Women want someone much better than they are, taller, smarter, wealthier etc and then they wonder why the guy left them and come up with their convoluted reasoning that it’s anything else but not that they are not good enough .
I think it’s often the other way around . Men see themselves as better than Who they are . Men look in the mirror and see themselves as Younger , hotter They often meet or get involved with attractive , smart , good Women But she’s not their dream girl who is probably out of their reach
@@OlderWomenRock There are good and bad men, there are good and bad women - choose wisely but dont blame others for your bad choice. Women choose a man by how he presents himself - its called percieved value. It means bad manipulative men can study that and use it to get them to sleep with them. On the other hand if men dont put an effort to truly understand how women think and are wired, theres almost no chance of ever attracting a woman especially if you are an intoverted man. Most woman are drawn to extrovert masculine men, that have a goal in their live that they chase and that is more important to them than any woman. Women are atracted to that and want to be the chaser of such a guy. Men with low self esteem and no goals become toxic and manipulative and its damaging women - These damaged women than hurt good guys because they think they are all the same. Everyone male and female need to balance their masculine and femine energy inside of themself. If either one energy is too strong or too weak there is no healthy polarity - which is the main reason for attraction. This is just the tip of the iceberg but we need to see relationships as an opportunity to give something and not to get something and theres a huge crisis going on as everyone is dysregulated. Especially in western society. Also Men and women love differently. A man that truly loves a woman will love her as if it were his own daughter - he will sacrifice himself for her. The only woman who truly loves a man is his own mother. Any other woman in his life will only love him for how he can make her feel and how high his perceived value is in her eyes. A man has to perform he cant just exist and be loved for "who he is" he has to build himself into a strong and good man and that is what attracts a feminine and nurturing woman. This is nature at work - this is how nature is rewarding men who build themself and society up. And woman are wired to support men like this in what they are doing. This is also why men and women are fundamentlly different by nature and its good like that if only society and the world would see it for its truth but thats not the case which is why men give up and dont care anymore if they re not being valued for their providing msculinity. The Female hypergamy is the feeling in every woman programmed by nature that has to be satisfied to stay with a man. Its the feeling that she got the best man she could find with her assets to secure a potential strong and durable offspring. And for thousands of years this function secures the survial of the fittest and our race. Men who go for what they want, who have their own opinion and stand for it. Men who have actual value and willing to provide their value to make the world a better place for everyone and not just for themselfes. In todays society the typical masculine men is constantly beign critized - we are not allowed to be actual men anymore in this hyper feminized western world. The problem is many females dont understand this about themselfs. Its also the reason why woman are able to love men who treat them badly - it satiesfies their hypergamy and shows a form of strength. Being nice to everyone is easy but treating someone bad and not being afraid of the consequences because he doesnt care is a form of strength that attracts females. And it goes against every logic. I ll quietly sit back and watch if the world will finally realize what the truth behind females, males and the purpose of their relationships is. Women are driven by their emotions and theres not much that they can do about it because its nature. But many refuse to look inside and take accountability its their kryptonite. Woman only look for their own survival. Men look for the survival of everyone. I know this sounds very generalized and ofc there are exceprtions and differences in men and woman. Men and women can compliment eacht other with their unique skills and thrive together - supporting each other. Men build / generate / more doing less talking, women nurture / give emotional support / more talking and feeling and they both need each other to reach their full potential in life. A man needs to be able to contain a woman and give her a safe space to relax into her femine energy because she knows she can depend on you even if she doesent need it. This takes a lot of effort and energy and most woman just dont see that a man has to work a lot on himself to become such a man. Woman need a man that is confident in himself or they wont feel a thing for him and this cant be faked and more and more men are understanding this. Thats why woman are social and emotional experts in spotting men who are trying to fake this and once spotted it kills all atraction.
Feel all of those statements he made about my wife of 15 years. Wife and husband are separate roles. Traditional is best. I regularly sleep in a separate room, because my wife’s ego or advise from friends/family lead her to be too bossy. No one can serve their partner and the rest of the world at the same time.
Amen! We have been married for 27 years. I also learned not to take advice from (any) family members or friends. They tend to imprint their experiences on your situation. The same goes if you see a therapist; many of them tells you what they think you want to hear. A good therapist will support your marriage and challenge you when you just disparage your spouse.
@@JoeL91939 I tend to think that confrontation is the best. I found that withdrawing is often the same as sweeping things under the rug. The same things will resurface in your next argument, which will either lead to fight or flight (withdrawal). My experience is that you need to take a break and come back in an hour or two later to really confront the situation WITH your spouse.
I loved a women so much I let her go so she could be happy. Hurt like hell even today But I take comfort in knowing she gots a family now . And I wish her well
Love can be very complicated. I walked away from a lady that I loved more than life itself because the timing just wasn’t right. Ladies, If a man walks away it doesn’t always mean that you did anything wrong or that he didn’t really love you either.
Thanks for the encouraging response! Sorry you had to leave the relationship, hope you were able to find a good relationship. Agreed, love can sometimes feel complicated ❤
Every time you have sex with another person, you become bonded with them in both and emotional and spiritual way. My advice is to keep sex for marriage, as God intended. I only ever had sex with my wife and I'm her 3rd sexual partner ever. We have been married 27 years. Although we both made many mistakes, we have been faithful to each other. In a marriage, it is NOT about YOUR needs. It is about the needs of your spouse. When both of you do this, you can have a successful marriage. I have seen this in all people that are married and loving over a long period of time. Personally I think that people that leaving a long term partner in serial monogamy is the same as divorce. Every time that you have sex with someone, you give a piece of you away. After many serial relationships, you will need to heal because you get stuck in a pattern of falling in love, "falling out of love", resentment and breaking up. I've also found that "falling out of love" means that either or both people have given up and don't want to remove their ego. The reason why men or women pull away, is that they don't want to break their egos down. Anyone that comes up with excuses about why their relationship failed have not taken responsibility yet. When a relationships fails, it is YOUR FAULT. Accept it, learn from it, and move on. Sex should be pure, for one person. And hopefully it will be one person in your entire life. But, that said, I'm not on a high horse saying that I will never make mistakes in this regard. What I'm saying is that I have not made a mistake yet and that I pray to God that I will never make that mistake. As Christians, we are called to be the "salt of the earth", which are the words of Jesus Christ. This means that we are to give taste to the world. I pray that everyone reading this will be better off than before they read it. Marriage is worthwhile; sex is for GIVING love. Selflessness and daily denying your carnal desires is what we should do. Our external authority is Jesus Christ, we can only have a peaceful and successful live when we submit to him. It is difficult to submit to someone else, let alone someone that sets such high standards as God does and did through becoming a man in Jesus Christ. I pray that everyone reading this will come to faith in Christ. For He said: "Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6 (NIV). Shalom. Amen.
I bet as soon as you said yes your whole attitude changed and everything was about you and your needs. If you truly loved your man you would have been ok going down to the courthouse and getting married.
True! I didn't actually love him (nor did I know how to love myself). In fact I was in the relationship for egoic reasons. Once I began the journey of healing and recovery, I was able to open my heart to True Love and become a better partner.
Narcs are on the increase. The Bible actually addresses this. 2 Timothy. Chapter 3, I think. My last 2 exes were narcs. I didn't know about this evil spirit but I do now. I was shook y'all!
Sarika, be very careful with this new age stuff. It's going to get you very confused. Depression & anxiety will take hold of you. You heard right about about spiritual work. The true Spirit is Christ Jesus. I'm quite concerned about you & I'm praying.
Women want someone much better than they are, taller, smarter, wealthier etc and then they wonder why the guy left them and come up with their convoluted reasoning that it’s anything else but not that they are not good enough .
I think it’s often the other way around . Men see themselves as better than Who they are . Men look in the mirror and see themselves as Younger , hotter
They often meet or get involved with attractive , smart , good Women
But she’s not their dream girl who is probably out of their reach
@@OlderWomenRock There are good and bad men, there are good and bad women - choose wisely but dont blame others for your bad choice. Women choose a man by how he presents himself - its called percieved value. It means bad manipulative men can study that and use it to get them to sleep with them. On the other hand if men dont put an effort to truly understand how women think and are wired, theres almost no chance of ever attracting a woman especially if you are an intoverted man. Most woman are drawn to extrovert masculine men, that have a goal in their live that they chase and that is more important to them than any woman. Women are atracted to that and want to be the chaser of such a guy. Men with low self esteem and no goals become toxic and manipulative and its damaging women - These damaged women than hurt good guys because they think they are all the same. Everyone male and female need to balance their masculine and femine energy inside of themself. If either one energy is too strong or too weak there is no healthy polarity - which is the main reason for attraction. This is just the tip of the iceberg but we need to see relationships as an opportunity to give something and not to get something and theres a huge crisis going on as everyone is dysregulated. Especially in western society. Also Men and women love differently. A man that truly loves a woman will love her as if it were his own daughter - he will sacrifice himself for her. The only woman who truly loves a man is his own mother. Any other woman in his life will only love him for how he can make her feel and how high his perceived value is in her eyes. A man has to perform he cant just exist and be loved for "who he is" he has to build himself into a strong and good man and that is what attracts a feminine and nurturing woman. This is nature at work - this is how nature is rewarding men who build themself and society up. And woman are wired to support men like this in what they are doing. This is also why men and women are fundamentlly different by nature and its good like that if only society and the world would see it for its truth but thats not the case which is why men give up and dont care anymore if they re not being valued for their providing msculinity. The Female hypergamy is the feeling in every woman programmed by nature that has to be satisfied to stay with a man. Its the feeling that she got the best man she could find with her assets to secure a potential strong and durable offspring. And for thousands of years this function secures the survial of the fittest and our race. Men who go for what they want, who have their own opinion and stand for it. Men who have actual value and willing to provide their value to make the world a better place for everyone and not just for themselfes. In todays society the typical masculine men is constantly beign critized - we are not allowed to be actual men anymore in this hyper feminized western world. The problem is many females dont understand this about themselfs. Its also the reason why woman are able to love men who treat them badly - it satiesfies their hypergamy and shows a form of strength. Being nice to everyone is easy but treating someone bad and not being afraid of the consequences because he doesnt care is a form of strength that attracts females. And it goes against every logic. I ll quietly sit back and watch if the world will finally realize what the truth behind females, males and the purpose of their relationships is. Women are driven by their emotions and theres not much that they can do about it because its nature. But many refuse to look inside and take accountability its their kryptonite. Woman only look for their own survival. Men look for the survival of everyone. I know this sounds very generalized and ofc there are exceprtions and differences in men and woman. Men and women can compliment eacht other with their unique skills and thrive together - supporting each other. Men build / generate / more doing less talking, women nurture / give emotional support / more talking and feeling and they both need each other to reach their full potential in life. A man needs to be able to contain a woman and give her a safe space to relax into her femine energy because she knows she can depend on you even if she doesent need it. This takes a lot of effort and energy and most woman just dont see that a man has to work a lot on himself to become such a man. Woman need a man that is confident in himself or they wont feel a thing for him and this cant be faked and more and more men are understanding this. Thats why woman are social and emotional experts in spotting men who are trying to fake this and once spotted it kills all atraction.
Your generalizing, booboo. I'm a woman & I'm not this way.
Feel all of those statements he made about my wife of 15 years.
Wife and husband are separate roles. Traditional is best.
I regularly sleep in a separate room, because my wife’s ego or advise from friends/family lead her to be too bossy.
No one can serve their partner and the rest of the world at the same time.
What are you saying 😅
@@mikeostrander5406 I’m saying withdrawal is the right response to someone who seeks to inappropriately compete or be bossy.
Amen!
We have been married for 27 years. I also learned not to take advice from (any) family members or friends. They tend to imprint their experiences on your situation. The same goes if you see a therapist; many of them tells you what they think you want to hear. A good therapist will support your marriage and challenge you when you just disparage your spouse.
@@JoeL91939 I tend to think that confrontation is the best. I found that withdrawing is often the same as sweeping things under the rug. The same things will resurface in your next argument, which will either lead to fight or flight (withdrawal). My experience is that you need to take a break and come back in an hour or two later to really confront the situation WITH your spouse.
I loved a women so much I let her go so she could be happy. Hurt like hell even today
But I take comfort in knowing she gots a family now . And I wish her well
Love can be very complicated. I walked away from a lady that I loved more than life itself because the timing just wasn’t right. Ladies, If a man walks away it doesn’t always mean that you did anything wrong or that he didn’t really love you either.
Thanks for the encouraging response! Sorry you had to leave the relationship, hope you were able to find a good relationship. Agreed, love can sometimes feel complicated ❤
@@LoveSarikaJain If we're meant to be together our journey's through life will lead us back to each other again one day.
@@LoveSarikaJain If the two of you are meant to be together, Love will find a way.
What do you mean timing wasn't right?
You pushed him away
Yup! That's the main message of the video :)
Every time you have sex with another person, you become bonded with them in both and emotional and spiritual way. My advice is to keep sex for marriage, as God intended. I only ever had sex with my wife and I'm her 3rd sexual partner ever. We have been married 27 years. Although we both made many mistakes, we have been faithful to each other.
In a marriage, it is NOT about YOUR needs. It is about the needs of your spouse. When both of you do this, you can have a successful marriage. I have seen this in all people that are married and loving over a long period of time. Personally I think that people that leaving a long term partner in serial monogamy is the same as divorce. Every time that you have sex with someone, you give a piece of you away. After many serial relationships, you will need to heal because you get stuck in a pattern of falling in love, "falling out of love", resentment and breaking up. I've also found that "falling out of love" means that either or both people have given up and don't want to remove their ego.
The reason why men or women pull away, is that they don't want to break their egos down. Anyone that comes up with excuses about why their relationship failed have not taken responsibility yet. When a relationships fails, it is YOUR FAULT. Accept it, learn from it, and move on.
Sex should be pure, for one person. And hopefully it will be one person in your entire life. But, that said, I'm not on a high horse saying that I will never make mistakes in this regard. What I'm saying is that I have not made a mistake yet and that I pray to God that I will never make that mistake.
As Christians, we are called to be the "salt of the earth", which are the words of Jesus Christ. This means that we are to give taste to the world.
I pray that everyone reading this will be better off than before they read it. Marriage is worthwhile; sex is for GIVING love. Selflessness and daily denying your carnal desires is what we should do. Our external authority is Jesus Christ, we can only have a peaceful and successful live when we submit to him. It is difficult to submit to someone else, let alone someone that sets such high standards as God does and did through becoming a man in Jesus Christ.
I pray that everyone reading this will come to faith in Christ. For He said: "Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6 (NIV).
Shalom. Amen.
Yes. Pray for this beautiful lady. I don't think she knows the Lord.
I bet as soon as you said yes your whole attitude changed and everything was about you and your needs. If you truly loved your man you would have been ok going down to the courthouse and getting married.
True! I didn't actually love him (nor did I know how to love myself). In fact I was in the relationship for egoic reasons. Once I began the journey of healing and recovery, I was able to open my heart to True Love and become a better partner.
Narcs are on the increase. The Bible actually addresses this. 2 Timothy. Chapter 3, I think. My last 2 exes were narcs. I didn't know about this evil spirit but I do now. I was shook y'all!
Sarika, be very careful with this new age stuff. It's going to get you very confused. Depression & anxiety will take hold of you. You heard right about about spiritual work. The true Spirit is Christ Jesus. I'm quite concerned about you & I'm praying.
you didn't vasopressin bond.