Thanks foe all your videos. As a 62 yr old female with Anal cancer I'm 10 days away from surgery to have everything past the colon removed and a flap procedure. Your videos have helped take some of the unknowns away and have given me more confidence in living with an Ostomy.
I have a friend who has had the same procedure- she is an amazingly positive person- remember you have friends who will be willing to sit and listen and hold your hand if you let them. Good luck.
Maggie, I have major depression and a symptom is anhedonia which is the inability to do the things that formerly gave you pleasure. I am almost 66 and this is the first year that this has happened to me. I am an educator and have a doctorate in psychiatric nursing, so you would think I could manage this symptom. Nope. It’s really got me down! Bless you for all that you do for your watchers and the ostomy community!❤
I too am dealing with such symptoms.......I am 54 and it just happened around 51.....my mother was dying and I was caring for her and my brother was a sometimes violent alcoholic and I'd never felt anxiety before until it hit me. I think alot of it was trauma from not feeling safe at home and then she passed and thankfully he got sober and sometimes I feel like I'm healing but I rarely leave the house and have no desire to even go to the store. I have a small part time job and I don't even know if I can manage to keep it. I am an outgoing person...with Crohn's and I went to a psychiatrist but so far nothing has helped and some things have been awful. One med made me lose 30 lbs....got down to 90 lbs. I don't know how to find a life again or if I'm just going to be this way.😢 You have my sympathy a best of luck!
@@pamela-gw7xo I agree! I don't have a colostomy but have had several resections and people....even my own family do not understand when you are missing a substantial amount of your guts your nutrients from the little bit of food you can comfortably eat do not absorb properly and create energy like a normal person. I am so sick of everyone's assumption that I have a choice. I'm 54 and had Crohn's since age 7. Youth alone created energy and I no longer have youth on my side. I don't even want to go to store. I've tried therapy and recently a psychiatrist but I feel I'm climbing a mountain. I helped raise my siblings raised my kids and nephews and niece and there is just never time for health or self care or moving forward in this world. The change in healthcare is abhorrent. I can't get any help. Sorry for the rant but thank you and bless you!
@@ChantelleBrown-fb7gy Thank you Chantelle for sharing! It definitely helps to know I am not alone in this situation. No one seems to understand how very debilitating this can be! And it's surely not by choice like others seem to think. Bless you as well. 🌹
Multiple hospitalizations and ED visits for me this year. Finally got the ileostomy bag a few months ago :). I love your channel, keep up the phenomenal work!
I pray we all have a great 2024! The past few years have been horrendous. Ever since my mom was diagnosed with Alzheimers in 2020, her family and oldest daughter have made it their mission to have me removed as her poa. This is something my mom chose way back in 2015. These days, my idea of "fun" is driving myself to my dr's appointments just so I can have a bit of me time. I used to be able to relax once I went to bed at night, but the past few nights I've been dealing with manic episodes from mom about a bandage on her arm that's covering stitches (her arm apparently slipped while getting on or off the commode and she cut the area just above her elbow). I just want peace back in our house. I want my mom to enjoy every day she gets.
I lost my 83 year old dad who was my best friend to respiratory failure in November, my 17 year long relationship ended and my oldest son moved 800 miles away for work. I am ready to put 2023 firmly in the rear view mirror. You know what they say Maggie, when you hit rock bottom, there is no where to go but up. Wishing you, Zak and your family all good things in 2024.❤
Yes! I got to the point I couldn't name anything I enjoyed anymore either. I'm 68. On January 3, my daughter's 28th birthday, I suffered a severe obstruction and remember little but the pain of the nasal tube and going into hospital psychosis. All these med students, interns, residents, and doctors, marched in and out of my room and smiled at me and each had a different thing to say but my room kept changing! Surgery was scheduled for the following week and I had a permanent ileostomy done two weeks ago today. After a lifetime of pain and severe constipation, Olgivie's (PAINFUL), and volvulous colon, redundant colon, colonic inertia, and pelvic floor dysfunction, I woke up feeling so different! Like I was happy to be alive for the first time ever and end enjoy living in the moment. I even love my ostomy bag because I can poop easily and painlessly now, It isn;t all perfect, I struggle to gain weight but feel so much more serene now. As always, God bless you,
Thank you for your videos. Someone asked me recently what I did for hobbies. My answer, not in a sarcastic way by any means, was "I go to doctors". I am much older than you, have short bowel syndrome, have had Crohn's for over 50 years, and have many health issues. I think you're wonderful for sharing so openly and honestly!
Happy new year Maggie & zac. I to have had an awful year, I’ve been suffering very badly with depression. So I’m hoping like you that next year is better. I also 11 months ago got an ileostomy due to neurogenic bowel dysfunction. (MS) 😟
I can relate. I haven’t physically been able to do anything for fun in about 5 years. Really having a hard time finding replacements. The one thing I do do is watch u-tube. I live vicariously through others.
2023 was not fun. I lost my mom in April, the hassle of estate stuff, a long summer of being alone, and the whole world has gone bonkers. Thanks for the idea of making a list of things that are enjoyable to get back to.
Thanks for all your help in 2023. My hubby was diagnosed in July with c rectal cancer. He left the hospital on Christmas Eve with an Ilioscopy. Now waiting for pathology to see if chemo is needed. You helped us to prepare for living with a stoma, hopefully not forever. You are so brave to share! Thank you!!!! Praying that 2024 brings you joy and good health!
Yep another year passed that seems full of sadness looking into 2024 it looks more of same for last 5 years it feels like any joy has been sucked out of life
I agree it was a terrible year! I was in the hospital / rehab for over a month and a half. I’m hoping for a good new year! Happy New year to both of you!
I’ve had an exceptionally difficult three years because of one person but like you I’m determined to put a stop to it for more than just me this spring
Maggie, don't flip your roast! Get you a good pot roast from the store, ranch dressing packet, Italian dressing packet, and a gravy packet. Put your roast in the crock pot with enough water to cover. Dump all the seasoning packets in and swish around. Cook on low for at least 6 hours. You will have the most delicious, tender roast ever. Add any veggies you want in the beginning as well. Happy cooking! Love your videos!
I too have had a horrible year. I broke my foot at the of 2023 and after 5 months in plaster and 2 surgeries on my foot I am back to walking and driving. I was literally dependent on my hubby for everything. So yes my year was in total limbo. 2024 is definitely going to be better for me.
Maggie, What I want you to know is how much good you did in 2023 for so many people, myself included. I am deeply grateful and please know that you and Zak can count on my prayers for a joyous 2024--and plenty of tomatoes and green beans as well.
It’s amazing how you have impacted people. Just talking about this subject is groundbreaking, getting real formation is beyond life changing and if you can do this so can I. You have helped me so much , no ostomy but all of the other problems. Thank you.
PA is like that! My husband is from Lackawanna Cty--Scranton. They have done so many underhanded things in connection with our land up there, and there is nothing we can do. We live in Massachusetts, so we don’t have the resources. So good luck to you. I hope you can fight them.
It is a shame!! I'm sorry you've had to deal with the nonsense as well! I think they rely on people not having the resources to fight them back and that is how they get away with it!
I agree about this year being horrible. More hospital visits and health scares than ever before. So I am with you in wishing 2024 is a better, more productive year for all of us. I would love to share stories about my experiences as well as hear from others. So I am all in on that one. BTW, your goals and wishes for the new year are not silly at all. Reading is one thing I definitely let lag over the last few years due to being lazy. You definitely got me thinking here. Happy New Year!!!
My year started out bad in Jan when I had surgery to go from a very bad ileostomy to a corrected osteomyelitis which landed me in hospital for 17 days. Then heart attack in July. Its gotta be better in 24! Happy healthy new year!
OMG! My 86 year old mother was recently diagnosed with colon cancer. Prior to her surgery, the surgeon told her part of the post surgery side effects would be emergent diarrhea. An ostomy was discussed & she made the decision to have the colostomy. I started searching for all the info I could find & found your channel. It has been a bkessing!! Her surgery was a success. She is still learning! You do make a difference! Thank you for sharing your story!
Maggie, really enjoyed this video. I feel exactly the same way, terrible year. I had three surgeries, ileostomy, hernia repair, stoma revision, low energy, constant fatigue, couldn't do anything all year. Finally improving. I want you to know, you sharing your experiences has helped me and gave me hope. Your 2024 list is the same as mine - gardening, cooking, reading. Happy New Year!!
Recall how you feel when you help others , within your limits, cooking for others etc. Don’t deny others , that feeling of helping you. As the Bible said , more happiness in giving.
I also had a bad year, especially the second half. I was diagnosed with an awful condition called vulvadynia…. I was in agony and so much discomfort. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone!!! And it caused me extreme anxiety. Thankfully, it’s under control now and I’m doing much better. Plus, I had a polyp removed from my uterus which thank god was benign. And the day before I had the surgery, my boss informed me that she’s closing the office. So there’s that too!!! So I’m hoping for a better 2024 for ALL of us!!! ❤️🎉
2023 sure was a challenge. I went through cancer treatment the whole year and am now recovering from proctocolectomy surgery and had my ileostomy turned into a colostomy. I've learned a lot from your channel. I wish you and Zach a very wonderful 2024 and that lots of good things will come your way! 💜🎉
❤ I also currently have no idea how to answer questions about hobbies or what I enjoy. I hope we can work on that in 2024. Thanks for sharing Maggie. I appreciate your honesty. It's nice to know I'm not alone.
I have had a good 2023. I have several hobbies and activities that bring me joy. Woodworking, hiking and playing competitive Bridge. Good luck with your pursuits in 2024. Cheers.
This was so relatable! 2023 was a terrible year for so many. I too am working towards manifesting a better year for 2024. Bought myself a big calendar for planning out the entire year and am going to be more purposeful and productive. Time to get my life organized now that I’m in the throws of my mid life crisis, lol. I love to play games and especially VR! So much fun. Definitely planning to play more since I haven’t for years now. We got this!
2023 was worst year of my life full of rectal surgeries, harsh treatment and medical mistakes. But in 2024 I have no more surgeries planned so started the year off good 👍 your not alone but your situation has been much tougher than mine people like u give us the strength to carry on god bless you 🙏🏻
Even though 2023 was a crappy year, I have seen through watching your videos, you do,always seem to look for the blessings of the day, which inspires others to do the same. Don’t underestimate the power of your kind and positive words on others. They have worth and value and help others even when you dont know you do. Blessings, strength, and love for the new year for all. ❤
One way is get out camping in the woods, by a lake and fishing. I often do it here in Sweden. I practice shamanism so I learned how to find foods and herbs in the woods. Then here is many caves and I collected crystal and gems. I bought me a tipi with a stove and It's relaxing in the woods. I got my stoma gear, medication for my chrohn with me. In Sweden we allowed to camp in the woods so it's really fun to look at Google maps and find places and explore them. So hiking is really good for relaxation and feel free. Blessed be🌳☘️🪘🥁🇸🇪
So happy to hear about the books. And for those who may not know but need it lots of public libraries will mail books to you so if your health (physical or mental) doesn’t allow you to get to the library they will send it to you.
When people ask, what I do for funny, the only thing come to my mind, " Is live life."Esch moment is precious in this planet. I dont want waste any of it.
Thank you for being brave enough to admit it was a tough year! It was a tough one for me too, but I feel like there's so much pressure to say how amazing the year was on New Year's. I tried to focus on the things I have to be grateful for, and that helped. I liked the plant nanny app to keep track of water intake-you have to keep the plant alive by drinking/tracking water which was fun and motivating. Loved hearing your goals, and so sorry to hear about the barn and how awful you guys have been treated. Praying for a much better 2024
Just recently found you A New Year for us all. I have been living with a J pouch for 27 years. I learned to adapt an it is still hard everyday. But u clean up an move on an " Live".I'm greatful to be alive an still Living on my terms. Be gentle to yourself learn to understand your body you be alright. ❤
I am in total burnout mode, and still have a COVID cough from 3 weeks ago to wrap up the year. I feel like I lost myself over the last 6 months and now I'm just mentally exhausted. A lot of us need a refresh in life and hopefully I can spend the next 6 months getting back to enjoying life and thriving.
I wanted to share that you did take steps with your fertility which was something you had put on hold, but did address it in 2023. Maggie, I have felt that way about fun for awhile. It is hard when chronic illness decides to try and write our story and takes us back to just survival mode. I lost my cat, who had been with me for 13 years, 10 days ago. She was very ill the last month because of cancer. I had a convo with my mom on Christmas, and she asked me if I had done something I need to take care of. I told her you do realize my cat just died 3 days ago. She lives in denial a lot so she is different from me. Anyway, I did have surgery in early December so a lot of difficulty in last 3 months of the year. Tons of doctors appts... no need to write a book myself. Thanks for sharing about limbo my life has been there a lot with lots of diagnoses. I like it when you share about taking care of yourself. It reminds me to focus on self care as well.
Yep. 2023 really sucked.....my basement has flooded more times than I can count, my garden was a disaster, and losing power for 5 days caused me to throw away the garden veggies I'd managed to freeze. I'm cautiously optimistic about the upcoming year, though. As for how do I have fun, I was thinking about that today as I stacked wood on my porch. I realized that stacking wood seemed more fun and satisfying than what most people would count. And it's good exercise. Is that wrong? Nope. Best wishes to you and Zac for the new year!
yes I have been waiting to hear about your barn. I missed how it just dropped off the radar. I sent in a suggestion about a wedding venue and Christmas tree farm. I would definitely like to hear about it. Praying for a follower who can help you out with the townships. When we lived in Slippery Rock, township was a curse word for my Father lol.
Wow, Maggie. I haven’t watched you in awhile don’t know what all your speaking about I’m gonna back track some videos. But I know exactly how you feel. It’s so hard when we get distracted, or things go bad and things go to the waste side. The past several years have been tough on us all. Also me being an older lady with my own issues I try to focus on what I can do mentally and physically then try to take that task on but sometimes life changes direction. I like you love gardening and flowers lots of them but this new year I have decided to forgo flowers my driveway barrels for some kind of trees not sure what kind yet. I need to rangle in the expense of annuals for something more permanent. Gardening like everything else is getting very expensive. Anyway just want to say don’t know why I wasn’t watching as much but your New Year hopes sound like you are giving yourself Grace and trying to get some inner peace and joy back in your life. Self awareness is a great non resolution for the New year. I’m with you on your journey we all need to reset our happiness. Good Luck and know we’re all behind you. ❤ CAT
I'm so happy that you want to focus on community more! building community with other struggling people, asking for help and providing help, has made me feel so much better psychologically. I feel less useless, i feel less alone and i feel much more secure regarding the future. The amazing thing is, supporting each other is always going to be so much easier than doing things alone, even if it's something you all struggle with. So I really hope you get to experience that a lot in the future!
2023 is the worst year and it would be hard to top it. I have been through so much since birth, born disabled and developed many chronic health conditions along the way. But in 2023 I got diagnosed with cancer. I am hoping 2024 will be a better year for you and myself. ❤ Happy New Year.
Thank you so much for your honesty as always Maggie. I honestly feel the way you describe, feels like I am just doing day after day, really would like to change that, and be the change I would like to see. Happy happy New Year to you and Zak ❤❤❤❤
It's nice to know I'm not alone .you showing your mental health helps me to look forward and find the things I used to do. Thanks Maggie. Let's all look forward to 2024
Having loved ones including pets with us make every year the very best. Volunteering to help pets and people in need. So much need in this world it is difficult to focus on self frequently except to be so thankful and grateful to be me. Happy New Year🎉😊
It was the best year ever for me because I read the Bible in a year in chronological order for the first time. Life changing. Even though I had two major surgeries in 2023 (three in less than a year including last December to start the redo of my IPAA), God’s light shown through much brighter via my commitment to the Bible. I did The Bible Recap.
Yep, for me too. I had both C.diff and e.coly infections this year 😭 I barely made it through. Oh, yeah, and my husband had a heart attack two weeks before the end of the year. Hope 2024 is better and kinder for us all🤞
I have a kindle. Reading is my passion. I Even have the app on my phone so I can read in doctor’s offices while I wait. I LOVE to read and squeeze a little in every chance I get. There a “reading challenge “ on “good reads” 😊and I challenge myself every year. I don’t tell anyone. It’s just a personal goal. And you can find a ton of free kindle books as well as very reasonably priced books too. I’m talking 99 cents or a 1.99. You can do it! Reading is a joy in life ❤
I agree - 2023 was a horrible year! I’m going to make this year better and hope you can too. I wish I could help with the barn issues but it’s not my area of law and I’m in a different country! It sounds like due process wasn’t given to you and that’s a major issue!
2023 was the worst year health wise and it will probably take a long time to come back from that. Also, due to fatigue I had to give up almost all of the things I enjoy and most of the time I just don't have the energy to do more than lie down in bed and watch RUclips. I used to be an avid reader but haven't had the energy to read for a few months now.
Wow yes, 2023 was a super hard year. Compared to other difficult years nothing major or unexpected happened but for some reason 2023 was not great, but something great came from it. Despite past health issues, Im now well and went through 8 months of testing meaning I will be donating a kidney alturistically on 10th January, starting a chain of 3 transplants so very nervous but excited. Hooe 2024 is your year Maggie, Zac and doggies x
Happy new year! I'm less than 3 months post colostomy surgery. Your videos on appliances and skin issues really helped when I was at a low point. Just trying to get more than 2 workouts/36 hours out of a bag. Thanks for everything
I love and agree with everything you said here. 2023 was a pretty hard year for me too, but also one of growth. I am saddened by a lot from 2023 but excited to move forward into 2024 with hope and a new perspective. I hope someone on here can help you with your barn issue. Here’s to having a better year !
I agree 2nd emergency bowel surgery which left we weak loseof 60 lbs oh an a bag on one side of my stomach an a big ass scare. Thank God for Family and 2 of the cutest granddaughters in the world
Happy New Year ❤ One good thing that came from 2023 is your hydration and with that you also gained weight. You look your healthiest. You went through some brutal tests but having a child is an option. 2024 should be brighter and I'm planting flowers 🌷
You made me think about myself and 2024. My likes are kniitting and crocheting. I am disabled, so i can't add walking, to my list, but i could go out in my electric wheelchair, then it's where to go? I'll have to put more thought into this, just to see if i can find other things to add to my NewYear list. Best wishes to you both and all your family, a Happy New Year from Swansea, South Wales, U.K.😊😊😊❤❤❤🌞❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣
Hopefully someone will step up and help you and Zak go forward with your plan. I can’t believe what they have done. I have wondered about the barn and what was happening. Happy New Year!!!!!!
thank you for saying that this year was bad. I hadn't wanted to say it. but this was the year I was diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer, had 2 major surgeries, and did lots of chemo. Things weren't all bad but it was truly earth shattering. I've been watching your channel for years and have always been interested in following your health journey. When I was faced with a potential ostomy at my diagnosis in Feb, I knew it would be OK eventually bc of your channel. I ended up getting a colonic stent instead, which was removed in Oct with a colectomy, and I made out with no ostomy in the end. But I appreciate you being open about your journey with your colon.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve also had a brutally terrible year. So ready for the hope that comes with a new year. Please do share the story about the barn when you’re ready. I wish I could help! In other news - I have also recently gotten back into computer games including sims. You should get Planet Roller Coaster and/or Planet zoo since you loved OG roller coaster tycoon. Very similar but so fun and more complex. I bought both cause they’re on sale on steam but I’ve only been playing planet zoo so far and I’m obsessed
Happy new year Maggie. Reddit's legal section may be able to help you. My new year was niuce cause I got a gargoyle gecko and built him a bioactive enclosure. Doing this has been so much fun! My garden,minus the flowers was a flop. Dec was the worst with a virus (not covid),and eye infection and the death of my closed friend..Yes,I knew it was coming,but I still fell apart at the seams. Anyway,I hope the coming year is better for you.
I feel the same way as you that I lost myself. More in 2022 but I did learn to sew and really have enjoyed it. Not so much of the sewing part but the finished product. I have started reading as well. I got a new kindle and signed up with my local library and can get free books which is great. I hope you find what makes you happy and makes you feel like you have accomplished things. Thank you for sharing your journey. Have a Happy Healthy and make great memories for 2024.
While I personally had algood things happened to me in 2023, it was all saddened by the state of the world in general, the economy and the overall struggle. I had depression for nothing in particular, but just this state of limbo and waiting for something to happen. I do too want to work on myself, on things that bring me joy and happiness.
I totally get the "having some bad years"!! We had a few of those in a row!! Not fun!! But for my husband (OstomateMark) and I, 2023 was actually our best year in a while!! In fact, we are just getting ready to get into bed to watch a movie and eat ice cream. BUT, BEFORE WE DO THAT, we are each going to take turns saying something positive about 2023, and we are going to go month by month!! I already have a mental list in my head!! Just remember, that with the "not-so-good" years, comes the very good years!! After some very hard few years, I am so grateful for 2023!! And maybe that will be the case for you in 2024!! 🙏🤞 Bring on 2024. Happy New Year!! 🎉
Mags, As you can see by the comments, You have helped more people than you realize. My ostomy situation was a bit different, but whenever I needed a bit of knowledge, or just someone to "digitally Hold my Hand", You were there and gave me strength. I so hope that there's someone that can legally help you pursue whatever steps are required to get your Wedding Venue situation rectified. That would be one giant stress reliever in both your and Zak's Lives. Wishing You both a really Great New Year!
I agree, 2023 has been a horrible year. My husband lost his father and brother both to cancer within 7 months of each other. We have both been dealing with serious health issues and possible major surgery in 2024. Mental health has been in the dumpster. But 2023 did have some good things in it as well which is what we need to focus on. Thank you for your videos and I hope 2024 brings us all good things
HI Maggie and Zak!!! Happy New Year to you. I am praying that you have an amazing 2024 you both deserve it. Thank you for this video tonight. I needed to hear everything you said. You made me feel hopeful for what is to come. Hugs and blessings
Happy new year!! I was just thinking of you. You helped me more than you will ever know when I first got my ostomy. You were much more help than any of the nurses I saw. I know what you mean about 2023 feeling awful. I had a total hip excision two years ago now and I am now approaching my middle years in a much more debilitating state than I ever intended. At least I am able to enjoy food now. I spent this year being so sad that things didn’t work out and that I am now more disabled than I was when I started out. I am trying to find the good in it and to find something positive to do. I want to work more on my RUclips and my writing. I miss being able to do things and talk about the funny things that used to happen as somebody with a chronic illness. However, I am trying to turn my critical thinking skills and talk about health and social care issues in a more serious way this year. Thank you for being around and making wonderful videos that made getting my ostomy so much less scary than it would’ve been. I can’t believe it’s been about eight years now and I have even managed to maintain weightand eat.
You should try reaching out to Jonathan Knight, of New Kids on The Block. He has an HGTV show called Farmhouse Fixer. I think he lives in New Jersey and he had an issue with his township. He may be able to give you some insight and guidance.
I loved this video, I like hearing about your interests and worries and all that. You have one of the most attractive/friendly personalities I've seen that I was surprised to hear that this year was hard for you. It was really hard for me (I was unemployed for 10 months of 2023) so I felt a bit less alone. Also, asking for help is something I need to work on as well. I hope our 2024 will be more fulfilling and peaceful than the last year.
Jojo Moyes is a wonderful author! Look over your New Years list often so you keep on track! You can do it! We all get in ruts so go forward and have a great year!
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Thanks foe all your videos. As a 62 yr old female with Anal cancer I'm 10 days away from surgery to have everything past the colon removed and a flap procedure. Your videos have helped take some of the unknowns away and have given me more confidence in living with an Ostomy.
I have a friend who has had the same procedure- she is an amazingly positive person- remember you have friends who will be willing to sit and listen and hold your hand if you let them. Good luck.
Wishing you best of luck with your surgery and a straight-forward recovery! It's clear you'll do great with the ostomy. Happy healing ❤
Here's to your swift recovery from surgery. You are stronger and more powerful than you know. ✌️♥️🙏🏻
Just a FYI for you. Your channel helps so many! Always remember that!!!!
Maggie,
I have major depression and a symptom is anhedonia which is the inability to do the things that formerly gave you pleasure. I am almost 66 and this is the first year that this has happened to me. I am an educator and have a doctorate in psychiatric nursing, so you would think I could manage this symptom. Nope. It’s really got me down! Bless you for all that you do for your watchers and the ostomy community!❤
I too am dealing with such symptoms.......I am 54 and it just happened around 51.....my mother was dying and I was caring for her and my brother was a sometimes violent alcoholic and I'd never felt anxiety before until it hit me. I think alot of it was trauma from not feeling safe at home and then she passed and thankfully he got sober and sometimes I feel like I'm healing but I rarely leave the house and have no desire to even go to the store. I have a small part time job and I don't even know if I can manage to keep it. I am an outgoing person...with Crohn's and I went to a psychiatrist but so far nothing has helped and some things have been awful. One med made me lose 30 lbs....got down to 90 lbs. I don't know how to find a life again or if I'm just going to be this way.😢 You have my sympathy a best of luck!
Yes! I am 67 and have the same problem. I also have Crohn's and a colostomy. I am literally just existing at best.
@@pamela-gw7xo I agree! I don't have a colostomy but have had several resections and people....even my own family do not understand when you are missing a substantial amount of your guts your nutrients from the little bit of food you can comfortably eat do not absorb properly and create energy like a normal person. I am so sick of everyone's assumption that I have a choice. I'm 54 and had Crohn's since age 7. Youth alone created energy and I no longer have youth on my side. I don't even want to go to store. I've tried therapy and recently a psychiatrist but I feel I'm climbing a mountain. I helped raise my siblings raised my kids and nephews and niece and there is just never time for health or self care or moving forward in this world. The change in healthcare is abhorrent. I can't get any help. Sorry for the rant but thank you and bless you!
@@ChantelleBrown-fb7gy Thank you Chantelle for sharing! It definitely helps to know I am not alone in this situation. No one seems to understand how very debilitating this can be! And it's surely not by choice like others seem to think. Bless you as well. 🌹
Happy new year, I agree last year was a nightmare. I lost my husband of 47 years. Let’s pray for a better year.
I am so sorry for your loss!
I'm so sorry
Multiple hospitalizations and ED visits for me this year. Finally got the ileostomy bag a few months ago :). I love your channel, keep up the phenomenal work!
I pray we all have a great 2024! The past few years have been horrendous. Ever since my mom was diagnosed with Alzheimers in 2020, her family and oldest daughter have made it their mission to have me removed as her poa. This is something my mom chose way back in 2015. These days, my idea of "fun" is driving myself to my dr's appointments just so I can have a bit of me time. I used to be able to relax once I went to bed at night, but the past few nights I've been dealing with manic episodes from mom about a bandage on her arm that's covering stitches (her arm apparently slipped while getting on or off the commode and she cut the area just above her elbow). I just want peace back in our house. I want my mom to enjoy every day she gets.
I lost my 83 year old dad who was my best friend to respiratory failure in November, my 17 year long relationship ended and my oldest son moved 800 miles away for work. I am ready to put 2023 firmly in the rear view mirror. You know what they say Maggie, when you hit rock bottom, there is no where to go but up. Wishing you, Zak and your family all good things in 2024.❤
Yes! I got to the point I couldn't name anything I enjoyed anymore either. I'm 68. On January 3, my daughter's 28th birthday, I suffered a severe obstruction and remember little but the pain of the nasal tube and going into hospital psychosis. All these med students, interns, residents, and doctors, marched in and out of my room and smiled at me and each had a different thing to say but my room kept changing! Surgery was scheduled for the following week and I had a permanent ileostomy done two weeks ago today. After a lifetime of pain and severe constipation, Olgivie's (PAINFUL), and volvulous colon, redundant colon, colonic inertia, and pelvic floor dysfunction, I woke up feeling so different! Like I was happy to be alive for the first time ever and end enjoy living in the moment. I even love my ostomy bag because I can poop easily and painlessly now, It isn;t all perfect, I struggle to gain weight but feel so much more serene now. As always, God bless you,
I hope life goes on improving for you lovely lady xxx
Thank you for your videos. Someone asked me recently what I did for hobbies. My answer, not in a sarcastic way by any means, was "I go to doctors". I am much older than you, have short bowel syndrome, have had Crohn's for over 50 years, and have many health issues. I think you're wonderful for sharing so openly and honestly!
Happy new year Maggie & zac. I to have had an awful year, I’ve been suffering very badly with depression. So I’m hoping like you that next year is better. I also 11 months ago got an ileostomy due to neurogenic bowel dysfunction. (MS) 😟
I can relate. I haven’t physically been able to do anything for fun in about 5 years. Really having a hard time finding replacements. The one thing I do do is watch u-tube. I live vicariously through others.
Relate so hard to what you said.
2023 was not fun. I lost my mom in April, the hassle of estate stuff, a long summer of being alone, and the whole world has gone bonkers. Thanks for the idea of making a list of things that are enjoyable to get back to.
Thanks for all your help in 2023. My hubby was diagnosed in July with c rectal cancer. He left the hospital on Christmas Eve with an Ilioscopy. Now waiting for pathology to see if chemo is needed. You helped us to prepare for living with a stoma, hopefully not forever. You are so brave to share! Thank you!!!! Praying that 2024 brings you joy and good health!
Yep another year passed that seems full of sadness looking into 2024 it looks more of same for last 5 years it feels like any joy has been sucked out of life
2023 was horrendous. Cheers to 2024! It must be better. 🍾
I agree! 2023 has been simply UGHHHH!!!
You are not useless...you give me hope and I think we are friends!!! You're very helpful!!!
Happy New Year!!!
I agree it was a terrible year! I was in the hospital / rehab for over a month and a half. I’m hoping for a good new year! Happy New year to both of you!
I’ve had an exceptionally difficult three years because of one person but like you I’m determined to put a stop to it for more than just me this spring
Maggie, don't flip your roast! Get you a good pot roast from the store, ranch dressing packet, Italian dressing packet, and a gravy packet. Put your roast in the crock pot with enough water to cover. Dump all the seasoning packets in and swish around. Cook on low for at least 6 hours. You will have the most delicious, tender roast ever. Add any veggies you want in the beginning as well. Happy cooking! Love your videos!
2023 was a bad year, the fifth in succession. I only hope 2024 is better than those past ones
I too have had a horrible year.
I broke my foot at the of 2023 and after 5 months in plaster and 2 surgeries on my foot I am back to walking and driving.
I was literally dependent on my hubby for everything.
So yes my year was in total limbo.
2024 is definitely going to be better for me.
Maggie,
What I want you to know is how much good you did in 2023 for so many people, myself included. I am deeply grateful and please know that you and Zak can count on my prayers for a joyous 2024--and plenty of tomatoes and green beans as well.
It’s amazing how you have impacted people. Just talking about this subject is groundbreaking, getting real formation is beyond life changing and if you can do this so can I. You have helped me so much , no ostomy but all of the other problems. Thank you.
PA is like that! My husband is from Lackawanna Cty--Scranton. They have done so many underhanded things in connection with our land up there, and there is nothing we can do. We live in Massachusetts, so we don’t have the resources. So good luck to you. I hope you can fight them.
It is a shame!! I'm sorry you've had to deal with the nonsense as well! I think they rely on people not having the resources to fight them back and that is how they get away with it!
I agree about this year being horrible. More hospital visits and health scares than ever before. So I am with you in wishing 2024 is a better, more productive year for all of us. I would love to share stories about my experiences as well as hear from others. So I am all in on that one. BTW, your goals and wishes for the new year are not silly at all. Reading is one thing I definitely let lag over the last few years due to being lazy. You definitely got me thinking here. Happy New Year!!!
My year started out bad in Jan when I had surgery to go from a very bad ileostomy to a corrected osteomyelitis which landed me in hospital for 17 days. Then heart attack in July. Its gotta be better in 24! Happy healthy new year!
OMG! My 86 year old mother was recently diagnosed with colon cancer. Prior to her surgery, the surgeon told her part of the post surgery side effects would be emergent diarrhea. An ostomy was discussed & she made the decision to have the colostomy. I started searching for all the info I could find & found your channel. It has been a bkessing!! Her surgery was a success. She is still learning! You do make a difference! Thank you for sharing your story!
Maggie, really enjoyed this video. I feel exactly the same way, terrible year. I had three surgeries, ileostomy, hernia repair, stoma revision, low energy, constant fatigue, couldn't do anything all year. Finally improving. I want you to know, you sharing your experiences has helped me and gave me hope. Your 2024 list is the same as mine - gardening, cooking, reading. Happy New Year!!
2023 was a pig of a year. Constant hospital and drs visits and no answers or treatments. I sincerely hope and pray 2024 is better.
So refreshing to hear your hobbies, gardening, cooking & reading, like normal and cozy and lovely 🥰
Recall how you feel when you help others , within your limits, cooking for others etc. Don’t deny others , that feeling of helping you. As the Bible said , more happiness in giving.
2023 was an amazingly awesome year for me personally.
I'm so happy to hear that!! I hope 2024 is even better!!
I also had a bad year, especially the second half. I was diagnosed with an awful condition called vulvadynia…. I was in agony and so much discomfort. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone!!! And it caused me extreme anxiety. Thankfully, it’s under control now and I’m doing much better. Plus, I had a polyp removed from my uterus which thank god was benign. And the day before I had the surgery, my boss informed me that she’s closing the office. So there’s that too!!! So I’m hoping for a better 2024 for ALL of us!!! ❤️🎉
2023 sure was a challenge. I went through cancer treatment the whole year and am now recovering from proctocolectomy surgery and had my ileostomy turned into a colostomy. I've learned a lot from your channel. I wish you and Zach a very wonderful 2024 and that lots of good things will come your way! 💜🎉
I totally agree 2023 stunk!! Let’s make 2024 a Great Year. 🎉😊❤
❤ I also currently have no idea how to answer questions about hobbies or what I enjoy. I hope we can work on that in 2024. Thanks for sharing Maggie. I appreciate your honesty. It's nice to know I'm not alone.
Since 2020 I've been hoping the next year will be better, and each year I'm disappointed.
I have had a good 2023. I have several hobbies and activities that bring me joy. Woodworking, hiking and playing competitive Bridge. Good luck with your pursuits in 2024. Cheers.
2024 will be a better year, I started a new venture in 2023 I became a travel agent looking to expand my business hoping it grows in 2024.
This was so relatable! 2023 was a terrible year for so many. I too am working towards manifesting a better year for 2024. Bought myself a big calendar for planning out the entire year and am going to be more purposeful and productive. Time to get my life organized now that I’m in the throws of my mid life crisis, lol. I love to play games and especially VR! So much fun. Definitely planning to play more since I haven’t for years now. We got this!
Thanks for such and honest video. I hope you can find some help for the barn. You have some great goals - take it one thing at a time. 😊
2023 was worst year of my life full of rectal surgeries, harsh treatment and medical mistakes. But in 2024 I have no more surgeries planned so started the year off good 👍 your not alone but your situation has been much tougher than mine people like u give us the strength to carry on god bless you 🙏🏻
Even though 2023 was a crappy year, I have seen through watching your videos, you do,always seem to look for the blessings of the day, which inspires others to do the same. Don’t underestimate the power of your kind and positive words on others. They have worth and value and help others even when you dont know you do. Blessings, strength, and love for the new year for all. ❤
One way is get out camping in the woods, by a lake and fishing. I often do it here in Sweden. I practice shamanism so I learned how to find foods and herbs in the woods. Then here is many caves and I collected crystal and gems. I bought me a tipi with a stove and It's relaxing in the woods. I got my stoma gear, medication for my chrohn with me. In Sweden we allowed to camp in the woods so it's really fun to look at Google maps and find places and explore them. So hiking is really good for relaxation and feel free. Blessed be🌳☘️🪘🥁🇸🇪
So happy to hear about the books. And for those who may not know but need it lots of public libraries will mail books to you so if your health (physical or mental) doesn’t allow you to get to the library they will send it to you.
You are so precious lifted our mood so much I get very sad on NYE…and seeing you helped so much❤❤❤❤
When people ask, what I do for funny, the only thing come to my mind, " Is live life."Esch moment is precious in this planet. I dont want waste any of it.
Nightingale was a fantastic book! I couldn’t put it down. So much going on in that book. Definitely recommend!
Thank you for being brave enough to admit it was a tough year! It was a tough one for me too, but I feel like there's so much pressure to say how amazing the year was on New Year's. I tried to focus on the things I have to be grateful for, and that helped. I liked the plant nanny app to keep track of water intake-you have to keep the plant alive by drinking/tracking water which was fun and motivating. Loved hearing your goals, and so sorry to hear about the barn and how awful you guys have been treated. Praying for a much better 2024
Just recently found you A New Year for us all. I have been living with a J pouch for 27 years. I learned to adapt an it is still hard everyday. But u clean up an move on an " Live".I'm greatful to be alive an still Living on my terms. Be gentle to yourself learn to understand your body you be alright. ❤
I am in total burnout mode, and still have a COVID cough from 3 weeks ago to wrap up the year. I feel like I lost myself over the last 6 months and now I'm just mentally exhausted.
A lot of us need a refresh in life and hopefully I can spend the next 6 months getting back to enjoying life and thriving.
I wanted to share that you did take steps with your fertility which was something you had put on hold, but did address it in 2023. Maggie, I have felt that way about fun for awhile. It is hard when chronic illness decides to try and write our story and takes us back to just survival mode. I lost my cat, who had been with me for 13 years, 10 days ago. She was very ill the last month because of cancer. I had a convo with my mom on Christmas, and she asked me if I had done something I need to take care of. I told her you do realize my cat just died 3 days ago. She lives in denial a lot so she is different from me. Anyway, I did have surgery in early December so a lot of difficulty in last 3 months of the year. Tons of doctors appts... no need to write a book myself. Thanks for sharing about limbo my life has been there a lot with lots of diagnoses. I like it when you share about taking care of yourself. It reminds me to focus on self care as well.
I got scammed left and right. Lost some friends. Job sucks. Yeah, truly horrible year. Hope it gets better, both for you and me.
Yep. 2023 really sucked.....my basement has flooded more times than I can count, my garden was a disaster, and losing power for 5 days caused me to throw away the garden veggies I'd managed to freeze. I'm cautiously optimistic about the upcoming year, though. As for how do I have fun, I was thinking about that today as I stacked wood on my porch. I realized that stacking wood seemed more fun and satisfying than what most people would count. And it's good exercise. Is that wrong? Nope. Best wishes to you and Zac for the new year!
yes I have been waiting to hear about your barn. I missed how it just dropped off the radar. I sent in a suggestion about a wedding venue and Christmas tree farm. I would definitely like to hear about it. Praying for a follower who can help you out with the townships. When we lived in Slippery Rock, township was a curse word for my Father lol.
Wow, Maggie. I haven’t watched you in awhile don’t know what all your speaking about I’m gonna back track some videos. But I know exactly how you feel. It’s so hard when we get distracted, or things go bad and things go to the waste side. The past several years have been tough on us all. Also me being an older lady with my own issues I try to focus on what I can do mentally and physically then try to take that task on but sometimes life changes direction. I like you love gardening and flowers lots of them but this new year I have decided to forgo flowers my driveway barrels for some kind of trees not sure what kind yet. I need to rangle in the expense of annuals for something more permanent. Gardening like everything else is getting very expensive. Anyway just want to say don’t know why I wasn’t watching as much but your New Year hopes sound like you are giving yourself Grace and trying to get some inner peace and joy back in your life. Self awareness is a great non resolution for the New year. I’m with you on your journey we all need to reset our happiness. Good Luck and know we’re all behind you. ❤ CAT
I'm so happy that you want to focus on community more! building community with other struggling people, asking for help and providing help, has made me feel so much better psychologically. I feel less useless, i feel less alone and i feel much more secure regarding the future. The amazing thing is, supporting each other is always going to be so much easier than doing things alone, even if it's something you all struggle with. So I really hope you get to experience that a lot in the future!
2023 is the worst year and it would be hard to top it. I have been through so much since birth, born disabled and developed many chronic health conditions along the way. But in 2023 I got diagnosed with cancer. I am hoping 2024 will be a better year for you and myself. ❤ Happy New Year.
Thank you so much for your honesty as always Maggie. I honestly feel the way you describe, feels like I am just doing day after day, really would like to change that, and be the change I would like to see.
Happy happy New Year to you and Zak ❤❤❤❤
It's nice to know I'm not alone .you showing your mental health helps me to look forward and find the things I used to do. Thanks Maggie. Let's all look forward to 2024
Thank you for being vulnerable and open. I can relate to what you said
You do a great job!
Having loved ones including pets with us make every year the very best. Volunteering to help pets and people in need. So much need in this world it is difficult to focus on self frequently except to be so thankful and grateful to be me. Happy New Year🎉😊
It was the best year ever for me because I read the Bible in a year in chronological order for the first time. Life changing. Even though I had two major surgeries in 2023 (three in less than a year including last December to start the redo of my IPAA), God’s light shown through much brighter via my commitment to the Bible. I did The Bible Recap.
That is a fantastic idea! I just downloaded the Bible and will begin this evening, so thanks for the idea!
I am OBSESSED with books. Love your new bookish content additions hehe ❤
Try a little metal detecting. It’s so fun to find things lost maybe 100 years ago.
Yep, for me too. I had both C.diff and e.coly infections this year 😭 I barely made it through. Oh, yeah, and my husband had a heart attack two weeks before the end of the year.
Hope 2024 is better and kinder for us all🤞
I have a kindle. Reading is my passion. I Even have the app on my phone so I can read in doctor’s offices while I wait. I LOVE to read and squeeze a little in every chance I get. There a “reading challenge “ on “good reads” 😊and I challenge myself every year. I don’t tell anyone. It’s just a personal goal. And you can find a ton of free kindle books as well as very reasonably priced books too. I’m talking 99 cents or a 1.99. You can do it! Reading is a joy in life ❤
I agree - 2023 was a horrible year! I’m going to make this year better and hope you can too. I wish I could help with the barn issues but it’s not my area of law and I’m in a different country! It sounds like due process wasn’t given to you and that’s a major issue!
Thank you for sharing from your heart Maggie! I am excited to follow along with you in this next year.
2023 was the worst year health wise and it will probably take a long time to come back from that. Also, due to fatigue I had to give up almost all of the things I enjoy and most of the time I just don't have the energy to do more than lie down in bed and watch RUclips. I used to be an avid reader but haven't had the energy to read for a few months now.
Wow yes, 2023 was a super hard year.
Compared to other difficult years nothing major or unexpected happened but for some reason 2023 was not great, but something great came from it. Despite past health issues, Im now well and went through 8 months of testing meaning I will be donating a kidney alturistically on 10th January, starting a chain of 3 transplants so very nervous but excited.
Hooe 2024 is your year Maggie, Zac and doggies x
2023 was a bad year for me too. I was in the hospital 4 times. I am hoping 2024 will be a better year for you and myself Maggie!!!
Happy new year! I'm less than 3 months post colostomy surgery. Your videos on appliances and skin issues really helped when I was at a low point. Just trying to get more than 2 workouts/36 hours out of a bag. Thanks for everything
I love and agree with everything you said here. 2023 was a pretty hard year for me too, but also one of growth. I am saddened by a lot from 2023 but excited to move forward into 2024 with hope and a new perspective. I hope someone on here can help you with your barn issue. Here’s to having a better year !
I agree 2nd emergency bowel surgery which left we weak loseof 60 lbs oh an a bag on one side of my stomach an a big ass scare. Thank God for Family and 2 of the cutest granddaughters in the world
Happy New Year ❤
One good thing that came from 2023 is your hydration and with that you also gained weight. You look your healthiest. You went through some brutal tests but having a child is an option.
2024 should be brighter and I'm planting flowers 🌷
You made me think about myself and 2024. My likes are kniitting and crocheting. I am disabled, so i can't add walking, to my list, but i could go out in my electric wheelchair, then it's where to go?
I'll have to put more thought into this, just to see if i can find other things to add to my NewYear list.
Best wishes to you both and all your family, a Happy New Year from Swansea, South Wales, U.K.😊😊😊❤❤❤🌞❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣
Happy 2024 to You and Zack!
You are not useless! ❤️ Hope things work out for you this year! (It’s already 2024 here in Finland).
Happy New Year's ❤ this year. This year really started out bad, but it is ending great and blessed ❤ 4:45
Omg, this resonated so much with me! Glad I’m not the only alone!
Hopefully someone will step up and help you and Zak go forward with your plan. I can’t believe what they have done. I have wondered about the barn and what was happening. Happy New Year!!!!!!
thank you for saying that this year was bad. I hadn't wanted to say it. but this was the year I was diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer, had 2 major surgeries, and did lots of chemo. Things weren't all bad but it was truly earth shattering.
I've been watching your channel for years and have always been interested in following your health journey. When I was faced with a potential ostomy at my diagnosis in Feb, I knew it would be OK eventually bc of your channel. I ended up getting a colonic stent instead, which was removed in Oct with a colectomy, and I made out with no ostomy in the end. But I appreciate you being open about your journey with your colon.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve also had a brutally terrible year. So ready for the hope that comes with a new year. Please do share the story about the barn when you’re ready. I wish I could help!
In other news - I have also recently gotten back into computer games including sims. You should get Planet Roller Coaster and/or Planet zoo since you loved OG roller coaster tycoon. Very similar but so fun and more complex. I bought both cause they’re on sale on steam but I’ve only been playing planet zoo so far and I’m obsessed
Happy new year Maggie. Reddit's legal section may be able to help you.
My new year was niuce cause I got a gargoyle gecko and built him a bioactive enclosure. Doing this has been so much fun!
My garden,minus the flowers was a flop. Dec was the worst with a virus (not covid),and eye infection and the death of my closed friend..Yes,I knew it was coming,but I still fell apart at the seams. Anyway,I hope the coming year is better for you.
I feel the same way as you that I lost myself. More in 2022 but I did learn to sew and really have enjoyed it. Not so much of the sewing part but the finished product. I have started reading as well. I got a new kindle and signed up with my local library and can get free books which is great. I hope you find what makes you happy and makes you feel like you have accomplished things. Thank you for sharing your journey. Have a Happy Healthy and make great memories for 2024.
While I personally had algood things happened to me in 2023, it was all saddened by the state of the world in general, the economy and the overall struggle. I had depression for nothing in particular, but just this state of limbo and waiting for something to happen. I do too want to work on myself, on things that bring me joy and happiness.
I totally get the "having some bad years"!! We had a few of those in a row!! Not fun!! But for my husband (OstomateMark) and I, 2023 was actually our best year in a while!! In fact, we are just getting ready to get into bed to watch a movie and eat ice cream. BUT, BEFORE WE DO THAT, we are each going to take turns saying something positive about 2023, and we are going to go month by month!! I already have a mental list in my head!! Just remember, that with the "not-so-good" years, comes the very good years!! After some very hard few years, I am so grateful for 2023!! And maybe that will be the case for you in 2024!! 🙏🤞 Bring on 2024. Happy New Year!! 🎉
You make so much sense. I liked this video and may take some of the things you spoke about onboard for myself. Thank you so much xxxx
Mags, As you can see by the comments, You have helped more people than you realize. My ostomy situation was a bit different, but whenever I needed a bit of knowledge, or just someone to "digitally Hold my Hand", You were there and gave me strength. I so hope that there's someone that can legally help you pursue whatever steps are required to get your Wedding Venue situation rectified. That would be one giant stress reliever in both your and Zak's Lives. Wishing You both a really Great New Year!
I agree, 2023 has been a horrible year. My husband lost his father and brother both to cancer within 7 months of each other. We have both been dealing with serious health issues and possible major surgery in 2024. Mental health has been in the dumpster. But 2023 did have some good things in it as well which is what we need to focus on. Thank you for your videos and I hope 2024 brings us all good things
2023 was awful for me too. I was in a flare the entire year, and new medication isn't working that well. I hope 2024 is a better year for all of us!
You go girl! Keep that positive attitude. Wishing you a fabulous 2024. ❤
I really like you❤❤❤hope 2024 will be better🌸
Happy New Year to you and your family
Wishing you and Zak an incredible 2024 Maggie ❤🎉🙏🥳
HI Maggie and Zak!!! Happy New Year to you. I am praying that you have an amazing 2024 you both deserve it. Thank you for this video tonight. I needed to hear everything you said. You made me feel hopeful for what is to come. Hugs and blessings
Happy new year!! I was just thinking of you. You helped me more than you will ever know when I first got my ostomy. You were much more help than any of the nurses I saw. I know what you mean about 2023 feeling awful. I had a total hip excision two years ago now and I am now approaching my middle years in a much more debilitating state than I ever intended. At least I am able to enjoy food now. I spent this year being so sad that things didn’t work out and that I am now more disabled than I was when I started out. I am trying to find the good in it and to find something positive to do. I want to work more on my RUclips and my writing. I miss being able to do things and talk about the funny things that used to happen as somebody with a chronic illness. However, I am trying to turn my critical thinking skills and talk about health and social care issues in a more serious way this year. Thank you for being around and making wonderful videos that made getting my ostomy so much less scary than it would’ve been. I can’t believe it’s been about eight years now and I have even managed to maintain weightand eat.
Happy New Year Maggie & Zac & pooches 🐶❤ I'd love to see a series of your repairs & gardening & reading in 2024 ✌️🌻
You should try reaching out to Jonathan Knight, of New Kids on The Block. He has an HGTV show called Farmhouse Fixer. I think he lives in New Jersey and he had an issue with his township. He may be able to give you some insight and guidance.
I loved this video, I like hearing about your interests and worries and all that. You have one of the most attractive/friendly personalities I've seen that I was surprised to hear that this year was hard for you. It was really hard for me (I was unemployed for 10 months of 2023) so I felt a bit less alone. Also, asking for help is something I need to work on as well. I hope our 2024 will be more fulfilling and peaceful than the last year.
Jojo Moyes is a wonderful author! Look over your New Years list often so you keep on track! You can do it! We all get in ruts so go forward and have a great year!