There are so many different names for evil , and narcissist is one of them. Really, everything you describe ( in the narcissist) is of Satan. There are two kinds of beings in this world - Entities or Lights . Praise God for your Light.🙏
Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective digitalinvestigate@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.
I was standing next to my mother and a man looked her, said to me, 'I can see where you get your looks from.' My mother retorted, 'She's nothing. You should have seen me at her age.'
WOW. I met a woman who told me her mother put crushed glass in her clothes so she would cut herself when she got dressed, she was so jealous of her. I just found out recently what this horror was called. Narcissism. It's a lot to take in, oh, so that's what was wrong with my mom. It's a lot to reconcile. Give yourself all the time you need. Take care.
My mother was like this. She passed away last year. The day after, I was outside working in my garden. My husband, who works from home, came out and told me I had a visitor. I went in to see a very nice old neighbor with some flowers. We live in a small town and everyone knows everyone. She offered her condolences and told me what a wonderful person my mother was. I considered it a kindness to this woman to refrain from disagreeing with her, but every cell in my body wanted to scream, "NO SHE WASN'T!"
@@jbuntine1255 This is me too and when my mother died last year her family delighted in showing me just how much they despise me. That smear campaign must have been really good. 😏
@@FergusGrant hello Fergus , they never deserved children . Take care of yourself as l find this time of yr hard leading up to Xmas. I don't like Dec , so many of us without family .. Wishing you all the best Jacinta.
My covert malignant narc parent hates me. They have done a massive smear campaign against me over many years. But I won't let their hatred and obsession get to me!
@@yvonnebasson8652 Yes, in my experience it does get to you, not least because they don't directly tell you what the smears are/were, they just judge you with relish but don't specify what it's based on, the implication suggesting that you must already know because, obviously, you are guilty. Of course, if they specified, you could refute it and they don't want that. They like it the way they see it.
OMG. You have described my whole family, but especially my mother who used to put down my therapist. At my college graduation, she tried to take credit for helping me through school, when she never paid for my tuition or supplies. I paid for my own tuition and supplies. My older brother was the golden child and grew up to be a terrible narcissist. In large part because of him, my father and I didn't speak for 11 years.
6:32 this is so strong it defies all logic. My dad and I are disabled and I’ve had 10 surgeries at a young age. Dad just was neglected and didn’t get taken care of so he struggled with alot of pain. But he was a really smart guy. Despite other family members not being disabled and being rich , his narc mom one day decided “kick [my dad] out of the family company [he helped build] so he can take care of me [since her scapegoat husband died].• And everyone just was okay with that. Despite him not being able to physically handle it. The person that needed the most help was somehow told he needed to give the most help. My dad dies of cancer. And they suddenly decided without talking to me that I was going to not work a job and not finish law school to “take care of grandma” since her golden child just his job was more important. This witch has 10 total grandkids. But when I point out “now that I’m taking care of myself I need to handle everything dad handled and my responsibilities. You can’t ask the person in the most pain to give the most. You are not disabled.” They just sat there making excuses and screaming “YOU DONT LOVE ME” on repeat like a mad women, followed by her golden child screaming “YOU DONT LOVE HER”. I pointed out “[uncle] so you don’t love your mom because you don’t want to do this ? And your kids don’t love your mom ?” They kept freaking out pretending it wasn’t a double standard. And right before I went no contact their only line was “oh but I bet if she died and she left you money you would accept it”. Why do they say this? Because they know they are guilty of forcing the abuse now on their nephew, everyone else in the family enabling this for decades forcing it on my dad. They lied that “parents are taken care of by their kids” when dad had cancer and I did everything and they complained it was never enough, while juggling law school. And suddenly after dad dies she goes “oh you don’t need [law school] anymore, you are taken care of me and I’ll leave you stuff”. I pushed back pointing out that I WANTED to work a job. And it’s like she was puzzled. Then when I pointed out I never agreed to any of that she just kept screaming on repeat throwing her hands up in the air like I’m being nonsense “ITS ALREADY BEEN DECIDED”.
Against my advice my daughter married a man whose mother is a narcissist. He is her golden child, so I'm constantly analyzing his behavior thru that lens. 🧐 But he's also severely damaged emotionally because of her and realizes how abusive she was to him and his sisters, 1 of whom has cut her out of her life. So who does she hate? My daughter who took her golden child away from her. They are successfully living independently without her. So guess who she complained to and tried to turn against them. Me: the mother, and now grandmother, figure they do want involved in their lives. I simply told her, "I learned long ago not to get involved in other people's drama. So while I'm sorry for you as a mom, that they're not allowing you to be as involved as you'd like, I'm not getting drug into the middle of your relationship with your child and his wife. That's between you and them." How did she respond?Crickets (silence). And I'm perfectly OK with that. 😊
Ghosting 👻 is good, they'll come booeing to you, I'm getting it from the UK, great, feeling less guilty for not re-visiting, their dust mites are awful so.. They'll be less your problem, fair is fair, they started it we should all led by example! My daughter's off to Bali for Xmas with him and his ($) family, wants to get together prior, naw! My son and his fiancee are advised by me then asked "What's the best piece of advice my dad ever gave me? Don't get involved in other people's problems!" I'm golden child gone copper, my older brother had an affair with his mother in law, ate teen yrs, wife's that dumb, now his son has a woman who each far away town, I could slander but really not my style and, actually, none of my business, that's what my father in law said about a situation he was living, his bud's wife would call him complaining about his bud, which, he undoubtedly didn't care for dealt with it by saying it was none of his business. I don't know why my bro told me this, I commented to tell my nephew that was a tiring lifestyle and if I wasn't estranged from his wife my ex-bf (that's how they met) I'm sure I'd (No she never divorced him wishing to stay victim) be sick of hearing about it by now .... 😊 no contact crickets are good!
My mother apsolutely hated me. Middle sister was golden child mother adored her, middle sister was also a narcissist (maybe a psychopath) a clone of mother 😔
Every thing mentioned in this video has happened throughout my entire life so far. My adopted parents don’t like that I am happy with my appearance and that I go to therapy 2 times a week for my trauma. In the past they banned me from having friends and they abused me in so many ways. My adopted parents saved my life medically just to keep hurting and I know I did not deserve that whatsoever. I am happy I do not live with them anymore but i still wish i had more people in my life at the same time.
My dad, who believed he was "the world's last great mind" fits this description. He hated his children (especially me), if we did something he didn't like on Christmas he would sell our presents to strangers for $1 apeice.
@gigiarmany All that is over, he's been dead for years now. I (as can so many of you!) could go on and on and on lol. 6 winters in Chicago without proper heat in the house, we huddled around a space lamp for warmth. While he took his horses and wintered in Hialeah, FL
My mother hated my therapist. She said he ruined me. Nope, he taught me to become free from panic attacks so I could live a normal life, away from her. She also disliked my friends when I’d bring them over. There was always something wrong with them, like bad manners or the ever accurate “I can’t put my finger on it, but….”
Your last question, who do they hate besides you..... 🤔 I'd say it was her father who she couldn't "control". Thank you for helping us understand what we went through all those years! At the age of 65 i finally got all this and she wouldn't respect the gray rocking...so i told her since ive asked her repeatedly to STOP and she doesn't respect my wishes i will take it to the next level and file harrassment charges. ( yes, against my own mother😢) but.... it finally worked. i will soon be 68 and have not had one event or one contact with her since, and i have never known such peace!!!!!! I can forgive, but that forgiveness does not change 'them", it sets us free and learning what your teaching gives us courage to takes some tough love stands. Thank you for these videos!!
The person they hated the most was my friend with severe PTSD whom I was helping and occasionally caring for. It had nothing to do with dividing my attention from them but I suspect they were jealous of anyone with genuine problems in their life, the sympathy and attention he was getting from my community when they believed only they deserved sympathy, and the thought that he (or anyone) could have so fully committed himself to something more important than what they have going on in their lives that the occupational hazzards got the better of him.
I'm the scapegoat sibling,my Mom used to compare my "Golden Child" elder brother to me. She said that he is better than me because he scored 92% while I got 78% in 10th grade.
My covert narc grandmother forced my dad out of the family company he started so she could get attention he got as a disabled person. She wanted to just be a public eye parent and that’s it. She yelled at him, while he was getting chemo (I was taking care of him) for pancreatic cancer, saying dad wasn’t doing enough for her “before he died”.
How awful, it's never enough so why bother! Mine's on her deathbed, still, should call, naw! She always wanted me to try to impress her while thought never entered my mind, I like(d) her as a person, to a point, but even that was a stretch, she lied I had power of attorney but still as next of kin saw she needed locking up, done!
My mom and sister HATED my now husband. They made up a whole story about him. That he was gonna ruin my life. Gossipped about me. Made sure to spread misinformation and lies about me and him. Then they started threatening me and digging rheir claws in when i insisted over and over i loved him. I ran and i married him. And im happy
True he did nothing for his children or hold them or speak to them. All he said to them when he got home was high babies that’s it. Yes he had me in an emotional coma so true. He hated my mother so much just like he hated me and did nothing but slave drive me consuming my entire energy while he sat and didn’t waste a drop of energy. Just like his mother she did nothing in their home. Her kids ate out and her husband ate soups he made while she ate so well at work at the cafeteria she worked at.
My sister was the golden child and became a worse narcissist than both my parents combined. She even threw my parents under the bus along with the rest of the family in a horrible smear campaign.
I have taken the ex narcissist to the highest court in the land, he has reported me to the government about my immigration status, and my son who is also charging him with years of hidden SA by the narc. We are immigrants to the country we are in.
After 30 years of marriage I could take no more... my Dad passed away at home, my brother who waa blind (he is no longer with us) phoned my now ex husband, who then phoned me, whilst I was with my Mum at a hospital appointment (she'd had a severe stroke a few years earlier and was in a nursing home) she was in a wheelchair and he had the audacity to ask me if I wanted his Dad to pick us up (my car was at the nursing home) and take us to the home. My home was about 100 yards from my parents and he couldn't make the effort himself to be supportive. He had had a new knee fitted 7 weeks prior but he did nothing to help himself improve (no exercise, nothing) just wanted to play the victim yet again. Incidentally, my Dad saw right through him and didn't like him, but he never interfered and my ex husband new this. There's more but to much to mention.
💯💯💯💥💥💥absolutely always heard you can't work like I do.! Which I was the one getting awards from my job. Never boast about to the narcs! But I wanted to.
As soon as you figure out that the other person's brand of "love" makes you feel like shit and unsafe, it's time to go. Don't sleep with the person before you've seen the "real" person, either; it'll make a pile of pooh look shiny and promising, especially if it's good ☠
This is off topic sorry but before I left the narc I was waking up next to him with very vivid impressions. Not from dreams as such but like I was tuning into his dreams and the impressions were like insights from a higher source trying to wake me to a deeper truth about my ex. It was an eye opener. And very creepy.
As a daughter of a covert narcissist mother I can approve this. I can not take her seriously. But other people do 😄 - people who do not know. What regards narcissists attitude towards spouse - 100% About fathers Best friend also right. All this is 100% right.
My narc ex always complained about how much his kids were expensive (child support). He straight up told me not to have kids, right in front of his teen son. I had arguments with him about how his words can be affecting his children but of course everyone is wrong except him. He even told me I should date his son then since we had so much in common and I came to his son's defense....again his teenage son!
Mostly getting too spoiled with too much freedom and too much pampering since an early age is what turns many people into narcissists. They begin believing they deserve everything in the world. Although, quite a few people, are born narcissists even without freedom or pampering. Humans are essentially children of angels and demons. Narcissists tend to have more inherited traits of demons than those of angels.
Keep on moving away from, by any means necessary. As noted in this post, the NARC steals, kills, and destroys everything that makes you a human, a person with morals, a heart, an individual with feelings. They thrive on destruction; especially when they're met with the response of NO.
1. Bio-mom refused to attend her youngest daughter's wedding, even though this SAME daughter was forced to excel I English, in the hope of being human translator in a future that somehow included me. 2. Adoptive Narcmom insisted on calling me, "Princess," to my Dad, even tho the man BENT OVER BKWRDS 4 HER. At age 80, when she giggled and told me, "Burn it!!!" with regards to her wedding album... Why, she shattered more than i thought an 80yr old ever could! 3. If there's such a thing as Passive Aggressive Attempted Manslaughter, having been married to Narcspouse ("Möldemört" as Kiddo & i like to call him) for 17yrs may have given me some insight im willing to share 😃 Like being given COVID "accidentally," or being forced to hike in early Spring meltoff without proper footwear! #AskMe!
Danish how about a narc man who is never satisfied and always hungry, loving the food but eats it like he is a empty well, you can give and give but keeps eating, like these types are so empty literally all anger take energy from them ofccourse, always in everything they are unfulfillable, thnx ' i'm still fighting out. plan
Mera ek friend narcissistic he usne muje bohot abuse Kiya he uski vajese mujhe bohot bimariya Hui he me chodna chahti hu to kya me use sab boldu ki use Mera sath galat kiya he me dar ki vajese kabi bol hi nhi payi bohot depression me hu me please help me kya karu batayiye please please bohot darti hu usse male friend he
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There are so many different names for evil , and narcissist is one of them. Really, everything you describe ( in the narcissist) is of Satan. There are two kinds of beings in this world - Entities or Lights . Praise God for your Light.🙏
Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective digitalinvestigate@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.
I was standing next to my mother and a man looked her, said to me, 'I can see where you get your looks from.' My mother retorted, 'She's nothing. You should have seen me at her age.'
WOW. I met a woman who told me her mother put crushed glass in her clothes so she would cut herself when she got dressed, she was so jealous of her. I just found out recently what this horror was called. Narcissism. It's a lot to take in, oh, so that's what was wrong with my mom. It's a lot to reconcile. Give yourself all the time you need. Take care.
This is one of my adult daughters tactics. My mother used to do the same thing. It embarasses all parties.
Holy sh
@@deborahrobinson6553 Thank you. I hope you are coming to yourself, too.
@@cherylberk4593 Apart from the person who does it.
My mother was like this. She passed away last year. The day after, I was outside working in my garden. My husband, who works from home, came out and told me I had a visitor. I went in to see a very nice old neighbor with some flowers. We live in a small town and everyone knows everyone. She offered her condolences and told me what a wonderful person my mother was. I considered it a kindness to this woman to refrain from disagreeing with her, but every cell in my body wanted to scream, "NO SHE WASN'T!"
Yes.
I was made to be independent
And the Scapegoat
Thrown out now from the family like garbage..
@@jbuntine1255 This is me too and when my mother died last year her family delighted in showing me just how much they despise me. That smear campaign must have been really good. 😏
Doesn't it feel great to be FINALLY free! 😊
@@tinag7506 Actually, yes, it really does! I feel like a spell has been broken ☺ Enjoy your freedom!
@@FergusGrant hello Fergus , they never deserved children .
Take care of yourself as l find this time of yr hard leading up to Xmas. I don't like Dec , so many of us without family ..
Wishing you all the best Jacinta.
Honest & confident people are who they hate the most. Cultivate these 2 traits & you already defeated them. Never let your guard down.
Narcissists hate me, even target me because I stand up for righteousness and expose them😂😂
My covert malignant narc parent hates me. They have done a massive smear campaign against me over many years. But I won't let their hatred and obsession get to me!
It gets to you, I'm struggling the most because of the smear campaigns and people believed it and said nothing, not supporting me, that's what gets me
@@yvonnebasson8652 Yes, in my experience it does get to you, not least because they don't directly tell you what the smears are/were, they just judge you with relish but don't specify what it's based on, the implication suggesting that you must already know because, obviously, you are guilty. Of course, if they specified, you could refute it and they don't want that. They like it the way they see it.
OMG. You have described my whole family, but especially my mother who used to put down my therapist. At my college graduation, she tried to take credit for helping me through school, when she never paid for my tuition or supplies. I paid for my own tuition and supplies. My older brother was the golden child and grew up to be a terrible narcissist. In large part because of him, my father and I didn't speak for 11 years.
6:32 this is so strong it defies all logic. My dad and I are disabled and I’ve had 10 surgeries at a young age. Dad just was neglected and didn’t get taken care of so he struggled with alot of pain.
But he was a really smart guy.
Despite other family members not being disabled and being rich , his narc mom one day decided “kick [my dad] out of the family company [he helped build] so he can take care of me [since her scapegoat husband died].•
And everyone just was okay with that. Despite him not being able to physically handle it. The person that needed the most help was somehow told he needed to give the most help.
My dad dies of cancer. And they suddenly decided without talking to me that I was going to not work a job and not finish law school to “take care of grandma” since her golden child just his job was more important.
This witch has 10 total grandkids. But when I point out “now that I’m taking care of myself I need to handle everything dad handled and my responsibilities. You can’t ask the person in the most pain to give the most. You are not disabled.”
They just sat there making excuses and screaming “YOU DONT LOVE ME” on repeat like a mad women, followed by her golden child screaming “YOU DONT LOVE HER”. I pointed out “[uncle] so you don’t love your mom because you don’t want to do this ? And your kids don’t love your mom ?”
They kept freaking out pretending it wasn’t a double standard.
And right before I went no contact their only line was “oh but I bet if she died and she left you money you would accept it”.
Why do they say this? Because they know they are guilty of forcing the abuse now on their nephew, everyone else in the family enabling this for decades forcing it on my dad.
They lied that “parents are taken care of by their kids” when dad had cancer and I did everything and they complained it was never enough, while juggling law school.
And suddenly after dad dies she goes “oh you don’t need [law school] anymore, you are taken care of me and I’ll leave you stuff”.
I pushed back pointing out that I WANTED to work a job. And it’s like she was puzzled.
Then when I pointed out I never agreed to any of that she just kept screaming on repeat throwing her hands up in the air like I’m being nonsense “ITS ALREADY BEEN DECIDED”.
😳
My daughter was shocked and upset that her father hated her the most...may god 🙏 give her strength to bear all this..amen
Against my advice my daughter married a man whose mother is a narcissist. He is her golden child, so I'm constantly analyzing his behavior thru that lens. 🧐 But he's also severely damaged emotionally because of her and realizes how abusive she was to him and his sisters, 1 of whom has cut her out of her life.
So who does she hate? My daughter who took her golden child away from her. They are successfully living independently without her. So guess who she complained to and tried to turn against them. Me: the mother, and now grandmother, figure they do want involved in their lives. I simply told her, "I learned long ago not to get involved in other people's drama. So while I'm sorry for you as a mom, that they're not allowing you to be as involved as you'd like, I'm not getting drug into the middle of your relationship with your child and his wife. That's between you and them." How did she respond?Crickets (silence). And I'm perfectly OK with that. 😊
Ghosting 👻 is good, they'll come booeing to you, I'm getting it from the UK, great, feeling less guilty for not re-visiting, their dust mites are awful so.. They'll be less your problem, fair is fair, they started it we should all led by example! My daughter's off to Bali for Xmas with him and his ($) family, wants to get together prior, naw! My son and his fiancee are advised by me then asked "What's the best piece of advice my dad ever gave me? Don't get involved in other people's problems!" I'm golden child gone copper, my older brother had an affair with his mother in law, ate teen yrs, wife's that dumb, now his son has a woman who each far away town, I could slander but really not my style and, actually, none of my business, that's what my father in law said about a situation he was living, his bud's wife would call him complaining about his bud, which, he undoubtedly didn't care for dealt with it by saying it was none of his business. I don't know why my bro told me this, I commented to tell my nephew that was a tiring lifestyle and if I wasn't estranged from his wife my ex-bf (that's how they met) I'm sure I'd (No she never divorced him wishing to stay victim) be sick of hearing about it by now .... 😊 no contact crickets are good!
My mother apsolutely hated me.
Middle sister was golden child mother adored her, middle sister was also a narcissist (maybe a psychopath) a clone of mother 😔
Same here
Every thing mentioned in this video has happened throughout my entire life so far. My adopted parents don’t like that I am happy with my appearance and that I go to therapy 2 times a week for my trauma. In the past they banned me from having friends and they abused me in so many ways. My adopted parents saved my life medically just to keep hurting and I know I did not deserve that whatsoever. I am happy I do not live with them anymore but i still wish i had more people in my life at the same time.
My dad, who believed he was "the world's last great mind" fits this description. He hated his children (especially me), if we did something he didn't like on Christmas he would sell our presents to strangers for $1 apeice.
What a maniac! Poor you, such a lowlife!
How sad for you and so sadistic of him to sell your Christmas presents. That’s so evil.
@christinav3383 yes and he did it right in front of our little faces
😢..selling his belongings & leaving him destitute in old age would be appropriate, but of course good people never do..just stay no contact..
@gigiarmany All that is over, he's been dead for years now. I (as can so many of you!) could go on and on and on lol. 6 winters in Chicago without proper heat in the house, we huddled around a space lamp for warmth. While he took his horses and wintered in Hialeah, FL
My mother hated my therapist. She said he ruined me. Nope, he taught me to become free from panic attacks so I could live a normal life, away from her. She also disliked my friends when I’d bring them over. There was always something wrong with them, like bad manners or the ever accurate “I can’t put my finger on it, but….”
This is all 100% correct!
Much love, and Thank You
Good afternoon Danish! Thank you for sharing your tangible knowledge regarding these demons. Your always appreciated.God bless you 🙏
Your last question, who do they hate besides you..... 🤔 I'd say it was her father who she couldn't "control".
Thank you for helping us understand what we went through all those years! At the age of 65 i finally got all this and she wouldn't respect the gray rocking...so i told her since ive asked her repeatedly to STOP and she doesn't respect my wishes i will take it to the next level and file harrassment charges. ( yes, against my own mother😢) but.... it finally worked. i will soon be 68 and have not had one event or one contact with her since, and i have never known such peace!!!!!!
I can forgive, but that forgiveness does not change 'them", it sets us free and learning what your teaching gives us courage to takes some tough love stands. Thank you for these videos!!
So… they hate you because they ain’t you ? 3:15
Danish, Thank You for educating and warning us about Narcissists. Your Videos are Valuable.
The person they hated the most was my friend with severe PTSD whom I was helping and occasionally caring for. It had nothing to do with dividing my attention from them but I suspect they were jealous of anyone with genuine problems in their life, the sympathy and attention he was getting from my community when they believed only they deserved sympathy, and the thought that he (or anyone) could have so fully committed himself to something more important than what they have going on in their lives that the occupational hazzards got the better of him.
I'm the scapegoat sibling,my Mom used to compare my "Golden Child" elder brother to me.
She said that he is better than me because he scored 92% while I got 78% in 10th grade.
Thank You Dear Sir...
A reminder that standing in your truth and setting boundaries is the ultimate power move. 💪👏 Thanks for breaking this down so clearly
The most? Probably anyone who won't worship them!
love your videos, warm recommendation for you is to read 'Magnetic Aura' and thank me later
No thanks
My covert narc grandmother forced my dad out of the family company he started so she could get attention he got as a disabled person. She wanted to just be a public eye parent and that’s it. She yelled at him, while he was getting chemo (I was taking care of him) for pancreatic cancer, saying dad wasn’t doing enough for her “before he died”.
How awful, it's never enough so why bother! Mine's on her deathbed, still, should call, naw! She always wanted me to try to impress her while thought never entered my mind, I like(d) her as a person, to a point, but even that was a stretch, she lied I had power of attorney but still as next of kin saw she needed locking up, done!
another excellent video..🙌🏽🔥💖💥
Thank you so much for this episode! It explains so much, and really puts a few things in perspective ❤
My mom and sister HATED my now husband. They made up a whole story about him. That he was gonna ruin my life.
Gossipped about me. Made sure to spread misinformation and lies about me and him. Then they started threatening me and digging rheir claws in when i insisted over and over i loved him.
I ran and i married him. And im happy
Excellent video🎉
Thank you
If u feel energy drained no need to go with 2nd thought just leave them
I was emotionally ignored by mum.
This resonates so much!!
Omg you just summed my parents up in a nut shell!
True he did nothing for his children or hold them or speak to them. All he said to them when he got home was high babies that’s it. Yes he had me in an emotional coma so true. He hated my mother so much just like he hated me and did nothing but slave drive me consuming my entire energy while he sat and didn’t waste a drop of energy. Just like his mother she did nothing in their home. Her kids ate out and her husband ate soups he made while she ate so well at work at the cafeteria she worked at.
My sister was the golden child and became a worse narcissist than both my parents combined. She even threw my parents under the bus along with the rest of the family in a horrible smear campaign.
Well that's just their Karma then..
I have taken the ex narcissist to the highest court in the land, he has reported me to the government about my immigration status, and my son who is also charging him with years of hidden SA by the narc. We are immigrants to the country we are in.
This video is Brilliant. 👏 Thank You
After 30 years of marriage I could take no more... my Dad passed away at home, my brother who waa blind (he is no longer with us) phoned my now ex husband, who then phoned me, whilst I was with my Mum at a hospital appointment (she'd had a severe stroke a few years earlier and was in a nursing home) she was in a wheelchair and he had the audacity to ask me if I wanted his Dad to pick us up (my car was at the nursing home) and take us to the home.
My home was about 100 yards from my parents and he couldn't make the effort himself to be supportive. He had had a new knee fitted 7 weeks prior but he did nothing to help himself improve (no exercise, nothing) just wanted to play the victim yet again. Incidentally, my Dad saw right through him and didn't like him, but he never interfered and my ex husband new this. There's more but to much to mention.
Sounds like you psychoanalyzed Will and Jada! Brilliant analysis!
This is so true Mr Danish.
💯💯💯💥💥💥absolutely always heard you can't work like I do.! Which I was the one getting awards from my job. Never boast about to the narcs! But I wanted to.
The best video!
So true. In families and any other permanent or semi permanent groups. I salute you from México.
As soon as you figure out that the other person's brand of "love" makes you feel like shit and unsafe, it's time to go. Don't sleep with the person before you've seen the "real" person, either; it'll make a pile of pooh look shiny and promising, especially if it's good ☠
This is off topic sorry but before I left the narc I was waking up next to him with very vivid impressions. Not from dreams as such but like I was tuning into his dreams and the impressions were like insights from a higher source trying to wake me to a deeper truth about my ex. It was an eye opener. And very creepy.
I was best child and good student but parents hated most and made othrs hate
As a daughter of a covert narcissist mother I can approve this.
I can not take her seriously. But other people do 😄 - people who do not know.
What regards narcissists attitude towards spouse - 100%
About fathers Best friend also right. All this is 100% right.
They also hate your mother.
My narc ex always complained about how much his kids were expensive (child support). He straight up told me not to have kids, right in front of his teen son. I had arguments with him about how his words can be affecting his children but of course everyone is wrong except him. He even told me I should date his son then since we had so much in common and I came to his son's defense....again his teenage son!
Without question my husband hates me the most. Then it's my best friend.
for all book enjoyers like myself, reading the ebook 'Magnetic Aura' is a must
Danish, how does a person become narcissist?
Mostly getting too spoiled with too much freedom and too much pampering since an early age is what turns many people into narcissists. They begin believing they deserve everything in the world.
Although, quite a few people, are born narcissists even without freedom or pampering. Humans are essentially children of angels and demons. Narcissists tend to have more inherited traits of demons than those of angels.
He would know 😆 he is one
@@DamageControlLLCsounds more like you are one..lurking in the creators content looking for tips how to be a better narcissist 😂
@gigiarmany and he's liar
@gigiarmany He manipulated you because you're a smoothbrain.
He has called my family to hover nd beg me to come back to what please??
Keep on moving away from, by any means necessary. As noted in this post, the NARC steals, kills, and destroys everything that makes you a human, a person with morals, a heart, an individual with feelings. They thrive on destruction; especially when they're met with the response of NO.
1. Bio-mom refused to attend her youngest daughter's wedding, even though this SAME daughter was forced to excel I English, in the hope of being human translator in a future that somehow included me.
2. Adoptive Narcmom insisted on calling me, "Princess," to my Dad, even tho the man BENT OVER BKWRDS 4 HER. At age 80, when she giggled and told me, "Burn it!!!" with regards to her wedding album... Why, she shattered more than i thought an 80yr old ever could!
3. If there's such a thing as Passive Aggressive Attempted Manslaughter, having been married to Narcspouse ("Möldemört" as Kiddo & i like to call him) for 17yrs may have given me some insight im willing to share 😃 Like being given COVID "accidentally," or being forced to hike in early Spring meltoff without proper footwear! #AskMe!
Danish how about a narc man who is never satisfied and always hungry, loving the food but eats it like he is a empty well, you can give and give but keeps eating, like these types are so empty literally all anger take energy from them ofccourse, always in everything they are unfulfillable, thnx ' i'm still fighting out. plan
His parents.
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs
Mera ek friend narcissistic he usne muje bohot abuse Kiya he uski vajese mujhe bohot bimariya Hui he me chodna chahti hu to kya me use sab boldu ki use Mera sath galat kiya he me dar ki vajese kabi bol hi nhi payi bohot depression me hu me please help me kya karu batayiye please please bohot darti hu usse male friend he
Leave for Chrst sake
Danish Sir will you translate in malayalam.' so manypeople suffering .Please sir
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Are people who are narcists born that way or they become narcissts later because of their environment or is it a genetic issue or
Prof Sam Vaknin
U tube very in-depth..
@@jbuntine1255exactly
English subtitles vekamo njan malayali anu
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for all book enjoyers like myself, reading the ebook 'Magnetic Aura' is a must
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