Be A Better Man: 6 Steps To Become The Best YOU Can Be

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2013
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    In this video professional men's style, grooming and fitness expert Aaron Marino of Alpha m and I Am Alpha M. Talks about 6 simple steps you can take in-order to be a better man. How to be a better man. How to change and become a better person for yourself and for others. I'm not a self help expert or anything, i am just a guy who wants you to succeed and be awesome! I sound like Oprah and Dr. Phil in this video but maybe you can get something out of it that will help you feel better. I want to help you become a confident man. Confidence is a vital part to your happiness and success. I think you are awesome!
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  • @Jeff-tj4tx
    @Jeff-tj4tx 9 лет назад +244

    i like what you said about having a plant. reminds me of an ancient quote:
    _to be happy for an hour, take a nap; to happy for a year, get married; to happy for a lifetime, have a garden._

    • @anthonyhamilton6843
      @anthonyhamilton6843 7 лет назад +3

      Wouldnt the marriage happiness last more than a year or was this quote taken from hollywood?

    • @Jeff-tj4tx
      @Jeff-tj4tx 7 лет назад +7

      anthony hamilton just ask guys who have been married longer than that. 4 out of 5 will tell you to stay single.

    • @anthonyhamilton6843
      @anthonyhamilton6843 7 лет назад +12

      Jeff Well then I must keep meeting the 5th guys with amazing families.

    • @sonnylummes3052
      @sonnylummes3052 6 лет назад +1

      suh dude you definitely are because i have never met that guy 😂

    • @RainOn2SunnyDay
      @RainOn2SunnyDay 6 лет назад +6

      The garden part means have many plants in your life, the nap and marriage are plants in the garden

  • @popeyethepirate5473
    @popeyethepirate5473 7 лет назад +163

    I started at the gym. picking up a dumbbell was the best decision I ever made.

    • @SheldonMap
      @SheldonMap 7 лет назад +26

      Ty Smith i picked up a dumbell once. it was my younger brother. i proceeded to throw him into the jacuzzi.

    • @BullMarketBandit
      @BullMarketBandit 6 лет назад +2

      Ty Smith I agree sooo much

    • @Vromvnn
      @Vromvnn 4 года назад

      I picked up a dumbbell, Uhh what changes now

    • @ttvkyberwolf6659
      @ttvkyberwolf6659 2 года назад

      I tried joining the military, cardio got addicting. I used to hate pushups when I was a little kid, now I love them. Bored? Drop and do 20, Feeling weak and useless? well drop and push the depression away a good 20 times.. etc..

  • @MrBraceface216
    @MrBraceface216 10 лет назад +192

    My car got broken into today... Shattered window, and sound system stolen. I felt proud of myself for the way I handled myself, specifically my attitude. It could have been a lot worse... In the end, it's fixable, I still have a working car, and I'm still alive. Attitude is key.

    • @MrLinuxFreak
      @MrLinuxFreak 6 лет назад

      happend to me today..im trying not to freak out..

    • @rayswagg33
      @rayswagg33 3 года назад

      Bett well I’m on the way for the rest now so keep the attitude great I’m helping you become a better person 🤣

  • @RaRFtv
    @RaRFtv 10 лет назад +133

    You're full of truth man.

  • @CherokeeAquatics
    @CherokeeAquatics 3 года назад +10

    Hey Alpha I know this video is old but I just wanted to say thank you for the motivation, I'm currently in a moment of my life where I'm starting to improve and be my best self. This video and everything else you teach
    means alot to me.

  • @KaiLuck
    @KaiLuck 10 лет назад +54

    Damn, this guy is very good looking.
    Also, he gives good advice. Usually, you would have professional speakers that have you pay to hear the same advice alpha m gives.

  • @PrateekSinghal
    @PrateekSinghal 7 лет назад +1

    My dad always loved nature & taking care of the garden he owns. People which are connected to nature & take care of it, are definitely different than others, in a very positive way.

  • @rgseven6557
    @rgseven6557 8 лет назад +8

    Your last point about fitness really struck a chord. I have not worked out for 1 year and kept postponing purchasing a gym membership. Now when i look back, i wish I had not procrastinated so much. I finally started working out though. Thanks a lot Alpha!

  • @carloscanas5195
    @carloscanas5195 10 лет назад

    I just got out of a long painful relationship, and lost my self years ago... im trying to reconnect again n start over, im actually glad I found this channel.

  • @TOMMAMOOSE69
    @TOMMAMOOSE69 10 лет назад +4

    The most simple, yet motivational talks I have ever heard.

  • @himanshumaharaj5029
    @himanshumaharaj5029 8 лет назад +20

    your the best person there is..
    thank you I hope u read this

  • @jasonwood9520
    @jasonwood9520 8 лет назад

    I am so thankful for your videos. I love how you go beyond just style, and grooming and your sense of humor just makes it that much more easy to start this work in progress i call me.

  • @s99bf0c8
    @s99bf0c8 10 лет назад +18

    It is difficult to be genuinely interested in other people when you genuinely could n't care less about them!

    • @chrisn9764
      @chrisn9764 10 лет назад +17

      Then your social circle is not the right one.

  • @razvanyke
    @razvanyke 8 лет назад +6

    Dude .. this is honestly the best video/advice/inspiration I had in 2016 .. much appreciated.

  • @zwarriorkai
    @zwarriorkai 10 лет назад +1

    Just watching this helps boosts self esteem. It motivates me to be a better person, so on the off chance that nobody is telling you that you make a difference in people's lives, here it is my friend. You make a difference

  • @rgseven6557
    @rgseven6557 9 лет назад +1

    Thanks for the tips man. Really appreciate it.

  • @mpxz999
    @mpxz999 8 лет назад +3

    Definitely sensible advice, and a needed pickmeup.
    Thanks Alpha

  • @nonameanonymos
    @nonameanonymos 10 лет назад +6

    You gave me something to think about. Thank you^^

  • @leahveal9501
    @leahveal9501 10 лет назад +1

    I loves this video! Very encouraging. I will share this with all my guy friends!

  • @tehtic1470
    @tehtic1470 5 лет назад

    Always watch you, love to see you get back to this type of video. Great reflection for me!

  • @mangoesgonewild
    @mangoesgonewild 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks for the tips and vids! :)

  • @patriciadelrosario1255
    @patriciadelrosario1255 6 лет назад

    Thanks for all the tips. I always enjoy what you have to say!

  • @MrFernandonyc
    @MrFernandonyc 10 лет назад +2

    Nice video and very good advice. I liked it !

  • @PhenHarrison
    @PhenHarrison 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks for another awesome message, man! Good video! Very encouraging! Keep up the great work and have a happy thanksgiving!

  • @the_sheepywolffreerungamin1938
    @the_sheepywolffreerungamin1938 8 лет назад +1

    Thanks so much man!

  • @evanderfisher3998
    @evanderfisher3998 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks really helpful!!

  • @jeremycorrea919
    @jeremycorrea919 10 лет назад +1

    Seriously, this is one of your best videos. Towards the end of the video i felt as if you were really talking to me. I felt as if what your doing is truly for all of our aspirations. What your doing is great and i don't doubt your sincerity at all any longer. Great video

  • @subhadipsamadder8456
    @subhadipsamadder8456 7 лет назад

    thank you sir...your videos are extremely helpful..with the help of these videos my personality,way of thinking,etc has improved a lot...

  • @TheLlamabomb
    @TheLlamabomb 10 лет назад +1

    Great video!

  • @disciples233
    @disciples233 10 лет назад

    Awesome vid thanks for putting this up.

  • @davion.258
    @davion.258 5 лет назад

    Really great advices. I wonder why I couldn't find this soon.. Thank you so much. :)

  • @specimenairsoft3869
    @specimenairsoft3869 7 лет назад +71

    When he started dancing I laughed so hard I choked on my saliva XD

    • @gregd2757
      @gregd2757 6 лет назад

      Oh, your "saliva", huh?

  • @ammarboro6089
    @ammarboro6089 9 лет назад +3

    I'm gonna start being an Alpha M to start changing my life. Thanks for the tips :)

  • @Mikey.Henderson
    @Mikey.Henderson 4 года назад

    Thanks for the encouragement brother

  • @rewind7900
    @rewind7900 10 лет назад

    Great advice man, thanks. My appartment is such a mess right now, gonna clean it up nicely first thing in the morning.

  • @mercy6263
    @mercy6263 6 лет назад +4

    What I like about myself is I hate talking or specifically hate shallow conversation with people so that one thing is what I will not change. :)

  • @derekgarcia6886
    @derekgarcia6886 8 лет назад

    Your a big help in everything I do now and how I carry myself thanks Alpha

  • @numgun
    @numgun 10 лет назад

    Your videos have actually given me motivation for self-improvement and have helped me. Thank you.

  • @MdRafi-rr5mi
    @MdRafi-rr5mi 8 лет назад

    TNXXXX man for making this videos your videos helps , a a lot

  • @taijamesglasson
    @taijamesglasson 10 лет назад

    Nice vid man, I dig your message

  • @johnnykaytv
    @johnnykaytv 10 лет назад

    Great advice! thnx for what your doing Aaron!

  • @legendmir1
    @legendmir1 8 лет назад

    great vid thankyou!

  • @5h466y
    @5h466y 10 лет назад +1

    This has been so far your best video. I send you my regards!.

  • @quintonblackwell2951
    @quintonblackwell2951 5 лет назад

    Thank you for the video. Greatly appreciate the information.

  • @101unpredictable
    @101unpredictable 10 лет назад

    Thank you Alpha, would appreciate it if you did more fitness videos !

  • @johnpaulpersad8997
    @johnpaulpersad8997 5 лет назад +1

    I want to say thank you for making this vid, I am three yrs late on saying thx. I watched this vid after my second yr of my degree and I was dealing with alot of personal issues and trying to find out more about myself and this vid helped alot (Especially the plant!). Thanks very very much!!!

  • @mohamedboudchich9126
    @mohamedboudchich9126 9 лет назад +2

    Very interesting video. Thanks man

  • @burn625
    @burn625 10 лет назад +3

    great stuff!!

  • @ZTFProduction
    @ZTFProduction 8 лет назад +1

    Thanks bro !

  • @Nothaniel
    @Nothaniel 10 лет назад +1

    Thank you for these uplifting videos :)

  • @umarmuhammad4566
    @umarmuhammad4566 10 лет назад

    Great stuff bro

  • @savannafc
    @savannafc 10 лет назад

    Aaron, you're right man, it is an ongoing work in progress. 2 yrs ago I started watching your vids and I worked on my attitude and style, and man guess what? I ended up falling in love and getting married. It's like magic. Now I find myself letting myself go, this vid is a great reminder at what amazing shit I can accomplish by taking care of myself. Thank you! Keep it up!!!

  • @M4NA5
    @M4NA5 10 лет назад +1

    Great Video. This helped, thanks man!

  • @omkeshthorat3544
    @omkeshthorat3544 8 лет назад

    ur advice is really great...ty for enliting

  • @constancefreak5204
    @constancefreak5204 8 лет назад +12

    this guy is awesome. A genuine man

  • @gmjacinto630
    @gmjacinto630 10 лет назад +1

    Preach!! Have a great Thanksgiving Aaron!

  • @erikdude95
    @erikdude95 9 лет назад +2

    This video has helped me immensly. Thank you

  • @angelbenavides3538
    @angelbenavides3538 10 лет назад

    Thank You.I can tell this advice is going to change me and do better in my life

  • @jonyb0b13
    @jonyb0b13 10 лет назад +1

    Once again thank you for an amazing video.

  • @AstroooCareySSG
    @AstroooCareySSG 3 года назад

    Sometimes we know the right answers but need to hear them from someone else. I started my change last week before seeing this now . Thanks for reassuring I was on the right path

  • @brandonvelasquez8758
    @brandonvelasquez8758 8 лет назад

    thanks dude. I'll get in shape now.

  • @ibti0001
    @ibti0001 10 лет назад

    As always, hats off to my Metor Aren!! keep up the good work.

  • @Mensdivorcecoach
    @Mensdivorcecoach 3 года назад +1

    Aaron, without a doubt you gave me more confidence when I needed it. Thank you

  • @ildevilon
    @ildevilon 10 лет назад

    Awesome vid!

  • @CoachFrank79
    @CoachFrank79 8 лет назад

    great advice bro

  • @LectorSector
    @LectorSector 10 лет назад

    the health part really speaks to me, im always putting off stopping smoking and changing my diet and it,s so true that if i started when i first had the idea too i would be a long way down the road already! starting a new from now thanks m8

  • @JusticeForPinoys
    @JusticeForPinoys 10 лет назад

    Thanks man!

  • @GL1TCH92
    @GL1TCH92 10 лет назад

    This is a very video. Thank Aaron, this is very helpful and I'm going to be taking your advise, and I shall be doing me best to be the better man. Thank you. ps Good use of movie quotes

  • @burnscrash6517
    @burnscrash6517 10 лет назад

    good advice thanks

  • @crixteanexpi3374
    @crixteanexpi3374 7 лет назад

    Thank you man I really needed this 😃

  • @Valstranger15
    @Valstranger15 8 лет назад

    Many thanks for all the great videos.

  • @mariasimental1337
    @mariasimental1337 10 лет назад

    I've watched your Social playlist. I loved all your videos. Mind you I am a woman. Granted some topics didn't directly apply to me but they really helped me out. Thanks for all your words of wisdom!

  • @chadmikaels
    @chadmikaels 8 лет назад +1

    Great videos man...was curious as to what you are wearing on your lapel?

  • @MahmoudMontasserTV
    @MahmoudMontasserTV 7 лет назад

    Great! Thanks Alpha

  • @NhemLee
    @NhemLee 9 лет назад

    Boy... What a great vid haha. Beautiful. Needed a healthy dose of this. Subscribed.

  • @arthurvaronaav
    @arthurvaronaav 10 лет назад

    Your words hit deep friend

  • @mrzayas81
    @mrzayas81 10 лет назад +2

    Amazing tips hermanito,I agree 1000%

  • @viewer608
    @viewer608 10 лет назад +2

    Have seen loads and loads of Alpha's videos and I think I like this one the best of all. Fully dressed and talking the best. I could go without the fully dressed part but still would enjoy the talking the best. Thanks.

  • @rishabhpathak134
    @rishabhpathak134 7 лет назад

    thank u sir for giving this video is will try to go with it

  • @harimanikanta1
    @harimanikanta1 10 лет назад

    Great job ,this is the thing most people need !!

  • @Pumalover2
    @Pumalover2 8 лет назад

    Mate I LOVE YOU keep posting these amazing videos.

  • @AK.
    @AK. 10 лет назад

    Fantastic content!

  • @therealdavidmatthews
    @therealdavidmatthews 10 лет назад

    This is great stuff my friend. Kudos to you!

  • @Mish4111
    @Mish4111 8 лет назад +2

    Thanks for this video helped me a lot ❤️

  • @macaronieallen437
    @macaronieallen437 10 лет назад

    This video is really funny! And I noticed aaron now dons a shorter hairstyle which in my opinion suits him much better! Good on you aaron and thanks for all the advice!

  • @haneefpeters4066
    @haneefpeters4066 9 лет назад

    Wow, my first time seeing alpha m. Video and I love it. New subscriber.

  • @ankursaraf4844
    @ankursaraf4844 8 лет назад

    Thanks Alot man.!

  • @jaimefantastic8525
    @jaimefantastic8525 6 лет назад

    Thank you man.

  • @tylarex
    @tylarex 8 лет назад +1

    Incredible video

  • @alejandrocutshair
    @alejandrocutshair 6 лет назад

    Solid advice! Definitely true and worth a try.

  • @Sunflowrrunner
    @Sunflowrrunner 10 лет назад

    All good advice. I've suffered from self esteem issues quite a bit myself, but in the last year I've really made an effort to change myself for the better. I think that is a really key step - you must realize that it is going to to take a conscious effort as well as a physical one to change and at times it will be difficult. Another one for me is I had to quit drinking so often and smoking pot every day. You can't think as clearly or be as motivated to achieve goals when you're fucked up all the time. Something that really helped me to get on track is to start writing down goals. Everything from to-do lists like "get groceries" to fitness goals like "run five miles" and general personality goals like, "Be a hard worker at work, don't slack off." Nothing makes you feel better than being able to look at the things you actually achieved or motivates you than to have to stare at a list of shit you need to do.
    I also really recommend keeping a journal so you can review your wishes/wants/desires and figure out what it is you want to do or more importantly who you want to be. You need to start from where you are and make incremental changes. Figure out what shit you're doing that doesn't work for you and what you need to do to change it. Look at what you like about yourself and how to improve it. When I first started this process I was overwhelmed with negativity, but I started to slowly chip away at goals and see change in myself and have slowly become more confident and hopeful.
    I think I can identify with Ben's outlook. I used to always identify with the opening line from the Radiohead's "Talk Show Host" - "I want to be someone else or I'll explode." and now I've realized my own value change I've changed my mantra to, "I want to be a better me."
    Anyway, I hope this helps someone.

  • @michelangelobuonarroti3752
    @michelangelobuonarroti3752 9 лет назад

    Bravo, Mr. Marino. Keep it going.

  • @L2PlayRunescape
    @L2PlayRunescape 10 лет назад +1

    Wow what a great video.

  • @wildone106
    @wildone106 10 лет назад

    Awesome this means a lot..thanks

  • @italodiscohd
    @italodiscohd 9 лет назад

    Thank you for doing this video. You´re a great man!

  • @hotheadsniper
    @hotheadsniper 10 лет назад

    thanks man!

  • @HARRY-qc4di
    @HARRY-qc4di 8 лет назад

    Great job bro..

  • @bipintiwari36
    @bipintiwari36 9 лет назад

    Thank you bro for your videos it inspires me to do better.

  • @FazalPatiwala
    @FazalPatiwala 8 лет назад

    yeah. get in shape.

  • @brucecolemancfo5087
    @brucecolemancfo5087 7 лет назад +1

    alpha.m I love your videos and the way you dress. You're so inspirational. love you! :)