IN THIS WEEK’S VIDEO: If you are struggling in your current (or past) relationships 👫then this video is for you! The relationship could be intimate, platonic, family, coworkers or friends and the advice will be the same. First let me start by saying how much I understand how difficult people can be at times; how insensitive, rude, disrespectful, abusive and dysfunctional humans can be. I want to acknowledge this so that you know this struggle isn’t entirely your fault 🤗! And even if the other person is 99% at fault for the stress, dysfunction or drama, we need to look at and own our participation in it. To further help you master this process, check out this week’s 🎬Mind Right Monday Episode dedicated to ending the cycle of self-sabotage in relationships! CHECK OUT OUR OTHER VIDEOS ON : ► 3-Steps To Ending Self-Sabotage ruclips.net/video/r9DxaFLR2zg/видео.html ► 3 Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Your Emotional Intelligence ruclips.net/video/CqwKEBRl38M/видео.html ► 4 Biggest Blocks That Sabotage Your Success ruclips.net/video/yaYWYL8XXyU/видео.html ► Tired Of Sabotaging Your Fitness And Nutrition Goals? Get Your Mind Right! ruclips.net/video/VgROnQpjPr0/видео.html ★★★ BEST IDEAS ★★★ (3:36) Tip #1 Recognize when past experiences are triggering your sabotage. (5:32) Quote #1 "There is no one way to heal from any trauma. Each survivor chooses their own path or stumbles across it." -Laurie Matthew (6:26) Tip #2 Heal your past hurts. (8:38) Quote #2 "There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love." - Bryant H. McGill (9:51) Tip #3 Get real with what you want out of and how you want to show up in the relationship. (12:03) Quote #3 "How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yous." - Wayne Dyer SOCIAL: Twitter ► goo.gl/ZKhK5r Facebook ► goo.gl/TNHpPE Instagram ► goo.gl/p51ZDH iTunes Podcast ► COMING SOON! Vlog ► bonniekelly.me/vblog/ MY PRODUCTS & COURSES: 21 Day Emotional Detox Program (Snag 7-Days Free) ► goo.gl/X1uezj 3-Secrets To Lasting Self-Confidence (FREE 3-Part Video Series) ►goo.gl/e8MtzY True To Your Core: Uncovering the Subconscious Beliefs that Wreak Havoc on Your Life (Book & Kindle) ► goo.gl/6TgzYf WANT TO BE COACHED BY ME? Are you ready to commit to the change you have been searching for? Let’s Talk! To apply for The Over It Academy send us an email: GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me (serious applicants only). SCHEDULE YOUR FREE SESSION NOW: calendly.com/bonniekelly/20-min SEND US YOUR TOPICS: Have a Personal Dev. Questions You would love to see answered? We want to hear them! Email us at GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me - We are here for you every step of the way! XOXO, Bonnie Kelly
right now I am in no in contact with my ex/girlfriend I guess I’m not really sure what we are right now, and doing some research trying to figure out what the issue is I think one of my issues I have I self sabotage your relationship is we are in a long-distance relationship and she brought it to my attention every single time we are going to see each other that week I start an argument over something little and I noticed she was right I did do stuff like that at first I thought maybe it was just a coincidence but it kept happening
Thank you very much! This tips are going to help me a lot. I found the perfect guy, he is sweet and has everything I want on a man but I’m always starting arguments and looking for flaws because I’m afraid to be hurt. I needed this! Thank you!!
You are most welcome! How are things going now? Have you been able to break the cycle? I've got some amazing videos that might be even more helpful. You can get access to the replays by signing up here: bonniekelly.me/root-master-class
Slowly getting better! Stopped dating the same types of people. Started making myself happy and letting myself be vulnerable. Recognizing when I get irritable and taking a step back.
I used to be patient with my love and now he is so nice to me I became angry and defensive about anything he says he told me that I've changed a lot as if I'm pushing him away only to prove to myself that it's okay if he leaves me I will be fine I'm struggling a lot
Good video and value information for a successful relationship. I've ended all of my relationships for one reason or another just after the 1 year mark. I finally realized that I was the problem not them!
This mindset only leads to a person possible suicide thoughts from studies show most are from out of no where break up and divorce sadly I hope wish everyone always have mind to seek help or think of others more than them self
For me, me and my bf started to talk about having a baby and get married. But I am in a spiritual awakening at the moment so my ego is trying to destroy and make me unhappy
Oh no! I’m sorry to hear that! Our ego is often tied to deep rooted subconscious belief patterns that fuel our self-sabotage. Let us know how we could help
Thank you for sharing! This is very common. Our past wounds often will reappear in new relationships and Forgiveness is a powerful way to help you get back to present. Have you checked out any of our forgiveness videos? Learning to forgive (without forgetting) will be super helpful in shifting this dynamic.
Guys, don't cohabitate, commingle financially, dispose of your wrapper, don't marry, and 99.99% of these and similar issues will magically never happen.
IN THIS WEEK’S VIDEO:
If you are struggling in your current (or past) relationships 👫then this video is for you! The relationship could be intimate, platonic, family, coworkers or friends and the advice will be the same.
First let me start by saying how much I understand how difficult people can be at times; how insensitive, rude, disrespectful, abusive and dysfunctional humans can be. I want to acknowledge this so that you know this struggle isn’t entirely your fault 🤗!
And even if the other person is 99% at fault for the stress, dysfunction or drama, we need to look at and own our participation in it.
To further help you master this process, check out this week’s 🎬Mind Right Monday Episode dedicated to ending the cycle of self-sabotage in relationships!
CHECK OUT OUR OTHER VIDEOS ON :
► 3-Steps To Ending Self-Sabotage ruclips.net/video/r9DxaFLR2zg/видео.html
► 3 Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Your Emotional Intelligence ruclips.net/video/CqwKEBRl38M/видео.html
► 4 Biggest Blocks That Sabotage Your Success ruclips.net/video/yaYWYL8XXyU/видео.html
► Tired Of Sabotaging Your Fitness And Nutrition Goals? Get Your Mind Right! ruclips.net/video/VgROnQpjPr0/видео.html
★★★ BEST IDEAS ★★★
(3:36) Tip #1 Recognize when past experiences are triggering your sabotage.
(5:32) Quote #1 "There is no one way to heal from any trauma. Each survivor chooses their own path or stumbles across it." -Laurie Matthew
(6:26) Tip #2 Heal your past hurts.
(8:38) Quote #2 "There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love." - Bryant H. McGill
(9:51) Tip #3 Get real with what you want out of and how you want to show up in the relationship.
(12:03) Quote #3 "How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yous." - Wayne Dyer
SOCIAL:
Twitter ► goo.gl/ZKhK5r
Facebook ► goo.gl/TNHpPE
Instagram ► goo.gl/p51ZDH
iTunes Podcast ► COMING SOON!
Vlog ► bonniekelly.me/vblog/
MY PRODUCTS & COURSES:
21 Day Emotional Detox Program (Snag 7-Days Free) ► goo.gl/X1uezj
3-Secrets To Lasting Self-Confidence (FREE 3-Part Video Series) ►goo.gl/e8MtzY
True To Your Core: Uncovering the Subconscious Beliefs that Wreak Havoc on Your Life (Book & Kindle) ► goo.gl/6TgzYf
WANT TO BE COACHED BY ME?
Are you ready to commit to the change you have been searching for? Let’s Talk! To apply for The Over It Academy send us an email: GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me (serious applicants only).
SCHEDULE YOUR FREE SESSION NOW:
calendly.com/bonniekelly/20-min
SEND US YOUR TOPICS:
Have a Personal Dev. Questions You would love to see answered? We want to hear them! Email us at GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me - We are here for you every step of the way!
XOXO,
Bonnie Kelly
right now I am in no in contact with my ex/girlfriend I guess I’m not really sure what we are right now, and doing some research trying to figure out what the issue is I think one of my issues I have I self sabotage your relationship is we are in a long-distance relationship and she brought it to my attention every single time we are going to see each other that week I start an argument over something little and I noticed she was right I did do stuff like that at first I thought maybe it was just a coincidence but it kept happening
Thank you very much! This tips are going to help me a lot. I found the perfect guy, he is sweet and has everything I want on a man but I’m always starting arguments and looking for flaws because I’m afraid to be hurt. I needed this! Thank you!!
You are most welcome! How are things going now? Have you been able to break the cycle? I've got some amazing videos that might be even more helpful. You can get access to the replays by signing up here: bonniekelly.me/root-master-class
God I needed this video..I've been asking my self whether I'm self sabotaging or actually getting myself out of a toxic or bad relationship
Slowly getting better! Stopped dating the same types of people. Started making myself happy and letting myself be vulnerable. Recognizing when I get irritable and taking a step back.
I used to be patient with my love and now he is so nice to me I became angry and defensive about anything he says he told me that I've changed a lot as if I'm pushing him away only to prove to myself that it's okay if he leaves me I will be fine I'm struggling a lot
Thank you for this! I was looking for something for someone else and found this video and you!
Good video and value information for a successful relationship. I've ended all of my relationships for one reason or another just after the 1 year mark. I finally realized that I was the problem not them!
So powerful to make those connections!! Thanks for sharing
This mindset only leads to a person possible suicide thoughts from studies show most are from out of no where break up and divorce sadly I hope wish everyone always have mind to seek help or think of others more than them self
For me, me and my bf started to talk about having a baby and get married. But I am in a spiritual awakening at the moment so my ego is trying to destroy and make me unhappy
Oh no! I’m sorry to hear that! Our ego is often tied to deep rooted subconscious belief patterns that fuel our self-sabotage. Let us know how we could help
When ur literally all the “flavors” ...................
Amazing video, thank you.
Thank you for this information
Amazing love this video! Great work ✨
Thanks so much!!
I am completely incapable of doing any of this. Just let it end already.
Thank you so much.. Recovery is best.. Forgiveness is best..
Amen! Forgiveness is the key! Thanks for watching!
My biggest fear is attracting yet another narcissist.. why am I on their radar? 😞
Does this happen in long term relationships more than short term?
My bf isn’t my ex & I see myself defending myself like I’m still with my ex
Thank you for sharing! This is very common. Our past wounds often will reappear in new relationships and Forgiveness is a powerful way to help you get back to present. Have you checked out any of our forgiveness videos? Learning to forgive (without forgetting) will be super helpful in shifting this dynamic.
I cheat out of fear
Same
Hmm Yh I’m trying to be different xx
Guys, don't cohabitate, commingle financially, dispose of your wrapper, don't marry, and 99.99% of these and similar issues will magically never happen.
I know this is years old but I really need help. This would really be a very helpful
your cart on the page is not working. To open up the rest of the program
I sent down and I become really stupid