mental illness for lots of early adulthood, COVID, being in short term or dead end jobs, left me feeling lost and stuck as my friends got in graduate jobs or started PhDs. And now I'm going back to uni to study psychology and try and help others ❤

  • @joshlyn9041
    @joshlyn9041 11 месяцев назад +7

    just want to say thank you for posting this, truly

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  11 месяцев назад

      so glad it resonated xx

  • @giuseppecosta7157
    @giuseppecosta7157 11 месяцев назад +7

    Hi Viola, I’ve been a silent watcher of your channel since the Oxford days. Back then, I was desperately planning my application to Oxford trying to make it as perfect as I could. I applied, got rejected and ended up studying at my home country, Italy. That rejection really let me down, making me feel depressed at times and constantly disappointed at my myself. But it turns out next year I’m going to Cambridge as a visiting student for the whole academic year, and I’m planning to apply for a masters there as well. This is to say that my past self could have never imagined I’d end up studying at Cambridge after my Oxford rejection. Life isn’t easy, and as you say no one has it all figured out.
    Thanks for this wonderful video, and all the best for your future!

    • @CookiePire
      @CookiePire 7 месяцев назад

      hey i was curious about your application to cambridge, what was it different that you did from oxford? thank you!

  • @mc-cs7gy
    @mc-cs7gy 8 месяцев назад +2

    thank you for this video, i feel like everyone's growing but me sometimes. I keep forgetting that we all grow at our own pace!

  • @anfelche
    @anfelche 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this amazing video. ❤

  • @user-ud5bm3wb5l
    @user-ud5bm3wb5l 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Viola
    This helped me a lot

  • @falgunipatel2284
    @falgunipatel2284 Месяц назад

    Thank you ... I needed to hear this!

  • @candrawstuffinc3186
    @candrawstuffinc3186 Месяц назад

    You are so brave for sharing this, you're a beautiful soul, I hope you have a prosperous life ❤

  • @user-vd8ym2ww9s
    @user-vd8ym2ww9s 18 дней назад

    Thank you!

  • @xoxothelibrariangirl6561
    @xoxothelibrariangirl6561 Месяц назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @eloisenewton7753
    @eloisenewton7753 11 месяцев назад +3

    ❤ so proud of you and the journey you’ve taken in life x

  • @beepboop9976
    @beepboop9976 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you. I needed this

  • @xoxothelibrariangirl6561
    @xoxothelibrariangirl6561 Месяц назад

    I need to hear that ❤

  • @audreyshaw2405
    @audreyshaw2405 11 месяцев назад

    wow didn't know how much I needed a video like this

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  11 месяцев назад

      awww so glad it helped

  • @krispyykremee9594
    @krispyykremee9594 11 месяцев назад +4

    this resonated a lot and had me teary - thank you!

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  11 месяцев назад

      sending hugs 🫶🏼 thank you!!

  • @maddiemay2414
    @maddiemay2414 11 месяцев назад +1

    loved this ❤

  • @ingram4896
    @ingram4896 8 месяцев назад

    I just turned 26Y 2 months ago , and I’m going back to complete my final year of college after a long-break due to mental health issues, thank you so much this video was much needed for me

  • @salimzenzouni
    @salimzenzouni 8 месяцев назад

    but you seem to have an incredible life! enjoy :)

  • @johnwilkes1542
    @johnwilkes1542 11 месяцев назад +3

    true dat

  • @TheGoat_LionelMessi
    @TheGoat_LionelMessi 11 месяцев назад

    It's released my stress.

  • @falgunipatel2284
    @falgunipatel2284 Месяц назад

    I am 25 years old with no job and no money living with my mother. I am so lost. Looking for direction about what to do with my life.

  • @thenoobalmighty8790
    @thenoobalmighty8790 11 месяцев назад +4

    Dont worry, you will be ok, you are still young VIOLA HELEN😅😅

  • @TheGoat_LionelMessi
    @TheGoat_LionelMessi 11 месяцев назад

    Can i talk to you?

  • @m.m.9006
    @m.m.9006 11 месяцев назад +2

    How do you afford this travelling without a career?

    • @mylightinyou
      @mylightinyou 9 месяцев назад +2

      She was working remotely prior to this!

    • @violahelen_
      @violahelen_  8 месяцев назад

      I also have a video of how I travel with no job & no income: ruclips.net/video/h2mqLJEBujw/видео.html :)

  • @Marta-rw3rs
    @Marta-rw3rs 11 месяцев назад +2

    needed this 🥲 sending love, you're amazing