What to do when you are in the friendzone
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- When you are caught in the friendzone a big dilemna a lot of guys feel they have is that they are scared about losing a friend in the process. I am here to tell you that you never had a friend to begin with and as a result you are actually losing nothing.
Now I am not saying having female friends is bad. I love having female friends but being friends with someone that you can be caught in the 'friendzone' means she is not a real friend. Get friends from a healthy place not a needy one.
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Hi my name is Lloyd and I used to be a guy who had absolutely no luck with women. I had a much easier time with doing physics and playing sports. They made sense and people, especially women, just confused me. However after years of putting myself into uncomfortable social situations I finally began dating the women I wanted to date and found out that most of what I thought before wasn't what actually made men successful.
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I agree with that..."Step away from the thing causing you pain". Wow powerful. Great lesson.
Yes. That's it.
Even if your ain’t attracted to her it would come a point where you would wanna fuck her !! It’s nature so go no contact
when you are in the friendzone, act like a man instead of a boy. be direct with your intentions, if she doesn't want to link up with you move on, simple. dont complicate things. you can also go ghost on her, and work on your purpose, post thirst traps on social media, and yourself with other girls, and she will bounce right back, viewing you as a high value man. try for yourselves.
What if I deleted my social media due to heartbreak and low self esteem? Most likely she’ll forget me faster? Cause it’s been 4 months already without any social media. I honestly already feel forgotten for good 💔
Don’t expect her to come back. If she’s back it’s okay but don’t expect. Move on dude. Love yourself first.
@@kolamenh8659 I've never felt so worthless 😞
@@final58fant58 Don't try to manipulate her back into your life by posting on social media and indirectly trying to get her attention. You need to ACTUALLY move on and stop thinking about her.
@@PentaKillMedia I deleted my IG a day after she blocked me so there’s no way for me to post on social media and if i did im pretty sure she would never check on me im dead to her and fucked up by messaging her recently that i miss her and love her. I just need to stop thinking about her and i already left her alone and stopped stalking her because it would just make it worst to forget her. But somehow i still have her face ingrained into my mind and dream of her alot it’s so annoying 😑
This guy speaks the truth. Staying in the friendzone is nothing but false hope and a world of hurt. You have to make the logical decision by ghosting her and focusing on YOUR goals.
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no, you dont have to ghost her, thats not right at all, if someone means something a lot to you, you shouldn't ghost them, keep them in your life, but remember where you stand and you can find someone else to be with whilst keeping her as a good friend
Don't ghost them! Tell them you're done and cut them out of your life! Otherwise, you'll be a total loser and never get a meaningful relationship with that person or any other person. Cut that person out!
@@mortalkomment8028 don't listen to that advice, if someone is special to you even as a friend, then you dont need to cut them out of your life, you will not be total loser for keeping that person in your life whilst respecting your boundaries, and you can still get into a meaningful relationship with someone else too
What's worse than friendzones is keep attracting women available for you that you don't like
I just stopped talking to a girl I really liked and it was the best feeling. Now that it’s over I feel way less emotionally drained.
Wish I could say the same.. I again feel I lost a opportunity something special it still hurts and it's going a month now.. We had so much fun yet she needed time she said. Then two weeks later hooked up with someone else.. But trying to focus on my purpose but proving difficult..
Focus on career and net worth. Cut all non-essentials. Invest in yourself. Learn the personal financial system. Determine one*s goal and go for that and only that. Every day you don*t increase your net worth, and free yourself from the Man, is a wasted day. When the hourglass is empty, it is EMPTY. Rent, never buy.
It's a shitty feeling...going through it now. I left the door open...but walked 2 months ago
@@samuelwebster2769 I hate to break it to you, but you didn't lose an opportunity. That's because you never that opportunity with her. She didn't like you enough. It's healthier to pretend that she died. I hope you eventually realize that not talking to her is the best thing for you.
@@rushrush1209 she kissed me twice it was looking good.. Then the testing started and I failed a few and that's when her a traction started waining... But yeah to be honest I'm kind of over her.. I live in a small town so it's no easy task meeting someone new here often.. But I haven't seen her since November December last year.. She definitely moved on has had about 4 guys since me lol..
Learn when to walk away from a relationship for your own good
You may get your feelings hurt, and some might even struggle to let go. But the important thing to remember is that life is short and you shouldn’t really waste your time on people who don’t feel the same. Take good care of yourself, dream big and achieve your goals. Don’t change yourself for other people, be yourself at all times, and I’m sure you will find love one day. Who ever is reading this, i hope you have a happy and successful life💫🙌
"Life is short" it really gets me, thanks for this powerful message and i'll remembering it always 🙏
@@yogad7814 yeah
Couple things to remember here:
1. You never have to apologize for being intentional and anyone who makes you is bad news for you.
2. It's hard to let go of something that isn't working out, but much better for your mental health when you finally do.
3. You think you can't live without the person who doesn't want you, but you will realize how wrong you are when you do live with the person who does want you.
#3 is hard as it's not an experience most have had or even have had examples of. Dysfunctional relationships are getting so normalized within the past 20 years or so that people settle for toxic situations because they think it's the best they can do for themselves. When you actually find something that is legitimately healthy for you, you'll forget all about how attached you were to any previous toxic individuals.
Usually when you develop feelings and fall in love with a friend is just because you don't have options, you go 100% on this person because you have that person there and you don't have to exert any effort to meet new people, so you start to think that that person is the right one for you, but it's false, it's just a flaw of the mind, the world is full of right people for you if you are willing to meet them
Wella, ciao 🖐️ long time no see. A sto giro sono proprio d'accordo con te haha😂 sempre parlare con almeno 10 donne tutte assieme, non si sa mai in che modo ognuna di loro può deluderti, quindi options options options!!
@@freddylimpster7137 ahahahahahahah e sono cambiate tante cose, ho una vita completamente nuova e stravolta, comunque si, in genere questa cosa accade anche perchè, come dice Lloyd all'inizio del video, si suppone che l'autore della domanda sia molto giovane e perchè ripeto, sostanzialmente non hai opzioni e passi il 100% del tempo solo con quella persona e finisci o per prenderti una sbandata/cotta perchè non vedi e senti altro che quella persona o ad autoconvincerti che quella sia la persona giusta per te, ma basta vedere e/o sentire anche solo due ragazze in piú e ti accorgi che frequentare una sola persona ti fa finire in quella cosa che gli americani chiamano one-itis, altro che sentimenti e amore, prendi semplicemente una fissa perchè è l'unica persona con la quale trascorri il tempo.
P.S. Aggiungo che anche focalizzarsi su stessi, che so il proprio lavoro, i propri studi, una passione, uno sport, ti aiuta ad evitare queste fisse e a capovolgere la situazione, in quanto se una ragazza vede che tu sei cosí tanto focalizzato sulle tue cose e a migliorare te stesso finisce lei per prendersi la fissa per te
Sorry but I get pissed everytime people say... oh don't worry, you will find the perfect partner...that girl was not the right one for you...this world has 7 billion or so people so yeah right there's always someone out there who will give you the love that you desire... but guess what not everyone is super rich to travel the world and find their soulmate and even then... human beings have limited time at their hands ... probably 10 years or even less... since men generally start finding their life partner at age 25 till 35 .... if they can't find the right partner... then it's over
LOVE IN MY BOOK IS ALL ABOUT LUCK ... NOT DESTINY
So goodluck convincing me that there exists a perfect life partner for me. I am 35 already and single... was cheated on by a stupid low class girl who slept around with 20 other men.
@@TheSelfAwareIndianEmpath it's not about money, I'm really poor XD, it's not about travelling, it's not about luck, it's not about destiny, dating game it's all about your skills as everything in life. If you want to get promoted at your job you need a certain level of skills that you improve over time, if you want to success at school you need a certain level of skills, if you want to success in sports also here you need a certain level of skills, and you have to be patient to develop skills you need in a certain field if you really want to be successful, you will go through a lot of setbacks, but if you want something life is in this way. In my opinion and in my experience the greatest skill that works with every woman is pull and push technique, all women surrend to this technique also the most beautiful ones, it's not about that shitty stories you will meet your soulmate or the partner of your life, these are just bullshit, all women work in the same way, someone with a little bit of difference, but the way to make them fall in love with you is always the same, i.e. putting thoughts and doubts inside their mind, and the most powerful and safest way to do it is by showing and not showing interest, pull and push technique, hot and cold, sometimes you care about them, sometimes you do as if they don't even exist, believe me this works with every woman
Speaking facts
I couldn’t agree more that keeping a girl you’re romantically interested in as a close friend is worse than no relationship at all. I had a female friend who I was into who started dating a mutual friend. As much as I wanted to be happy for them and stay friends with her, having to see them together all the time just sucked. Eventually, they both distanced themselves from our larger group, so the situation worked itself out in the end.
You put yourself in the friend zone. It's communicating feelings and intentions. Not playing social manipulation games, etc. If they don't see you that type of way, then distance yourself from them. If need be, tell them you can't be friends with them if they don't see you the same way and move on.
The best way to not get friend zoned is to not start it It the first place.
By the way I am not knocking having female friends if the friendship starts from the right place. You can turn female friends into relationships or sexual partners. I do this all the time. For me the friendzone doesn't exist. But in this example he started and continues as a friend because that is all he is ever going to get.
So what do you suggest to turn female friend into relationships partner ? Thanks
@TheSingleGuy What about if you are having sex with her and are more than just FWB (talk and text everyday) but it's more like an unofficial open relationship (both seeing other people), yet she doesn't want a relationship and maybe you do, and you love her and she doesn't feel as strong. Tips appreciated!
@@felbaud It only works if you started as friends with the genuine intention to be friends, become interested in each other as you get to know one another, and are genuine about your escalated intentions when you get attracted. Becoming friends with someone with the hidden agenda of dating them is a surefire way to get ghosted because it communicates very low self esteem and in several ways is disrespectful to the other person. Nerves or not, everyone deserves the decency of the truth.
@@michaelpatterson7062 In my opinion, this is a situation where direct communication is the way to go. If you tell her that, she keeps your relationship open, and you still want more than that, you have to let go of your feelings and move on. It takes two committed people to make up a successful relationship and one cannot pick up the other's slack. It's painful to let go of unrequited love for sure, but much healthier for you to not be reminded of it every single day than it is for you to stick around when you aren't getting what you want.
So do you delete her? Like what do you do
You know what, that’s scarcity mindset. If you truly feel that for someone then you need to let them know or make a move even if it dissipates or makes the friendship awkward.
Had to listen to this 10 times to really face my reality thank you bro i really needed to hear the truth
Glad it could help man. Don't worry. Every guy goes through this
It's either all or nothing. Being friends with a woman you love will only cause extra heartache and pain.
Never ever have a woman as a "Best Friend" period! Not Today!
It's simple keep your mouth shut, and step away because she's holding you back from seeing other opportunities around you.
This man should've won a Nobel Prize 👏🏼
I reunited with a friend that i haven’t seen it 20 years back in August, i began thinking of her as more than a friend but with all my bad luck, i came to my senses and stopped before things got worse
Want to get out of the friend zone? Stop simping on her and making her the priority in your life. Focus on yourself, your life goals and your own self improvement. As Lloyd said, it is a losing battle and absolute torture (to yourself) to stick around her waiting for her to finally 'come round' and see your value.
Your value will come out only when you become confident in yourself (by working on yourself) and eliminate the need for validation by others including this girl. And don't believe what you see in the movies, that's a load of nonsense.
I've been there a few times as well but the last time was the final straw and when I got friend zoned and rejected upon telling her how I felt. It sucked but I later turned the tables on her when I decided to stop calling, texting, wasting time on her and instead prioritising myself, thus eliminating her from my life.
She came running right back to me but by that time, I just didn't want to know.
It's honestly great to see other brothers talk about their experiences with this. It's so common and painful, but it's also no one's fault at the same time. The only time it becomes someone's fault is when you keep hoping in vain that something will happen, even though there's a 99% chance nothing ever will.
Don’t settle for a friendship
I really appreciate that you actually gave advice on how to potentially make it happen, not just saying to give up and find someone else.
Personally I don't ghost or never talk to them again but I just move on and date other girls.
Its less brutal, and more civilised. If someone has been ok, there's no need to be rude, I agree.
I have spilled feelings, been shot down, told them that I can’t be “just a friend” and cut ties. Just to have them reach back out to me months later and try to force me into the friend box. That trying to force somebody that you know has feelings for you to be your friend is what I refer to as the friend zone these days.
Keep up the great work man, I think your the most honest channel about this stuff, and you don’t tell us to be somebody that we aren’t, nor tell us that we are wrong because we aren’t blaming ourselves for everything (looking at you, dr nerdlove)
I've been there. Mine works with me. AND keeps trying to force me into some creepy workplace friendzone. Best thing to do then is turn on your heel and walk in the opposite direction. EVERY TIME.
Staying friends is like a lap dance. You never going to get what you want
If a woman friend zone you, cut off all communication with that woman. I don’t come in second place for anybody.
Guys, if you ever get put in the friend zone tell her that you don’t want to be friends and move on. There are 4 billion women in this world, stop putting these girls on pedestals
A genuine friendship between a man and a woman rarely exists. 9/10 the man wants to sleep with her so sticks around wasting his time until he realizes he isn't getting any, then the 'friendship' ends. Occasionally the woman wants to be his girlfriend so runs around doing a load of stuff for him thinking it will win him over until she realizes he just wants to F younger, prettier women.
about a year ago I walked away from what I will call a “friendzone” situation. One of the things I told her was I apologized to her for ever letting her believe that I was ok with being just her friend. It was a hard moment of my life but ultimately a weight came off my shoulders tremendously. Some bitterness and hurt is there but im working on that and will eventually get past it. I think what alot of dudes don’t realize or maybe they don’t want to realize like myself is the way out of the “friendzone” is to walk away. Like you said I was torturing myself.
Love it how he says "i'm not the single guy"!! Definitely his new girlfriend telling him to say that !!
I would probably say "DO... NOT... BE... FRIENDS... WITH... A... GIRL... YOU... ARE... ATTRACTED... TO!"
At the 5:10 mark Your advice was perfect!!! ~~ If you have a Burning desire to be with someone & you think being a friend is better than being nothing , YOU'RE WRONG!!! Being nothing is Better than that because now you have the option of meeting someone else who is going to desire you. " Best advice I've ever heard, Thankyou, Mr. Loyd .
why being friend with her stopping you from meeting someone else? you could easily meet someone while being friend with her. But you need to have a little emotional distance with her.
I've been watching your videos for a while now and I've really learned a lot. You offer solid advice for a previous single guy. Your points are valid and better than most of these RUclips dating experts
Holding on is always more painful than letting go.
Honestly, dont bother telling your feelings to her. You would have moved past being friends if she gave the signals. Ghost her, and let her ask why, and put it simply: if our feelings arent mutual, this isnt continuing a second longer.
bad, ghosting is bad full stop, dont take the ghosting advice people
I did that shit, she tried calling me everyday for a week but never picked up
I agree, this definitely applies to staying friends with an ex that you had strong feelings for.
Of all the friendzoned videos I like this one the most! No bullshit straight to the point
Just move on
My social skills are horrible and it's even worse when it comes to girls, but now I'm really surprised at myself because I spent last week just overthinking my friendzone situation and came up with the idea that I might just quit. I wasn't really confident about it thou but now that I see someone advising the same thing I'm confident it is the right thing to do. Sometimes you just have to face the reality.
"This is not a real friend who stands up for you and is going to make you happy." (4:18) Harsh but true in my experience the moment it comes to a toss-up between Familiar, Sweet Old Faithful You and Random New Boyfriend X. Sooner or later you'll find yourself thinking "Sheesh, I never knew you at all." Anyway, that's nicely put. I had to learn the hard way too :/
Couldn’t help but laugh at the thumbnail
“She never was your friend”
I’m here like “Shitttt that’s not my friend ? Ok!”
The stock analogy really hit me hard 🔥
Bro, I got friendzoned 23 times, im 25 and I still never had the opportunity to have a girlfriend to this day. I think I'm a normal dude, I have a company and that, hard worker, live next to beach, etc. I'm just too introverted bc I had a rough childhood and I'm a very nice and lovely guy, and that's the problem but I can't be mean at the same time. Its gone to a point when I start laughing at their face when they claim the lovely friendship that we have. I laugh out of the delusion these creatures put on themselves to make you think that everything is perfect
He’s right i’ve took a lot from this video and his other videos thank you for helping me i’ve been in love with this woman and we’ve been on and off for the past year and a half and I spent eight months trying to win her back but she doesn’t feel the same way about me anymore so i need to just put my self first and get out of this situation as she spends half the time ignoring my messages and ignoring what I’m saying not even hearing me out yes I made mistakes but it doesn’t make me a bad person i’m going to stop showing her that I’ve changed because that’s not the right way to do it I don’t think she’ll ever come back round if she does great but I’m not waiting around forever I’m going to get myself back out there and find someone that wants to be with me and the next time I find true love I’m not gonna mess up and I will be keep watching your videos because they do help so I think I’m on the road to recovery thank you again why is love so complicated but she’s not with my time she’s not worth my energy I deserve better than this I know I do
Thank god for Lloyd. Nothing but the honest to god truth everytime
Can’t stop watching this video absolutely spot-on
I was in this situation and actually followed your advice before I even watched this video about the same time you dropped it, glad I did the right thing
You have to choose… To risk or not to risk… If you want to risk, say your piece… if she doesn’t reciprocate move on. Walk away.
This is definitely one of the things I wish I had learned when I was younger. Spent too long pining for a girl than I should have. Took way longer to overcome the situation than I should have - I'm talking years of trying to balance the friendship and suppressing the feeling. Eventually this feeling died out, and I still keep her friendship to some degree - not as close as it used to be. But things could have had gone another way had I not let myself fall deep into that hole. Men need to learn to not fall into the trap of young love.
Ya great advice
Out of all the times I’ve been in the friend zone with a girl. I think it only worked out for me twice where I stuck around and hooked up with them. But those were rare occasions.
I agree. Put that energy elsewhere
You’re standing on the pitchers mound. While she’s not even in the ball park.
Life’s too short to spend time trying to win a losing battle.
These girls are the worst too. When you pull yourself out of the situation you realize how toxic they are. It might take a couple of years but you’ll see how bad she would have been if things miraculously worked out the way you hoped. It’s weird but people crush on those that would absolutely be the worst for them.
Always remember, if you have to insert yourself into her life, it’s not going to work. She’s looking for the guy that she can follow and get out of her shitty life.
I can relate to this video I’ve been friends & been inseparable since will started talking to each other & that I absolutely adore she says there is no romantic Link on her side. So i walked away It was like a major break up my heart was so broken it took months to get over her.
If she was your friend you could tell her you liked her and if she didn't feel the same she would try to comfort you and that freindship should be just as strong
You are very articulate and honest, I am so happy that you got through your struggles and that your here today, helping others that are in similar circumstances to the ones you were in(during your hardships). Props to you!
Don't fall into the friendzone trap. All they want is to use you for resources and attention. Don't waste your time. Focus on bettering yourself and getting in shape
Thank you Sir, I needed to hear this!
Nicely said. I think step 1 is being willing to walk away.
why is it that women have a hard time verbalising relationship stuff? example: a woman will say something like 'it just happened' meanwhile the guy they got with is like :stage 1, stage 2, say a joke, stage 3 touch her arm, stage 4 make a move.
My guess is because guys are more logical, they like to break things up and organise them.
Women tend to just go with feelings
Plus women don't really need to put effort in early on
Usually it is not the woman's job to initiate the relationship. That's the guy. However when it comes to maintaining a relationship. Listen to all the theories they have
Because women have a harder time with being intentional and taking accountability for their actions. Most women act on how they feel versus most men act on how they think. Women don't want to logically justify your relationship, they just want to feel attracted. They don't talk about it because 1) they want you to have high enough emotional intelligence to figure it out yourself and 2) being honest about how you genuinely feel about someone is scary. Most people are not attracted to the majority of people they interact with, but women never want to verbalize this because they never want to be the bad person. They'd much rather blame their lack of attraction on you or something you did than admit to you they just weren't feeling it because that would require accountability.
@@TheSingleGuy Good point, it is interesting the verbiage they use to describe the courtship and how vague and innocent it can be, like sometimes you watch an interaction between a man and the woman and you can tell the man is putting on moves-meanwhile the woman would say 'we were just talking :) x'
I totally agree with his opinion because there are plenty of fishes in the sea…
When you get put in the friend zone, go ghost. IMHO a girl telling you she wants to just be friends is very disrespectful
They are only stunting there own growth of finding happiness. By just being that friend hanging around waiting
Move. The last time I fell in love but was trapped in the friendzone I made sure we do not live on the same continent. It took me only 3 years to get over her. Unfortunately, I didn't find another woman to date, so I still keep her at a distance.
Lol you kidding right
She texts me, but I stopped initiating texts. 2 weeks later she still text me, but no deep conversations. I'm not investing too much in what is probably not likely, but maybe I shall close that door forever?
tHIS WAS VERY WELL NEEDED THANK YOU
My best advice is to go out with another woman. When she see's you having fun with another woman that's when she will actually be interested and come around. That's how I have come out of the friend zone in the past. Honestly don't wait for that to happen. Just have fun dating other women and if she has any feelings she will come around
Loyed out here saving lives 🙏🏽
It's hard to say no to that though cuz those can be very strong connections
I get friend zoned every fucking time I like a girl
He is right on following a man or a man to lead them
I get so overwhelm if i had to do that. That is very unattractive in a man when he does not have a plan in life
Just wow !!!! This is what I realised and implemented in my life and you made a video on this 💎 such a gem .. u have a brain loyd , keep going , the best Channel
Friendzone means you are only there for HER benefit ....not yours
I’m be honest 2 years ago I had a crush on my close friend and I had to decide to tell her or keep friends and I decided to keep being friends and got over it and we got closer it’s tough but decide
the bright side to being in the friend zone is other women desire you because your attention isn't on them
As a FRIEND, she can introduce you to other women. Ask her, see what her reaction is...
GREAT advice, dont waste time, men. You are only on the planet a short time and women are not the romantics that the dumb movies show
If she saw him as a guy worthy of being a boyfriend, she would have made a move. Clearly she looks at him as someone she can use when she needs something. A man should never, ever allow a woman in his life unless he benefits. I would consider her as a “friend” only if she could set him up with her friends. Other than that it is romance or move on.
Being friend zoned is for losers. Its a dead end street. Furthermore they will not respect as a man.
Thank you for this video
You gotta be willing to flip the chessboard in the air. If you want more, ALWAYS deny being just friends
Man I am learning English as a second language and I wanna sound like you. What is your state's name ?
His accent is Midland American English
Just tell her!! nothing to lose.
if you ask a girl out your not going to have a friend ship either way shes going to date you or reject you and then youll walk away
Manipulative women don't reject you though, they tell you ''not right now'' or something similar and string you along to make you think you have a chance, while they sleep with someone else.
If you have any self respect. Thank her for not wasting your time and bounce.
I’ve never been in that situation and I’m 27
I don't like that the girl gets mad at you for liking her
Dont ever tell a chick how you feel, If youre hanging out for a few weeks and shes not dropping any signals thats shes interested there's no reason to tell her how you feel you'll end up stroking her ego and you'll end up getting weeded. Lastly, no chick is cool enough to waste any time watching youtube videos on how to win them over. I've hooked up with a couple of crushes and its NEVER as good as you think it will be.
Song at the end? Great content per usual! Thanks!
Embrace pain
Thank you i really need this to open my mind,, im this situation and its good to be nothing than hurt every day that maybe she will have feelings for me.
Well said
If y'all ain't kiss or more keep it moving
You definitely should express yourself as soon as you feel that way You don't want to lie to her about how you feel either..
This dude looks like prince
Remember with women, if you're not the project, you're most definitely the tool.
A woman doesn't put you in the friendzone: YOU put you in the friendzone.
This is essentially the experience I had.
However, there was one evening when she gave me clear signals of interest, and like an ass I thought “she’s turned me down before, I’m not gonna go for it straight away, I’ll wait till next time”. And so I waited, and circumstances got in the way, and there wasn’t a next time, and she told me a while later by phone that she wants to be friends. And I’ve stayed in touch by text, of course hoping that something will change, but it hasn’t, and probably never will.
So I need to cut her off, but it’s really hard. We became very close, and it really felt like there could have been something amazing between us.
Exit the friend zone, enter the "yourself zone". Any time or money spent on women, and not on one*s net worth is wasted. Rent, gentlemen.
Thinking maybe this makes more sense: some men aren’t used to the fact that women think they are top tier….they get friendzoned. Those that realize what women are thinking will not be friendzoned.
Great video as always !!!!
One of the things guys that went through this can tell you is that she is not really your friend. Girls are not dumb, she knows you like her. (Unless she thinks you are gay or if you both are in what she thinks are happy relationships with others). If you are young and in the same social circle, she will be nice to you until that ends, then she will basically disappear other than a few whats up texts a couple time a year. And if your gut tells you she is not interested, you are better not telling her and you disappear from her life. Your gut is 100% right, because if a girl likes you she lets you know and it will be obvious. Hanging out with a girl as friends is a waste of time and shows you have no other options. Even if true, that is temporary and you are better off not wasting your time and trying to meet women who do like you.
This is so true, about a year and four months ago I had a girl at work flirt hard with me so finally I manned up and said I like her too she then told me I like you but it can’t be more because of her ex boyfriend, I stuck around in hopes the mindset flips and at times it did but I kinda lingered around for like six months trying to get her to commit and it was miserable. After that, I met a girl who was in a relationship and before I knew that I told her I liked her so I stuck around as her friend for like 7 months, they broke up and I broke it to her again, she then said she needs time, I finally realized the mistake I kept making and it was latching into hope, fuck that, stand up for yourself, hold your value, if they wanna tag along then they will hit you back up. I pretty much told her listen even though you say you like me but you need time I told her I’ve waited for 7 months now I’m going to put that energy into someone who wants me now. She’s super upset and blocked me but it’ll go one of two ways. 1. I find a chick that’s ready or 2. She realizes she fucked up and is losing someone of huge value. Don’t wait around for their bullshit boys it really is fucking miserable snap that shit off right when you notice the friendzone