How to Escape the FRIEND ZONE with WOMEN - Q&A with CASEY ZANDER (truth of Attraction)

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  5 месяцев назад +11

    🛡Exclusive ACCESS to CASEY BELOW (New Movement)⬇ 🛡
    app.caseyzander.com/I-am-headman-nation

    • @davidallahgod3217
      @davidallahgod3217 5 месяцев назад

      Or ger rid of you

    • @artsygaming2647
      @artsygaming2647 5 месяцев назад

      Casey can you make a video for sleeping with woman

    • @davidallahgod3217
      @davidallahgod3217 5 месяцев назад

      @@artsygaming2647 that's easy get bed, get duvet fall asleep with woman in bed and smell her potent smelly farts!

  • @krishna335
    @krishna335 5 месяцев назад +124

    - Never settle for friendship. Only hurts over time
    - Walk away with ZERO expectations of her reaching out
    - Maintain strict no-contact
    - Remember - Rejection is redirection
    - Let go one day & one step at a time. You'll be ok

    • @user-wq5ws1qs7x
      @user-wq5ws1qs7x 5 месяцев назад +5

      Right! I’m dating some hot chick and she started pulling back, so I ghosted her. She started messaging again!

    • @l0us3rr
      @l0us3rr 5 месяцев назад +1

      This really can apply to both genders idk

    • @BasedAltcoin
      @BasedAltcoin 5 месяцев назад

      @@user-wq5ws1qs7x Ghost her again

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад

      tricky situation. this girl is seeing some foreigner now, should i totally ignore her?
      we are cool with her, potential options for each other in the future. i don’t know if i should ask her out as a friend or not… also don’t know if i should watch her stories or not.
      and what di u mean i would regret settling for a friendship?

  • @yungblade7
    @yungblade7 5 месяцев назад +72

    I feel like women secretly be loving these vids😂

    • @l0us3rr
      @l0us3rr 5 месяцев назад +3

      He's mad funny bc he takes himself so seriously

    • @toklegend
      @toklegend 5 месяцев назад

      They do lol, imagine the ego boost seeing a bunch of men trying to learn how to get you
      At the same time they dont like being exposed because men being naive is their only power

    • @RoniiNN
      @RoniiNN 5 месяцев назад +1

      Doubt

    • @maggot617
      @maggot617 5 месяцев назад +20

      No they hate their game exposed

    • @dieseltu1035
      @dieseltu1035 5 месяцев назад +12

      They don't watch them or care

  • @Dauvissat
    @Dauvissat 5 месяцев назад +36

    Exactly never crave a relationship. Just hang with her have a good time, build tension and good anxiety of what might happen next. If there's mutual feelings / chemistry then let it progress naturally and stretch it out as long as you can. If not, move on don't expect anything. Taking it "to the next level" means major regression normally. Been there, done that.

  • @ghghghghghgh84
    @ghghghghghgh84 5 месяцев назад +6

    casey devoted his career into making sure he gets the baddest bitches, respect fr

  • @Proof77777
    @Proof77777 5 месяцев назад +19

    Sooo true! If you act like a friend they’ll treat you like one! Also, if they’ve made you a friend you might want to make it a very valuable lesson and move the fck on! Sticking around shows you value her when she’s given you nothing for you to value her that much!

    • @krishna335
      @krishna335 5 месяцев назад +5

      So damn true! Reciprocation or nothing. Don't burn yourself to keep others warm.

    • @Dlopez23
      @Dlopez23 5 месяцев назад +1

      Big facts 100 everyone better read this comment And apply this shit

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад +1

      but guys can i deliberately play a friend s card in some scenarios? to maybe suggest a friendly meet up where we would talk about life and i would convey my value

  • @nicholascalderone
    @nicholascalderone Месяц назад +1

    As a gentleman I won’t change myself, I’d rather be a friend then a jerk

  • @suv3534
    @suv3534 5 месяцев назад +42

    Simple: 1. Be attractive 2. Dont be unattractive

    • @maggot617
      @maggot617 5 месяцев назад +7

      Being cool is better than being attractive

    • @AffectionateMusicalDrum-kl1cf
      @AffectionateMusicalDrum-kl1cf 5 месяцев назад +5

      No just no

    • @suv3534
      @suv3534 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@AffectionateMusicalDrum-kl1cf Don’t cope the only reason a guy gets friendzoned is bc he isn’t romantically/sexually attractive to her

    • @TheSnoozeFox
      @TheSnoozeFox 5 месяцев назад +6

      Not really true, I got more women when I was a fat lazy gamer nerd than when I had a 6 pack in college. I was just so not giving af about women and it seemed to work.

    • @maggot617
      @maggot617 5 месяцев назад

      @@suv3534 wrong he behaved in a beta way plenty of ugly assholes with holen women

  • @ajeet265
    @ajeet265 5 месяцев назад +6

    Casey op.. you know lots of indian youtubers copying your content and making videos.
    Love from india ❤❤

  • @tradixdesigns
    @tradixdesigns 3 месяца назад

    You know when you like a song but you crammed all the lyrics. I think that's what it feels being you. I smell success

  • @anuragsharma65622
    @anuragsharma65622 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks for providing the wisdom!

  • @argcompany8122
    @argcompany8122 5 месяцев назад +5

    Dude i have an idea for your next video.this is gonna be golden trust me.title(how to make her a bad girl for us).thank you for all your great content

  • @julianterris
    @julianterris 5 месяцев назад +4

    We didn't *make* the rules, we *learned* them. #ThanksBro

  • @danielgutierrez3043
    @danielgutierrez3043 5 месяцев назад +3

    add a couple series of videos for men that are engaged or married how to improve those circumstances as well as signs that the man should probably exit stage left

    • @rockerdare
      @rockerdare 5 месяцев назад

      Honestly the same rules apply whether single or married.

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 5 месяцев назад +132

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.

    • @DarylSimpson58
      @DarylSimpson58 5 месяцев назад

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 5 месяцев назад

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

    • @DarylSimpson58
      @DarylSimpson58 5 месяцев назад

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 5 месяцев назад

      You wont regret it

  • @drbassq9055
    @drbassq9055 5 месяцев назад +3

    A true God Send ! Thank you Brother 🤙💥🔥

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 5 месяцев назад +13

    7:12 FACTS, there was a girl she had, well has again HIGH interest in me, and I brought up relationship. Immediately she said she dont want one, yes a girl with high interest. Anyway, I pulled back, start pulling hotter chics and she seeing that, guess what... SHE IS BACK. Guess what, I AM NOT PUSHING ANY RELATIONSHIP VIBE (even told her she co

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 5 месяцев назад +2

      Well dont fall for it. Never ever let a girl move in with you.

    • @KillMooseKill
      @KillMooseKill 5 месяцев назад

      means you're the backup option and she's going to trap you lol

  • @jestubbs69
    @jestubbs69 5 месяцев назад

    I’m 54. 1+ yearOut of a 17 year marriage, dented, bruised, rusty skills. Dr Z has got your back PhD in mojo magic. Steel sharpens steel. Great wisdom from a young man on the state of modern dating and the language of women. #headman

  • @gatewayC
    @gatewayC 5 месяцев назад +14

    I was having my way with these 304’s until one of them got me to bite the bait, She knew i had multiple women while still dating her, everything went left after i gave her benefit of the doubt. Having a rotation of women is easy when you do not care to claim one. lesson learned… im going back to my monster ways

    • @melhorfutebol451
      @melhorfutebol451 5 месяцев назад

      Haahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaa😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lmaoooooo😂😂😂😂😂

  • @speedyfinalmile
    @speedyfinalmile 5 месяцев назад +8

    Run away. When a girl asks me if I want a baby in the first few dates. I block and sprint in the other direction.

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 5 месяцев назад

      Fuck yeah. This is the problem you get if a woman is obsessed with you. She can fuck up your life in lots of ways.

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад

      isn’t it a good thing if she s really a mother material and wifey material? like 10/10
      like she s not pushing having a baby, but plans for the future. isn’t it a traditional values at their finest?

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@RedRumble14 Yes, it is, but a smart, rational woman will want to know the guy a hell of a lot better before thinking about having a baby with him.

    • @speedyfinalmile
      @speedyfinalmile 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@RedRumble14 No because it’s in the first sentence on a dating app. They just want a baby not me. I would end up paying support. These women put university degrees and career first and then around 31 they realize time is ticking.

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад

      @@speedyfinalmile maybe about older woman it’s true. i just thought of one girl i know who is 22 and talks about how she want to be a mother in the upcoming years. that seems healthy to me and she indeed is level headed with the right values. it was a green flag for me if anything. but yeah, it’s different with 30+

  • @drew227
    @drew227 5 месяцев назад +15

    I unironically want a relationship. I want to be married one day. what's wrong with that?? Do I have to set aside my morals or life goals to date?? In that case, no thanks

    • @subsume7904
      @subsume7904 5 месяцев назад +3

      Don't focus on simply wanting to "get married" focus on establishing a relationship, it will take many many years to fully know a person. My rule of thumb is I only begin to think of marriage after being with her for 4+ years, and the longer the better

    • @maggot617
      @maggot617 5 месяцев назад +1

      Bingo

    • @Proof77777
      @Proof77777 5 месяцев назад

      @@drew227 no thanks??? So what you switching to dudes?!? Seriously though, when a woman likes you enough you won’t have to do most of this. This is for the guys that don’t want a rough ride on the way to finding that one. Or for the dudes that like dating in general like me.

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 5 месяцев назад +1

      The one takeaway from all Cases vids is that commitment kills interest...so never get married.

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 4 месяца назад +1

      You’ll never get a relationship if you want a relationship

  • @cosmicsea89
    @cosmicsea89 4 месяца назад +1

    In all of my past relationships, the girl's 'friends' were not part of the equation because I wasn't introduced to them ☠️

  • @rubenTR309
    @rubenTR309 5 месяцев назад +3

    A few years ago I was dating a girl who told me "Men put themselves in the friendzone"
    And she's 100% right

  • @j.s.2094
    @j.s.2094 5 месяцев назад +6

    WHAT ABOUT IF WE JUST WANT SEX AND STILL THEY FRIENDZONE US? I THINK THAT IS WHAT HE MEANT IN THE QUESTION.

    • @Cre8Fire34
      @Cre8Fire34 5 месяцев назад +5

      If she friend zones, sex is off the table. The man hasn't sparked things.

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 5 месяцев назад +4

      Having a female friend is not bad. The problem is that they are often not friends at all. They want your attention but will not do anything for you at all. That is not a friend.

    • @rockerdare
      @rockerdare 5 месяцев назад

      ​@thomashilmersen711agreed 100% women are terrible friends.

  • @Gutotrein99
    @Gutotrein99 5 месяцев назад

    Being practical, the girls i pretend to be friend of (the ones i dont think beautiful enough) are the ones who feel something else for me, and the pretty ones i never get too kind, compreensive or wathever, if they talk about mens, i stop de conversation right away, been trhought that alot.

    • @Gutotrein99
      @Gutotrein99 5 месяцев назад

      That been said, dont be afraid to be the friend, but never stop dirty joking with her

  • @Channel-zs3gg
    @Channel-zs3gg 5 месяцев назад +10

    U get friendzoned shut it all the way down full stop, delete the number, fb, gram, snap take yourself off the her grid move tf on apply this corrective behavior and try again fresh

    • @BMilitant
      @BMilitant 4 месяца назад

      Yep, had a girl tell me she didn't want to go on a date (after we already fucked) and said she hopes we can remain friends. I told her I'm not in the business of being friends with women and unfriended her.

  • @Atrain81
    @Atrain81 3 месяца назад +1

    . All bachelors, need a “lost n found” basket in the bathroom, keep it tasteful, stylish and be visible. This satisfies hypergamy instantly.

  • @RedRumble14
    @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад +1

    but what if i wanna purposely play a friend card cuz she is in a relationship now? as a way too met up with her and talk about life for example?
    can i play this in a masterful way while being friendly but conveying my value, maybe subtly and elegantly making moves

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад

      oh no i’ve written this 3 motnhs before already😮

  • @SnoopyReads
    @SnoopyReads 5 месяцев назад +1

    Where to buy that Smokey hat Captain Casey?

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 5 месяцев назад +5

    0:10 issue is, men do not understand the friendzone. YOU giving her FRIEND vibe or want a relationship vibe.. WRONG MOVE. There are a lot of women we are just friends, not dating yet they constantly want to sleep with me and give impression they dont want a relationship. Nope, that not it. They WANT a relationship but i am not giving ANY indication i want one any at all, so they give of themselves to at least have ACCESS to me. That is where men are going wrong. THEY ARE NOT IN THEIR MASCULINE, you should be focused on building/creating NOT WOMEN.

    • @Principalcharming
      @Principalcharming 5 месяцев назад

      That sounds draining and time wasting . Imagine if you were to invest that time in you . The. You contradict yourself saying focus on building /creating

    • @AboutDatMoney
      @AboutDatMoney 5 месяцев назад

      I understand what it is.

    • @jordanjohnson9866
      @jordanjohnson9866 25 дней назад

      Nah. Not “0:10 issue is, men do not understand the friendzone.” /

  • @jeffneel9721
    @jeffneel9721 5 месяцев назад +1

    How do you get past being friends with a co worker who is single and you are to by the way,however there's jealous co workers who may be married trying to get in the way of that?

    • @b.c.34
      @b.c.34 5 месяцев назад

      Tell her you are interested in her, and take her out. Do not be too available for her even at work. Just do your work when you are with her..

    • @DaKidNexxDoor
      @DaKidNexxDoor 5 месяцев назад +2

      Don’t date at work it never works out

  • @enoch8835
    @enoch8835 5 месяцев назад +4

    if she is with her friends you talk TO ALL OF THEM
    i don’t care if they are fat you never ever only give her attention

  • @Brad-c1c
    @Brad-c1c 5 месяцев назад +1

    For content ideas, how about more front-end game. Places to meet girls besides apps and how to approach at bars

  • @dakalonemutudi5254
    @dakalonemutudi5254 5 месяцев назад

    Damn !! Sorry if this is awkward but I've been investigating this dude's videos not so long ago .I'm not a kind of guy who just listened and follows what anybody says without it reflecting and relating to what I'm facing and going through.yep i confirm everything he says cause i can see things clearly for now raw truth no surger courting, for that he just gained a subscription from me if you are hesitating like i was. 😂trust the processes you'll do the right thing soon enough.😅😅

  • @YondaimeApproved
    @YondaimeApproved 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you 🙏🙂

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 4 месяца назад

    Tell her "I'm not interested in being friends, have a nice life!" then walk away and cut all contact with her moving on with your life! Being spineless enough to stay in the "friendzone" will only lead to a life of bitterness, anger, resentment, etc. - I wasted all my late teens and 20s holding out that false hope :/

  • @deneseepaul6882
    @deneseepaul6882 5 месяцев назад +2

    Unless your like a real 1 out of 10, I don’t think women friend zone men, we do it to ourselves.

    • @AboutDatMoney
      @AboutDatMoney 5 месяцев назад

      If you think women don't friendzone men then you clearly know nothing abt women.

  • @pheonixrising8932
    @pheonixrising8932 5 месяцев назад

    I know you did covert and overt communication style throughout the age ranges but strategies for the different age groups and or how to handle the date if they are off an app vs cold approach or if you met them through your social circle since there would be a different approach/ modifications based on those criteria.

    • @naingtheawperc3817
      @naingtheawperc3817 5 месяцев назад

      What is the benefit of talking to the whole group my brother?

  • @dandaman9009
    @dandaman9009 5 месяцев назад

    How do I stop being friendly?

  • @moheganson
    @moheganson 4 месяца назад +3

    If you get friend zoned you’re giving off feminine vibes.

  • @Testfortest142
    @Testfortest142 5 месяцев назад +1

    If you are intelligent enough to switch vibes then you can have both

  • @f12025
    @f12025 4 месяца назад

    💯

  • @MikeT-yt4ql
    @MikeT-yt4ql 5 месяцев назад

    Casey I'm a long time listener I swear when you started or maybe not that long but like a year ago your videos were more about I don't know being the best man that you can be semen retention stuff like that and it appears you've been jaded to me I honestly don't want to waste my time on another woman without some commitment

  • @AffectionateMusicalDrum-kl1cf
    @AffectionateMusicalDrum-kl1cf 5 месяцев назад +1

    Interesting

  • @enoch8835
    @enoch8835 5 месяцев назад +2

    I want to disagree with you so much, but I reflect on my past experiences and it all lines uo

  • @derricklizana4065
    @derricklizana4065 5 месяцев назад

    Facts

  • @matthewcontreras6481
    @matthewcontreras6481 5 месяцев назад

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @b.c.34
    @b.c.34 5 месяцев назад +2

    A man and woman can't be friend. I do not have female friends, but admires (either way). Sexual urge must develop between a umarried male and female.

    • @AboutDatMoney
      @AboutDatMoney 5 месяцев назад

      Nahh you can only be friends with em if nether of you are attracted to each other.

    • @BMilitant
      @BMilitant 4 месяца назад

      I agree. This chick told me she didn't wanna go on a date with me (after we already had sex and everything was good before) and she said she hopes we can remain friends. I told her I'm not in the business of being friends with women. This is because it's literally not possible to be only friends with the opposite sex. That's just bs

  • @mobilecartelph4040
    @mobilecartelph4040 5 месяцев назад

    I apply my knowledge on here now 4 women get pregnant 😂😂😂

  • @Antrocks72
    @Antrocks72 5 месяцев назад +3

    Stop giving free attention

  • @Winn-Daniel
    @Winn-Daniel 5 месяцев назад

    You don't know what to post a video on? I got ideas* we would all love to see videos on just your perspective of ...well in general anything. Current events culture counter culture cultural insensitivity jK IDK.
    Modern Day masculinity

  • @Stop-loss-BoSS
    @Stop-loss-BoSS 5 месяцев назад +5

    Friends LMAO!!! Tf out of here

  • @RedRumble14
    @RedRumble14 5 месяцев назад +1

    👊🏻Guys I wanna ask out a girl who s currently seeing someone. We are cool with each other, but should I write smth like “let’s meet up, but it doesn’t have to be more than a meeting of old friends”? So she doesn’t feel unfaithful or smth like that.
    On a date I wanna play a friend card but obviously showing intent in elegant ways, not directly but hinting.

    • @Principalcharming
      @Principalcharming 5 месяцев назад

      You sound a total loser dude

    • @nonickname544
      @nonickname544 5 месяцев назад +1

      i think you should just follow casey's teachings. If you display all the behaviors he has taught then the other guys stands no chance

    • @alanteare1603
      @alanteare1603 5 месяцев назад

      Sounds like the ‘sneaky fucker’ tactic. Bad take. Just be forthright. If she
      rejects move on.

    • @Cre8Fire34
      @Cre8Fire34 5 месяцев назад +4

      STOP! Have some character.
      If you Start by causing her to cheat...it will end with her cheating on you. Don't be so fucking thirsty.
      Be patient, date others.

    • @thomashilmersen711
      @thomashilmersen711 5 месяцев назад

      Just get her drunk and start talking about sex.

  • @aramisayresfilho6764
    @aramisayresfilho6764 5 месяцев назад

    Chupasse?

  • @robertbenedek4463
    @robertbenedek4463 5 месяцев назад

    OF COURSE, you would like to have a relationship!
    Why not???
    It is basic human nature.
    What nonsense is it, you

  • @Ddot672
    @Ddot672 5 месяцев назад +4

    These videos are mad cringe

    • @prod_kevv
      @prod_kevv 5 месяцев назад +4

      Elaborate, why

  • @rayherron6603
    @rayherron6603 5 месяцев назад

    Casey I've been in Love @ first sight 3 times.Megan Fox Sacilians