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  • Опубликовано: 11 янв 2025

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  • @wordsofwisdomstories
    @wordsofwisdomstories  2 года назад +395

    Dear friends i am posting this video again because earlier video was deleted due to some problem in RUclips. Please show your love again. Thanks 🙏

    • @Wisdomium
      @Wisdomium 2 года назад +15

      Love this video. Thanks for reposting it 💛😊

    • @mr.calculator1207
      @mr.calculator1207 2 года назад +9

      Sure my dear brother.....and moreover it is the time to recall that story......thank u my dear brother

    • @smkumar2866
      @smkumar2866 2 года назад +7

      Thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @7p627
      @7p627 2 года назад +3

      Oops, posted previous message in wrong place. Thank you

    • @buddhistway8371
      @buddhistway8371 2 года назад +2

      What happened to that video?
      did you get copyright or happened something else with that video

  • @teliramirez3914
    @teliramirez3914 Год назад +58

    I tried not keeping a cat but I fell for the softness of the belly fur, the gentle purring and the squishy gummies on his paws.

    • @BuddhasTeachingsHT
      @BuddhasTeachingsHT 3 месяца назад

      What if mindfulness wasn’t simply a practice for finding inner peace, but a lifestyle that could transform every aspect of your existence? How might applying mindfulness and compassion in your everyday interactions, from work to relationships, lead to meaningful and lasting change in your life?"

  • @RainRoseville
    @RainRoseville 2 года назад +483

    I met the said cat in a bar. Helped him to some drinks and then he said "I never asked the monk for some milk. I was happy with the mice i caught. I never asked him to buy a cow, or to get a woman to take care of the cow. I definitely never asked him to sleep with the girl taking care of the cow to have a kid. WHY AM I BEING BLAMED FOR THIS?? This is all SO UNFAIR!" Poor cat....

    • @dalexa6927
      @dalexa6927 2 года назад +40

      Agreed the story doesn't make any sense & did the story teller mentioned clearly the monk renounced his wife & children to live in the cottage? So that means he was still married while he was gallivanting with another widow, "f" sake🤔

    • @thedjreffa
      @thedjreffa Год назад +29

      Exactly!! Poor cat who s now really sick cos he wasnt on the milk b4 the monk turned up, n now he s really ill, scabby, n his gut aches due to his lactose intolerance......😀 looking forward to the righteous repliesi ll prob recieve due to my comments!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wakey wakey

    • @ateeraateera
      @ateeraateera Год назад +40

      Yeah, cat is innocent in this story.
      The monk probably is also innocent.
      The question then goes to the story maker:
      Why he doesn't blame the rat for the problem?
      Why he doesn't blame the clothes for the problem?
      Why he doesn't keep his clothes in a box/container, so the mouse can't even get close to it?
      The story would be much more make sense if he keep his clothes away from rats, and the moral of the story would be clearer and simpler: 'keep yourself stay away from negativity'
      Well I guess the vid is not as great as the title (Note: It's from my personal opinion only)
      🙂

    • @thedjreffa
      @thedjreffa Год назад +10

      @@ateeraateera mine too, so your not alone!

    • @carpenterfamily6198
      @carpenterfamily6198 Год назад +24

      Yes, agreed ~ No problem with the cat. Problem with the monks mind.

  • @ivettekruger581
    @ivettekruger581 Год назад +39

    What a lovely story of normality, family and love. The monk does not have to preach against natural life. The cat and woman increased life and love,

    • @jerryyoung6494
      @jerryyoung6494 Год назад +11

      The monk abandons his original wife and children at the beginning. He then starts an extra marital affair and gets a woman he can’t support pregnant. It seems that he also abandons the second woman. I think you and I have different ideas about love and family 😂

    • @crazymetallian
      @crazymetallian Год назад +3

      a monk has decided to renounce to the world... i'm so sorry to tell you this, but it is trully impossible to bloom spirituality in a relationship.... and yes this is the way a man trully sees marriage and having children, is like the sacrifice of the self for taking care of others... i can't tell if it is the same for women, but i can certanly tell you that women will never ever understand that sacrifice

    • @crazymetallian
      @crazymetallian Год назад

      @@LM-1825 the point is that, in the tail, the woman was not a monk... and yes bloom spirituality in an occidental (and capitalistic/utilitarian) way maybe....
      and yes mothers will always sacrifice themselfs for their offspring, but it is a very powerful impulse that is almost impossible to stop, it is not spiritual, is a natural impulse complitely contrary to what is seek in oriental spirituality... we man do not have that impulse so the sacrifice is more aware and that is something that you as a woman will never understand, just imagine that, loving a children without that natural impulse, is just crazy (most man love the woman more than the offspring, and still they decide to sacrifice for them)

    • @jerryyoung6494
      @jerryyoung6494 Год назад +2

      @@LM-1825 I know it’s not a real story. But the lesson is horrible!
      The original comment judged the story of an example of love. But it isn’t at all, it’s an example of selfishness that left a trail of pain in others.
      We have to judge for without judgment we can’t improve. Of course, you are judging me as well 😁

  • @laurasmith3382
    @laurasmith3382 Год назад +130

    What I learned from the story...the man turned from the world and his life in it,and walked into the forest alone to become a monk with 2 robes.instead of meditating and finding the answers he was looking for inside of himself,he kept returning to the world and people he left behind for the answers to every little problem he faced, instead of finding the answers himself.hence,he wore one robe as a monk,and the second robe to return to the world for help.he went to live in solitude,but kept returning to the people of the world, bringing pieces of the place he left behind back with him,which led him back to where he started.

    • @sevendenton9229
      @sevendenton9229 Год назад +11

      Yeah, I don't see the connection to addiction the video is talking about. I see some kind of message about being self sufficient and don't rely on anyone else.....which I'm not sure is entirely healthy.

    • @alexman8800
      @alexman8800 Год назад +11

      The monk should have kept a monkey. Then bananas. It ends there and then.

    • @jpkatz1435
      @jpkatz1435 Год назад +2

      ​@@alexman8800 or, just stayed with the boat.

    • @Neil00841
      @Neil00841 Год назад +3

      It's a fictional story 😂

    • @Guhgsaggio
      @Guhgsaggio Год назад +2

      Very deep, love that.

  • @mashumichelle
    @mashumichelle 2 года назад +187

    "Never give your mind so much leverage that it starts dominating you"
    There is a great lesson in these words for me.
    I will mediate on them.
    Thank you❣

    • @aslansquotes
      @aslansquotes 2 года назад +3

      hello

    • @Harriono
      @Harriono 2 года назад +2

      In other words don't give an inch to unwelcome thoughts.

    • @mashumichelle
      @mashumichelle 2 года назад +1

      @@Harriono ever get out of cell signal for an extended length of time?

    • @sib5th
      @sib5th 2 года назад +1

      “mediate”? More likely you meant “meditate”?

    • @mashumichelle
      @mashumichelle 2 года назад +3

      @@sib5th yes meditate reflects the proper term
      TY

  • @billrichie8546
    @billrichie8546 Год назад +16

    What I learn here is that the problems of this life never ends...a solution to one is a problem to another solution..and it keeps going on and on.

    • @JohnVargo
      @JohnVargo Год назад +5

      I tend to agree with you. The original problem was never resolved. I guess we are meant to accept that there will always be problems, so get over it? That doesn't really help much.

    • @SeanMack1
      @SeanMack1 Год назад +1

      ​@@JohnVargo it's only a problem if you let it or something like that

  • @iRedditTales
    @iRedditTales Год назад +8

    To anyone who's watching this video and reading the comments, my wish for you is that any troubles or anxieties that have been weighing you down will begin to lift. May your mind be cleared of negative thoughts, incessant overthinking, and any doubts that have been holding you back. May clarity replace your confusion, and may your life be filled with peace and calmness. Take the wisdom from this video and empower yourself to achieve all that you seek. 🙏✨

  • @trevorkeyser9746
    @trevorkeyser9746 Год назад +42

    A great story! However, you can not know what it is not yours to know! Everything in our lives has a time and a timing! Foster your intuition! Learn to follow it! When you can do this, you will find that you are always in exactly the right place at exactly the right time! There is a flow too life! Everyone’s life is different! If you are following someone else’s intuition? You will never find your own way! Learn to listen too that still small voice that speaks too you. This is the secret too your happiness and fulfilment of your life’s purpose

    • @ChooseLoveToday316
      @ChooseLoveToday316 Год назад +3

      I am very spiritual and this is exactly what I believe.

    • @theoriginalalteff4
      @theoriginalalteff4 Год назад +2

      Words of Wisdom!

    • @mileksun7907
      @mileksun7907 Год назад +2

      Its not that everything has its timing. I don't believe that. I believe that when opportunity for something comes out person has to use and not listen ti anyone else.

    • @fredacharbel7510
      @fredacharbel7510 Год назад

      Well said thank you.

  • @welshwarrior9279
    @welshwarrior9279 Год назад +7

    Love this..
    I've allowed many cats into my life..
    Find the cats and break the cycles
    Thank you 🙏

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation 2 года назад +96

    *I WANT EVERYONE TO KNOW THIS*
    Once you’ve set your goals, striving for success is vital. There may be setbacks along the way, Don’t wish it were easier. Wish you were better, Always bear in mind that your own resolution to success is more important than any other one thing.
    I LOVE YOU 💕

    • @larryhernandez76
      @larryhernandez76 2 года назад +4

      I can feel your Love. . .

    • @Whit3_H4t
      @Whit3_H4t 2 года назад +4

      I love you too and your message is perfectly great

    • @charliethomas6317
      @charliethomas6317 2 года назад +1

      BS, this is the fault of desire
      . For SUCCESS an idea of western thinking

    • @risingson7773
      @risingson7773 Год назад

  • @TwoCatsAndAVan
    @TwoCatsAndAVan Год назад +39

    The cat represents the decisions we make in our lives. It’s a cautionary story of choices, and how the choices we make affect our lives forever.

    • @catscratchfever7540
      @catscratchfever7540 Год назад

      So what does the family his wife and child who he left behind in the first place represent together with the second woman and child he abandoned? Plus the fact he could of just gave the cat water to drink rather than mice, presumably the cat would eat not only small rodents but birds too, does not sound much like a smart man to me.

    • @MadonnaGrogan
      @MadonnaGrogan 11 месяцев назад

      Cats over children

    • @catscratchfever7540
      @catscratchfever7540 11 месяцев назад

      @@MadonnaGrogan Why put anything over anything? You think it is impossible to care for children or vulnerable people and to take care of animals concurrently?

    • @polreamonn
      @polreamonn 3 месяца назад

      Cat Lives Matter ​@@MadonnaGrogan

  • @wesstone7571
    @wesstone7571 Год назад +20

    Interestingly, I was just thinking yesterday about my life and saw this very thing in myself... I remember aa a child being tempted, saying no, telling myself it's OK, just once, I only want to try (for different things, not drugs)
    Then I saw other things that were similar, and eventually not even having the conversation with myself but just trying.
    I realized how many of these things became habits. Now I wish I'd listened to the voice that told me not to do most of those things.
    I also noticed something most people miss the context of.. poison is sweet.
    Most of the things that appear to be sweet, or cool, are bad for us and our lives, including TV, social media, smoking, drinking, etc.
    I have a pretty long list.
    What occurred to me the most is, we (especially in America) don't teach our children correctly. We should be raising our kids to drink only water and herbal teas, to eat mostly vegetables, fruits, and nuts as close to raw as possible, to meditate, and to always listen to that inner voice that instructs you. The more you ignore it, the less you can hear it. In just only 3 instances, and you can become deaf to thar voice, that guide, and never hear it again.

    • @delleon1172
      @delleon1172 Год назад +2

      No idea how many birthdays you’ve got under your belt now but it seems you have gained some most essential life wisdom… even if it was from a sometimes rough road. However we can get to a more wise & spiritual state - our chosen, or assigned, path is ours to navigate best way we can 🌻👍

    • @santhoshpitta7322
      @santhoshpitta7322 Год назад

      😂

  • @awabodhaya2399
    @awabodhaya2399 2 года назад +12

    I am a monk so I know about this more than much. I see it in some monks and lay people. Great advice for the audience. We keep one step for our emotional things in the life. That is the destroying thing but we don't see risk at it. Because emotions take the first before the mind.
    Live in the world wisely. Otherwise you can not be the person who needs to be happy. Don't let the emotions to wrink your life.

    • @arrowstoner6960
      @arrowstoner6960 2 года назад +1

      U are monk 😳? Can u pls help me sir 🙂🥺🙏

    • @awabodhaya2399
      @awabodhaya2399 2 года назад +1

      @@arrowstoner6960 What should I do for you.

    • @arrowstoner6960
      @arrowstoner6960 2 года назад +1

      @@awabodhaya2399 Sir mai bhut baar aur bhut der se type kr ke reply maang rha but reply post hi nhi ho parha 🥲Syd bhut bara h comment isliye 🙏kahi aur aapse baat ho skti h 🥺 yaha pe reply post hi nhi horha 😭

    • @awabodhaya2399
      @awabodhaya2399 2 года назад +3

      @@arrowstoner6960 Sorry I'm not able to read or understand hindi language. I prefer if you text in English.

    • @arrowstoner6960
      @arrowstoner6960 2 года назад +3

      @@awabodhaya2399 sir I don't know how to express I recently started reading bhagvat geeta but there is a problem with me 🙂 that is whatever I read i just forget half of things next day 🥲 i mean i also remembered like which is important or some highlighted phrases or lines but not like others 🙂i personally observed nd believe that except me everyone who reads bhavat geeta or reading bhagvat geeta ,they remembers every lines nd phrases 🙂 but I'm not able to do 💔 should i continue?Can someone help me 🥲 Nd I'm also not able to connect those lines with my life 🙂 i was reading comments nd i find that everyone is getting answers of their questions after reading bhavat geeta nd they r connecting advices nd problems of Arjuna with their own life 🙂but I'm not able to do anything like this 💔 Can someone pls help me 🙏 I'm not feeling gud nd u know self doubts🥺 I already wrote down my problems nd feelings but then I saw ur comment that u can't understand Hindi so I'm writing this again in English ,i don't want to write this in English bcoz English words can't express our feelings as like hindi words can 🙂 But anyway I'm writing this again I hope u will help me nd try to understand bcoz the last comment that i wrote wasn't posted 😭don't know why but I tried a lot of times but i think there was a server problem nd that's what I comment down in hindi that comment isn't posting so can we talk somewhere else ? But anyway I'm trying again afterall this is my problem 🙂I was from one of those persons who doesn't believe in gods nd u know someone who thinks like all of this is a superstition but now everything has been changed from the past 5-6 months nd i was one of them who wake up late , bath in 4-5 days ,dont believe in gods , but from the time i started believing in shri krishna nd in lords , everything has changed i dont know how nd when but gradually everything changed ,now i believe in shri krishna ❤️ i mean also in all of god ... Now i wake early (around 5:20-5:30) before i used to woke at around 8-9 am ,now after waking up the first thing i do is read bhagavat geeta nd now I'm also trying meditation for keep my mind calm ,cool bcoz i have so much anger ( i want to control but i dont know why i but whenever i got angry it feels like i will kil someone ) that's why im trying meditation but I'm trying a lot from last 8-10 days 😭but im not able to do like whenever i try to meditate my mind starts diverting so pls give me any solution 🙏nd now i bath everyday after reading bhagvat geeta nd then pooja....... Sometimes i feel is it was me or someone else ? I wasn't having any plan 4 going iskcon temple but somehow i gone nd there i got bhagavat geeta nd there was a guy who was selling bhagvat geeta inside the temple nd i decided to buy it nd that time i was not too much excited coz i was thinking that i will not read nd all of this but after buying bhagvat geeta i was so much curious about reading bhagvat geeta coz i heard a lot about geeta from many monks like if u read bhagvat geeta u will get every solution of your problems nd many things so im reading geeta continuously from around past 1 month...........Im telling all of this to u bcoz now I'm not even talking with my parents like any of my father mother sister nd i have not any frnds like not a single one bcoz now i don't trust anyone nd i feels that every frnd ís almost selfish nowadays,it was hard but somehow i did it so i have no one to talk or to express my feelings ...........🙂 Everyone eats non-veg in my family except me bcoz i feel from the very young that how can someone eat animals after killing them 🥺I just used to eat eggs but i dont eat even eggs now 🙂My nature remains still same ....Now i don't talk in home like i dont talk even single word with anyone in home....Im facing a lot of problems in my life ri8 now i completed my 12th around 1 years ago nd i have taken break from everything from the last 1 year coz i told my family that i want to take break from all of things nd want to drop my study ri8 now bcoz i want to follow my passion nd i want to give all of my focus time nd energy on my passion, somehow after listening 100000 words from my parents i got permission nd even now i listens everyday something from my parents like U r wasting ur time nd all of that ...........Nd now i think it's going to be about 8-9 months that I haven't talked with my parents or with my sister but u know what sir that i loves my mom too much nd i hadn't never been without talking with mom more than 1-2 days but now it's almost as i said earlier that now it's more than half of years 💔 Sometimes i thinks that go to mom nd talk with her but then i get remember that what my family said and all of bad things 🙂( but i can also understand that it's usual in india like if someone is going in something different line nd trying to be different from others then it will happen with everyone afterall i feel that I'm very lucky that i got this kind of mom nd even my sister but can't say this about my father 💔🙂 My dad is also very much good like in terms of knowledge nd all of that , basically my father is in bank manager but u know sir my dad's knowledge is much way higher than someone expect as manager, he joined bank at that time bcoz of financial issues in his family,maybe ias ips or something bcoz his knowledge is just ⚡ anyway but 4 me according to nature or behaviour i cant say as i said about my mom ,maybe im wrong but that's what i feel nd its from my point of view........when i decided nd started to not talk to anyone then i also decided that i will not do anything or any work of my home or anything that my mom dad will say ,nd i will not response but now I'm making change in this too , definitely i will not talk but i will do everything i mean every single thing that can possible nd everything what i can do,like any work in home or any help that my family members will want from me ,so I'm trying nd I'm doing this ,i doesn't talks single word but i just listen what they are telling me nd i just do that,im trying that it will be in my nature nd lasts forever but i have still a lot of problems 🥲as i said i started meditation but I'm not able to do nd the main reason is my anger 🥲 i don't know but before 8-9 months when i used to talk with my family members then whenever i got angry sometimes i had said something that hurts my mom or my sister nd after some times i realised that what i had just done what i just said why i doesn't control my words nd why im not able to control my anger 🙂This was also one of those reason why i strt meditation so sir pls 🙏 if u are reading this then pls give me solution of my problems that i told you🙏Nd i also decided that i will not gonna buy eat anything that i used to order online like Zomato etc. Will not gonna buy any dress or or grooming things or anything from my family's money until i doesn't starts earning from myself nd for what i had taken break from everything so that i Always gets reminder that i kept almost all of my personal nd favourite things on risk 🙂 No junk food nothing from outside 🙂 Im trying hard 4 keep my mouth nd mind in control until i starts earning so that i gets Always motivated....The sandal , slipper i usually wear to go outside have also got cracked little but I'm not using new one bcoz i want that i kept getting hurt everytime when i wear so that i always getting reminder continuously nd now im telling the most difficult problem that I'm facing badly ri8 now 💔who almost breaks me like as i said that i told my parents that i want break nd want to focus on my passion so at that time me and my father started fighting (like in words) so 4 taking time i just said ok i want 1 year if I wasn't do anything from my passion nd doesn't strt earning then whatever u will say to me i will accept 🥲 so my father said ok but he wasn't satisfied neither at that time nor now🙂Nd that time will be gonna over in march 2023 🥺 See sir everything was going good actually very good till last month nd it was looking that i will complete everything nd will also strted earning till last of December but from the last 50-60 days everything has been changed 🥲nd if things will not come under control under 5-6 days then i have to strt again from 0🥺💔💔 Nd now i haven't enough time nd im asking to shri krishna now that what's going on ? what happening with me nd I'm not getting anything from shri krishna 🥺 Lots of time i get bad feeling nd wrong things in my mind like suicide nd all of this but somehow i control myself so pls sir help me🥺🙏 pls help me 🙏 whatever I told u , mediation,geeta , depressed mind , suicide, Passion, family etc....I have lots of things in my mind but I'm not able to express ri8 now nd I'm not enough able to think 🙏pls help me coz I'm in deep trouble ri8 now 💔Hare krishna ❤️🙏

  • @BuddhistBalance-68
    @BuddhistBalance-68 2 месяца назад

    "This is exactly what I needed to hear today. So calming."

  • @ixoraroxi
    @ixoraroxi Год назад +16

    A great thinker always allows his mind to take a road regardless of where this road will take him.
    If one has trained his mind of critical thinking, there is nothing wrong "to have a cat."

    • @munibsharma2058
      @munibsharma2058 Год назад +1

      ofcourse not sister. A person who got no or less emotions also starts to feel when someone gives them a gentle touch.And slowly it start to put its effect on him/her. A car whiich give a good power will slowly slowly keep declining because of using it again and again. So its better to learn from others mistake because u know the story and the result but u fall prey in that trap thinking that i wont get affected to it because i got a critical thinking.😉😉

    • @thedjreffa
      @thedjreffa Год назад

      Well said.. N the guy who 1st replied to you, when a car, which incidently has nothing to do with this story, loses power, usually either wear n tear, or bad servicing!! That simple, like this story!

    • @dango470
      @dango470 Год назад

      says the woman who probably wants good men to be husbands not monks
      " i can control this" is what every single addict thinks before becoming an addict, "i can quit anytime" is what every smoker thinks before being diagnosed with lung cancer

    • @ixoraroxi
      @ixoraroxi Год назад +2

      @Dan Go I am married for 20 years and counting:)))

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin Год назад

      @@dango470 How does the burn feel

  • @greggartland8543
    @greggartland8543 Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @scottytoohotty7617
    @scottytoohotty7617 Год назад +5

    I found this to be very profound. It took me 48 years to reach the same conclusion. Yet, I still find it amusing..

  • @Baruch-Hashem
    @Baruch-Hashem Год назад +4

    This is a very good message, once you let a little bit in, then it will give your mind leverage to repeat. Once the camels nose comes under the tent, its too late. (same message from another culture)

  • @BuddhasWisdom-z4n
    @BuddhasWisdom-z4n 2 месяца назад

    I love how the guided meditations help me connect with my inner self. Your calming voice and thoughtful guidance make it so much easier to find peace in my hectic life

  • @GUNNBRITT1
    @GUNNBRITT1 Год назад +46

    To keep a cat is the reason to live your life properly...so keep a cat and you will know why you want to live a life on Earth..😊❤

  • @MindOrigins79
    @MindOrigins79 2 месяца назад

    I love how the video delivers the lesson on mind control so authentically and relatable.

  • @WarpstormChronicles
    @WarpstormChronicles Год назад +19

    From this story I think you should keep a cat.
    When your life is at rock bottom when you take responsibility and each day just do one thing to make your life better, before you even notice, you're life is unrecognizably better.

    • @MadonnaGrogan
      @MadonnaGrogan 11 месяцев назад +1

      Cats make life better, not sure about cow etc😻😻😻🥳😂

  • @WayneGreen-g8l
    @WayneGreen-g8l Год назад +1

    Caring for the cat was an act of compassion and was the right thing to do. Avoiding the world is cowardice. Seeking constant peace of mind means forgetting the suffering of others. Running away from the world for the sake of personal tranquility is not enlightened but rather dehumanizing.

  • @topzeal4518
    @topzeal4518 2 года назад +4

    Thank you. We must be mindful of the things we do.

  • @amug3536
    @amug3536 2 года назад +2

    I THANK GOD for making sure I see this video.... This is the way sometimes GOD talks to People 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thank you GOD and thank you bro for making this video🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @u.kprime6537
    @u.kprime6537 2 года назад +10

    Your videos are life changing. Thanks a lot.

  • @Daniel_Fo77
    @Daniel_Fo77 2 года назад +5

    I lately start to grow a slight aversion of words like control or emotion regulation. For example, I think your video is less about controlling your mind, but allowing something to be and not try to control it, so that it starts controlling you. As for emotion regulation, I think it suggests a top down mind on body dominance, whereby I believe that emotion integration, a harmonic and functional interaction of emotional and cognitive parts of our mind is more desirable.

  • @MohammedZaheeruddin
    @MohammedZaheeruddin 2 года назад +7

    Highly appreciable story. 'Nafs' is one entity among 6 entities living within use. It guides guides us always towards evil. to be protected from this evil, we have to be always cautious if we want dignified life. Spiritual gurus will help in this matter. Thanks and regards

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  • @Wisdomium
    @Wisdomium 2 года назад +59

    Very nice story with a powerful message 💛 I was working on a Confucius quotes video and this reminds me of one of his quotes: "Men's natures are alike, it is their habits that carry them far apart." ~Confucius
    We must always watch what we do because it’s very hard to change ourselves when a bad or unproductive task becomes a habit. Love your video as always. Thank you for making and sharing amazing content 💛👍

    • @srinivaspodishetty489
      @srinivaspodishetty489 2 года назад +1

      Yes bro what you said was true

    • @cherylvanstaden2984
      @cherylvanstaden2984 Год назад +1

      That is life. If you don't take a chance ... Dont bother. This is a life story about the butterfly effect. As I see it ... get the cat and see where it goes. Orherwise wallow in loneliness and self pity.

    • @christianjenkinson1779
      @christianjenkinson1779 Год назад

      @@cherylvanstaden2984 ❤

  • @Tem209
    @Tem209 Год назад +3

    Having a family is a good thing. give a new perspective in life. It only shows how beautiful someone's life could be if he had a cat

  • @KarimaEhsan-tx7ks
    @KarimaEhsan-tx7ks 4 месяца назад +1

    How great story
    Be success👍

  • @Kopfootball9
    @Kopfootball9 2 года назад +10

    It is quite true what Philosophy says: that Life must be understood backwards. But that makes one forget the other saying: that it must be lived-forwards. The more one ponders this, the more it comes to mean that life in the temporal existence never becomes quite intelligible, precisely because at no moment can I find complete quiet to take the backward- looking position.

    • @aliciamenorca363
      @aliciamenorca363 2 года назад

      dont take heavy burdens in your life ,carry the burdens in a practical solutions

  • @yogeshabd5235
    @yogeshabd5235 2 года назад +16

    To be honest, the story you providing are so freat and inspirational for others. Don't stop just go on. Best wishes for your future

  • @greyjay9202
    @greyjay9202 2 года назад +4

    The desire to renounce the world is just another form of attachment.

  • @shunbanaidu2425
    @shunbanaidu2425 Год назад +1

    It’s so true our mind wonders a lot an causes problems, we don’t know when to stop, good advice to repeat mantra at all times , I do that but all of a sudden I get drowned with thoughts, I am going take your advice an get rid of my bad habits ,thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mandyjjonesj5541
    @mandyjjonesj5541 2 года назад +3

    New subscriber. Love and am grateful 🙏 to this channel already thank you for sharing wisdom 🙏

  • @rosaparz4822
    @rosaparz4822 Год назад +1

    Its all about addiction.Perfect time to control our minds!Thanks for sharing 👍.. ☺.

  • @Jyotsnapolam3033
    @Jyotsnapolam3033 2 года назад +3

    Loved this.

  • @mindfulglow20
    @mindfulglow20 2 месяца назад

    To anyone watching this video 🌱, do you feel your soul becoming lighter and more peaceful? The teachings in this video truly feel like a guiding light, helping us find tranquility amid life’s chaos. 🌟 Thank you so much for sharing this precious spiritual wisdom!

  • @DJCJ999
    @DJCJ999 Год назад +3

    Everything is practice.... be mindful of your thoughts, deeds and actions as they become you.. set positive patterns of coexistence between your mind and your reality... namaste.

  • @wasanthasiyambalagoda6159
    @wasanthasiyambalagoda6159 2 года назад +1

    Very valuable.
    Important for adults as well as children..
    Teachers can use these videos and change children's attitudes towards better.
    Thanks for this valuable video
    Please continue....

  • @jonboy8181
    @jonboy8181 Год назад +8

    Maybe the old monk’s last words should be don’t abandon your wife and kids?

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 Год назад

    Thank you
    I didn't look at the mind like this
    But very very true
    Something new i have learnt today

  • @Music_of_Consciousness
    @Music_of_Consciousness 2 года назад +4

    Nice story... First of all to be a monk is not necessarily Wise... To escape from the World, means that you afraid the world... Wherever you go, wherever you do, you carry the old self with you...
    Doesn't matter what you change without you.. Whatever you touch with a broken finger you will feel pain.. Blessings to everyone

    • @theawebster1505
      @theawebster1505 2 года назад

      A lot of the human world is superficial and shallow to a great degree, so one should understand a standpoint from which participating in it is futile.
      Most of the things people strive for are meaningless, they have just been taught or programmed so from peers and society.

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  • @ThayRiverx
    @ThayRiverx Год назад

    I’ve been reminding myself a lot lately
    Buddha, dharma, sanga

  • @maheshmbbs
    @maheshmbbs 2 года назад +163

    Moral of the story:-Never beg for an advise from the surrounding people, never beg for ur basic needs,and always use condoms, children are the reason for all of your struggles

    • @dalexa6927
      @dalexa6927 2 года назад +14

      We can ask for advice but we ourselves can determine & decide what's the outcome gonna be! The fact that he kept asking for help from other people from a small problem, that means he was not ready to become a monk himself. He blamed the cat over his stupidity & the moral of the story was that he cheated on his wife & children (that is what the story teller said), that's absurd!!

    • @matusalemvb.19
      @matusalemvb.19 2 года назад

      I agree

    • @renegade-master29
      @renegade-master29 Год назад +4

      So true I see that all to often in today's broken world 😥

    • @JaiRamJaiRamJaiRam108
      @JaiRamJaiRamJaiRam108 Год назад +3

      Mary 4 wives. Produce dozen children

    • @thedjreffa
      @thedjreffa Год назад

      @@dalexa6927 Funny answer, i like it.. I think the replies to this vid, most of em been eating too many chinese fortune cookies!!

  • @joshlj9426
    @joshlj9426 Год назад +4

    It's not about the cat, it's about the monks fear....

  • @SamadhiGuitar
    @SamadhiGuitar Год назад +2

    It seems like the real lesson here is that life will happen regardless of how hard you try to fight against it. Renouncing the world is dumb and all it does is make you subservient to others who are living life. This is portrayed by the monk needing to beg for everything since he renounced his ability to be independent. He woke up one day and realized that he was yet again living life, but seemed to think that that was a bad thing somehow…

  • @premdasyesudasan5778
    @premdasyesudasan5778 2 года назад +11

    It is a great reminder that if someone is not careful enough he can be easily entangled in the web of Maya, even if he is a monk. Yes, even if he is a monk. Maya is that powerful.

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    • @jerryyoung6494
      @jerryyoung6494 Год назад +1

      Seems to me that the “monk” in this story is a sinner and the source of the problem, not maya or the cat. The monk abandoned his wife and children. How terrible and selfish. He then goes off and gets a woman pregnant. We can assume he abandoned them as well to go off and continue to be a beggar monk. Instead of taking personal responsibility and repentance he blames a cat for his sinful heart and behavior. Thus he is still troubled by it on his death bed. He is the problem, not outside forces like maya.

    • @premdasyesudasan5778
      @premdasyesudasan5778 Год назад

      @@jerryyoung6494 The force that makes us do sin or virtue is known as Maya.

    • @jerryyoung6494
      @jerryyoung6494 Год назад +1

      @@premdasyesudasan5778 do we have control or are we puppets to maya? (I don’t claim expertise on maya!!!)
      Why does the source of our sin need to be external? Like the cat story, his behavior follows him. I suppose we could say outside forces are everywhere, but it seems more realistic to say the problem is internal. But that would mean the bad behavior is a sign that we are not good. We are bad. Perhaps I misunderstand but an outside force like maya seems to be a way of thinking I am good despite all my repeated bad thoughts and actions.
      Thanks

    • @premdasyesudasan5778
      @premdasyesudasan5778 Год назад +1

      @@jerryyoung6494 Thanks for your comment. First of all, we all are puppets to Maya till the moment we attain Moksha by transcending the cycle of birth, death and rebirth. Attaining our real self is the goal. In order to do that we have to know who we actually are in the first place. Meditation is the way to know that.
      All our problems are internal, not external. Maya is not completely external. It is too close to our internal self, Atman. Jeevatma, our Atman, in its jaagrat state (wake up state in our World) is in Maya. All our thoughts, emotions etc. are part of Maya. It is only when we go further deep into our self through meditation we enter the state of Thureeya (the transcendent state) and go temporarily beyond Maya.
      We aren't actually good or bad. Our real state of being is beyond such duality. Maya is the force that binds us towards such things.

  • @IronHeart55
    @IronHeart55 8 месяцев назад +1

    it's really inspiring story for everybody....

  • @Wong-Jack-Man
    @Wong-Jack-Man 2 года назад +5

    When you have the ability quit, you don’t want to. When you must quit, you can’t.

    • @Caiptine44
      @Caiptine44 2 года назад

      It's happening to my life now
      What should I do ?
      That I want to quit bad habit parmanently

  • @therontshonono4994
    @therontshonono4994 Год назад +2

    i am so touched by this wise words.....powerful message indeed

  • @babyme8886
    @babyme8886 2 года назад +5

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @AwakenwithBuddhasWords
    @AwakenwithBuddhasWords 3 месяца назад

    Each of your teachings helps me feel more at peace! 🙏🙏

  • @jayravilab3481
    @jayravilab3481 Год назад +3

    As far to what I understand and assimilated, this was not just about having these sorts of things literally but can be also deemed as building a certain habit that might affect us misfortunately. If we indulge to have just a tiny bad Habbit this Habbit will be more complex and tend to ruin thyself and makes your life full of uncertainties... 💙

    • @MadonnaGrogan
      @MadonnaGrogan 11 месяцев назад

      More you have, the more problems

  • @carnivorecaveman
    @carnivorecaveman 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely true!

  • @mr._.unknown_
    @mr._.unknown_ 2 года назад +9

    Such a meaningful and very useful guide, thank you for your nice content thank you ❤👏👍

    • @aslansquotes
      @aslansquotes 2 года назад

      hello

    • @topzeal4518
      @topzeal4518 2 года назад

      Cat is just his own initial bad decision. We all have our various bad decisions that turned into bad habits. The message is to beware of the things we allow into our life. If it has a taste of evil just don't try to do it once. Attempting it once we make us a slave of that habit.

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    • @mr._.unknown_
      @mr._.unknown_ Год назад

      @@aslansquotes hello 😅

  • @davidpahlka6301
    @davidpahlka6301 Год назад +1

    I am a distant descendant of Martin Luther or one of his brothers. The
    Catholic monks as Buddhists are renounce worldly things. There is some
    practicality to this because in our fast paced world most people just
    react without thinking often leading to discomfort. In not being a part
    of the normal world, how can a monk be it Christian or Buddhist give
    advice to people? Pain and suffering is a part of life but so is happiness
    such as helping others like the cat and the lonely woman who became
    his wife.
    I've lived alone often meditating, thinking about writing the most perfect
    book about Our Common Creator of the Cosmos. Then comes a cat
    who desired that I adopt her. I tell her, "I don't like cats, never had a cat
    and don't want a cat!"
    She didn't listen, now I have three cats and feed some strays when I
    can afford it. I no longer run my house, I just pay the rent, the power,
    give them food and water and act security when they go for their
    hunt. Oh, yea I also change their litter boxes. I complain but to see
    them content gives me another type of peace.

  • @arumugamnadar9494
    @arumugamnadar9494 2 года назад +9

    Amazing and inspiring lesson to every human.
    Million thanks to you Sir,this is also a kind of support to the ruining young society.🙏🙏🙏

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  • @BuddhismBliss-eng
    @BuddhismBliss-eng 4 месяца назад

    This is a wonderful reminder that we must always be cautious of the "cats" we let into our lives, as they can lead us down paths we never intended to take.

  • @sudhakarreddypolam2432
    @sudhakarreddypolam2432 2 года назад +3

    Thank you 🙏 more buddha stories brother

  • @katepaige7134
    @katepaige7134 2 года назад +2

    What a nice story thanks for sharing it helping me a lot.

  • @vishnuk8782
    @vishnuk8782 2 года назад +4

    This is the best motivation I ever had in my life

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  • @_manpreetsingh1313
    @_manpreetsingh1313 10 месяцев назад

    I totally understand the moral meaning of this story

  • @shaneessex6120
    @shaneessex6120 Год назад +3

    The love of caring for a cat will save your life

  • @stegmonjurvinweirdt1834
    @stegmonjurvinweirdt1834 Год назад +1

    They raised the monk higher than themselves. A monk is a human, nothing more, nothing less.

  • @vijayaragavand9474
    @vijayaragavand9474 2 года назад +3

    Powerful message with simgle story..

  • @durgadevi-eq3dh
    @durgadevi-eq3dh Год назад +1

    Excellent story

  • @MCSEknight
    @MCSEknight 2 года назад +11

    Moral of the story:
    Don't give up your life to become a monk. Lol

    • @Karma735-t7h
      @Karma735-t7h Год назад +1

      Right🤣 LmFAO because this video didn't do it for me like everyone else 🙄 I will save it and check it later !

  • @isaiahalvarez442
    @isaiahalvarez442 Год назад

    I think it's a beautiful story about how humanity is always willing to help if you ask humbly and keep humility and the world can be given to you. It is not bad to have a 2 robes, a cottage, a cat, a cow, some grass, a woman, love and thena family all these things can be done near effortlessly if one is in tune with the Tao

  • @okayogi4665
    @okayogi4665 2 года назад +3

    I loved this story damn good

  • @k.s.muralidhardaasakoshamu6478

    Correct story for SALVATION FROM REALIZATION👌🙏😍

  • @7p627
    @7p627 2 года назад +72

    🤔 if the cat was chasing(and presumably eating) mice, why did the monk have to feed the cat in the first place? A BIGGER TRUTH was being ignored. Hello🎉 💞🥳✌️✨♾️

    • @ravindrathakur5252
      @ravindrathakur5252 2 года назад +17

      The cat kept the mouse away didn't eat them

    • @7p627
      @7p627 2 года назад +2

      Please refer to the second to last part of my Original statement. TY😘✌️

    • @futureworld2516
      @futureworld2516 2 года назад +13

      Bro I have a cat too. But I have to feed it because There is no left rats in my house.

    • @arpit.1409
      @arpit.1409 2 года назад +10

      There were not many mice so that the cat have proper meal 😅

    • @deepikabali9199
      @deepikabali9199 2 года назад +2

      @@arpit.1409 🤣🤣🤣 Right

  • @stellamackeyloveworks
    @stellamackeyloveworks Год назад +2

    cracks me up how the monk keeps going to the villagers to solve his problems😂
    Perhaps that is the real lesson in the story;)

  • @WisdomKeeper11
    @WisdomKeeper11 2 года назад +4

    A home without a cat is just a house.

  • @SwagatikaPradhan-uq9vo
    @SwagatikaPradhan-uq9vo 8 месяцев назад

    What a great thought!i really love this wisdom story ❤👍💯

  • @rickkarcher7475
    @rickkarcher7475 2 года назад +6

    What a ridiculous story! A man abandons his family but getting a cat was his biggest regret? Wow.

    • @dalexa6927
      @dalexa6927 2 года назад +2

      Finally someone noticed & got the whole point & message, thank you🙏 that's why I got confused because the story teller clearly mentioned the monk "renounced his wife & children" and out of sudden a cat got blamed from he is being irresponsible and coward & cheated to his family. The fact, he kept asking villagers for solutions & could not even filter out his sexual desire what a bunch of bullocks this story, fecking fake monk!!!

  • @Bokamoso_xiv
    @Bokamoso_xiv 2 года назад +3

    Why am i finding this now😭😭🔥❤

  • @AurangZeb-o3q
    @AurangZeb-o3q 2 месяца назад

    This is a great story.i have learnt a lot of lesson from this story.

  • @neoreign
    @neoreign 2 года назад +3

    We've already seen this one, why reupload it?

    • @mashumichelle
      @mashumichelle 2 года назад

      Perhaps it needed to be heard again❣

  • @khushiisingh4296
    @khushiisingh4296 Год назад +7

    He should have kept a man instead of woman.😅 Problem solve

    • @AllRounders-dz5se
      @AllRounders-dz5se 9 месяцев назад

      🎉

    • @psc8497
      @psc8497 8 месяцев назад +1

      No . Because man lives with his family. Women not have any relatives that why, they perused the women .

    • @AsthongKips
      @AsthongKips 7 месяцев назад

      It's just a story bruh

  • @akashbharali7279
    @akashbharali7279 2 года назад +2

    It is very easy to tell that cat has cut the relationship of all but cat has also played a important role in everyone life coz in every one story, cat is the wonderful I felt that's why I m sharing this. Here the cat has made your life fearless and you have kicked it later. That's different. In our life cat is hopeful

  • @HYTELES
    @HYTELES 2 года назад +17

    This is really bad advice! Cats should never drink cow's milk. They are lactose intolerant and very much a carnivore. If they are eating rats, they shouldn't be too hungry for anything else.

    • @intruder169
      @intruder169 2 года назад +1

      Har baar mein logic nhi hota sirf magic hota hai

    • @sergio7313
      @sergio7313 2 года назад +6

      They do drink cow milk

    • @FirstnameLastname-cw1my
      @FirstnameLastname-cw1my 2 года назад +9

      Man can't you take moral of the story instead of figuring out illogical stuff

    • @beardedirishman8887
      @beardedirishman8887 2 года назад +5

      You hear the story but did not listen you took it literally and missed the entire teaching because you became fixated on the cat drinking milk...

    • @Vnnnnn12345
      @Vnnnnn12345 2 года назад

      😂

  • @paranxietyoia587
    @paranxietyoia587 2 года назад +1

    As an addict i can say that you are right don't try any drugs because it can become a trouble

  • @renedescartes6057
    @renedescartes6057 2 года назад +4

    Moral of the story..." Don't own a cat, Always rent a cat."

  • @RjTahsinAhmed
    @RjTahsinAhmed 6 месяцев назад

    this story is very teachable for our life😊🎉❤

  • @animefantasy4417
    @animefantasy4417 Год назад

    A for Act thoughtfully or you will ached later.
    Act once is acting
    Act frequently is addiction.
    This is base on addiction keep it up it’s for you

  • @Bookworm2025bookworm
    @Bookworm2025bookworm Год назад +1

    Love the opportunity to watch all your incredible content ❤

  • @production-j1x
    @production-j1x 3 месяца назад

    This story gives us big lesson for achive great success in our life🎉

  • @chetansamariya8482
    @chetansamariya8482 2 года назад +2

    Very relevant story 👏

  • @Mallikrupam
    @Mallikrupam Год назад +1

    What a story man its really great ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ShiningDrizzle1010
    @ShiningDrizzle1010 Год назад

    Thank you for This Story Yes 100% It's True

  • @khairilmustafa4909
    @khairilmustafa4909 Год назад

    This lesson story brings another lesson story.
    What a world.

  • @shivansingh1633
    @shivansingh1633 9 месяцев назад

    Life is a journey so enjoy the ride we are gonna have our ups and downs God bless

  • @hifivaliant8937
    @hifivaliant8937 Год назад +1

    What I take from the story, is that in this monks life he was meant to learn about the responsibility of family, however he shunned the responsibility when it was given to him twice. The man failed in his duty towards family, he allowed his mind to chose monkhood over fatherhood and choose avoidance of life over responsibility of life. Instead of earning a living to support his family, he turned to begging. This man failed not only being a monk, but also being a father.

  • @unknownwarrior757
    @unknownwarrior757 Год назад +1

    EVERYONE READ THIS if you think that "The monk and cat story" has no much sense!
    _______________________________________________________________________________________
    Don't think about the way how this story is shared or the details and the words that are used, because you eventualy will miss all the point of the story. This story reveals one of the aspects in our real daily life and warns us to be careful. The point is not to think about where is the logical connection between the rats, cat and cow. The story reveals one of the principles from real life which is:
    Every day we are influenced by our thoughts, words, deeds and everything/everyone around us. For example the monk had found his own path i the begining of the story, but soon he was influenced by the way how other people think and act in theyr lives. He was influenced by them and by trusting them each time he finally reached the daily life he had set out to change. This particular story may relate to you if you have set out to become a monk. But if you look at the story as advice, as if someone is offering you to apply it in your personal life, then the story will seem to you without any sense. You might ask yourself "why should it be a problem to have a family and animals in the yard?" or "where is the logic and the connection between raising a family and drug addiction"? Therefore, friends, consider the principle revealed in this story depending on the course you decide to follow in your personal life. The point of this story is that everything that is around us affects our thoughts (information enters our minds through our five senses) and as a result our reactions are formed and decisions are made, and from there our words and deeds follow. This is how our daily life is shaped and with it our character is also shaped (of course I have not forgotten the genetic predispositions for which we have neither input nor choice). If we are not careful about the course of our lives, a little influence here, a little there, we may soon find ourselves in a surprising position that we never wanted. This is the lesson of this story, and it has a universal and daily application for each of us, no matter how varied our daily lives are.
    I hope (and will be happy) if someone benefits from what I wrote.

  • @Lovelynature625
    @Lovelynature625 Год назад

    Wonderful Story 😮😮

  • @satishponnaganti6613
    @satishponnaganti6613 Год назад

    It is a really good video, good massage, i heartfelt thanks to this massage, love this massage ❤❤❤❤❤,🙏🙏🙏

  • @SHEEPANDGOATACADEMY
    @SHEEPANDGOATACADEMY Год назад

    Highly appreciable and valuable story. Every one must watch this video .❤Thank you 👍