How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone - 3 Strategies For Smart Guys

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @RedM-lk6fk
    @RedM-lk6fk Год назад +29

    She had me in the first half, I ain't gon lie.
    Fellas you wanna speed up the escape from the friendzone?
    1. Remove attention
    2. Date other women.
    Although, at that point I don't understand why you would want to still pursue her? She didn't choose you. Like Michael B Jordan said... "Her loss"

  • @Tpprq
    @Tpprq 5 месяцев назад +42

    How to get out of friendzone? Don’t get into friendzone, if she’s not into you, go away immediately and never talk to her again. That’s it. This way you never get into friendzone.

    • @TheSnoozeFox
      @TheSnoozeFox 5 месяцев назад

      What if we already slept together previously?

    • @ruimatos7724
      @ruimatos7724 4 месяца назад +1

      People change mate. If you're exactly the same person you were when you first met all of the people in your life, you're screwed. Same goes for the other person 😀

    • @jonathanmunar3005
      @jonathanmunar3005 2 месяца назад

      Yes that is spot on

    • @quesostuff1009
      @quesostuff1009 18 дней назад

      @@ruimatos7724I think there’s a difference between cooling off and leaving distance rather than going ghost

    • @ruimatos7724
      @ruimatos7724 17 дней назад

      @@quesostuff1009 agreed, there is a difference. What's your point?

  • @buicklincoln
    @buicklincoln Месяц назад +5

    Rule 1: Never, never, never, let her tell you her man troubles. Once she gets comfortable telling you about her cheating boyfriends, you got friendzoned.

  • @Ramt33n
    @Ramt33n 3 месяца назад +14

    OMG, Guys if she doesn't like you (friendzoning you) please for the love of God ignore her advice and take your pride and move on. Confessions of feelings will make you look only more cringe if she doesn't find you hot!

    • @michaelschmidt622
      @michaelschmidt622 2 месяца назад +1

      Well said! It's OKAY for a guy to show how he feels about being rejected, and WALKING AWAY. For the sake of his emotional wellbeing, blocking her everywhere is perfectly reasonable.

  • @angeldiaz762
    @angeldiaz762 Год назад +13

    I have not been "obviously" friendzoned since I stopped being a Niceguy. And the reason is, I think, because I've disqualified myself from it. I've become _way_ "selfish!" If she knows she can't take me for a ride, "keep me around," as like a simp or someone she's getting favors out of, then she won't try. It also helps my cause that she's typically got orbiters that she does end up using.
    If you're a guy reading this, there's another side to it too that I don't think people emphasize enough, in this conversation in particular. And that is this: there could be a dozen reasons external to you that she doesn't like you. Maybe she found someone else. Maybe she just got out of a bad relationship. Don't _always assume_ that you fucked up; although it can be important to recognize when you do, if you're walking yourself thru the interactions that you have and not easily identifying something that could've ruined it from you, then I'd say don't stress on it too much. If it occurs to you years later, great.

    • @DatingByBlaine
      @DatingByBlaine  Год назад +5

      Thank you so much for that great input. I hope other guys can read this too.

  • @AlejandroLB59
    @AlejandroLB59 Год назад +3

    What’s important too on the self improvement is do it for yourself and/or your family first and foremost. Overtime you’ll notice you’re gaining people’s genuine attention more and more as your success becomes apparent (how the tables turn). Status in this social media-centric era has really become a focal point for attraction over just finances or physical appearances alone.

  • @LordMcIntoshofMoy
    @LordMcIntoshofMoy 9 месяцев назад +14

    Causes of being in the friend zone = not meeting her looks threshold

    • @jonhadley-zx2iu
      @jonhadley-zx2iu 2 месяца назад +2

      Which she won't see you as being a catch

    • @crossingthechannel4631
      @crossingthechannel4631 2 месяца назад +2

      Basically 100% of women

    • @jonhadley-zx2iu
      @jonhadley-zx2iu 2 месяца назад +1

      @@crossingthechannel4631 I think that there are many women who are pricing themselves out of the market

    • @dani95barefield65
      @dani95barefield65 2 месяца назад

      No not Just that. I had a date ith a very nice feminine traditional woman. We met in the country side, but she was in university, we agreed to Keep in touch. When she finished university she said we should spend a few a days together, I accepted. She was texting me that she can not wait to see mee again and stuff, but when I met her now she seemed a little nervous. But we went to alot of places. When she came back and it was like our 5th date she suddently said from her part we cant be more then friends...
      I was kinda devastated. She éven texted me If I am ok.
      Who knows I might reconect with her when I have a good job and finished my cutting phase in the gym. But my eyes are open for other girls,but it is hard, most girls who are prety are so Full of them selfes... I hate dateing...

  • @MrSam2908
    @MrSam2908 Год назад +12

    I definitely lack the chemistry part; thus, making most of the conversation leading to a more friends type of vibe, even if the girl knows she is on a date with me

  • @franktaylor7978
    @franktaylor7978 2 месяца назад +2

    If a person friend zones you and you don’t want to be just friends, don’t waste your time. Move on.

  • @eh3535
    @eh3535 11 месяцев назад

    Great content Blaine! So well stated and on point!🙏🙏🙏

  • @glennm449
    @glennm449 Месяц назад +2

    I'm in the friend zone until they realize I'm rich. I act poor and test them. Most are superficial and parasitic.

  • @dudeiusmannigast1543
    @dudeiusmannigast1543 Месяц назад +2

    If she puts you in the friend zone... Get over her fast! And NEVER go after her again, even if she realizes what a great guy you are later on! Remember this is after all what she wanted!

  • @fbisurveillance4483
    @fbisurveillance4483 Год назад +2

    I’ve been following your content for a bit and I finally got a date. Thanks for the advice Blaine!

    • @DatingByBlaine
      @DatingByBlaine  Год назад +2

      This just made my day!!!!!!!

    • @xpallodoc1147
      @xpallodoc1147 Год назад +1

      I like her advice but and this is a big but why date? Also what is date? What is dating? What’s the gameplan. Did you touch, kiss or more on this thing you call a date that you finally got. You seem to credit Blaine partially for getting this date I’m curious why

    • @phabeondominguez5971
      @phabeondominguez5971 Год назад

      ​@@xpallodoc1147its been 10months, hav you figured it out yet?

  • @MegaNemesis87
    @MegaNemesis87 24 дня назад +1

    What do you mean by "I don't maket the rules" thats the main problem in the first place, women DO make the rules, they have the final word 100% of the times we just must resolve around the results, most of the times die in combat like a brave soldier.

    • @quesostuff1009
      @quesostuff1009 18 дней назад

      Homie….just find women who think like u

  • @JH93688
    @JH93688 Год назад +7

    Great tips! I find the background music just a little too loud. I find myself listening to the background music instead of you talking. I also follow you on instagram and you give great advice! Thanks!

    • @Courtneysid
      @Courtneysid Год назад +2

      Editor here. Thanks! I'll address that in the future

  • @waynetemplar2183
    @waynetemplar2183 25 дней назад

    If you get put in the friend zone, every time she asks for help over promise and under deliver. She’ll soon get the message and boot you out of her life.

  • @michaelschmidt622
    @michaelschmidt622 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm sure Blaine may actually believe all this - but, WHY BOTHER?
    You can't 'game' a woman into wanting you. And women really are plentiful on this planet. Just cut off all contact for the sake of your own emotional health, move on, and find a girl who WILL love you.
    We teach girls to walk away from bad situations all the time; and we really need to teach that to boys. It really isn't some sort of privilege just standing next to a girl - it's perfectly okay to leave those who don't value you behind.

  • @fabianreyes8659
    @fabianreyes8659 Год назад +1

    Unfortunately my heart was broken when I told a long time friend I liked her and she immediately never wanted to speak to me ever again, why would she do that!? 😢

  • @francois-xaviermenage4531
    @francois-xaviermenage4531 3 месяца назад +3

    Why not , when a girl is bitchy like that, just say "go away" or "I am a strong man and I am too good for being your partner"..

  • @waynetemplar2183
    @waynetemplar2183 25 дней назад

    I get the feeling that Blaine is friend zoning me by getting me to subscribe

  • @paultoussaint6639
    @paultoussaint6639 Год назад +1

    I’m Paul and I’m blind so it’s very hard to date women sometimes because you’re basically don’t see these women that you want to date anyway

  • @Cx10110100
    @Cx10110100 Месяц назад +1

    1. Dont get into it
    2. If youre in it just leave
    3. ...
    4. Profit

  • @milochamp1586
    @milochamp1586 Месяц назад

    Blaine, just to correct your reasons - you ended up in the friend-zone mainly by showing too much intent suddenly without gauging her interest though she was somewhat interested. I cane out 3 times. Its very easy though there are no guarantees . Solution: Stop relationship talk, tell her it won’t work between you two, say yes we are friends and let her live her life She might or might not get close to whoever she was dealing with depending on her demand or if she sees you're heavily affected. Moving forward, be a playful, grounded man. She sees this and is going to find away to come close to you neutral. Now start being playful romantic and make the moves without bringing relationships. .

  • @francois-xaviermenage4531
    @francois-xaviermenage4531 3 месяца назад

    The problem is when you have the courage to date her, she says that she is not interested although she had previously followed you as a little dog in the previous days .

  • @andrewnauth101
    @andrewnauth101 Месяц назад

    What if she gives mixed signals? and she's way older than me?????

    • @quesostuff1009
      @quesostuff1009 18 дней назад

      Have you point blank asked what’s the deal ?

  • @armanddefrank7984
    @armanddefrank7984 Месяц назад

    How get Blaine out of the dating coach zone🤬

  • @francois-xaviermenage4531
    @francois-xaviermenage4531 3 месяца назад

    So I leave 😂 the friend zone ; and I tell the girl that I am too good for her ; and fuck her prejudices.

  • @nathanmajor2095
    @nathanmajor2095 2 месяца назад

    I remember this girl who I had feelings for in college, friendzone me. One day I was like, f it, blocked her on on social media and move on. 2 YEARS LATER, idk how tf she found my facebook, please let me move on with my life 😂😂😂😂

  • @sihastria
    @sihastria 7 месяцев назад +2

    Friendzone her first

  • @KyleConnell-if3zn
    @KyleConnell-if3zn Год назад +1

    Do not tell a girl you like her. Hasn't this girl seen Hitch haha?

  • @HANSMKAMP
    @HANSMKAMP 2 месяца назад

    It is very difficult, because men do't want to come across as a creep, a threat to women.
    Man: Let's do this careful. I don't want her to think I am a creep. I don't want to be accused of sexual harassment.
    Woman: Why is he so shy. I think he is not a sexual partner or a real boyfriend for me.
    I think, this is doomed to fail.
    The whole dating scene is a bunch of needles that can severely injure you.

  • @trollzynisaacjohan1793
    @trollzynisaacjohan1793 19 дней назад +1

    this is silly advice. walk away, never talk to again. also don't go for women who already have a partner. if they cheat with you they will cheat on you. have some morals.

  • @coolwater1573
    @coolwater1573 3 месяца назад +1

    Just forget her.

  • @stockmarkettipsbykarankapa5172
    @stockmarkettipsbykarankapa5172 19 дней назад

    She is non needy which should be guy's usp

  • @HarkamalAujla
    @HarkamalAujla 5 месяцев назад

    Find me someone like you and indian sikh

  • @xpallodoc1147
    @xpallodoc1147 Год назад +5

    There is no friendzone

    • @iv3nomousi
      @iv3nomousi Год назад

      It's actually the 'subhuman zone'

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 10 месяцев назад +1

      "CreepZone"

    • @xpallodoc1147
      @xpallodoc1147 10 месяцев назад

      @@kc270352 always be a creep and enjoy it. Also plot twist you’re not a creep

  • @CintaurSA
    @CintaurSA 2 месяца назад

    I’m not even in the friend zone im at the (enemy zone)