Mikko CAN'T Go Out In Public Anymore! *Autism Social Anxiety*
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- If left untreated, social anxiety can severely affect quality of life. Mikko is so afraid of people and interactions that it got her hurt. We are aware of the problem and we getting her help. Its only recently become this bad and we weren't sure what was going on but its more than we can handle as her parents. Hopefully with the right help from professionals, Mikko can enjoy being in public again.
What are your thoughts about your own experience with social anxiety, if any at all?
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I am part of your cheering squad. I retired from a 35-year career working with special needs children. I don't agree with everything you do, but I definitely applaud the ongoing effort. Wishing you only the best.❤
Thank for your response. Is Miko with you and your family 24 hrs a day? If
so why ? Please respond.
Definitely applaud you mom. You’re teaching me a lot about how to parent. We’re all figuring things out. ❤
What a great brother! You are all so good trying to help Mikko experience good things.
We live in the same city. I find it reassuring that my city has such amazing parents! ❤
I love how her brother put his arm around mikko when you were fixing her knee!
That’s brotherly love
Amazing
He was very loving
Yeah it’s 3 in the morning and I’m crying my eyes out
Big brother was amazing! He was so gentle and to be willing to wear a bandage shows the empathy that he has for others. You guys are amazing parents raising amazing children!
Your son was very helpful with her! So adorable big brother trying to comfort her.
I am an adult with social anxiety. It is dibilitating. I have young children and it effects them leading me to be depressed for being a bad mom for not being able to take them a lot of places. You two are wonderful parents- Sending love to you all❤
Same, I go through phases of extreme social anxiety still, at 30 years old. My 4 year old now has the same problem :( but at least I'm aware of the issue and we do our best to make progress and let him know it's not his fault. My parents had no clue how to help or identify my struggling.
I hope you don't mind me asking but do you allow other family members to take your children out since you have social anxiety?
You may benefit from medical marijuana
I can relate ❤
@@6laqListeDyes it has helped me!!
@3:12 what an amazing, compassionate, kind, loving brother! It’s clear the children are seeing this behavior from their parents and within their home. Well done momma and daddy 🥰
Big brother is so tender and caring with Mikko❤
Oh I have so much to say she is such a lil princess the way her brother can calm her down is amazing such a beautiful fam
As a grandmother to 2 autistic non verbal grandson's i think you and your family are amazing mikko is blessed to have so much love surrounding her melted my heart ❤️ when her brother put his arm around mikko
Being in a school program that provides specialized services to help her. I work with kids like Mikko and the daily practice & exposure in programs for students like her does help them. You are all doing a great job at home; however allowing professionals to play a bigger role in her life will help her & also you all as a family with outings etc.
As a pre-k teacher I have students with IEP's and their therapists come to the school and work with them, having great success. Whether they are doing speech, cognitive, behavioral, physical.. they are wonderful at their job and the children look forward to their therapy days. Granted, it doesn't always start out so smooth but with time and routine they become more open and receptive. I've seen students go from having full blown meltdowns during drop off at the beginning of the year to skipping in excited to see their friends. I've had some refuse to hold a pencil to being able to write their name in the span of a few months. And like you said, I've also seen them regress for no apparent reason. I'm not sure if you are utilizing any sort of preschool environment but I do encourage it. It's an individual choice that takes just as much effort on the parents as it does the child and I know how hard and exhausting it can be. Some days my parents look just drained from the night before or even a rough morning they have had with their little ones. If you can find a good school with trained, educated, and compassionate teachers and therapists.. it can be such a positive experience. And it can be a powerful tool to have in your toolbelt. I wish Mikko and you nothing but love and success. Keep your chin up, Mama! You got this, just remember to be kind with yourself :)
Matthew is the star of this video. His support of his little sister brought happy tears to my eyes. With this support, Mikko will be able to navigate the anxieties a little better. Thank you, Matthew!!! ❤😍😘
That must make you feel really, really proud when you see your son showing so much kindness and compassion to Mikko.
Mikko could really benefit from some professional services at this point. Early intervention is key with autistic children to ensure better outcomes. It could help her with speech development, address developmental delays, aid in socialization, and better prepare her for the school setting and for life outside of the confines of the home with her family.
I agree 1000%! I say the same thing in every video that is posted!
I totally agree, my son is the same age and has the same difficulties as Miko. He's been in school since 3 and a half. He's started to exhibit social anxiety, but I think his fear would be much worse if not for school and taking him to public settings like the library, indoor playgrounds, etc.
But Miko is making amazing progress in other areas like speech. One day at a time. ❤
I’m glad Mikko has the parents she has.
I agree with you totally!! I hope Mikko's parents take your advice. Sooner....rather than later.
@@aliciamoore963why haven’t they enrolled her into early intervention?
My now 6 year old os stage three autistic, honestly when he was younger i didnt understand him,but i do remember him having anxiety when going to play with others, i just continue to socialize him and show him its okay and allow him to progress at his speed. Now at six he does a lot better, but still only likes to interact with children he knows or are similar in behaviors of you get my drift. Mikko will get it, stay strong Precious you got this. A little push is okay.
Aweee what a sweet brother..❤
I have a 3 and a 1/2-year-old little girl with level 3 autism AD.H.D she's non verbal, she has Narrow eating habits and sensory processing disorder all the Things that come with autism. Just like you. I wanted to help her on my own and it got to a point where I realized. I can know a little bit about a lot of things but professionals know a lot about one thing and so I had to get outside help. Trust me, trust me, not the route I wanted to take. I ended up taking her to the public school district and got her an got her IEP with autism on it. a 1 on 1 a that's with her through her day and she gets 5 therapies at school now and it's helping. I have 100% access to her and to the people with her and her 1 on 1 aid Is the same special education teacher everyday. I think you're doing great and don't worry. It will work out because it has too!!!!!
Exactly what you were supposed to do❤
They said in the description that they're getting her help.
I was just sharing my experience so she knows she's not alone. I don't need you editing my voice, I did read it!!!
@@shannonsmith5914 I wasn't. I said that in case you didn't know. You don't need to be rude.
They can't diaognose adhd at 3 .
I think of Mikko social anxiety like an immune system response. The more exposure the system gets to "germs" in her case "people" the easier it will be to deal with the next time she encounters the same situation. Growth occurs outside of the comfort zone. It is clear that she sees anyone outside of family as scary but eventually when she gets the clearance for therapy she'll need to learn how to deal with other people in her safe place. Rather than avoid the social interaction entirely, make accommodations. Perhaps wearing her headphones or bringing something she loves from home, maybe even the blow up pool. You can also play the sounds of "outside" noises while at home so she gets accustomed to it. Like the sound of people chattering, birds, cars, dogs barking etc
I absolutely love your channel and Mikko is the cutest thing ever. If I could suggest that as someone with social anxiety maybe you could try putting her into a day camp or somewhere with professional care to help her become more comfortable with the outside environment. I’ve heard sometimes with a stranger it’s difficult but more effective than parents because children know their patterns and know how to regulate themselves around them. It’s just a thought but I hope you guys continue to thrive for the future ❤️
How her brother pulls her in and hugs her when she begins to cry....... priceless❤
Mikko reminds me a lot of my daughter she’s the same age and level 2 autistic. My daughter recently has been going to ABA after being home with since she was born (not recommending ABA if not for your family) buuut there’s simply some experiences you’re not going to be able to give Mikko and she could really benefit from being in a group around other kids her age at her level outside of her safe space and safe people. Giving her the opportunity to see how other kids like her may navigate can help her in her own way 💛 send yall lots of love
I'm a teacher and I see this a lot. Look for professional help. To help her socialize and develop other skills also a school with a special education will help her a lot. God bless you por for love caring and patience
I have social anxiety. I can kind of relate to Mikko. My social anxiety is related to severe anxiety I’ve had from a young age. I’m not autistic but I can relate with the social anxiety part.
are u taking any medications for social anxiety?
@@aqueenaija not anymore. Had hydroxyzine for anxiety but I’ve leveled out.
I love that even though its hard, you do the up most best is showing her through it and getting the job done. ❤❤
Big brother is so sweet to little Mikko. 😊
I love how her big brother was comforting her. That’s so sweet of him ❤! He’s a great example 🫶🏾!
Please listen to your viewers, especially in these comments about professional help for beautiful mikko🙏🏾 i work with kids with autism.. It's a God-given blessing
I know she loves her daughter but there's professionals out there that can assist the mother and show her different ways of dealing or overcoming the situations. My little cousin couldn't talk . We got him professional help and he was talking in 2months😁🤴🏽🙏🏽✌🏽
My son is not talking and he has professional help for months. He's almost 2yrs. Everyone's situation is different.
@@aqueenaijathat's true, but they need to get the child help instead of dealing with situations and not making progress.
She said in the description that they are getting professional help
Her video notes say she's taking her in for help with professionals. I also think it's also time to maybe not show her face as often. But I know that's new territory.
@@aqueenaijavery different!
You guys are doing amazing with Mikko. I encourage you guys to get professional help as well. It’s a process but she’ll adapt. In some videos I feel like she’s playing on you momma. 😅 these babies are super intelligent. Let go and let the professionals help. You’ll be less stressed and you can give more focus to yourself, your hubby, and the twins. Everyone will benefit. Cause I know. You are overwhelmed! Thanks for sharing 🫶🏽
Mathew had me tearing up 🥹, he was so precious sweet and kind. 🫶🏾
She fell and bumped her knee like every other three year old. Some times children, even children with autism get a scrape. No biggie, wipe it off and move on. I’m sure Mikko will get distracted or find interest in something else within the next few minutes. Most children also have social anxiety. She needs to be around other children, maybe other children with autism. They will learn and teach each other. Seems she’s incredibly isolated at home and only around family.
Honestly I have a cousin who’s like Mikko they’re both non-verbal and autistic. Wish we could meet up to see how they’ll interact with each other.
Mama, have you looked into, or are you interested in getting Mikko into ABA therapy? If so, it could be such a help for her and for your family as a whole. Mikko can really benefit from being around other kids her age on a daily basis (school) and from working with professionals to address your concerns (ABA, speech, and OT). Keeping her secluded within the family, and you trying to tackle all of her needs alone will be more of an up hill battle than not.❤
The way Matthew went to comfort his Mikko warmed my heart he is such a kindhearted child he is going to grow up with a big heart you guys are such amazing parents God bless you all! ❤🙏
What helped my son who has the same issues was incorporating professional help in addition to what we parents were doing, ie, We put him in school which was the best decision ever. He can now go with us in public places with no issues. He's 5.
I don’t think social anxiety is regression. On the contrary, it’s progression in being more aware of our surroundings, of other people’s thoughts and looking at us, of being judged, the possibility of being touched or talked to, etc.
It’s very normal for social anxiety to progressively get worse from toddlerhood through puberty.
Amazing comment!
I love yt commentary - there are always some hidden gems here - and I always take copy past and snapshot of those to put on my social media!
People like you are like angels!
There are so many smart and kind and nice people out there but they are too afraid to speak up their opinion which may be contrary to groupthink, herd mentality and CBT tyranny - so they keep silent - and then neurodivergent fall easily to prey of hoax and scammers and dumb people who repeat what DSM is lying to them.
I was thinking something similar. As children grow they develop more awareness of people around them and people's reactions to them. It can be emotionally painful.
@@musicmama2864 "As children grow they develop more awareness of people around them and people's reactions to them. It can be emotionally painful."
Yes.
I like this quote:
Someone's intelligence can be measured by the quantity of uncertainties that he can bear.
Immanuel Kant
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I don’t think social anxiety is regression. On the contrary, it’s progression in being more aware of our surroundings, of other people’s thoughts and looking at us, of being judged, the possibility of being touched or talked to, etc.
It’s very normal for social anxiety to progressively get worse from toddlerhood through puberty.
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This is so sad because the parents are not always going to be with her!
It could be sadder - with dead mother complex and ACoA ACE dysfunctional family that doesn't care at all about the kids.
So you recognize too that the World could use more systems that actually help youth and adults who have neurodivergent developments?
Its ok mama. This too shall pass my Quentin used to be the same way to the point I would go home & cry. Used to be so bad I couldn't even work nor take him anywhere. Now at the age of 12 gets his needed services,he is in school, loves his teacher, his peers, nature, the zoo, anything vintage(he picks out some of my clothes),loves music, helps me prep dinner, clean, feed the pets & his favorite store is Target. Every time we go he drags me to the book section. It was tough but his bright eyes & smile were well worth it. Mikko will get there, much love from the Sunshine State 💛 ❤
She needs professional help. I know you love her so much and want to protect her but you have her living in a bubble. I have a little cousin that has autism like Miko but he goes to a special school for children with autism. He is nonverbal also. He has been around children in his school, so he knows how to be sociable. He plays with kids. Sometimes he may have a melt down but not often. The school has helped him a lot. I know it has to be hard as a parent to see your child go through moments like this. I pray you and your husband will fine some way to help Miko through this with success.
Beautifully spoken❤
I agree. If not, what will happen when she enters school. She needs to learn to adapt.
Read the description. She said they are going to get her professional help
@tonitwitty9529 Yeah, for the social anxiety, but that's not all she needs. She's needs to be going somewhere regularly, be it school or therapy, something away from her home, it's hindering her tremendously being in that constant bubble.
She's getting professional help.
Probably one of the worst things that come with anxiety besides being extremely over stimulated
It is not anxiety at all - it is over stimulation.
CBT is placing labels on us which are misdiagnosis and this label makes anxiety so much worse - because CBT sets us up to build Victimhood mentality (TIV) with the "anxiety" label.
@@ranc1977 I’m autistic and I said what I said.
And both can be true. Overstimulation can cause anxiety.
@@HigherHer_B This is simply not true.
You are confabulating reality and try to force Victimhood mentality (TIV) in order to gain sympathy from the others.
If I am anxious, then other people won't be rude to me.
Well, they will. In fact - we will attract plethora of impulsive borderliners and narcissists when we play on social mask of being "anxious".
Anxiety like anger is quick short term emotion that quickly transforms into something else when we are emotionally healthy and when we are in sane healthy ambient surrounded by healthy people.
When there is imbalance - such as exposure to narcissists - we will stay stuck in "anxiety" mode - which is nothing else but Autistic Shutdown and Stimulation Overload.
It is CBT ableist therapy that keeps us sick with misdiagnosis and wrong labels.
@@Outdoorbeauty01 No life at all. But I’m not concerned. They need to find something better to do.
@@Outdoorbeauty01 Differences of opinion don't have to be threats.
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I just want to commend you and your family. The caretaker role is hard and even harder with special care. Momma and Dad, take it one day at a time. Make sure you take care of yourself as well. Every day, maybe a new adventure, and it's okay. I love your drive. You may not always get right it, but your family is still living, thriving even if it's chaotic at times and working through it. I just wanted to encourage you and let you know that you are doing amazing. You are definitely appreciated for the education lessons. Sending love and hugs.
Miko and my son are the exact same age- 4 in July. We went through this high social anxiety at the playground and are coming out the other side now. He still has high anxiety, but has stopped avoiding other children, or telling them “you go away!” which was a fun stage 🤦♀️ We did just what you are doing- gentle, scaffolded, continued exposure to the playground and other kids without any pressure. The goal was for him to have a positive experience and learn he is safe- nothing more. Keep going. The hurt knee is a bummer but you can’t control that ~ go again tomorrow.
Your son’s support for his sister is beautiful to see. What a sweet child he is. ❤
I do get wanting to write down your thoughts beforehand to make sure you get it all out, but what I also like is to see people communicate in a way that is natural to them and I’m referring to the part where you mention how “RUclips viewers” want people to communicate in their videos. I want to see you communicate in the way that is most authentic to YOU ❤ authenticity is what draws me in. I think everyone needs to be more authentic in their daily lives and online if they are online. We are all unique and different. We do not fit into molds. I want everyone to enjoy life to the fullest by feeling comfortable being who they are. “People are desperately seeking realness.”
I think Mikko is ready to go to school. She reminds me of my Goddaughter she didn't talk either. I encourage her grandmother to put her in school, and it was like magic she started to talked. She had a lot to say. She only went 2hrs a day M-F. I think she could benefit her and your fam. She is ready Mikko is smart.
You are a beautiful and a amazing woman and Mother.. I love Mikko she is smart and very beautiful ❤️ You are doing a great job with her, Working with her and showing her how to do things ❤❤
My son is going through the same thing right now, just before he turned 3years old he got triggered at a Christmas party, and all of a sudden started melting down and ever since then he doesn’t wanna leave the house doesn’t want to be friends doesn’t wanna see teachers nothing and then the stage went away after just every day trying to reinforce and doing it all over and over again until he was comfortable enough to leave a house again, but then recently, it triggered again from my birthday party. So I’m guessing it’s gonna be an ongoing thing, but the thing that I did realize is every time this happened he had a huge developmental development., he can brush his teeth by himself. He’s putting on his own shoes. He’s looking at us way more and connecting to his peers. He’s hugging his teachers. Like a whole new child.😮
She’s such a beautiful angel. 😇 ❤
What a compassionate brother your son is. Sending Mikko and your family loads of love.
I absolutely love how Matthew came to comfort her! I think you guys are doing a wonderful job with all your children. Even though I don't have any small kids My kids are adults. But your videos are so informative and inspiring I just love to watch how you all grow as a family I think it's wonderful. I pray that God continues to bless you all and give y'all All the knowledge that you need for your family❤
Her brother is sooooo sweet. My heart goes out to them because I know it’s ruff. I also have a non verbal 3 year old granddaughter but she totally opposite of Mikko. She plays with other kids. And she goes to tumbling every Wednesday. She does everything but is just nonverbal. Watching your videos also keeps me aware of what could happen. I put her in daycare so she could get use to being around other people without have fits. It actually works. We are now trying to get her to go poop on the pot . We have the #1 on pot down to a science now but we working together to get her not to be scared of the big pot as well. This is not easy and you have to have a lot of patience with your kids and grandkids with autism. I appreciate you sharing and telling your truth. Your next steps is to get her to trust people other than her family. It must be done. Prayers up for strength and healing for Beautiful lil Mikko.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤎💯
Hi! I'm 31 autistic woman. I'm newly able to care for myself (last 2 years) Now, I bet yall didnt know late diagnosis can kill. It didnt, but with the exception of my loving family who are my only reason for being able to say I made it...its big scary feelings until you're loved genuinely and can open up. She'll open up. May it be that it does not take until 31. Life is precious. You're doing everything right the way I wish I had been raised. You are the light....(to the parents)❤❤❤❤
Watching her brings back memories of my grandson. He will be 15 in September. He does speak, that progressed up until he was almost 6. He is now home schooled. When the pandemic hit and the kids were not in school, his parents saw a great improvement in him. Without the stress of the social aspects of school, he is now an A student. Thank you for sharing with us, she is a bright, beautiful little girl.
Really think she should have some help outside the home. With mom it’s so easy for her to give in and let her have her way. Just think mom need to see if she would be stronger w/o mom being there and letting her give up.
Totally agree!👍🏽
The cutest is big brother being right there along her way. The melt in my heart was the end once she seen it didn’t hurt then her hugging you and saying thank you while tapping your back. Ugh melted my heart 😢🥰
You’re doing an amazing job. Love the sibling support. I’m wondering if it’s time to get outside help for you and Dad to learn some techniques and strategies. I’m not even sure what to suggest to help but I’m supporting you guys. I know we talk about that 3-4years old stage and it’s a powerful one. Wondering if that’s why Mikko is going through the stages but maybe it’s super heightened because of her autism. She’s going to get through this stage of life too. You’re awesome.
Hi Precious…I experienced this with my toddler, he’s the same age as Mikko. What I did was slowly start to take him around people more often, it’s a slow process but I feel like she will eventually open up. My son cried a lot initially but now he’s used to it. He was at the point where he would cry and run away when we had visitors at the door but now none of that. He struggles every now and then a tiny bit but for the most part he’s more comfortable. I see a huge change. I have faith that she will be fine. 😊
You are a beautiful mother with incredible patience and love! The way that you cared for her in this instance with the help from her brother is absolutely precious!! And what a sweet, loving brother she has too! 😊
I’m glad you guys are able to get her additional help and I’m sure you already know this but getting professional help does not make you any less of a competent, caring, loving parent. If anything I feel like it adds on to those parental qualities. I was diagnosed with autism as a 19 year old adult 3 years ago and social anxiety and struggling with being perceived is something I’ve always struggled with. After being diagnosed late in life, I have (and still am) experienced social and coping skills regression as I am learning to unmask and be my true self. Being diagnosed late, unmasking is hard but also freeing at the same time
I am so proud of you for sharing your experiences so that others can learn from you! That takes a tremendous amount of courage. TREMENDOUS! I have a high functioning autistic son who is now grown. I felt so ill-equipped to parent him. I had no training and little understanding of autism. As my son grew, I grew with him. One of his older sisters is now a behavioral therapist who works almost exclusively with non-verbal autistic children as young as 2 years old. Her love of her brother motivated her to find ways to help children with similar problems. As she went through college and began working in this field, she continually said, "Mom, these methods would have helped my brother so much, but they were not available when he was little." I sincerely hope and pray that you and your family can find the appropriate help for your daughter so that her anxiety is reduced and so that she will have ways to communicate her wants and needs. You are doing an amazing job with her! I know it's hard, but never give up on your precious little girl!
Her dad is the BOMB, he knows exactly what she needs.
If there is ever a silver lining in children having special challenges, it’s that their siblings grow up to be the most wonderful empathetic, loving, caring people in the world. The way they want to care and protect their siblings is so cute and so wonderful.
Such a good big brother. It warmed my heart to see how affectionate he was towards his little sister. I’m a baby sister too, and my big brother used to rock me to sleep as a baby. I love you guys!
May i kindly say that u should get her into a school that can service all her needs. I believe it would be beneficial to her growth.
Hello. I didn't want to comment and this might be a mouthful, but my son is a lot like Mikko. He will be 4 yrs in June. He is on the waiting list for the professionals to assess him for autism. My biggest challenge is public meltdowns. People's stare n shake their heads, which indicates that he's being rude or we failed at teaching him proper social manners. Until someone is brave enough to approach and ask, and we say why, then all who's close enough to hear will start showing some compassion. He's non-verbal, not a single word. He did at one time (18 mths) say words but stop suddenly, no warning. He's now seeing a Speech and language specialist. N he's attending a nursery. Nursery has helped a lot with his social anxiety. I admit we were blessed to get him an one n one teacher. Sometimes there's regression in his interactions and it depresses me. All we can do is pray and try.
Just the regular kind of social anxiety as an adult is hard to deal with, i cant imagine the level of frustration and anxiety it must make her feel 😢❤ keep your head up beautiful family
What a wonderful brother and young man your raising it’s beautiful to see his compassion for his baby sister
I can tell her regression is hitting you hard. I empathize. Before her regression it felt like she was growing and moving forward and even speaking some words (even if she was just repeating you). I can also relate to what you said about not dealing with change very well yourself. But I have to say, who does really? I don't think I've met even one person who just seamlessly glides from one situation to the next lol. 😅 Anyway, I was wondering if you and your husband have talked about maybe getting getting a counselor that specializes in autistic children for Mikko? My son has Tourette's (which I know is vastly different than ASD), and we used a wide variety of treatments available to him. I am not saying that you aren't doing an impeccable job. You are doing amazing, with her PT, with the way you handle yourself around her, with how you are helping others with your videos. I was just asking because the counseling may give you a tiny 1 hour break, and it may help her on top of what you are already doing.
I love the way that your son went to console her after she fell. She has an awesome big brother!! ❤❤❤
the brushing teeth!!! oh my ❤️ I’m an ABA behavior technician and those wins are so amazing to finally see!!
My 4y/o was diagnosed last month 🙏🏾🙏🏾 She mainly has social anxiety around adults, but with children she is completely fine.
Your son and oldest daughter are such awesome siblings 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
U need to get her professional help at this stage, “ hands On” she’s both progressing and regressing. That must be a lot for both of you guys.
There is a trigger. One just can’t understand what it is.
She doesn’t feel safe at the park yet.
Also think, I’ve heard RUclips is hard to balance for some families. Please remember the care of her personality. But I understand she does need exposure.
I was raised in special ed, and had that one on one help with professionals, it does help a bit more. A parent can only learn and do so much. She needs someone to help balance her, at her level. I see u trying.🙌🏾
As an Caribbean person. I’ve lived in a whole different environment for 12 years, and I cannot go outside anymore. Living up here is overwhelming for me, people makes me anxious. But my dr. said to go back outside, and it’s been hard.
I’m no where near Mika’s level, but I understand how hard, it is.. I’ve continuously experienced major changes from the age of 1/12 to 29.
Nd at this point, I like my own peace. I call and talk to people so it ain’t bad, and I see my friends sometimesss.
Bless you guys.🙏🏾
This little girl is too precious for words. Such a loving family, warms my heart.
God bless and keep you and your whole family. You are helping so many by sharing your story.
I am so happy she has you for a parent. Because some parents even when they know their child has special needs they will not be so calm and understanding like you.
Your son is so loving and gentle with her. Patiently holding her hand and reassuring her that everything will be okay ❤❤❤ what an amazing family you have!
When my son was four and he became anxious around others I would bring his favorite toy or manipulative for stimming that he used at home. People would look at him strange sometimes but it helped and gradually he became more comfortable.
You are so strong, and you are doing great. It can be a hard decision to hand over some of the weight to someone else, especially when a lot of those programs were harmful to their patients in the past. You are doing great, and you can do this even when times change and things move fast. You can do this even if you need outside help, no shame in asking for help.
I love how calm and loving you stay, and you can see the same caring nature in the young boy as well. ❤ Cheering you on!!
I live with my daughter, her husband, 13 year old daughter and 6 year old nonverbal autistic son. Life is a challenge daily, but the joy of small growths is worth it. I commend you for your patience. We have lots of eating and sleep issues. He’s also allergic to many things, including eggs and dairy. As a grandmother, my feeling is to just keep loving them deeply and being patient.
You are helping me so much ~
My son was recently diagnosed ~
I haven’t been able to stop crying ~ your strength is amazing
Mikko clearly feels and understands pain. She didn’t want anyone to touch her injury. Good job big brother!!! 🎉🙌🏾🙏🏽🤩Big brother really helped by getting bandaged first! Don’t be hard on yourself about having to write down your thoughts. Most of the greatest orators write and organize their thoughts. I wo in is just suggest that when Mikko pulls away (and I not endangering herself) give her a little space. Don’t be too anxious to grab and pull her close. It seems to escalate whatever she is going through.
The anxiety I sympathetic nervous system was thrown into as you attempted to bandage the scrape is insane!😵💫 Having siblings that are willing to "demonstrate" the process is very helpful. Give him extra hugs for being s supportive brother. 🤗 I know that he will not always be able to do this for her, but I'm so glad he is willing to help now. #GoodJobMommy! 🥰
So sorry for that experience. It's part of life. She'll be ok.
I try to keep surgical tape and gauze around.
Bactine(sp) is a spray antiseptic and may be easier to apply.
Precious, I feel that you have anxiety and because you are around Mikko all the time she notices it and acts accordingly. You were trying your best help her wound and she was crying and you stopped. It's almost like you don't want her to have any other emotion, but happiness and that's not realistic. You need to allow her to cry through some situations so you can help her. She needs to be in different environments and therapy for the family is needed because everyone involved is overwhelmed. I think she's growing into her own and not regressing. Please seek the resources so that Mikko can grow and be the best Mikko!❤
Perhaps regression is coming because of boredom 😅
Do you think it would help to send her to a daycare program for a couple of hours? One appropriate for autistic children, of course. Perhaps being around other kids would help? IDK. You're doing a wonderful job. 😘
I think that was a great idea when big brother came to show mikko how he could get his knee fix and he didn't get upset and you can see how she really watched him and then you could fix her knee in the same way. He is such a great big brother and thank you so much for showing mikko the way through!
I am a grown adult but I find things very hard to understand what doctors and nurses want to do if I can see someone else going first I find it so much easier to understand what they are doing or want to do. I do feel you are doing your very best but I still think it might be better to help you if you could get someone in to help you with giving ideas, suggestions and tips to help mikko. I really loved big brother giving mikko a hug and strokes to help her to keep calm whilst you were trying to clean and but a plaster on!
Matthew is an angel, what a great big bro comforting his sissy and helping to get her all bandaged up! 😢💕🥹 Miss Mikko is so precious. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us! ❤️
Autistic or not, this may sound counter intuitive, but sometimes the best thing for the kid is being AWAY from their parent for a bit & socialized with people trained to handle their needs. Kids respond to environments differently in the absence of the parents. Parents are needed but sometimes in these stages of development your presence is actually a hindrance to her. It’s not personal it’s developmental.
She's seeking the help of professionals the video notes say so. So they'll figure it out
I totally agree she needs to learn to be away from her safe space with parents .
So true and I hope she will get your point ❤❤❤
Precious, you and Chris are amazing parents to all of your children. Please don't let the "opinions" of others make you feel bad. God gave Mikko to you and Chris, not to the so called professionals who are commenting on what they think is best for your child. Mikko is loved, she is well-cared for and she is making strides on her own terms. When the time is right, I'm certain you'll know when she is ready for the next step, whatever that may be. Be encouraged and know there are many people in your corner who are praying for the success of your family. ❤️❤️
I think that was so nice & sweet of her brother right there by her side
Her brother is so tender with her. She is a lucky girl to have him.
What an adorable sweet brother!!❤❤❤ and what a genius patient sweet mom you are!! Wow I'm in awe. Much love to you!!❤❤❤
Please get Mikko some professional help and therapies outside of the house, get her into activities with other kids and take her to a support needs school. Kids need to interact with lots of people, not just their families.
You are doing a great job with Mikko! People who have never worked with special needs children think that you can just put them in time out or give the a smack on the bottom. I've been in situations as an adult thay were frightening or overwhelming and I'm positive that somebody smacking me would do nothing to help me calm down!
God bless your beautiful family and child. You seem like loving parents and hope that things will get better with professional assistance and guidance.
Her siblings are her heroes I understand it’s tough but I applaud you as a mother THANK the LORD for you as your children mother stay strong and stay in Prayers
GOD BLESS YOU🙏🏾🙏🏾
Take it one day at a time! Change will come all in Devine timing you know what’s best for Mikko and your family. Love watching you both grow and progress much love!
Have you tried having her watch old videos of herself too recollect when she could go out with others? Just a thought
Please don't give up on going out ❤
I love how her brother tries all he knows how to comfort his sister! So sweet! Good job parents❤😊