I burst into tears watching this. I went through exactly what you described (slight deviations). And your cat looks exactly like my childhood cat… I’m glad you’re here with us today and that you’re making an impact on people who have these feelings of self doubt.
Very empathetic video. Thanks for sharing. I've been thinking about doing a video more like "my blackpill story" since I was not a literal incel but had a similar mentality. I so want to hear more about your transformational journey since then because you have clearly done amazing work on yourself brother
"I was not a literal incel " a lot of men think this just because they get a half erect bj from a 5/10 in a club once or twice a year. No, every time you watched pron or jerked it yourself you were an incel at this point. Most men are. Women can get a booty call in 30mins every time. You are an incel.
I used to be an incel. I was fat disgusting out of shape with bad skin. Now I bench 285 and can do 30 dips in a row. I’m still an incel but at least I’m strong and fit.
@ bro fr I’ve been hit on and asked out by plenty of gay dudes in my life. Probably because I’m pretty flamboyant and outgoing which may be off putting for women and attractive to gays.
Well said, the biggest risk from incels is suicide, and it's really sad, because if you raise that issue people laugh about it. It's classic victim blaming.
It’s always funny because then they complain that the men most dangerous to women are their boyfriends and husbands. Who are very obviously non-incels.
@@michaelvanderlaan5629 same thing with white suicide rates. Its what made me wonder if the end goal is genocide. That shit is like step 4 on the 6 step genoicde scale. I memorized it in middle school i was obsessive compulsive and o just learn everything i can about subjects when i get interested. System of a Down had a song about the armenian genocide thats what got me searching into it. But most people will bot even engage the implications of this conversation and just call me crazy.
This is exactly how I feel. I feel like women are disgusted just by my presence. And I always get "Okay, okay, whatever now go fck yourself" vibes when talking to other guys. I feel like i'll never have friends, let alone a relationship.
@@benmoran4 ur correct but along with being that you also gotta empathize with yourself . Empathy is the core of what this video is promoting to help incels . I can tell you - I have put blood and sweat into changing myself physically but mentally I still need to empathize with how I was treated . If I don't I'll forever stay spiteful and alone
You can always better yourself. Physically, mentally and spiritually. As far a looks and health goes, i'd imagine you workout since you follow this channel but how's your personal hygiene? What about your grooming? Your skin? How's your diet? All these things influence your overall appearance. Do you have a career that you're working on? Do you have professional aspirations? If so, work on them, set yourself up for success in the future. That will build character and identity. Are you religious? If you are, i'd strongly recommend to dial in your faith, whatever that is. It helped me personally feel much more grounded and fulfilled.
That story about that weak ass "man" of a teacher calling you gay seriously pissed me off and made me sick to hear. I'm sorry that happened to you. I was that chubby kid in middle and high school too so it always makes me angry to hear things like that.
@@DrStench13same here, it turns out I was never ugly like I thought I was, I was just fat and my skin was bad bc of the junk I used to eat, 2 years of working and a good diet changed me , I’d walk into rooms and women noticed me, life changing, I also started working out at 23
There has been a lot of ments in the past couple weeks, the trolls visiting his home, losing michelle, snowball story (eating his own cum),,, my guess he is working on something
Exactly, its not being ugly, its being treated like youre ugly. People wont get it till it happens to them. Its similar for women and men, although with men, there is simply less support, and actually the opposite, you get called this I word for literally jsut relaying your real life expeirences, which push you into further isolation. If people genuinely want to reach someone with any argument, the argument must be approached with compassion and patience. The person who is angry, the I word in this scenario, is angry because they feel like you dont understand something and theyre trying to make you understand it. This goes for any argument, people get mad at you because of a lack of communication. If you want to establish propper communication, you have to respond with patience, and compassion. The worst thing to do is respond back with anger, or ridicule. Arguments are a fantastic oppourtunity for growth, and healing if you approach them right.
If you’re being treated as ugly then you’re ugly. Everything about you is decided by genetics and it’s all equal to your face in the end. Your “Muh personality” is just folds in your brain that decide your fate in the same way as your jawbones. Everything is your looks.
Eliott Roger is somewhat different from other incels, while the average incel has low self-esteem Eliott had very high self-esteem (I might call him a narcissist). Eliott's hatred for women seemes to have come more from entitlement than being pushed away by those he encountered (source: his videos)
I think the definition of incel these days has shifted to include that type of character whose hatred of women is due to their entitlement fueled by misogyny. Of course there’s overlap between the two but it’s much harder to help the above types.
Inceldom stems from deep self hatred that turns into raging misogyny, Elliott is exactly that - poor self esteemed turned inflated because of what I described above. Narcissists tend to lack self esteem a lot tbh.
25 yo dude here. I also had a shitty childhood and became an incel in my teenage years. Today you would not think of me that way, if you saw me, but I still feel like there is a stench that is following me. The need of getting approval of women also never really disappeared and is kinda sabotaging me to this day. However, I think I keep doing better from day to day. Guys, if you can relate: It is not your fault that you feel this way. But deep down we all know we should not have these thoughts of hate for us and women, and it is not what we want to be. It is a winnable battle to get better. Just be prepared that it takes some time
@@anonemoose102 Sorry to hear that man. The fact that you know you struggle with the approval of women, means you already are on a good way. What helped me, was getting to know a lot of women in a non-romantic way. When you see they are just humans, the feeling definitley fades a bit
Holy hell brother, the timing of this is needed. I've been dealing with self reflection and realized that I've been dealing with life through the eyes of resentment. Definitely not the ideas of an incel. But I'd eventually start to hate on so much because of the lack of reciprocation I was receiving, after living a youth filled with love. Hell I even had a beautiful girl move to NY from Michigan when I was in High school just for me. She had family and everything over there. After I lost her...everything started to fall...I realized that I didn't understand things that I thought I did. I had "friends" whod use me for the families benefits. None of these friends cared to stick around high school was over, and even after colleges. I could continue to elaborate. But damn, being sensitive and filled with passion as a kid did not help the transition into being an adult. Around age 23-24 I really started to attack psychology and such, it helped me realize that I was the problem in the past, not the world. I needed to revisit this stuff. Your page always helped me with this types of things, definitely helps with the gym info. Stay up! Stay positive!
When did we stop remembering that we’re all humans and sensitive beings? Some women go through similar experiences and may become an incel’s victim, trying to have a relationship with their wounds, but no sympathy because “women have it better” somehow… When did we stop remembering that we’re all humans and sensitive beings?
The blackpil community gets so much hate. I understand there are toxic parts but they figured it out, that how you look unfortunately determines a big part of your life, trajectory etc. Even when NH explained how he glowed up and suddenly got attention from women. Sadly, those kids (yes they are mostly young on the looksmax forums) have also noticed that point. That inside they are f**ed up because of how they look, because how they look affected how they are treated. The person that was chad his whole life doesn't notice these things and lives life in a blissful ignorance. His confidence coukd also properly flourish. I think focusing on both improving your looks and improving your mental health (therapy and other methods) can be a happy medium.
On the therapy question I think many men would benefit planning what they say and what exactly their problems are and ensure seeing specifically a male therapist if at all possible. Therapy won't change anyone for the better if there is zero effort (women who make "going to therapy" a part of their personality are a great example of this)
@@dusanstojsin4938 Statistically not common and most men lie about their height because most women aren't tall enough to tell the difference between 5'11 and 6'1 and go off of relative height IRL and lies on online profiles.
I'm 25 and I can intellectualize that women are their own person and everyone is different, but I still can't convince myself they won't cheat on me, after getting cheated on. It's been almost 2 years. Every time I consider asking a girl out, I think about how I would feel if I got cheated on again and I always decide it isn't worth it. Hard to get out of
My best friend is a trans girl and her story is so similar 😅😅. Everytime I hear about her adolescence I just want to hug her, the bullying and the cruel hate from peers and adults 😢😢. She also had a femcel phase where she thought she was lost and hated everyone for hating her Sending hugs
What a terrible job arguing against black pill. You were horribly abused by society because you were ugly and vulnerable, then you became strong and handsome and society bullied other weal ugly people. Great story, it is good for men to share their experience.
I was shunned and outcasted when i was ugly asf in highschool and elementary school. Losing a ton of weight and growing hair to hide huge forehead ended that for me but the bitterness i feel towards society remains. Heck some of the people who used to bully,exclude, shun me now say hi to me in public and be starting conversations with me like we was buddies. Heart goes out to every young man facing the struggle, got no sympathy for a normoid.
he only became taller and attractive to ironically not just be left alone and respected, but to be also popular with girls. Okay, man. Everyone knows and wished for that same thing to had happened to them.
It still doesn't change the fact that it is, to a larger degree than most black pilled people realize, mostly how you deal with it. This coming from a mid looking manlet here (1.66 m). I *was* fortunate to learn how to fight and to go to the gym at a relatively early age, though. Plus, some eastern philosophy, such as buddhism, helped me to develop a sense of self worth not entirely dependent on wealth and women. Eventually, I learned how developing a good personality and charismatic traits can help you win over peers and even women. Obviously not slaying, but okay. There is no doubt that being 6ft or taller and good looking makes life much easier, but that doesn't justify being so fatalistic, like many (most) black pillers are.
Bruh I don't think girls not liking you in middle school counts as an incel, most of us weren't slaying in Jr high. I get the point of the story but you chadded up pretty quick. I like that you posted this though these guys need a middle ground between confirming their blackpillery and just telling them it's all their fault
yeah I wouldn't say he understands incels and people like them as much as he thinks he does. Getting that kind of negative attention in your 20s or so is just extremely different from same thing happening while you are 12 lmao. Though the message is good.
He told it in his most recent livestream. Essentially, he got invited to "study" (fuck) a 10/10 who he thought was his soulmate. He was a virgin at the time. Before the date, he jerked off 4 times in a row and ate an entire chicken covered in olive oil. When he went to the date, he couldn't get his dick up at all, and went home. That irrepairably damaged their relationship, which could never recover.
Completely relate to what you said about it lingering after childhood. When girls asked me out later in school, I just thought it was a joke after how I was treated before. 25 now still not over how I was treated before on a subconscious and conscious level.
I'm not an incel but I get a lot of incel content recommended (almost fell in but I pulled myself out), I find it pretty interesting and real since I've had friends fall into this ideology and man it is depressing. It bums me out that people demonize incels, a lot of them are just lonely and depressed and need light in their life. Stepping away from the internet helps a lot but people are addicted.
The thing that enrages me the most are the people who share disgust for men in this kind of situation like they’re to blame. The same people who claim to be empathetic and who are always “helping the opressed”. Yet, they think it’s okay to treat young solitary men like society’s garbage, not acknowledging that they’re monsters who are created, fed, then forsaken. These men don’t have any freedom to express themselves, don’t receive any help from people who know better and are constantly attacked by being someone they didn’t choose to be. I know many men that are in this situation, already tried to get out and couldn’t. No one teached them how to deal with hatred, rejection, loneliness, yet everyone expect them to handle it masterfully otherwise they’ll be labeled an incel. It’s perfectly normal to resent bullying, rejection, mockery, but they’re labeled as monsters for doing it. And labeled someone as an monster is only gonna feed that sentiment in their heart. Incels are monsters we created and discard on the trash. Incels are human beings like everyone else, deserving of love, acceptance and belongingness. Incels are just as toxic as many other groups of people, with the difference that these other groups are not demonized and have an actual support network to help them handle their problems. These young men only got themselves, only interact with other men trapper in the same toxic mindset or with hypocrites who attack them. Everyone who had been forsaken could end up in the same situation. Everyone, within the right circumstances, could become a monster. To any guy struggling to get out of this miserable state: You are not a monster. You are not the problem. You may carry toxic feelings, thoughts, and resentment, but that will never define who you are. You may think of yourself lowly because of the shit you’ve been through, because of the shit you’ve heard from people, but you deserve to be happy as much as them. Love, belongingness, a happy relationship. There’s nothing wrong with you, and your resentment towards the world is just a consequence of the life you lived. Unfortunately, the supposed empathetic people who fight for the weak won’t give a shit about you, but yet, you mustn’t give up on yourself. You can still find the light you want so hard.
Bro, have you heard what said lonely, sad men say about both other men, and women? Literally in this comment section, I have to read bs about women, how they're all NPCs who're the same, and I've read much much much worse (incel forums, YT comment sections of black pilled dudes)... Literal femicides have happened because of the incel mentality. Literal r*pe fantasies and 'it should be mandatory for women to m*te with men/r*pe should be legal'. Such people are deeply sick and unwell, but are not deserving of much empathy. Hardship doesn't give you permission to wish pain on other human beings, and definitely doesn't give you a right to be misogynistic. I don't care how sad and depressed you are cause you're maidenless, if you think it's okay to hate on people of my gender, and can't see past your own inceldom, then I don't see a reason to empathize. I empathize with incels who suffer without wishing suffering for others. Who have all the issues you described without hating on women for no reason. But let's be real, most are exactly the way I described above.
It's cool an all that things worked out in the end for you but if you were always unattractive no one care about how you feel or what you think... you just got to deal with the resentment you feel and be a better person for yourself I guess and for me I'm grateful for being introverted and not needing the company of people
Dude! That was rough! I thought I had been bullied when I was a kid but there are levels to this shit. I was bullied a few Times by girls also but not all girls, what saved me was the girls in my college that treated me kindly. I was never Ugly or short but I was very naive and gullible and not very assertive.
So what are the solutions tho? The whole video just kept looping in circles about how its societies fault incels exist, but also society is never gonna change? So whats the solution then? Ignore society? Play by my own rules? I am incredibly frustrated and just don't even know what to do.
@@CanditoTrainingHQ The bible does technically have a thing or two about social woes, like Samson's story, but we live in the most complex socio-standards and communication within the current absolute human history. Not even a decade ago and not even now had figured out an inkling of what's happening because the researches live spoiled lives.
If you'd like my answer because i was also incredibly frustrated, i've realized my super power was not worrying about things will crash out in this world. It has become the opposite. Every net-positive in the long run is GOOD for you. Every net-negative to the world is GOOD. If you're legitimately frustrated with society, remember you are as rare as the average average normal mentally ill teenager with a normal life that goes crazy and hurt himself. Chaos that contributes positively around you happens outside of your control, it's practically a theater made for you.
When you talk about the director saying you should change, hasnt that been your point on bullying before ? If you are weak, you will be bullied, thus you have to be stronger and defend yourself ?
@NaturalHypertrophy what would be your advice for almost 30 years old "incel" who never had any women being attracted to him (as opposition to you in your "manace" post-puberty years) and who is also now starting to bald and probably gonna just look worse and worse? Lets say that excercise regime is on point, incel looks like Brad Pitt in FC so dyel in shirt, career is fine but nothing rich, still feels alienated in normie hobby groups? How would getting out of "hatespace" and even starting to hold belief that not everyone is evil would help in any real way if man still remains unattractive and alienated?
I'm no incel but I'm not sure what one would get out of this video. Instead of take a shower it is... have a second growth spurt and lift? Agree on the rest
@@ambiguoususername2966Lmao Maybe that is useful for the normies staring through the looking glass, treating incels like circus attractions. But incels are perfectly aware of the blackpill science. NH did not expose anything new here.
It was similar for me. was always bullied and made fun of. was always an easy victim. Girls have always treated me like shit. Unlike you, I never had a growth spurt. I'm 46 and still a little ugly man. And a virgin. I'm still treated like trash. That's why I don't like leaving my apartment. I've been hated my whole life. Now I hate back. And I'm proud to be a Black Piller.
Amen brother. These fakecels will never understand nor do they really care to. Just farming for views… but what else can you expect from someone with a profile pic of their abs lol
24:00 exactly - Matt Walsh was called King of Incels 🤣 father of six & member of catholic church. Why? He asked people: What is a woman... therefore he's deemed evil by "many". NH, you don't cease to amaze me. This whole vid is insanely on point. Thank you.
Bp youtubers are selling looksmaxxing courses, face reviews, dick reviews, supplements, workout programs and even scam ebooks teaching how to gain extra inches (both in height and in jawline).
Holy shit, was this all one take? Not a single stutter, mumble, or filler word, kept consistent pace and annunciated every single word clearly, not to mention that this is straight up just a good intellectual video. I be glazing but idc cos this bloke is GOATED
The thing is that no one wants to be associated with someone who is unsuccessful. I seriously struggle to even start a basic conversation, because I don't fit the minmum criteria needed to have someone's interest. This even applies to becoming friends with other males not just women like many people try to portray. If you don't have basic socialization what hopes are there of meeting a woman in the first place?
Theres no such thing as an incel before the age of 21. You were just an awkward teenager. Glad life gave you the genes to escape, but you were never an incel. Be for real.
Bro I’m gonna say at 33:35 you bring up a great point. I went through this myself. The whole alpha male programming, turning you into a complete menace. Ironically enough it took a woman who I was very close to and almost sabotage that relationship. It took her to tell me that I lacked self awareness (which also ironically is fed by these alpha male figures) it took that serious conversation to know I needed to reach out for help and start to heal.
"Incel feelings" are the same feelings about the bleakness of life. They are vindicated, yet should be avoided. Women have never vetted my morals or beliefs before sleeping with them. Women don't vet for violent behavior or psychopathy. Women place humor, wealth, status, appearance, how u treat them, as priority. We need to ask, though, does acknowledging this gain anything...?
Yes, introspection is always worth it. At least, that's how I look at it. I'd rather know why a woman finds me attractive compared to living life unaware.
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of strength to be vulnerable about your lowest moments. I've had a similar experience and it sucks. I spent often thinking why wqs I dealt such a hand by life and in the end it doesn't matter. It only matters what you decide to do today and your plan for tomorrow. The worst is what you said that no-one cares that much about your struggles. We just gotta focus on not repeating the cycle too much after we get out of it for the future men.
I am majorly depressed, especially about women and society. Hatred for society is in my opinion justified, but i just feel like women are cruel to me for no reason. So i avoid them, but because i avoid them i dont get them and the cycle perpetuates. Trying to break free....
Cruel to you for no reason? Most people who don't already know you couldn't care less about you. And not in a negative way. I mean they usually aren't going out of their way to be mean to you. Are you sure you aren't just projecting something? Or just being socially awkward in public and picking up the wrong cues?
@@nightfighter7452probably. Here's the thing, I'm autistic (hahaha funny autistic lifter man teehee) and so they probably pick up on that vibe. Autistic vibes are an ick for girls. But it is what it is and I'm trying to get better. The will isn't gone yet.
@@deece1482 Did you had any special education or therapy to cope with the autism? I know quite some people on the spectrum that ended up better off because of that.
@@deece1482 Even if they get the ick, if you dont focus yourself to much on it or even embrace it and use it as something to joke about with them, it completely changes their view on you. And when you talk to them, dont think about the outcome, or that you HAVE TO GET THEIR NUMBER or whatever. Just talk to them, like you talk to a friend and after some time, you will gain the confidence and the "feeling" to know if they also start to be in to you. Yes, it takes time, yes its not easy, yes you will fail (so do even the best of the best), but at least you open the door for the possibility to change.
It's all about the looks. You aren't ugly. If you were you will still be an incel. Real incels like me are doomed to remain alone. If you are an ugly guy never hire an escort. Escorts are women. Just like all other women they hate ugly guys by default. Never give your money to people who hate you because of your looks.
I don’t feel resentment towards anyone or anything. I just wake up everyday and struggle to look at the positives in life. I can’t help but feel like I don’t belong here and that the life i’m living isn’t worth living. Objectively my life isn’t that bad, and I’m doing pretty okay for my age. I just can’t stay above water for more than a day or 2 until I start drowning again. I constantly ask myself how long am I going to be able to do this for? I guess we’ll see
Serious shit: this might be some of the only content out there being sympathetic to the incels as a whole. Most content is very hostile towards them, which is of course going to drive away a population of already demonized people. More of this is needed, more comprehension and less demonization
I mean if you talk shit about women and how much you hate them, why would women give you sympathy? It gets to a point that women don't care. Incels suffering from loneliness isn't an excuse to be an asshole.
Stfu foid, you will never know how dreadful and hopeless is our condition. Ofc we are assholes, hating women is the only moment in our miserable lives that we feel powerful and think that we can fight back against a world that oppresses us. Plus most of you foids prefer assholes that put you on your place over boring nice guys.
I wouldn't describe myself as an incel, but I dealt with a lot of abuse and lack of support growing up. When mid-7th grade rolled around, I became suddenly popular for no discernable reason, but honestly, it annoyed the piss out of me. I had contempt for the boys who wanted to be my friends and saw women as a Machiavellian honeytrap. Nowadays though, I'm quite lonely. Even though I don't like people or trust them, I have a lot of fantasies about being in a relationship and imagine it would be rather nice to be in an intimate relationship.
Thanks for sharing this. I relate a lot but I didn’t realize the reason I turned out like I did. I was fugly in middle school then I got the good part of puberty and started lifting. I remember girls being extremely forward with me and I literally froze and acted like I couldn’t hear them. Then I studied hard and graduated hs early to get away from everyone. I became a shutin. I’ve still been lifting and trying to become beautiful but I’m still utter afraid to talk to anyone. Im about to graduate college but I skipped every class to avoid socializing. I watch anime to get a taste of girls and now my view is highly screwed. I see no way out.
It's eerie how much this describes me as well. When they got forward with me I assumed it was just a new way of teasing or bullying at the time. It sometimes seems like everything is fixable but the social aspect.
I haven't watched the video yet, but here's my cursory phrenological assessment - as a child, you looked well-composed, confident, and strong in constitution; wide shoulders, good carriage, a relaxed countenance, and overall healthy and attractive. At onset of puberty, visible disruption to facial harmony [I.E., no longer attractive countenance] appears; an unorthodox resting facial expression appears, likely a result of distress of adolescence and in response to worsened social perception. Could be that determinism has played out, just a blip of unsuccess, and now a reversion to the mean
You gave a thoughtful and detailed explanation of how incels are portrayed in society, and you raised some excellent points. As someone who was bullied for my appearance as a kid but grew into my looks, and started to get some attention from girls I completely understand where you're coming from. Unfortunately, many people will still overlook this message and continue to deny these truths.
I had the same issue in puberty: at the end of primary school all the other boys started to grow taller than me. Even the shorter ones. I was suddenly the shortest in middle school and got bullied quite hard as well. This was a shock because I was also very popular before that as well, often the center of attention in my class, very good at sports, good grades in general and also lots of girls liked me. This change lead to years of depression. I honestly never completly recovered from that. Pretty much for the same reasons you explained. Because of the bad experience I completly understand society and this decreses my interest in being social. I kind of developed some kind of God complex where I feel like I can look through people and it got worse from being correct way too often. I really try to love people again but this is quite a hard task.
When you realize all humans are just animals you lose the desire to be apart of the zoo. No such thing as a genuine real relationship, even between men.
Ooof, yeah it's probably over. Don't be too bummed about it though. Once we're all through with this life I think many will realize that possessing a romantic partner isn't as important as we were all led to believe.
@@K_092-KTK this is cope, you're biologically wired to clap cheeks & spread your genes, and also to desire affection & intimacy and close relationships
You can be buff as well yk? Just gotta put in the work like he did. Can't change your height I know but thats just the cards we were dealt. (He is 6ft btw not 6'3)
@@goran5844 acting like hes gonna turn into him just by going gym, some people have bad genetics, being short, having a small frame, and having bad muscle building genes wont make u look remotely looking like that guy...
I’m a 5’8 incel. I’ve had some experiences with women in my past but nothing to remarkable. I’m now 30 yrs old, i work at a warehouse, I’m barely getting by, and to top it off i got really drunk at my coworker’s birthday party and i came out as gay and now everyone at work thinks I’m gay but the truth is i just can’t attract women.
NH incel story: "I used to be short but then suddenly got growth spurt. I have significantly above average intelligence which makes me very eloquent and also helped me get jacked while navigating vast landscape of bs fitness advice and PEDs propaganda. There's no need to be depressed boyo. Btw my gf admitted she wouldn't date me If I was shorter but it doesn't matter bro, you're all gonna make it too" NH advice on dating shouldn't be taken seriously by anyone who doesn't get approached by 2 girls at beach and offered threesomes Edit: I hadn't watched the video at the time of typing my comment and the video turned out to be pretty good actually. I wonder If there will be a time when people can freely discuss these problems without normies being intellectually dishonest.
I don't like nihilist mindsets but NH's experience is irrelevant to a lot of incels. Being taller and more intelligent than average automatically gives you a leg up a lot of incels don't have. "You have to navigate life with the cards you're dealt with" is a tough message to communicate to a subset of the population who were dealt a very bad hand. The incels who don't have it that bad might improve themselves and break through. However, a short, bald, broke and fat guy with subpar intelligence is doomed by natural selection. It's easy to be optimistic about life when you're given decent cards to play with.
@@anonymousman4419 im sure there is a fat broke woman out there for the short, bald, broke and fat guy out there if he works on himself and doesnt give up.
@@wotanjugend974 I'm sure there is, but remember that women are hypergamous by nature and men are not very strict with regards to their preferences (i.e. women aim high while men aim to their level and lower). Your proposition sounds good in theory, but it's super rare empirically speaking. That's just like saying powerbuilding will give you 90% of your potential size and 90% of your potential strength. Sounds ideal in theory but it's not in practice
@@vexingbrat8605 With respect to "His wife wouldn't date him if he weren't tall", NH confirmed it in his video ‹Stop Manlet Hate (A Message To Short Men)› All the other points, NH did admit. You could've fact checked the OP's statement before acting like NH's lackey. You will learn a lot from his video on parasocial relationships.
Thank you for this video. I was rejected most of society and still don't fit in. I can relate to you and other incels. I still believe my life sucks and I am struggling mentally.
@ it did not. It actually was a top down revolution of the elite that came about to strip away their privileges that they had in Christened society. Check out some history. I recommend Rachel Wilson’s “Occult Feminism”. Most women actually despised the idea of it in the beginning, before the brainwashing.
Thanks for sharing bro. Great talk. Let's work towards a societal attitude that doesn't create so called incels. In other words, lift each other up. Pun intended.
Wow, hearing you tell your story makes me think like I'm almost hearing my own, although I'm younger. Thank you Chad French man. It's very good to hear from somenone who understands.
I respect you man, but looks is the only thing that makes women attracted to you. If you don't want to acknowledge this, just don't bring up topics like these.
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what a way to address the whole audience at once
wow buddy ... 😔
Too real 😞
your avatar is literally Garou, the angry outcast personified that hates everyone that is outright popular
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@@visstorm Damn he's just like me Fr fr
I used to be an incel. Still am but I used to be one too.
@@ponternal I was an incel, became not an incel and now back to incel
I ussed to be, stop being, then again now i can be incel or not whenever i want
Character development
Once a incel always a incel
@@TwistedLullabies I see you in every BP comment section.
Can’t believe we are finally hearing the story from back before the frenchman and blablino engaged in their loving relationship
Who’s this Blablino dame our jacked swole Greek statue is cheating with? I thought he was in an intense loving relationship with our boy Hemingway😢
Haven't ever seen her but NH said she has beautiful child bearing hips
What is a blablimo?
@@henryclamore4791 Its short for hippopottamus
Uninstalling League makes you 98% more Chad, noted.
And increases your chances of getting laid 400%
You shouldn’t have it installed anyways. Why are people voluntarily allowing spyware like Vanguard on their pc?
@@otterdonnelly9959 And spyware in the form of a horrible, entirely unenjoyable game on top of that
It may be pure coincidence but women started being interested me after I uninstalled League haha
@@dzejkej1337 It probably isn't. LoL is horrible for one's behaviour and posture. Every LoL player I know is an unlikable, petty gremlin
Im a Chud
Im an Incel
What the hell am I doing here
I don’t belong here
Same here buddy boyo
OOOOOOOOOOHoooooOOOOOoooooOOOOOOOOHHHHHHhhhhhh
@@CugelTheClever458 “I want a perfect Soul” 🎶
Natural Chudpertrophy
If you're a chudcel then you're exactly the kind of person this video was made for, though.
In a parallel universe, NH never started lifting and ended up writing a manifesto and going on a ramming spree in the streets of Paris.
St NHcel
Based.
In this universe, he converted to Islam and got radicalized.
@@Cynthia_Blackraven_666 he hasn't?
Only Muslims with ancestry from non-european countries do that
I burst into tears watching this. I went through exactly what you described (slight deviations). And your cat looks exactly like my childhood cat… I’m glad you’re here with us today and that you’re making an impact on people who have these feelings of self doubt.
Cat twins :)
I'm surprised I didn't cry
Definitely feel you
But I'm beginning my journey to leave this mentality because it's been getting worse
@@fictionawsome12 I was never an incel myself, but I wish you luck brother. Stay strong and keep humanity in your heart.
@TheBakedCrusader thank you
@@fictionawsome12 Stay strong brother. Also not an incel, but I appreciate those who are in this mentality and choose to better themselves.
Very empathetic video. Thanks for sharing. I've been thinking about doing a video more like "my blackpill story" since I was not a literal incel but had a similar mentality. I so want to hear more about your transformational journey since then because you have clearly done amazing work on yourself brother
"I was not a literal incel " a lot of men think this just because they get a half erect bj from a 5/10 in a club once or twice a year. No, every time you watched pron or jerked it yourself you were an incel at this point. Most men are. Women can get a booty call in 30mins every time. You are an incel.
Hello Brofessor Theo 😄👍
Yo I've just clicked on your channel and seen you've made a video about goatis, will absolutely be checking your stuff out
Collab when?
Have NH on Human Beings!
Going from incel to chad teaches you everything you need to know about human beings.
Incels and chads actually come to similar conclusions about women. It’s the bluepilled normies that are the ones who are truly lost.
Not all humans but most of them. We can be the change though.
@@dynaspinner64 lol
Lol @@dynaspinner64
@@dynaspinner64lmao
I used to be an incel. I was fat disgusting out of shape with bad skin. Now I bench 285 and can do 30 dips in a row. I’m still an incel but at least I’m strong and fit.
Ironicaly in that g,ay world yo would be the king of the hill
@ bro fr I’ve been hit on and asked out by plenty of gay dudes in my life. Probably because I’m pretty flamboyant and outgoing which may be off putting for women and attractive to gays.
Proof that gym doesn't matter
Good shit dude, I bet you’re big asf!
Props to NH for being vulnerable. This is such a rare space, I only encounter it online
Well said, the biggest risk from incels is suicide, and it's really sad, because if you raise that issue people laugh about it. It's classic victim blaming.
Its genocide. They are literally targeting men and whites to kill themselves from ab institutional and systemic level.
It’s always funny because then they complain that the men most dangerous to women are their boyfriends and husbands. Who are very obviously non-incels.
@@michaelvanderlaan5629 same thing with white suicide rates. Its what made me wonder if the end goal is genocide. That shit is like step 4 on the 6 step genoicde scale. I memorized it in middle school i was obsessive compulsive and o just learn everything i can about subjects when i get interested. System of a Down had a song about the armenian genocide thats what got me searching into it. But most people will bot even engage the implications of this conversation and just call me crazy.
@jercreason840 whats the 6th step??
@@demonlolz543both types of men are dangerous, just for different reasons lol
Involuntary hypertrophy
I wish
Voluntary inceltrophy
No gym for the race and face
Inswol
@@drawlikevenom7112 Involuntary Asperger
This is exactly how I feel. I feel like women are disgusted just by my presence. And I always get "Okay, okay, whatever now go fck yourself" vibes when talking to other guys. I feel like i'll never have friends, let alone a relationship.
Over for ugly people
you can still save yourself from that if you are not short
Are you buff are you handsome are you cool?
If you aren’t any of those you need to become one and the rest will take care of itself
@@benmoran4 ur correct but along with being that you also gotta empathize with yourself . Empathy is the core of what this video is promoting to help incels .
I can tell you - I have put blood and sweat into changing myself physically but mentally I still need to empathize with how I was treated . If I don't I'll forever stay spiteful and alone
You can always better yourself. Physically, mentally and spiritually.
As far a looks and health goes, i'd imagine you workout since you follow this channel but how's your personal hygiene? What about your grooming? Your skin? How's your diet? All these things influence your overall appearance.
Do you have a career that you're working on? Do you have professional aspirations? If so, work on them, set yourself up for success in the future. That will build character and identity.
Are you religious? If you are, i'd strongly recommend to dial in your faith, whatever that is. It helped me personally feel much more grounded and fulfilled.
'ello yootoob, girls er toller than me
i like those odds.
@NEOMASS0 huh?
That story about that weak ass "man" of a teacher calling you gay seriously pissed me off and made me sick to hear. I'm sorry that happened to you. I was that chubby kid in middle and high school too so it always makes me angry to hear things like that.
teachers can be horrid but society treats them like saints for some reason
Natural inceltrophy
If an incel created a channel called "incel hypertrophy", thats a chad move
@@newme1589 Incel Atrophy
@@newme1589sounds like a dick expansion channel
natural incelibacy
No gym for the face
Your story arc is super relatable! My one regret is not starting to lift until I was 24.
Why?
@@shukuro8621 Because I postponed feeling better about myself and increasing self-esteem. Which was a direct consequence of starting to lift.
@@DrStench13same here, it turns out I was never ugly like I thought I was, I was just fat and my skin was bad bc of the junk I used to eat, 2 years of working and a good diet changed me , I’d walk into rooms and women noticed me, life changing, I also started working out at 23
Its Pasta Chicken time
Its hamster time
@stack4229 😂 thank you ,almost forgot about the hamsters
This is too funny
@@stack4229WHICH STORY IS THAT??
Put your grasses on fellas, we eatin’ hamsters tonight #yeahhhweatthebuffetrightnow
I hear Blablino had a client drop him because he was being creepy towards a her. He’s misbehaving, Frenchman….
Its ments time...
this is recent???
Just weeks after baldhino was laughing at incels in his lives, he has become one himself. Must be writing his manifesto right now
There has been a lot of ments in the past couple weeks, the trolls visiting his home, losing michelle, snowball story (eating his own cum),,, my guess he is working on something
@@Kettvnen Very.
Yeah it’s so weird how parents and adults enable bullying by justifying it smh
Exactly, its not being ugly, its being treated like youre ugly. People wont get it till it happens to them. Its similar for women and men, although with men, there is simply less support, and actually the opposite, you get called this I word for literally jsut relaying your real life expeirences, which push you into further isolation. If people genuinely want to reach someone with any argument, the argument must be approached with compassion and patience. The person who is angry, the I word in this scenario, is angry because they feel like you dont understand something and theyre trying to make you understand it. This goes for any argument, people get mad at you because of a lack of communication. If you want to establish propper communication, you have to respond with patience, and compassion. The worst thing to do is respond back with anger, or ridicule. Arguments are a fantastic oppourtunity for growth, and healing if you approach them right.
but having a discussion about it will break the fabrics of society.
If you’re being treated as ugly then you’re ugly. Everything about you is decided by genetics and it’s all equal to your face in the end. Your “Muh personality” is just folds in your brain that decide your fate in the same way as your jawbones. Everything is your looks.
I am trying to become an Incel but its hard these women wont leave me the hell alone.
I needed this as your typical gymcel, thanks NH now imma skip my goon sesh to watch this
>not gooning to this vid
You will never make it
@FearTheBoomer but it is no nut november 😔
@@gogoida1280 sorry bro it's over
Eliott Roger is somewhat different from other incels, while the average incel has low self-esteem Eliott had very high self-esteem (I might call him a narcissist). Eliott's hatred for women seemes to have come more from entitlement than being pushed away by those he encountered (source: his videos)
I think the definition of incel these days has shifted to include that type of character whose hatred of women is due to their entitlement fueled by misogyny. Of course there’s overlap between the two but it’s much harder to help the above types.
you can read his journal, he was heavily ridiculed his entire life until the end of college.
He was acoustic af what you excepted
Inceldom stems from deep self hatred that turns into raging misogyny, Elliott is exactly that - poor self esteemed turned inflated because of what I described above. Narcissists tend to lack self esteem a lot tbh.
My brother Elliot, if he was alive today he would be getting tons of pussy for being famous and a dangerous ex-con.
25 yo dude here. I also had a shitty childhood and became an incel in my teenage years. Today you would not think of me that way, if you saw me, but I still feel like there is a stench that is following me. The need of getting approval of women also never really disappeared and is kinda sabotaging me to this day.
However, I think I keep doing better from day to day. Guys, if you can relate:
It is not your fault that you feel this way. But deep down we all know we should not have these thoughts of hate for us and women, and it is not what we want to be. It is a winnable battle to get better. Just be prepared that it takes some time
I struggle also with needing the approval of woman (didn't have my mom growing up). What strategies have you tried to cope with this?
@@anonemoose102 Sorry to hear that man. The fact that you know you struggle with the approval of women, means you already are on a good way. What helped me, was getting to know a lot of women in a non-romantic way. When you see they are just humans, the feeling definitley fades a bit
@@fr3shg4nd4lf3 will do
I am 17 and would feel like I’d never be happy unless women liked me
just reach your prime in your 40 bro
This makes me understand this topic on a whole new level it really is deeper than just incels being mad because they can't have intercourse.
It’s being angry at their entire existence being filled with shame, sadness, and defeat
Holy hell brother, the timing of this is needed. I've been dealing with self reflection and realized that I've been dealing with life through the eyes of resentment. Definitely not the ideas of an incel. But I'd eventually start to hate on so much because of the lack of reciprocation I was receiving, after living a youth filled with love. Hell I even had a beautiful girl move to NY from Michigan when I was in High school just for me. She had family and everything over there. After I lost her...everything started to fall...I realized that I didn't understand things that I thought I did. I had "friends" whod use me for the families benefits. None of these friends cared to stick around high school was over, and even after colleges. I could continue to elaborate. But damn, being sensitive and filled with passion as a kid did not help the transition into being an adult. Around age 23-24 I really started to attack psychology and such, it helped me realize that I was the problem in the past, not the world. I needed to revisit this stuff. Your page always helped me with this types of things, definitely helps with the gym info. Stay up! Stay positive!
@@anthonymyers4516 lol
When did we stop remembering that we’re all humans and sensitive beings? Some women go through similar experiences and may become an incel’s victim, trying to have a relationship with their wounds, but no sympathy because “women have it better” somehow… When did we stop remembering that we’re all humans and sensitive beings?
Jason Blaha’s superior blablino build is completely incellular and thus doesn’t need women
Porc mode
coath hemingway
If you are this early, it is over.
oh no
Owarida
Good things it's been 26 minutes
It never began
It never began buddy boyo
Bloho is watching this
The blackpil community gets so much hate. I understand there are toxic parts but they figured it out, that how you look unfortunately determines a big part of your life, trajectory etc. Even when NH explained how he glowed up and suddenly got attention from women. Sadly, those kids (yes they are mostly young on the looksmax forums) have also noticed that point. That inside they are f**ed up because of how they look, because how they look affected how they are treated. The person that was chad his whole life doesn't notice these things and lives life in a blissful ignorance. His confidence coukd also properly flourish. I think focusing on both improving your looks and improving your mental health (therapy and other methods) can be a happy medium.
On the therapy question I think many men would benefit planning what they say and what exactly their problems are and ensure seeing specifically a male therapist if at all possible. Therapy won't change anyone for the better if there is zero effort (women who make "going to therapy" a part of their personality are a great example of this)
Just get a job bro
@@ThatGuy-ky2yfIt’s useless if you know all of your problems
They didn't figure out shit, they realized ONE aspect of modernity and are harping on that without concern for the other problems.
“Sorry incels, just be 6 foot”
That's not enough. You need to be at least 6'4 nowadays.
@@dusanstojsin4938 Brootal
@@dusanstojsin4938 Statistically not common and most men lie about their height because most women aren't tall enough to tell the difference between 5'11 and 6'1 and go off of relative height IRL and lies on online profiles.
@@dusanstojsin4938 God damn inflation is rough
@@dusanstojsin4938at least 6’4???? I’m 6’5 I’m considered slightly above average now!!?? 😂
I'm 25 and I can intellectualize that women are their own person and everyone is different, but I still can't convince myself they won't cheat on me, after getting cheated on. It's been almost 2 years. Every time I consider asking a girl out, I think about how I would feel if I got cheated on again and I always decide it isn't worth it. Hard to get out of
Be brave
Stay strong
Once bitten, twice shy
You have a right to be angry about it.
@@cultofhercules Angry doesn't even describe it.
My best friend is a trans girl and her story is so similar 😅😅.
Everytime I hear about her adolescence I just want to hug her, the bullying and the cruel hate from peers and adults 😢😢.
She also had a femcel phase where she thought she was lost and hated everyone for hating her
Sending hugs
What a terrible job arguing against black pill. You were horribly abused by society because you were ugly and vulnerable, then you became strong and handsome and society bullied other weal ugly people.
Great story, it is good for men to share their experience.
So he should say a bunch of feel good bullshit about changing the world that's unrealistic? lol
I was shunned and outcasted when i was ugly asf in highschool and elementary school. Losing a ton of weight and growing hair to hide huge forehead ended that for me but the bitterness i feel towards society remains. Heck some of the people who used to bully,exclude, shun me now say hi to me in public and be starting conversations with me like we was buddies. Heart goes out to every young man facing the struggle, got no sympathy for a normoid.
Yeah I also found it funny that he thought that this wouldn't be blackpilling as hell
he only became taller and attractive to ironically not just be left alone and respected, but to be also popular with girls. Okay, man. Everyone knows and wished for that same thing to had happened to them.
It still doesn't change the fact that it is, to a larger degree than most black pilled people realize, mostly how you deal with it. This coming from a mid looking manlet here (1.66 m).
I *was* fortunate to learn how to fight and to go to the gym at a relatively early age, though. Plus, some eastern philosophy, such as buddhism, helped me to develop a sense of self worth not entirely dependent on wealth and women.
Eventually, I learned how developing a good personality and charismatic traits can help you win over peers and even women. Obviously not slaying, but okay.
There is no doubt that being 6ft or taller and good looking makes life much easier, but that doesn't justify being so fatalistic, like many (most) black pillers are.
Bruh I don't think girls not liking you in middle school counts as an incel, most of us weren't slaying in Jr high. I get the point of the story but you chadded up pretty quick. I like that you posted this though these guys need a middle ground between confirming their blackpillery and just telling them it's all their fault
yeah I wouldn't say he understands incels and people like them as much as he thinks he does. Getting that kind of negative attention in your 20s or so is just extremely different from same thing happening while you are 12 lmao. Though the message is good.
@@umutozer9667Doğru diyon umut abi
@@umutozer9667 he is retarded, only post 16 counts 🤦♂️
@@umutozer9667Would you say it’s worse?
Just have a height spurt theory
0:24 Don't worry NH, we already lost our respect for you after the Chicken story...
What story?
I still can't believe he did this to the chicken
@@juliosouza576 those who know 💀
what in the pasta time is the chicken story?
He told it in his most recent livestream.
Essentially, he got invited to "study" (fuck) a 10/10 who he thought was his soulmate.
He was a virgin at the time.
Before the date, he jerked off 4 times in a row and ate an entire chicken covered in olive oil.
When he went to the date, he couldn't get his dick up at all, and went home. That irrepairably damaged their relationship, which could never recover.
Completely relate to what you said about it lingering after childhood. When girls asked me out later in school, I just thought it was a joke after how I was treated before. 25 now still not over how I was treated before on a subconscious and conscious level.
Thank you for your vulnerability. I have a very similar experience and it feels better to hear someone describe these feelings.
your dad takes you out camping to drop the most in depth dad lore.
I'm not an incel but I get a lot of incel content recommended (almost fell in but I pulled myself out), I find it pretty interesting and real since I've had friends fall into this ideology and man it is depressing. It bums me out that people demonize incels, a lot of them are just lonely and depressed and need light in their life. Stepping away from the internet helps a lot but people are addicted.
Natural Misanthropy
The thing that enrages me the most are the people who share disgust for men in this kind of situation like they’re to blame. The same people who claim to be empathetic and who are always “helping the opressed”. Yet, they think it’s okay to treat young solitary men like society’s garbage, not acknowledging that they’re monsters who are created, fed, then forsaken. These men don’t have any freedom to express themselves, don’t receive any help from people who know better and are constantly attacked by being someone they didn’t choose to be. I know many men that are in this situation, already tried to get out and couldn’t. No one teached them how to deal with hatred, rejection, loneliness, yet everyone expect them to handle it masterfully otherwise they’ll be labeled an incel. It’s perfectly normal to resent bullying, rejection, mockery, but they’re labeled as monsters for doing it. And labeled someone as an monster is only gonna feed that sentiment in their heart. Incels are monsters we created and discard on the trash. Incels are human beings like everyone else, deserving of love, acceptance and belongingness. Incels are just as toxic as many other groups of people, with the difference that these other groups are not demonized and have an actual support network to help them handle their problems. These young men only got themselves, only interact with other men trapper in the same toxic mindset or with hypocrites who attack them. Everyone who had been forsaken could end up in the same situation. Everyone, within the right circumstances, could become a monster. To any guy struggling to get out of this miserable state: You are not a monster. You are not the problem. You may carry toxic feelings, thoughts, and resentment, but that will never define who you are. You may think of yourself lowly because of the shit you’ve been through, because of the shit you’ve heard from people, but you deserve to be happy as much as them. Love, belongingness, a happy relationship. There’s nothing wrong with you, and your resentment towards the world is just a consequence of the life you lived. Unfortunately, the supposed empathetic people who fight for the weak won’t give a shit about you, but yet, you mustn’t give up on yourself. You can still find the light you want so hard.
Never get up keep grinding keep hustling.
If you hate it so much why are you in this community?, literally all these guys do is pull each other down 24/7.
Bro, have you heard what said lonely, sad men say about both other men, and women? Literally in this comment section, I have to read bs about women, how they're all NPCs who're the same, and I've read much much much worse (incel forums, YT comment sections of black pilled dudes)... Literal femicides have happened because of the incel mentality. Literal r*pe fantasies and 'it should be mandatory for women to m*te with men/r*pe should be legal'.
Such people are deeply sick and unwell, but are not deserving of much empathy. Hardship doesn't give you permission to wish pain on other human beings, and definitely doesn't give you a right to be misogynistic. I don't care how sad and depressed you are cause you're maidenless, if you think it's okay to hate on people of my gender, and can't see past your own inceldom, then I don't see a reason to empathize.
I empathize with incels who suffer without wishing suffering for others. Who have all the issues you described without hating on women for no reason. But let's be real, most are exactly the way I described above.
If you want to blame someone blame your parents for giving you shitty genes.
I'm not going to feel any shred of sympathy for people who believe I should be shackled in a barn and treated like cattle. No thanks! Cry
It's cool an all that things worked out in the end for you but if you were always unattractive no one care about how you feel or what you think... you just got to deal with the resentment you feel and be a better person for yourself I guess and for me I'm grateful for being introverted and not needing the company of people
Being an introvert is so cool once you learn to accept who you are and start loving yourself.
@@cachorrobanhista being an introvert is a dysgenic personality trait human were not meant to be alone
@@AlmostlessThanHuman yeah i know, but sometimes i enjoy my own company
@@AlmostlessThanHuman how can it be dysgenic when introversion is not linked with intelligence or cognitive abilities?
@@Henock95 Maybe in the way it decreases chances for reproduction through decreased social interaction?
I’m less than halfway theough and this has already been an eye opening video into inceldom
Dude! That was rough! I thought I had been bullied when I was a kid but there are levels to this shit. I was bullied a few Times by girls also but not all girls, what saved me was the girls in my college that treated me kindly. I was never Ugly or short but I was very naive and gullible and not very assertive.
So what are the solutions tho? The whole video just kept looping in circles about how its societies fault incels exist, but also society is never gonna change? So whats the solution then? Ignore society? Play by my own rules? I am incredibly frustrated and just don't even know what to do.
The Bible has all the answers. Especially Proverbs.
@@CanditoTrainingHQ The bible does technically have a thing or two about social woes, like Samson's story, but we live in the most complex socio-standards and communication within the current absolute human history. Not even a decade ago and not even now had figured out an inkling of what's happening because the researches live spoiled lives.
If you'd like my answer because i was also incredibly frustrated, i've realized my super power was not worrying about things will crash out in this world. It has become the opposite. Every net-positive in the long run is GOOD for you. Every net-negative to the world is GOOD. If you're legitimately frustrated with society, remember you are as rare as the average average normal mentally ill teenager with a normal life that goes crazy and hurt himself. Chaos that contributes positively around you happens outside of your control, it's practically a theater made for you.
@@CanditoTrainingHQ "destroy your enemies"
K
Ignore women
any venting from a man about dating will lead to someone calling you the inkwell buzzword
When you talk about the director saying you should change, hasnt that been your point on bullying before ? If you are weak, you will be bullied, thus you have to be stronger and defend yourself ?
Correct; doesn't make the guy any less of a jerk though
@@NaturalHypertrophy Absolutely, wanted to clear that out, thank you !
Good question! This also popped in my head when he said that.
I see it as how you can still hate the devil for showing you the evil of the world, even if it contributes to a strong self
@NaturalHypertrophy what would be your advice for almost 30 years old "incel" who never had any women being attracted to him (as opposition to you in your "manace" post-puberty years) and who is also now starting to bald and probably gonna just look worse and worse? Lets say that excercise regime is on point, incel looks like Brad Pitt in FC so dyel in shirt, career is fine but nothing rich, still feels alienated in normie hobby groups? How would getting out of "hatespace" and even starting to hold belief that not everyone is evil would help in any real way if man still remains unattractive and alienated?
Involuntal Celitrophy
I'm no incel but I'm not sure what one would get out of this video. Instead of take a shower it is... have a second growth spurt and lift? Agree on the rest
One would get an understanding of the incel phenomenon
@@ambiguoususername2966Lmao
Maybe that is useful for the normies staring through the looking glass, treating incels like circus attractions.
But incels are perfectly aware of the blackpill science. NH did not expose anything new here.
he doesnt propose a solution he just explains why incels are the way they are and how they might be thinking
@@umutozer9667 well he gives some, which are a good start: stop watching black pilling channels, stop hating on women, etc
@@msl6384 That's a good start, but it wouldn't change sh*t. We're too superficial as a species to judge people critically.
It was similar for me. was always bullied and made fun of. was always an easy victim. Girls have always treated me like shit. Unlike you, I never had a growth spurt. I'm 46 and still a little ugly man. And a virgin. I'm still treated like trash. That's why I don't like leaving my apartment. I've been hated my whole life. Now I hate back. And I'm proud to be a Black Piller.
Amen brother. These fakecels will never understand nor do they really care to. Just farming for views… but what else can you expect from someone with a profile pic of their abs lol
Interesting you say that because you look like a normie and also a Gen Xer. But you said you are short so maybe that's it.
@@amichair for sure.
24:00 exactly - Matt Walsh was called King of Incels 🤣 father of six & member of catholic church.
Why? He asked people: What is a woman... therefore he's deemed evil by "many".
NH, you don't cease to amaze me. This whole vid is insanely on point. Thank you.
I doubt bp youtubers are making money from bp content. It's usually red pool youtubers who try to sell inkwells courses.
as a bp youtuber true 😂
@@guhhhh I can’t think of one who sells a dumb course, nor could I think of one that scams their audience
Bp youtubers are selling looksmaxxing courses, face reviews, dick reviews, supplements, workout programs and even scam ebooks teaching how to gain extra inches (both in height and in jawline).
@@cu11en76literally every single “redpill” RUclipsr is a grifter.
@@renegade2325 They are, but not black
It's Chicken Karate Pasta time
"hoyyyaaaa do you wanna fight?" 🐱👤
Please explain this meme to me
@@TheCecchino98 check his latest livestream, my timestamped comment
Holy shit, was this all one take? Not a single stutter, mumble, or filler word, kept consistent pace and annunciated every single word clearly, not to mention that this is straight up just a good intellectual video. I be glazing but idc cos this bloke is GOATED
he clearly cuts the video for fucks sake
You really can’t pick up on the many cuts?
@@azovandy14.88 ngl i might be retarded cos i couldnt lol
The thing is that no one wants to be associated with someone who is unsuccessful. I seriously struggle to even start a basic conversation, because I don't fit the minmum criteria needed to have someone's interest. This even applies to becoming friends with other males not just women like many people try to portray. If you don't have basic socialization what hopes are there of meeting a woman in the first place?
Theres no such thing as an incel before the age of 21.
You were just an awkward teenager. Glad life gave you the genes to escape, but you were never an incel. Be for real.
I am one by definition but I don’t identify as incel because I don’t want to stay in this rabbit hole later on in my life
Not calling yourself an incel (even if you are one) is the first step to escaping this dread, and avoiding those forums
He could’ve even ascended when he was a kid, when he was ‘cute’ JFL
Bro I’m gonna say at 33:35 you bring up a great point. I went through this myself. The whole alpha male programming, turning you into a complete menace. Ironically enough it took a woman who I was very close to and almost sabotage that relationship. It took her to tell me that I lacked self awareness (which also ironically is fed by these alpha male figures) it took that serious conversation to know I needed to reach out for help and start to heal.
"Incel feelings" are the same feelings about the bleakness of life. They are vindicated, yet should be avoided. Women have never vetted my morals or beliefs before sleeping with them. Women don't vet for violent behavior or psychopathy. Women place humor, wealth, status, appearance, how u treat them, as priority.
We need to ask, though, does acknowledging this gain anything...?
Yes, introspection is always worth it. At least, that's how I look at it. I'd rather know why a woman finds me attractive compared to living life unaware.
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of strength to be vulnerable about your lowest moments. I've had a similar experience and it sucks. I spent often thinking why wqs I dealt such a hand by life and in the end it doesn't matter. It only matters what you decide to do today and your plan for tomorrow. The worst is what you said that no-one cares that much about your struggles. We just gotta focus on not repeating the cycle too much after we get out of it for the future men.
I am majorly depressed, especially about women and society. Hatred for society is in my opinion justified, but i just feel like women are cruel to me for no reason. So i avoid them, but because i avoid them i dont get them and the cycle perpetuates.
Trying to break free....
Cruel to you for no reason? Most people who don't already know you couldn't care less about you. And not in a negative way. I mean they usually aren't going out of their way to be mean to you. Are you sure you aren't just projecting something? Or just being socially awkward in public and picking up the wrong cues?
@@nightfighter7452probably. Here's the thing, I'm autistic (hahaha funny autistic lifter man teehee) and so they probably pick up on that vibe. Autistic vibes are an ick for girls. But it is what it is and I'm trying to get better. The will isn't gone yet.
@@deece1482 Did you had any special education or therapy to cope with the autism? I know quite some people on the spectrum that ended up better off because of that.
@@VVabsaI did for a while as a kid but the schools funding and whatnot kinda failed, so eventually I was just left to deal with it alone.
@@deece1482 Even if they get the ick, if you dont focus yourself to much on it or even embrace it and use it as something to joke about with them, it completely changes their view on you.
And when you talk to them, dont think about the outcome, or that you HAVE TO GET THEIR NUMBER or whatever. Just talk to them, like you talk to a friend and after some time, you will gain the confidence and the "feeling" to know if they also start to be in to you.
Yes, it takes time, yes its not easy, yes you will fail (so do even the best of the best), but at least you open the door for the possibility to change.
Came for attendance
It's all about the looks. You aren't ugly. If you were you will still be an incel. Real incels like me are doomed to remain alone. If you are an ugly guy never hire an escort. Escorts are women. Just like all other women they hate ugly guys by default. Never give your money to people who hate you because of your looks.
Don’t care if she hates you, she will get the money and open her legs anyway, that’s what matters.
Don’t care if she hates you, she will get the money and open her legs anyway, that’s what matters.
Don’t care if she hates you, she will get the money and open her legs anyway, that’s what matters.
Don’t care if she hates you, she will get the money and open her legs anyway, that’s what matters.
Don’t care if she hates you, she will get the money and open her legs anyway, that’s what matters.
I don’t feel resentment towards anyone or anything. I just wake up everyday and struggle to look at the positives in life. I can’t help but feel like I don’t belong here and that the life i’m living isn’t worth living. Objectively my life isn’t that bad, and I’m doing pretty okay for my age. I just can’t stay above water for more than a day or 2 until I start drowning again. I constantly ask myself how long am I going to be able to do this for? I guess we’ll see
I'm sorry
"¡es mi cumpleaños!" 😂 I always thought you were 100% french. Where's the spanish side from?
Genetically speaking, I'm not French at all; all my ancestors are immigrants, the majority of which came from Spain
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Thanks for this video and opening to us, It give me a bit of hope
Serious shit: this might be some of the only content out there being sympathetic to the incels as a whole. Most content is very hostile towards them, which is of course going to drive away a population of already demonized people. More of this is needed, more comprehension and less demonization
There is/was some, but it has mostly been scrubbed off youtube. Pretty much all takes on the subject are dogshit.
I mean if you talk shit about women and how much you hate them, why would women give you sympathy? It gets to a point that women don't care.
Incels suffering from loneliness isn't an excuse to be an asshole.
@@youcef4593 I know, but most of us aren’t like that, we’re more sad then angry
Incels should form milicias and begin a revolution for sexual equality or lobby for state mandated gfs and state mandated prosties.
Stfu foid, you will never know how dreadful and hopeless is our condition. Ofc we are assholes, hating women is the only moment in our miserable lives that we feel powerful and think that we can fight back against a world that oppresses us. Plus most of you foids prefer assholes that put you on your place over boring nice guys.
I wouldn't describe myself as an incel, but I dealt with a lot of abuse and lack of support growing up. When mid-7th grade rolled around, I became suddenly popular for no discernable reason, but honestly, it annoyed the piss out of me. I had contempt for the boys who wanted to be my friends and saw women as a Machiavellian honeytrap.
Nowadays though, I'm quite lonely. Even though I don't like people or trust them, I have a lot of fantasies about being in a relationship and imagine it would be rather nice to be in an intimate relationship.
I like hearing these stories about reformed incels. It’s fascinating to learn what causes a person to get so angry.
Thanks for sharing this. I relate a lot but I didn’t realize the reason I turned out like I did. I was fugly in middle school then I got the good part of puberty and started lifting. I remember girls being extremely forward with me and I literally froze and acted like I couldn’t hear them. Then I studied hard and graduated hs early to get away from everyone. I became a shutin. I’ve still been lifting and trying to become beautiful but I’m still utter afraid to talk to anyone. Im about to graduate college but I skipped every class to avoid socializing. I watch anime to get a taste of girls and now my view is highly screwed. I see no way out.
It's eerie how much this describes me as well. When they got forward with me I assumed it was just a new way of teasing or bullying at the time. It sometimes seems like everything is fixable but the social aspect.
I wonder how many times a certain Laotian basket weaving forum will be mentioned
I haven't watched the video yet, but here's my cursory phrenological assessment - as a child, you looked well-composed, confident, and strong in constitution; wide shoulders, good carriage, a relaxed countenance, and overall healthy and attractive. At onset of puberty, visible disruption to facial harmony [I.E., no longer attractive countenance] appears; an unorthodox resting facial expression appears, likely a result of distress of adolescence and in response to worsened social perception.
Could be that determinism has played out, just a blip of unsuccess, and now a reversion to the mean
You should watch. The man provides a very compelling psychological analysis
@@nickb8755 not really
@@prizma45. Really. It’s a very good and insightful video, son.
@@nickb8755 none of his solutions will solve anything
You gave a thoughtful and detailed explanation of how incels are portrayed in society, and you raised some excellent points. As someone who was bullied for my appearance as a kid but grew into my looks, and started to get some attention from girls I completely understand where you're coming from. Unfortunately, many people will still overlook this message and continue to deny these truths.
Sorry, I can't listen today, it's pasta time.
I had the same issue in puberty: at the end of primary school all the other boys started to grow taller than me. Even the shorter ones. I was suddenly the shortest in middle school and got bullied quite hard as well. This was a shock because I was also very popular before that as well, often the center of attention in my class, very good at sports, good grades in general and also lots of girls liked me.
This change lead to years of depression. I honestly never completly recovered from that. Pretty much for the same reasons you explained. Because of the bad experience I completly understand society and this decreses my interest in being social. I kind of developed some kind of God complex where I feel like I can look through people and it got worse from being correct way too often. I really try to love people again but this is quite a hard task.
same here, if you dont get lucky along the way its over.
The same thing happened to me, then I rapidly grew taller and larger into a man who can make people back down with a look.
When you realize all humans are just animals you lose the desire to be apart of the zoo. No such thing as a genuine real relationship, even between men.
ngga im 5'5, mentally ill & autistic, and indian
its pretty much over
Arrangedmarriagemaxx, it's the only way
Ooof, yeah it's probably over. Don't be too bummed about it though. Once we're all through with this life I think many will realize that possessing a romantic partner isn't as important as we were all led to believe.
@@K_092-KTK this is cope, you're biologically wired to clap cheeks & spread your genes, and also to desire affection & intimacy and close relationships
And racist as well
Stop obsessing over white women and marry a brown woman
Thanks for sharing. I trust it was not easy for you to talk openly about those challenging moments in your life. Respect.
That title alone made me morbidly curious. 😂
More people need to see this video! Thanks for sharing!
A 6’3 buff dude with a wife telling me not to be a incel, lmao
These people wouldn't understand the situation if it fell on their fucking head...
How tall r u im 5’6
You can be buff as well yk? Just gotta put in the work like he did. Can't change your height I know but thats just the cards we were dealt. (He is 6ft btw not 6'3)
@@goran5844 acting like hes gonna turn into him just by going gym, some people have bad genetics, being short, having a small frame, and having bad muscle building genes wont make u look remotely looking like that guy...
@@goran5844 oh yeah bro I’ll put in the work to become a 6 foot French man
I’m a 5’8 incel. I’ve had some experiences with women in my past but nothing to remarkable. I’m now 30 yrs old, i work at a warehouse, I’m barely getting by, and to top it off i got really drunk at my coworker’s birthday party and i came out as gay and now everyone at work thinks I’m gay but the truth is i just can’t attract women.
Lmao brutal why would you come out as gay tho???
@@canwait555 idk i guess to make a joke out of my loneliness but it’s spiraled out of control and now i can’t downplay it.
Hello natural lycantrophy, please make a plan for us commoners on how to become a werewolf naturally (before the next full moon rises please).
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phenomenol video, cant wait to see more content like this♥
NH incel story: "I used to be short but then suddenly got growth spurt. I have significantly above average intelligence which makes me very eloquent and also helped me get jacked while navigating vast landscape of bs fitness advice and PEDs propaganda. There's no need to be depressed boyo.
Btw my gf admitted she wouldn't date me If I was shorter but it doesn't matter bro, you're all gonna make it too"
NH advice on dating shouldn't be taken seriously by anyone who doesn't get approached by 2 girls at beach and offered threesomes
Edit: I hadn't watched the video at the time of typing my comment and the video turned out to be pretty good actually. I wonder If there will be a time when people can freely discuss these problems without normies being intellectually dishonest.
I don't like nihilist mindsets but NH's experience is irrelevant to a lot of incels. Being taller and more intelligent than average automatically gives you a leg up a lot of incels don't have.
"You have to navigate life with the cards you're dealt with" is a tough message to communicate to a subset of the population who were dealt a very bad hand.
The incels who don't have it that bad might improve themselves and break through. However, a short, bald, broke and fat guy with subpar intelligence is doomed by natural selection.
It's easy to be optimistic about life when you're given decent cards to play with.
@@anonymousman4419 im sure there is a fat broke woman out there for the short, bald, broke and fat guy out there if he works on himself and doesnt give up.
@@wotanjugend974 I'm sure there is, but remember that women are hypergamous by nature and men are not very strict with regards to their preferences (i.e. women aim high while men aim to their level and lower). Your proposition sounds good in theory, but it's super rare empirically speaking.
That's just like saying powerbuilding will give you 90% of your potential size and 90% of your potential strength. Sounds ideal in theory but it's not in practice
the source is you made the all this shit up
@@vexingbrat8605 With respect to "His wife wouldn't date him if he weren't tall", NH confirmed it in his video ‹Stop Manlet Hate (A Message To Short Men)›
All the other points, NH did admit.
You could've fact checked the OP's statement before acting like NH's lackey. You will learn a lot from his video on parasocial relationships.
Truly eye opening video. You have described what I have been feeling for years
I feel conversations like this do more to fix the incel problem than people imagine.
@@leonkennedy9739 no
This is the equivalent of patting yourself on the back because you finally noticed the homeless fella sleeping outside on your street 😂
@@DouglasWalters-b1r ...that's a brutal way of putting it
Thank you for this video. I was rejected most of society and still don't fit in. I can relate to you and other incels. I still believe my life sucks and I am struggling mentally.
Crazy thing about women and feminism is that they don’t recognise incels are also victims of the patriarchy.
they only care about whats convenient to them
Feminism came about to give women their rights. I don't think "men who can't get pussy" qualify for that.
@ it did not. It actually was a top down revolution of the elite that came about to strip away their privileges that they had in Christened society. Check out some history. I recommend Rachel Wilson’s “Occult Feminism”. Most women actually despised the idea of it in the beginning, before the brainwashing.
Thanks for sharing bro. Great talk. Let's work towards a societal attitude that doesn't create so called incels. In other words, lift each other up. Pun intended.
Perfect for the drive to work
Wow, hearing you tell your story makes me think like I'm almost hearing my own, although I'm younger. Thank you Chad French man. It's very good to hear from somenone who understands.
I respect you man, but looks is the only thing that makes women attracted to you. If you don't want to acknowledge this, just don't bring up topics like these.
How deep does this rabbit hole go?
I can relate to your story a little bit, but things got better for me later on. And right now, I'm still grinding to get out of my low point.
Another NH Classic.
Im in a long term relationship, so im naturally an incel!
Anyone who tells you differently is either lying or cheating.