Healing and The Path to Wholeness - Dr Gabor Mate
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- Originally I was going to use only a 5 minute segment from this talk to make a short video, but in the editing process, I saw how important this whole lecture is. Especially for our current times.
Original title : Gabor Mate - Manifesting the Mind - Inside the Psychedelic Experience.... can be found on youtube
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You wake up one day and you realize your loss. Then, you cry, you let it out, you let it all out: a thousand tears upon your pillow.
Then, you set out on the road - to recover your joy, your soul, your self, your meaning.
Finally, you befriend the stranger: yourself.
😇🙏💖💪
Beautifully written 🖤
They say your eyes are the windows to ones soul, I feel the voice is the soul itself. Listening to Dr Gabor is like listening to someone who would go to any end to help another. A gifted compassionate human being.
The voice is the soul itself.....I like that :) It seems true to me.
I'd been praying and seeking God for an answer to the root cause of my recent breast cancer diagnosis. I was in the store tonight listening to this message and it hit me like a brick! I broke down in tears in the store when it hit me and I was able to make the connection. Trauma and disconnection from the self.
There were 3 different experiences that happened to me as a child that has been a mental and emotional block in my life all these years. Dr Gabor Mate' is brilliant! I am truly grateful to God for guiding me to this message.
Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for sharing this message. Peace, love and abundant blessings.🙏❤
I wish you the best and hope you have the support and love that you need to carry you through this. May the Universe comfort you and bless you, now and always 🙏💛
@@adelitao3701 thank you.🙏❤
Prayers are with you
Beauty and Boss Life God bless you ♥️
I hope you are doing well. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! All the best from Germany 🙏
this moment when Dr Mate describes the source of trauma:
"If it's so painful to be myself I better disconnect "
"If it's so painful to be aware of my gut feelings and to be able to sure them and to maifest them and to declare them I better disconnect from my gut feelings"
It resonate with me so much.
I'm looking for my jaw now.. it's probably somewhere on the floor..
one of my trauma was in school i was around 13 in history class and i asked a question about how do we even know if all of our information about history was true since it was in the past and my teachers screamed at me and threated me like dirt and to that day i think this event played big part in my disconnection, that and having a not so present father iv been doing my best to reconnect but it so hard when its been so long.(honestly i dont even know why im writting that right now probably a need for recognition)
@@philippe.paradis it's a process. I'm in it as well. My big discovery was mindfulness. Wish you all the best in your journey, bro.
@@MrBlacksford you too pal
Looking for my jaw too!
dear dr. mate, i think the way you've brought together all the scraggly pieces of who the contemporary western person is is phenomenal and provides us with a cohesive perspective to work with on the path to wholeness. i see there are many out there who criticize your approach but as far i, a 75 year old who has spent an entire life trying through all the available approaches to healing from psychotherapies to spiritual practices to understand myself and become whole, think what you have to say is the most right on and intelligent, workable approach to healing. i really think you're great the way you've put it all together. thanks.
Thank you Iris for sharing, its so important to be hearing from the older generations. Its something so rare now days, but so very needed. Its not simple for the younger folk to not be able to hear the wisdom of an elder. Blessings
Iris Sands Love your comment. Apparently we have walked similar paths. Wishing you peace and wholeness.
Iris Sands . Oh I do so echo you. I came late to Gabor Maté and find him so sincere in his efforts to help the wounded souls. I detect the pain of his own traumas in his eyes. I love this man.
Add this 78-yr-old Calif-born, 56-yrs-married woman to your list of elders who didn't know how much she was adjusting and losing herself until now (ME/CFS post-💔surgery at 68, depression and worse, psychotherapy past 15 years, multiple "female problems", cancer at 25 to name a few). In more recent years I made the mind-body connection, but your presentations/books are giving me new paths to wholeness and new specific insights. Thank you.
@@Josh-pe5pl I wish you a complete healing💚🙏🏻. Best wishes from Slovenia...
I am grateful to all the medical doctors who opened their eyes and their hearts to the truth.
Patients cannot be forced to change and usually just want a quick fix, so it really doesn't depend on the doctors that much.
This man is helping me figure myself out. What a gift he is ❤
Dr. Gabor Mate is a gift to humanity. I just wanna put my comment here to embrace this video and all the people who comment on this video and also everyone who have watched this video... We're blessed and may we can be whole and share the love to others. Love to all of you ♥️
Let’s talk about our pain and normalize it to begin the healing, relating through real connection is how we don’t destroy dinner conversation but feel able, strong and comfortable to thrive. Gabor Mate is a gift I think.
So true man. This society we have found ourselves in has massively lost its way. Change starts one individual at a time.
To who ever reads this, you are worthy you have purpose, you are loved in ways you dont realise & there is hope of you still have breath & you have a willing to learn & change x
Great
Cheryl you are saying this to yourself as words of motivation. Well this connects szomehow to the personality game that we play to compensate our pain. , well he is saying to dismantel and Dissolve this thing.
@@shivamgarg2357 ohh very interesting, to others but I guess I need to hear and know it too
I feel like I’m not entitled to this. I’m here to support them financially. To pay them back for raising me. Pay them back for helping me achieve where I am right now. That’s all I know.
This man is more than brilliant! The real issue is not the painful event. It is having lost the connection to oneself.
His book When The Body Says No is timeless and so valuable to all. If you haven’t please read it or one of his others. Take your time to really take it in. Too many self help personalities now saturating YT are pushing the message to proving how strong we are and or our worth by how we face adversity or trauma vs self awareness and compassion. The Life of Brian issue plays out thru these gurus everyday every year. So many of us seeking the magic bullet or The Guru/Teacher and not willing (scared) to look inside. He’s connected so many dots for me and helped to see those who hurt me thru different eyes. I hope to meet him one day to say thank you. 🙏🇨🇦
“Trauma IS the impact.” 🙏🏻brilliant
Grace Lorraine not what kappens...what you make it mean.
Art Galindo Did you read the Tibetan Book mentioned?!? You must see also the film Samsara!!!
He gets it. Really gets it. Speaks it so clearly with compassion that connects to the inner being. It's healing. SO healing. It's like the hurt has been heard and allowed to be expressed. Thank you 🙏
This is transformative. Oh my word.... every single person, medical professional, teacher, parent, emergency services etc...needs to hear and implement this.
I do xxx I’m three of those on your list.
The incisive and astute observation about the Canadian prime minister elicits laughter, but it's meant in earnest. Funny how we tend to assume that damaged people are the ones who 'fail', and yet there's this devastating truth that the wounded are often the most 'respectable' and celebrated people, by dint of what they're willing to do to get to the top.
This man has a beautiful mind and heart.
It's really quite simple... if you need love, give love. Give love to a child who is at the beginning of his or her journey and needs your love and care or to a senior citizen who is approaching the end of his or her journey and needs someone to talk to or a hand to hold. It is by loving others selflessly that we love ourselves in the most rewarding way. Blessings to all.
MA Matters that is great advice ♥️
Amazing.
The truth has been spoken, my son suffers from mental illness and childhood trauma. I understand his pain. I love and will help my son. Thank you.
No doubt his voice is therapeutic on top of what he says!
Wow. What an incredible wealth of knowledge he shared in this one presentation.
Just brilliant..I am in the Christian church...all these happy smiles while behind the scenes there is so much pain.
greentree730 I was raised in the evangelical church, and I have so much trauma from it even now in my 30’s.
Thank you, 🙇🏻♀️ Dr.Gabor Mate. Your lectures have helped me endure returning home to myself. And meeting the self i thought no longer existed. She’s still there, she’s still there ! Through all of the struggles & nightmares, she’s still there ✨❤️✨
Stunningly insightful and profoundly human.
Listening to this seems like essence of everything that i have been watching in different videos for over a year now . Can listen to this over and over again . Too good and very simple to understand
I found this because I sleep better listening to someone speak he has a calming voice to sleep to.
Occasionally I would wake up and I would hear pieces of the talk. This was good stuff even half asleep I recognize it so I liked it so I can listen to it during the day.
So insightful
Dear Dr Mate..
Tears Rolling Down.
This Deeply Reaching My Heart ..
Mind..
It's Simplifying It All..
Understanding Making Compassion Rolling stones of Light & Love Flowing..
A Deeper Understanding of The Self..
I am Feeling Gratitude for Knowledge which Are Beneficial for Growth..
💜
& Simplified Gratitude for What Has Been present too..
Love The Sense of Honesty & Humour..
Love As The Essence of 💚..
Connection..
Dr. Mate connects us back to ourselves and to each other with understanding and compassion. He is a gift from God.
I absolutely love this man and his teachings! He is PHENOMENAL!
Dr Gabor Mate, I'm so grateful that you exist, thank you 🙏💙🙏
This was what I needed to clear my fear/ambivalence about taking ayahuasca now in October. Wish me luck all
How was it with your experience with ayahuasca? I wish you a healing and great life💚🙏🏻.
@@Bojan_V I think he died.
@@TheJimbo1791 Oh no! How do you know?
Mother of God. I truly enjoyed the video but the slap in the face ( awakening in my heart) was a trip. I almost stopped watching but very pleased I pushed through the fear of memories that were surfacing. The event that caused the fear was/is unknown but the feelings attached to were front and center. Good stuff.
The intention must always be the truth: meeting the pain, the fear and the terror and working through it, back to the connection with yourself.
Great talk, thanks to Gabor Mate 🙏
Beautiful video footage, thanks to Okanokumo 💚
Before our minds create the world, the world creates our minds.
this is really powerful stuff and i can speak from actually linking from my mothers womb shouting from my parents at 3 i was tuned into when trouble was about to kick off i was hyper aware my mother was very troubled in her own life for sure i was one with every mood she had i had learned at 3 to dodge oncoming trouble from energy in the air like static i was always right but at 3 i was stuck in a crazy rat infested home with two parents at war its amazing to have all this past root cause to my life of madness to here it and put the puzzle of my life into one for sure its all falling into place of course i was bound for a life of very very bad plans thank god for this god DR GABOR MATE
One of the best I've heard recently. A pleasure to listen.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am on my healing journey, it's really tough. Sometimes I still finding myself sitting in the dark corner crying and feeling the pain.
I feel your pain. We will get through this 🙏
@@itsjustme9354 ❤️❤️ We have to experience the pain and live with that sometimes. Thank you for your comment. 🌟
@@xw6475 I'm in a lot of emotional pain, recovering from alcoholism losing a relationship recently has all consumed me but I know it shall all past things will get better I'm crying but I am also healing. I hope you are too 💚
@@itsjustme9354 I am sorry to hear that. Stay committed to your own healing and growth. Never give up, it shall pass and learn, rise above from that
@@xw6475 no one said change was meant to be easy I'm going through it and I know I and anyone else going through changes will come out better just takes time. But thank you for your kindness one love 🙏
i am deeply touched by this speech, thank you
Outstanding insights
Once again Dr Maté invites us to welcome support via plant medicine , compassionate inquiry , therapeutic efforts towards wholeness… freedom .
Thank you, Dr. Mate
Dr. Gabor Mate explains it so well, I don’t know why I keep listening to him and he gives me a sense of relief, there is hope for humanity if only people reach out and found this talks, thanks for having him
Thanks for sharing the whole lecture, it is healing...🙏🙏
Every word is pure gold, every single word. Thank you for sharing! So grateful
Commenting to bless the algorithm, so that more people can randomly see this. Thank you Dr, you just broke down my life in less than an hour
His voice is calming and so are music and visuals. Thank you. ✨💚✨
Dr. Mate you are a great healing guide for humanity. 🙏
Indeed he is!
Tears and gratitude, what a gift to listen to this and understand
Whatever would we do without ALL the Dr Gabors in this world today!!! it is an absolute revelation truly a magical time to be alive & know The Truth of our existence... PHENOMENAL would love to join dr Gabor at one of his Ayahuasca ceremonies ❤️
The most important and really helpful eye opening life saving voice and words i have heared
Thank you Dr. Gabor Mate, thank you for helping us find the answers we have been searching for. We have been wondering around trying to make sense out of the loss of our own love of self from the traumas we've suffered. All my life, I was hurting so much from childhood abandonment without proper guidance and didn't even realize completely until now. I stumbled through raising my own children without ever getting the help I so needed. It is so sad that we carry this around and not know that we may have needed help in order to fix it. Oh how I wish I had been able to realize that I needed help in order to be the best parent that I could have been. Now I can be aware........................................... Thank you so much. You are doing such a great thing by putting your knowledge out here. Blessings to you..................................
You have a needed experience. I've only had one "bad" experience but it took all my anxiety, depression, and self doubt away for several months.
All you say makes perfect sense on every level. Gratitude for sharing this. 🙏
Dr Gabe' You are a blessing to the world!
Beautifully spoken truths. Thank you
Thank you! So wonderful, such wisdom. 😊
Louis Bourgeouis, Siri Hustvedt, Gabor Mate, Eckart Tolle, Oprah, Yuval Harari, Martin Jaqcues .. all the smart ppl tell us to know ourselves. They re right
:) And you are major houlihan! (◕ᴗ◕)✿
I have learned so much about myself from Dr. Gabor Mates. Everything in my life makes more sense and I am learning to love myself for who I am.
Thank you so much for having this length video! It is very healthful and helpful! 🙏🏽💜
Oh my god... life changing
Thank you for posting it all. Some of these statements are blowing my mind.
🙏🏼🌹Thank you. So much.
Love Gabor!:)
I AM IN ABSOLUTE AWE OF THE SUBSTANCE SOUL HEART MIND LOVE AND INTEGRITY WISDOM OF THIS REAL MAN! My journey to self has been greatly accelerated by this man..I wish I could have just one dinner with you..blessings from a heart of gratitude!
See other spiritual recommended please.
Love you dr Gabor mate your speeches are so heart felt ❤️
so many nuggets of wisdom all throughout this
GUIDANCE! .... SAGE WISDOM! ...... THANK YOU DR MATE ......
FOR SOME VERY IMPORTANT HUMAN INSIGHTS DELIVERED ......
& SO ........ VERY ELEGANTLY ....... EXPRESSED! .......
AronG: Thanks for reconsidering during your editing of this!... I readily confess, I’ve found my spiritual Guru…. Listening to Gabor, I can acutely feel my throat constrict and my eyes water up at different points during his talk, this from emotions emanating from memories and experiences throughout my life, as these are illuminated in a completely new and different light - a light shed from Dr. Gabor’s perspective, and thus making sense of the past, making the burdens I’ve carried with me all along suddenly lose most - if not _all_ of their weight . . . .
Thank You Erik, One of the most beautiful comments I have read this year...Much Love
Thank you your an amazing gift to humanity.Bless you.
Dear Dr Mate
My deepest gratitude for this beautiful truth
Thank you for making your work accessible to all ♥️
Aaron thanks for sharing this post, for it is imperative that this type of post is a part of the awakening of mankind!!!!!
Thank You
P. Annie Coleman
Blessings
the calm tone of his voice
What this says to me is the great extent to which we are social creatures, need to know each other well, since by nature we depend on that kind of knowledge to survive as a group, so we have this great need built into us, and when we're frustrated in satisfying this need, then we have distress, and seek out some kind of compensation to ease the pain and give ourselves a little hope of survival. We haven't evolved enough to match our nature to our world we live in.
It's the world we live in that should match our nature and not the other way round.
Unfortunately western society has us moving away from what we need most. Personal interaction. 🤷🏻♀️
Absolutely amazing insight. Thank You for sharing.
So beautiful, it is never lost!
Exelent! Thanks 🙏
The whole world is screwed up. It’s heartbreaking. My question is WHY does it have to be like this?
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TrueLove , is that the ultimate question for you? I wonder if you could ask yourself, "how can I respond to how I perceive the world, for myself and others?"
I agree...and struggle with this all the time. I don’t want to accept the world as it is...as it almost seems like condoning it. I want it to be better...
I guess the most we can change is ourselves. Not add to the suffering... by connecting to ourselves, refusing to further any of our own or others trauma. Make choices that we truly believe in. Eradicate things that create cognitive dissonance. Surround yourself with healers and genuine people who are connected to themselves... and encourage a change in paradigm.
We can only start with this moment and with ourselves.
Lack of connection with authenticity. The authenticity of yourself and the world. Embracing uncertainty which Commodification makes us avoid. Read Chomsky on thought control in democratic societies. And the great film critic Dennis Grunes. At first the greatest films seem boring or painful. But generally it's just the contrast of truth with the short term pain-relief distraction of commercial entertainment.
Unhinged capitalism and extreme inequality
Sublime, thank you for your enlightenment x
amazing, listened to the whole thing, loved it
❤️❤️❤️ it is safer to engage in these journeys with wise and experienced people. Do not be alone...
Well put I hope your words are heard by our social universe.
Thank U I haven’t heard of this man 🙏😇 for sharing
I love you Gabor ❤️!
Beautiful, just beautiful 💕
You become Prime Minister of Canada!! Oh my gosh!
Background piano detracts.
thank you . great teaching. very affective
Thank you. I do need help. I will learn more about your teaching.
so well put, amazing thank you Dr. Mate
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you for uploading this incredible talk with the most beautiful background music @arongoch
Thank you for the video in its entirety. Appreciate you!
Wowww this is beautiful, thank you so much for sharing this. And honestly, I didn't hear very much new information, but it's a welcome confirmation of what I know and feel 🙏💗
The issues, my issues are wonderfully, expertly described here! Now, what is the solution? How can I move beyond this pain? How do we reconnect again?
I think a place to start is to try to be as open hearted, accepting willing and honest as we can and write down all those things we do not like about ourselves...and see what may come up.
Ask yourself what you really want. And start to listen to and act on your true gut feelings. Speak the truth whenever you come across it. Onliy do things that you want to do, or need to be done. Don't commit to do things that you don't care about, but still be kind and see other people as they are. Kind yet firm. Do what you believe will make you happy based on who you think you really are. This is what's helped me at least.
~So very True~💜
Absolutely correct regarding trauma and the disconnection from self. NOT in agreement with substance use. NOT required. NOT safe.
do you have personal experience showing you these plant substances are not safe?
Also, did he say they were required?
I see possibility in both sides. I am open to hearing more from your side and why you believe SO intensely.. also I am interested in more of his rationale and experience.
It’s being open to hearing that we grow...we don’t have to agree, just he open.
I worked in our rigid allopathic medical system...and due to my open mind and experiences, I realized that I was wrong and have shifted my paradigm on some things.
Perception can be changed...when prior false narratives are challenged
Blessings 🌸
Agreed. With his work with addiction, I was really surprised that he was suggesting a different substance.
Some of the best language I have heard is an alanon meeting...
I must have gone to the wrong one then. All I heard was resignation and negativity.
THANK YOU
Thank you
magnificent.
Thank you @Aron G
So truht woth you are saying god bless you
It is good! but woud be much better if the music was removed!
Thats why for those that dont like the music..you can view the original with out the music by following the link in the comment section...