With the beige moms thing - There’s a mother on tiktok who’s home is gothic themed and even she has a room full of baby toys and color that her child plays in. If she can understand that her kid needs color then these beige moms can too, they just have a massive ego.
Can we talk about how weird it is that “beige moms” are trying to own the term? reclaiming the fact that you’re stealing colour and developmental factors from your child to fit your egotistical style just feels wrong.
Some people's hair color would be considered "beige" if it was on a piece of textile. The biggest surprise to me is that it had nothing to do with that.
she has like 5 kids and all their rooms are full of color so it not all black, but it is mostly black (I'm not trying to be mean I thought I would tell you)
Imagine a kid being so happy getting a new toy, only to come home from school the next day to smell that chemical smell and realize that their mom spray painted it 😭
I have experienced with this comment. My parents used to spray paint mine and my sisters toys. Although, they almost always use primar, and protective layers, when they didn't it usually wore off because we played with it so much. And they spray painted them for completely different reasons, they just did it because it was usually so girly and me and my sisters didn't like it, they did it because they were putting us first, like a PARENT
Another thing that puzzles me is that many of the vlogging moms who are in their 20s look like what elementary and middle schoolers used to look like before Y2K, and vloggers in their 30s frequently look like high schoolers from back then. Since looking and sounding so young usually comes from a non-smoking lifestyle, props to these generations for purging their surroundings of tobacco, but anyone who remembers what K-12 students looked like last millennium would probably judge them for marrying and having children at that young, and I'm surprised more people don't think of that as a deterrent to parent vlogging.
My family goes boy, girl (me), boy … and if my mom referred to herself as a “boy mom” I’d be devastated. That lady’s daughters know that she feels differently about her son than them, sadly.
You're already in a bad position as the middle child (fellow middle child here). I can imagine how much worse it would be if your mother decided she was a boy mom.
I'm also the middle child and only girl. my mom isn't like these boy moms, but she definitely prefers them over me. she resents me for being a reflection of everything she hates about herself.
Come to think of it, perhaps the bloggers in question should be grateful there ever came a day their sons didn't have to be changed every few hours. After wearing them for just under 5 years, I never take for granted that any child will be out of them quickly. Footnote: By "changed", imagine what most boys wear until they're 3 or 4 y.o.
Another thing that I feel fits here, is how BABY clothes are being sexualized. Like, for boys, the writing is about how they're a "ladies man" and stuff like that, and for girls it's about how they're "insecure" about something. (The reason why I put insecure in quotes is because they're a baby. They can't comprehend insecurity unless some serious abuse/neglect is happening in the house.)
Some of the baby clothes I have seen made me lose hope in humanity. 1. Who came up with that? 2. Who manufacuted it without question? 3. Who put that up for sale and was ok with it? 4. Who saw that and thought "yeah that's fine to put on my literal infant, I'll buy it"?
@@wolvie1618 Exactly!! What's even worse is a whole bunch of people thought "Yeah, this is a good design for a BABY" and accepted it. It is disgusting how the world is turning out :/ I just hope people will come to their senses that this is not ok.
I once saw a picture online of a shirt for baby girls that said "Does this diaper make my butt look big?" And I’ve lost almost all of faith in humanity (not like my faith in humanity was a lot to begin with..)
Or children's clothes for girls just being smaller versions of women's clothes. Like even shorts for toddlers are shorter for girl's shorts than boy's. Though i do think that people treating their little girls as baby dolls that they can "dress up all pretty" is part of the issue. Call me crazy but some people should just buy a life-size doll instead of having kids because at least the doll won't grow up to resent them
the way some parents are sexist are kind of crazy ; they want a certain gender for a kid and they get very pissed and act like they don't want their kid when they're the so called "wrong" gender
yeah its like a whole thing w men sometimes too, and like both sides are equally fucked bc like??? WHY HAVE A KID IF U WANTED TO *WINDOW SHOP* ???? like those gender reveal videos are kind of en example, some of them r scripted but some of them ppl actually ACT LIKE THAT BRO😭😭
If you're going to be a parent and have biological children, then you better be able to accept the fact that they could come out any gender, and heck, they might even be trans. If you are so unbelievably hung up on a kid's gender, then adopt, that way you already know, but even then you shouldn't be a parent anyway because why on earth are you putting so much importance on what is in a CHILD'S pants?? Your child's well being should be priority, not their gender.
I like to joke that I felt bad for my mom getting three boys in a row so I transitioned. She loved all of us so much and I am so happy to still have her in my life but the way that she interacts with me after transitioning and before transitioning really made me realize how much she missed having feminine people around her.
@@ClownsjustcuzAesthetic is the appearance and vibes, esthetics is skin care and beauty, asthetics is a good way to spell it if you don't know. Have a good day!
Another thing about beige moms is that spray painting toys is NOT SAFE. Children, especially babies and toddlers, will put everything in their mouths, and while the paint originally used in those toys has passed multiple tests to approve its safety, that beige spray paint probably didn't.
Even if it was checked, as a kid i had the habit of PEELING my toys....what if another kid did that and started eating the peeled of paint.?? Because i thought of doing it as a kid, but my mom had her eyes on me all the time
The worst part is how many people they manage to abuse in their wake, their sons will forever struggle, their daughters are abused emotionally and can be abused by the son, the future partners of the boys.. their emotional incest is actually abuse. Twisted love is gag worthy, but hearing a lovey breakup song and thinking of your toddler son as a grown man 'replacing' you with 'another' woman?!" throwing up.
exactly my father's mum was toxic person in general. Who used her mental health issues to get attention from my father. As a child he visit her in 'the hospital' clinic after nervous breakdown.
My grandmother is a boy mom to one of my uncles and OH MY GOD, when I tell you that it's the most INFURIATING thing ever, no one can "bother" him (ask for favors, ask things), he can't clean his dishes, he can't stay out until night because my grandmother will stay up until he's back, he can't go to his girlfriend's house because my grandma will throw a tantrum. Because of how spoiled he is, he has big and aggressive anger issues. He'll scream, curse, punch things, lock himself in his room, and throw tantrums at my grandmother. That man is 42 years old, I repeat, 42 YEARS OLD.
This whole time I assumed you were talking about, like, a teenager or young man, and I felt so much pity bc I knew she was setting him up for failure. All that pity dried up when you said he's FORTY TWO. Poor fucker is beyond saving. She ruined his life.
A few years ago I dated a guy whose mom was a toxic boy mom. And I know this cause she despised me JUST for ‘taking her son away from her’ and said I ‘didn’t know her son well’ at the time I was 16 (so was he) and she thought his brothers ex, a 20yr old woman was better. He ended up being a total jerk.
yeah guys raised in that environment are pretty much completely groomed into thinking everything can and WILL just be handed to them and they feel entitled to it and pitch a hissy fit when any amnt of reciprocation is required from them bc the thing w this sort of thing, you either wake up one day and realize your childhood fucked you up and FIX that, or you forever live in this constructed fantasy world and its a rlly sad existence tbh
Im not a parent but i take care of my younger siblings alot and i have never EVER felt the need to post them online AT ALL i dont get why you would want to expose them to hundreds of strangers online
my son turns 3 soon, I have never had the urge to post 85 pictures of him a week or make tiktoks of him for the entire world to see. I can't understand what's going through their minds
As a mom, I want super badly to share the kids I love with the world, show how proud I am, and keep family in the loop. But that's not feasibly possible while maintaining their safety, and their future comfort/ control of their personality and presence. So.... I don't. They're adorable boys, and so friendly, and innocent- as kids should be. Those are all magnets for predators and I am not capable of risking that for some "likes" or interested in providing the wrong people with material they shouldn't have. "Innocent" or not. Parents: you can simply.....not. so.....dont.
@svedkalou4822 I would send pictures of them to close friends and family if they're doing somthing funny or just somewhere new but not to lots of random strangers online,you never know who's on the other end
@little_cat6 oh yeah, don't get me wrong- I privately message loved ones all the time lol. My point is more that posting them on social media can't be as strictly contained, and is potentially dangerous.
the idea of strangers potentially saving pictures of my child to do who knows what with them, was enough for me to wipe every trace of my kid off my socials years ago.
"Single, stay-at-home mom" My god lady, get a JOB. I hate that that's her reason for exploting her daughter. She's single and a stay at home parent who uses her daughter as her cash cow. Sorry lady you can't be a stay at home parent without a partner bringing in money(no children don't count). And a majority of single parents work hard to provide their kids a good life, unlike her.
It litterally caught me off guard when I heard it. Like wdym single stay at home parent?? Even if she has no diploma or qualifications, she can still get a minimum wage job and use content creation as a second source of income (without exploiting her daughter, obviously). It's just an excuse to justify the fact that doesn't wanna put in any effort to earn money and would much rather sell her daughter online for easy cash instead. It's just vile.
9:41 deadass NO bc like, i was in the livingroom and myh little sister had just done her makeup (Shes like 5 and its a little toy makeup set) and she comes out and shes all like how do i look and my grandpa deadass said ooooh, sexy! and i almost stabbed him in the earhole with a pencil. like, thats fuckin crazy lmao
I'm a girl (biologically). Mom told me stories about my MALE relatives saying how I'm "flirty" because I smiled a lot. I was literally a baby/toddler. And surprisingly when my brother was born none of the relatives said that about him when he smiled. At the same time I was praised for being such a "good girl and future perfect wife" (I was quiet, I did quite a bit of chores including helping mom to take care of my brother while everything I did was out fear because my father was abusive towards me and being quiet was coping mechanism) and whenever my brother misbehaved everyone said that "boys will be boys" and how mom shouldn't do anything about it because he'll grow out of it. I was always told that when I'm in a relationship I should take care of everything, while my brother was told to expect his future girlfriend/wife to take care of stuff like cooking and cleaning. I'm 21 now and in a relationship where we split the chores 50/50 because we're both working and mostly he's back home earlier than me (he's a carpenter and I work at a gift shop at the zoo)
Misogyny has stunted a lot of people's growth cuz omfg..... Irreversible childhood trauma all stemming from sexism, also I'm sure your brother is gonna be hit with the cold water that women nowadays won't be some sub trad wife he expects them to be, hopefully you can have a talk to him about this cause he will end up like an incel l0s3r
In my personal opinion if you want your house to fit your aesthetic follow Reby Hardy (Gothic Baby). The nursery is all black, very Victorian era, but she has a room that’s full of colors for all her children to play in. Alongside the fact that her house has themed rooms with different colors, like her gym (purple and green), her arcade room also has a bunch of different colors. And correct me if I’m wrong but her older children’s rooms are all decorated the way they want.
As a wrestling fan and a fan of her husband and brother in law for a long time, yess, her boys have cool rooms themed to what they like, like Minecraft and games, like that house today is stunning and like a fun house compared to when I first watched Matt’s house tour on the Twist Of Fate dvd and when they used it for the web series w his brother and Shannon (childhood friend), it has definitely come a long way 😅
I remember in school when we had internet safety courses. We really need to bring those back because children need to know what kind of creeps and monsters are out there and what they look like and how they act.
@@wolvie1618 yeah, and parents these days are so obsessed with the internet themselves, they can't be bothered to teach their children how to be safe. When I was in school, they had us watch those PSA movies where a little girl is talking to someone online pretending to be a boy her age, and when they meet up it's a middle aged man. They cracked down HARD on internet safety.
I’ve said this before, but I’m pretty meticulous about my decor and I really like having consistency in my aesthetic. BUT, when I adopted my kitty last fall, I immediately bought him all the hideous furry feathery jingle bell toys his little kitty heart desires. Even though they’re strewn all over my apartment, matching my color palette was never a consideration. (His favorites are, unfortunately, the ugliest ones. So of course I keep buying more ugly cat toys.) And that’s for a goddamn cat, not a literal human child!! It’s just selfish to prioritize ~aesthetic~ over your child’s development and happiness
this this this this i have the most garish hideous toys and structures for them bc i do not feel like i have the right to deprive them of that!!! i can't imagine having to have a conversation with a child i stole colour from as an adult
imagine a kid trying to live a normal life but they constantly have to be on camera being used for clout, and on top of that they have to deal with the in person and online bullying they most likely get from that. that’s messed up.
My mom is like an anti-boy mom where she sort of just...Hates her boys. And she doesnt try to hide it, she actively says shit like "I just don't have boys right" or "Im so glad i dont have another kid because it'd end up being a boy" (she had her kids in a pattern: Girl, boy, girl, boy, girl) and i feel HORRIBLE for my brothers. Both ends of that spectrum are horrible, why can't parents treat their kids well? 😭😭
3:00 exactly! Having your aesthetic is fine, but have a playroom full of color for your kids! There’s a gothic mom on TikTok that has the dark and spooky house but also another room for her kid to play in with lots of color.
"Anything for views parenting" has become more and more disgusting over time. These people KNOWINGLY exploit and endanger their children for clicks and views
My mom is amazing, she makes bread, she makes home made noodles, she helps me. She does all this, she doesn’t have to prove it. She lets me love color! I love my mom:3
Giving preferential treatment to one child over the other *WILL* lead to not only sibling rivalry, but also will affect their relationship with each other for the rest of their life. They might even end up being estranged. -a sibling
these moms just view their children as extensions of themselves, lord forbid when these kids turn into teenagers and become individuals that go against their picture perfect aesthetic vision their parents have
Toxic boy moms make me so mad. My younger brother is my bully, if we were in a public school together he'd be constantly getting in trouble. But since we're just at mom my mom tells me "Be patient", "He doesn't know how to regulate his emotions so that's how he gets your attention" "Stop holding it over his head" "Be generous" and my personal *favorite* "You just have to indure" I think this is because for so long (12 yrs) he was the youngest boy out of 8 kids with only an older brother, so my mom felt like she needed to defend him more or smth.
this makes me so sad because one of the things that makes me so excited about the idea of having children is getting to meet a whole new person and helping them discover what they love. Mommy's room is going to have dark walls and black tapestries with LED neon lights and creepy sculptures and horror icons but I want them to have their own space and their own clothes. I want them to be little citizens with lives and interests. outside of the fact that beige is already my least favorite aesthetic, I just don't know how she can't find joy in her children having their own interests
YES IVE BEEN WAITING FOR A WREN ELEANOR VIDEO!!! I CANT RLLY FIND THAT MUCH INFO ON IT AND ITS HINESTLY A TERRIBLY HEARTBREAKING STORY< BUT I NEEDED MORE INFORMATION ‼‼‼
(Mother around 6:00 minutes in) That is called a Jocasta complex! Jocasta was a woma in ancient Greece who married her own son. Time for a few versions of this complex! Mother to son-Jocasta complex Step-mother to Step-son-Phaedra complex Son to mother-Oedipus complex Daughter to father-Elecrta complex Father to daughter-(Can't find a word, so I call it reverse Electra, or Lolita bc thats what the book is about) Step-father to daughter-(Can't find a word, so I call it reverse Phaedra)
BRO I ALMOST SCREAMED WHEN HE SAID “for all you drawing out there”😭😭 bc I was drawing lol. Also thanks for the reminder of cleaning my room, I need to do it 💀
THIS. What she's doing is absolutely disgusting. I genuinely was not prepared for that segment, the fact that she gets away with this is heartbreaking. Makes you wonder if she's not doing worst behind the scenes.... :(
"non toxic" paints arent the same as paints meant for kids toys bc if the paint chips and the kid eats it that could _very bad!_ even if it is non toxic to adults. so them changing the colorful toys might actually physically hurt their kids
Okay, “I love my four kids equally but that last little boy just hits different.” is a contradictory sentence. You can’t love them all, and that last little boy “hits different.” You love them equally, or you don’t.
theres no way these parents down know about what they’re doing when they post those inappropriate videos of their children. they know exactly what they’re doing and its genuinely sickening
6:21 ICKKKKKK Disgustingggg,,,Don't wonder if ever your daughters complain to their friends about you or when they move out theyll rarely contact you. "But that last little boy just hits different" ew
My mom doesn't do any "content creator" stuff but since my baby brother was born, she can't stand to hear about how her child will marry someone in the future! I asked why she felt so bothered by it and she said something along the lines of "She'll replace me", and dude, I almost gagged when I heard that! Ngl this feels like inc3st and it grosses me out 🤢
6:19 I remember when I first saw this TikTok I thought she was saying she wanted to cry because if he hits his sisters it scares her to think about what he might do to his wife and the whole video was so confusing to me
It is so frustrating seeing how these parents/moms are ruining their children's lives before they can even begin.. it is so sad to know that these children didn't get a fair chance at becoming a functional person
I am a scene/emo kid, I will never be a beige mom, if I ever have kids, I would be absolutely thrilled to buy them rainbow Lego duplo and wooden blocks, I love colors. yes most emo people people don't like much color, but I honestly love it tbh
Seeing these videos makes me think about how fortunate I am to have a loving and caring mother who would never post her kid (without consent) on the internet. It’s so sad that the children with moms like the ones in this video have to grow up with such an exploitative childhood. I wish that every child could get the same mom that I did, because every kid deserves a good childhood.
the fact that you felt the need to say all that at the end, the reality of the situation has felt SO dystopian and i appreciate you so much for acknowledging whats really going on. me personally would LOVE TO SEE A VIDEO ABOUT THE TIKTOK SITUATION. but i understand why that would be difficult and why you might not want to considering the state of the internet now, love you for saying what i hope the majority have been thinking!
I'm like 2 years from being a legal adult and even i would cry if my mom painted my toys in white and beige, i nearly cried when she wanted to paint my walls white (it was a really comfy light pink and all white walls give me anxiety, especially the shade she wanted)
9:55 my sister will say this about her own 2 yr old son! He was being all smiley with me and she said he was being a flirt! I was like….He’s my 2 year old nephew why would you ever use that word
I love listening to your videos while cleaning, it really helps me stay focused. Its like when you have company coming over so you stress cleaning, except you help me stay focused and relaxed, so thank you for your lovely content!
louis, i love you so much. i watch your videos everyday and at the end of the video everytime you say to me to clean my room, to take a shower and how i deserve it, i do it. you help so much and you deserve all the love in the world
16:25 Who’s gonna explain to this woman that if tiktok is where she’s posting questionable content of her daughter, that’s where the weird people are going to view them. That being on an inappropriate site is awful yeah and should be monitored for sure but tiktok is the inappropriate site for those people if that’s where they’re finding your inappropriate content.
Totally off-topic, but I’ve got to say that your energy is amazing and so are your videos. Keep doing what you’re doing as long as it makes you happy ❤
Another thing about beige moms no being okay is that the paint is toxic to little kids and shouldn't be inhaled, yet its all they are contacting with. Also love the vid!
Thank you for reminding me to actually go do stuff to take care of myself my adhd took over and I was kinda just drawing and watching and kept getting told to go clean up from my gardien
My cousin is a momfluencer and she does a fantastic job of keeping her two children safe. When they’re on camera, their faces are blurred/covered, they’re always in clothes that fully cover them, etc. it’s upsetting more people can’t do that.
Watching vids abt these moms make me happy I have a loving mother who would never post me and my siblings on the internet until we’re adults and that she encourages us to love colors! Ilysm mom!
I luv making Kandi while I watch these videos cuz I like listening to drama in the least upsetting way possible like I hate being apart of it but it interests me, hearing Louis say that “your art is beautiful” and such after his videos make me really happy to hear so ty!! Also, I have the same name just a different spelling !! Lewis! :D
we have a new louis video to watch and a great dinner to eat. absolutely perfect combo. 🎉 update: louis you messed up the square/rectangle saying I think 😭
I put in his videos a lot while I’m doing crafts or drawing, because I can’t finish my projects without music and videos. It always makes me happy that he always says something like “that drawing is amazing” or “i love that you’re being creative” kind of stuff
God the ending scared the living shit out of me, when you said for all those artists and complimenting the art, I was drawing with this in the background xD
With the beige moms thing - There’s a mother on tiktok who’s home is gothic themed and even she has a room full of baby toys and color that her child plays in. If she can understand that her kid needs color then these beige moms can too, they just have a massive ego.
She sounds cool as heck >:3
Sick.
Beige moms think they'll get their own TV show like the Kardashians if they keep up the beige for long eneoguh
@@RawrX32009i think they’re talking about reby sky :)
@@firefly.png01 she seems very based
“That last little boy hits different”
Quite litteratly… hits his sisters… differently..
Nahhh💀
how this lady just straight up admit she lets her son abuse her other children??????
Funkyfrogbait!!?!?
Funkyfrogbait reference?
@@fungi024 I think so! 😂
she has a borderline parasocial relationship w her own son, thats crazy💀
sis has the keep it in the family mindset 💀
isn't that "emotional incest"?
@@overcaffeinated_gaming yea probably i just dk the actual term for it lol
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it's bordering illegal actually. i think that's what you mean.
Can we talk about how weird it is that “beige moms” are trying to own the term? reclaiming the fact that you’re stealing colour and developmental factors from your child to fit your egotistical style just feels wrong.
Some people's hair color would be considered "beige" if it was on a piece of textile. The biggest surprise to me is that it had nothing to do with that.
It’s giving grey suit pixies from fairly odd parents.
@@kitsuneTania Thats so accurate
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I love the internet so much I’m getting advice from a guy with a weezer pfp
bro even goth baby (whos house is all black mind you) HAS A COLOR EXPOSURE ROOM 😭
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I love Goth baby lol Baby has a better life and space than I do😭
she has like 5 kids and all their rooms are full of color so it not all black, but it is mostly black (I'm not trying to be mean I thought I would tell you)
@@proudtobeme6406no they meant that they have a whole different room for colour exposure
My mom met goth baby’s mom at a petsmart… I’m so jealous 😭
I can’t even fathom how bad parenting has worsened over the years, I’m not saying it’s all current parents but man, things have happened-
That and we can just see more into people personal lives, like all of it
It’s so weird and strange
It hasn't, it's just that now we have more information on people's personal lives (bc they air it out on the internet)
It hasn't, it's just that now we have more information on people's personal lives (bc they air it out on the internet)
It hasn't, it's just that now we have more information on people's personal lives (bc they air it out on the internet)
@@kenjako did you need to say it 3X?
I can’t imagine the chemical smell those poor kids must be around constantly from all of their toys being spray painted beyond belief.
Imagine a kid being so happy getting a new toy, only to come home from school the next day to smell that chemical smell and realize that their mom spray painted it 😭
like HOW safe do you think that spray paint is when they’re playing with it and probably putting in their mouth… every day
I have experienced with this comment. My parents used to spray paint mine and my sisters toys. Although, they almost always use primar, and protective layers, when they didn't it usually wore off because we played with it so much. And they spray painted them for completely different reasons, they just did it because it was usually so girly and me and my sisters didn't like it, they did it because they were putting us first, like a PARENT
What’s sad is that there have always been shitty parents, social media has only just now been making it worse and more obvious.
Another thing that puzzles me is that many of the vlogging moms who are in their 20s look like what elementary and middle schoolers used to look like before Y2K, and vloggers in their 30s frequently look like high schoolers from back then. Since looking and sounding so young usually comes from a non-smoking lifestyle, props to these generations for purging their surroundings of tobacco, but anyone who remembers what K-12 students looked like last millennium would probably judge them for marrying and having children at that young, and I'm surprised more people don't think of that as a deterrent to parent vlogging.
My family goes boy, girl (me), boy … and if my mom referred to herself as a “boy mom” I’d be devastated. That lady’s daughters know that she feels differently about her son than them, sadly.
You're already in a bad position as the middle child (fellow middle child here). I can imagine how much worse it would be if your mother decided she was a boy mom.
I'm also the middle child and only girl. my mom isn't like these boy moms, but she definitely prefers them over me. she resents me for being a reflection of everything she hates about herself.
same i have an older brother and a younger brother, but i was always kinda made to feel special for being the only girl:/ minus the sexism l o l
@@sugarsedative So overall blatant favoritism from your mom, correct?
Ah yes, so this is why so many men expect to get a free mommy and housemaid instead of a partner..
Come to think of it, perhaps the bloggers in question should be grateful there ever came a day their sons didn't have to be changed every few hours. After wearing them for just under 5 years, I never take for granted that any child will be out of them quickly.
Footnote: By "changed", imagine what most boys wear until they're 3 or 4 y.o.
@dominicfucinari1942 you can say diapers 😭😭😭
@@dominicfucinari1942 okay, but the prospect that the bloggers physically change out their sons every few hours _is_ pretty crazy 😂
Another thing that I feel fits here, is how BABY clothes are being sexualized. Like, for boys, the writing is about how they're a "ladies man" and stuff like that, and for girls it's about how they're "insecure" about something. (The reason why I put insecure in quotes is because they're a baby. They can't comprehend insecurity unless some serious abuse/neglect is happening in the house.)
Some of the baby clothes I have seen made me lose hope in humanity. 1. Who came up with that? 2. Who manufacuted it without question? 3. Who put that up for sale and was ok with it? 4. Who saw that and thought "yeah that's fine to put on my literal infant, I'll buy it"?
@@wolvie1618 Exactly!! What's even worse is a whole bunch of people thought "Yeah, this is a good design for a BABY" and accepted it. It is disgusting how the world is turning out :/ I just hope people will come to their senses that this is not ok.
I once saw a picture online of a shirt for baby girls that said "Does this diaper make my butt look big?" And I’ve lost almost all of faith in humanity (not like my faith in humanity was a lot to begin with..)
@@MightDeleteAcc O mio dio. That is actually disgusting. Whoever tf designed that should have their hard drive checked.
Or children's clothes for girls just being smaller versions of women's clothes. Like even shorts for toddlers are shorter for girl's shorts than boy's. Though i do think that people treating their little girls as baby dolls that they can "dress up all pretty" is part of the issue. Call me crazy but some people should just buy a life-size doll instead of having kids because at least the doll won't grow up to resent them
i think making everything “aesthetic” is like the death of aesthetic things if that makes sense
Totally, I agree
Literally!! It overdoes it to the point where it's tacky and tasteless
Like a "If everyone is a hero, nobody is" type of thing?
I just like pink. Can't kill anything if you don't participate.
There should be laws against putting your kids faces on the internet for clicks
Ikr finally someone says this
There’s actually laws in the works against this because it’s so harmful for children
Or just your kids in general, at least until they're old enough to agree to it.
pretty sure this is were the term “child endangerment and exploitation” comes in play
Absolutely! There are so many creeps out there. I respect youtubers who have kids and don't show their face or reveal their names
the way some parents are sexist are kind of crazy ; they want a certain gender for a kid and they get very pissed and act like they don't want their kid when they're the so called "wrong" gender
yeah its like a whole thing w men sometimes too, and like both sides are equally fucked bc like??? WHY HAVE A KID IF U WANTED TO *WINDOW SHOP* ????
like those gender reveal videos are kind of en example, some of them r scripted but some of them ppl actually ACT LIKE THAT BRO😭😭
Like- if you give birth to a girl and wanted a boy, adoption is an opinion instead of keeping them to use as your (or your son's) punching bag
If you're going to be a parent and have biological children, then you better be able to accept the fact that they could come out any gender, and heck, they might even be trans. If you are so unbelievably hung up on a kid's gender, then adopt, that way you already know, but even then you shouldn't be a parent anyway because why on earth are you putting so much importance on what is in a CHILD'S pants?? Your child's well being should be priority, not their gender.
I like to joke that I felt bad for my mom getting three boys in a row so I transitioned. She loved all of us so much and I am so happy to still have her in my life but the way that she interacts with me after transitioning and before transitioning really made me realize how much she missed having feminine people around her.
This also applies to trans kids :)
Maybe those aesthetic beige moms just need animal crossing
Honestly they really do need it
That's brilliant
It’s sad the fact they spent so much time on painting something for “AsThEtIc”
Sorry I don’t know how to spell🥲
@@ClownsjustcuzAesthetic is the appearance and vibes, esthetics is skin care and beauty, asthetics is a good way to spell it if you don't know. Have a good day!
@@dizzylilthing yeah I know I’m just not the best at spelling :)
Another thing about beige moms is that spray painting toys is NOT SAFE. Children, especially babies and toddlers, will put everything in their mouths, and while the paint originally used in those toys has passed multiple tests to approve its safety, that beige spray paint probably didn't.
Even if it was checked, as a kid i had the habit of PEELING my toys....what if another kid did that and started eating the peeled of paint.?? Because i thought of doing it as a kid, but my mom had her eyes on me all the time
It never even looks like they’re using any sort of sealant
YES!!
The worst part is how many people they manage to abuse in their wake, their sons will forever struggle, their daughters are abused emotionally and can be abused by the son, the future partners of the boys.. their emotional incest is actually abuse. Twisted love is gag worthy, but hearing a lovey breakup song and thinking of your toddler son as a grown man 'replacing' you with 'another' woman?!" throwing up.
exactly my father's mum was toxic person in general. Who used her mental health issues to get attention from my father. As a child he visit her in 'the hospital' clinic after nervous breakdown.
My grandmother is a boy mom to one of my uncles and OH MY GOD, when I tell you that it's the most INFURIATING thing ever, no one can "bother" him (ask for favors, ask things), he can't clean his dishes, he can't stay out until night because my grandmother will stay up until he's back, he can't go to his girlfriend's house because my grandma will throw a tantrum.
Because of how spoiled he is, he has big and aggressive anger issues. He'll scream, curse, punch things, lock himself in his room, and throw tantrums at my grandmother.
That man is 42 years old, I repeat, 42 YEARS OLD.
This whole time I assumed you were talking about, like, a teenager or young man, and I felt so much pity bc I knew she was setting him up for failure. All that pity dried up when you said he's FORTY TWO. Poor fucker is beyond saving. She ruined his life.
42?? He’s old enough to be my FATHER and he can’t go out with his GIRLFRIEND?? That’s nasty
That’s so sad… big oof..
A few years ago I dated a guy whose mom was a toxic boy mom. And I know this cause she despised me JUST for ‘taking her son away from her’ and said I ‘didn’t know her son well’ at the time I was 16 (so was he) and she thought his brothers ex, a 20yr old woman was better. He ended up being a total jerk.
yeah guys raised in that environment are pretty much completely groomed into thinking everything can and WILL just be handed to them and they feel entitled to it and pitch a hissy fit when any amnt of reciprocation is required from them
bc the thing w this sort of thing, you either wake up one day and realize your childhood fucked you up and FIX that, or you forever live in this constructed fantasy world and its a rlly sad existence tbh
@@sh4tt3r3dw1ngs it makes me so angry to interact at all with those types of men, but I feel pity for them too. What a waste of a childhood :(
Im not a parent but i take care of my younger siblings alot and i have never EVER felt the need to post them online AT ALL i dont get why you would want to expose them to hundreds of strangers online
my son turns 3 soon, I have never had the urge to post 85 pictures of him a week or make tiktoks of him for the entire world to see. I can't understand what's going through their minds
As a mom, I want super badly to share the kids I love with the world, show how proud I am, and keep family in the loop.
But that's not feasibly possible while maintaining their safety, and their future comfort/ control of their personality and presence.
So.... I don't. They're adorable boys, and so friendly, and innocent- as kids should be. Those are all magnets for predators and I am not capable of risking that for some "likes" or interested in providing the wrong people with material they shouldn't have. "Innocent" or not.
Parents: you can simply.....not. so.....dont.
@svedkalou4822 I would send pictures of them to close friends and family if they're doing somthing funny or just somewhere new but not to lots of random strangers online,you never know who's on the other end
@little_cat6 oh yeah, don't get me wrong- I privately message loved ones all the time lol. My point is more that posting them on social media can't be as strictly contained, and is potentially dangerous.
the idea of strangers potentially saving pictures of my child to do who knows what with them, was enough for me to wipe every trace of my kid off my socials years ago.
I want to know what happens to the sons of toxic boy moms who come out as gay. I wonder if and how the dynamic changes based on that 💀
I'm pretty sure most of them do because they're so scared of women due to their moms-
I WAS JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT THAT
Crazy boy mom: "No woman will ever love you as much as I do!"
Son: "Alright then, meet my boyfriend"
Crazy boy mom: 😦
Well there's actually some boy moms who actually WANT their sons to be gay so that they never have to compete with another woman 😒
OOF They’d be terrible eitherway😭😭
"Single, stay-at-home mom" My god lady, get a JOB. I hate that that's her reason for exploting her daughter. She's single and a stay at home parent who uses her daughter as her cash cow. Sorry lady you can't be a stay at home parent without a partner bringing in money(no children don't count). And a majority of single parents work hard to provide their kids a good life, unlike her.
It litterally caught me off guard when I heard it. Like wdym single stay at home parent?? Even if she has no diploma or qualifications, she can still get a minimum wage job and use content creation as a second source of income (without exploiting her daughter, obviously). It's just an excuse to justify the fact that doesn't wanna put in any effort to earn money and would much rather sell her daughter online for easy cash instead. It's just vile.
9:41 deadass NO bc like, i was in the livingroom and myh little sister had just done her makeup (Shes like 5 and its a little toy makeup set) and she comes out and shes all like how do i look and my grandpa deadass said ooooh, sexy! and i almost stabbed him in the earhole with a pencil. like, thats fuckin crazy lmao
that's terrible I'm so sorry...
@@Louis_McClung hes really old, I know he didnt mean it like *that* but like. EW‼
@@OrthosLemonsold people are weird. My stepfather asked my mother to buy a "sexy" toaster, we both made fun of him
@@awryarbi9902 WHAT IS A SEXY TOASTER?!?!🤣🤣
I'm a girl (biologically). Mom told me stories about my MALE relatives saying how I'm "flirty" because I smiled a lot. I was literally a baby/toddler. And surprisingly when my brother was born none of the relatives said that about him when he smiled. At the same time I was praised for being such a "good girl and future perfect wife" (I was quiet, I did quite a bit of chores including helping mom to take care of my brother while everything I did was out fear because my father was abusive towards me and being quiet was coping mechanism) and whenever my brother misbehaved everyone said that "boys will be boys" and how mom shouldn't do anything about it because he'll grow out of it. I was always told that when I'm in a relationship I should take care of everything, while my brother was told to expect his future girlfriend/wife to take care of stuff like cooking and cleaning. I'm 21 now and in a relationship where we split the chores 50/50 because we're both working and mostly he's back home earlier than me (he's a carpenter and I work at a gift shop at the zoo)
Misogyny has stunted a lot of people's growth cuz omfg..... Irreversible childhood trauma all stemming from sexism, also I'm sure your brother is gonna be hit with the cold water that women nowadays won't be some sub trad wife he expects them to be, hopefully you can have a talk to him about this cause he will end up like an incel l0s3r
Happy to hear you’re okay and I’m a healthy relationship!
In my personal opinion if you want your house to fit your aesthetic follow Reby Hardy (Gothic Baby). The nursery is all black, very Victorian era, but she has a room that’s full of colors for all her children to play in. Alongside the fact that her house has themed rooms with different colors, like her gym (purple and green), her arcade room also has a bunch of different colors.
And correct me if I’m wrong but her older children’s rooms are all decorated the way they want.
As a wrestling fan and a fan of her husband and brother in law for a long time, yess, her boys have cool rooms themed to what they like, like Minecraft and games, like that house today is stunning and like a fun house compared to when I first watched Matt’s house tour on the Twist Of Fate dvd and when they used it for the web series w his brother and Shannon (childhood friend), it has definitely come a long way 😅
@@torifuller870You took the words out my mouth
when he said your art looks good i looked down at what i am drawing rn and smiled. i know he cant see what im drawing but thank you
🥹
I always feel flattered when Louis compliments my art 😔
And then I always have a heart attack when he tells me to clean my room
Nah man why is this so real thoo
It scared me tbh cause I was drawing when he said that lol
It’s sad how some moms just use their own children for fame
I remember in school when we had internet safety courses. We really need to bring those back because children need to know what kind of creeps and monsters are out there and what they look like and how they act.
Children and their parents. It seems like some of these attention hungry parents have apparently forgotten just how risky the internet can be.
@@wolvie1618 yeah, and parents these days are so obsessed with the internet themselves, they can't be bothered to teach their children how to be safe. When I was in school, they had us watch those PSA movies where a little girl is talking to someone online pretending to be a boy her age, and when they meet up it's a middle aged man. They cracked down HARD on internet safety.
I’ve said this before, but I’m pretty meticulous about my decor and I really like having consistency in my aesthetic. BUT, when I adopted my kitty last fall, I immediately bought him all the hideous furry feathery jingle bell toys his little kitty heart desires. Even though they’re strewn all over my apartment, matching my color palette was never a consideration. (His favorites are, unfortunately, the ugliest ones. So of course I keep buying more ugly cat toys.) And that’s for a goddamn cat, not a literal human child!! It’s just selfish to prioritize ~aesthetic~ over your child’s development and happiness
this this this this i have the most garish hideous toys and structures for them bc i do not feel like i have the right to deprive them of that!!! i can't imagine having to have a conversation with a child i stole colour from as an adult
I love the word hideous
imagine a kid trying to live a normal life but they constantly have to be on camera being used for clout, and on top of that they have to deal with the in person and online bullying they most likely get from that. that’s messed up.
My mom is like an anti-boy mom where she sort of just...Hates her boys. And she doesnt try to hide it, she actively says shit like "I just don't have boys right" or "Im so glad i dont have another kid because it'd end up being a boy" (she had her kids in a pattern: Girl, boy, girl, boy, girl) and i feel HORRIBLE for my brothers. Both ends of that spectrum are horrible, why can't parents treat their kids well? 😭😭
It must be a toxic environment for everyone involved including you and the girls
Honestly based
3:00 exactly! Having your aesthetic is fine, but have a playroom full of color for your kids! There’s a gothic mom on TikTok that has the dark and spooky house but also another room for her kid to play in with lots of color.
god dammit convincing me to clean my room again
Louis PLEASE just say incest for the boy mom section its literally emotional incest and its a huge issue
RUclips likes to strike channels who say things like that
5:32 other way around, darling. All squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares.
I was waiting for this comment 😭
Louis has become my favorite RUclipsr and I’m so happy he’s growing so fast
Same :D
me too ive been here since 300 subs lol
Louis is becoming a comfort youtuber for me tbh
Same
Your pfp almost looks like him
I'm not surprised. McClung is always just one shave away from looking like a middle school aged youth.
@@shyamy5792 Toki Wartooh = Louis McClung lol
Soo true!!
Isnt spray paint like really toxic in both the fumes and paint?? Like what if the kid eats the paint???
Yeah... It's also really horr8ble for little children because of their weak immune systems...
@@Carl-Grimess-left-eye yeah especially if they are less than 5
Yep it is. Even nontoxic paint can be harmful at times. Imagine risking poisoning your kids because their toys don't match your sad aesthetic
"Anything for views parenting" has become more and more disgusting over time. These people KNOWINGLY exploit and endanger their children for clicks and views
louis is my fav youtuber rn lmao his outros are so comforting man
My mom is amazing, she makes bread, she makes home made noodles, she helps me. She does all this, she doesn’t have to prove it. She lets me love color! I love my mom:3
Giving preferential treatment to one child over the other *WILL* lead to not only sibling rivalry, but also will affect their relationship with each other for the rest of their life. They might even end up being estranged.
-a sibling
Oedipus complex goes crazy
these moms just view their children as extensions of themselves, lord forbid when these kids turn into teenagers and become individuals that go against their picture perfect aesthetic vision their parents have
18:59 THAT WAS A JUMPSCARE, I FEEL CALLED OUT BUT THANK YOU LOLLL 😭😭😭 🙏🙏🙏🙏
My kids are adults and I still don’t post them online. The Wren thing makes me sick to my stomach.
Toxic boy moms make me so mad. My younger brother is my bully, if we were in a public school together he'd be constantly getting in trouble. But since we're just at mom my mom tells me "Be patient", "He doesn't know how to regulate his emotions so that's how he gets your attention" "Stop holding it over his head" "Be generous" and my personal *favorite* "You just have to indure" I think this is because for so long (12 yrs) he was the youngest boy out of 8 kids with only an older brother, so my mom felt like she needed to defend him more or smth.
this makes me so sad because one of the things that makes me so excited about the idea of having children is getting to meet a whole new person and helping them discover what they love. Mommy's room is going to have dark walls and black tapestries with LED neon lights and creepy sculptures and horror icons but I want them to have their own space and their own clothes. I want them to be little citizens with lives and interests. outside of the fact that beige is already my least favorite aesthetic, I just don't know how she can't find joy in her children having their own interests
I love how it is compulsory for every intro to have at least 1 jojo reference now. I'm so here for it.
19:00 had to look up from my drawing bc I was genuinely so surprised you knew I used your video to listen to while I drew
Every time you do your little end screen Schpeel about liking our art and taking care of one’s self is so sweet and i appreciate it every time
YES IVE BEEN WAITING FOR A WREN ELEANOR VIDEO!!! I CANT RLLY FIND THAT MUCH INFO ON IT AND ITS HINESTLY A TERRIBLY HEARTBREAKING STORY< BUT I NEEDED MORE INFORMATION ‼‼‼
I AM TRYING TO GET THE INFO OUT THERE!!!
@@Louis_McClung SLAYY!!
Inabber has some pretty good in depth videos of the situation if you're wondering, they're rather long but pretty good
(Mother around 6:00 minutes in)
That is called a Jocasta complex! Jocasta was a woma in ancient Greece who married her own son. Time for a few versions of this complex!
Mother to son-Jocasta complex
Step-mother to Step-son-Phaedra complex
Son to mother-Oedipus complex
Daughter to father-Elecrta complex
Father to daughter-(Can't find a word, so I call it reverse Electra, or Lolita bc thats what the book is about)
Step-father to daughter-(Can't find a word, so I call it reverse Phaedra)
Wouldn't stepfather to daughter be Lolita instead of just father? Humbert Humbert wasn't her biological father
@@dromie5059 I didn't find anything for it on google when I comented this, so I guess so.
BRO I ALMOST SCREAMED WHEN HE SAID “for all you drawing out there”😭😭 bc I was drawing lol. Also thanks for the reminder of cleaning my room, I need to do it 💀
Wren's situation makes me so unbelievably angry and so unbelievably sad at the same time. Her mum knows what she's doing and it's absolutely vile.
THIS. What she's doing is absolutely disgusting. I genuinely was not prepared for that segment, the fact that she gets away with this is heartbreaking. Makes you wonder if she's not doing worst behind the scenes.... :(
so glad i found your channel! just happened to pop up on my feed one day and now your one of my favourite creators =]
cool husk pfp! :D
husk pfp spotted so you have a new sub
3:27 "juicy memes every day at 6PM GMT" ahh music😭🙏
HELP FR???
i can hear the fucking comic dubs over this 😭😭
"non toxic" paints arent the same as paints meant for kids toys bc if the paint chips and the kid eats it that could _very bad!_ even if it is non toxic to adults. so them changing the colorful toys might actually physically hurt their kids
Okay, “I love my four kids equally but that last little boy just hits different.” is a contradictory sentence. You can’t love them all, and that last little boy “hits different.” You love them equally, or you don’t.
theres no way these parents down know about what they’re doing when they post those inappropriate videos of their children. they know exactly what they’re doing and its genuinely sickening
6:21 ICKKKKKK Disgustingggg,,,Don't wonder if ever your daughters complain to their friends about you or when they move out theyll rarely contact you. "But that last little boy just hits different" ew
My mom doesn't do any "content creator" stuff but since my baby brother was born, she can't stand to hear about how her child will marry someone in the future!
I asked why she felt so bothered by it and she said something along the lines of "She'll replace me", and dude, I almost gagged when I heard that!
Ngl this feels like inc3st and it grosses me out 🤢
She needs to grow a pair
6:19 I remember when I first saw this TikTok I thought she was saying she wanted to cry because if he hits his sisters it scares her to think about what he might do to his wife and the whole video was so confusing to me
It is so frustrating seeing how these parents/moms are ruining their children's lives before they can even begin.. it is so sad to know that these children didn't get a fair chance at becoming a functional person
I am a scene/emo kid, I will never be a beige mom, if I ever have kids, I would be absolutely thrilled to buy them rainbow Lego duplo and wooden blocks, I love colors. yes most emo people people don't like much color, but I honestly love it tbh
SAME FR BRUH. I'd let them paint their walls in whatever colors they want tbh
Seeing these videos makes me think about how fortunate I am to have a loving and caring mother who would never post her kid (without consent) on the internet. It’s so sad that the children with moms like the ones in this video have to grow up with such an exploitative childhood. I wish that every child could get the same mom that I did, because every kid deserves a good childhood.
the fact that you felt the need to say all that at the end, the reality of the situation has felt SO dystopian and i appreciate you so much for acknowledging whats really going on. me personally would LOVE TO SEE A VIDEO ABOUT THE TIKTOK SITUATION. but i understand why that would be difficult and why you might not want to considering the state of the internet now, love you for saying what i hope the majority have been thinking!
“When I think of my daughters weddings I get all excited” why though?? You won’t be at their wedding when you wanna pick favorites 💀
I'm like 2 years from being a legal adult and even i would cry if my mom painted my toys in white and beige, i nearly cried when she wanted to paint my walls white (it was a really comfy light pink and all white walls give me anxiety, especially the shade she wanted)
"and to all of you drawing out there, your art looks amazing" the way i GRINNED and BEAMED. thank yuo thank you
9:55 my sister will say this about her own 2 yr old son! He was being all smiley with me and she said he was being a flirt! I was like….He’s my 2 year old nephew why would you ever use that word
If a mom's relationship is with her son that him getting married would be replacing her "role" then she needs CPS called on her
I love listening to your videos while cleaning, it really helps me stay focused. Its like when you have company coming over so you stress cleaning, except you help me stay focused and relaxed, so thank you for your lovely content!
0:04 will this affect the louis mcclung lore
18:59 genuinely gave me a jump scare because I am currently writing (just finished drawing) and my room is an absolute mess
Louis: "And your art... Looks beautiful."
Me: *looks up from drawing tablet*
louis, i love you so much. i watch your videos everyday and at the end of the video everytime you say to me to clean my room, to take a shower and how i deserve it, i do it. you help so much and you deserve all the love in the world
16:25 Who’s gonna explain to this woman that if tiktok is where she’s posting questionable content of her daughter, that’s where the weird people are going to view them. That being on an inappropriate site is awful yeah and should be monitored for sure but tiktok is the inappropriate site for those people if that’s where they’re finding your inappropriate content.
Totally off-topic, but I’ve got to say that your energy is amazing and so are your videos. Keep doing what you’re doing as long as it makes you happy ❤
bro legit scared me when he said that my drawing looks beautiful and I was actually drawing 💀
i love the note about everyone drawing while listening lmao. i have been having these videos autoplay while i do my school showpiece
Its like he can sense when im eating or something, these intros just keep getting better btw oh my god😭
Another thing about beige moms no being okay is that the paint is toxic to little kids and shouldn't be inhaled, yet its all they are contacting with. Also love the vid!
Beige moms would make Moriah Elizabeth disappointed
Her daughter is gonna end up an icon
I’m late to your channel but at about 19:14 I’m literally in the middle of doing laundry and cleaning my room. It’s been awhile. I enjoy your channel!
Hey Louis! Thanks for keeping us updated drama, love your vids respectfully🫶
Thank you for reminding me to actually go do stuff to take care of myself my adhd took over and I was kinda just drawing and watching and kept getting told to go clean up from my gardien
7:28 hits different? like how you said he hits his sisters? okay then.
My cousin is a momfluencer and she does a fantastic job of keeping her two children safe. When they’re on camera, their faces are blurred/covered, they’re always in clothes that fully cover them, etc. it’s upsetting more people can’t do that.
So glad you're finally getting the recognition you deserve, Louis. 👏👏👏
Watching vids abt these moms make me happy I have a loving mother who would never post me and my siblings on the internet until we’re adults and that she encourages us to love colors! Ilysm mom!
Human life can never be politics yess!! Thanks for softly addressing it haha
I luv making Kandi while I watch these videos cuz I like listening to drama in the least upsetting way possible like I hate being apart of it but it interests me, hearing Louis say that “your art is beautiful” and such after his videos make me really happy to hear so ty!! Also, I have the same name just a different spelling !! Lewis! :D
we have a new louis video to watch and a great dinner to eat. absolutely perfect combo. 🎉
update: louis you messed up the square/rectangle saying I think 😭
Yeah I'm very luck to have had a good childhood, I feel bad for all the children that go through this stuff man. Great video!! Love your stuff!
"...your art" gave me a heart attack 😭
I put in his videos a lot while I’m doing crafts or drawing, because I can’t finish my projects without music and videos. It always makes me happy that he always says something like “that drawing is amazing” or “i love that you’re being creative” kind of stuff
1:15 the editing here felt very Kurtis Conner and idk why
God the ending scared the living shit out of me, when you said for all those artists and complimenting the art, I was drawing with this in the background xD