She had me in the first half, I ain't gon lie. Fellas you wanna speed up the escape from the friendzone? 1. Remove attention 2. Date other women. Although, at that point I don't understand why you would want to still pursue her? She didn't choose you. Like Michael B Jordan said... "Her loss"
How to get out of friendzone? Don’t get into friendzone, if she’s not into you, go away immediately and never talk to her again. That’s it. This way you never get into friendzone.
People change mate. If you're exactly the same person you were when you first met all of the people in your life, you're screwed. Same goes for the other person 😀
What’s important too on the self improvement is do it for yourself and/or your family first and foremost. Overtime you’ll notice you’re gaining people’s genuine attention more and more as your success becomes apparent (how the tables turn). Status in this social media-centric era has really become a focal point for attraction over just finances or physical appearances alone.
I have not been "obviously" friendzoned since I stopped being a Niceguy. And the reason is, I think, because I've disqualified myself from it. I've become _way_ "selfish!" If she knows she can't take me for a ride, "keep me around," as like a simp or someone she's getting favors out of, then she won't try. It also helps my cause that she's typically got orbiters that she does end up using. If you're a guy reading this, there's another side to it too that I don't think people emphasize enough, in this conversation in particular. And that is this: there could be a dozen reasons external to you that she doesn't like you. Maybe she found someone else. Maybe she just got out of a bad relationship. Don't _always assume_ that you fucked up; although it can be important to recognize when you do, if you're walking yourself thru the interactions that you have and not easily identifying something that could've ruined it from you, then I'd say don't stress on it too much. If it occurs to you years later, great.
I definitely lack the chemistry part; thus, making most of the conversation leading to a more friends type of vibe, even if the girl knows she is on a date with me
Great tips! I find the background music just a little too loud. I find myself listening to the background music instead of you talking. I also follow you on instagram and you give great advice! Thanks!
OMG, Guys if she doesn't like you (friendzoning you) please for the love of God ignore her advice and take your pride and move on. Confessions of feelings will make you look only more cringe if she doesn't find you hot!
Well said! It's OKAY for a guy to show how he feels about being rejected, and WALKING AWAY. For the sake of his emotional wellbeing, blocking her everywhere is perfectly reasonable.
No not Just that. I had a date ith a very nice feminine traditional woman. We met in the country side, but she was in university, we agreed to Keep in touch. When she finished university she said we should spend a few a days together, I accepted. She was texting me that she can not wait to see mee again and stuff, but when I met her now she seemed a little nervous. But we went to alot of places. When she came back and it was like our 5th date she suddently said from her part we cant be more then friends... I was kinda devastated. She éven texted me If I am ok. Who knows I might reconect with her when I have a good job and finished my cutting phase in the gym. But my eyes are open for other girls,but it is hard, most girls who are prety are so Full of them selfes... I hate dateing...
I like her advice but and this is a big but why date? Also what is date? What is dating? What’s the gameplan. Did you touch, kiss or more on this thing you call a date that you finally got. You seem to credit Blaine partially for getting this date I’m curious why
I did touch a woman's arm twice that I sort of know in a formal setting & she didnt push me away. Also, later on she had got me some supplements when she went back home for a break, I did ask about meeting up informally on a Sunday! Even though she didnt say no she didn't say yes either, so I took that as a no However, she gave me a few options & asked me to call in at her place of work. In the part of the building complex, she works by herself
Unfortunately my heart was broken when I told a long time friend I liked her and she immediately never wanted to speak to me ever again, why would she do that!? 😢
I'm sure Blaine may actually believe all this - but, WHY BOTHER? You can't 'game' a woman into wanting you. And women really are plentiful on this planet. Just cut off all contact for the sake of your own emotional health, move on, and find a girl who WILL love you. We teach girls to walk away from bad situations all the time; and we really need to teach that to boys. It really isn't some sort of privilege just standing next to a girl - it's perfectly okay to leave those who don't value you behind.
The problem is when you have the courage to date her, she says that she is not interested although she had previously followed you as a little dog in the previous days .
It is very difficult, because men do't want to come across as a creep, a threat to women. Man: Let's do this careful. I don't want her to think I am a creep. I don't want to be accused of sexual harassment. Woman: Why is he so shy. I think he is not a sexual partner or a real boyfriend for me. I think, this is doomed to fail. The whole dating scene is a bunch of needles that can severely injure you.
I remember this girl who I had feelings for in college, friendzone me. One day I was like, f it, blocked her on on social media and move on. 2 YEARS LATER, idk how tf she found my facebook, please let me move on with my life 😂😂😂😂
She had me in the first half, I ain't gon lie.
Fellas you wanna speed up the escape from the friendzone?
1. Remove attention
2. Date other women.
Although, at that point I don't understand why you would want to still pursue her? She didn't choose you. Like Michael B Jordan said... "Her loss"
How to get out of friendzone? Don’t get into friendzone, if she’s not into you, go away immediately and never talk to her again. That’s it. This way you never get into friendzone.
What if we already slept together previously?
People change mate. If you're exactly the same person you were when you first met all of the people in your life, you're screwed. Same goes for the other person 😀
Yes that is spot on
What’s important too on the self improvement is do it for yourself and/or your family first and foremost. Overtime you’ll notice you’re gaining people’s genuine attention more and more as your success becomes apparent (how the tables turn). Status in this social media-centric era has really become a focal point for attraction over just finances or physical appearances alone.
I have not been "obviously" friendzoned since I stopped being a Niceguy. And the reason is, I think, because I've disqualified myself from it. I've become _way_ "selfish!" If she knows she can't take me for a ride, "keep me around," as like a simp or someone she's getting favors out of, then she won't try. It also helps my cause that she's typically got orbiters that she does end up using.
If you're a guy reading this, there's another side to it too that I don't think people emphasize enough, in this conversation in particular. And that is this: there could be a dozen reasons external to you that she doesn't like you. Maybe she found someone else. Maybe she just got out of a bad relationship. Don't _always assume_ that you fucked up; although it can be important to recognize when you do, if you're walking yourself thru the interactions that you have and not easily identifying something that could've ruined it from you, then I'd say don't stress on it too much. If it occurs to you years later, great.
Thank you so much for that great input. I hope other guys can read this too.
I definitely lack the chemistry part; thus, making most of the conversation leading to a more friends type of vibe, even if the girl knows she is on a date with me
Great tips! I find the background music just a little too loud. I find myself listening to the background music instead of you talking. I also follow you on instagram and you give great advice! Thanks!
Editor here. Thanks! I'll address that in the future
Great content Blaine! So well stated and on point!🙏🙏🙏
OMG, Guys if she doesn't like you (friendzoning you) please for the love of God ignore her advice and take your pride and move on. Confessions of feelings will make you look only more cringe if she doesn't find you hot!
Well said! It's OKAY for a guy to show how he feels about being rejected, and WALKING AWAY. For the sake of his emotional wellbeing, blocking her everywhere is perfectly reasonable.
Causes of being in the friend zone = not meeting her looks threshold
Which she won't see you as being a catch
Basically 100% of women
@@crossingthechannel4631 I think that there are many women who are pricing themselves out of the market
No not Just that. I had a date ith a very nice feminine traditional woman. We met in the country side, but she was in university, we agreed to Keep in touch. When she finished university she said we should spend a few a days together, I accepted. She was texting me that she can not wait to see mee again and stuff, but when I met her now she seemed a little nervous. But we went to alot of places. When she came back and it was like our 5th date she suddently said from her part we cant be more then friends...
I was kinda devastated. She éven texted me If I am ok.
Who knows I might reconect with her when I have a good job and finished my cutting phase in the gym. But my eyes are open for other girls,but it is hard, most girls who are prety are so Full of them selfes... I hate dateing...
I’ve been following your content for a bit and I finally got a date. Thanks for the advice Blaine!
This just made my day!!!!!!!
I like her advice but and this is a big but why date? Also what is date? What is dating? What’s the gameplan. Did you touch, kiss or more on this thing you call a date that you finally got. You seem to credit Blaine partially for getting this date I’m curious why
@@xpallodoc1147its been 10months, hav you figured it out yet?
If a person friend zones you and you don’t want to be just friends, don’t waste your time. Move on.
I did touch a woman's arm twice that I sort of know in a formal setting & she didnt push me away. Also, later on she had got me some supplements when she went back home for a break, I did ask about meeting up informally on a Sunday! Even though she didnt say no she didn't say yes either, so I took that as a no However, she gave me a few options & asked me to call in at her place of work. In the part of the building complex, she works by herself
Unfortunately my heart was broken when I told a long time friend I liked her and she immediately never wanted to speak to me ever again, why would she do that!? 😢
Perhaps you were a simp,
I'm sure Blaine may actually believe all this - but, WHY BOTHER?
You can't 'game' a woman into wanting you. And women really are plentiful on this planet. Just cut off all contact for the sake of your own emotional health, move on, and find a girl who WILL love you.
We teach girls to walk away from bad situations all the time; and we really need to teach that to boys. It really isn't some sort of privilege just standing next to a girl - it's perfectly okay to leave those who don't value you behind.
The problem is when you have the courage to date her, she says that she is not interested although she had previously followed you as a little dog in the previous days .
Why not , when a girl is bitchy like that, just say "go away" or "I am a strong man and I am too good for being your partner"..
I’m Paul and I’m blind so it’s very hard to date women sometimes because you’re basically don’t see these women that you want to date anyway
So I leave 😂 the friend zone ; and I tell the girl that I am too good for her ; and fuck her prejudices.
It is very difficult, because men do't want to come across as a creep, a threat to women.
Man: Let's do this careful. I don't want her to think I am a creep. I don't want to be accused of sexual harassment.
Woman: Why is he so shy. I think he is not a sexual partner or a real boyfriend for me.
I think, this is doomed to fail.
The whole dating scene is a bunch of needles that can severely injure you.
Friendzone her first
I remember this girl who I had feelings for in college, friendzone me. One day I was like, f it, blocked her on on social media and move on. 2 YEARS LATER, idk how tf she found my facebook, please let me move on with my life 😂😂😂😂
Just forget her.
Do not tell a girl you like her. Hasn't this girl seen Hitch haha?
Find me someone like you and indian sikh
There is no friendzone
It's actually the 'subhuman zone'
"CreepZone"
@@kc270352 always be a creep and enjoy it. Also plot twist you’re not a creep
I’m not even in the friend zone im at the (enemy zone)